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| 1 | It would be a lot more productive if instead of just saying all men suck, women were more actively validating men who do try to improveAre you seriously comparing an entire community, who struggles to stay alive and not be persecuted in various places of the world, with privileged, adult men needing cheerleading for being a NORMAL human being? Oh, my. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 03:04 PM |
| 1 | It would be a lot more productive if instead of just saying all men suck, women were more actively validating men who do try to improveIt wasn't ever "personal", I was talking about men in general. "The majority of you are angry" followed by, "Get a life", as in, MEN. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 03:02 PM |
| 1 | It would be a lot more productive if instead of just saying all men suck, women were more actively validating men who do try to improveAh yeah, the " us men have no responsibility for our behaviour" narrative. The usual card. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 09:33 AM |
| 1 | It would be a lot more productive if instead of just saying all men suck, women were more actively validating men who do try to improveThen men should change their perspective about this from within their own gender. Also, you are not a good, empathetic human to fuck women. You are like that because you choose to be like that, for you and the people around you. If anyone needs a reward for being a civilised member of society, then he's a turd not even worth of saliva. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Is women being submissive a taboo now? And if so, why?If a woman chooses that, freely, without blackmail, emotional or physical/extortion and is genuinely a lifestyle she enjoys, then more power to her. However, a lot of times that is not the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 06:25 AM |
| 1 | It would be a lot more productive if instead of just saying all men suck, women were more actively validating men who do try to improveIf you choose to be in a relationship, you will of course encourage your partner when they have accomplished something worthwhile. That's normal. What OP says is that women, should "applaud" men for acting like functioning adults. So basically, that's the equivalent of going up to a stranger and saying "Hey, thanks for not stabbing me or raping me, well done, have a nice day!". It's total BS. Also, why is OP asking women specifically to do this? Why can't men do this to other men and that way, w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 09:10 PM |
| 1 | It would be a lot more productive if instead of just saying all men suck, women were more actively validating men who do try to improveYeah, I really don't know what an entire oppressed portion of the population/community has anything to do with what we are saying here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 09:07 PM |
| 1 | what is it like being an average invisible woman?Having 3 kids makes you single by choice? Says who? Men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 06:33 PM |
| 0 | what is it like being an average invisible woman?45: Billions of women at that age in dating apps. Overweight: Also billions and loads on dating apps. 3 children: Also billions and loads on dating apps. Divorced: Also billions and loads on dating apps. She is average in the dating market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 06:32 PM |
| 3 | It would be a lot more productive if instead of just saying all men suck, women were more actively validating men who do try to improveAsking for help when you are in need and someone choosing to help you, is commendable. Being grateful for someone's help and "men need women to be their personal cheerleaders when they do the bare minimum of efforts to be human beings", is something VERY different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 03:52 PM |
| 3 | It would be a lot more productive if instead of just saying all men suck, women were more actively validating men who do try to improveAsking for help when you are in need and someone choosing to help you, is commendable. Being grateful for someone's help and "men need women to be their personal cheerleaders when they do the bare minimum of efforts to be human beings", is something VERY different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 03:52 PM |
| 3 | It would be a lot more productive if instead of just saying all men suck, women were more actively validating men who do try to improveFunctioning adults should not be so extremely insecure that need "cheering" for acting like human beings. We cheer on children, which is normal because they are still learning how to be humans in a society, so when they do well, we encourage that. If someone has deep self-esteem and insecurity issues like that, professional help to better himself would be amazing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe in Male Privilege?Exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 12:00 PM |
| 4 | It would be a lot more productive if instead of just saying all men suck, women were more actively validating men who do try to improveThe whole "men are so awful" pity-party narrative, was completely yours, I literally typed nothing about that. Moving on from that, adult men (and women), are not children to be applauded for minimum effort, for things they should be doing anyway. Being a decent human to your fellow humans regardless of their gender, is literally the BARE MINIMUM. Taking responsibility for your own shortcomings and trying to improve, is again literally the bare minimum. If you need cheerleading for basic tasks, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 11:57 AM |
| 13 | Do you believe in Male Privilege?Yes. It is obvious all around us. Obviously men won't see it, since it benefits them. When you live in the privilege, you have no way of recognising it and you dismiss it, diminish it, mock it, ignore it, whatever else you can think of to not get out of your microbubble and actually see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 11:27 AM |
| 1 | what is it like being an average invisible woman?I didn't sell you anything so whether you're "buying" it or not, is not my problem or concern. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 11:16 AM |
| 1 | what is it like being an average invisible woman?Maybe where you live but it varies from country to country, city to city etc. I don't know where you live but that is the situation where she is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 10:41 AM |
| 1 | what is it like being an average invisible woman?She has a very sweet and beautiful face, less than average body, as I said she is overweight. She's not "very very" unattractive but she is definitely not "Western standards" attractive. She has an amazing personality and life but that doesn't seem to matter at all to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 10:32 AM |
| 2 | It would be a lot more productive if instead of just saying all men suck, women were more actively validating men who do try to improveDoing the bare minimum of what humans should be doing, is nothing to cheer about. It IS in the case of children, because they are now learning. A man acting like an adult, as OP says, is not grounds for cheerleading. That's what he SHOULD be doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 10:24 AM |
| 19 | It would be a lot more productive if instead of just saying all men suck, women were more actively validating men who do try to improveIt's not a woman's job to be a man's cheerleader for anything. And vice versa. Being a civilised human in society and treating people in a kind manner, is the bare minimum. Improving yourself in any aspect you feel you need to, is also the bare minimum. Those things are your personal responsibility as an adult. We cheer children and teenagers on, because their brains and personalities are still developing and they need it to thrive and grow up to be good people. A grown man (since the topic is a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 08:39 AM |
| 2 | what is it like being an average invisible woman?No, she's not single by choice. She gets NO interest, from ANY man. She is interested in dating and she has online profiles in 3 dating sites, all paid too, not free. She gets no replies and no offers, either online or in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Is baldness a dealbreaker for most young women (in a young man 18-24) or can they still be genuinely physically attractive overall?I am not Greek, I speak the language. Either way, most Greeks are naturally and not artificially darker. No one is a "Nazi" for their preferences in love/fucking. You are attracted to what you are attracted to and you can't help that. I am not attracted to darker people and it is what it is. Others aren't attracted to gingers/blondes/brunettes etc. Sexual attraction has nothing to do with the "racism" BS that's thrown around like candy these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 04:52 AM |
| 2 | Is baldness a dealbreaker for most young women (in a young man 18-24) or can they still be genuinely physically attractive overall?Tan/dark people are extremely unattractive to me, so paleness would actually be a huge plus. I also love gingers and many people do as well so that's also a plus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 04:36 AM |
| 3 | Women are not wrong in their criticism of "men nowadays"Because misogyny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 04:19 PM |
| 12 | Women are not wrong in their criticism of "men nowadays"Yup, I agree. The people I have met in the real world, are actually normal people, who don't care about these "theories". And a good thing too because the people of those subs, are absolutely ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 03:56 PM |
| 6 | what is it like being an average invisible woman?One of my female colleagues and friends is 45, overweight, 3 children, divorced. She is Uni educated, independent, does not receive alimony because she has a good income, has a great and stable job. She is more than invisible when it comes to dating, even though she is one of the sweetest, most caring, interesting and helpful people I know. To men of EVERY age and status, she is non-existent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 10:56 AM |
| 21 | Women are not wrong in their criticism of "men nowadays"With everything I see written here and other subs, I can't help but wonder if there are any normal humans from any gender left out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 10:16 AM |
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