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The hostility seems a bit excessive. Are you having a bad day or what? My choices are: A: she has professionally diagnosed BPD, in which case I'm lying and you don't give a shit. Or B: I'm a "raging beta faggot"? Insightul choices there. It's really your in-depth psychological analysis that makes me think. Next time hit the gym before you sit in front of the computer, and don't make me waste my time by reading such a shit comment.
/r/askMRP05/06/17 08:51 PM
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I appreciate the response. I didn't mean to appear as I was asking for permission. It's just honestly I would have left by now if not for the child. I do genuinely believe I am becoming a better man, the main problem I feel I am being held back from my true potential by dragging a drunk BPD behind me as my first mate. Not only minimal support, but active attempts to derail my progress. It's hard to explain what a BPD does without using a 1000 words, but professional advice and personal research …
/r/askMRP05/06/17 07:27 PM
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I blame it on the "gangster" and "hippity-hop" music that all these kids listen to these days!
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 07:58 AM
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I don't understand. You are contradicting yourself. You say don't give them a platform, don't talk to them logically because you can't, and don't talk to them all. Then you say talk to them rationally, point out logical flaws in their arguments, and stay calm. Simply be calm and point out how emotional, ridiculous and aggressive they are. Yes, because this is how you win debates with anyone /s. Then they will become even more aggressive and make fools of themselves, then you win. I wonder if the…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 07:54 AM
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Of course there are exceptions, there is no absolutes. You have to understand, my statements come from personal experience. When i say "100% no chance", it is much safer for everyone else reading. If i say "You have a 99.99% of failure", it may be possible for people that are currently in relationships with a BPD to convince themselves that their partner is the 0.01%. That their partner is the exception, not the rule. I believe adding exceptions to a rule that already carries dangerous consequen…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 06:22 AM
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This is why i say no strong willed man stays with a BPD in the first place. There is always a flaw in the man that chooses to stay. Even after all the red flags. To paraphrase one of my favourite comments here. It's like one of those movies where the guy knows hes going to die, but still kicks open the doors to the saloon, guns blazing. No sane man knowingly does this. While researching about BPD, i learned much about myself, and why i chose to stay in the relationship when a normal man would ha…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 08:03 AM
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On the other hand, I came out of it very red-pill and can smell red flags a mile away now. Still, it was more than I could handle in my blue-pill days. Oh my god yes. I went in a Blue Pill Private. Came out a Decorated Red Pill Captain. A very risky, raw, learning, and hardcore experience.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 07:55 AM
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You are adding many exceptions my statement, then saying you don't agree with it. Of course that will happen. if one gets professional help You are a BPD seeking help. Are you aware how rare this is? A BPD not only admitting they have a problem, but also seeking help for it? This is very commendable and brave. I for one, am and have always been extremely submissive... I'm an old fashioned girl when it comes to relationships. The man is supposed to be the head of the household. Feminism is ruinin…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 07:49 AM
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Good link. This is where i also learnt most of my knowledge. It really helped me to connect the dots, and i suggest to anyone else suspects they are involved with a BPD to read this. I am going to read some of it again today.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 08:48 AM
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Yes, saying a BPD is not for a "weak willed man" is dangerously misleading. Even if someone thinks that they are strong willed and they can handle it (no chance), what's the point? There are no strong willed men that get with a BPD. She will make a strong man weak, 100% no chance of victory. She will erode you. She will find weakness, it will be exploited, it will be made fun of, it will not be pretty, i am talking scorched earth.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 08:43 AM
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I was unaware that white knights could be homosexual.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 06:10 AM
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It's ok to admit you can't read... This is a safe place, no one will judge you.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 05:47 AM
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Ah fuck, when I saw this post my heart skipped a beat. Sometimes when I browse this forum I always thought I would see a post like this eventually. I even pictured it worded the exact same. Straight up letter for letter, no fluff, no click bait, no misleading title. I knew I would because I myself have been thinking about it ever since I found this place and come so far. I knew it would make me pause for a second because I myself know how true this post is, and oh how I wish I found this sub soo…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 05:52 AM
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What are you even talking about here? Seriously he did nothing wrong. He asked his girl to see her phone, and instead of just hanging over going "sure what do you need?" or anything up front. She deleted messages. His instinct/gut told him something was wrong, and his own judgement enough to follow through instead of hamstering himself think it's all good. Now she is where she belongs. In the "don't ever fucking trust this woman" box. He wasn't obsessing about her devotion. He currectly judged h…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 06:02 AM
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You know, it occurs to me that you could solve all your problems by obtaining more money.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 08:10 AM
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It shouldn't. I said i hate that excuse in particular. He is assuming every other man is as thirsty as him and will go for any woman that offers them sex, that's his excuse. If the woman is in a committed relationship but looking to cheat, she is low quality and loose. The very excuse "I may as well do it because someone is going to do it anyway" comes from lack of abundance mentality and is the very definition of moralizing, AKA: Hamstering.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 08:47 AM
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This is probably what the previous guy said before he realized it's a cop-out excuse, then passed her along to you. Then you say this... if it wasn't me, some other guy with game would be doing her. She was probably already turned down by 2 guys at her office before she came to you. That's why I don't like that excuse in particular. You are assuming every man is thirsty enough to just go for a committed but loose woman because she offers sex, and you are trying to rationalize your actions by say…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 08:37 AM
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I once had an ex tell other guys I was controlling by reading her messages. I laughed my ass off. She was actually trying to form branches to swing to by making me appear like a bad BF, just like the dude in this story. So she can cheat WITH YOU, but you will still think shes an alright girl, haha.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 06:39 PM
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They actually believe what this girl says for some reason. Haha. In reality he's probably just a normal 9-5 dude that watches the game once a week and plays a couple hours over the week. She plays the victim while fucking other dudes when she could easily just break up with her bf. OP is helping her get support from 2 men now.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 06:32 PM
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because I knew if it wasn't me, it would be someone else. Personally I hate this excuse. But yeah all you're hearing is her side of the story. You probably still are Captain save a Ho and you are delusional by believing everything she says about him. Even the text messages. Unless she is showing you actual text messages, assume she is a liar and that he is actually a decent 9-5 guy. Classic technique of painting herself as the victim to alleviate guilt and keep respect from you. I'm supposedly o…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 06:28 PM
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You changed your mind pretty quick from your last post. Or are you running some sort of test? Because this part here -> No matter who the man is, whether you bled with on the pitch, served with him in battle or knew him since birth, he is not worth your effort. He must make a mistake of years or sometimes decades to come to the truth, there is no other way. Sounds overly dramatic to the point where it sounds like your trying to create a hyperbole to use against TRP. Ok now that I reread every pa…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 08:02 AM
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It's not dirty work, it's almost useless. To extend The Matrix metaphor. Imagine if after taking the pill, Neo just started violently unplugging random people from the machines. It doesn't take. They have no motivation to change and are extremely likely to regress. They have no reason to believe their current view of the world is harmful. They would be trying to plug themselves back in. Neo was in a situation where he had a guide, to show him what would happen and explain to him why he NEEDS to …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 05:08 AM
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Then stop jacking off while reading it.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 06:19 PM
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"Nice mtg u" Jesus... the people who text like this.. i swear they must have some sort of brain damage. Do you ever feel like you're taking advantage of a retard? Who taught them to communicate like this? Hahahaha No, Don't respond. She is trying to kick up some drama, plates are not supposed to bring stress into you life.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 12:59 PM
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Whats the point of your last paragraph? You want to just hang around with these "hot" girls and "cool" guys at bars and clubs and not do anything? I question your sexuality. Women are boring as fuck. The main reason men go to clubs and bars is because they want to find a woman to fuck. The bar i can kinda understand. But when i see 30+ year old man/women going to dance clubs, you can tell they fucked up a few times in their life. Are you in your 30's looking for friends or something? Yes anythin…
/r/askTRP08/04/17 09:38 AM
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Here's some quick tips that are typically the most major hurdles. Stop watching porn. Stop thinking these women are better than you. They are not. repeat: They are not better than you, they shit just like you do. Get in shape and gain some confidence. and the most important one. If you want to be better are approaching women - Approach women more often. Even when you are nervous. This is the only way. You can't read about how to not be nervous and anxious, you need to go through this step. Do th…
/r/askTRP08/04/17 08:43 AM
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That's even better, do you mind telling me where that is from?
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 07:31 AM
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After I forgave her I found out she had relationships with 3 other guys she didn't admit too. That sounds about right.
/r/askMRP07/04/17 01:35 PM
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This is true. If she doesn't hand it over immediately this time (and every subsequent time) then hand her the papers and tell her to sign them. Don't even do this. It will work against you and completely change your life. When i suspected my wife hiding messages she confidently handed over her phone and i saw nothing, no proof. No messages which was weird.... but still no proof. Apparently the messages were "taking up space". A few weeks later i still had a feeling that i was being played, looke…
/r/askMRP07/04/17 01:14 PM
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This is exactly what happened with my wife and her Iphone. Suddenly it was Fort fucking Knox. You just have to ask yourself logically why would someone do that, and accept and internalize that there is only 1 answer. In my case previously, she was texting ex's. The only reason she wasn't nexted is that she was pregnant at the time and had nowhere to physically go. Almost a year later and she is started to do it again right now in fact. She has put pass codes on a previously unprotected Ipad, rem…
/r/askMRP07/04/17 01:00 PM
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Divorce? Not yet. Not until she has fully grasped onto the next branch.
/r/askMRP07/04/17 12:38 PM
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Hahahaha, there you go. My wife is so computer illiterate that if she deleted backups from her Iphone i know she must have researched for hours on how to do that. I would know something is up. Of course i would ask her and get some gas-lighting bullshit, lies and a 'logical explanation'.
/r/askMRP07/04/17 12:36 PM
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I could download her phone including erased photos, text, and WhatsApp messages, which would either confirm suspicions or set my mind at ease. Nice, what program do you use, with what OS? But maybe that's a really pathetic and insecure move on my part Fuck what anyone else says about this being insecure, if i had a way to find out if my wife was cheating on me with 100% proof that i couldn't deny, it would make my decision so easy i wouldn't even think of it as a decision anymore. To paraphrase …
/r/askMRP07/04/17 12:22 PM
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"Women would rather share a high value Man than be saddled with a faithful loser."
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 12:02 PM
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Oh my god, finally a post where it doesn't encourage you to try and fuck other men's wives/girlfriends with the excuse "She was gonna cheat with someone" and the "It's amoral" excuse. You are entering a woman's frame, allowing her to suck pleasure and resources from two men at once. If masculinity is to remain a social construct, we must not engage in activities that actively lead to the destruction of masculinity. It's like wanting men to regain/strengthen their masculinity, to succeed and impr…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 11:51 AM
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Christ, never tell your LTR or ANYBODY, that you want more sex. It literally speaks volumes about yourself and tells her everything. You are trying to negotiate desire. You are asking for her permission. You are admitting she is in control of sex. You are reminding her that you can't get sex anywhere else but her. You are showing her that you have a lower SMV. You are also making her remember that she doesn't desire you as much as guys in the past because they never asked her for sex. You are te…
/r/askTRP05/04/17 10:11 AM
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Thanks for reminding me never to watch that "movie", or anything else with Seth Rogan in it..
/r/askTRP05/04/17 10:03 AM
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I don't get it, besides the main story, why does the guy get mad that a plate was fucking other guys 'behind his back'?
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 08:27 AM
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Damn your good. I used to make the mistake about asking(accusing) women of doing something, only for them to gaslight so much it became danger to be in the same room. My mistake was to assume that the women would actually tell the truth. Hahahaha...... why did i think that.....
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 11:30 AM
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I doubt it was rape. However, These people obviously have no idea why most rapes are committed. hint It has nothing to do with him finding her pretty or "wanting her". Also this part is legit disgusting. Women don't really want to be raped; what they want is a for a man to desire them so much, that he is willing to defy social convention and risk retribution by society, in order to have her. She doesn't want the rape itself, she wants the desire that motivated the rape. Since this guy actually d…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 11:23 AM
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I thought the exact same. I swear I've met her before.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 11:18 AM
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Don't kid yourself. It's vital. Actually scary if you've ever been on both sides of the spectrum like i have. It's the difference between going up to a woman in a bar, saying hello and being called "creepy" and ignored, to being the guy she calls "interesting/hot" and tries to take home that night. Try not have your main motivation of going to the gym just because you want more attention for women though.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 02:21 PM
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I got no reply the next day. So I ghost, that wasn't an acceptable thing to do in my books. How did you ghost her when she ignored you? she starts offering to take me home- because we live quite close together. She honestly sounds like she just doesn't want you to think she is a bitch. however any time i'd invite her to drinks with work friends- she'd rather stay home. Because she doesn't like spending time with you. Why did you keep typing after you saw this sentence? Next time don't invite her…
/r/askTRP29/03/17 02:13 PM
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This is one of the best first things to learn - It explains it well in WISNIFG.
/r/askMRP28/03/17 06:45 PM
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95% of what you type is just personal insults. You seem like a very angry and bitter person.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 05:01 PM
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I'm starting to think a lot of people in this sub believe that if you are over six foot, played some sports in your spare time (Even if it was in the past), and now have a decent salary, you are a "Chad"...
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 10:52 AM
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no I'm not entitled, I'm a smart guy and I'm serious about benefitting from my time spent here. But can't be bothered reading the sidebar, stickies, books, or any other information. Sum it all up for me in 1 sentence you virgin losers, because i'm not entitled at all, and completely serious about this sub. You insult the sub and it's members multiple times, use manipulative language, tell people not to tell you to read the sidebar, ask how you can ''believe'' in it more, and claim you are not en…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 12:45 PM
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Cheers, i've already started on it.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 08:01 PM
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No i have not, googling it now.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 08:19 PM
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I did the same with the 2 friends i had. Also with all my family(I have 4 brothers), after all of these years i realized even my mother was still feeding me the same shitty blue pill advice that she did throughout my childhood. I'm literally friendless at the moment, but at least have breathing room to improve now that i stopped focusing on lost causes. I wish i was going through this and hanging around with someone like yourself. These days i gotta convince myself I'm an Lone Alpha(in-training)…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 02:32 PM
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Long story short. My relationship will never be easy. It's hardcore mode. I have accepted this. I solved most of these issues by mentally changing her status in my mind, from 'wife' to 'roommate/friend'. It's mentally easier for me to implement boundaries and stop her from disrespecting me. She has BPD and settled for me using all the tactics and manipulation you couldn't even fathom unless you have been in a relationship with a post-wall BPD. If i wish to have any affection from her I have to w…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 01:36 PM
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Just the branch swinging, classic lines, lies, manipulation, and two sided personality. She was post-wall when we met, and i was young and naive with personal issues that made me an emotional wreck, had depression for a few years (which actually made her mistakenly perceive me as alpha for the IDGAF attitude), coupled with the typical blue pill support group who in hindsight did nothing but give the shittiest blue pill advice and lead me further into 'beta-ness'. Things like when we were togethe…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 01:16 PM
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I'm trying to laugh and be open minded and enjoy it, but literally almost every word she says could be quoted as RP truth. I realized i was getting angry because it almost parallels to my wife and how she really just wanted to settle down.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 10:55 AM
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If people didn't relate to what she was saying, they wouldn't be laughing. Simple psych 101. If what she said was completely untrue. The people in the audience would be thinking "wtf is she talking about?"... and that's not happening. Of course some of it is likely exaggerated for effect, I have no idea, i don't know her life. But you have to be wearing blinders and covering your ears if you think none of it is true.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 10:43 AM
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This is horrifying. The things she says are horrifyingly disgusting. Scary. Everything she says can be quoted for RP truth, and is further confirmed when the women in the crowd actually laugh. If there was no truth behind it people wouldn't be laughing... they would be going "wtf is she talking about, i don't understand". But they fucking love it... I'm starting to think that's why I'm so angry, because i suspect my wife is similar to this. I am starting to understand why some men go join MGTOW,…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 10:06 AM
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I guess your joke went right over my head. Anyway when the IPhone 2 came out I had a Motorola razr and decided to make the switch to a smartphone, 2 months later I sold it and went bought an updated version of Motorola razr. Had it for a few years before I realised the amount of things you can do with apps. At the end of the day it's just a phone.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 09:53 AM
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They didn't lower the quality, your just comparing an old Nokia to a Samsung galaxy. Older phones with newer. It's like asking why companies haven't invested money to improve the CD Walkman.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 07:19 AM
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You see 2 fags walk into a restaurant and take some gayfies and you think smartphones are unnecessary? Here are some stuff I used mine for just in the last week. Business calendar, Alarm clock reminders, Notebook, Language learning apps, Google translate, Google, E-mails, Camera, GPS Navigator, Multilingual messages, Whatsapp, Reddit, Torch, MP3 player. Also, all your points are refutable. 1: 99.99% of people are near a charger at a certain point in the day, you can even charge it in the car, so…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 07:13 AM
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That whole book is a parody of what not to do, and shouldn't have seen the light of day. No wonder it is only sold as electronic copy. No publisher in their right mind would back this s***. I literally thought the thing was intentionally giving bad advice and teaching you what not to do. After the entire first chapter explaining in quite detail why you should always be wearing a fedora i realized he was being serious. I had to check amazon reviews to see and even the reviews are making fun of th…
/r/askMRP21/02/17 09:43 AM
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I stopped by to say thanks again, I've been reading the articles about BPD for 10 hours straight. It's has quite literally changed my life. Everything in here describes me, her, and the relationship, to the letter. Every tactic she has ever used is described, her parents, her issues, her upbringing, her manipulation.. everything. Everything from my childhood issues, to my upbringing, to my abandonment issues, made me a perfect target for manipulation for someone like this. I've decided I will ob…
/r/askMRP13/02/17 09:11 PM
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I believe putting me down as a typical blue pill guy completely over-simplifies everything, including my mental state, the situation at hand, and her mental state, to the point where you will think just because your not like me, you could thrive here. The women here are not as traditional as everyone thinks, if you think western media hasn't diluted its way deep into Russian culture you would be kidding yourself. The woman literally threatened to kill herself after I attempted to break up, and l…
/r/askMRP13/02/17 06:24 PM
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I met her at a house party in my native country, we we're having drinks around a table, other people left, and it was just me, her, and her husband sitting at the table. The husband was wasted, sloppy and taking bong hits between cigarettes and beers. He kept playing lady Gaga and Britney Spears songs on the laptop on the table. After a while I was staring at this dude with full on disgust as he kept slurring his words and spilling the bond water all on the floor and himself. His wife on the oth…
/r/askMRP13/02/17 06:09 PM
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Your advice to him is stay in the marriage for another 8-10 years and hope his bad feelings go away? Where did you get those numbers from anyway? He is angry with his life choices and he is taking it out on his wife. @OP. I agree with what bogeyd6 says, you are still stuck in the anger phase and still blaming your wife for your choices/lack of direction. Give it a few months of introspection and self improvement to see if she really is the whole problem, and take responsibility that you made you…
/r/askMRP13/02/17 05:24 PM
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I appreciate the encouragement, even as I write this i am opening my eyes, it is really kinda therapy for me as I can see how unhealthy all of this is/was through my own writing.
/r/askMRP12/02/17 03:30 PM
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Ok the codependency thing has never come up in my mind before ever. But this is literally the most understable, relatable, and insightful article to my situation that I have ever been linked. "Every person who's involved with a Borderline has learned to discard or shut-down painful emotions since early childhood, and this has left them incapable of distinguishing between healthy endeavors and harmful ones." "People who've become adept at getting rid of difficult or dangerous emotions since they …
/r/askMRP12/02/17 03:19 PM
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I have ideas, but I keep having trouble making a concrete plan as I have yet to answer the question "do I want to see my child ever again". If I left I don't believe she would bother coming after me for money anyway, I spent all the money and savings I had in my accounts to set me up in this country.. hotels, visas, etc. Finances were never an issue for her and she had never worked a real day in her life. Her father is the owner of a very influential international company and makes millions year…
/r/askMRP12/02/17 12:09 PM
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I did have major self esteem issues, I was depressed and spent a lot of time inside my own head. I was also very busy, So busy with my internal self I couldn't comprehend the depth of my current situations. I also missed a lot of warning signs that I rationalised incorrectly, I blamed a lot of it on her drinking as I didn't really understand the disease. I read a lot of information about alcoholism and most of it was saying as a husband it was my duty to stay with her and help her and that alcoh…
/r/askMRP12/02/17 11:54 AM
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The first child died. I found she had a hidden bottle of cognac behind the toilet and confronted her. I had no idea about how to deal with someone with alcoholism, or how the disease worked at that time. She told me that a doctor said it was ok to have a little, and I didn't my believe her. We had another fight, I stood my ground and didn't apologize for standing up for myself and wanting to protect my child. She then went into the bathroom and cut herself. I broke the door down after she wasn't…
/r/askMRP12/02/17 11:40 AM
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"I slapped her again, grabbed her by the throat against the wall and warned her that if she didn't keep her mouth shut, something really awful is going to happen now" Jesus christ that's not Red Pill, that's abuse. There was no frame, no nothing, there was no self control. You resorted to being a schoolyard bully using violence to get his way. "Now, I am not a wife beater" Yes. You are. "..she has to behave, because if she won't, then I also can do such things in future, without a guarantee of w…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 09:39 AM
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Actually i did read your post, and you also seem to be disagreeing with anyone here who has an opinion other that your own. At this point, any new guy or girl coming to the office ends up either in one group or another, I remain the "lone wolf" just because of lack of options in terms of people I can hang out with... You call yourself a "Lone Wolf". The only career path lone wolves thrive in is solo entrepreneurship. You have no social circle, no alliances, no friends, no team, no backup, no pro…
/r/askTRP
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You can survive, but you will never thrive. It's not how much work you do, it's who you know. You should know this by now. "Becoming MGTOW and work harder than the rest of them" will get you f***ing nowhere but burnt out and nothing to show for it. You fuck up once, and everyone that hates you will report it to the boss. You do everything right, no one is going to praise you for being a good worker. I've left 5 jobs through this. I had the mentality that the supervisors/managers would see my har…
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