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Thanks for the wider context, I think I was lacking that perspective. I need to read up more on comfort tests because it's new to me. The fact I didn't know what to do means a lot of this still isn't internalized.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/26 08:44 PM
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Yeah, that makes sense, thank you. I think I've been too much push with not enough pull. But I'm still retarded lol
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/26 08:41 PM
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Thanks for this. This makes sense.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/26 08:34 PM
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OYS 12 Stats: 32yo. 5’7. 154 lbs. Married 8 years. Kids: 3 & baby. Mission: First, become my own mental point of origin and create options for myself. Reading: SGM. Read: NMMNGx2, WISNIFG, The Game, Book of Pook, Rational Male Vol. 1 I'm finished with sorcerer's recommended reading order from the career beta post. Going to focus on being better at leading sex and getting the sex I want. Lifting DB incline press 40lbs 3x10, DB row 35lbs 3x15, BSS 205lbs 3x8, hip thrust 135 3x10 Numbers and reps s…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/26 08:02 PM
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Thank you for the reminder. Going to read through it a couple times
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/26 03:03 PM
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A bit embarrassed, but yeah. Trying to full artistic STFU has really exposed that to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/26 03:23 AM
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OYS 11 Stats: 32yo. 5’7. 153 lbs. Married 8 years. Kids: 3 & baby. Mission: First, become my own mental point of origin and create options for myself. Reading: Rational Male Vol. 1. Read: NMMNGx2, WISNIFG, The Game, Book of Pook I'm following sorcerer's recommended reading order from the career beta post. Lifting DB incline press 35lbs 3x15, DB row 35lbs 3x15, BSS 195lbs 3x12, hip thrust 135 3x10 Weight and reps are increasing and this week I pushed really hard. I have been recomping (seen succe…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/26 12:44 PM
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You're absolutely right. My life is not a series of random accidents; it was built by every decision I have ever made, and I am projecting that anger outwards, rather than at the true source. I don't want my behavior dictated by my emotions, and I don't want things to stay the same. Back to the basics. That last line was a hit in the gut, as if it came straight from my dad lol. What a fucking challenge. Cheers, Suitable. I appreciate you.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/26 09:36 PM
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OYS 10 Stats: 32yo. 5’7. 157 lbs. Married 8 years. Kids: 3 & baby. Mission: First, become my own mental point of origin and create options for myself. Reading: Rational Male Vol. 1. Read: NMMNGx2, WISNIFG, The Game, Book of Pook I'm following sorcerer's recommended reading order from the career beta post. Lifting DB include press 35lbs 3x12, DB row 35lbs 3x12, BSS 195lbs 3x8, hip thrust 135 3x8 Increased weight from last week with minimal elbow pain. Had some issues with my back this week, but I…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/26 08:04 PM
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I really appreciate your time and effort. You’ve left me a bit speechless the past couple days. A lot of gold in here. That link to the godfather was surprisingly educational for your point. I could see myself in there. More doing, less talking. Thanks again.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/26 04:27 PM
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Thanks for the reply, Zealous. I'm going to read into what you were saying a bit and see if I'm understanding. Let's say you catch yourself doing an action that was prompted by a CC and you catch it. "Nope, this is a CC." Then you decide if you want to carry on with the action from your own frame and by your own agency. "I'm doing this because I want to." Or you stop what you were doing because you find you don't actually want to do it. Would you say this is what you mean by working through a CC…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/26 07:22 PM
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OYS 9 Stats: 32yo. 5’7. 155 lbs. Married 8 years. Kids: 3 & baby. Mission: First, become my own mental point of origin and create options for myself. Reading: Rational Male Vol. 1. Read: NMMNGx2, WISNIFG, The Game, Book of Pook I'm following sorcerer's recommended reading order from the career beta post. Lifting I'm working in the 8-12 rep range as I'm finding that's as heavy as I can go without causing back/elbow pain. I am increasing weight/reps every workout without major issues yet, so thing…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/26 02:05 PM
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That would be a cartel level operation right there. If you could package it, at least people would be aware they're using...
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/26 07:45 PM
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OYS 8 Stats: 32yo. 5’7. 155 lbs. Married 8 years. Kids: 3 & baby. Mission: First, become my own mental point of origin and create options for myself. Reading: Rational Male Vol. 1. Read: NMMNGx2, WISNIFG, The Game, Book of Pook I'm following sorcerer's recommended reading order from the career beta post. Validation Last week, Horns had me thinking a lot about validation seeking and sex. For some reason I have a really hard time identifying my validation seeking issues around sex but I've known f…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/26 02:25 PM
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Thank you for your time, Horns. I think I’m understanding. It really does all come down to my frame. As a career beta, I am one of those guys who can't grasp it because I don’t have any experience of a woman crawling through glass for me and not giving a fuck. The comment you linked implies that frame is built on experience. So if I keep LARPing as the “fun and sexual” guy am I actually reinforcing the wrong frame? Or am I on the right track here trying to build experience of creating options? E…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/26 06:30 PM
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Let me see if I am picking up everything you’re trying to show me this week. If I keep it up, I too can be like Mr. Dentist, giving free tonsil checks at the local dive bar. I can be fun and sexual and have all the sex I could ever want… If I put the work in. But, if I really want to fuck, the easiest lay is right in front of me. It’s my wife, who is dying for a man to come along and free her of a sexual prison, just like all the women lined up for their oral exam with their boring husbands. I c…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/26 03:12 PM
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Getting bathroom bjs for fun is going in my mission.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/26 12:24 AM
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OYS 7 Stats: 32yo. 5’7. 155 lbs. Married 8 years. Kids: 3 & baby. Mission: First, become my own mental point of origin and create options for myself. Reading: Rational Male Vol. 1. Read: NMMNGx2, WISNIFG, The Game, Book of Pook I'm following sorcerer's recommended reading order from the career beta post. Lifts: Back in the gym and feeling great. Only mild elbow pain when lifting with dumbbells, so gonna keep working on progressively overloading until I can get back to the barbell without pain or…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/26 04:40 PM
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OYS 6 Stats: 32yo. 5’7. 157 lbs. Married 8 years. Kids: 3 & infant. Mission: First, become my own mental point of origin and create options for myself. Reading: Book of Pook. Read: NMMNGx2, WISNIFG, The Game I'm following sorcerer's recommended reading order from the career beta post. Lifting: No updates here. Just doing my PT exercises. Got sick as hell this week, went to the gym once and that was a bad idea. I'm getting frustrated and ready to start lifting again, but I have to reign it back a…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/26 02:24 PM
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I appreciate this. It makes me curious, because I have noticed that the wife is following my lead in other areas that pertain to dread. She's been going to the gym, dressing nicer, wearing perfume which I've never seen in the past. Power struggle or dread, I don't know. Niagra falls pussy sounds fun though.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/26 03:50 PM
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Thanks Horns. Now that you mention it, I see a little covert contract here.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/26 02:48 PM
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Stats: 32yo. 5’7. 157 lbs. Married 8 years. Kids: 3 & infant. Mission: First, become my own mental point of origin and create options for myself. Reading: Book of Pook. Read: NMMNGx2, WISNIFG, The Game I'm following sorcerer's recommended reading order from the career beta post. Lifting: PT has been going well, and have discovered some issues that I'm working on addressing. A friend told me to get some cheap wrist straps that have the hooks on them so I can keep working out. I ordered them and w…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/26 01:12 PM
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Plan stays unchanged then. Thank you!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/26 03:54 AM
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Damn, thanks Horns. I'm gonna work on this.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/26 03:55 PM
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You're absolutely right, and that's what I've been telling myself. This is just practice. I think I just need more exposure and more practice. Because nothing is going to happen... right? And as I'm typing this, I think I'm finding where this is coming from. I do suspect that the moment it goes from practice to my hotel room won't be a mindset shift on my part. I still approached it as practice. Maybe I need to shed that and just STFU and practice.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/26 03:22 PM
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OYS 4 Stats: 32yo. 5’7. 157 lbs. Married 8 years. Kids: 3 & infant. Lifts: OHP: 90x5, Bench 145x5, DL 180x5, BSS 185x5 Mission: First, become my own mental point of origin and create options for myself. Reading: The Game. Read: NMMNGx2 WISNIFG Lifting: Started lifting again and numbers were going up just fine, but then caught a nasty case of golfer's elbow. I can't even open a door without feeling it. Back pain is still present and a hinderance as well. I bit the bullet and got a sports PT that …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/26 03:04 PM
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You're absolutely right. One more reason to unfuck myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/26 10:00 PM
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Will give it a try, thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/26 08:13 PM
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I was doing SL5x5 when I got injured. These days I'm just doing daily pushups, rows/pullups and bodyweight squats. I'm also following Lower Back Ability. I agree on the trouble hinging. I often catch myself bending over to change the kid and I'm rounding and stressing my back. Thanks for reminding me of the big 3, I'll start doing those daily as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/26 06:00 PM
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OYS 3 - coming back from 6m ban Stats: 32yo. 5’7. 154 lbs. Married 7 years, together 9. Kids: 3 & infant. Mission: To be someone who: 1. Believes and is confident that no matter what happens I can overcome it 2. Will never let myself be taken advantage of or taken for granted Reading: I read so much but did so little. Starting over with NMMNG and doing most the activities within before moving on. Currently halfway through the exercises. Things I’ve learned from my ban: Being one’s own mental poi…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/26 01:45 PM
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Reading this back, I am way into her frame and care way too much. I need to grow the fuck up and stop giving a fuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/25 02:12 PM
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OYS 2 Stats: 31yo. 5’7. 146 lbs 18% bodyfat (Navy). Married 7 years, together 9. Kids: 2 & one on the way. My Mission: Become a man who is his own judge. Finished: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP Reading: MMSLP & easy peasey method. Lifting + Nutrition: GZCLP. Numbers are 3x5 Squat: 125 / Bench: 95 / Overhead Press: 70 / Barbell Row: 115 / Deadlift: 165 Adding the required weight to the bar every workout each week. Just following the program. Done better this week hitting my protein goals with the shake. GO…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/25 04:42 AM
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Holy shit, thank you for the wake up call.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/25 12:25 AM
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OYS 1 Stats: 31yo. 5’7. 145 lbs 18% bodyfat (Navy). Married 7 years, together 9. Kids: 2 & one on the way. My Mission: Become a leader in my relationships/family by becoming the best version of myself. Finished: NMMNG, WISNIFG. Reading: MAP & easy peasey method. Lifting + Nutrition: GZCLP. Numbers are 3x5 Squat: 115 / Bench: 95 / Overhead Press: 70 / Barbell Row: 95 / Deadlift: 155 Adding the required weight to the bar every workout each week. Just following the program. At least 1 hour walk dai…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/25 06:57 PM
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