Space_Salt Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Broke up with an LTR that showed major signs of BPD. Good tip with the service staff. For OP: There is 0 way to see a narc (lot of bpds have narcissistic traits) coming. You literally can't protect yourself and it sucks. All you can do is try to be more careful next time, don't blame yourself if you get caught out with one again, just exit faster and faster each time. You're already on the right line by checking for boundary pushing. For the head swivel, so sorry for you. Just relax and know she can't do much to you. If she does they'll be consequ…	/r/askTRP	14/09/20 09:08 AM
3	How much more success were you guys able to have on dating apps (Tinder, Hinge, etc.) when you got jacked versus when you were lean but skinny? Super weird post. Nobody considered every woman is asking 'what kind of guy do I need to look for to get the qualities I want'? Will I have more or less success on dating apps if I put posey pictures or pictures of what I'm actually like? Nobody considered you haven't met the right girls yet?!	/r/askTRP	12/09/20 07:56 AM
2	Apart from sex, I dread spending time with gf Try to find a gf who wants something like that too. Not every couple looks the same. Maybe you just like alone time. There are girls like that too that can appreciate that. Or. Keep dating til you learn the if you want to have a meaningful relationship you need to give back to someone. Or. Give up, sex isn't that important just be alone. Or. Keep dating until you find someone you want to hang out with more?	/r/askTRP	16/08/20 09:38 AM
1	How my GF sees the alpha in me. What do you think? Wow.... 'I changed my life plans because of you'. That's a bit weird.	/r/askTRP	02/08/20 12:01 AM
1	How my GF sees the alpha in me. What do you think? Sorry.... not alpha traits...	/r/askTRP	02/08/20 12:01 AM
1	How my GF sees the alpha in me. What do you think? Knowing your needs and having a plan for everything aren't exactly male traits... Maybe she is just trying to make you happy and help you guys have the best relationship possible. She's telling you the things she likes.	/r/askTRP	02/08/20 12:01 AM
1	Dealing with girls who counteroffer drink dates with afternoon lunch dates No I think that is up to the person to decide. But think trying to date a doctor (or other busy lady), then assuming she's power tripping or checking who will spend money on her because she's saying this is her only option, is bad.	/r/askTRP	01/08/20 07:41 PM
2	Dealing with girls who counteroffer drink dates with afternoon lunch dates Good idea	/r/askTRP	31/07/20 07:17 PM
1	Dealing with girls who counteroffer drink dates with afternoon lunch dates For real... I was one of those. They ARE busy. Work, gym, cooking dinner, face masks, hair masks, chilling out alone time and then the additional studying they're doing so the don't end up with a guy who then disses them for not havig a good enough career. My advice, just work around them. If you haven't been on 3 dates with them yet, you're just not important to them yet. Just let them have it their way for a while, if they end up liking you a lot these career minded girls are likely to put the…	/r/askTRP	31/07/20 07:16 PM
1	Update: I'm the dumb motherfucker that spent a decade in the military and still offered his girl up to Jody on a silver platter. Was I a little smarter today? Yeah... but how do you get a bitch who makes you her life? Why can't you have everything? All the stuff you love in your life and the bitch you make your world? I don't like this attitude of just becoming emotionally closed off. It makes life not worth living as much. Eventually if you want to be happy you've then got to undo alllll of that emotionally closed off stuff again and risk losing good women inbetween. I am female, full disclosure. Just from experience, I've been down that road of beco…	/r/askTRP	11/07/20 06:47 AM
2	Update: I'm the dumb motherfucker that spent a decade in the military and still offered his girl up to Jody on a silver platter. Was I a little smarter today? Come onnnnn. What is life without love... really. You gotta go through some nasties sometimes on your way to find the good ones. It's just part of life. This kind of attitude will lead to woman hating. Woman hating leads to an empty life with no chance of finding the good woman. This road of going through woman that screw you over, people disappointing you and breaking your trust is hard. You need mental strength to get through it; it just IS painful and there's nothing you can do to avoid the p…	/r/askTRP	30/05/20 06:13 AM
1	Update: I'm the dumb motherfucker that spent a decade in the military and still offered his girl up to Jody on a silver platter. Was I a little smarter today? This is awful!!! So sorry for all these people that have experienced this :( :( :(	/r/askTRP	30/05/20 06:01 AM
2	Update: I'm the dumb motherfucker that spent a decade in the military and still offered his girl up to Jody on a silver platter. Was I a little smarter today? :( This is so sad!	/r/askTRP	30/05/20 05:59 AM
1	Update: I'm the dumb motherfucker that spent a decade in the military and still offered his girl up to Jody on a silver platter. Was I a little smarter today? Don't let one bad female ruin females for everyone. Don't make excuses for females as 'typical female'. Hold every female up to the same standards or before you know it you'll be a woman-hater AND have accepted a shit female into your life. There are good females out there and morality is a sexless code	/r/askTRP	30/05/20 05:58 AM
1	Ive got oneitis, am I retarded? Omg.... this is totally crazy. I disagree with the majority of these posts. Sometimes you just find the perfect girl, she adores you and ITS ACTUALLY RIGHT. The absolute worst you're going to get is a bit embarassed/heart-broken. That is NOTHING compared to losing out on an awesome girl! Don't spin plates, why? That's just a fake way to 'protect' yourself and pretend you haven't lost if you lose. If you want to give it a chance and you spin plates you could lose her. Just do what feels right! Pl…	/r/askTRP	28/04/20 09:34 PM
1	Ive got oneitis, am I retarded? .... eh hem... Has nobody actually said 'errrr she seems to like you too... why don't you try and build the non-sexual side of the relationship and see if you guys are right for each other. If you're not, no worries'. Sex in a couple is more important to some and less important to others. Oneitis won't kill you - you'll either get married, have your heart broken or it'll fade out. What's the big deal just go with it.	/r/askTRP	28/04/20 09:29 PM
2	Brothers, how do I rewire my brain from chicks on screen to real life women experience? Decide whether you want a real human, as you are, or a one-sided relationship with a convienient fantasy that will never exist. Then.... walk out of your house and keep giving it a go until it works out. Giving up is for losers. It's not like nobody else has problems and struggles. Having said that if you prefer a life of porn and being single, go for it! Nobody is stopping you but yourself. Work out why you even want a real woman.	/r/askTRP	28/04/20 09:18 PM