Spadeninja Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
40	How do you handle it if the girl says "can my friend come?"	Spadeninja	/r/seduction	13/07/14 06:09 PM
2	A little rant about getting flaked on after a seemingly successful first date...	Spadeninja	/r/seduction	22/01/15 05:25 AM
2	Looking for ideas on how to reopen a girl from last week.	Spadeninja	/r/seduction	04/03/15 12:29 AM
0	Hey friends! Im going out alone for my first time on Friday, any tips for me?	Spadeninja	/r/seduction	25/03/14 08:32 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	You are losing the game by playing hard.This is what you miss. I feel like people fail at a lot of things in life because they make problems out to be wayyyyyy bigger than they are. Why does fun need to be something extreme like bungee jumping??? Go for a bike ride. Play frisbee in a park. Have a few drinks with friends. Of course life gets in the way and you won't have time for these things every single day so do them when you can. Put yourself in situations where you will meet other people is 1000x better and easier than cold approaching	/r/seduction	15/11/17 02:04 PM
28	I thought I was the only one who felt this kind of anxiety around women, then I saw this film... Hahah that was unexpected.	/r/seduction	09/12/15 12:16 AM
19	Got a girl's number when she had a boyfriend. Whats your favorite response to "I have a boyfriend"? Dude you're actually the coolest. How did you get to be such a cool guy?	/r/seduction	03/04/15 04:06 AM
1	Girl just texted me out of the blue 3 weeks after not talking to each other. Unsure what to do/what it means. Attention man! She misses the attention you were giving her not necessarily you.	/r/seduction	18/11/14 06:23 PM
6	Fundraiser for my fellow soldiers killed this week by Muslims. Please support It sucks that you have a such a shitty world view. Fuck you OP.	/r/PussyPassDenied	27/10/14 08:12 AM
5	I think I am done with cold approach You're obviously not here for suggestions. Every thing that has been suggested in this thread you just come up with an excuse as to why it won't work. If you don't want advice, don't ask	/r/seduction	15/10/14 06:41 AM
4	I think I am done with cold approach There is something missing from this story. People usually don't just flip a 180 like that. So either you're not telling or seeing something that you're doing or she wasn't really into it from the beginning.	/r/seduction	15/10/14 06:39 AM
16	The more I do pickup, the more I find "there are plenty of fish in the sea" is bullshit Wow. This concept has never been made so clear to me. I have been stuck in that mindset of "Im doing everything I can!" Only now has it become clear that it is an entire lifestyle that attracts women, not fancy lines and gimmicks. Thank you.	/r/seduction	18/09/14 07:13 AM
7	Top Points Covered by All ‘Naturals’ This is excellent. Thanks for taking the time to post.	/r/seduction	10/09/14 01:02 AM
3	Should you use your lack of experience? Ok	/r/seduction	08/09/14 02:52 AM
7	How to increase the amount of women in your life? You're posting to a subreddit with literally thousands of posts telling you how to do this. So you're looking for a shortcut way. There isn't one. Basically the TL;RD is what nesshie91 said, socialize with everyone. Just talk to people.	/r/seduction	04/08/14 05:31 PM
1	Do any of you have acne all over their back and or face? How can you be a successful seducer? If you've tried everything and it won't go away then you can accept it and continue following the rest of the advice on this subreddit like anyone else. I'm a shorter guy and there's nothing I can do about it. I've accepted that I'm short and I get on with life! Use what you learn here to the best you can. Again good luck my friend!	/r/seduction	30/07/14 05:26 PM
1	Do any of you have acne all over their back and or face? How can you be a successful seducer? So you acknowledge you have an issue but don't want to do anything to correct it? Good luck buddy.	/r/seduction	30/07/14 05:13 PM
23	If a girl cancels on you and apologizes profusely, saying "I promise I'll make it up to you!!!", what do you say back? I agree. its totally counterproductive if she is actually interested in you	/r/seduction	25/07/14 07:20 PM
1	How do you handle it if the girl says "can my friend come?" Why would I want someone else there though if I'm trying to have an intimate connection with someone?	/r/seduction	14/07/14 02:56 AM
8	How do you handle it if the girl says "can my friend come?" This is exactly what I did! I brought another friend along. It was a fun day but when we had a few moments alone I went in for the kiss and got denied. So I think I'll be moving on to the next one!	/r/seduction	14/07/14 02:56 AM
3	How do you handle it if the girl says "can my friend come?" Thank you for the reply! I told her that I wanted some one on one time but I would not be pissy if her friend came. I invited another friend along and it was a good day. However I was getting the friend zone vibes so I'll be dropping this girl and starting fresh tomorrow. Thank you everyone!!	/r/seduction	14/07/14 02:54 AM
1	Hey friends! Im going out alone for my first time on Friday, any tips for me? Haha I think thats right. Getting over the first little hump will be the biggest obstacle.	/r/seduction	26/03/14 02:59 PM
1	Hey friends! Im going out alone for my first time on Friday, any tips for me? Thank you very much for your input. Should be pretty fun, we'll see what happens!	/r/seduction	26/03/14 02:58 PM
1	We're all gonna make it guys It sounds like you have some pretty damn low self esteem. It's this attitude that we are trying to combat. The whole idea that the world is out to get you and there is nothing you can do about it. Believe what you wish however I don't think you should let the world tell you who you want to be.	/r/seduction	06/03/14 06:06 PM
1	Three fundamentals you probably haven't realised yet. Pretty much! It's funny, I actually got a date this week by pretty much saying exactly that. I had to establish a connection with her first but at the end of the conversation I just said, I think you're attractive and I would like to take you for lunch this week. The key is establishing a connection before you drop the bomb!	/r/seduction	15/12/13 03:05 AM
10	Three fundamentals you probably haven't realised yet. I think the point he was trying to make is that girls want to get laid too. It's not a matter of convincing them they want to have sex because they do. However you must prove to them that you are the one they want to have sex with.	/r/seduction	15/12/13 03:02 AM
1	how do you become less outcome dependant? If you're just out to pick up it puts pressure on yourself to succeed. And if you fail then it puts a downer in your mood. Where if you're just out to have fun, it's a success whether or not you pick up!	/r/seduction	14/12/13 01:57 AM
1	how do you become less outcome dependant? Very true! If you're just out to have a good time it takes a lot if the pressure of "picking up". If you're having fun, others will want to have fun with you	/r/seduction	14/12/13 01:55 AM
1	how do you become less outcome dependant? You're welcome my friend! We're in this together! Something I found helps is starting conversations at every chance you get. For instance today I held the door open for someone then just asked them where they were headed. Little meaningless conversation without any intent. I feel like a lot if game is getting past starting a conversation. By just talking to anyone it made me realize that people are much more willing to talk than it seems. Especially when it doesn't feel like you're trying to get…	/r/seduction	14/12/13 01:53 AM
1	how do you become less outcome dependant? I'm no expert however I feel like it's just about almost "desensitizing" yourself. Get rejected time and time again till you don't care about what way it goes! I'm still a rookie but working my way to the top. Best of luck my friend!	/r/seduction	13/12/13 05:17 AM