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Because it feels good. And it makes you look better (what the OP said). Ghosting also takes less effort than a confrontation (which is unproductive, since you're cutting them out). If I can make myself appear more selective and discerning by literally not doing anything, why not?
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 04:27 PM
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Ghosting gives you the upper hand. You control of the situation. By testing the waters down the line, you give the control back in their hands. Since most people are vindictive, they will gleefully say "You ghosted on me, you're horrible, lose my number, good bye". They might contact you months later, in which case they will be on their best behavior, knowing you might bail on them again at any moment. But sometimes women will contact you just to see if you're open to the possibility of resuming…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 10:51 AM
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I clicked the video link without reading anything. Thought this was a stranger going up to a woman and proposing as a YouTube joke or some sort of ironic pick-up act. That is what I genuinely thought from the girl's body language. Then I read the video description and didn't get what was going on. Went back to this post to read it and, damn, this marriage has no future.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 07:22 PM
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This will be your self-fulfilling prophecy. Don't act honorable and then you can attract shitty people. You say you don't trust people to keep their promises, yet if you have nothing to gain from keeping your word, you don't. People who you could actually trust will simply stop giving a shit about you, then you can keep going on about how no one can be trusted. It's not like I cannot relate with some of your experiences, but this type of thinking is hopefully not your end point. I have went thro…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 08:15 PM
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Seinfeld knows how to react to things like this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rEFjRrR3CQ4 I always agreed and amplified for my sour grapes amusement. If she brings up taking a break, instead of just talking about her problems, it's a lost cause anyway. Might as well go out with the upper hand. Act like you were already ruminating the idea. That is, if you don't mind not seeing her again afterwards.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 08:06 PM
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Well said. OP, this response is the right response. Physical cheating might have not yet happened, but emotional cheating is almost certain.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 07:54 PM
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Yes! I am definitely never going to getting married when they have an early retirement to gain by a few simple lies. Imagine how many thousands of dollars a man willingly gives away in a marriage. And how many hours of hard work it takes to make that money, on top of keeping her happy. Should help being a hell of a lot more discriminating.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 11:20 PM
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This also brings up a good point: People like that seem unfamiliar with the concept of self-development, awareness, and introspection. Just because you have said something a year ago, it doesn't mean you still hold those same beliefs today. And even if you do, you probably could articulate it better or see it from a slightly shifted perspective, which is potentially closer to the truth. These people never improve themselves. Their worldview is the same at age 24 as it was at 16.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 10:59 AM
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This thread says that it doesn't matter what you say. What matters is who says it. The usual bluepill thinking is "Well, maybe if I send a more clever message and comment on her interests, she will be interested". Doesn't matter if it's Tinder, OkCupid, or another online site. Same thing happens. It's all about the face. Which is one of the hardest things to accept when you're still bluepilled.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 08:30 AM
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I used to be clinically depressed for about four years, wouldn't want to get out of bed, and it made me anxious and nihilistic. Obviously crashed and burned when I attempted to date, which only fueled the fire. Took time off for about two years, bettered myself, then it was a lot easier to hold frame. Therapy should help, but you have to find a therapist that is the perfect fit for you. Don't settle with the first one. I didn't have the luck, because I couldn't objectively trust anything they sa…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 07:39 PM
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Great detective work, Columbo. I was under the impression this subreddit promotes an unfiltered dialogue, not groupthink or blind parroting of already existing beliefs. I'm here to challenge and broaden my views, which is why I usually post when I have a different opinion than the rest of the posters. To offer a new perspective. Obviously I'm more likely to get reactions like yours, unlike if I only contributed white noise or played up the crowd like you're trying to do, but that is least of my …
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 06:38 PM
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There always will be thirsty guys that like everything an attractive girl posts. And I do blame those guys for encouraging garbage. Another issue is that women can visit social sites and come away with the belief that they're witty and clever and how most people are so kind and friendly! Then when an oblivious average or below guy goes on the same site, all he knows is he is not as funny, his ideas are not as interesting, and that no one wants to willingly reach out to him. But it's not because …
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 04:14 PM
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Yes, pretty much. And agreed, got bored of this topic myself.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 03:41 AM
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I see what you're saying. The reason I draw the line at three shots of tequila that is offered, but not forced, is because of what you have said a few sentences earlier. In that environment, once you're getting tipsy, it is more difficult to stop and assess the situation. Which could be fine, if getting drunk was a geniune, natural progression throughout the night without any ulterior motives. But not when consulting a ten step guide, ensuring she can't drive home by herself, hoping they're ligh…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 03:16 AM
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I agree with what you're saying. If two people want to meet up at a bar for drinks, that's more than fine. She does have a choice to reject drinking and suggest something else, if she's not comfortable with potentially getting drunk. And she does have to take responsibility, if she drinks more than she can handle. She's an adult. My problem was with the post that inspired this one, the suggestion here that anyone who dared to disagree with that post was a beta whiteknight with a Bushido moral co…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 02:54 AM
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Except that is not what I have said at all. You took quite a mental "slippery slope" leap there. Getting someone drunk with tactics so you have less resistance cannot be compared to being assertive in setting up a date or physically escalating. I have been reading red pill material for the past four years and bullshit PUA material before that, so you haven't told me anything new with that dominant stuff. If the only way one can initative towards sex is by relying on substances and the other pers…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 12:58 AM
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I have posted in that thread and I do not recall anyone talking about accommodating a girl, having the interaction strictly on her terms, turning any meeting into an asexual friendly hang out, not applying "social pressure" by potentially not seeing her again if the evening doesn't progressed as you desired, or having to earn sex by being a good little beta whiteknight. All the dissenters have said, more or less, was that you shouldn't get a girl drunk, while crossing your fingers that she's lig…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 12:05 AM
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Exactly. Go on any social networking site, intended for meeting new people, where you can like people's posts. Girls could post the most inane, boring content and they will get dozens of likes from guys. Yet guys could post funny videos or intriguing thoughts and their post will barely get any approval. Add anonimity and the reverse will happen, because guys will have no incentive to like or encourage bad content. That is one reason why you will often see women start their posts with "As a girl.…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 10:29 PM
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Yes, refilling your friend's glass is being a good host. Difference is your friend already knows you and trusts you well enough and you're not trying to lower their inhibition so you can have sex with them. And it is creepy. You're not treating the woman for that many drinks out of kindness or basic manners, like you would for a good friend or a guest in your home, but to get something from them that you feel otherwise couldn't.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 08:32 PM
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I was going to say this post has some good, solid advice for those who are new to casual dating and red pill, but then I got to step 9: When her glass is empty, fill it - You don't need to get drunk. You don't even need to drink. Last nights had 3, I had one beer. She was buzzing at the end, I was in complete control. Just keep those drinks coming but 2-3 is ideally the magic number. You could get lucky and find one that is a light weight. Which is creepy as fauck. Not in the "code magenta shami…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 05:57 PM
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This is important, because music can change how you feel and think. If you listen to a catchy song, you might find yourself repeating the chorus in your head or even out loud. What if they are pathetic "blue pill" lyrics? It will eventually reflect in your behavior. And how much music do you listen to every day? I've noticed when I have listened to a lot of defeatist and depressing love songs, allowing me to wallow in my pity or fantasize about "the one", I would be overly emotional, sensitive, …
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 07:06 PM
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Okay, this post made me want to respond. Why are cynics and the awakened referred to as losers? Sounds like manipulation in itself. As if the author (not the OP) has life all figured out and you don't. He has pulled the curtain on life and your reality is now shattered. Also, there is a book you can buy if you want answers. Cause you wouldn't want to be a loser, now do you? Don't fall for it.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 05:09 PM
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What a useless article. Grabbing random tweets and then adding pointless, unfunny sarcastic quips after it, while taking each and every one of those statements personally. That solipsism.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 01:56 PM
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No, I don't want children and neither do I want to financially support a grown woman. But I do want to emotionally and physically care for my significant other, because, you know, I want to care about them. I want them to know I will take care of them if they're sick, will cheer them up if they're feeling down, and so forth. Caring and protecting personally fulfills me. If you want to be all that independent, then why would you need me? Or better, why would I want you? Companionship? Already hav…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 10:40 PM
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I'm going to dissent here and say it depends on how you process the information. When I read red pill material every single day, I feel bitter and irritated. Especially with the occasional torrent of MRA material that gets posted here in waves. It's like reading the news. Good idea to be informed, but not sure how good it does to read about murders, incompetence, and injustice every morning.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 03:59 PM
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I used to feel like that as well. Now I would have absolutely no qualms seeing more than one woman at a time. There is nothing wrong with it from a moral standpoint. Let's get cynical. I mean, logical. Most women are also seeing more than one guy at a time, especially if you met them off of an online dating web site. If you only see one girl at a time, what happens if she cancels a date and wants to reschedule for next week? Sit around like an asexual blob, counting the days for that elusive nex…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 03:35 PM
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And as soon as she gets fit, she dumps the guy because of all the newly gained attention she hasn't experienced before.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 05:41 PM
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Same. When I haven't slept for about a day, I become more talkative, bold, and flirty with women. Any anxiety I have, it's gone. Wish there was a way to naturally cultivate this feeling without fucking up my sleep schedule...
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 01:49 AM
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It's threads like these that make it so easy for me to shed any traces of blue pill that I still have left. Whenever I feel a surge of romanticism in me, I just need to read a couple threads on the OkCupid subreddit and I'm back to reality.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 05:32 PM
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Agreed. I have unsubscribed from this subreddit four times already because I couldn't take the constant "Here's an article where a woman gets something we don't, now let's circlejerk over it." I'm all for facts and reality checks, but it's always the same thing regurgitated to ad nauseum and it doesn't help. It's too much negativity.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/13 12:22 AM
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Yup. Or "I am going to rob you while you're asleep, because you didn't prepare yourself enough for potential intruders" and "I am going to take everything you worked for and care about, because I purchased a gun and you didn't." Just as justifiable.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 06:53 PM
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Allow me to offer a rebuttal, if my 'friends' are willing to lose me as a friend over some girl, why would I want to be friends with them? Because they're funny and have hilarious stories to share, along with interesting insights and knowledge. Because they will have your back, hook you up with connections, and in general they're people who you can do cool stuff with. Obviously a lot of men are not red pill, but so what. Is it worth potentially losing all those benefits for flirting with some gi…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/13 02:46 PM
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I think it's because his book "Bang" is actually really good; realistic and packed with tons of solid advice. Definitely worth reading. The blogs though? Not so much.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/13 09:14 AM
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Appreciate you elaborating. I have the same grooming style, but wear a lot of preppy clothes. Complete opposite of my demeanor, but working in the art field I'm always drawn to those bold colors and patterns. But been debating lately whether I should match my personality for a more congruent image or keep playing up the contrast.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/13 11:50 PM
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I'm curious, since you run stoic aloof game, what's your specific style niche?
/r/TheRedPill25/08/13 10:17 PM
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It's really just the Microsoft Word aesthetic of the book. I don't dig the styles he presents, but there are nuggets of great tips in there. Worth reading, as long as you focus on the theories and not the actual clothing suggestions.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/13 10:13 PM
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Same. When I first got acquainted with TRP, I thought Return of Kings was great. But the more I read, the more I realized it's full with distorted thinking and Cracked-esque articles.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/13 02:06 PM
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He shouldn't. But it renders the article completely pointless. It's nothing but an unproductive rant. Learn nothing from it.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/13 12:37 AM
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I was about to post the same exact thing. Depends on how well you filter. I have never dealt with any cheapskate girls. They always paid their own share. Food, tickets, or what have you. Sometimes I treated them, of course, but sometimes they treated me. Equal share. I wouldn't put up with any of those things in that article.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 11:56 PM
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