Soviet_Dreamer Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
32	Guys, it’s actually weird to be willing to sleep with any woman that is attractive	CMV	Soviet_Dreamer	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/23 11:15 PM

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2	It makes no sense for men to kneel while proposing. I am not from the US so I am unfamiliar with your reference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/25 03:47 PM
2	It makes no sense for men to kneel while proposing. Yes but some things just become tradition and get passed along because they are recognisable symbols.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/25 02:08 PM
4	It makes no sense for men to kneel while proposing. I have notices that OP uses a lot of words like “pathetic” and “idiotic” to describe acts of love, devotion and kindness which society has accepted as tradition. Yes such acts as kneeling might be silly without any basis in our modern world and just an old tradition, but what is the harm when it brings so much emotion in people. After all this is what matters. You get on your knee because you want to say that now you are making a serious step in your relation and this is a recognisable and accep…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/25 02:08 PM
2	It makes no sense for men to kneel while proposing. Can you define what successful with women means in the context of pick-up artists? Because when I was younger I was heavily exposed to that scene and yes they were more successful because they approached way more women, so it was numbers game usually, and because usually the setting was a place where women are open to hooking up. But if you see most of their content there is a lot of rejection and how if a woman rejects you that is fine since, even they admit that, each case is individual. They …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/25 01:51 PM
2	It makes no sense for men to kneel while proposing. Because in the past it would have been considered indecent for women to initiate such things to show their attraction towards a man unless he has spent enough time courting them and of course he would have to been considered suitable from the parents of the girl and society as a whole and this is after his family approved that the girl is from a high enough rank in society to be suitable part of the family. That was how life was during those times given the societal values. This translates into …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/25 01:40 PM
14	It makes no sense for men to kneel while proposing. Oh no another absolutely valueless and baseless opinion from someone whose interaction and experience with women is from some misogynistic BDSM anime and Andrew Tate. Marriage can be risky business for both parties if they are not really prepared for what is ahead and are have not established good framework for it. Having this power dynamic of a leader and a follower not really applicable unless one of the involved parties is abusive and insecure and needs to have their way all the time. In a go…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/25 07:24 AM
1	Telling men to have more friendships with woman is misleading because women treat friendships and dating the same Why can’t some people just be able to have good times with others without feeling a need to put labels, to categorize, to analyze and so on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/25 05:12 AM
1	Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women Not all women are nurses but you claim all women are leeches so I ask you are nurses leeches? Also do all men build and defend society?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/25 06:42 AM
4	Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women So can you tell me one successful society entirely by men? Also if you are in such society what would you do to bring value to it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/25 07:01 AM
3	Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women So nurses who work notoriously long hours, caring for sick patients doing mentally and physically demanding work are not pulling their own weight in our society? I am asking for you to clarify I don’t want to put words in your mouth but it sounds like you think they are still leeching. Also can you define useless and useful jobs and maybe some examples? Also you are still deflecting the question of what you are doing that is of net positive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/25 07:00 AM
8	Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women But women would not magically disappear and they are still their important jobs. Yes probably man can also do them, but currently a lot of jobs are performed by women and yet you are still denying they are pulling their own weight. You collectively criticize a whole gender for not doing enough but when confronted with facts of the opposite you still dismiss it as leeching. But are there not examples of men leeching off society who contribute nothing? Why don’t you point your finger at them as we…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/25 06:02 AM
16	Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women I don’t think you are even slightly right. There are occupations critical for our societies that are dominated by one of the genders. Construction is definitely one that is mostly worked by men especially for roles requiring more physical strength. However teaching and a lot of the medical backbone positions like nurses are mostly by women. And those jobs require brains, emotional intelligence and they are physically draining. Especially for teachers working with younger children there are thing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/25 05:35 AM
15	Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women So you are not really any different from the women who leech off? Because you claim that women are leeching off while you are doing the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/25 05:24 AM
18	Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women No I think this is very important. You imply that women just live off the work and effort of other men who have created it and defend it. So if are putting this out you better have contributed enough and defended enough on your own to speak like that. Otherwise what is the difference between you and women “leeching off” as you put it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/25 05:14 AM
16	Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women Just out of curiosity what exactly have you build and defended?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/25 05:00 AM
28	Men being alone can be cured without enslaving women Bro how do you manage to get together with couple of guys and invaded and occupied by women. Like literally how…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/25 04:57 AM
4	If women are kind of disgusted by male sexuality by default, then they really shouldn't be so shocked that men too have negative feelings about theirs. Bro acts like he won’t get mad if his woman follows and goons over ripped hot men, gets off to then and possible spends money on them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/25 04:38 AM
2	Women are upset and hypocritical about men having access to sexual content because it threatens their power dynamics The greatest offering of my wife is a companionship which makes me feel like I actually do have a soulmate, someone with whom I can communicate everything freely and not be consumed by the inherent loneliness that we as humans nowadays are burdened with. Until you realise that people have more to offer outside the stereotype you have created for them and stop looking at relationships as something exchangeable then you will always be frustrated by your social and romantic interactions. And this d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 06:57 AM
–	Sabrina Carpenter’s new song “Manchild” is misandrist and hateful Bro what are on about. Most rappers and quite a lot of other types of musicians have songs with lyrics for hurting women and reducing them to objects. You are literally looking for a reason to start a crusade. Glad that nobody is taking the bait on this extremely lacking of any sense post. Shame on you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/25 04:54 AM
7	Women are in business while men are looking for love. Have you ever thought that maybe besides being broke you are also probably an extremely unlikable person and this is why women don’t fall in love with you? Also you are thinking like a 10 year old about love and relationships. What does it even mean to love someone unconditionally? If the person is not sharing your values and wants to live similar lifestyle? Most couple are overall in the same socio-economical group and the strong and successful relationships are defined by shared interests, lif…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/25 02:29 PM
–	The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting men Funny how guys who probably have VERY limited sexual experience claim that women prefer huge dicks. Like how do you know that? If you have not been sexually active or have not had time to get to know a partners body well how can you know what works for them? Sure some women might prefer bigger ones, but if you know what you are doing you can make a girl cum with just the tip. Also this would not be part of the initial attraction as I doubt any woman has ever demanded to see your penis before she…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 09:36 PM
15	Women gripe that "the bar is in hell" for men, but the situation is actually reversed No bro you are completely out of touch with stuff. Two things, women respond to different kind of stimulation during sex and using sex toys is not the same as the real things and is not treated as such. In the right position and movements you can make them reach orgasm with just your tip. We need to stop this myth that you need a monster dick to satisfy women. You need to be attentive to their body, use your brains and have fun experimenting with each other. All this bs with the big dick is some…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 06:00 AM
10	Women gripe that "the bar is in hell" for men, but the situation is actually reversed You know using a dildo and having sex are two very different experiences. By your logic the women that prefer clitor stimulators prefer micro penises that vibrate? You have set some very strange expectations upon yourself and claim that those come from women, although probably some very specific type of women want that. If you are into them well you need to figure it out, but if you are looking for a relation with a normal woman then maybe start treating women like people and hear what they have…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 05:48 AM
3	Men need to go their own way until women fix themselves. Man if this is the only women you meet then it is a you problem. Also what you said seems wrong to me. I know quite a few men and women working on their personality and issues, however I have noticed that women tend to go to therapy for example way more than men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/25 08:10 AM
–	Men have little incentive or reason to be a Feminist in 2025 So I have a few thought on the subject. I personally have never identified myself as a feminist, I never felt the need, even though I have been very vocal about the issues they have raised and have engaged in a lot of feminist and women-centered literature (I like to read all kinds of stuff even if they have ideas I dislike). As others have said we all have women in our lives that we care for, mothers, partners, siblings and even friends (I know shocking). I don’t want any of them to have to go …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 07:16 AM
3	Being able to have sex at any time is still a privilege. OK but if you, as presumable a heterosexual male, get a lot of sexual attention from homosexual man, would you consider that privilege? You still be able to have all the sex you want after all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/25 10:14 AM
25	Women end up hating the Men they create. If we math this you like literally had no time even for adequate amount of sleep. So why are you even in relation let alone marriage when you would not be able to even see and talk to your partner let alone contribute to chores and support they might need.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/25 06:01 AM
0	If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3 First of all there is nowhere I have stated that I am pro or against conscription. I just acknowledge the fact that most of us would not be able to even comprehend their situation they are in. I cannot give solid opinion regarding conscription in Ukraine or anywhere else for that matter. And I am glad that my nation is not in such a dire situation and in front of some very difficult and ugly decisions which are inevitable when a nation is confronted with an existential threat. I am not trilled b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 09:11 AM
3	Women are indifferent to Most men So for example how do you show your care for other women and why not even men who are outside your circle. What are the things you do?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 06:39 AM
-2	If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3 You can strive to have equal society while also understanding that there are curtain differences in man and women. Peace time and war time are also very different and women have always contributed to the war effort in ways that are more appropriated to them. So why wouldn’t we leverage them in an actually productive way rather than putting them on the front lines (also quite big parts of soldiers usually are not directly on the front line). Because it feels like that to you guys is about punishi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 06:14 AM
-4	If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3 We should all be glad that we are not in the position of Ukraine and to have to make some really though and ugly decisions just to sustain the survival of our respective nations. Also OP you are so full of shit. Ukrainian women have been contributing quite a lot to the war effort. You can theorize all you want but in the end of the day I don’t think any self respecting man would want to put their women at risk. But of course you just wrote some sexual fantasy shit so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 09:35 PM
-2	Feminists dehumanize men and it's time we admit it Sorry I don’t get which younger women having what privilege? I am not sure what you are talking about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/24 03:45 PM
-8	Feminists dehumanize men and it's time we admit it Could this be because for quite a long time women were dependent on men for their finance, well being and quality of life. If you have no means to support yourself what happens when the main breadwinner dies, you probably are more or less also doomed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/24 07:24 AM
1	Sexual ultimatums aren't necessarily sexually assault If you would consider sleeping with somebody without their enthusiastic consent you are a threat to other people and it might be only a matter of time until you put someone in unfortunate situation where they might feel obliged to say yes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 12:17 PM
5	Sexual ultimatums aren't necessarily sexually assault No you are defending the practice of soliciting sex when the subject has not been physically forced to, since you claim, then the subject has the ability to decline. And as I say you are enabling this type of behavior which ultimately leads to assaults and violence. Enthusiastic consent is the only acceptable consent there is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 11:35 AM
10	Sexual ultimatums aren't necessarily sexually assault You are basically enabling sexual violence and discrimination against women. Because if figures of authority can freely choose to treat women the same as men only in exchange for sexual favors then yes this is infringing on their right. Because for you to have the same right and opportunities you will have to have sex with people you would normally not like to be intimate with. I have a female friend who studies medicine. As part of the education they have to have a practice in hospital which so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 05:42 AM
4	Women would finally understand why dating is unfair for many men if job hunting process was similar to men's modern dating experience Bro what? Some guys here have so strange ideas of how dating work it is no wonder they end up writing shit like that. How can you compare the two? Attraction is not something you can negotiate for yourself, you can’t go trough a checklist that makes you legible for someone else. There is a lot men can do. For starters you can try to actually spend time with enjoyable people and be one yourself. Don’t go after every attractive and fairly nice woman, this is not enough, you have to have really mor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 12:53 PM
2	Women hate the manosphere because the manosphere teaches men to protect themselves from women, which makes it harder for women to exploit us So women are OK to be in a sexless relationship with someone they dislike to leach off them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/24 01:17 PM
-1	The double standard: man has alot of sexual partners = good. Woman has alot of sexual partners = bad. Is misunderstood. Mentally, as a person, and sexually. They are 3 separate things, I don’t know how you deducted that for mental maturity is linked to sexual one in that case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/23 04:21 PM
-1	The double standard: man has alot of sexual partners = good. Woman has alot of sexual partners = bad. Is misunderstood. That is definitely NOT was I was saying. Nowhere have I written that, please learn to read. But to make it clearer for you, I was referring to the fact that SOME guys PREFER women who have had healthy amount of sexual experience as this makes them know their bodies and what they like better and are better at satisfying their partner. You could also be mentally mature with limited experience, so I don’t know how you made that relation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/23 01:05 PM
1	The double standard: man has alot of sexual partners = good. Woman has alot of sexual partners = bad. Is misunderstood. Is this really that common? I know that a lot of insecure are really into dating a virgins because they feel like they would have more control over certain dynamics of the relationship, but most guys I know don’t really care too much about body count. I know some guys who even prefer more experienced girls as they would prefer someone more mature mentally, as a person and sexually, as they themselves are. On the other hand I have rarely seen girls care about male virginity, it has only been brou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/23 07:28 AM
3	men's dating experience is unfair and feminism has failed to address it So your work on man’s rights is to tell women they are delusional? Quite interesting approach given that the shit you have written is quite delusional. You have shallow and materialistic values and you are attracted to women who are the same, but since you have nothing to offer them you lash out, demanding that they be willing to settle for less, all the while ignoring all other women who don’t care about your status and money. But you are unwilling to see them because when you yourself are that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 07:52 AM
3	men's dating experience is unfair and feminism has failed to address it So you haven’t actually done anything for man’s right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 06:52 AM
3	men's dating experience is unfair and feminism has failed to address it No you have not been called misogynist for fighting for mens right because I don’t see how exactly are you fighting about them and what exactly are your demands besides being given hot, youthful pussy for free. You might want to enlighten us what and how you lobby and in what instance you have been called a misogynist for that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/23 12:12 AM
18	men's dating experience is unfair and feminism has failed to address it What exactly are you being called misogynist about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 11:19 AM
10	men's dating experience is unfair and feminism has failed to address it I see that you are dense, but attractive women is not a monolith. Yes the attractive women I know can pay their part of the date, are putting effort when they are interested and wouldn’t mind a shorter guy if they are comfortable and happy to be with him. The attractive women in your life however want you to pay for the date, want you to do everything, want to be put on a pedestal, and after a while they will simply ghost you, because they want someone who is tall and rich and you have nothing t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 11:17 AM
17	men's dating experience is unfair and feminism has failed to address it So you don’t want to work on your own issue but you expect women to fix it for you? By the way have you done anything to help with the struggles of women in that case?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 11:00 AM
8	men's dating experience is unfair and feminism has failed to address it There are plenty of “hot, youthful” women what aren’t mentally ill, have their lives together and don’t care if you are rich, super buffed or whatnot. I know almost no women who are that shallow to be honest, but for me the reason is that the people in my life are more or less aligned with my values and views on life, so it is not that I think that there are not any women who are most impressed by your social status.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 10:56 AM
9	men's dating experience is unfair and feminism has failed to address it Well if you are attracted to people who value those things that you point out then you also value them enough, so I don’t understand why you want them to value them less you can have a chance with them. There are plenty of women who care less about your job or social status but it seem like you are not after them because your values are different. If you want to be valued for your money and status then go make money and earn status.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 10:49 AM
12	men's dating experience is unfair and feminism has failed to address it I can not take a mask off that I am not wearing. I am not involved with feminism nor do I know enough about it, but it is kind of logical that they are focused on women’s problems and struggles. What is so shocking about it? Every movement is aimed towards certain group or issue, non can work on all the issues in the world. If you have a certain problem and you can find people with the same struggle what is preventing you from forming your own movement to lobby about your interest. I don’t know …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 10:45 AM
5	men's dating experience is unfair and feminism has failed to address it Desirable to whom?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 10:40 AM
9	men's dating experience is unfair and feminism has failed to address it So what do you want feminism, a movement about women struggles, to do about that? Why do you expect someone else to pick up your problems, you are free to find likeminded people to start working on that yourself. Also without being too familiar with the feminist movement it seems like it is trying to break away from certain social and gender norms which you complain about here. In addition it seems like you are not confident in your own worth so you are telling us what is expected. However I hav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 10:33 AM
1	You only think women’s standards are unrealistic because you view them as a monolith. What do you mean by women taking accountability of holding all sexual power?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 09:04 AM
1	How important is having sex to having a happy and healthy lifestyle ? How so? What makes you lower your standards just because you have high sex drive, being desperate? A lot of people who are with high sex drive would not fuck around indiscriminately.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 06:25 AM
-2	How important is having sex to having a happy and healthy lifestyle ? High sex drive does not mean lower standards both for men and women. What the hell are you talking about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 11:01 PM
1	Why women think men suck at relationships Yes you are but you want to pass as non judgmental, however the whole post is about how men are miserable because they are fine being (for example) messy and it is forced on them to not be so. And since there are plenty of women who are probably messy themselves why not pursue one like than rather than complaining that the one you are after expects some basic stuff from you. You are expecting women to lower their standards and thus shitting on their preference rather than just be with people who…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 05:54 AM
1	Why women think men suck at relationships I am no shitting on you for your preferences. I am shitting on you because you have a problem with peoples preferences…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/23 09:24 PM
1	Why women think men suck at relationships Well than find one of those billions of people who are not into bed frames and be with them. I don’t get what your problem is to be honest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/23 09:08 PM
1	Why women think men suck at relationships Bro, practicality has nothing to do with not doing the bare minimum like providing a simple frame for your bed. I mean you do you but why complain that a woman would like at least some basic comfort, you know like a bed frame? Just find a partner that shares your values and problem solved. You can both sleep on your mattress on the floor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/23 03:07 PM
1	Why women think men suck at relationships And who should offer them physical touch?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/23 02:53 PM
1	A big deal about dating is that it feels like work for men, and work is never fun! Well idk why would anyone knowing their self worth will be ok with scraps. I am not arguing with you that there are not a lot of girls like that out there, but everyone has personal responsibility to avoid and defend themselves from ill-intentioned people and to seek people who respect and like them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/23 06:32 AM
1	A big deal about dating is that it feels like work for men, and work is never fun! Well now you are just changing the issue, but to respond to that: well don’t simp, simple as that. No decent person will expect gifts, food and whatnot for free just like that. In the dating phase when you still get to know each other paying a coffee date or something interesting to do that is not expensive (probably you can find a lot of things for free even) is OK, but just don’t simp shower them with gifts or get exploited and then cry about it. Use some common sense!	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/23 06:12 AM
1	A big deal about dating is that it feels like work for men, and work is never fun! Well yes if they barely see anything in common they won’t “do their part”. If they like you they will reciprocate. Again nobody is entitled to that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/23 06:04 AM
1	A big deal about dating is that it feels like work for men, and work is never fun! Well if you need it that much you will have to do the work…I mean you are not entitled to it and can’t expect it to just happen, so I am not sure what the issue is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/23 05:12 AM
2	A big deal about dating is that it feels like work for men, and work is never fun! In my experience man have to jump through hoops when they don’t really have a lot in common with the woman because they have fell that they have to put on a show and thus can’t be that authentic. If you actually click with someone it will never feel like work. Of course you will have to put some effort but you would probably be happy to. So guys if it feels like work maybe this one is not for you. No decent woman or human for that matter will make you jump through hoops if you too actually have …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 04:54 PM
1	Guys, it’s actually weird to be willing to sleep with any woman that is attractive Thanks for your comment, it provides great additional layer to the discussion I was trying to make, by pointing out that loneliness might lead you to making bad decisions and in general not really consider the advantages of seeking people who you actually enjoy spending time with to begin with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/23 01:11 AM
1	Guys, it’s actually weird to be willing to sleep with any woman that is attractive The point I was making is that by not having enjoyable sex, even with an attractive woman, you are not really improving too much, expect that it is with another human.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/23 01:07 AM
0	Guys, it’s actually weird to be willing to sleep with any woman that is attractive Well it seams like most men still prefer to try their luck by approaching woman and not going straight to sex workers which might imply that even if you are only looking only for sex you can’t completely separate sex from at least basic compatibility. And by compatibility I don’t mean having necessary the same world views and qualities for a long term relation, but more contextual like if you are attending a party for example to be able to have fun together, make jokes, enjoy the music or whatev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/23 01:05 AM
1	Guys, it’s actually weird to be willing to sleep with any woman that is attractive Well to elaborate a bit further: you may find subjectively Anna Hathaway attractive on basis that she has, for example, a style that you find, but after meeting her in person you find that you have little in common and her company is not that interesting and enjoyable you should be less attracted to her as you yourself have suggested. So it seems like we are fairly in agreement. The issue that drove me to write this post is that it seems like quite a few men will not be deterred in a situation l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/23 12:51 AM
1	Guys, it’s actually weird to be willing to sleep with any woman that is attractive I have never suggested to be picky in the way you described it and also vibing with someone does not necessarily mean agreeing with views they hold or stuff like this. Also ya if you are not into Ibiza type parting don’t expect a lot from Ibiza I guess. What I am suggesting is that the expectation and desire for intimacy is weird if you can’t even have fun time with the person and nothing in common. Maybe it can happen I am just not sure how enjoyable it is going to be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/23 12:39 AM
0	Guys, it’s actually weird to be willing to sleep with any woman that is attractive I have not commented on women’s behavior at all and thus never claiming for something to be healthier. The reason I am bringing up this is because I see this pattern of some men viewing sex as something completely separated from anything else and it feels like this is hindering their success. Even if you are physically attracted to someone, which is not at all problematic, in practice you can’t expect anything to happen if you can’t establish any connection with that person. I rather think it wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/23 12:29 AM
2	Guys, it’s actually weird to be willing to sleep with any woman that is attractive Personally I consider it weird for anyone to be able to have enjoyable sex with someone they can’t even have an enjoyable conversation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/23 12:04 AM
7	Guys, it’s actually weird to be willing to sleep with any woman that is attractive Well adjusted people operate that way. And I am not sure how someone can expect to be able to attract and have sex with someone with whom they have nothing in common. Also sexual comparability absolutely means matching personalities and vibing. I mean it is awkward enough to talk to someone you barely vibe and share interests with let alone get intimate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/23 11:56 PM
4	What does the popularity of AI girlfriends say about real life western women? So you have had success with attractive women, good for you, now try intelligent ones with whom you share something in common and stop whining.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/23 06:51 AM
5	There’s a good reason men get praised for sleeping around and women don’t I used to know a few guys that were able to constantly hook up with girls. In reality they were not bad looking or uninterested, but they were definitely not something too exceptional in any way. They just took care of themselves. However they were so focused on having sex with different woman that they were unable to form a real and meaningful relation with any. And this, at least for me, is pathetic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 06:14 AM
2	Men in western society should reject marriage We are going to start going in circles as you are unable to read things is context. I stated that since divorces are messy and hard by marrying a woman with the intend of having access to sex so yes in this CONTEXT it is trapping. I have already alluded the meaningful conversation we could have is why the law and society is favoring women in certain aspects when we talk about divorce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/23 09:12 PM
1	Men in western society should reject marriage Bruh, calm down. I don’t disagree with what you are saying. Of course most people settle with someone for more than the sex and I absolutely agree that intimacy is extremely important. There is nothing wrong to end a relationship for lack of intimacy. But please note the wording of OP. I would say that to think that marriage means access to sex for the rest of your life is extremely destructive mindset. You should not just expect it, it should happen because people enjoy each other, trust each o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/23 01:33 PM
1	Men in western society should reject marriage You see I don’t really know how it is in your country and even a lot in mine in that regard but I can agree to an extend, based on my limited knowledgeable, that there is in fact a risk. However, OP and in this thread we are speaking about marriage as a trap for men, while at the same time OP pointing out how men marry for sex, which I would say looks more like a trap for the woman. The way this conversation is framed makes me disagree with the notion of men being trapped by marriage, especially…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/23 01:15 PM
2	Men in western society should reject marriage Well the point I am addressing with my first comment to OP is about the “free” sex and how this is not a stable building block for a relation and that in the light of this man who merry for sex should not expect any different result. As I have stated in my comment which you initially engaged my I do in fact acknowledge that sometimes despite our best efforts things fall apart. I point out that picking the right person and treating them correctly is not a guarantee but will make the likelihood of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/23 11:18 AM
-2	Men in western society should reject marriage Well then rather than marring someone for the "free" sex try marring someone whom you actually have a connection and is decent enough person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/23 10:33 AM
-2	Men in western society should reject marriage I mean ya things like that happens, but to minimize the possibility of that happening you could work on having a decent relationship, fun with your partner and support each other emotional needs. There is always a chance for things to fall apart but the likelihood is smaller. Also how can you compare a relationship with twitch simping is beyond me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/23 09:36 AM
14	Men in western society should reject marriage No, but the best way to avoid that in my opinion is by actually liking my partner and enjoying my time with them. Intimacy is no small matter for me but I am not building my relationship on it, I rather like to view as the result of desire, support, love and having a connection. What you described is men viewing commitment as a way to gain access to sex and if that is the end goal of marriage I don’t see why anyone would want to stay in that situation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/23 08:31 AM
10	Men in western society should reject marriage “ Most men think marriage means access to sex for the rest of your life”. And this is not problematic for you at all? So men don’t seek companionship and connection with the person with whom they are supposed to share their live, they are seeking access to sex and then you complain about divorce. Make it make sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/23 06:08 AM