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| 375 | I have been to my 35th Tinder date. Crosspost from r/Tinder | Spacedust_ | /r/seduction | 25/06/15 05:57 PM | |
| 222 | 610 cold approaches. Personal Post | Spacedust_ | /r/seduction | 24/08/15 09:41 PM | |
| 194 | “If he is not having sex with you, he is getting it from somewhere else” Tricks, Manipulations etc.. My weekend with 7 hot women. | Spacedust_ | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/15 09:17 PM | |
| 182 | 610 cold approaches. Part 1 : A life Changing Journey | Spacedust_ | /r/seduction | 19/08/15 09:41 PM | |
| 64 | 610 cold approaches. Part 2 : What I’ve learned | Spacedust_ | /r/seduction | 20/08/15 09:21 PM | |
| 20 | FR:LR; How I have been using Models without knowing about it | Spacedust_ | /r/seduction | 28/07/15 03:19 PM | |
| 20 | Sometimes just being out there is enough! | Spacedust_ | /r/seduction | 12/06/15 08:22 PM |
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| 3 | Should I smile a lot when I'm talking to girls and my smile isn't the best looking?Talk like how you talk to your friends. | /r/seduction | 30/09/15 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Girls of reddit. Whats your idea of a perfect 1st date ever?must not troll...... | /r/seduction | 29/09/15 08:26 PM |
| 2 | No motivation without a woman by my side"Don’t rely on someone else for your happiness and self-worth. Only you can be responsible for that. If you can’t love and respect yourself – no one else will be able to make that happen." Built a better social circle, I bet that is going to help you to feel less shitty | /r/seduction | 25/09/15 02:26 PM |
| 3 | How to handle no reply?To be honest text game wont help if you are seeing these girls regularly in real life. You initiated , you mention that you wanna hangout with them, so you tried no need to worry about the outcome. Just ask yourself "Why would you ever be excited to be with someone who is not excited to be with you?" | /r/seduction | 24/09/15 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Good responses to "what's your type?"https://open.spotify.com/track/06j6KeHuUjSsdNZCJip5G3 | /r/seduction | 24/09/15 05:25 PM |
| 6 | Anyone else feel bad after a casual hookup?Happens to me sometimes, but mostly afterwards, not during the sex. There is usually two reasons to this happen to me; 1st when I lower my standards, like she is okay but she is not kinda girl I would have a relationship with. Maybe she is shorter than what I like, maybe dumber than what I like etc... I know I am not going to have a relationship with her but still I am horny, after sex I feel sad and I feel like I just wasted my time, I will never see her again. 2nd When I rely on other people f… | /r/seduction | 24/09/15 05:01 PM |
| 0 | Where to meet girlsmoon, jungles, nursing homes etc... | /r/seduction | 24/09/15 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Been stood up 5 times in the last 3 months. What the fuck?!I have canceled 2 dates this week and been canceled on twice last week. Put yourself into average women's situation, hundred of guys message them weekly, even if you stand out from hundreds of guys and arrange a date with her. She probably goes on to dates couple of times a week, which sometimes get frustrating, she falls behind of her gym/yoga schedules, sometimes she is really tired , most of the times she just decides to go on a date with a better guy. Dont get it personal, it is hypergamy, f… | /r/seduction | 17/09/15 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Ideas for online dating alternatives?bookstores, gyms, libraries or coffee shops. Maybe a park where she is reading her book at a sunny afternoon... | /r/seduction | 15/09/15 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Daygame has entered the realm of artsy documentaries (5min)As a veteran daygamer my analysis; First of all dude has huge balls, without knowing any pattern or tecnique just going out there and being spontenous is great. In a couple of situations where there were 3-4 girls in the set and timing/place was weird but he was able to talk to them. But overall he sounds incredibly needy/desperate , most of the girls shuts him down because of that. Until the cameraman shows up and he explains he is trying to meet someone offline almost all of them rejected him.… | /r/seduction | 15/09/15 08:11 PM |
| 3 | When to drop her (Tinder > Whatsapp)This is wrong >tomorrow we will go do something you should have set the time and place as well. After saying you were busy then backing up from that was wrong, you should hold your frame. You rejecting cinema idea was right, or not walking around under rain with dogs. It is always a date.... Sounds like you are invested in this girls way more than you should've you need to game other chicks, just because some stranger you met online giving you a hard time, it is not worth to beat yourself up. | /r/seduction | 15/09/15 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Seddit, how do you get into state before going out?also "power pose" while listening music and taking a shower to refresh works for me. | /r/seduction | 10/09/15 09:08 PM |
| 6 | Confusion between "abundance mentality" and "quitting"In my opinion abundance mentality is having multiple options so when things go south with one girl, you wont care and move on to another one. Abundance mentality is not acting like you don’t care, it is the state when you truly don’t care. Acting like you don’t care is not it, because deep down you probably still care about her. Abundance mentality has nothing to do with quitting. For example, I have a date tonight, tomorrow , Sunday and possibly Tuesday with 4 different girls. If any of these g… | /r/seduction | 10/09/15 07:05 PM |
| 3 | I'm having an atrocious experience with women, need any help possible with myself and women.How did u sleep with 100? Just do the same thing u did with previous 100 | /r/seduction | 03/09/15 07:26 PM |
| 3 | Utterly confused.Thats why he gets their number, to close the deal. It is not some bar or a club, it is on the street, most of the women are busy with their life and they usually bring up the topic that they need to go during this interactions... Best way to make sure he sees them again is instadates, or solid numbers . | /r/seduction | 03/09/15 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Utterly confused.welcome to the daygame, this symptoms are not unique to you, most of the daygamers -including me- encounter this flakes a lot. I almost get %50 n-close rate but most of them flakes. I know it's frustrating to invest in this hot girls and they are being incredibly receptive, after getting numbers you feel great then they dont reply your texts.... Most of the time it is because you are not building enough attraction and building more rapport thats why they are being friendly and receptive. They ca… | /r/seduction | 03/09/15 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Finally got a number from a girl. Need help not to fuck it up.How do I not fuck up? By fucking it up..... After fucking it up most of the time in long run you will learn how to less fucking it up... This might not make sense to you but it is what it is... There is nothing you can do at this point, you had your opportunity and you played the game. You need to move on to other girls, and when you get successful you will learn how to less invest in girls so you wont care one chick who rejected you once likes you are not anymore... | /r/seduction | 02/09/15 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Finally hooked up with a girl...now whatWhy didnt you text her? How was logistics when you met her? You dont need to ask us, what to do next , it is just common sense. You need to ask her our or invite her to your place to take it further... | /r/seduction | 02/09/15 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Confusing BehaviorThis is not confusing, you are just emotionally investing in her. She may be just friendly and not receptive the way you thought she was.. No matter the reason, and also considering the you gave her benefit of doubt and texted again, you need to be talking to other girls who will text you back and not care her at all... | /r/seduction | 02/09/15 04:14 AM |
| 2 | AH! Feeling bitter over introducing a friend into pickup and him having MASSIVE success within two weeks.Sounds like it has nothing to do with him.. you are feeling that it is not fair to you, all the effort you put into daygame is not paying off and you are directing your anger/jealousy towards to your friend. If you cant learn from your friend and his success bothers you so much just try to do your own thing for a while until you get some good results and check with him. Once your desperateness reduces his success wont bother you | /r/seduction | 02/09/15 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Question: How do you consistently make approaches "Special" ? Also field report of tonight for meDont worry about finding unique stuff about people... Just try to make assumptions about people you see in your normal life in your mind. During approaches try to make Cold Readings; You need to make educated guesses about someone then whatever her response is it should spark a conversation. | /r/seduction | 02/09/15 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Social media is a vital part of modern seductionThis is partially true in my opinion. Social media posts, follower count and amount of the likes you attract, will increase or decrease your chances to take things further with her. But it is still possible to attract younger hbs without help of the social media, and close. Social media is just a tool that will help you when used correctly. On tinder/okc Instagram matter. In daygame or night game it doesnt really affects your chances. I get often asked about snapchat, and I tell them I think it … | /r/seduction | 01/09/15 05:20 AM |
| 2 | Don't know what I'm doing wrong. Been 6 years since I had a relationshipIt is great that you have a good life, hobbies an amazing job. You sound like you got your shit together and want to enjoy life with someone next to you. Though there are a lot of variables that we dont know about you to give you a solid feedback. You maybe emotionally investing too much into them from start, even though they are sleeping with you they might turned off by that later. Whats going on with demographics with this girls? How many women did you date so far? You are a scientist you sho… | /r/seduction | 01/09/15 05:09 AM |
| 8 | Mark Manson says you won't have much luck going outside of your "demographic." Have you guys found this to be true?Maybe my problem is that I'm straight up obsessed with fat asses and slutty dresses, but the more educated girls tend to be on the skinny side and dress more conservatively. This is not true, a lot of women who goes out clubbing tends to blend in with the crowd which is usually tight dresses with high heels and deep cleavages... I have met a doctor, couple of teachers , therapists etc.. in upscale venues who wore pretty sexy dresses... Every guy on the planet thinks that Jennas are hotter, you a… | /r/seduction | 01/09/15 04:54 AM |
| 6 | Have you ever chosen to be in the friend zone?Yes be friendzoned by women that is amazing in my opinion. I have done this just two days ago when the girl I met softly brought up the topic that she is in a relationship. She was amazing and not available why not to be friends with her and expand my social circle. Also she may have hot friends that she can introduce me to. Most people here are against to be friendzoned because they are assuming that you may get friendzoned by every other girl, which is a huge problem. But if you have no proble… | /r/seduction | 01/09/15 04:42 AM |
| 2 | You have a future. Don't waste it by living in the past.You sir, thanks for the great post, this is going to be in my favorites list. | /r/seduction | 30/08/15 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Feminists are awesome when it comes to getting laid, am I the only guy who has experienced this?Good for you, sounds like you know what you want, just do it then no reason to seek validation from online forums. | /r/seduction | 26/08/15 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Meeting girls through crossfitI have been doing cf for 3 years, I have attended 3 different boxes so far... like any other social gatherings you need to be high value and socially intelligent. Most cf coaches are ripped dudes and they openly flirt with single women coming to classes so that might be an obstacle in rare cases. Just be friendly and before and after the work outs, show your values and be friends with the girls then when she show IOIs pull the trigger... | /r/seduction | 26/08/15 02:37 AM |
| 1 | 610 cold approaches. Personal PostI dont approach everyone, I only approach women that I find attractive, not walking too fast, I usually cant approach in too crowded streets thats my sticking point, I wander around less crowded street next to crowded streets, not sketchy streets though. For example broadway in nyc is a crowded street that is hard to stop people. Some women is obviously taken those are either have a ring (I dont look for a ring but sometimes its obvious) or they cary like 3 bags (laptop,personal,lunch) If they h… | /r/seduction | 26/08/15 02:22 AM |
| 1 | 610 cold approaches. Personal PostIn the morning they are late to work, around lunch they are busy eating their lunch or they are with their coworkers and not want to be seen as sluts giving out their phone numbers, in the evening they are doing errands etc... those were my excuses when I first started. Just after work makes more sense to me, if they are not in a hurry there is no reason for them to not to speak with me. My strategy is I walk towards to metro stations and stop girls going opposite way of metro so they are prob g… | /r/seduction | 26/08/15 12:04 AM |
| 1 | 610 cold approaches. Personal Posttry to get a feedback from an objective friend, or someone who is more experienced than you when it comes to seduction. this is something not going to destroy your game but when you step up to advance levels you may wanna focus on fixing... | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 09:09 PM |
| 1 | 610 cold approaches. Personal PostPositive response to me means a close (n-close, kiss-close, instadate, or sex) . Rest of your questions are irrelevant... | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 08:59 PM |
| 1 | 610 cold approaches. Personal PostThanks, I dont think my job affects the interactions in any type of negative way. By the time we start talking about my job she either shows IOIs or IODs. It is really personal whatever opinion she has about us it will stay that way until she gets to know me better, I dont care what they think about me anyways. | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 08:52 PM |
| 1 | 610 cold approaches. Personal Postmost women would take a high status 5.9 who is fit ann dressing better to taller guys who has nothing going on in their life any given day. Dont focus on your weaknesses and dont compare yourself to other people. Yes 30 dates plus a handful of one night stands | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 04:34 PM |
| 1 | 610 cold approaches. Personal PostWomen dont go to grocery stores with group of people, at least 80% do errands alone, you are just finding an excuse. Try to check out other posts about AA, but as far as I know there is no magic pill, you either learn this or sterile... | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 03:09 PM |
| 2 | 610 cold approaches. Personal PostGood job, keep going on. I dont recommend to go out of game because you may start from square one again, just still approach in the campus or in the grocery stores and what not, sounds like your problem is getting more positive responses and built more confidence. Night game is harsh, day game is way easier. You can still get away with a lot of mistakes during the daygame and still have a great conversation with people. Still be nice to people , just dont be needy, make whatever you are doing fo… | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 02:33 PM |
| 1 | 610 cold approaches. Personal PostI do specifically day game, I work in a metro area so usually after work or on my coffee breaks I approach. Any street that is not sketchy and not in a bad neighborhood works. | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 02:17 PM |
| 3 | 610 cold approaches. Personal Post90 days no fap is impressive. I did live alone or with roommates, if you live with your parents move out asap. I am a software engineer | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 02:05 PM |
| 1 | 610 cold approaches. Personal Postwhat to not speak is common sense: religion, ex lovers, politics, race basically anything people have strong opinion and might take it personally. Cliche but rest of the time, what you say does not really matter, it is how you say it and your intentions behind those words. | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 01:59 PM |
| 2 | 610 cold approaches. Personal PostIt definitely helped a lot. When you know what you are going to say to them, it reduces AA. Overtime you gain confidence. | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 12:26 PM |
| 1 | 610 cold approaches. Personal PostThis October it is gonna be two years. But I didnt approach anyone when I was in relationships. | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 12:22 PM |
| 3 | 610 cold approaches. Personal PostImpressing women should be like talking to your friends, talking to her like you talk to your other friends shows you just being you, dont care about her opinions but you are doing this for self-amusement, she can take it or leave it... This confidence and her not being sure if you are not impressed by what she said or not, builds sexual tension, which is attraction itself basically... Now smiling too much is subtle for agreeing what's being said at the moment, you dont smile when you tease or d… | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Acne Scarring and ConfidenceI think looks do matter but not as much as people think, of course your situation is more fragile because it feeds your negative thoughts. If I were you, I would openly wear makeup and not be ashamed of it, I would even ask my sister to help me what to buy and how to apply it. Then I would go somewhere, maybe another city or town, that other people dont know me to approach to see peoples reactions... But also think about it If there was this high status guy who is comfortable around other people… | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 02:51 AM |
| 4 | 610 cold approaches. Personal PostMindset, eating healthy (on the days I eat sugary snacks or drinking soda for the lunch I get so hungry I cant really think of anything else but dinner), no-fap (I masturbate once a week) Also my experience makes me to crave it; bars and clubs are nice but all the hot girls with their drunks friends and get approached 20 times a night. I get one positive response from lets say every ten hb9 but daytime this ratio is almost like 1/3 for hb9s So the same hot girls walking around , going to groceri… | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 02:31 AM |
| 2 | 610 cold approaches. Personal PostI am white, 6.2", usually go up and down between 190lbs-208lbs and 13%-17% body fat. I did crossfit like 3 years, now I go to gym by myself but still do HIIT or crossfit, oly lift sometimes... I am an average looking when it comes to my face/hair/eyes, most of the time I see better looking dudes walking around in terms of face symmetry and what not, but I think being tall- fit ,my fashion sense, the way I carry myself, also being bold and direct helps me to stand out most of the time... | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 02:21 AM |
| 14 | 610 cold approaches. Personal PostSounds like you are doing it right, approach with a smile and high energy then tone it down after the approach and smile only there is something funny going on. The problem is I thought I was doing the right amount too, my friend recorded my approach then showed it to me that I am smiling almost entire interactions, sometimes it may seem needy and insincere. | /r/seduction | 24/08/15 11:57 PM |
| 9 | 610 cold approaches. Personal PostTry not to approach too much in a very small amount of time though. I have heard of people approaching 100 sets in a weekend which is stupid in my opinion. Test and see whats your optimum number a day or a week. You need to absorb info from your sets, but also dont be a pussy and approach only like 1-2 times a week. Keep yourself accountable, create a journal or a blog, that you write your frs all the time | /r/seduction | 24/08/15 11:46 PM |
| 3 | Creating big emotional turnover/spark/loop/rollercoaster while already in a relationship with her?From Mark Manson;"This is more or less the blueprint of female attraction: a strong, high status, attractive exterior (lifestyle and looks), fearless, and able to open up and share your vulnerable side with her (and theoretically, only her). Women get weak in the knees for this. And it’s not even conscious in them most of the time. Basically strong, bad boy who doesn’t really care and have abundance of options share his vulnerability with her and she thinks she accomplished something really impo… | /r/seduction | 22/08/15 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Kino at work. She has a boyfriend.I mean dating her, or one night stand, or a relationship whatever you are looking for... usually it is a really stupid idea to "game" your coworkers... | /r/seduction | 22/08/15 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Kino at work. She has a boyfriend.She has boyfriend, just keep her in your social circle and move on to other girls. She is your coworker, it is not a good idea to date someone in your workspace , just keep her in your social circle and move on to other girls. | /r/seduction | 22/08/15 08:59 PM |
| 1 | 610 cold approaches. Part 2 : What I’ve learnedI am sure experienced people gave you good feed backs. Try to care less about it and dont beat yourself up , I am sure it will change sometime soon when you just do it for fun. | /r/seduction | 22/08/15 05:40 PM |
| 1 | 610 cold approaches. Part 2 : What I’ve learnedYep, after approach I take a very quick note of interactions, what I did right and what I did wrong, later I review it and think about what I can do better next time | /r/seduction | 22/08/15 05:37 PM |
| 1 | 610 cold approaches. Part 2 : What I’ve learnedI am sure there are a lot of posts either in this sub or in reddit about taking action and overcoming procrastinating. I think this stuff is like fitness-diet it all comes down to willingness, there is nobody out there can make you to move your ass out of the couch and improve yourself. Does it make sense? How bad do you want it? Why to let excuses to control your life and goals... I didnt visit the sub too much, I was visiting online forums when I needed motivation usually. Or when I was too bo… | /r/seduction | 22/08/15 05:35 PM |
| 1 | 610 cold approaches. Part 2 : What I’ve learnedProblem is not too much rapport, problem is without building enough attraction , going into rapport phase and not standing out from other guys. You need to fill that emotional void in her unconsciousness being the guy she wants then you need to built rapport to have a deep emotional connection with her. Doing this over and over you will understand what I am talking about. | /r/seduction | 21/08/15 10:50 PM |
| 2 | 610 cold approaches. Part 2 : What I’ve learnedUsually with a friend, doesnt matter who , as long as we are enjoying the night and outcome independent everything it fine. | /r/seduction | 21/08/15 12:39 PM |
| 6 | 610 cold approaches. Part 2 : What I’ve learnedHmm thanks for the feedback, I actually didnt expect people would want to read such things because it would be seen as like a novel or an autobiography type of post. I just wanted to focus on summary of what I have learned. However depending on the feedback I could focus on the topics you have pointed out in a comment or an other post. | /r/seduction | 20/08/15 10:18 PM |
| 2 | 610 cold approaches. Part 1 : A life Changing JourneyUsing a synth and keyboard requires some musical skills but basics is enough, I thought learning piano thru groupon classes is a good step, I also learned Ableton on the side to make couple of amateur mixes , songs using samples and what not... just start learning, nothing bad gonna come out of it. | /r/seduction | 20/08/15 09:16 PM |
| 2 | 610 cold approaches. Part 1 : A life Changing Journeyhahaha okay champ, you are a lost cause, not going to spend my time to change your mind. hope other people on here have the energy to reply this... | /r/seduction | 20/08/15 06:32 PM |
| 1 | 610 cold approaches. Part 1 : A life Changing JourneyUmm I am gonna little bit harsh on you.... Ok so I have never said that I am handsome, even if I was, being handsome could only help little bit, not all the handsome people are getting laid left and right. Being good looking doesnt mean you are attractive, it doesnt work that way... It is obvious you dont have any idea about seduction... You cant compare people like this, he might have 15000 approaches under his belt, but if he is not improving himself, chances are he is going to get laid is sma… | /r/seduction | 20/08/15 05:31 PM |
| 1 | 610 cold approaches. Part 1 : A life Changing JourneyThanks, Probably in a day or two part 2 is coming. | /r/seduction | 20/08/15 02:25 PM |
| 1 | 610 cold approaches. Part 1 : A life Changing JourneyIt def helped a lot, after about a week I have started to see the changes. Second and third weeks were tough to go thru but I managed it by the 25th day, I was not craving it too much. I still do no porn thing. I fap only once a week if I havent got laid in that week. | /r/seduction | 20/08/15 02:25 PM |
| 1 | 610 cold approaches. Part 1 : A life Changing JourneyI guess it is around 1 million, with the suburbs and stuff it is around 4 million people. I did approached the same women twice couple of times without realizing it, but I didnt count second approaches if thats why you asking. | /r/seduction | 20/08/15 02:21 PM |
| 0 | 610 cold approaches. Part 1 : A life Changing Journeysounds like you are already doing what you can, I dont go to school so I have free days.. I also dont need to worry about assignments/midterms/finals etc.. If you are actually going to a campus maybe you can meet people in day time in campus or in school's clubs and go out less and do your hobbies rather than going out often. | /r/seduction | 20/08/15 02:18 PM |
| 2 | 610 cold approaches. Part 1 : A life Changing JourneyKeep your going to gym habit , try to make friends at the gym just be friendly and talk about workouts maybe you can make cool bros from gym. Online pua forums are ok to find wings, it is true there are some weird- wanna be people on it, but at least you can go out with them and learn good venues and start approaching. AA never goes away, you just manage to get over it thru repetition and experience , I will try to explain that on part 2 . Meetup.com is also okay, occasionally I make friends fro… | /r/seduction | 20/08/15 01:26 PM |
| 22 | 610 cold approaches. Part 1 : A life Changing JourneyI think one's life must be engineered in a way that it attracts other people to be part of it. There is no other way around. I have learned this in a hard way... Now I volunteer once a week, I take yoga classes twice a week, I meditate 5 mins a day, I go to meet-ups every once in a while to add new people to my social circle, I have a good groups of 5-6 people of close friends that I can go out and travel with, I usually have one or two dates a week. I have learned how to produce electronic musi… | /r/seduction | 20/08/15 02:14 AM |
| 1 | What did you focus on to get through that plateau?Well the topic is too long to discuss and somewhat personal to everyone, attraction is challenging girls, push-pull them and tease them, strong eye connection, body posture , voice tonality, making statements rather than asking questions list goes on and on. My biggest two problem was; I was smiling too much, even while I was teasing them or challenging them this was a side effect of high energy night game that I usually do... My second biggest issue was skipping topics and not making statements… | /r/seduction | 19/08/15 10:35 PM |
| 2 | What did you focus on to get through that plateau?So I am in the same boat with you, my night game is great, my daygame is better in terms of n-close ratio. But dayset for some reason, rarely responds to my texts. After being frustrated for a while I got help from a pro daygamer and turns out I had a lot of blind spots that I wouldnt see by myself doing it. A third person watching my interactions pointed this things out. Your sticking point might be different but; Crucial thing is attraction-rapport calibration, a lot of people skip attraction … | /r/seduction | 19/08/15 09:04 PM |
| 5 | I Did ItGreat job man, it takes big balls to do what you do. You are definitely in the right mind set, you are looking things from the bright side. When more approach you do, you will learn to calibrate more, for example being direct in a coffee shop is too much pressure on her, especially when co-workers/friends around. Most girls seek validation from their friends so they may act different when those type of friends are around. Also she sounds immature or you were oblivious to the signs that she is no… | /r/seduction | 19/08/15 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Good seduction + bad sex afterwards = fail for meHmm I am finding it hard to believe that you are picking up "hot" chicks and you are not gaining any experience... The irony.... But just incase this is a real post: What is bad about the sex? Premature ejaculation? You dont know what to do ? You need to be dominant, don't hesitate being little bit aggressive bite their neck lightly and pulling their hair, spanking their ass. Lead them and tell then the positions you like to do. Watch amateur couple porn and act like the guys in the videos. Dont… | /r/seduction | 18/08/15 10:10 PM |
| 3 | Has anything like this happened to you before?Why do you want to spend your time, energy and money to do something you dont like? | /r/seduction | 17/08/15 11:15 PM |
| 5 | Tips for 1 on 1 conversation?Talk them like you are talking to a male friend. Do you get impressed by everything your mates say? Do you call out your mates bs? Do you make jokes to your mates? Here ya go do the same things and you have a solid convo with women | /r/seduction | 17/08/15 11:13 PM |
| 5 | How to deal with girls who say they only want something serious?Be honest with them, dont lie to get in their pants. As you wrote in your post, tell them that you are not looking for something too serious. If you didnt find them attractive what is the point of sleeping with them anyways. Be respectful to yourself and keep your standards if thats the issue... Some experience guys pull the game of being polygamist and tell women that they are also seeing other people but they are 100% with her when she is around him and what he does with his spare time is his … | /r/seduction | 17/08/15 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Who wants to do daygame with me? (Seattle area)17 is way too early for this stuff, get your life together, plan for future and start working for it. Then while going towards to your goals apply seduction to become a better attractive man women wants to be with... Lets say you did stop a 22 or 25 years old girl, what do you think gonna happen, even if you use canned lines, all women wants to be with a higher value guy than themselves... Thats the basic of seduction. What makes you higher value when you are at high school age? Seduction is not… | /r/seduction | 07/08/15 03:56 AM |
| 1 | should i lower my standards ?No dont lower your standards, there is no point being with someone that you are not attracted to , you will be unhappy and will be back to square 1 after you get laid with her couple of times... Your feelings needs to be genuine and you gotta be honest. Read the Models if you havent done so. I know it is hard, I am in a similar situation as well. but you need to make a better social circle, you need to have other hobbies besides daygaming and video games so you can have an awesome life then wome… | /r/seduction | 07/08/15 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Any advice for pickup during a pub crawl? -Uni studentMagic pill ..... | /r/seduction | 06/08/15 03:43 AM |
| 13 | Girls start out into me, but once I start to like them back, they lose interest in me after about a week.How is your life, your social circle? Is your life engineered in such way that other people want to be a part of it? Or after she likes you you just keep doing boring shit like netflix and wine... And then she sees real you which might be a boring person and decides to move on. Do you challenge her in daily basis so she keep attracted to you? Do you teach her anything or add value to her life? So she keep reminds herself that she can grow with you? Do you get emotionally attached in a week so yo… | /r/seduction | 06/08/15 03:41 AM |
| 3 | about switching to day game after years of online datingI do daygame regular basis; usually on streets after work. I successfully used tinder but never dived deep into okcupid or match because it takes a lot of time and effort in my opinion. Getting "Results" in terms of numbers is very easy in daygame comparing online and night game , because it is so unique, real and direct girls get attracted easier , nowadays I usually get numbers from almost every other girl. But they flake a lot too, because interactions are shorter, less room for mistakes. Che… | /r/seduction | 06/08/15 03:35 AM |
| 7 | Frustration level reaching all-time highYou are too harsh on yourself, chill out , this happens to a lot of people including myself. I am good at night game and I am really good at online game but for some reason all the n-closes I get from daygame turns out as flakes. This was frustrating for me, all the effort I put, and thinking all the good interactions I cant believe none of 40 something women didnt reply my texts that they gave me on the street. Until an expert daygamer started to listen my convos and watched my body language, t… | /r/seduction | 05/08/15 02:07 AM |
| 1 | How do you transition from general chit chat to expressing your interest and building attraction?I gotta tell your post is little bit confusing in terms of "interest" and "attraction" or I got confused because English is my second language. You dont express your attraction, you express your interest.... So are you asking building attraction or expressing your interest to women you meet. Building attraction is the whole game; challenging them, push-pull, calling them out when they tell something bs, being dominant, being someone they can learn something with, being less judge-mental, having … | /r/seduction | 04/08/15 11:02 PM |
| 1 | FR:LR; How I have been using Models without knowing about itI agree, unless you isolate her or bounce with her to come other place, according to his book being vulnerable means taking risk and being honest though, I was the attractive guy in the club but when we bounced to my garden, we talked about almost anything and tried to connect with her | /r/seduction | 01/08/15 11:59 PM |
| 2 | I have been to my 35th Tinder date. Crosspost from r/TinderMinimal, besides hugging at the beginning, I dont do at all during the date. After the date depending on situation I try kiss close | /r/seduction | 30/06/15 10:15 PM |
| 23 | I have been to my 35th Tinder date. Crosspost from r/Tindergreat comment, I enjoyed reading it, there is much value in it, even for me;I learned a lot of things. I wished you commented earlier and other people could have seen this... One thing I dont agree is For the girl's comfort, always choose a place that she'll likely know of -- not some seedy bar halfway across the city. This works for you because you are staying in classy hotels and it is a dhv by itself. For me meetup place is needs to be in walking distance or very short driving distance to my … | /r/seduction | 26/06/15 04:15 AM |
| 1 | I have been to my 35th Tinder date. Crosspost from r/TinderThe problem is they have tens of other guys messaging her similar stuff, you need to be funny, you need to make statements rather than asking questions. Just research it little bit and create a good message stack. Dont copy paste much though.. | /r/seduction | 26/06/15 03:47 AM |
| 5 | I have been to my 35th Tinder date. Crosspost from r/TinderThe worst one was the girl I walked out, the girl who slept 7 guys in 10 days and had hickies on her neck, she didnt smile, she bragged about sleeping guys, and then she was still trying to give me bunch of shit tests. I just left her in the bar in 20 mins. Funniest one; this polish girl we sexted before we met, drove 40 miles to my place, we started have sex then I realized she was on her period. I stopped fucking her and told her I have never had sex when my partner is on her period. She said … | /r/seduction | 26/06/15 02:52 AM |
| 3 | I have been to my 35th Tinder date. Crosspost from r/TinderMost of the girls have that in their profile obligatory, yet most of them have one night stands all the time. It is like they are trying to declare that they are not sluts publicly... You probably hear girls saying that they want a guy who can commit, yet they always fall for the guys who dates multiple girls. Because preselection makes it attractive. Most of the stuff women say is not really aligned with their actions, just ignore it. | /r/seduction | 26/06/15 02:24 AM |
| 12 | I have been to my 35th Tinder date. Crosspost from r/TinderShe just dropped it out of nowhere after the sex when I wanted to cuddle. She told me this is going to be one time thing and she needed it. Then I wanted to make sure if she goes back to her fiancé and tells him something crazy, like she was drunk , she didnt wanna have sex and other lies, i am safe so I went to elevator with her because there are security cameras in my building, I kissed her and hugged her in front of security cameras... Just to be safe... | /r/seduction | 26/06/15 12:42 AM |
| 2 | I have been to my 35th Tinder date. Crosspost from r/TinderNo, app doesnt show you to other people, it tends to show attractive people more. Attractive people are chosen by software algorithm Dont swipe everyone right. Delete your profile know, Create a new profiles couple of weeks later with better pics. Take a look at this http://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/3avln0/did_you_ever_rage_quit_tinder_as_a_software/ | /r/seduction | 25/06/15 11:04 PM |
| 2 | I have been to my 35th Tinder date. Crosspost from r/TinderThere could be tons of reason why she didnt wanna meet up with you again. Without seeing the interaction it is impossible to tell. Maybe you sounded needy, maybe she was horny and you couldnt lead so next day she didnt really feel it, maybe she was a just using you to get free drinks, maybe you didnt attract her or build rapport... List goes on and on.... Forget that girl, unfortunately you can not do anything about it. Well what you are asking is basically the whole game, You need to be confide… | /r/seduction | 25/06/15 10:54 PM |
| 5 | I have been to my 35th Tinder date. Crosspost from r/TinderMy setting is 21-38 , most of the girls I went to date with was 25. Girls younger than 25 are a bit easier to sleep with, girls over 24 are 50%chance looking for a boyfriend but if they are attracted to you they will comply your lead.. Girls over 30 years old is really a mystery to me, couple of them became my fuck body but some of them really wanted to go 2-3 dates first. I always thought they will be the easiest and most experienced once because of age, but I was wrong.. | /r/seduction | 25/06/15 09:43 PM |
| 13 | I have been to my 35th Tinder date. Crosspost from r/TinderSo okay this one is difficult to answer, unfortunately some races and body types will limit your success. I am sorry for that. Tinder is complicated and there is a lot of stuff going on the back end. http://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/3avln0/did_you_ever_rage_quit_tinder_as_a_software/ I am a european white guy and I cant share my picture with you for privacy reasons. Checkout bravopua.com link as well I have shared in one of my comments. But dont beat yourself, skin color is not something … | /r/seduction | 25/06/15 09:35 PM |
| 12 | I have been to my 35th Tinder date. Crosspost from r/TinderI do live in a big city, one of the benefits is that there are many girls and but competition is high too. There are too many guys using the app so your profile is not shown to girls a lot. And also in this area guys are usually successful in life so thats another competition, girls have too many choices to select from... | /r/seduction | 25/06/15 09:29 PM |
| 32 | I have been to my 35th Tinder date. Crosspost from r/TinderI am not promoting another forum but I have posted a follow up thing on another forum yesterday regarding answering to your question I am not sure if sharing other forum links is allowed but if admins would allow it here is the link: http://bravopua.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=12023 | /r/seduction | 25/06/15 08:19 PM |
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