SpankySarrr Archive

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1	I know for a fact that the girl I'm seeing is into me. We've done a lot of stuff except sex, and I just don't know how to proceed with the deed. Help me. I dunno, my first time went that way & it was fine. For me sex isn’t/wasn’t some holy grail you can’t talk about, it’s just kinda an activity you do together for fun	/r/seduction	25/06/21 05:16 PM
0	What plays a big role seducing men? Tbh a man who doesn’t want a confident partner feels pretty low value to me. But that’s just my opinion, speaking as a bi dude	/r/seduction	25/06/21 05:14 PM
1	What plays a big role seducing men? I always thought “be confident” could be replaced with a combination of “be healthy physically” “he healthy mentally” and “be interesting” Like... men and women aren’t all that mysterious and different I think - you hit the nail on the head here	/r/seduction	25/06/21 05:12 PM
2	What plays a big role seducing men? I’ll be honest, I kinda agree with you’re saying but not the way it’s said. People don’t want to guess and have mystery, it’s tiring. They only wanna guess when it’s fun, like a game. So the real goal is someone who is continually interesting, which for me personally means someone who is curious about and confident enough to learn & try new things a lot, but for others might mean something else entirely. Either way, the hook is that you need to be in some way interesting, to be open about yourse…	/r/seduction	25/06/21 05:10 PM
3	What plays a big role seducing men? Which is honestly unfortunate. Male victims of harassment and abuse aren’t generally taken seriously bc other men don’t feel the same way, and men are generally expected to enjoy everything sexual all the time Convenient for women looking to make the first move though!	/r/seduction	25/06/21 05:07 PM
2	What plays a big role seducing men? It honestly depends on the man, and I think the contradiction you found kinda highlights that. Like if you want a man who’s insecure in their masculinity and wants to prove themself, then acting like a groupie will work great! But if you find someone confident in themselves who isn’t threatened by a confident woman, they’ll respect you more and be more interested in you for showing that confidence. It’s all about matching the energy & knowing what you’re looking for :)	/r/seduction	25/06/21 05:05 PM
3	I know for a fact that the girl I'm seeing is into me. We've done a lot of stuff except sex, and I just don't know how to proceed with the deed. Help me. Many women want a kind man who is also confident. Someone who is confident enough to stand up for her but also kind enough to understand her and to not violate her boundaries. And hopefully, you are looking for that kind of partner; A confident man wouldn’t settle for less than someone else who is both confident and kind	/r/seduction	25/06/21 12:15 AM
1	I know for a fact that the girl I'm seeing is into me. We've done a lot of stuff except sex, and I just don't know how to proceed with the deed. Help me. I mean people are all different, but to me communication doesn’t remove any of the excitement. For me, talking about what you wanna do is part of the anticipation and buildup, and can be quite enjoyable in and of itself. After all, phone sex is a thing with literally zero non-verbal communication! :)	/r/seduction	25/06/21 12:13 AM