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| 2 | Has anyone got to this point in their game? "Too smooth and too successful now I cant hit on girls"You're absolutly correct. It is hard to fight. I am not quite sure yet how to fight it and be entirely comfortable. | /r/seduction | 15/03/14 08:16 PM |
| 1 | I'm Sasha Daygame - ask me anything! Woot! ;)Hey Sasha! I have worked a lot on myself and my mannerisms using the tools of seduction to bring myself out of my comfort zone. One area I struggle in is being bold and escalating quickly. What are some things that would really WOW a woman and make a good impression. Thank you so much! -Southy | /r/seduction | 28/01/14 11:16 PM |
| 2 | How do I approach in clubs/concerts where it's too loud to talk?This video by Gambler really helped me out. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-unuqF4uklE It is all about night game and just using body language and guestures to do all the work for you. Enjoy brother. -Southy | /r/seduction | 08/09/13 06:32 PM |
| 1 | I work downtown as a bouncer at a club; How do I pickup on the job?They do hit on me and thats the problem, I dont want to be seen as greasy by my employer/ i just find its not professional. At the same time I am like fuck it. Problem is logistics. I dont get home till after close and itll be 4 am. Basically just able to get numbers i guess | /r/seduction | 29/08/13 07:04 PM |
| 1 | [FR] From strangers to F-close in an hourBravo man. Strong eye contact is a really important theme throughout seddit. Trying to work on it more, any tips or tricks to improve eye contact? | /r/seduction | 14/08/13 01:45 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys do to prepare your inner game before dates?I get myself to the happiest most positive state I can before hand. Throughout the day try this (Link is a great excersie to make your state better). Personally though I will take a nice long drive as nothing zens me out more. Have a nice coffee, jam some tunes, and roll out. Just do whatever makes you happy before hand and keep positive all day. That attitude and frame will flow over into the date and you will be able to easily get out of your head and just enjoy the present. Remember, LIFE IS … | /r/seduction | 30/07/13 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Transitioning to honest casual and open relationshipsI havent been in this situation of sleeping around before but I am going through a similar thing. Respectable brother. | /r/seduction | 29/07/13 08:54 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Dating three women, cleaning up my life, and developing myself.Yeah it will all depend on your comfort levels or the activity you are planning to do. If you spoke with the girl and found you both had an active interest in hiking then obviously thats a good first date and that will be over an hour. Like I said just go out and do it, it doesnt matter the activity so long as you are showing that you can man up and speak face to face. | /r/seduction | 28/07/13 04:44 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Dating three women, cleaning up my life, and developing myself.Video's such as http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-unuqF4uklE&list=TLM5ZsveTARq8 this are great when you are confidant enough in yourself to do the material however browse more around the net to find videos based on confidance or lifestyle. Videos like this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8_yr2LDVObs and http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yNtKWhoK_sA . They are just as important as infield videos. Search for videos that focus on inner game and life goals. Also on their channel (The21Convention) they hav… | /r/seduction | 28/07/13 04:41 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Dating three women, cleaning up my life, and developing myself.It is all good, thats the trick. I used to overthink but anything can/is good. Just go out there and do it! Get rid of date anxiety! Honeslty just having multiple quick dates was sooo nerve wraking at first. After like day 2 though you just get numb to it and have fun. For me it was like my fifth first or seccond date of the week so I was chill, for her it was just the first or seccond time with me so she saw me as being confidant. To answer your question however no, no real structure or anythin… | /r/seduction | 28/07/13 04:36 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Dating three women, cleaning up my life, and developing myself.Thats awesome, sounds about like my gameplan, however three is a far stretch from 100 haha. Small steps | /r/seduction | 28/07/13 10:22 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Dating three women, cleaning up my life, and developing myself.No, Newfoundland B'y haha. And as many golf balls as you like, though only a certain amount fit in the ziplock bags so feel free to make up multiple bags. The girls I was with didnt want to hit off more than four or five though so I ended up hitting the majority. Less is more almost. You dont want it to drag out. | /r/seduction | 28/07/13 10:21 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Dating three women, cleaning up my life, and developing myself.A link was attatched. If you cannot view it follow this http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1hzqxk/favorite_date_idea/ TIPS: Get the cheapest golf balls, and dont fuck around with different colourations. Most dont work the best except yellow and green. It comes out wicked bright like a highlighter. Make it a surprize, just say you are going for a drive. Take 5-10 golf balls, put in a ziplock bag (I have found this the best way, disposable and best to mix--just roll around in glow goo), on… | /r/seduction | 27/07/13 10:53 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Dating three women, cleaning up my life, and developing myself.I have always been someone who trys to keep humble and my self in check. Honestly right now I am batteling it and dont have much advice on it. I know it will eventually bite me, and has bit me before in my social life, but as of now it is just something I am almost considering a personality traight (the cockyness that comes from it). The dangerous side of an ego is the "God" - like feeling. I dont have any time for that shit as I dont pretend to be better than others. As my father always said "s… | /r/seduction | 27/07/13 10:44 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Dating three women, cleaning up my life, and developing myself.Managing my time has been crucial to any success I have achieved. Lets go back 2 and a bit months. I was dating a girl for a year and a half. I started noticing I was gaining wieght, loosing friends, loosing confidance, and loosing motivation (which affected all aspect of my life including work). I started thinking in my head where my time was going and found that i was spending 90% of my off time with my girlfriend or watching videos/tv. I knew I had to prioratize. First thing was to decide if … | /r/seduction | 27/07/13 09:58 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Dating three women, cleaning up my life, and developing myself.Thanks for the comment and its a good thing to do, worked wonders for me. As far as material and books I just heavily watched youtube from artists such as mystery, style, AFC Adam lyons, gambler, sasha daygame etc. The 21 Convention is really great and I suggest looking at the plethora of topics not 100% related to suduction. Topics such as these help work on your inner idea of yourself which does soo much more wonders in the long run than the short run benifits of canned material. I do like to … | /r/seduction | 27/07/13 08:50 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Dating three women, cleaning up my life, and developing myself.No I agree I shouldent call them that. Its mostly something I do as a laugh between my roomate and me. I understand its immature and stuff so it is something I will change. I have to watch my ego too but I dont mind loosing them all. Trying to keep a gypsy attitude to just keep moving on and circulating new people and new experiences. The more women I date the better my instics and natural abilities will become. Thats kinda the only numbers thing I am going for. The validation thing is a concern… | /r/seduction | 27/07/13 08:47 PM |
| -3 | Favorite Date IdeaAs a man ya just gatta say "fuck the earth" to fuck the gal. Giver Boys! | /r/seduction | 10/07/13 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Solo Sarging -Tips from experienced PUA's?You respond like a Sir. What area are you in? Sure there is lots of "lairs" and even more in more remote regions that are looking for the same thing. Come up to Newfoundland Canada for a sarge haha | /r/seduction | 26/06/13 08:40 PM |
| 3 | how many of you are sexy hip shakers?good response to that shit test, and overall, bravo | /r/seduction | 26/06/13 08:34 PM |
| 12 | You're sitting at home and decide to go out to find new women. What do you do exactly?I go to costco and pick up a 2 liter bottle of baby oil, go home, put about half of it in the tub (save the other half for next week), put on sexy music, lay a towel on the ground, and then just marinade for thirty minutes or until preferred shine. Then go to the local old age home. Works every time. | /r/seduction | 26/06/13 02:20 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Finally started approaching again / Description of funny Milf set / What I learnedhahaha well thanks. mostly a drunk thing i said but thanks buddy | /r/seduction | 17/06/13 07:19 AM |
| 5 | Has anyone really changed from being a "nice guy" to being a "jock"?? If yes, what are some noticeable things that you did that made it happen?I made the change and there are several factors that need to be changed to fully accomplish the new you. Style. You are going to need to go out and be bold. Pick your look. Me being Canadian grew a beauty flow (Hockey hair), and bought some nice dress shirts. People ask why I look so dressed up often (in a good way, infact more than 70% of the time they follow up with "because it looks really good, more people should do it"). Demeanor. Alter how you carry yourself and control the frame. Sell who… | /r/seduction | 14/06/13 01:15 AM |
| 1 | R/Seduction What are your favorite books regarding seduction and why?The Game. Its a really good read, informative, and gives you a great background on some of the legends of early game. | /r/seduction | 12/06/13 12:13 AM |
| 6 | [FR] Daygame in the city, got a number and insta-dateMan that was a wicked report and I envy your balls. Itd be nice to see an in field footage of you doing a cold approach. Overall good read and makes me want to just jump over to the mall. One question though. I am always nervous about approaching when a girl is sitting down. How did you approach differently because she was sitting down and how long did it take you/did you sit down to carry on the conversation. Thanks! Southy | /r/seduction | 11/06/13 11:27 PM |
| 6 | New field tested routine: "The matchmaker". Let me know what you guys think.hahaha I like it | /r/seduction | 19/05/13 09:18 PM |
| 2 | Struggling to build social value.Come back to Canada eh, honestly its a bunch of fun up here. Its true though, when you are abroad it is better for ya | /r/seduction | 19/05/13 06:15 AM |
| 3 | Struggling to build social value.I think alot of people can relate. I dont know how to give you advice if you plan to stay where you are... Similar situation with myself and the only thing that fixed it was moving. You have to fly the coop. I live in Canada and just moved to another province after high school to go to university. By grade 12 I had done pretty much exactly what you have, as in build up my confidance and feeling of self worth, but I found people still held the previous view and prejudice over me. As soon as I mov… | /r/seduction | 18/05/13 04:46 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Dibs!Props! Good shit man | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 08:36 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Text game and logistics--Night 1hahahaha thanks buddy, and fair enough. | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 12:57 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Text game and logistics--Night 1But yes road trip aha | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 12:56 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Text game and logistics--Night 1Hahaha, well I am a Nova Scotian in Newfoundland | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 12:56 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Text game and logistics--Night 1Haha lemme give this a try, I am awful at french. Non, J'habit a Terre Neuve. Je parle un petite pueux de la francais ha | /r/seduction | 16/05/13 09:45 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Text game and logistics--Night 1Merci beau-cool bruddah! | /r/seduction | 15/05/13 11:26 PM |
| 0 | [FR] Text game and logistics--Night 1Man you are giving me exactly what I need. Give me more on text-liners or tips and/or make a post. Much gratz | /r/seduction | 15/05/13 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Reflections of a reformed hypocrite.Super mature and introspective post. Big ups buddy. | /r/seduction | 15/05/13 10:30 PM |
| 8 | We mostly speak about initial attraction here..Be awesome is kinda the key. When I was in university I had met lots of guys who could close quickly and would have a one night stand with a girl. Problem was that after that they couldent get her back again. These guys I would say were slightly more attractive looking than me. Anyways, as University goes, there is a venn diagram of sorts in reguards to hook ups, as in I crossed over and hooked up with girls they had and vice versa. Basically what happened was they would come asking me why the g… | /r/seduction | 15/05/13 09:53 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Text game and logistics--Night 1I am heading out for drinks tonight. Game face is on, I will have a field report done up tomorrow. If I dont, someone book a plane ticket to eastern canada and punch me in the dick for being a shit head. Thanks for all the comments and advice today b'ys! Southy | /r/seduction | 15/05/13 09:33 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Text game and logistics--Night 1I think you are right. Thanks for the response! | /r/seduction | 15/05/13 09:30 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Text game and logistics--Night 1Haha fuck 'em if they can't take a joke | /r/seduction | 15/05/13 09:29 PM |
| 0 | [FR] Text game and logistics--Night 1Thats actually the best and most bold response ever. Thanks soo much.! | /r/seduction | 15/05/13 09:29 PM |
| 0 | [FR] Text game and logistics--Night 1Ya gatta do what you gatta do. | /r/seduction | 15/05/13 07:08 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Text game and logistics--Night 1I like the Mark wants to know suggestion. I did dally around a bit but that was alittle bit of my aim. I was just kinda havin fun with it trying to not get straight to the lets grab a drink type thing. If it was a different kinda girl though I think you are right. | /r/seduction | 15/05/13 07:07 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Text game and logistics--Night 1I like where you are coming from. I am not desperate to get laid and though I didnt mention it I had an idea to try and get her as a friend woman wingman. She works at the bar and I know her well enough she would be awesome for that and overall I think sacrificing one pussy and using her as bait may yield much much more. So if it goes one way or the other I wont care too much but yes good call. | /r/seduction | 15/05/13 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Shorter girlsDo something bold, like if there is a girl you want to kiss, grab her hands and tell her with a smirk "Follow me :)" and lead her to the kitchen or anywhere a chair is available. With one hand holding hers use the other to pull out a chair. Lead and guide her to get up on the chair to make her either taller or closer to equal, grab her waist or face and instally mack that shit. Do it quick though, dont prolong, then grab her hand and guide her down again like she is a princess, then carry on as … | /r/seduction | 15/05/13 03:57 PM |
| 10 | Tempted to join an open-for-all Saturday Day Game sarge in London this weekend but I am afraid I am too ugly in comparison to the other guys I have seen there -- perhaps this is too ambitious?FUCK WRONG. Man IDGAF if you are quasimodo. Adjust your shit. You are a 3-4 out of ten "confirmed" (by assholes, fuck 'em) because you accept that they call you that. Physical looks mean sooo little when you are a guy. We are more subjective but so long as you adjust your shit you will be fine and see your value rise. Be friendly. Everyone has "ugly" guy friends but they are still friends because they are positive happy people. Nobody worth hanging out with gonna give a fuck what you look like s… | /r/seduction | 14/05/13 10:16 PM |
| 5 | Serious question - men who cleaned up their life and became awesome, what were the biggest things that helped you?Hey, I have a small list of things that have dramatically changed my life. Faking confidence. It is true, fake it till you make it. You WILL start to believe in yourself. Learn new skills. Get good at cooking, handy work, painting, or any random thing. When you accomplish something your self worth skyrockets. If you want to taylor make your new assests, learn things pertinant or advantageous to the game. Currently trying to learn guitar, women love guitar. Work out. Just even being at the gym ma… | /r/seduction | 14/05/13 02:27 PM |
| 1 | [FR] What I did,and what could I have done betterNo prob man, let me know if it works haha | /r/seduction | 14/05/13 02:19 PM |
| 3 | [FR] What I did,and what could I have done betterI think you did fine. Sometimes a number is all you need and should be considered a big success. I maybe would have put a time restraint on it though. From my knowledge artists have this exciting aoura, always bouncing around. Shows they are interesting. If my friend had opened for ME, I woulda said to her "Hey, I am "Southy", nice to meet you, I have only got a seccond before I have to rejoin my friends, they did come here for me and my birthday" (shows importance, upps value). Then talk to her… | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Challenge of the week! Week 1"Tap her on the shoulder then just stare and smile, daring her to break silence" So much fun to do. | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Challenge of the week! Week 1For sure | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 09:03 PM |
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