| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 5983 | Queen Burn | QUEEN SH*T | SpamNEggsDeuce | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 02:09 PM |
| 21 | Are HVM Born or Made? | DISCUSSION | SpamNEggsDeuce | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 05:43 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Great article from Emma Hartley (author of 'Fed Up') about women shouldering and cracking under the weight of emotional laborGiiiirl this hit so hard. This is exactly what it was like with my adhd ex. It's so much easier now that I just have to clean up after myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 03:00 AM |
| 2 | Woman’s UNEMPLOYED husband could handle being a stay at home dad for THREE days so she had to shut down her business and lay-off 13 people.Primary Caretaker = Father. He's not a nanny. He's one of the fucking PARENTS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 03:43 PM |
| 6 | LVM does not tell his gf until 6 months into the relationship that he has herpes and also admits to not disclosing this to past partners...and she is completely fine about this 🤦♀️People are all over the place about it. Health care providers seem to think it doesn't matter. In other countries, disclosure it doesn't seem to be important either. In the US opinions range from "Ewww get away from me" to "No big deal." Personally, I think disclosing is clearly a part of consent and should be done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 07:16 PM |
| 21 | Pickme coworker strikes again she was giggling "this is so my fiance" like she was actually proud. Then went on to tell me and the other coworkers how "he never likes my cooking?" &I Asked what does he cook? "OH HE WORKS" me: "you do too! He should cook too!"My clit shriveled just reading it. How can someone want to have sex with that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 12:51 PM |
| 20 | LVM does not tell his gf until 6 months into the relationship that he has herpes and also admits to not disclosing this to past partners...and she is completely fine about this 🤦♀️None of the places test for herpes. There really isn't a good herpes test besides swabbing an actual sore. The cheap test isn't that reliable and the better test is really expensive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 12:49 PM |
| 29 | The bar is so low on advice subs"His love language is slovenly low effort childishness. You just need to learn to speak his language!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 09:37 PM |
| 14 | The bar is so low on advice subsGirl preach. I had this exact same thought yesterday. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 09:34 PM |
| 16 | I honestly don’t know how to handle thisNext time stay silent and hidden and record it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 09:33 PM |
| 268 | me up at 1 AM telling women on r/relationship_advice to leave their shitty boyfriendsSometimes I'm like 🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦 But I wasn't that much different when I was 20... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Queen BurnHe looks like a smug prick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 12:34 PM |
| 4 | Queen BurnLol. So succinct. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 10:29 PM |
| 6 | And here is an example of a scenario FDS has trained me for...any newbies care to list the reasons why I will not be responding to this text?"Nah. I'm busy. You can Postmate me one of those burgers though." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 07:34 PM |
| 21 | So, he left me. And thank God.Here's what makes me feel so good: You're like shrug guess I'll see what's on Netflix. Instead of shit now I need to get a divorce. 👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 12:22 AM |
| 3 | I finally feel confident in myselfThis made my fucking day! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 12:07 AM |
| 2 | *disgusted but not surprised face*Ooof. But in his defense, I'm betting he did the same thing only listing "looking for my fifth wife" and somehow unbelievably found someone. I'm sure someone will respond to that and become his sixth enemy I mean wife. 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 11:54 PM |
| 6 | Does anyone feel like they attract poor options?It's not who you attract, it's who you respond to. Thirsty losers approach people all the time. People who they honestly have no business approaching, but they're delusional so they don't understand that. I've been shocked at the people who have approached me sometimes. Not to be snobbish but, are you fucking kidding me? You're not attracting them, they're playing the numbers game, the only mistake you can make is giving them attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 01:51 PM |
| 46 | This is the kind of man “Castle Doctrine” laws were put in place forI already have two men in my house: Smith & Wesson. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 05:58 PM |
| 20 | You do not “attract” abusive men. You are not responsible for your own abuse.Also people pleasers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 05:52 PM |
| 24 | Saw this on Instagram, and had to share IT with you all!Lucky me! if I play my cards right, I can get in on the ground floor of this golden opportunity to be your one night stand before you go tend to your baby mama. 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 11:38 PM |
| 5 | My Dad, a HVMBeautiful. Thank you for sharing this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 11:36 PM |
| 7 | How do you feel about momma's boys?I'm not a fan. It seems to mean they either live under their mother's thumb, or they expect you to be their surrogate mother while they're living with you. Both are 👎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 11:28 PM |
| 28 | My friend is seeing a guy who keeps sanitary pads at his house for his female friends and she thinks this is a HVM traitFull, unopened box? I would think HVM. Opened, half-empty box? Not so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 05:57 PM |
| 44 | 51-year-old says women his own age are too old to be loved. Fetishizes 25-year-olds.People in their 40s and above who are exclusively into people in their 20s are stunted people. Peter Pan or anger issues or some other antisocial problem. He says "too old to be loved." The truth is, he has no idea HOW to love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 11:33 AM |
| 15 | Is there a way to recover from oversharing in the earliest stages? + I need help dissecting some red flagsThe fact that he's Indian and mentioned the cooking thing would be a hard no. So many sexist men coming outta that culture. I get the impression he's the type who puts a dish in the dishwasher and thinks he's woke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 03:14 PM |
| 38 | Reminder: men/women who are willing to meet while in this pandemic are TRASH. -not my convo-True! Women can't be trusted during their periods and full moons. That's why courts across the country have metal detectors. Because women can't control their emotions. Right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Woww so appealing :$You know what, Morgan? I don't think I will ask for more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 12:03 AM |
| 6 | I dumped him.It's a lesson for us all: When you know in your heart that he's pathetic, leave then. It's irrational to get angry at someone for being pathetic. The correct response is to leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 03:46 PM |
| 14 | This Hoover attempt can’t be sincere, right? Word jumble has me all kinds of confused...Whenever someone resorts to pity to try to get your attention, you are dealing with a LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 03:35 PM |
| 6 | That dude waving his red flag proudly.100% chance of this guy being a selfish lover. Waste of time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 01:54 PM |
| 32 | getting so tired of guys losing interest so quicklyIt's great that they are losing interest. Letting the trash take itself out makes the haystack smaller so you can find your HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 01:48 PM |
| 6 | Where we conditioned/raised to try and fix broken men?My mom was/is a resentful doormat. I love her, but I don't want to repeat that life script. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 01:45 PM |
| 21 | You're stressed over him....FOR WHAT?!!🤔😂😂😂😂 Love this guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 01:36 PM |
| 51 | What? On Earth?? Was the logic here??? I don't really care what the logic was but seriously?Lol did he actually want you to run his errands? 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 11:58 PM |
| 4 | I have absolutely no wordsThe part where you went ahead out of morbid curiosity is the point where you wasted your own time. You could have read a book, gotten your nails done, gone for a walk, pet a dog, or gone on a date with someone else in that time. All would have been a more beneficial use of your energy. Shit, taking a fucking nap would have been a better choice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 02:44 PM |
| 12 | Do I attempt to salvage this relationship or move on...If the question is one of salvaging a relationship, the answer is always no because you're already not happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 02:37 PM |
| 14 | Tech/nerd guys are not harmless to women. In fact, they can be the most harmful.The audacity of these types at work is amazing. They waltz right in and expect to be at the top with their stupid myopic ideas. The look of shock on their faces when I kick their asses around the block and back is priceless every time ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Why I don't think Friends with Benefits is a good idea (and I've tried it many times)I see. That sucks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 06:29 AM |
| 2 | Why I don't think Friends with Benefits is a good idea (and I've tried it many times)Normally I would say a friend plus sex IS a boyfriend. But I hear from lots of women that the other person is not boyfriend material due to major incompatibilities. I can sort of understand that, because the bar for a friend IS somewhat lower than for a partner. I can also understand it when women are in college or some situation that is definitely going to end and involve a potential move. I'd rather women have a FWB in college that they drop than a LVM boyfriend that they compromise their futu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 03:38 PM |
| 5 | FDS philosophy on blowjobs (in the context of relationships)?I really enjoy it as long as the porn aspects (gagging, head shoving) are kept out if it. If a partner ever did that stuff to me, he would no longer be my partner. Even if he apologized, the fact that he is pornified like that would be a dealbreaker. My partner loves eating pussy, so it's a win win. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Former pushovers, how did you stop being a pushover?Noticing my resentment and depression did it for me. I wasn't happy because I wasn't being true to myself. I saw how this played out for my mother, and I didn't want that for myself. Basically I stopped denying my anger and stopped "shoulding" myself. I over-corrected at first. And people close to me who are doormats were not supportive. They thought I was selfish. Really, they were jealous and resentful about their own unwillingness to grow. Being liked is overrated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 12:59 PM |
| 70 | I want everything, I offer absolutely nothing.If I wanted to do DIY, I'd make a birdhouse. Not a boyfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 12:46 PM |
| 42 | Remember that while you keep yourself honest and humble, men put no such limits on themselves.Someone who was that woke would just divorce. Living in that lying duality is totally LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 12:36 PM |
| 26 | LVM Playing head games, what should I do?Ghost and block and love your energy elsewhere | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Call for FDSers who mean business and want to help us mods outI'll do it. I'll try not to 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 02:02 PM |
| 181 | Dating a Smoke Show Hot Guy? Always Do THIS Before Seeing HimI highly recommend a pressure wave vibrator. Especially to any woman who has ever felt or been told that her vagina is complicated, or slow, or difficult. Actually, a machine can figure your pussy out in 3 minutes 😁 so I guess it was your LVM who was slow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 04:51 PM |
| 73 | Coming to terms with the fact that my dad is LVMYou are the transformational one. The one that takes shit and turns it into the gold of a HVW existence through the alchemy of your intelligence, character, and inner beauty. That's not something to be ashamed of, it's something to be proud of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 03:35 PM |
| 11 | Example of How HVM Talks to His Wife About Her Post-Baby Sexiness 💕Their banter is so loving. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Uh oh, looks like an LVM’s “coworkers friend” got their feelings hurt 🙄🙄Men clearly have clearer heads and better decision-making skills. That's why we have metal detectors at courthouse entrances all across the United States. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 01:30 PM |
| 3 | Uh oh, looks like an LVM’s “coworkers friend” got their feelings hurt 🙄🙄I loved the patronizing breakdown of her decision-making skills at the beginning. So nice to have your approval 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Casual sex wouldn’t be a problem except 99.99% of straight men are TERRIBLE in bedI've been a pick me about things, but I will give myself credit here. All of my boyfriends and SOs have been very enthusiastic about carpet munching. I would not consider them otherwise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 06:54 PM |
| 21 | FDS Therapy Tools: The Stages of ChangeAction/Maintenance. Ended my 22 year marriage last year. Met someone who is consistently good to me, although we both were very rusty at dating. Felt my urges to do too much and resisted them. Need to maintain my relationship in a good direction rather than pushing it into codependency. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 05:22 PM |
| 9 | When males give you the creep stare in public, don’t look away. Deliberately give them a complete face and body scan and sneer at them like you’re contemptuously noticing their presence long enough to memorize details about them for a future police sketch.I used to do this. I also would ask "Can I help you?" with a neutral face and no smile. Both strategies work. Now that I'm older, I don't get these kinds of stares. In my case, it's likely because I'm not as pretty. I'm curious if good looking older women still get these stares? Or if men are too intimidated to do it to older women? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 01:28 PM |
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