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Every guy in the world has seen the women he grew up with lust after much older guys and actively hate on men their age starting as soon as they hit college. Women in their early to mid 20s have no interest in being broke or bored, and will always prefer the older men with money who can offer them a good time, a good lifestyle, and advice for how to get started in life. They may not settle down with the older guy, but they'll fuck his brains out and have their fun with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:32 PM
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Yeah, here's the thing: most people--men and women--in real life don't think like that. But a TON of men (and I would wager only men) think like that here. I think you're out of touch. Browse any of the relationship subreddits for a while and you'll see lots of women posting about their partners being into women that aren't the type of women they are. "My husband is into blondes and I'm not blonde", "my husband likes petite women and I'm not petite", "my husband is into big tits and I'm small", …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:16 PM
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"Every woman my boyfriend has ever slept with was a petite Asian gym bunny and I'm just an average white office worker. Should I be worried about him settling for me?" "OMG shut up and stop being so toxic. You're just viewing your partner as a piece of meat. Stop caring about his sexual history like it's some scoreboard for you to use for your own vanity"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:59 PM
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You're the man and there isn't a single group in existence that doesn't place the entire burden of being the breadwinner on you, so it really doesn't matter what her job and income is. You will never get the option of not working unless you strike it rich yourself. If she's happy then the box is checked. If she's one of those women who's hung up on her career and angry or combative with you about it, move on. She's not worth the trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:30 PM
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"Women fuck physically attractive men immediately and deliberately avoid sex with men who have 'deeper qualities' until months have passed. That's how the men with 'deeper qualities' pass on their genes. By having less sex." It's amazing the bullshit people will spew and expect others to believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:30 PM
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You aren't willing to change your view though. That's why you're putting up such resistance to basic common sense. If someone has their senses heavily dulled they obviously need more stimulation to reach orgasm. The idea that stimulation beyond simple penetration may be necessary is apparently common sense to you when it comes to regular women and their need for vibrators, yet you're deliberately trying to avoid applying that same logic to men who have been the victims of genital mutilation. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:19 PM
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So, like I said, you just really, really want that to be the answer and have completely closed your mind to everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:28 PM
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When someone has most of the sensitivity in their penis cut away at birth they need more stimulation to get off. That's why anal is so popular in the US and why guys jackhammer. It was like this long before porn, and is the simplest and most rational explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:31 PM
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You seem like you want that to be the answer so much that you ignore literally every other reason for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:01 PM
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Add religious hangups about sex as well. Also, not to get all divisive, but I'm guessing the women who complain about guys just jackhammering away are sleeping with circumcised guys who have had most of the sensitivity in their penises cut away and need to jackhammer to feel anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:17 AM
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Women do this all the time as well. They don't approach, so they'll befriend a guy and sit there for years dropping hints and hoping he 'gets it' until they either find someone else or have an angry outburst at him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:21 PM
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If anyone needs to be treated like an idiot child, or expects this sort of treatment from their partner, they're too immature to be having sex. Nothing good can come from stepping into that minefield. Find a more experienced partner who knows what they're doing and doesn't need to go through this nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:34 PM
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If you want dating advice from angry fat women in their 40s who were never able to settle down and find partners, it's the subdreddit for you. Their personalities are uglier than their outsides likely are, and the content is a great example of behaviors to avoid if you actually want to find a good partner to settle down with and don't want to end up in their situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:34 AM
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Most porn stars aren't really that attractive. That's why they're porn stars and not models. They're often more towards the unattractive end, which is why they have the self esteem issues that drive them to do porn in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:27 AM
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A woman's education is only important if you need her money or, for some reason, her credentials to boost your ego or family's view of her. Most men who are successful want a woman who looks good, can hold a conversation, and is genuinely into them. Formal education and social status are some of the last things on the list for a genuinely successful man, and can be indicators of someone who is impossible to please and who will bail at the first sign of hard times.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:24 AM
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"I've fucked every woman you interact with on a daily basis. Your boss, Wilhemina Lumberg? She knows exactly what my O face looks like. You're cool with that, right?"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:35 PM
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A guy not wanting a woman who does the same is 'toxic' though, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:30 PM
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You speak as if you've never heard any woman ever say she just uses men for sex when she feels like it. I find it interesting that you'd mention fleshlights in reference to 'predatory and objectifying' sexuality when most women have at least one robot penis somewhere in the home.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:28 PM
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Every woman here lives in Saudi Arabia, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:17 PM
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So meaningless conjecture that follows her prejudice by the person who ran this flawed study, and not an actual study to discover anything with real data. What a shock.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:14 PM
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So a one-sided study that only focused on men with no corresponding study to see if women displayed the same behavior. A study literally showing them headless photos of bikini models, then wondering why those men don't see headless bodies as people. Sounds totally objective and definitely not designed from the start to prove a predetermined outcome at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:57 PM
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That sounds like nothing but projection from typical women who view men as simple beasts of burden with wallets attached.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:19 PM
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Did you even read my second paragraph? My first paragraph is commenting on the OP telling men to befriend women they'd like to fuck before approaching them romantically. That's what you're so upset about, so go reply to the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:52 AM
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What actually helps: befriending women not trying to impress each woman you meet (romantically) just because you're sexually attracted to them finding things that fulfill you, increasing happiness staying busy and increasing productivity educating yourself about varieties of topics And then get accused of 'pretending to be her friend just for sex' when you ask her out. Great plan. Definitely sounds like it won't lead to being labeled a manipulative creep and losing your entire social circle. Per…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:45 PM
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Jessica Alba Cameron Diaz Lucy Liu Alicia Keys Kristen Bell Morena Baccarin Sofia Vergara
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:08 PM
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Sounds like you just choose to hang around trashy men and are eager to paint all men with their behavior, OP
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 04:16 PM
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You can tell you're having a good faith conversation with someone when they toss out bullshit statements like those. High school exists, and people date there. People also date in college when they want relationships. What I'm saying is that people who want to hook up will do so when they're in college, as that's far, far easier than anything else when you're there, including being in a long-term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:48 PM
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And college is where you get that experience. There is no easier time to have random hookups with partners not interested in commitment than your college years. Everyone, male and female, knows this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:34 PM
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Any man who wants to sleep around would be doing so in college instead of having a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:27 PM
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Again though, that's just asking for literally any functional human being. She can be a cashier, a rocket scientist, a pop star, whatever. What she actually does for a living is irrelevant as long as it pays enough to live on, she's not always pissed off about it, and it's compatible with a monogamous relationship. Pretty much every working adult woman qualifies. Contrast that to women and their giant laundry lists of qualities their men must have that eliminate well over half of working men. Me…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:17 PM
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They only care about it because wanting a stay-at-home wife is considered regressive and sexist. Most women don't want to stay home and will want to work even if they don't have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:08 PM
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Most men, myself included, only look for the following criteria when it comes to a woman's job: Can she support herself doing it? Is she happy doing it? Does it follow the rules of society and of monogamous relationships? (i.e. no hookers or drug dealers) That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:48 PM
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But you're not providing any data on who's dating, only on who's married. Women looking to just have fun in their early 20s with no intention of settling down date much older men all the time. The 'ho phase' is one where they'll go with whoever shows them the best time and the fanciest toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:16 PM
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And yet you're claiming that men are diabolical evil geniuses out to manipulate the innocent incapable women who don't know any better. Which is it? Do women have their lives in order, or are they incapable children who are messing up their lives? As I said, you really just seem to hate men in general. You aren't having a discussion in good faith. How about age gap lesbian relationships? Are those 'predatory'?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:13 PM
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So she achieves her goal of spending her early 20s with someone who's established instead of someone broke and inexperienced her own age, which makes her somehow a victim? Any relationship can either succeed or fail. So either it succeeds and she settles down for life with a partner she wants, or it fails like any other relationship would with someone her own age and she's free to go find someone else she wants like anyone after a breakup. What does age matter here? And why are you so eager to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:08 PM
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So what you're saying is even women of older ages don't care about age, but they're just looking to attack men for not living up to their standards. A 27 year old man dating a 20 year old woman is an 'old fart' since there's such a huge difference physically between those ages, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:03 PM
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When you hang out with your friends and do stuff, are you always keeping track of what everyone contributes and making sure it's "a fair exchange" since your friendship is somehow inherently predatory? Or are you just hanging out and enjoying each other's company?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:52 PM
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I'm 38 and have been happily married for 11 years, but sure, I don't know anything about relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 06:43 PM
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Sure, nobody's called you one to your face, but with those definitions you posted I'm sure they're bombarding your partner constantly about how you getting what you want is just you being predatory and manipulative to achieve your own ends since you obviously don't care about anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:13 PM
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"Any relationship where a guy gets what he wants is predatory. The only non-predatory relationships are the boomer ones where the woman actively hates the man and he does everything possible to avoid going home to the old ball and chain, but they're somehow still together. Giving a man friendship, affection, sex, security, and trust is just making sure you're preyed upon, and those things aren't part of any healthy relationship."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:53 PM
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I know this may be hard for you to comprehend, but relationships aren't transactional. Relationships are two people who like each other getting together and enjoying life. You sound like you're looking to earn money with your vagina instead of your skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:50 PM
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20 year old woman doesn't care about age and wants to skip the early 20s "I'm fucking broke" stage of life and just get to the part where she's with an established guy. Redditors: He iS a pReDAtOr!!1!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:48 PM
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Most couples meet through friends. It's close to 40%. Second place is through work. I'm assuming you're still in college if you think most couples meet in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:30 AM
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Women will date older men in exactly the range older men are looking for: late teens and early to mid 20s. They settle down with guys their own age once the guys have reached that age though. Pretty much every woman from college on to about 26 looks down on men their own age and will aim for guys in their late 20s to early 30s who are 'established'. Men who don't have money, property, or extreme sex appeal in that age range will always lose out to the older guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:18 AM
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Most younger women don't hit on guys randomly. They get into relationships with them and manipulate them because women are far more socially adept than men of any age are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:24 PM
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This is a risk with literally anyone of any age though. There are lots of ways a younger person could manipulate or coerce an older person as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:16 PM
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But you still haven't proven that. None of your studies prove your point, and all of them disregard other factors that are more heavily linked to domestic violence, like religion and income levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:25 PM
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Except you haven't. Nothing in any of the studies you linked to actually supported your points. If anything it proved the opposite, as the younger party is usually the more violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:20 PM
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I'm not the one throwing around studies trying to prove anything here, you are. You keep referencing all sorts of studies which are supposedly widely available and prove what you're saying, so find some from this century. Google 'reduction in divorce rate' if you want to see what people born in the 80s and later are like when it comes to marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:16 PM
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And I'm not going to continue a conversation with somebody so desperate to feed their own victim complex that they infantilize fully grown adults. Good day to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:09 PM
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Because of course gravity has changed significantly over the 20th century. Your studies are useless because they're out of date. The people that make up your samples are all senior citizens or long dead now, and all adult marriage data from the last 30 years is excluded. Marriage and relationship trends of generation X and later are significantly different from everyone that came before. One only needs to look at the sharp reduction in the divorce rate between generations to see that. Find some …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:08 PM
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None of that is 'grooming'. As I've said, grooming can only happen to children. Adults can be manipulated, but it's not 'grooming'. Your article just outlines the typical abusive relationship process used by individuals, companies, cults, religious organizations, etc against people of all ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:03 PM
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First study: Everyone is pretty much equal except for age gaps of over 15 years, in which case the younger person is overwhelmingly more likely to initiate violence regardless of sex. Second study: Run in 1991, and was considered 10 years out of date even then. Third study: Using data from the 60s to the 90s, so again hopelessly out of date. Do you have anything from this century that actually proves your theory?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:00 PM
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You found a study that says low-income teenage couples beat each other more and have relationships that don't work out. That's just common sense. There are no studies about the successes of marriages among that demographic because pretty much none of them ever get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:46 PM
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Look at redkoicarp's comment chain, for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:41 PM
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How about fit guys dating fat women? Interracial relationships? You seem to be pushing hard to be as divisive as possible, and really want people to 'stay with their own kind'. Why is that? Should Peter Dinklage only have gotten into relationships with other people his size and not found his wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:29 PM
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Look through this thread. There are lots of examples saying that anyone that age is far too old for a teenager and are somehow 'dirty old men'.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:27 PM
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You can't groom an adult. Grooming is something done to a child who doesn't know any better. Are you saying adult women are children regardless of age?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:19 PM
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Tom Holland and Harry Styles are both in their mid to late 20s, and would also be considered 'wrinkly old men' to an 18 year old per the definitions of the women here. So is it wrong or right for teenagers to lust after them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:18 PM
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You're completely ignoring the fact that 19 year old women usually look down on men their age and pursue older partners specifically because they know people their age don't know anything and older people do. They want someone to show them the right way to do things. It's not even a secret. Pretty much every man in the world knows this. There are top 40 songs about it by female singers. Movies, books, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 09:13 PM
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So 90 years ago during the great depression? When since then?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:40 AM
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When was that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:19 AM
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When have men ever gotten women easily?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:06 AM
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How do you tell they're drunk though? It takes half an hour or more for alcohol to get from the glass to your bloodstream, and once drunk there are a lot of people who are lucid and appear in control even though they're not forming long term memories anymore until the alcohol leaves their system (which is what happens when you can't remember what you did the night before), and that period can last for hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:57 AM
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What about if she gets herself drunk and then aggressively tries to get you to sleep with her using the "I'm drunk and I'm dropping you hints that I'll be easy to sleep with right now wink wink" move women love to use to avoid actually facing rejection while sober? It's still something men should say no to, but women use it all the time to approach men they're worried will reject them. Deliberately.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:52 AM
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Except you can't. Everyone reacts differently to alcohol, and you can be clear and lucid while being so drunk that you're unable to form new memories and can't remember anything you did the next day. Alcohol also doesn't hit you immediately. It takes a fairly long time to be processed by the body, so you can drink, consent while sober, and have it hit you during or after sex to the point where you're then too drunk to consent or remember that you consented while in the right state of mind. Anyon…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:43 AM
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The woman isn't the one that's going to overpower you in that situation though. All the people around her that will immediately believe her and demonize you if she falsely accuses you of anything because she's angry are the ones who will overpower you. Get out of here with this "men aren't in fear of women" bullshit. Walk into any nightclub and you'll see plenty of men being assaulted by drunk aggressive women that are just sitting there and taking it because things will go very badly for them i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:35 AM
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Do you ever ask questions in good faith? Or do you always aim for strawman answers that feed your victim complex?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:43 PM
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Sex is a display of love, and is one of the biggest components of a relationship. Someone who sleeps with you within a month or so and doesn't play games about it is someone you know is into you. It establishes a solid foundation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:03 PM
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Appeal to social frustration. “One of the most typical features of the historical fascism was the appeal to a frustrated middle class, a class suffering from an economic crisis or feelings of political humiliation, and frightened by the pressure of lower social groups.” The obsession with a plot. “Thus at the root of the Ur-Fascist psychology there is the obsession with a plot, possibly an international one. The followers must feel besieged.” The enemy is both strong and weak. “By a continuous s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:36 AM
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Okay there. As I said before, this is the exact same mentality incels and those radicalized homegrown muslims have. Always finding a way to be a victim on behalf of others, and getting angrier and angrier until they lash out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:30 AM
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What's emotional about any of my responses? You wondered why the word is perceived negatively and I explained it. You're now trying to justify why displaying a giant red flag is apparently justified in your mind like it'll change anything in the minds of any guy who sees you waving it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:24 AM
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What intellectual debate are you looking for? "Men western countries always victimize other muslims women somewhere in the world so I should be pissed off and ready to attack the west men at every opportunity even though nobody has ever victimized me personally."?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:20 AM
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Looks like you're exactly the type of combative perpetual victim I'm talking about. Do you feel any kinship with incels? Because you have the same persecution complex and a lot of the same talking points. How about those terrorists in the UK that get radicalized and attack people because they feel victimized by things that happened on the other side of the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:13 AM
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Your question is the topic of this thread, so that is your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:05 AM
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So you have your answer. Women who go out looking to inspire negative reactions with loaded statements full of insults achieve their objective of finding ways to feed their persecution complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:03 AM
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A combative perpetual victim is exactly what most men are looking to avoid. This is why the reactions to this statement are negative. Nobody wants to date a female Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:57 AM
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And I'm trying to explain to you that hearing a woman go on about how she's 'independent' unprompted gives off the same air as hearing her say "it's okay to be white" unprompted. The thought process upon hearing that is: Why does she believe she has to say that? Does she think I believe otherwise and don't want her to be independent? Does she really think that little of me? Is she trying to start a fight with me because she thinks so little of me? It immediately sets off a whole bunch of red fla…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:38 AM
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Those seem like trash guys, similar to women who want men to be sex-crazy Pepe Le Pews who chase so they can play hard to get. It's best to disregard them completely and focus on actual quality partners who don't hold that view. Men who aren't trash care more about a woman being agreeable and happy instead of adversarial and suspicious all the time. A lot of women (especially FDS types) perceive anything done to actually treat a boyfriend like a friend as being 'submissive' or a 'pickmeisha', an…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:31 AM
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"I don't care about your money" doesn't mean "I don't want you to have money". It means "I literally do not care about this metric. As long as you can feed yourself you get a checkmark. Other things are what I care about." It's the Chris Rock "I ain't never been to jail!" bragging point. You're not supposed to go to jail. Women are supposed to be independent, but only the insufferable ones brag about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:21 AM
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Why do you expect to be subjugated and oppressed by people you're trying to form relationships with? Why not just move on and ignore them like you're asking men to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:18 AM
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Men should absolutely be vetting, just for different criteria than what women vet for. If a woman is always combative from the very start and always thinking the worst of her partner then she's failed the test.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:16 AM
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Tiger Woods only dates white women though. Is he racist? Or does he just have a thing for blondes the same as a white guy would? Is he committing a horrible crime against black women, Asians, Indians, and every other ethnic group in the world by denying them his penis? You seem to think you have some input on people's personal choices about their own relationships. Why is that? Who else has input on yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:55 PM
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I think we've established you really have no idea what it means with your constant deflections. I'm good with my understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:30 PM
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It's a differentiating factor I'm using to rule out most of the people in the world as a group on principle. Is that 'racist' too? If I said I don't date women over 6 feet tall as a group, is me denying them my penis a horrible crime against humanity?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:24 PM
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I am a moral and good person, and I can make any choice I want as a moral and good person. I don't date religious people at all, but that doesn't make me an 'islamophobe' or whatever the BS term is these days. If the idea of people making their own choices about their personal lives based on their own preferences offends you, then you should probably seek help before you go full incel. Good people understand that everyone is different, and don't have narcissistic views like yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:03 PM
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Another deflection. Google has no answers, so I'm asking someone who claims to understand the issue what 'being a woman' means. Give me an answer that's not "acting like you have to undergo surgery and use new pronouns to do something you're perfectly free to do as a man these days".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:57 PM
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Except it's not arbitrary at all. Choosing to fuck somebody and spend your life with them is in no way comparable to any of the other examples you've listed, and never will be. Continuing to spout incel talking points at me won't change that. There is only one party who gets any input on who someone dates, and that's the person making the choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:50 PM
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Question: Are trans people binary or non-binary?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:48 PM
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Except you can't, because those are regulated by law and involve businesses that involve multiple people and organizations. Who you shack up with only affects one person and is your business alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:40 PM
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I don't, and I'm guessing you don't either based on your deflection.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:39 PM
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What does 'being trans' mean? There are no enforced gender roles in society anymore, so what does 'being a woman' mean? Is it just a man that wants to wear dresses and lingerie and do things a guy from the 1950s would call 'girly'? Because he can do all of that as a man already without anyone batting an eye. Or does he want to have a vagina and titties so all the boys in the yard go wild over his womanly body? What does 'being trans' mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:28 PM
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I guess we should send everyone to conversion therapy then to 'examine their lives'. I hear those 'pray away the x' camps that brainwash and torture people have a real track record of success with no issues whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:21 PM
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They can change it though. That's why they're trans.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:19 PM
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Most trans people believe exactly that though. That's why they don't date each other. Few people love real pussy more than 'trans lesbians'.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:08 PM
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"Not pity fucking people you're not into for social justice is problematic"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:07 PM
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Because none of those things involve your body, and your relationship choices are nobody's business but your own. Nobody gets any input on who you form relationships with except you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:05 PM
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People are allowed to date whoever they want for whatever reasons they want. Racism ends where your privates begin.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:47 PM
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Because it's totally not rape if 'woke' people are the ones pressuring you into sex with someone you don't want to sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:46 PM
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Only little boys obsessed with social media care about 'alpha' or 'beta' bullshit. Once they get jobs in their 20s that tends to vanish real quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:06 PM
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No, it's pretty much a guarantee that their partner won't support them in any of those options. Men don't have the option to stay at home unless they're rich enough to not need to work at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:29 PM
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Women have options: 1) Work the same job and come back immediately after mat leave. Pay for a nanny. 2) Change jobs to something part-time or close to home and raise your kids as your main focus while your husband earns most of the money. 3) Quit your job and be a full time mom while your husband earns all of the money. The choice is entirely up to the woman. Whereas men have only one option: 1) Work and earn money like you always do while your partner exercises her options.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:48 PM
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Is it really? So SAHDs aren't mocked or viewed as "lesser men" at all then? So paternity leave is the same as maternity leave in the west then? This is men's own struggle with society and has nothing to do with women. So men are totally willing to give up their career advancement and power in the home to raise children and only holding back because every one of their partners would hate them for it? Yes, there are large numbers of men willing to do exactly that, but they can't because men are al…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:15 PM
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The role already is extended to men. The issue is that women hate men who accept and choose to be stay-at-home dads fulfilling the traditional female role while the woman fulfills the traditional male role of breadwinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:59 PM
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Yep, that's why she's my wife and every other woman in the world isn't. This may offend those with the mentality of "everyone is exactly the same and you just marry the first person to cross your path because everyone must be accepted", but sorting through the haystack until you find your needle is what dating is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:45 AM
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Option B is looking more likely with every comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:47 AM
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I really don't. Relationships are based on feelings, and I don't need to back up my feelings. They simply are what they are based on my own personal observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:40 AM
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Perhaps, but it's more likely it's one of the following: A) We're two different people in two different places with two different views of the world and relationships or B) I hit a nerve and you're lashing out
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:34 AM
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Yes, because it's what I've noticed most of the women I've seen in relationships are like. Sit down on a summer's day and people watch, you'll see it too. Most relationships are adversarial instead of collaborative, with the women being the primary agitators.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:30 AM
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I'm married, but it was because I wanted a real best friend I can have sex with. Not the typical angry frenemy most women seem to want to be in relationships, but rather an actual understanding true friend who sees the real me and wants to build a life with me and who enjoys the same things I do (one of which is good sex). I lived on my own for years before I met her and I'm more than capable of running my own house and working my own job. I couldn't care less about her doing the housework or wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 04:20 AM
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If a guy wants a non-sexual relationship with a woman he'll be friends with her. However, most adult friendships with women don't last because people's best friends will always be their romantic and sexual partners. A long term casual friendship with a woman is very possible. OP, you sound like you're batting out of your league and only focusing on the attractive men who use you for sex and nothing else while ignoring all the less attractive men who do actually want a long term relationship with…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:24 AM
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How silly of me. I forgot women require relationships with older men to pay their bills and eat. All this time I thought they were actual capable adults who did what they wanted and not perpetual children incapable of ever making their own decisions in life. Thanks for telling me how weak and helpless they all are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:18 AM
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Except they aren't. The stats prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:13 AM
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Ignoring what women do en masse in society is irrelevant now? Are you high? What an extreme minority who's against age gaps thinks is irrelevant. The overwhelming majority of women in the world support them and promote them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:39 AM
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And I don't agree with a word you've said because you ignore common sense and societal trends in every nation around the world. What makes you think I'm against age gaps? I adapted to the world as it is, just like every guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:27 AM
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No, I'm saying women like age gaps and men have adapted to that. Age gaps wouldn't be a thing if women weren't into that, yet they remain as popular as ever. That's driven by women, not men. Remember, men offer and women choose. Women are responsible for their choices, and they continually choose age gaps. Men adapt to women's rules, and know how most women view dating younger men or men their age as degrading.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:01 AM
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This is really just the equivalent of an incel going to a good-looking prostitute though. Neither you nor they are capable of forming a lasting relationship with the person you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:45 PM
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Men don't care about what looks good. They care about what feels good. If your guy is asking you to be more energetic and adventurous in the bedroom then what you're doing doesn't feel good, and you're so eager to be offended by him asking to try something different that you don't understand what the real issue is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:06 PM
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Seriously. When I was dating a girl at the end of high school I walked in on her friends all trying to pressure her to break up with me for an older guy one day. I distinctly remember all of them saying they'd never date a guy who wasn't "At least 10 years older with his own car and place!"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:33 PM
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There is no age for her where it's okay. Her entire point is that she feels women are perpetual children who aren't capable of adult decisions, and there is no age where they ever will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:29 PM
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Women don't hate age gaps though. That's why they're a thing. Old single losers hate age gaps, but every guy in the world has had it drilled into his head his whole life by every woman his age he's ever known that they'd all prefer an older, richer guy over him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:28 PM
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You said they experience it in different ways. It's not different. It's the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:41 AM
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So she experiences life as most guys do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:41 AM
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Male, 38. Lost it at 18 to a girl in my class the last year of high school. She sat in front of me in home room and we chatted for a few weeks at the start of the year. She asked me out, we went to the drive-in, and about halfway into the movie she blew me and we hit it raw in the van in the middle of the lot with people around us. We dated the rest of the year, but broke up the summer after prom because we were headed to different universities.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:30 AM
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"Every woman's clit responds exactly the same to the same techniques. They're just simple machines with universal instructions, after all. Their warmup is always exactly the same as well. Every one of them responds to exactly the same stimuli in exactly the same way. It's why foreplay machines are so simple and widespread these days. I know this from all the women I slept with, and I'm definitely not just talking out of my ass because I'm only experienced with myself and nobody else"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 04:59 PM
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"All women are exactly the same. ALL OF THEM. I know this from all the women I slept with"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 04:52 PM
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Every woman a man has met in his entire life is unwilling to teach him anything He's expected to magically know everything anyway Recipe for great success If women would drop the "looking for 10 years of experience, no training will be provided" attitude, they may actually get what they want. They seem unwilling to do so though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 04:51 PM
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Typical left wing academic. Everything with them is a bad faith conversation targeted at straw men that don't actually exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 01:24 PM
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And again you're proving you know nothing about formal logic or what a valid argument is. I know you're probably about 12 and think you're smarter than everyone by putting on some edgy Spock act, but there are actual rules to these things and there are adults out there who actually do know what you're trying to BS people you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:10 AM
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And it's just arrogant nonsense from yours. The fact that you seem to think you're some bastion of objectivity when you don't even understand a basic biological drive of pretty much every species on the planet just shows that you're incapable of introspection and lack the capacity to construct a valid argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:23 AM
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Everything you're saying here is also your opinion, and a hopelessly deluded one at that. The choice of you and your friends to live your lives in an alternative lifestyle does not mean you're even close to understanding the majority of humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 12:47 AM
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If you honestly believe that, you're completely detached from reality and have absolutely no idea of how people actually work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:30 PM
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Walk into any club in the world on any night and you'll see women committing open sexual assault against men that would be arrest-worthy if men were doing it. Guys are just expected to sit there and endure, or leave. Nobody will take it seriously if it's reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:16 PM
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his daddy is rich and knows people, not because he was a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:13 PM
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By this logic people don't technically 'need' any social contact either. Nobody should have any issue being locked in solitary confinement for the rest of their lives. Yet that's not even close to realistic, and never works in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:08 PM
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It wouldn't be though, would it? She'd be whining about 'unpaid labor' and 'being treated like his mother' and still expecting him to help. The man is going out and busting his ass at work every day to provide an income to someone who's just going to end up whining and resenting him for the agreement she proposed anyway, so why would he ever choose to enter such an arrangement?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 04:03 AM
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Women want children for their own reasons Women have to take care of their own children Women have to take care of their own living spaces Women have to feed themselves Women also want sex and companionship What exactly are these women doing for the man other than just existing as they would if living on their own?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:59 AM
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Every woman says she wants to be challenged and share responsibilities right up until she doesn't get her way on something. Then she wants full control again while whining about nobody sharing responsibilities. Women hate a man making decisions in the household and about the kids like an actual separate human being with his own mind and not a servant who agrees with her every decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:55 AM
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So what? If it's the truth it's the truth. Be an adult and be honest even if it angers other people. Men get railroaded out of entire careers by expressing their preferences about women, but they still provide accurate information even though women put on giant multi-billion dollar marketing campaigns to gaslight people about how 'fat is beautiful'.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:58 PM
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That's just Christianity and the other Abrahamic religions though. Raise every generation indoctrinated with a book that tells them women are property of their fathers and husbands and that's what they'll believe as a society.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:50 AM
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That's great, but that's not what happened though. They happily chose to do it, and weren't 'forced into' anything. That's just a cop out to shut down any questions or criticism. I don't care about anal, but the attitude involved in openness and enthusiasm with one and not another.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:40 PM
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I think I'm gonna head out of this conversation. As I said from the start, you have the mind of a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:19 PM
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Believe whatever you want about yourself. It's clear to everyone else that you cling to hatred as one of your core personality traits, and deep down you dream of hurting those you hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:13 PM
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And yet for someone who hates incels so much you're doing literally everything else they do. Are you just waiting and hoping for women to start killing people as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:08 PM
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Yet another incel talking point with the sexes flipped. How original.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:53 PM
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FDS poster Makes total sense now. Enjoy your crab bucket while wondering why no men except the bottom of the barrel will date you. Your nonsensical incel argument is sure to bring you great success finding a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:47 PM
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I'm sure that makes total sense to you based on whatever twisted logic you follow, but thankfully the people seeking relationships in the rest of the world have gone through puberty and actually think like adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:42 PM
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Mind of a child. Pretty much what I expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:31 PM
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Because people lie all the time and it's a dishonest answer. Everyone 'never enjoyed it' when called out on it, but kept doing it for years anyway despite 'not enjoying it'.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:26 PM
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Sex is an extremely important component of love, and if you think otherwise you're either a child or an adult with a child's mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:15 PM
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And that's exactly why dead bedrooms and cheating still happen. You may as well be insulting people here for not getting married at 20 before ever living together like the boomers did. There's a reason the divorce rate has plummeted with younger generations, and that's because people actually think before getting married now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:13 PM
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When you marry someone and promise to only have sex with them for the rest of your life, sexual access is an extremely important component of the marriage. If a woman shuts you down for something you know she gladly did with others then you know she just settled for you and isn't actually attracted, and that your agreement is based on lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:11 PM
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Everyone wants to play the role of a perpetual child railing against authority or oppression. Far too many people stand for nothing and stand against a giant list of things. They want to backseat drive, not drive. Truly growing up into an adult means you have a clear list of core things you want and can work with others to achieve them even if you differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:19 PM
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Are there though? Most women who make you wait for extended periods of time are doing so because they're dating other guys at the same time to see which one they like best. If you're a guy who's okay with cheating like that, then sure, maybe you're what this woman is looking for. Most guys are only dating one woman at a time and seeing what happens within the first 3 dates before moving on to another person if that doesn't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:20 PM
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So she can get beaten in her marriage by some religious nut? Interesting advice
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:03 PM
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You seem to think everyone who watches it is an 'addict' who needs it. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 05:19 PM
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Do you think everyone who has a beer once a week is an alcoholic?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 05:08 PM
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I'm agreeing with you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:59 PM
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If you honestly believe that you haven't been paying attention to their content. Most of it is centered around avoiding and attacking men, not actually trying to form relationships with them. Tell me how accurate this sounds: FDS women usually feel “wronged” by men/society and are often blatantly misandrist. FDS wasn’t REALLY about helping women build fulfilling and happy lives away from relationships…it was bitching about men and trading borderline incel theories/rhetoric. They HATE men because…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:54 PM
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Just go to any of their subs. FDS in particular has spread beyond reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:51 PM
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WGTOW is completely different It isn't though. It's exactly the same as MGTOW, with even more hate since society at large is reluctant to disagree with them. WGTOW should be invisible, just like the ideal MGTOW, but they're even louder and more aggressive towards the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:49 PM
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So you're saying if she doesn't 'bring her womb to the table' and decide to have kids she's worth less than a woman who does?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:17 PM
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Woman number one for sure. Number two seems like she'd be high-strung, close-minded, and socially anxious. I've been with those types before and they don't know how to deal with failure. They're emotionally immature and would rather let things stew inside and then blow up at me before communicating. They also heavily value 'sticking to the script' instead of having an open mind about life and the possibilities in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:01 PM
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Every guy in existence has had the women around him drill into his head that he's worthless compared to the older and richer guys they really want. Go to any nightlife spot anywhere in a first world country where there is no economic dependence factor and you'll see it in action. I've heard an ex-girlfriend's female friends all gushing about how they'd never date any guy that wasn't 'at least ten years older with his own car and place' when we were 19. It happens all the time. Women always go fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:49 PM
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No woman ever enjoys sex. It's purely a one-party affair for men alone. Do you sincerely believe that's the only value men see in women? All of the sonnets, plays, and great works of labor through history to impress women are just for 'fuck toys'?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:46 PM
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So barren women are worthless?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:45 PM
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Cool, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 07:19 PM
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The fact that you actually believe that just shows how desperate you are to create reactions in other people. Nobody cares enough about you to feed your victim complex. You may think your trolling throughout this thread is causing people to actually feel anything, but it's not. I'm just scrolling through because I'm bored and like to argue with people in this subreddit for entertainment. Most of the others here are doing what I am as well. Seek validation elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 07:03 PM
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There's that victim complex again. As I said, you really have work to do on your interpersonal skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:51 PM
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A preschool teacher who became an actress in a few bit parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:51 PM
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Most CEOs (the ones who are married anyway) are with partners who work regular everyday jobs. The CEO of Uber married a schoolteacher, since you're focused on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:32 PM
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As I said, I really don't care about you or your life. Your pathetic attempts to feed your victim complex and lash out at anyone who disagrees with the nonsense you're spewing show you really have a desperate need for validation though. That's why you started this thread and why you keep responding to people, after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:19 PM
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So you're cool with the idea of your wife being an obvious, transparent gold-digging whore who'll leave you the second something better comes along. Not my cup of tea, but you do you. As I said, rich sex tourist and status-obsessed hooker is a meme. If you honestly think people just telling you things you don't like to hear is 'LARPing' then you've got some big problems in your life with interpersonal communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:09 PM
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Google 'Wendi Deng'. That's how people perceive your relationship. By the way, do you actually know what 'roleplaying' and 'LARPing' mean? Because none of the ways you're using them are appropriate in the contexts of what you're saying. You should look up their meaning sometime.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 05:50 PM
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Pretty much every western man and woman would think that, just like I do. They won't say it to your face, but they're all thinking it. Rich western sex tourist and gold-digging status-obsessed southeast Asian woman is basically a meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 05:30 PM
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Way to avoid the question, bro. I'm asking you clearly. You're really obsessed with how your partner makes you appear, so why are you not 'humiliated' by this one particular perception?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 05:20 PM
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So you're not 'humiliated' at the fact that pretty much everyone outside of your wife's close associates sees you as just another sex tourist who picked up some poor southeast Asian girl because he couldn't get any woman back home?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 05:10 PM
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As I said, I don't really care about you. Go indulge your victim complex somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 05:08 PM
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I don't need to convince myself of anything. You don't matter at all to me, and I don't really care about the state of your life. What's plain to see is that you're most likely single, and you're obsessed with other people bringing you status because you likely have none yourself. No successful man views his partner as a booster or a threat to his status. Their role is to be a loving partner, not the font of his self esteem or a token to show off in front of his friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 05:04 PM
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Life must be so simple when anything that disagrees with your ridiculous fantasy scenario is 'LARPing'. Keep at it though. I'm sure you'll find success one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 04:54 PM
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I'm happily married to a woman with a lower-tier job than I have, whereas you're ranting on the internet about some incel view of 'high value' partners. I don't think I'm the delusional one here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 04:15 PM
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Nobody who would be 'humiliated' because of their partner's job is anything close to 'high value'.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 04:11 PM
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You think a job is the only way people can relate to each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 03:56 PM
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What you're describing is literally the opposite of what most people in the world experience. Men give anyone a chance, women look down on anyone who isn't above them. That's how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 03:55 PM
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Do you enter into all your relationships assuming you'll get divorced?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 03:44 PM
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Christian Bale married a woman who used to be Winona Ryder's assistant Jon Bon Jovi married a karate teacher Alec Baldwin married a yoga teacher Jon Stewart married a veterinary technician Sundar Pichai (head of Google) married a business analyst, which is just a regular office job Patrick Dempsey married a hairdresser One of the Jonas brothers also married a hairdresser Terry Crews' wife doesn't have a job aside from their reality show as far as I know Vince Vaughn married a real estate agent
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 03:37 PM
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Seinfeld dated a high school student when he was in his late 30s too, so he's a good example of the male perspective as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 02:42 PM
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This is the mindset of the FDS crowd. The person doesn't matter, only their utility as a symbol to the other harpies does. It's why so many men get kicked by those close to them the second they're down.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 02:18 PM
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Why would a man that can support a woman look for a woman that can support herself? Most rich women aspire to the stay at home mom life anyway, and men are happy to provide if she's happy to be with him. Only middle class and lower men look for women who can bring money to the table. Men who are rich enough not to care can drop that charade and look for a woman who knows how to be happy first and foremost.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 02:09 PM
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You must not know a lot of men then. I've seen a professional football player date one of my coworkers at Costco back when I worked there. I've seen high-level computer science guys settle down with women who worked in entry-level administrative jobs, seen chefs marry waitresses, and so on. Men don't care about your career. They care about your intelligence, empathy, and ability to be a capable adult, but not your career.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 02:03 PM
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I've never pressured people into my value system though. I'd go out on dates and treat them with respect and put my best face forward, and if I didn't see reciprocity and interest from the woman's side I'd just say it wasn't working for me and we'd both move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 07:07 PM
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You're actively targeting men who want kids before marriage? Really? Sex is a clear expression of lifestyle and values. Do you feel it's right to aim to force people into your value system instead of being honest up front and finding someone similarly traditional?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 06:22 PM
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And again, no consideration at all about the woman seeing whether the guy is compatible with her. Just "get attached and fully committed before you're ready to put up with him jackhammering you".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 06:04 AM
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I'll put it in the context of an FDS quote since introspection seems to be a lost art for you: You know how FDS advises women to stay away from law enforcement because those guys are all roided up rageaholics with a negative view of people who aren't cops? You're acting as the cop here, and everyone in the general public who isn't used to being treated that way by cops will steer far clear of you while all the criminals used to dealing with you will put up with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 06:03 AM
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The comments just lead me to believe that you don't think any woman is supposed to enjoy sex, and that you're fully on board with the 19th century idea that sex is just something men do to women and women give away to men. The idea that women should also test men for sexual compatibility early to ensure they're able to orgasm and to see what kind of lover the guy is is is entirely absent from those comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:48 AM
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How are those 'personal attacks'? Relationships require trust and you're not willing to give it. Hence you're not ready for a relationship. You're approaching the general public like a prison guard who talks down to people and assumes guilt from the start, but wonder why you can't get them to love you. The fact that you can't see that you are the source of your problems is what's leading you even further down the path of extremism.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:45 AM
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You realize this is literally just the 'women fuck dogs' argument incels use with the sexes flipped, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:34 AM
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What was the first 'personal attack'? When I pointed out that all FDS does is build distrust in men and drive away anyone with even a hint of self respect so you're only left with the trash? Because that's both true and not a personal attack unless you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:30 AM
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I've been happily married since 2012 and I'm just on this subreddit because I enjoy arguing with people, so it's worked out pretty well for me. Can you say the same? Or is that 'everyone is victimizing me' incel mindset landing you the successful relationship you desire? I'm case you're wondering, I met my wife at the end of 2009, slept together on the third date two weeks in, and it's been close to 12 years now together. Our first time was in a hotel where we went through half a box of condoms …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:20 AM
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I imagine most of your relationships go the way this conversation has. You stubbornly clinging to your hateful mentality and attacking anyone who comes your way while hoping beyond hope to find some NBA player who'll gladly put up with your abuse and cart you off to your dream life. I agree that we're done here. Good luck with the mate search. I already know my way works because I've found my long term partner, but time will tell whether your way actually works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:16 AM
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I did answer your question, which you'd realize if you applied even a tiny bit of common sense. You'd detect a transgender person by the third date my way, whereas yours you'd commit to them first before realizing. You'd also most likely detect a married person my way since they'd be spending all night apart from their partner quick and regularly my way, but not yours. As I said, if you honestly operate with this mentality you're not ready for a relationship. Do you ever walk anywhere since you …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 04:51 AM
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Distrust is earned. Everyone gets baseline trust until it's broken. Everything you and the FDS crowd go on about are just ways to earn distrust from any good man that comes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:22 AM
1

Do you often have sex with people and not know they're transgender? Do you find yourself dating married people often? I do enough vetting on the first few dates to be comfortable sleeping with a woman, and she does the same with me. If you're really so incapable of trust that you need to treat every new person you meet as trash and look down on them, you're not ready for a relationship. You should work on that before you go through life being so hateful to innocent people out looking to find a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:12 AM
1

I'm not concerned about what other people do. I'm concerned about what my partner and I do. That's it. And sex is possibly the single most important compatibility metric of a successful relationship. You use the first three dates to make sure the person you're with is someone you enjoy spending time with and enjoy sleeping with, then commit and work through the other issues as the relationship progresses. If it doesn't work out after that due to different goals in life or different views on impo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 12:54 AM
1

The idea of picking someone you like and actually trusting them in good faith doesn't even register in your mind, does it? Do you view platonic friends like this as well? Constantly 'testing' them and always viewing them negatively?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 11:40 PM
1

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 11:00 PM
1

The morning after sex is the start of commitment for me, and for any woman I sleep with. You shouldn't commit to someone you have unsatisfactory sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 06:21 PM
1

I don't have casual sex, so that's not a factor for me. I've never come across that scenario, but I'd expect her to say something to show me it was on the table and she was interested, but just not able due to whatever circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 04:25 PM
1

We've already started a sexual relationship and these things happen in sexual relationships, so there's no problem with that at all. As long as it's not some bullshit test, I'm good. Any sort of disregarding me as an individual and lumping me in with some group of perceived enemies because she wants to justify bad behavior towards me is grounds for an immediate end to the relationship though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 02:19 PM
1

I don't think I'm entitled to anything. I date people who hold the same value systems I do, and if our values align and we both agree on sex by the third date then we've both successfully filtered out the freaks out there and can move on to the next step of our relationship together knowing we're compatible. If our values don't align then we're both better off knowing we're not compatible and we move on to the next person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:33 PM
1

This is one of the most hilariously deluded things I've ever read. "A HVM is a fucking idiot who can get any woman he wants, but would rather for some reason choose an ugly prude who takes his money, tells him he has bad genes even though he's several 'points' more attractive than her, and brings absolutely nothing to the table. This is definitely the type of woman he knows he'd enjoy spending time with and who would raise his kids (especially the uglier son he'll have with her) in a respectful …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:11 PM
1

The rule for any man with options is 3 dates. 3 months is for Cletus the local meth dealer with 8 kids by 8 different women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:03 PM
2

Everyone knows distrust right out of the gate, dehumanizing language, and lumping your partner in with "them" vs your "us" is the way to find true love. Asking FDS for advice on how to land a good man is like asking a meth addicted trailer park redneck how to land a silicon valley executive. Advice tailored towards the type of trash she chooses to deal with that's actively detrimental when it comes to the type of man she's trying to attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:59 PM
2

"The problem isn't r/incels. The problem is women."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:56 PM
3

When I was a teenager I started hanging out with a girl who lived down the street. As we got closer I found out that, despite being 18, she was sleeping with a 29 year old guy she'd met at her job. Often at the job itself. She gushed about how he was mature and had a car and could buy her things. Later, when I started dating an Indian girl, I overheard a conversation her friends were having about guys they wanted to date. Every single one of these 19 year old girls kept going on about how as soo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:45 PM
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The fact that women worldwide almost universally aren't attracted to men from the third world shows just how wrong you are, OP
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:38 PM
1

Hell no. If I want to go hang around someone that ignorant and hateful I'll go visit a women's prison or a Trump rally
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:29 PM
2

Commitment and communication are the work part. Sex and passion is the play part. Both are required.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 10:44 PM
15

Child support pays for children. Men are not giving child support to women who they do not have children with. Try again. Wrong. https://nypost.com/2017/07/23/man-ordered-to-pay-65k-in-child-support-for-kid-who-isnt-his/ https://mtlawoffice.com/news/man-in-michigan-owes-child-support-for-child-who-isnt-his https://www.10tv.com/article/news/nation-world/florida-man-forced-pay-child-support-despite-dna-test-proving-he-not-father-2019-oct/530-9ae6c4e8-956f-4f86-b352-57db8df5ca44 https://www.theglob…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:54 AM
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This has nothing to do with that. It's all about the proliferation of processed food and high fructose corn syrup, which are all directly tied in to farm subsidies and the military's battlefield food research hitting the private sector. https://newrepublic.com/article/122514/military-making-you-fat
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 12:24 AM
2

Not having sex before marriage is one of those stupid outdated traditions that led to the boomers having such an extremely high divorce rate. I'd judge a friend hard if they told me they were doing that, and deliberately avoid dating anyone who's doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:50 PM
2

20 years from now if following the OP's suggestion: incels have died off completely since nobody ever wanted to reproduce with them. Society has ranked up significantly in attractiveness since only the top guys ever got laid and reproduced.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:46 PM
6

Blondes, especially fake blondes. I think eyes that aren't brown are creepy. Kardashian asses. The diaper look isn't attractive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:57 PM
1

Nearly every woman out there perceives male kindness as 'feeling entitled to beautiful women'. They view it as men attempting to form covert contracts for something in return, and will display extreme hatred towards men displaying politeness or kindness for treating them that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:32 PM
5

"Nobody in the world could ever possibly enjoy something I don't enjoy!"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 03:57 PM
1

I do fine with women, so you may want to put a halt on the "omg he's criticizing us so he must just be bad with women" nonsense. Read this article and let me know why you think the author suddenly came to the realization she did after she saw others around her doing so: https://twitter.com/Salon/status/1447230875243098113/retweets/with_comments
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 01:15 PM
1

It's usually the women going for those men though, not the other way around. Every guy has seen the women in his life gushing over older men since he hit puberty, and that never stops. Those guys in their 30s see ambivalent women their age they have to work for and women in their 20s pursuing them like they pursued women when they were in their 20s and they make the obvious choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 02:07 PM
1

There are 'feminists' in muslim countries, but they all have a mental block that keeps them from ever being critical of islam so they just blame all of their problems on men while still identifying with the most patriarchal religion currently in existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 02:04 PM
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Nah, I'm actually just aware of how things work. There's a reason women are the bulk of social media users, and why their preferences for men are so narrow vs men's wildly varying tastes in women. My relationship is fine btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 11:59 AM
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I think it's more that men are capable of creating a partner they're into on her own merits, whereas women can't create that because what makes them attracted to men is situational and depends entirely on the women around them. Men can be attracted to women on their own, but women's attraction is highly dependent on others since they're so easily peer pressured.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 11:56 AM
1

That won't be the real problem. This will be: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IrrADTN-dvg
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 06:58 PM
1

You don't really seem like you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:01 PM
1

It's a closed statement with no ambiguity. If you're having trouble understanding it you should take some classes on reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:24 PM
1

Daria is basically cartoon Mayim Bialik, so we know she'd be a frumpy weirdo with an unpleasant personality as an adult too. Jane was always the hotter one physically and the better one personality wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:04 PM
1

No woman is entitled to commitment either. Everyone can choose to be combative and antisocial if they want, but nobody is going to want to spend any time with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:56 PM
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"I think movies are real life, and think everyone else thinks it too" I watch porn, but it's never kept me from having sex with any real life woman, nor have I been disappointed by any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:50 PM
2

Whichever one I'm most sexually compatible with. Probably the one on the right since there's no mention of sex with the one on the left, and she seems like one of those 'sex as duty, not as fun' types.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:33 PM
1

It varied depending on the girl. I slept with two on the first date, one (in the dorms) I ended up in bed with first and then asked out while cuddling, and the rest on or before the third date.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 02:01 AM
1

It depends. My wife is a 44-year-old Hong Konger with the skin the same shade as Joleen Diaz and she still looks young enough to get carded at bars. She's never had cosmetic surgery. Diaz has definitely had surgery (probably just her breasts though, her face looks natural for her age), but lots of other women out there look similarly young for their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 08:35 PM
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Dark skin + Asian genes + fitness. She's fitter than most, but Southeast Asians aging that well isn't really that unusual.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 08:19 PM
1

How about you knock off your deranged misinterpretation of everything anyone says to you and actually have an objective conversation? Unless you believe every woman everywhere comes into the dating world pre-abused and completely lacking any control over their choices it's obvious the conversation isn't about them. It's about average everyday women and the choices they make. So I'll ask again. Do people who vote Republican deserve Republican government? Are Democrats 'evil' for saying that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 08:02 PM
1

So you're not even able to answer direct questions without derailing into ridiculous straw man arguments unrelated to the conversation. It's obvious you're not actually out to discuss anything here, so I'll just leave you to your ranting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 07:52 PM
1

What abuse? Do people who vote Republican deserve Republican government? Are Democrats 'evil' for saying that? Or would you rather stick to this ridiculous "Nobody is responsible for their choices, and anyone who doesn't feel bad for people choosing to make bad decisions when they have all of the information required to make good ones is just wishing ill on people" nonsense?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 07:51 PM
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His girlfriend is attractive to him and not you because you two likely have very different tastes in women. It's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:29 PM
1

Nah, I'm calling you out accurately and you're offended. A replacement father that sleeps with her is the core of what every daddy's girl wants. "Pay for everything and do all the housework and cook me food and take me fancy places and fuck me too! I shouldn't have to do anything because I'm daddy's little princess and not an equal partner in this relationship!" Women look down on men who want a mother figure they can fuck, and men look down on women who want a father figure they can fuck. There…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 03:03 PM
0

So as I said, you. The girl looking for a replacement father to fuck her instead of an adult partner she can be an equal to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:26 PM
1

It's amazing how some people never actually read the words they write. You're the one aiming to make up your own definition here, not me. Ask any guy you know anywhere what a momma's boy is and you'll get my definition. I'm guessing yours only exists among FDS posters.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:16 PM
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Male equivalent of you. Same views, and will also choose his mother over anyone else in his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:10 PM
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I know what they mean. You're the one that seems to be partaking in wishful thinking here with your momma's boy definition. Men call other men momma's boys as well, and we know what it means. What you're trying to say it means isn't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:04 PM
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Lowered inhibitions are not the primary reason though. Women don't want to seem like sluts in front of other women, so any reason they can use to say "it wasn't me, I was drunk/high/whatever" and deflect blame for something they wanted to do anyway is perfect for a woman who really just wants to bang a guy. Most sober casual sex happens when nobody but the woman and the guy are around. If she can hide what she's doing and make sure word of it never gets around a woman can be far more into casual…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:02 PM
1

Whether she initiates or not doesn't matter if she changes her story to paint you as a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 12:58 PM
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Whatever lets you sleep at night. Just to let you know, guys view the daddy's girl the same way women view the momma's boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 12:55 PM
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The same thing has happened with pretty much every boy band group for the last 60 years. The Beatles, the Backstreet Boys, Kpop stars, whoever. It's not a temporary anomaly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 12:49 PM
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"Nobody should treat you less than your parents do, but I don't date momma's boys!" "I don't want society to be equal, so I'm going to do everything I can to reinforce the status quo as long as it's in my favor"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 12:43 PM
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You sound like a daddy's girl. "Pay for everything and do all the housework and cook me food and take me fancy places! I shouldn't have to do anything because I'm daddy's little princess and not an equal partner in this relationship!"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 10:44 PM
1

BMI above the normal range without being a serious athlete.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 10:38 PM
1

That's what this entire thread is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 04:07 PM
1

I didn't ask you about your hypothetical strawman statements. I asked you if those two specific statements in my post makes someone 'a terrible person' for saying them. Stick to the facts and cut out the histrionics, please. Add "I don't feel sorry for anyone who gets the virus after being anti-vaccine and anti-mask"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 04:06 PM
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It isn't people who accidentally choose to date them. It's people who deliberately choose to date them. Abusers can fly under the radar, sure, but if you date 6 guys with the same traits and get the same outcome and you don't change your selection criteria for #7 then it's on you and nobody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 03:38 PM
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Ugly women are fine because there's always a man looking to sleep with any woman available. They can lower their standards to get a guy who isn't so great looking, they can increase their wealth and status to secure an attractive partner like men do, or they can just be extremely slutty and get an attractive man by giving him more than any other woman would.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 03:35 PM
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Which is hilarious, because that poster's advice is exactly the same advice FDS dishes out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 03:27 PM
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It's not "why doesn't she leave". It's "why did she see the clearly abusive guy and the clearly stable guy and pick the abusive one. And then why did she do it again with 5 other abusive guys after that first relationship ended instead of just learning and changing?" As I said, people are in control of their actions and are accountable for their choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 03:25 PM
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Women deserve to be treated how they choose to be treated. If you always vote Republican, don't complain about not having universal healthcare and then blame the Democrats for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 03:22 PM
1

They're not in control of the actions of their abusers. They're in control of their own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 03:18 PM
2

"Poor people who keep voting Republican deserve what Republicans do to them" "Women who voted Republican in Texas deserve to have their abortion rights taken away" Is it also your opinion that anyone making these statements is 'a terrible person'?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 03:17 PM
1

You sound like one of those people who defend criminals and terrorists because 'society made them that way'.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 03:15 PM
2

They're still adults with all of the same freedoms and agency as other adults. They're just as responsible for their choices as anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 03:15 PM
2

Women don't understand that men place an extremely high value on sex, especially as a sign their partner is actually attracted to them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 03:05 PM
1

Your first post. I'm 37, so I don't know if I'm a 'millenial' or not, but it definitely happens with people my age and up to about 10 years younger than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 07:54 PM
1

Believe whatever you want to believe. My experiences and those of others who have spoken about sex on the first date or extremely early in the relationship speak for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 07:50 PM
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You said this: Lol what? How many ever get that at all? This is a ridiculous barometer for the most part having sex right away is something that people on drugs or under the influence of alcohol do. I posted to inform you that quite a lot of men do in fact get this, and it's not from women 'on drugs or under the influence of alcohol'. You then replied with the ridiculous strawman that "if a woman is attracted to you she'll have no self control and must have sex on a first date". I didn't say all…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 07:41 PM
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Yes, just like how all men attracted to women have no self control and show up with wedding rings on the first date. Any man that would give you a wedding ring for any reason would divorce you on the spot if a hotter woman came along and try to marry her. Women are incapable of controlling themselves when it comes to sex, men are incapable of controlling themselves when it comes to marriage, and you're incapable of controlling yourself when it comes to ridiculous strawman arguments that jump to …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 07:25 PM
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I've had that several times without even really trying to find someone. The girl was the one who asked me out and the one who initiated in every case. The first date blowjob and sex in the back seat is how I lost my virginity, actually. A lot of men have this quality, and it's called actually having a partner that's attracted to them. You won't get it from every woman, but you will from women who are into you physically. Women can and will get far sluttier than any porno if they're into a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 05:30 PM
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Women can and do change men all the time. And a woman may not tell you, but if you hear she's fucked guys before in a week when it took you four months you know where you stand. If she's been far more sexually open and enthusiastic with previous partners but not with you the message is also loud and clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 04:39 PM
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Men can't change women. Not how they dress, not how they act, not their sexual habits, nothing. All areas of society reinforce this. Women's choices are valid and all attempts to change them are wrong. And actions speak louder than words. Attitude towards sex and during sex is obvious, as are words and actions towards other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 04:29 PM
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Every long term relationship I've ever had with a woman we've had sex early. They failed because other things didn't work out, but sex was never a problem because the open sexual attraction was there from the start and never went away. Wife material is a woman like that who has long term commitment qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 04:27 PM
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No, the belief is all else being equal, is the person you've committed to exclusively having sex with for the rest of your life actually sexually attracted to you? Or did she settle after she'd tried and failed with every guy she's actually attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 04:25 PM
2

Most women won't even date a guy their own age. They view it as dating down.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 04:22 PM
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What I mean is that a woman saying "You'd make good husband material" to a man is like a man saying "You'd make good fuck material" to a woman. It's not a compliment. Men fear being used for support only and women fear being used for sex only.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 04:16 PM
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Women want commitment from men, men want sex from women - that’s why women see it as a compliment and I assume why men see it as an insult. But it says nothing about a woman’s actual motives. Is "You'd make good fuck material" a compliment?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 02:21 PM
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Every guy will marry someone with a deeper connection. What he's looking to avoid is a dead bedroom situation where he can't get sex from the only person he's committed to having sex with for the rest of his life. The connection will always be there, but the question is whether the sex will be there or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 01:49 PM
1

Two women I dated before my wife did multiple things on that list to get me to sleep when them when I didn't really want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 12:55 AM
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My actual statistics are all of human history and literally 98% of the interactions I've had over my entire life. Where are your statistics that women prefer men their age or younger? When you're trying to claim water flows uphill in its natural state the onus is on you to prove that, not on everyone else to prove otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:41 PM
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Look around at every adult couple you know of in person, in the media, in the business world, and in your memory and ask yourself how many of them were younger woman/older man relationships. It's a given in every relationship because women are driven by status the way men are driven by looks, and every social grouping in history has viewed younger men as lower status than older men. As I said, every guy in existence has had it drilled into his head his whole life by the women around him that wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:31 PM
1

I'm not addressing your anecdotal experience, I'm addressing your belief that it doesn't hold up for the majority of the adult population. It does, and always has.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:24 PM
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Either your sample size is extremely small and skewed, or you're trying to push a false message. Look at the overwhelming majority of couples who met as adults and what their demographics are like and you'll see that it's women going after older men. Remember, men put themselves out there for whoever they can get and women select. If younger women didn't want older men then they wouldn't be selecting older men. Women are the ones who push it, and men are the ones who have issues with it. Songs l…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:15 PM
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I don't know what women you've been around, but every single guy has had it drilled into his head by the girls he's grown up with that they'd all prefer to date older guys over him or anyone else their age. The point you're making is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 04:34 PM
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I remember sitting with my girlfriend and her friends back in high school and hearing every single one of them excitedly talking about going to college and being able to get a guy "at least ten years older!". These were 17 and 18 year old girls lusting after guys nearing 30. What I'm saying here is that your first point is objectively wrong and every guy here has been hearing from women their whole lives about how women are extremely attracted to older men. Most of the women I know would never d…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 01:58 PM
1

Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 05:44 PM
2

Like I said before, believe whatever helps you sleep at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 05:06 PM
1

'Medical science' in this case being the fat activist movement, right? You've been presented with every reply in this thread, your own experiences, objective reality when it comes to fat women in the media, and genuine science from actual credible authorities. If you're willing to deny all of that to live in your own alternative reality instead of just adapting to the world around based on the facts then there's no helping you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 04:25 PM
1

Whatever helps you sleep at night
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 03:44 PM
2

You're just spouting fat activist nonsense now. Nobody obese is healthy. Your own anecdotes about how men will be attracted to women of a healthy weight with non weight-related health problems shows what the preferences are even when it comes to selecting an unhealthy partner. Chris Evans isn't single because he can't find anyone who wants to be with him, he's single by choice. Lizzo, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 03:39 PM
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Lizzo is a multi-millionaire in her early 30s and she's still single. If men actually were into women like her she wouldn't be, and she wouldn't have to spend her time sexually harassing Chris Evans online. Men like women that are healthy, and nobody shaped like Lizzo is anything close to healthy. We don't want to be stuck in the house all the time with a wife we'll have to bury in 20 years after she dies of diabetic complications or any of the other easily preventable things that come with obes…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 03:19 PM
1

Kendrick isn't referring to fat women when he says 'ass with some stretch marks', he's referring to natural women who don't photoshop everything about themselves. Pay attention to the lyrics. "I'm so fuckin' sick and tired of the Photoshop Show me somethin' natural like afro on Richard Pryor Show me somethin' natural like ass with some stretch marks Still will take you down right on your mama's couch in Polo socks" My 5'2", 115lb wife has stretch marks on her ass. I'm a guy with a BMI of 24 and …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 03:08 PM
26

I thought this was well known already. Lesbian couples have by far the highest rates of domestic violence of any pairing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/07/21 03:41 PM
2

You don't need a degree to be educated any more than you need to be a member of an organized church to be spiritual. There are plenty of ways to increase your knowledge that don't involve class credits and tens of thousands of dollars in debt.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 08:11 PM
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This reminds me of the Frasier episode where they join the spa with gold membership, through a door from gold is platinum membership, then through a door from there is ultra platinum membership, then through a door from there is outside in an alley with the dumpsters.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/05/21 05:21 PM
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As others have said, feminism has been misandrist from the start. Opposing factions in conflict tend to resemble each other, and feminism came about to fight the type of ultra-conservative male chauvinist identity that was around in the mid 20th century. Female chauvinists were the result. Neither side of that struggle can accept an egalitarian society or modern day attitudes. Feminists point the finger at people like Trump, Matt Gaetz, etc and hold aggressive attitudes towards them, but they th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/04/21 11:48 PM
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You're speaking anecdotally, which means nothing to anyone but you. Your lived experience differs from what most guys experience.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/04/21 02:36 AM
5

Explain why anyone would ever have an issue with a guy noping out of sex then, or why that poster would be banned for explaining his thought process. Like the other guy above said, a man's boundaries are a woman's "being pressured".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/04/21 02:03 AM
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From what I understand, their mindset is that women have no agency at all and any choice you make that they wouldn't like is "forcing them to do what you like". Hence you're a rapist for turning down sex you wouldn't be into. It's ridiculous, but apparently this is the thought process.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/04/21 01:37 AM
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'High school' and the cigarette should also be underlined.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/21 07:39 PM
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Not really. It can be men at home and women in the workforce. That's the best way for couples, and it doesn't have to be the same for every couple. The ideal scenario is one where both partners shouldn't be forced to work and one can stay home and handle domestic life while the other handles out of home employment. Good luck ever finding a woman that would accept such an arrangement and a government that would protect a stay at home male partner the way it would a female one though.
/r/MensRights23/12/20 04:33 PM
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So your opinion is irrelevant then. Why are you commenting here?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 02:00 PM
1

So why doesn't it get child support while it's a fetus?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 01:56 PM
1

Is a miscarriage grounds for arrest for child neglect causing death?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 01:54 PM
1

She uses far too many religious references and alt-right coded terms to really be an atheist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 01:50 PM
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It goes way back. Flip the sexes in any commercial featuring a husband and wife and it's obvious how unacceptable the discriminatory behaviour society encourages in women is.
/r/MensRights26/09/20 12:40 PM
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Ah yes, I forgot insurance only counts when it's being sold by a private corporation. The state selling insurance people pay for via taxes obviously isn't real insurance. How silly of me.
/r/MensRights02/09/20 01:14 PM
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I take it you feel property insurance enables bad behaviour too, right? Health insurance? Car insurance? What other thing people pay for with their money do you disagree with?
/r/MensRights02/09/20 12:08 PM
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Have good job. Buy headphones. Lose job, have trouble finding one, and need to make a claim on your unemployment insurance. It's happening to millions of people right now.
/r/MensRights01/09/20 04:44 PM
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See, this is the third post where you still haven't provided an explanation for how any of these points are related to feminism. I know you're butthurt that your attempts to spread your political bullshit here aren't working, but you could at least try to act like an adult and show some class.
/r/MensRights01/09/20 04:24 PM
2

"I can't explain any of it. Stop asking questions and fall for my right-wing propaganda"
/r/MensRights01/09/20 03:51 PM
1

So you're not able to explain it then, and are just going to keep repeating this nonsense. Got it.
/r/MensRights01/09/20 03:38 PM
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Break it down point by point for me. Provide clear examples of how each one shows female privilege, because I'm not seeing it. I see tons of right wing misinformation though.
/r/MensRights01/09/20 03:18 PM
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How does that show anything about female privilege? That image is just typical right wing propaganda demonizing the poor.
/r/MensRights01/09/20 03:14 PM
1

Stop electing Republicans. They straight up admit they sabotage these programs intended to help people specifically so they don't help people. Like this: https://www.npr.org/sections/coronavirus-live-updates/2020/08/06/899893368/gov-says-floridas-unemployment-system-was-designed-to-create-pointless-roadblock
/r/MensRights01/09/20 02:16 PM
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Don't wear shoes if you've never had a job. Doesn't matter who gave them to you. Don't ever claim insurance if you own anything. Crash your car? House burns down? Lose your job? Sell all your assets first and live in abject poverty before you make a claim. Don't use a phone if work, church, family, etc gives you one. It triggers me. Don't live anywhere you can't be gouged by corporations. Own your own land? Enter in a good rental agreement? Live somewhere you choose to pay higher taxes for a bet…
/r/MensRights01/09/20 02:14 PM
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Does unemployment insurance you pay into not pay claims if you're a man? Does public housing your taxes pay for not house you if you're a man?
/r/MensRights01/09/20 02:03 PM
1

Cheating doesn't excuse domestic violence. Money doesn't excuse crimes either.
/r/MensRights28/08/20 03:47 PM
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Or you could drug and rob people like Cardi B and end up a proud feminist symbol. Or molest your sister as a kid like Lena Dunham and be considered a voice of feminism. Or have your sister beat your husband like Beyoncé and have people going "Yass Kween!"
/r/MensRights28/08/20 03:02 PM
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