SoyFemboy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Not to come off like a fascist. But why is it so hard for yall to just obey someone who has your best interests in mind? Hey OP, have you concidered obeying me? I have your best interests in mind .	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/21 07:53 AM
1	FDS v. TRP It's a bit a bummer, because there is so much good advice there that can be applied to either gender. Especially regarding toxic relationships and getting out of them. Or having standards and actually using them in practice. Unfortunately the cult mentality is getting worse and worse by the day. Yea either a virtuous queen, or absolute perverted filth and degenerate. Basically you are either in or out. All black or all white. There isn't any demographic that's grey. At least I can't think of any…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/21 11:50 AM
1	FDS v. TRP These new dudes using SJW lingo to pretend being left out of sexual options is oppression is hilarious. I literally seen takes of "bi people have AIDS couse they fuck guys, don't touch them" takes upvoted to consistently though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/21 09:28 AM
1	FDS v. TRP Most of the narratives there revolve about how all men are perverts craving for pussy. Threads where they try to figure out how to make being gay somehow relate back to women, are while rare, absolute comedy gold to read. They do the next the best thing, berate any straight man who acts "gay" all the time though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/21 09:18 AM
1	July 2021 PPD Demographic Survery Results They really don't. It's so obvious which posters are female. It's easy to spot because they talk about themselves in every other post they make You literally doing it yourself in the same comment. An anecdote.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/21 08:28 AM
–	FDS women's overlap with mental health subreddits (and other interesting subs) All you have to do is pick the right man thats it As if that would be trivial task.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 11:06 AM
2	I don’t think FDS is that bad and I don’t understand why they get so much hate Well firstly I don't really hunt for female subs couse I'm a guy. Dating as stereotypically feminine gay guy is sometimes excruciatingly similar to straight dating though. So I occasionally end up in similar places on reddit. I definitely get the first comment bit, a lot of subs have some weird victim fetish. Like "my relationship is toxic af, but it's okay, cause I’m I'm woke and inclusive about it". So it's so refreshing to hear the whole "no it's not okay if your boyfriend/husband plays video…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 08:08 AM
2	I don’t think FDS is that bad and I don’t understand why they get so much hate Lol I wish it was true. I started reading it thinking it's gonna be an interesting subreddit with advice that isn't "talk about" "communicate" "everything is positive if you think positive about it". Gust of fresh air. Robust culture. But nope. It's a winging subreddit. Most post are just outrage posting. Rare to see an FDS poster who doesn't paint themselves as victim in some way. I think I unsubscribed after the post where FDS was discussing how women are inherently more attractive than men. A…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/21 06:01 AM
1	If a sense of masculinity in society is to be maintained, some sense of "toxic" masculinity will always be present OP literaly just said, "bad people exist" and thats it, with longer form factor. You have to be retarded to disagree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/21 09:20 AM
1	If a sense of masculinity in society is to be maintained, some sense of "toxic" masculinity will always be present That's a very long wall of text for a very common sense take. Murder still exists today, but nobody retorts to advocating against murder with "It will still happen anyway you know? why care then, lol?". You can advocate for or against issues without "complete elimination" as a goal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/21 09:16 AM
4	What are the most important aspects of Female Dating Strategies to those who follow them? This so much. Being in relationship is praised as such ultimate goal nowadays. And then you end with people who have that as ultimate goal in relationships not knowing what to do after. So they just exist till they break up or decide to make a kid/ join MLM scheme to fill that void. And any toxic dump of "relationship" being praised as better than people who got their shit together on their own. And then you end with people who are not in relationship, thinking that they are missing out on somet…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/21 05:34 AM
2	What is the long-term goal of FDS? (Speculate) Well firstly I don't think FDS claims explicitly advocate for feminism anyway. I actually seen a lot complaining about "libfem" turning women into "pickmeishas" or on that room. Additionally meaning of feminism and defintion is not set or consistent anyway. I myself use the two aspects of it as a litmus test. First one is advocating equal and fair right for both genders. It made sense and often still make sense, to parse it as advocating for womens rights, because, women's rights were worse off …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/21 05:22 AM
2	What is the long-term goal of FDS? (Speculate) Not gonna lie I'm not supper familiar with RPW, even my understanding of RP is limited. So can't really compare. Then what is the point of calling yourself a feminist? Me or FDS? Sorry, wasn't sure which way to parse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/21 10:17 PM
2	What is the long-term goal of FDS? (Speculate) From what I got of occasionally reading it, FDS aims for a traditional patriarchy relationship, but a better deal on woman side and without the stigma of not being in relationship. Man being the provider and woman the home maker. And so on. Being a concervative view, it comes with all the bits disliking anything that challenge that. It's anti-feminism marketed for women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/21 10:01 AM
2	“If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ? Depends what feminism you read. On the contrary, that's a very common narrative. Unfortunately therorical feminism is very different from the "women more rights" stuff that gets bounced around. A lot of women and men too, think they are feminists, but then when you ask about it "well I think women should be treated equally" and don't think much more about it. Besides trolling incels and knocking down self centered BS a peg, calling out women who think that they are feminists by virtue of having …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 06:52 PM
4	“If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ? "Men should be taught to be object of my sexuality" "I am entitled to a submissive traditional girlfriend" Spot the difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 06:34 PM
1	“If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ? aww... this is why I love this subreddit. Just two sides scapegoating all their problems on the other. Mostly imaginary problems too. "Why doesn't entire world comfort to my sexual desires to satisfy my penis/vulva, how dare they, owo" Edit: kinda makes way less sense now that the top comment is [removed]. Oh well. Here goes my opportunity to feel smug AF.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 05:56 PM
13	“If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ? Literal incel dribble with genders reversed. When you make world better for women by propping up gender roles created by patriarchy and just pretend anything outside cishet doesn't exist. Just don't date people you don't like, instead asking entire world to conform to your stereotypes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/21 03:15 PM
1	The average woman is more attractive than the average man Let's say objective physical attractiveness is normally distributed on a scale of 1-10 for both men and women, and let's say 7+ is considered physically attractive. I believe the distribution falls higher on the scale for women than for men, with many more women being considered 7+ than men. Pretty sure "objective attractiveness" is a pipe dream. There are common cultural norms, that tend to be adopted widely, but these change. Being obese during renaissance would make you hot af. Pursuing attra…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 10:32 AM
1	Most of the women on here have perfectly realistic standards and demanding they lower them is bad advice Out of curiosity, what is your take about pursuing? Basically, do you rely on female dating script to get you dates?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 09:20 AM
1	Most of the women on here have perfectly realistic standards and demanding they lower them is bad advice So are you entitled one or something?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 06:47 AM
1	Where are these men with the terrible personalities that women talk about ? Wow. Uh, that's impressive conclusion. I dunno if it's worth to unpack. Here is a hint for your dating life. You not undatable for your looks (though you might be ugly too, who knows), you just sound like your IQ is in single digits. But by the sounds of it, you are a self solving problem, so no worries.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 04:14 PM
1	Where are these men with the terrible personalities that women talk about ? Yea, people have different standards and tastes. Who would've thought. Narcissism is deal breaker for me specifically though. but maybe not for everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 04:02 PM
1	Where are these men with the terrible personalities that women talk about ? Wut?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 03:54 PM
1	Where are these men with the terrible personalities that women talk about ? Look is literary a preference too though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 03:43 PM
2	Where are these men with the terrible personalities that women talk about ? Yea, no. That makes like no sense. Narcissism makes a person less hot. It's like saying virgin with a lot sex experience. It contradicts itself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 03:41 PM
3	I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable? No, being a woman gives you attention. From who? Men of couse. Even if you don't ask for it. Sad thing though, there is also a lot of men who can offer just that and that's about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 03:34 PM
1	Where are these men with the terrible personalities that women talk about ? deal breaker personality traits not the issue	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 03:26 PM
3	Where are these men with the terrible personalities that women talk about ? So when I reject people for narcissistic and annoying, I actually do it because of looks, sometimes even if I haven't seen them before?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 03:25 PM
3	Where are these men with the terrible personalities that women talk about ? And you know that becouse?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 03:21 PM
2	Where are these men with the terrible personalities that women talk about ? Not all personality issues are immediately apparent, so just because you had sex, doesn't mean you have good personality. A lot of deal breaker personality traits are not plainly apparent, because, no one’s surprise they try to hide them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 03:19 PM
3	I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable? So having high standards gives you attention or did I parse it wrong?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 03:06 PM
0	Where are these men with the terrible personalities that women talk about ? Are you using a different definition of word "personality" compared to me or are you saying toxic relationships have nothing to do with personality?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 03:04 PM
1	Where are these men with the terrible personalities that women talk about ? Toxic and/or dysfunctional relationships do indeed exist. Not everyone is good judge of character.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 02:31 PM
19	Where are these men with the terrible personalities that women talk about ? Most guys I meet are decent normal cool dudes who can hold a convo perfectly fine. I dare to say, I apply higher standards to long term relationship than having a convo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 02:28 PM
-1	Where are these men with the terrible personalities that women talk about ? Couse it makes me feel better about myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 02:22 PM
1	I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable? Because it’s easier to say “I’m fine dying alone” when you’re 26 and are you’re still getting tons of attention from men every time you go the club. Because they don’t actually believe they’ll die alone, they’re very confident they’ll find a man with those requirements. Why do you think they get tons of attention?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 02:12 PM
2	I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable? As someone who lurks in FDS from time, for my own amusement, most people there claim otherwise, why do you think it's that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 01:14 PM
5	I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable? You are asking for EXACTLY the same thing I am though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 12:06 PM
6	I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable? Lol, wish I came up with that in the moment. Fucking hate "my happiness is other people's responsibility" argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 12:05 PM
6	I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable? I would very much like to eventually marry and have kids, how am I supposed to do that if every woman demands a top tier man? I'd like to do the same. How am supposed to do that if every guy demands a woman? He could settle for me, but that isn't a good foundation for a healthy relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 12:02 PM
5	I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable? But that's prevents bi guys dating woman. And straight guys don't matter, so no loss. I framed my hypothetical argument the same way you framed yours, from purely my own selfish perspective. Which makes it more or less equivalent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 11:52 AM
2	I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable? Yea but you are framing it from your perspective though. Firstly I'm not obligated to care about everyone else perspective. From my perspective guys not finding a girlfriend is a net benefit. Encourages guys to experiment and may be come out. Expanding my dating pool. What's bad about having more dating options? If I am expected to care about your perspective, wouldn't it be fair for you to care about woman's perspective?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 11:38 AM
7	I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable? What's the problem with an absurdity high standard? Like the only thing you risking is nobody meeting that standard. And if you okay with that, that's like a win/win situation?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 11:14 AM
4	Is the primary sexual attractiveness for a woman literally "Dont be fat"? We do. Men don't believe us. "What do you mean? there are plenty of studies that ask men if that is true. We don't ask woman, because according study done by these guys, women lie"	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/21 08:09 AM
2	Are you someone who cares about a potential dating partner's politics? There is one thing about having standards and knowing what you want and there is another about complaining that the entire gender is not falling into your expectations anymore. If most people don't satisfy your standards, it's either time to change them, or you have to get comfortable knowing that you are dating a niche demographic. Doing the second one and complaining about it, just makes you sound entitled and self-centered.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/21 07:49 AM
1	Are you someone who cares about a potential dating partner's politics? And you are entitled to that same way incels are?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/21 06:23 AM
1	Are you someone who cares about a potential dating partner's politics? Lemme guess, you want the perks of traditional relationship and feminism, and the downsides of neither?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/21 05:58 AM
2	Are FDS users aware of the fact that there's a large overlap in their thinking and traditional conservative values? it just says that the date has to be tailored to you to show that the guy was listening to you when you were talking. Why does it have to have exactly that way round? In same sex dating that rule applies for both sides, yet in straight dating women setting up a date is taboo?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/21 06:44 AM
0	The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth. It prevents you dating attractive women. Birds of the feather. If you want to date attractive people, is it that a big stretch that other people also want date attractive people?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/21 03:06 PM
1	'Alpha' and 'beta' in the red pill are merely substitute words for 'jocks' and 'nerds' Coomer must be a complete alpha then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/21 05:49 AM
4	The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth. means they will forever be like this. I finda that hard to believe with all the social changes happened in the past. Imagine trying to explain BLM or femminism to someone in 16th century. You gonna sound insane at best.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 06:42 PM
2	The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth. The majority of women have been conditioned for hundreds of years and already embody these traits For fun I made tinder profile look for friends. 8/10 Profiles have nothing beyond tits, ass and pretty face. Bio: "pizza, dog, travel the world, sarcasm is my language". Or my favourite: "my goal in life to find is to find a good man". So no women ain't born paragons of ethics, virtue and achievement. You just typing like a guy who thinks that he is entitled the world by virtue of having seven inche…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 06:27 PM
7	The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth. Thats sounds like a good quality to have though. But it begs a question though, if women can be happy alone, why not guys too?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 04:56 PM
2	The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth. Of couse it does, the frustrating argument is that, some claim that height alone can prevent you dating completely. So why bother showering? why exexcise, why have a hobby? and it becomes a self fulfiling prophecy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 04:44 PM
0	The biggest reason people have dating issues is because they don't know these 2 major things: What they want, What they're worth. Alternative even easier solution: argue that what you want is impossible for a reason out of your control. There is even a psyc term for that: "Then why don't you... Yes but.." game.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 04:15 PM
2	What exactly do tradcons want? Would you describe RP as tradcon? Dunno how true that is. From my personal ring of acquaintances, almost the opposite seems true. But besides the point. If that was true, why did traditional gender roles last so long? Why even there is in-fighting within feminism, whether you can be a stay home mum and still be feminist? Why kitchen appliances are primarily marketed to women? Seems like an assumption with very little basis.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 02:48 PM
2	What exactly do tradcons want? Would you describe RP as tradcon? But isn't that literally the mix and match situation I described at first? Not a one sided exchange like in the work example. A 11/10 Chad dating an average looking career woman, or 10/10 woman dating a rich person, both very common. Never heard an employee giving health insurance to the boss though. All these things you mentioned can be offered or needed by either partner. Unless your point is that it's not?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 02:12 PM
2	What exactly do tradcons want? Would you describe RP as tradcon? This is the nonsense you come up with when you don't know what sub/dom relationships are. Just stating my observations, but obviously I'm wrong because..? And romantic relationship are exactly same as work relationships, lemme guess for same reason. Think of it as a boss/employee relationship. A good boss listens to your advice and takes your wishes seriously. Oh and they also pay salary for exchange for for work. Good boss wants to maximise the work done, while good worker wants to maximise sal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 01:53 PM
2	What exactly do tradcons want? Would you describe RP as tradcon? have dominant and submissive partners From my exposure, it tends to be a mixed bag sort of aspect per aspect. Like a couple where the women runs the house and the guy runs the career aspect. Opposite equaly as common, where the guy is "handy/DIY" and the women is the money making professional. Or the woman doing going out and networking, while guy has other shit that he is more concerned about. Do you think that dominance/submissive can be just an observation of splitting the responsiblities? Do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 09:07 AM
2	How do you define masculinity and femininity? I'm not imposing anything, on anyone. I hope humanity breaks their psychological barriers towards acceptance of all kinds of people. Well you are one saying that feminity is about seduction, and that in general would be aimed at men. A women achieving her goals without man, is masculine, according to you. If we can't even have peace between us, when the Aliens come it's game over lol I'd like a puff of whatever you are smoking there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/21 10:00 AM
2	How do you define masculinity and femininity? Yea, but women should have more feminine qualities and men more masculine. Otherwise it's pointless calling them feminity, or masculinity, if they are not linked to gender anyway. So it's either you are claiming that women have in general less agency, or you definitions of feminity Vs masculinity have nothing to do with gender.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/21 09:36 AM
2	How do you define masculinity and femininity? Just taking the piss of the take you replied to. I don't actually believe that, but it would extrapolation be of the "lead=manly, follow=feminine" oversimplification made by comment above.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/21 09:30 AM
1	How do you define masculinity and femininity? Draft dodging is the manly alternative.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/21 08:32 AM
2	How do you define masculinity and femininity? Well yea, but most of them should not be, according to you, otherwise your definition of masculinity and femininity are kinda useless. If most women according your definition aren't feminine, why even use that term.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/21 08:28 AM
2	How do you define masculinity and femininity? That implies that femininity, and by extension women, can only achieve their goals via men or that women should not have goals that aren't in the interest of men. The whole sentiment just kinda sounds like patting yourself on the back meme, about being a guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/21 07:34 AM
4	Why do girls brag about having simps? Yea sure me buying useless stuff on Amazon and domestic abuse is equivalent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/21 02:06 PM
4	Why do girls brag about having simps? If someone thinks that hey have a chance to get to sleep with camgirl or onlyfans, they probably deserve to have that money taken away.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/21 08:23 AM
1	Is 'Toxic Masculinity' even real? I do it for myself, not for you. So whatever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/21 07:52 AM
1	Is 'Toxic Masculinity' even real? There is pride in taking risks and there is taking risks to look masculine. The latter category will tell you that they are masculine, the first one doesn't need to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/21 07:45 AM
1	Is 'Toxic Masculinity' even real? Bluepillers and women will always tell you that reason a man cant get a date is duo to his lack of confidence. My personal take is that if your life goal is to find the other half, that makes a person instant 0/10 date. Because if that kinda person does get in a relationship, they are screwed. They have nothing going on, they are there along for the ride as dead weight. That kinda person is always gonna hold you down, because they don't like change. What if change is gonna change the relationshi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 11:37 PM
0	Is 'Toxic Masculinity' even real? Excecluding super high positions,women earn more than men and are doing better in school. Depends how you slice it. Position per position yea, but mostly because it's a legal requirement to do so. Averaged all jobs though it's different story. That's where misleading statistic of "0.72$ per 1.00$ man earned" comes from. Women are simply are more likely to be working in lower payed jobs. Women are also more likely to study degrees to less well payed jobs. Its not a coincidence their ex bf who is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 10:33 PM
2	Is 'Toxic Masculinity' even real? Stereotypes of men not being thruthful? The joke how you always round up when measuring height. Or how men call each deragotory terms but never mean it Or how men never tell the emotions they feel so they don't look weak. Or how bros would never tell on their mates to their wives. That one even has a massive quantity of boomer cartoons off. Have you heard of the boomer joke where wife calls 10 husband's mates to find out where he is staying tonight? Do you need more? To add even more stereotypes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 03:52 PM
2	Is 'Toxic Masculinity' even real? I think that issue has nothing to do with gender. There are plenty of men who do that and plenty of women who don't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 02:46 PM
2	Is 'Toxic Masculinity' even real? First of all the whole dick size comparison thing is a strawman and I have literally never seen it happen in my life. Are you literally claiming you never heard a guy bragging about having big penis? I do find it funny how you ignoring the actual point I made about women, for a meme argument I making about gay stuff just to prove that point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 02:33 PM
1	The real reason some women are against porn, prostitution and pick mes has nothing to do with protecting their fellow women. It has to do with monopolising sexual pleasure "You think society is bad, yet you still participate in in ... Curious" -argument here in the wild. If that person didn't like food industry, what do expect them to starve?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 02:26 PM
2	Is 'Toxic Masculinity' even real? How is measuring yourself against other men in ways that women care about gay? You literally claiming to know more about women are attracted than women in the thread here. So you don't really care about what women care about. You care much more about what men think women care about. Imagine if a women claimed to know more about how it feels to be kicked in the nuts than ALL the guys. And every time someone calls out you would go "yea but deep down you like the feel, just don't want to admit it".…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 02:08 PM
1	Is 'Toxic Masculinity' even real? Part of what makes the guy hot is his asshole personality. It's the characteristics that go with the looks. Being people pleasing, asking for permission, giving undeserved compliments is going to perceived as weak even coming from an attractive dude. Funny enough I never heard anyone claiming themselves to be attracted to assholes, why no one would just say that? What is the reason to lie? Usually, qualities like confidence, responsibility, self reliance reported. One of the qualities I tend to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 01:41 PM
2	Is 'Toxic Masculinity' even real? That's not guy that's called competition for dominance I do that in bed with my boyfriend. If it was competition, why do swole guys help each other lift, but berate the lean guys. If it was competive surely other buff guy is more of the threat to dominance, than some lanky. Just because you say "gay" instead of "bro" doesn't make it a different thing. Black guy is still black guy, whether you cal him black or African American. Completion for dominance is just another world for foreplay. It's dec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 01:16 PM
1	Is 'Toxic Masculinity' even real? Most average men would hit on both, and get rejected by both. Wouldn't that be caused by the aspect that men are expected to pursue? Like women get to pick who they date by rejecting. Men get to pick by choosing who to pursue. With that expection, pretty much any women who you don't pursue is in a way rejected. Given pursuing a women isn't a simple task, there bound to be women who are not pursued? Tbh I hate the whole culture of men are expected to pursue, but I wander what's your take on the e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 01:02 PM
2	Is 'Toxic Masculinity' even real? Men are forced to work shitty jobs. By who? last time I applied for them, nobody was forcing me. Men often like to work shitty jobs because they either are easier to get or ... they are payed better. On unrelated note, why do you think women earn less then men on average? None is forcing women to pick abusive chads over billy beta. Nor anyone is forcing men to hit on hot gold-diggers instead of a nice, but lil chubby chick with cats and a kid. Almost like sexual attraction isn't entirely rationa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 12:17 PM
2	Is 'Toxic Masculinity' even real? If men acted gay and then claimed they weren't then that would hold. Someone never been in a gym it seems Guys literally call each other dicks and talk about having bigger balls. They call guys who like women sexualy "simps" and look down in them Sounds like a cope to me mate. Just do yourself a favour and admit it hun. Or you know, make an argument that isn't at the level of primary school. You set up that women either like to be harassed or are in denial about it. When challenged, you are like…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 11:55 AM
1	Is 'Toxic Masculinity' even real? Toxic masculinity is just a category of gender roles and trying to enforce them But people love to redefine this term so much to fit any argument they want, that it's basically lost its meaning now. Basically if try to tell to that someone is not being a "real [insert gender]" your practicing it. At least my take. "A real man should pay for all the meals" "A real women should strive to look attractive" Same shit. Everyone just loves complaining how [insert vague demographic] is the reason for th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 10:48 AM
4	Is 'Toxic Masculinity' even real? Well guys say they don't like workplace injuries, but they still do it. Hmmm... I even have studies to prove that men like workplace injuries more than women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 10:20 AM
2	Is 'Toxic Masculinity' even real? "All men are gay, anyone who claims otherwise is in denial" Damm I'm so fucking clever, my IQ is in four digits, oh yea. Argument won. Statement = Fact. Flawless logic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/21 10:16 AM
1	Men of Reddit - Have you ever met an FDS-oriented woman irl? Women of Reddit - Have you ever met a redpilled man irl? How did the interactions go for you all? kept telling me he was an "alpha" Becouse if he didn't, there would be no way of knowing, lol. Something inherently funny about people who need to insist to everyone that they are "unironicly alpha". Even funnier when their defintion af "alpha" involves doing exacly what somene on internet told them to do to apear so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/21 03:34 PM
1	Men of Reddit - Have you ever met an FDS-oriented woman irl? Women of Reddit - Have you ever met a redpilled man irl? How did the interactions go for you all? Just because it's normal doesn't mean it's good. It sounds good on paper, but it's basically a sweeter sounding symptom of "men should be expected to have more money/women are not to be trusted with money" misogynistic attitude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/21 02:30 PM
2	Obese women (SMV 2/10) are now on the same level as healthy weight average men (SMV 4-6/10) when it comes to online dating. When and how did this happen? I’m basically just agreeing with OP. Fat girls hell ugly girl Think they’re SMV is higher than what it is Whatever, OP is splattered on guys equivalent of the wall. Anyone younger than OP have choice dating their age or someone who is for some reason still single at fourty. 9/10 they are single for a reason. And even if they not, most people like dating their age anyway. Doubt OP is looking for anyone above his age though, based his gym attention deficit talk. People who are single at that age e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/21 12:45 PM
3	Obese women (SMV 2/10) are now on the same level as healthy weight average men (SMV 4-6/10) when it comes to online dating. When and how did this happen? What I mean is that before fat girls were gassed up, they would appreciate an above average guy that takes care of him self and other things besides looks Well that's for them for decide. Appreciation, at least in my experience, is often not rational. Just because you think fit and taking care of yourself are good qualities, it's doesn't necessarily mean they are looking for them. Maybe they ain't even looking for shag or relationship. "Dating down" to feel better about themselves is a common oc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/21 11:54 AM
6	Obese women (SMV 2/10) are now on the same level as healthy weight average men (SMV 4-6/10) when it comes to online dating. When and how did this happen? You would think because their fat they would appreciate someone that is in shape. Imagine if a women expected you to appreciate her becouse she had better make up than you. Not everyone gives a shit about stuff that you find important, nor you are owed apreciation for hard work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/21 08:09 AM
2	How cana man be okay with a woman paying for him, on the daily basis? You mena the women were exchanged Well in a way, well, I dunno if it realy possible to summarize in short way as it is a rather deep dive into that kinda aspect. It's not one sided when it comes to liberties. Not as simple as oppressor vs oppressed. The one example I can remember is the early kingdoms of Ireland. Like where women were in a sense 'owned', but then also if the man fails to protect women he 'owns' in any way, there are significant repercussions for the man to extent where it might …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/21 08:08 PM
2	How cana man be okay with a woman paying for him, on the daily basis? "Live and let live" To live along that rule would mean not teaching your kids what you believe is right. Nor calling out when they do wrong. It's a good principle to strive for, but it's not infallible. A lot principles like sound good, but they start getting muddy in details and nuance. Does you not buying an item from the shop because you consider shopkeeper disagreeable, is that a personal choice or are you indirectly harming someone by discriminating? If you have a stable traditional family …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/21 06:12 PM
5	How cana man be okay with a woman paying for him, on the daily basis? Even though it's a bit of a meme to bring up nowadays, female scientists and researchers often had a male academic to publish their research. If even science didn't treat you seriously without a penis, pretty sure other aspects weren't better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/21 05:51 PM
3	How cana man be okay with a woman paying for him, on the daily basis? Speaking specifics I'm actually currently reading a book " Debt: First 5000 years". It's a book about anthropology of economic debt, not feminism. But it's has some great examples how in multiple cultures women are often used as status signifier and/or as currency for "honour". It's an amazing read regardless of your take in this aspect though. If you are actually interested I could give some concrete examples for these kinda historical facts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/21 05:44 PM
2	How cana man be okay with a woman paying for him, on the daily basis? I'm hostile because it's a personal issue to me. Gender traditionalist narrative has created significant issues for me in my life and you are arguing for it. It's the same narrative that advocates against LGBT rights in my own country. It's the same narrative that fights against my possibility to get legally married in my own country and enjoy the privileges and protections that come with it. It's the same narrative that's makes me either engage in work place misogyny or to be treated as less co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/21 05:32 PM
4	How cana man be okay with a woman paying for him, on the daily basis? I don't want all these rights, show me where to sign and I'll sign out this wretched feminism in a wink. Move to UAE or something then. Also if you so against feminism, you should take a lession of hardline traditional gender roles and let men do the talking. After all that was the norm before feminism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/21 03:54 PM
1	How cana man be okay with a woman paying for him, on the daily basis? It's just role reversed version the incel "traditional femine woman must be submissive, brainded doll" sexism. OP is the defintion of what old school feniminim would concider "tool of the patriachy".	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/21 03:45 PM
1	How cana man be okay with a woman paying for him, on the daily basis? How can not he feel emasculated, forced in a traditional female's role? And what is that "traditional female" role exactly?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/21 03:26 PM
3	Women Denying Sex in an LTR is a Huge Double Standard But society isn’t benefited by the growing legions of desperate men who’ll do almost anything to gain access to vagina Yea sure ... Any time you ask them if they would have sex with an obese women or escort, 90% say no. Men here exhibit same 80/20 as women, they just pretend 80 part doesn't exist. When you ask what would they actually do to get pussy, answers are usually just snarky excuses. You can't fix problems outside your control, so if you argue that problem are indeed outside your control…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/21 05:25 AM
8	Which pill explains what I noticed on datingoverthirty? It's wack how society is like: coerce someone into one night stand = cool and brag worthy, having one night stand somome who clearly wants it = trashy. If women overtly wanting sex is considered trashy by most of the normative society, no wonder the narrative of women not being clear with their intentions and only "dropping hints" is gonna dovelop. It's almost morbidly funny how olden boomers complain about their wives not being open about sex and dead bedrooms, only couple minutes later to goss…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/21 06:50 AM
2	In your life, how high is "getting fe/male attention" ranked in terms of importance? What things in life do you consider more important than getting fe/male attention? One relevant way you can answer this is by asking: of all the self-improvement you do in life, what is the ultimate end-goal you hope to achieve via this improvement? That's literally the goal for me. It makes me feel accomplished and happy that I'm a better than I was before. Everything else, including relationships, is to facilitate that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/21 10:51 AM
2	Ironically, PPD has the same view of male sexuality as Pink Pill Feminism does. Why did you post this, besides venting your outrage? I get the aspect of getting annoyed with interacting with people who are set in their opinion and refusing to budge. But your post is not great argument material nor it's really gonna change anybody's mind. For arguments sake, it's just bad practice to take the worst views of the "opposition" and present that as opposing position. Every community has nutters and trolls, and with some research any community can be painted in bad light. It's not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/21 04:17 PM
2	Pick Mes are not the female equivalent of Beta Simps They say no 50/50 because men almost never hold up their end of the bargain in other ways. That always confused me tbh, why even call it 50/50 if someone is not doing their part. My take on the concept was always that the 50/50 is a split of effort put into first and foremost. What's the point of describing an obviously one-sided relationship, call it a 50/50 and then say that 50/50 is bad? Why not just call out bad behaviour directly? I might be biased though as I primarily date same sex , so a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/21 02:29 PM
5	Pick Mes are not the female equivalent of Beta Simps If a man wants a financially equal relationship, he better be shouldering his fair share of “female” responsibilities. Doesn't FDS advocate against that? Or am misunderstanding the whole "no 50/50" sentiment?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/21 05:49 AM
2	Am i a man Why do you want to act like a man? I don't mean it as a rhetorical question, you should try to answer that. Acting like a man is not gonna fix your problems, couse acting like a man usually means acting in a way other people want their idealised imaginary version of man to act. It's just basically acting like other people want you to, with an padding of justification. I think first and foremost you should act how you want. Nobody else should decide what should you do, couse if they do, you gonna…	/r/MensRights	27/03/21 09:10 AM
3	Q4All: What do you think of this quote about opposite sex friendships? Right, like if you just go for women based on “pretty” rather than actually attempting to understand them and seeing if you have compatible personalities, common interests etc... then don’t be surprised if you guys don’t have much to talk about. In this situation she probably also finds YOU boring lol. (It doesn’t necessarily mean either of you actually are boring; just that you’d both be better suited to someone else) If I wasn't redditing at work I would've probably added some nuance to it tbh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/21 04:32 PM
41	Q4All: What do you think of this quote about opposite sex friendships? As a bi person I have no friends, everytime I try to make some, I just end up having sex 🥺😭😟 Shit posting aside, I think gender doesn't decide friendships, it's just sometimes you have to make it clear that romantic interest is not there. Since most people are straight, that's already implied with same gender friendships. And they talk to their male friends about sports, and I have no idea what else. Women, on the other hand, are dying to be friends with men. Women know they don’t understand men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/21 09:11 AM
2	Female Dating Strategy How did women working in munition factories during WW2 advocate against men rights? Unless you define women working a previously ”man job” as not feminism?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/21 11:55 AM
3	Female Dating Strategy If you enough people dislike something, you can pass a law for that. Like punishment for murder, or making sex between two men illegal, or forcing to not teach about contraception. There is a difference between not wanting to date someone, and advocating against something. People tend to advocate against stuff they don't like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/21 11:51 AM
3	Female Dating Strategy No one hijacked it though, it morphed into that. Its not like feminism didn't hold anti male views before hand or anything. Hmm not sure if agree. Atleast from what read, though that is limited. Patriarchy used to be defined as institutions and systems limiting women's power and equality. Which is while at the time was filled with men, it wasn't nessecary criticism against men as gender themselves. A nuiance easily omitted. A lot of early feminism criticises women being part of patriarchy. By th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/21 11:45 AM
3	Female Dating Strategy The thing of idealising masculine men and berating femine qualities in men, just reinforces old age idea of ”masculinity good and feminity is bad”. Also whole approach to the dating strategy on FDS is almost indistinguishable from what dating was before feminism. Making yourself a good enough prize for someone else. It's almost weird how many users define themselves based on who they date first and foremost. The conflation of "bad dates for women = bad people” particularly harmful one. As soon a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/21 11:25 AM
1	Female Dating Strategy Yes feminism is about destroying men (they are the patriarchy). I think it depends what definition of feminism you use. I'm still sticking with the old school definition, though term itself nowadays is hijacked with far simpler and easier to digest narrative of ”man - bad, women - good”	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/21 09:28 AM
-2	Female Dating Strategy Thanks for posting this! I was about to post something similar, just wasn't sure how to word it. The sub has so much of sort of ”covert dislike" for queerness. Like anytime there is a post about a man being bi, it's almost amusing how a lot of posters try to paint bi man as bad and as the same time try not to sound bigoted. "In my personal experience... (Insert a bi stereotype). And all the plugging of "ovaritt" as a ”safe space for women to talk”. The one thinks that really confused me though i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/21 09:22 AM
4	Female Dating Strategy Feminist subs don't advocate traditional gender norms, like man being provider and the women being the ”prize”. Literally one of the main points of FDS narrative is to advocate against 50/50 , because ... well men don't do chores. Feminist is about destroying patriachy, FDS seems to be about exploiting patriachy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/21 09:00 AM
1	I think lot of people only pursue dating because of social pressure. Not understanding the point doesn't make incoherent. If there aspects of it that are beyond understanding, nobody stops you asking for clarification. I’d recommend googling "arguing in good faith". This might make it easier to understand some the points I was making in retrospect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/21 07:55 AM
1	I think lot of people only pursue dating because of social pressure. True, I could just surrender to prejudice and misconceptions and blissfully wallow in ignorance. That seems to be exactly what are you doing right now. I get it, facts trigger you, that's why you couldn't answer why the meme of men being unnecessary is so popular with women. I did answer the question, you just choose to ignore my answer, and not address it in any way. It's uncomfortable and it destroys your narrative. It's natural to become defensive in light of that. Illogical but natural, espe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/21 06:04 AM
1	I think lot of people only pursue dating because of social pressure. That's exactly what I meant with my previous reply. Cool you won your argument. Does that fill you with happiness inside? What do your think, your gonna gain by ”being right”. Not much. You not really improved your argument after this convo, couse your deflected every claim. My take why these books are popular? Everyone likes having a scapegoat for the problems. Some people use the gays, some the blacks, some the immigrants. I often like the government one, or society norms. You seem to like usi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/21 10:12 PM
1	How attractive or unattractive does everyone imagine the users of FDS are? black women’s style of discourse And what that would include?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/21 05:20 PM
1	I think lot of people only pursue dating because of social pressure. Have you tried to talk to people without assuming that you right before even starting a convo? It's sounds like you literally arguing to win an argument, and not to actually engage with other person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/21 05:09 PM
3	I think lot of people only pursue dating because of social pressure. Anyone who doesn't want to have sex with me is asexual	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/21 04:42 PM
0	Do people realize that complaining about being lonely,incel,ugly, lack of options etc. is a turn off to most people? Send me your dick pick then, unless, yea not into that kind of attention Edit: yet to receive, add your address while at it, so I can post it, unless not all attention	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/21 01:22 PM
1	Do people realize that complaining about being lonely,incel,ugly, lack of options etc. is a turn off to most people? You are framing any attention as positive when it's not. Hell most of unsolicited attention from men I would call negative. Most women I know would spend money to not to receive unsolicited attention from simps and like. Being depressed and getting dick pic from a guy with no boundaries talking how he would fuck you so hard, and threatening with physical violence if you say no, it's not the attention most people crave for. I find it amusing how people here complain about 80/20 rule, and so may…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/21 01:17 PM
0	What really is the "spark"? Shared life goals and motivation to pursue them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/21 10:30 AM
1	Don’t wait for the male BC pill, men can take control of their reproductive system right now - get a Vasectomy! People not revolving their entire lives about sex would be even better. People get to the point where they think that not having sex makes them worthless as a person. Also coincidentally, perfect consumer and addict simp marketed products.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/21 10:19 AM
1	Do people realize that complaining about being lonely,incel,ugly, lack of options etc. is a turn off to most people? That sounds true untill you start dating people. Relationships and sex is so glorified nowadays that people sometimes budge to social pressure and get into toxic relationships, just so they can look like they are doing better in life. Also the you bring up that women can get male partners whenever they want. Guys can do it too. Get some money and go to trailer park or local highway bridge, can guarantee you have no difficulty to find "admirers" that will date you. Unless you have higher standard…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/21 09:48 AM
5	Over the years, men have become more feminine and women have become more masculine - how has this impacted modern dating and relationships? Has it been a good or bad thing? I think the whole femininity vs masculinity is starting to lose their meaning and just are used as scapegoats to justify whatever narrative people find convenient for themselves. I had people literally just dm me or repply to me just to tell "I'm very maculine, here is list of proof". Like what kinda definition of straight masculinity involves telling an obvious f@gg@t that you are masculine. Although not gonna lie I find that entertaining. I always assumed masculinity is not giving a fuck what …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/21 07:25 PM
1	Are men as a whole getting an increasingly feminized writing style on social media? the gender of the writer with more than 50% accuracy. It's literally not possible to create a predictor that performs worse than 50% in this kinda "coin toss" scenario. That's sounds like a literal statistical non claim.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/21 09:21 PM
1	Why does marriage kill sex drive? My take: people just get old and old people just have less sex drive. That compounded with people marrying later and less just creates illusion of correlation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/21 01:25 PM
4	Weekly Community Chat Megathread I look even worse with makeup. Impressive feat tbh. Not to be too braty about it, but have you tried less is more kinda thing? Beauty industry realy likes to tell people that you should use as much as you can, for obvious reasons. And then you get people who think you can't start applying make up without putting foundation on entire face.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/21 07:49 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Unfortunately that's not how motorbikes work, you just end up running into bunch other guys with interest in bikes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/21 06:02 AM
3	Would you be in a relationship with a guy knowing it doesn't have a long-term future? Some people are just insecure about that kinda stuff, so they have to assert otherwise. I have people reply defending their masculinity unprompted, just becouse of my username. Usualy I'm not even talking about anything related.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/21 10:02 AM
11	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Feminist: "women want sex just as much as men do" Ok then let's have sex right now Wanting have sex =/= wanting to have sex with specific person	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/21 09:50 AM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread Well I don't mind elaboration then. I took your comment as a common the take of "moderate and balanced views are closer to correct / more likely to be correct, compared to extreme, insular views". If you mean something else, I'm curious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/21 12:53 PM
1	Weekly Community Chat Megathread I think the "truth on the middle" is a silly concept. It alows a lazy take of thinking that there are two sides and everyone is somewhere on that line inbetween those two. There is a reason enlightened centrist memes of "what if we abort half of the babies" exists. It's more than two sides to every debate, and the more sides someone is aware and have understanding of, the better grasp of big picture they gonna have. Fuck, maybe one day some big brain reditor is gonna collect all pills and grasp …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/21 09:16 AM
1	Should you base your entire self worth on how much romantic/sexual attention you get? Should every self improvement you do be done solely to attract the opposite sex? A male's sexual success is everything. There is no better metric to measure worth,... If something is "everything", pretty sure everything else is nothing. Sounds rather clear to me here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/21 02:09 PM
1	Should you base your entire self worth on how much romantic/sexual attention you get? Should every self improvement you do be done solely to attract the opposite sex? Might be true, but that isn't what the guy I replied claims to. He is claiming that value is based on procreation. He seems to be claiming that anyone who doesn't procreate is worthless. Which is bs, becouse if that was true, I could get away hiring those kinda people work for me for free. After all, if they are worthless so is their labour.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/21 01:45 PM
1	Should you base your entire self worth on how much romantic/sexual attention you get? Should every self improvement you do be done solely to attract the opposite sex? To add, IMO you can exist for whatever reason you want and judge your legacy by your own reasoning. Definition of legacy is vague, some people don't even care if they are completely forgot, if they deemed they did impact that mattered, even if its just according to them. The dumm thing to do though is to set your own goal, and dedicate yourself to proving its unachievable, instead of pursuing it. Either try harder or pick a different goal in my opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/21 10:47 AM
1	Should you base your entire self worth on how much romantic/sexual attention you get? Should every self improvement you do be done solely to attract the opposite sex? "I know stuff. Source: me. "	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/21 10:39 AM
1	Should you base your entire self worth on how much romantic/sexual attention you get? Should every self improvement you do be done solely to attract the opposite sex? So is hand drill or a car - evolutionary failure, very unlikely to pass their genes after all. So yea let's use this more narrow definition of the word, to make a point I guess that cars and hammers are a failure?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/21 10:36 AM
1	Should you base your entire self worth on how much romantic/sexual attention you get? Should every self improvement you do be done solely to attract the opposite sex? There is no other reason to self improve. So you basicly saying that all your value should be defined by someone else? Like for a lack of better word, you are basicly claiming you're a tool, and so should be everyone else? "I'm miserable nihilistic and therefore all others should follow" Yea I dunno, I'm not much into being miserable, especially by choice. evolutionary end goal. Yea sure, what is that goal then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/21 10:29 AM
7	The problem with nice guys is that no one wants to think of themselves as "not nice". and nice guys tend to also lack personality traits Exactly. You only call someone nice, if there is no other quality you can think of to complement with. It's flavourless of flavours.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/21 12:51 PM
5	Is it possible for women/men to have strictly platonic friends of the opposite sex? Would you consider dating a girl with a lot of guy friends, and vice versa? relationship stuff with a woman Yea thanks, but I'll pass. My point is about making friends where dating is not the goal. Even if there is sexual tension, there is no reason for platonic turn to romantic if you are sensible about it. coming from a soy Femboy. Bait username working as intended.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/21 10:57 AM
5	Is it possible for women/men to have strictly platonic friends of the opposite sex? Would you consider dating a girl with a lot of guy friends, and vice versa? The settling for friendship sounds such a weird thing to me. Being friends counting as objectively worse to relationship. I know a lot of people think that though, especially when in comes to opposite gender. For me its like different categories. I met plenty of people who I would want to be in relationship with, but would not want to have as friends or vice versa. I would go as far as saying that good friendship > mediocre relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/21 09:08 AM
6	Is it possible for women/men to have strictly platonic friends of the opposite sex? Would you consider dating a girl with a lot of guy friends, and vice versa? only reason Shared interests and hobbies is not good enouth reason?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/21 08:37 AM
1	Yes FDS is a little cringe rn but the jewelry isn’t the issue When first time I ran into FDS I was super intrigued, becouse, while not exactly the demoragraphic intended (being a feminine gay guy), I was like, shit there might some useful advice for dating guys that doesn't just facilitate a shag. Some advice is actually super good and essential for people to know, especially regarding abuse. But sadly a lot of it just got drowned out by takes that are just.. terrible. Like praising toxic masculinity, becouse in that situation happens to be beneficial to t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/21 10:24 PM
1	Women age like wine, men like milk My point was that being in straight relationship so damm common for closeted people, that "I can't be gay, I have (insert opposite gender) " mean very little. Disliking opposite gender doesn't mean gay, but when you loathe how much better your own gender is... Might be relying too much on my personal experience here, spent too much of my youth confused why anyone would even consider dating 98% of women. Seems so oblivious in hindsight. But hey, thought it was funny to point out. I don't troll mu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/21 09:45 PM
2	Women age like wine, men like milk So are half of the guys on grindr are married too. I'm not offended, I'm just actually think you might be at least bi. Straight people tend to have inherent bias for the gender they are attracted. Hey, the society does realy push that lesbianism is not a real thing, surprising many women think they are straight till very late in life. But if yea trollin, props on good one though, seems to ruffled many feathers here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/21 08:46 PM
3	Women age like wine, men like milk You should skip that weird "men suck bit" and just come out of the closet already.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/21 08:37 PM
3	Yes FDS is a little cringe rn but the jewelry isn’t the issue FDS is not about dating advice. I challenge you to find dating advice post in there. It might've been that at some point, but it's basicly rad fem circlejerk at this date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/21 08:10 PM
1	Fact It definetly is for sure. I was just phrasing it in context of the first guy I replied to in this thread, who was complaining about "mere crumbs of validation" incels receive compared to "others".	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/21 09:32 AM
1	Fact Becouse you should have multiple sourses of validation ideally. Your love interest, your family, your friend circle, your work environment etc. If your validation comes only from your romantic relationship, yea not gonna do well. That's my point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/21 06:46 AM
1	Fact All fun and games untill breakup. Which happens to most relationships. Good luck when that happens and the only person you know is your ex, bound to go swimmingly I bet. Monogamy is not an excuse to not make friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/21 06:34 AM
1	Fact Prob should've added "solely" for clarity. Validation within relationship is great and expected. But people who expect validation only in context of relationship, they seem to either never end up in relationship or they just implode after first break up becouse all this validation cycle becomes hate cycle and they have no alternative validation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/21 12:08 PM
0	Hot women are all privately radfem-ish There is no such thing as a hot women. Man is a superior creature in all aspects including attractiveness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/21 06:30 AM
5	Fact Bros before hoes, but unironicly. If you validation comes from dating world, you are in for a rough ride. Having a friend circle as support network is so much better, than trying to get one single person to do it. Basicly not putting all your mental health eggs in one basket.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/21 06:20 AM
1	Men and women can be friends, the only reason you don’t think so is because you aren’t willing to be friends with someone you aren’t sexually attached to. It's easier to become friends when ulterior motives are literally impossible vs unlikely. If you were having a car ride with a stranger, and you get to pick from someone who is definitely not a serial killer, or someone who has a 1% chance to be one, choise is obvious, even though 99% of the time there is no difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/20 02:54 PM
2	By far the biggest problem in dating today is that young women largely don’t seem to realize that they will get old one day and will not be getting nearly as much attention from men and no this does not go both ways. I have data to prove it too. You define your value based on someone else. It's just admitting that you think you are worthless on your own, with extra steps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/20 01:10 PM
2	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread Also would add biphobia, just by the sheer prevalence of it. Any post just mentioning bi is gonna be filled with "bi are cheaters", "bi are secretly gay", "bi are only bi because of porn consumption" The most funny one for me is justification for not going 50/50 relationships is because they don't exist as men are not capable of contribute enough to have one. I haven't been there for a while but last time I checked there is barely anything there relating to dating maybe one of every 10 posts or …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/20 01:08 PM
2	By far the biggest problem in dating today is that young women largely don’t seem to realize that they will get old one day and will not be getting nearly as much attention from men and no this does not go both ways. I have data to prove it too. sad fucking guy is gonna marry a 30yr old woman for his first marriage lol wtf Says more about you, than you could explain in a paragraph. Not everyone defines their self-worth by appearances of their love interest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/20 12:45 PM
5	Feminist shaming tactics needlessly cause lasting sexual repression or guilt in a subset of men most sympathetic to feminist concerns. Mainstream feminism nowadays is all about mass appeal and spectacle. Mass appeal to wealthy middle class women, so they have money to spend while having a pointless political bone to chew on. You never hear those concerns, you listed, bounced around articles. Actually getting concerned about them can get you condemned for "not appreciating foreign cultural norms". Mainstream feminist offers a political concern to people, that fights for very little. Keeps economicly active women politicly tame a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/20 06:56 AM
2	Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocialized Saying that fashionable and fitting clothes and haircut are "spending thousands of dollars to pretend you're something you're not" is a bit of a stretch though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/20 03:27 PM
1	Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocialized I knew a guy who did male make up. Most men/women i knew thought it was gay. Discrete make up and covering your face with make up is very different things. There are plenty of people who think fake tan and bleached hair is cool. Discreet make up is almost invisible. If people can tell that you are wearing discreet make up, yea fucked up on it. dressing most guys that have self respect already do that Yea no lol, most of guys don't even know how to tell if a shirt or pants fits them, and the on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/20 01:27 PM
0	Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocialized Nobody, besides your insecurity stops you using make up. I use it myself, for interviews and important occasions to hide my dark rings around the eyes due irregular sleep. Nobody asks you to put on lipstick. A lot of people who are good looking put attention to how they look, skincare, haircare, dressing etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/20 12:36 PM
1	Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocialized Any examples of those options that ugly women have that ugly men don't?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/20 11:47 AM
-1	Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocialized If your resume is bad - improve it. Yet when that point get made, half of people take as personal insult.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/20 10:01 AM
-3	Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocialized You not getting gaslighted. You just being made fun off. Nobody is forcing you take someones personal experience for gospel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/20 09:54 AM
0	Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocialized It's designed to make you look better. If you aim isn't to look better, nobody is forcing you to "waste money". Yes looks are superficial, that's kinda the point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/20 09:26 AM
5	Many men here overestimate the importance of attractiveness over personality because they are undersocialized Get a hobby. You want a hobby where you run into same strangers regularly. Gym is a good one becouse people tend to exercise roughly in their usual times. After you run into same person enouth times they or you might say hello, strike up convo. Hard bit done, now just keep doing it till you made a friend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/20 09:16 AM
3	What is the point of marriage? Intentionally not having friends is one of dummest life choises you can make. Friends is a safety net that alows someone to deal with the worst bits in life without turning into an adict or a nutter. You gonna get wronged by people all the time OP, you need to learn how to deal with that in a healthy way. And it deffo gets harder to get friends later, school and college is a place where you take having access to loads of strangers for granted. End up with a small job in small town with no hobbie…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/20 08:51 AM
1	The nature of the other gender Unfortunately, since the social sciences are dominated by women I wouldn't expect there to be such a study coming out any time soon. Why do you think so? Why would that effect what kinda studies come out from women dominated fields, vs men dominated fields?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/20 11:20 PM
1	The nature of the other gender In addition to that, I think a lot TRP misses on the bit of that trends don't nessarily imply cousations or conclusions. Most of science follows "bottom up" approach, where data is collected, analysed and minor conclusion made, that is repeated untill all that together can help you come up with bigger conclusions. Conclusion are always last. Pseudoscience often is "top down". Conclusions are first. Simple, obvious explations for a range of phenomena. And the data is collected trends looked at st…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/20 10:15 AM
3	The nature of the other gender Pretty much my take too. While nature exists, its not the main factor that overrides logic and general personalities of people. Its an influencing factor, not a driving factor. There seems to be very little objectivity to RP to me. It seems it's a static conclusion, and "objectivity" is more of a way to cherry pick to prop it up. Too many times I run into the most minor proof of general difference between sexes, you get a truckload of RP just assumed to be true in all cases.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/20 10:04 AM
1	The nature of the other gender I know it's anecdotical evidence, but I can't take this claim seriously, since one of my relatives is in this exact kinda relationship, you describe as impossible, for like 20 years now. I think, you putting cousation where there only is correlation. Pretty sure people are cheating and divorcing more not becouse of salarries. I dunno, like for example marriage is way less serious now. Back in the day kids outside marriage was a complete tabboo. But yea totes salaries.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/20 09:37 AM
7	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread Uhmm, that is a f*cking projection and a half. This kinda careless advice can be really damaging to people. Speaking as someone who been on the receiving end of some of this bs. Gender disphoria is a rather specific issue, not like general sentiment, vibe or gender frustration.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/20 06:49 AM
1	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread Uhm that sounds like lack of initiative and social aptitude, rather than gendered trait. If you want to have random convos, you need put in effort in starting up a convo and maintain it, not wait to be aproched.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/20 06:35 AM
1	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread How does that make it harder? Like yea, sometimes you have to talk the way you don't prefer. Big deal. I have a particular sarcy/blunt way of talking sometimes. Which is not appropriate when talking to clients at work. Adjusting your style of conversation to suit context seems like an important skill to have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/20 02:59 PM
1	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread I think FDS can have potential of being a good subreddit, but after big bans seems like a lot of GC and radfem crowd finding home there. It does a lot good things, which not many subredits don't dare to do. Especially on calling out shit/abusive relationships. How ever it kinda is attracting a lot of toxic people, who come there for the circle jerk 'man bad' stuff. The thing I find the most peculiar is promoting toxic masculinity. And complaing then complaing about it. Same with gender stereotyp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/20 12:42 PM
2	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread It's not really. Names and surnames and middle names are so much more to remember, so a single pronoun is not that hard. Regardless of your beliefs. It's like people ask to be referred a shorter name for convenience, like Catherine asking to be called Kate. I don't concider that rude. Whether that's right or wrong to ask for is a different question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/20 12:22 PM
0	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread Sounds more like your own bias to me. If wanted to be edgy here, I could accuse you of "projection".	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/20 10:24 AM
2	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread Pushing men to study, work hard and 'be ambitious' while providing them with no real benefits for this effort. Isn't that a benefit in itself? What kinda other benefits do you think should be as result of that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/20 10:07 AM
1	Incel, Feminism and FDS megathread They do exist, however like with any political stances, the more nuance, the less audience there is. Simple politics views are easier to digest, therfore they are more prominent in media. For example why analyse the specific details of wage gap if you can just: "man - dollar; woman 72 cents". Outrage is always better convo starter than a wall of text.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/20 10:02 AM
2	Because it's OK to repeatedly physically assault a person who rejects your sexual advances.. as long as you are a woman Sounds like a possible explanation, though there plenty other ways to explain it. But I see what you mean.	/r/MensRights	03/09/20 10:43 AM
12	Because it's OK to repeatedly physically assault a person who rejects your sexual advances.. as long as you are a woman How... Uhm what? That's a very weird conclusion to jump to based solely on the clip.	/r/MensRights	03/09/20 10:10 AM
1	How do lesbian women and gay men fit into the RP theory? Definitely agree on they don't bit. But I wouldn't say its off topic. It provides essential context between the generalisations of 'All women...' vs All straight women...'. And vice versa for other sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/20 09:27 AM
1	Why do women give men advice that's counterproductive to attracting them? It's an empty advice. It's like saying 'don't shit yourself during the date'.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/20 05:39 AM
1	If have to option to re-chose your own gender since you were born, would you change your gender or would you keep your gender? It is definitely a question of extent though. An anecdotal example, but one of best friends from uni 'would not shag a chick without a fit ass'. Pretty sure there are plenty of similar cases of shalowness, especially within fuckboi subset.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/20 09:18 PM
3	Living a bluepilled life of ignorance is better than living with the harsh reality of RedPill truths It'll collapse back in on itself eventually. This isn't the first society in the world to experience the so-called 'sexual revolution', or dealing with the liberation of gender roles, etc. Same thing happened in the USSR. Same thing happened during the last half of the Roman Empire. The cycle constantly repeats itself. Well that sounds like vague conflation to me. Just because it happened at same time, it doesn't mean the have correlation. Especially since either of those had a very clear outsid…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/20 04:01 PM
2	If have to option to re-chose your own gender since you were born, would you change your gender or would you keep your gender? Stay male. While there are aspects of male social roles that are not great, same is for female side. Getting pregnant is hassle. Also on the last paragraph, it some cherry picking going on. Saying that men can find regardless of the stuff, and women get hung up on height and penis size is a meme. Obviously you get women who do that, but pretending that shallow guys won't find tits and ass a deal breaker is some wilful ignorance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/20 03:46 PM
5	Living a bluepilled life of ignorance is better than living with the harsh reality of RedPill truths Ah fair, my bad for skim reading, Though, even if true in technicality, I would argue, that it is not very useful as a basis, especially when it comes to intergender dynamics. As IMO its only a contributor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/20 03:15 PM
5	Living a bluepilled life of ignorance is better than living with the harsh reality of RedPill truths Life as in nature exists only to replicate genes to continue life. Well technically correct, but so is the fact that life is driven by photosynthesis. Either is not really helpful as basis to healthy socialisation IMO. Also 'as in nature' is garbage argument, course that does imply that it's more correct in some way if its natural. Cholera is natural, air conditioning is not. A man falls in love with the sight of a woman but learns to appreciate her and has a willingness to provide and sacrifice…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/20 02:54 PM