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Well yes, basically. If women didn't like capitalists, there would be none.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:00 PM
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Half the men in my family are cheaters, their wives know they are (they often started as the lover) and are deluded to believe they'd be any different. with them (spoilers: they weren't) Any man would understand the conventional "player" mentality they display, but women can't help but be impressed by their love bombing and fall for the trap. Other case i've seen, a known wife-beater that was a rockstar and women literally throw themselves to him, imagine their sadness when they get beaten up to…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 10:54 PM
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Man, aren't you a projection machine, all your criticism doesn't reflect really anything about me, but it says a lot about you, it's not me having a victimhood mentailty, it's you, you're the one attempting to rationalize why women have to suffer more because they attempt more, but they're so wonderful they can't help but failing at suiciding because they were so considerate of how ugly the mess would be, you're building a castle of nonsense rationalization to preserve your victimhood and women …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 04:00 PM
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There it is mask off, projection on full blast. Mask off what? Pointing out that you're a victim of Woman are Wonderful propaganda?. Girls are “attention-seeking" and men are noble because they die gruesomely enough to earn your respect. That's the correct analysis on the statistics studyng why women attempt suicide 3x more but men actually commit suicide 3x more. Women attemting, are younger, have less "intent" in suicide then men in general, and there's a significant amount of teenage women wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 03:22 PM
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You cherry-picked suicide data to dismiss women as manipulative and frame male deaths as more legitimate then tried to pass it off as insight. Because that's the reading you can make with the statistics of age, attempts, and success, and that's basically the pattern once you go deeper into the numbers. Womem "attempting" suicide are usually teenagers looking for attention, and men suicide attempts are mostly 50yr old, that have very different profiles and intentions. Those are facts. Your first …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:33 PM
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I was inflammatory on purpose because you trivialized women’s suicide attempts as attention seeking a take so devoid of empathy it borders on clinical detachment. I merely exposed statistical facts, it's just that you found facts offensive, that's the pattern in suicide attempts. Meanwhile, you're trying to walk back, but it's obvious that you really actually think men are more pathethic and thus they kill themselves more efficiently, which is ironic to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 01:26 PM
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My wife has twice my weight. If you can't find a match, there's something wrong you're doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:09 PM
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Men aren't any less pathetic than women, and you'll never have a functioning relationship if you don't develop some empathy for the other side. But some people are natural psychopaths, it might just be beyond your ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 11:44 AM
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Most women live in a dreamworld where there are men who will have eyes for nobody else but them and will give them the Disney Princess treatment they've always wanted since childhood and men know how to play into that role (usually through lovebombing) to get what they want out of women. Women don't settle for the worst type of men, they activelly choose them. A man that gives them attention and validation and treats her like a disney princess will be stepped upon mercilessly and never respected…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:59 PM
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the majority of men (including the "average-below average" males) are not only in relationships, but are also easily able to jump from one relationship into another within a fairly short space of time. No. The majority of men have an hard time getting a girlfriend at all. The average man maybe had a couple of girlfriends in the last 10 years or so. It's obvious from the rest of your text that you are only considering a very small subset of top males that are not the "average" man. The average ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:51 PM
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If a woman can't get good men to approach her, is it necessarily her fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 10:26 AM
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Most women suicide "attempts" are from teenage women calling for attention Most men suicide attempts are from 50+yrs people that are really quitting for good
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:56 AM
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If you want women to be more open minded about taking chances with risky dudes Risky dudes? Quite the opposite, it's the safe dudes i'm talking about. Women should be more open minded to date safe dudes, the ones they'll end up marrying in fact. But no, women will go out of their way to line up to confident men that wipes her out of the floor, and then left asking why the hell Casanova isn't marrying her, and meanwhile his future "husband" could be failing in life out of misery. I'm sure you kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:21 AM
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No, nothing like that. Just educating people to learn what's best to their interests, both men and women. Why do so many men have to suffer just because they're shy. It's ridiculous really, it starts from young age, and it's really women that "create" confident men. Women will go out of their way to date so many kinds of people, but the "shy" ones, which are some of the easiest to "fix", are ironically the ones left behind? It doesn't make sense. Anxiety could be a sign of intelligence, confiden…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 08:13 PM
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What does it exactly mean to give a guy a chance? Who should be given a chance? Should all guys be given a chance? Insecure/virgin people, obviously. Not all guys, just the ones that are nice people and would benefit from a boost in confidence and experience. Dating scene is like the job interview, everyone wants the 10 year experience employee but almost no one is giving the chance for young people to get any experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 02:46 PM
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I want to be a billionaire, please send your money to me i'll be waiting here signaling that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:26 PM
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Women view this is a very good thing. But it isn't most of the time. If you're being approached by a man with experience and confidence, chances are he approached a lot of women, and he's still there, it got to mean something, either he asks a lot of people (has low approaching standards), has been rejected a lot, or is actively a player. The real reason a man doesn't approach is cowardice or social incompetence which are both very unattractive to women. That's the kind of generalization that ob…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:13 PM
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Like now I have to be the one to impress him since I was the one who asked him out instead of the other way around. God forbid you actually have to work to get something you really want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:06 AM
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It's funny because it could easily be the opposite, but women can't understand it. Men who "approach" women, will most likely have experience and not necessarily the best intentions, while "good men" could be avoiding escalating with fear of ruining a good friendship or being percieved the wrong way. This is why women end up with the bad men, you don't understand that the people who approach you, could easily have very low stakes in doing so, if you don't really "like" someone too much, theres n…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:00 AM
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Imagine a man being friend with the hundreds of women he's approached until he found the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 11:47 PM
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Most of the men here don’t seem to understand the concept of getting to know a woman over time. Most women won't expect men to be that way, so if a man isn't immediately approaching her, she'll take it as he isn't interested, he's gay, or has some problem. This has happened to me quite a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:51 PM
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Women have selected men with increasingly larger penis through human evolution, that's a fact. Of course there's always outliers, but the pattern exists for a reason. Even tribal people in the world, have different accessories to hide their penis that makes it look bigger, such as horns and such. It's clear the behaviour is ancient. Big penis size = big masculinity is something you observe across many cultures with very few exceptions. But that’s the key—in a vacuum. That doesn't mean it's the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:45 PM
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What would you conclude from Norah Vincent's experience? She also believed being a "nice guy" with perfect personality was enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:42 PM
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There is someone for everyone. This is like the reverse of apex fallacy. If you're someone with tastes/thinking outside of the norm, you'll have a very hard time finding someone that thinks like you and is attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:36 PM
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Don't do >behavior that creeps out or annoys women< It's funny, because if you're attractive enough, there's almost no behaviour that women will find creepy. He can be sacrificing a goat and licking it's blood while staring at her, but if he looks like Jared Leto, she'll be fascinated, not creeped out. Meanwhile, an ugly guy looks shy and stares at a woman once, she'll be running away like she's being attacked by a polar bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:31 PM
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They give advice thinking about Chads, not normal guys. Normal guys are pratically invisible to women, so it's no wonder they have a skewed perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:25 PM
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Personality is worth zero if you don't have the looks to attract people. You could be literally Jesus, it doesn't matter. This is the fallacy that people like Norah Vincent believed in, and were proved entirely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:22 PM
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People are socially chameleons, absolutely no one "acts" like a consistent person, instead we have different personnas we present to different people. Most people pick on their nose or fart naturally at home, doesn't mean it's acceptable to have those behaviours in public, so you're never really yourself with other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:19 PM
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Damn, i remember when a very hot girl was attracted to me but i dodged it like a bullet, because i found it sketchy. Found out later she checked all those boxes for real. She had BPD, and was textbook case of what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:59 PM
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Just that most men have no idea how to communicate with women and get them horny. As if that was necessary at all. Women will get horny for men who didn't even communicate to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:58 AM
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No, women will often fool around with people they find hot but don't really like as a person. Almost all FwB i've seen are like this. Many of my girlfriend's best friends behave exactly like this, they'll have 2-3 buddies that they just hang around with any time they feel horny, while they try to find a partner for LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:53 AM
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Men LITERALLY claim that sex is a biological NEED for them. And many women too. Sex is something we were made for, it's a major stress relief that's hard to replace, masturbation isn't nearly as efficient. For most women, being in a sexless relationship is also unthinkable, sexual incompatibility is a thing, and they can also go to great lengths to be sexually satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:50 AM
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I have quite often but only against men cheated on by their women, even on reddit people joke about it, for example things like joking about his "wife's boyfriends". But, in my country i've seen that quite often, people will often label the men as "cabrão" (meaning male goat), cornudo (horned), etc, and actually nickname them as such. I've never understood what's so funny about it tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:14 PM
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Men died in wars in big numbers, they also died a lot more doing dangerous jobs, and low class men on some small village often ended up alone easily, enslaved men were often castrated, people simply died younger from many diseases and bad lifestyle, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:33 AM
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And at the end of the day they're still men. Not post-transition imo. I wouldn't consider any man dating a trans like Teri as anything other than straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:49 PM
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Teri legit made me think differently about transwomen. She's really beautiful tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:41 PM
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If you had a 2% chance of being trapped in paying millions for the next 18 years on a house that you then discovered wasn't yours, would you like to be 100% sure before, or would you just gamble your life away? This is more important than a house, this is your kid, your genetic legacy, you and your ancestors investment into the future, your own child, imagine discovering your partner replaced it with someone else's child and your deprived of your own. That's a huge gamble.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:54 AM
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More than 2% being raised by the wrong father, means more than 6.6 million people in the US alone. If you concentrated them in one city, it'd be the 2nd biggest city in the US, having more population than Los Angeles and Chicago combined (#2 and #3 cities). That's a huge number of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:46 AM
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You can post off topic/jokes/puns as a comment to this Automoderator message. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:38 PM
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You see, I answered to the automod because it's to be taken as humour. But probably not far from the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:28 PM
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If we go by reddit's population only: Average man: autistic, gamer, mid to upper class nerd, would probably be anxious, passive and go along with whatever. Average woman: triggered 2X princess that would hate my guts for being the opposite gender, probably would attempt to kill me out of fear when i was sleeping while thinking i'd be worse than a bear, did 10% of the work but requested equity, high chance she would be abusive or gaslighter and as soon as fought i back, she'd for sure report me f…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:10 PM
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If you want one, nut up and call your woman a lying traitor. And brace yourself for the consequences of that. It's not about calling your woman a traitor, it's just making sure everything is right, if you don't have anything to hide, you shouldn't fear or be pissed for something like that. Better do it, than have your husband with a subconscious doubt and wondering if his kids are really his, and how it can affect the relationship between you and your kids. You should never trust anyone blindly,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:32 PM
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You can't force a woman to do DNA testing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:01 PM
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2% is just the amount of people that were "highly" confident of being the parents and found out they were not. For example, another study which specified only people that were confident that the partner cheated, found an incidence of 33% in those cases to be correct. So the actual number of people raising another man's child unknowingly, is actually higher than 2%. Still 2% is a lot, it means that for every 100 people in your neighborhood, at least 2 children are being raised by the wrong man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:48 PM
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Some men don’t show up at the hospital. Some would refuse to provide dna, some babies are born at home. It's not the problem of the spouse that was cheated on. I'm sure if your partner cheated on you and had a baby with another person, you would feel you would have no obligation to support or pay for that child. Having a database would automatically identify the men who didn’t even know they were fathers and protect them from never having the opportunity to be one. Yes, that could help, i don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:27 PM
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Let just develop a database of ALL male DNA. But to test paternity you only need to check against the alleged parents, you don't need a database wide comparison. Every child born can be tested and the bio father identified and, if not married to the mother, child support be automatically collected. Obviously, that's correct. After all, anyone who opposes this has something to hide, right? Yep. There's no rational argument to oppose the right for people to know their child are theirs. If cis men …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:04 PM
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If it's cheap, just make it mandatory, no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 12:35 PM
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Yeah, it's super suspect the resistance women make to that idea, almost as like they're thinking about doing it themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:37 AM
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But men aren't mind readers and can never know for sure if their wife is exactly like that and hiding it. The fact that paternity fraud does exist, should tell you enough. Lots of people are cheated on, and they never even suspected, just because the cheater is good at hiding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:34 AM
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Well, chronically online women of reddit, are mostly suffering from a mass psychosis caused by their echo chambers that makes them fear a man more than a bear. You can't expect rational thought from those women that are being nurtured to hate men. Any women centered sub on reddit, is incapable of free speech and only the echo chamber narrative are enabled and allowed, even the sane women there get banned for speaking against the narratives.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:44 AM
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Farmers, mechanics or whatever, those people are often physically fit and willing to marry basically any woman of any class and intellect, since they themselves belong to some of the lowest. The tech nerds on the other hand, are trying to match with people that belong to the same classes, have overall simillar level of educations, and don't have a big difference in intellect. Most people say that you should date within your kind of people, so that's exactly what they do or at least desire to do,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:37 AM
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I disagree, exercise increases your natural free testosterone, and that's very important to have more confidence/less anxiety, a more masculine posture, and a bunch of other traits that make you look more attractive. But of course, building fake gym muscles isn't the way, but being athletic does wonders for your health, both mental and physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:25 AM
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Apparently hate speech for them is just about the speech they hate.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/05/24 01:21 AM
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Why would men be accountable for some women’s lack of desirability?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:43 PM
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"I'm lonely because men are shallow and only want to date Stacy and then try to use me for sex and all these incels think they're so bad because they get rejected", is this misandrist?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:41 PM
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women looking out for their best interests if those interests do not benefit men. Like, come on. Women don't pick men for their best interests, this is why they end up with douches anyone else could see the red flags from miles away. And don’t even get me started on the men who desire “submissive “ women aka women who do everything I tell them to and cater to my every whim and need. Why is that different from women saying they want a dominant guy, 6/6/6, etc? Are those women sociopaths too?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:34 PM
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What would you say to the woman you liked if she chose a man who calls her ugly, delusional, shallow, and narcissistic? I wouldn't say anything, it's her choice and her life. Surely you’d discourage her from pursuing that abusive man. Sure, that never worked in my personal experience, not that it stopped them from coming and complaining about them while always going back.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:30 PM
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"We just hang out and do things, but don't really care for each other." This is certainly the most common, and some (or most) of them are even toxic, before you really realize it. "We agree to be each other's amateur therapist, where we confess feelings to each other and keep them secret and maybe give advice" This is a lot more rare, and mostly reserved to very close friends. Men don't tend to open up otherwise, it's easy for word to get spread by fake friends and you'll be judged harshly on yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:07 PM
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Be very attractive (tall, handsome and fit), and women will line up, nothing else really matters. Women care about looks a lot more than men do, this is why they also invest more in themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:38 PM
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Basically Karens and simillar. Women that are too spoiled and never had a real dose of reality. They feel entitled to special treatments, to being spoiled, to being specially cared and considered, to have everything handled on a silver plate, and basically without having to do any effort or return because they have a vagina. Many girls are raised as little princesses, and some never get out of that phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:02 PM
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She looks like someone deep into main character syndrome, deep narcissism. Those are some icks for me right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:40 AM
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Maybe your dad is actual bro and made you dodge a bullet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:34 AM
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True that, i agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:51 PM
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The men who offer random women care are men who are romantically or sexually interested in that woman Well, i'm sorry for you americans, that live in a reality where that probably holds true, but it doesn't hold in european countries. I have had loads of women as friends, and not because i was interested in them sexually or romantically, and vice-versa. Women on women care is mutual and without ulterior motive. It has a motive too, just less obvious. Women tend to relate to other women that belo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:46 PM
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And yes, it really is a matter of semantics. Women treat masturbation as an adult topic and treat it with the seriousness and sensuality it deserves. Grown men talk about masturbation like 12-year-olds and get pissy when people don’t enjoy their sense of humor. It has nothing to do with how it is conveyed, and more with how society sees them inherently. Men's masturbation is seen as "dirty", perverted, undesirable while woman's masturbation is seen as liberating, sensual, desired, there's litera…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:32 PM
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Men are just not social like women are, unfortunately. Disagree, men are as social as women, it just depends on the conjecture. Back 100 years ago, there were clubs, associations and all sort of social environments where men used to socialize, people grew with their "limited" social groups, it's just that nowadays people are less connected/more individualist growing up. Nowadays, kids grow up glued to the computers and stuff and don't play outside as much, so they're prone to have less social sk…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:22 PM
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If she checked out of sex and doesn't even communicate it, what is she even doing in the relationship? Milking money? I mean, he's wrong for cheating before divorcing, but she's basically already checked out of the relationship, i'm not sure what she's expecting. Is it even cheating if she's already checked out? What difference does some divorce paper make at that point? I'd bet that him withholding the intimacy is exactly because she's withholding sex, that's how it goes usually. So, she should…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 11:38 PM
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How do you know she didn't communicate? That's staten on the original post.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 11:25 PM
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OJ getting away with killing his wife was played for jokes too. That has nothing really to do with gender bias or something. People laugh at things they don't tolerate all the time. There's no way mutilation of women's body could be conveyed as something funny and not immediatly cancelled, so i don't agree. I don't think comedy is a good example of how people express their views. Comedy is an exceptionally efficient way to see bias. Much comedy is actually about serious life experiences and anal…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:03 PM
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Bad hygiene, dumb, irritating voice, shallow, unempathetic, posh, overreactive, irrational, theatrical, fake, hateful, manipulative, and a few others.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:47 PM
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I think ultimately women's lack of empathy in 2024 is my biggest ick. Yep. Like i look at most women, and they look so self-absorbed and lacking in empathy, that it doesn't matter if she looks like a top model, i'm not touching that. Meanwhile, even below average girls with kind eyes and smile, are instantly attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:32 PM
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What are some common misandrist takes that you see that are considered harmless? Women cutting their husband's dick is seen as a funny thing. That's just an example from the tip of the iceberg.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:19 PM
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It's "women don't want their cervix being hole punched by a dick". Penis hitting the cervix, isn't a big penis, it's gigantic compared to normal sizes. Women not prefering gigantic penises that look like a 3rd arm, doesn't mean they don't prefer bigger than average, in fact women will often say 6 inches at least, which is already big.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:42 PM
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Yep, seems about correct. Most women i've been with were very into BDSM and simillar roleplay/rough stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:55 PM
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Almost 1,4 partners per year on average, which would make 14 partners during their 30's. Still, 30's women don't tend to date as much as in their 20's, and they're mostly looking for LTR at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:57 AM
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The idea is you shouldn't feel that but empathy for her real reason when it's sparingly. But isn't meeting a partner's sexual needs, also about empathy? Is she being abusive for not being in the mood? Why would he be manipulative to not be in the mood to be emotional close for being frustrated then? Are you suggesting they fought over not washing dishes for example? Could be anything. On places like TwoX you see this a lot, like "i'll not have sex with him unless he does a vasectomy. Of course t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:59 PM
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Like pretend to lower your hygiene levels, say really weird stuff, ask them if they wanna try a weird kink etc And what if she actually likes that stuff? It's hard to reason with people that are so obsessed with you to the level of stalking, they'll paint everything you do as right and good and funny. Has this worked for anyone before? Possibly, but it can easily backfire, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:46 PM
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I've known quite a few women who were 35+ and had never been on a single date I'm married for 8 years with what physically most men would call a landwhale (and i say really big). She still had sex, dates and relationships (not good, but still had), and her tinder at the time was full of requests and messages. Me, an above average dude (but still closer to average) (tall, clever, handsome, good education, kind guy, but anxious, depressed, and was unemployed and a tad overweight) , she was exactly…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:26 PM
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It's ok to feel bad about the "rejection" (which could have nothing to do with him) but he shouldn't show it outwardly. Isn't it a bit weird to expect him to behave normally if he's frustrated? Isn't this a case where men are forbidden to show their emotions? It's essentially punishing her for saying no which may coerce her to give in against her real desire. If a couple fights, she says she's not in the mood for sex and intimacy anymore because she's frustrated while husband does/doesn't do X, …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:13 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1cbk8i1/my_husband_is_upset_after_i_told_him_he_pressured/ TL,DR: Wife says no to sex, he asks if she could help him masturbate, she says yes and does it, then complains she was sexually assaulted and his behaviour is unacceptable This is complex, and got me thinking. Where do you draw the line between being in the "mood" to do something, and being manipulative? She says husband is pissed and becomes emotionally distant when he's rejected sexually…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:58 PM
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Physically unattractive men are hundreds of times more invisible than any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:50 AM
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Unattractive women are out of luck. Nope, they still have the advantages, but just a little less. Still no where near comparable to men, otherwise you'd see a pattern on unattractive women being so desperate that they'd start approaching themselves because they were never approached by someone they were attracted to. The "bottom" girls still get approached a lot more than the average dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:46 AM
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Lol. Kinda. Like you just saw him and you immediately want to fuck him, or you would if given the chance. To be honest, the kind of thing you said, only ever happened to me once in my entire life, instant obsession, it was like something slapped me to another dimension briefly and i just stayed there looking deep into her soul and couldn't even talk to her straight, feels like you're living a dream and a unicorn just appeared or something. The lust is absolutely beyond words. I doubt most men ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:00 AM
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and what I mean is that you click an app and have ten offers within an hour…would you commit to a relationship with a woman? Yes, because love, intimacy and having a partner are more important than just sex. This is why incels don't go to prostitutes, they might not often realize, but the validation they seek is from having a loving relationship, not sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:52 PM
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I agree in terms of ideology, but nowadays it's really hard to find a feminist space, group, or related that isn't run by these activists. Even non-related spaces like many LGBT spaces, you'll find that transmen aren't really welcomed, which is nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:43 PM
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father of the pack and his subordinate offspring, not unrelated other male wolves. That's because alphas tend to get most females and breed the most. Your second comment has nothing do with the behavior of wild wolves in a pack setting. Yes it does, alphas are the leaders of the packs. Either females or males, most social animals have leaders that dominate and lead the group. In humans, they are the confident men and women, natural leaders.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:16 PM
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No, feminism does not claim that all or the majority of men are violent abusers. Misandrists certainly do, which are like a loud portion of feminists activists.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:13 PM
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You just kinda need to find "your people" I suppose. That is true, the leadership is contextual. Even an average man can be the alpha in a group composed of more passive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:01 PM
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The entire concept of alpha males is based off of a misunderstanding of the social hierarchy of wolves. No it isn't. There's plenty of animals that have hierarchies and are dominated by either alpha males or alpha females, that lead and dominate the rest of the group. See silverback gorillas, the alphas are quite obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:58 PM
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not how wolves actually act in the wild, and isn’t really applicable to humans. What do you mean? Wolves in the wild have alphas. and isn’t really applicable to humans. Yes it is. There are plenty of humans that are confident, natural leaders and dominant over others socially, both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:56 PM
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Most people won't understand that analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:34 PM
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But if you're serious about it. I'm sure you have examples to share There's no end to examples, blue pill is what "mainstream" media sells. But i'll give you an example: Boy finds girl, they get each other numbers, how things should proceed: Blue pill: Be kind, be yourself, show your interest, be there for her, make little gestures that show your appreciation for them, be her friend, please her, be ready to pay her a dinner or something, be enthusiastic for her, proclaim your love, etc. Red pill…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:02 PM
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Yeh we know, look at rules 1&2 on tinder subreddit. Redpill didnt invent the wheel Some red pill things have been gradually integrated into the main stream with time, but that doesn't reflect the dominant kind of mentality about dating. Tinder in specific, is already designed so that looks are the first important trait for approval, but that's a recent "trend" in the dating market overall. Applies to men as well who will often secure the option they can get but wouldnt refuse to cheat if possibl…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:05 PM
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Yeh we know, look at rules 1&2 on tinder subreddit. Redpill didnt invent the wheel Some red pill things have been gradually integrated into the main stream with time, but that doesn't reflect the dominant kind of mentality about dating. Tinder in specific, is already designed so that looks are the first important trait for approval, but that's a recent "trend" in the dating market overall. Applies to men as well who will often secure the option they can get but wouldnt refuse to cheat if possibl…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:05 PM
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Red pill is mostly about analysing the dating and relationships dynamics, what women are attracted to, and how that influences their choices and the outcomes of relationships, from successful marriages to dead bedrooms, and the underlying women's "psyche" that determine how they see their partner. For example, things like hypergamy, women will often tend try to date above their class and looks match, get screwed by the chads they're attracted to in their young years, accumulate baggage, and then…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:09 AM
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No they don't. the attractive women have a mean IQ of 103.64 ... Bright women right there. Lmao. (σ = 15) Lmao, bs statistics right there. When you include "all" children born in a certain moment, you're including people with Down Syndrome and other deformities that include low cognitive ability, no surprise there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:44 PM
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Dude stayed a virgin cause he preferred to focus on his work Mate, you realize Tesla stopped working and grew old before dying. If he can cheat that means he can get more than one woman which is being successful with women. Lmao. Yeah, Stephen Hawking and his hypnotic voice! Dude went out to the disco every night and everyone told him "Hey dude, leave some pussy for the rest of us!". He probably had a pity handjob and married her after.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:39 PM
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read: you'll eventually select out most of the genius IQ nerds that lack attractiveness because they focus on intellectual activities rather than athletic/appearance. also: Also Nikola Tesla was known for being attractive to women. Gay, died a virgin. Stephen Hawkins’s was able to cheat on his wife. Oh! Hold your horses Casanova! Man had finger game right there!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:28 PM
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They tend to be, for the reasons i said. Find me a known scientist that is very successful with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:23 PM
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It's funny, because half of my family's men, including me, are the ones that do most of the chores, and women are often the ones pretending incompetence, it's worse with each generation. For example, me, have to do most of the stuff in the house because my wife doesn't understand the simple mechanics of things like washing /wiping the floor and other stuff, i'm lucky she does the laundry at least. Meanwhile, my little sister grew doing nothing at all, and can't even cook an egg, it's also her bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:21 PM
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What is there to gain? Well, evolutionary dead ends exist mostly because of female choices. For example, peacock tails, will eventually make them extinct. When women choose based on primal instincts instead of their brains, you'll eventually select out most of the genius IQ nerds that lack attractiveness because they focus on intellectual activities rather than athletic/appearance. Same thing for breeding psychopaths that are confident instead of good people that are insecure or less confident. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:06 PM
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Earn more, do better in education, do more around the home, be willing to be a partner not “the man/leader” of the house, stay attractive, learn how to make your partners feel Appreciated and special. Half of those are not even "dating" problems, just for people already in relationships. Men are failing at dating, even finding a match, not necessarily in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:54 PM
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Yes you can. Serial killers are a very tiny minority of men, that's more than statistically proved.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:57 PM
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Because men know that a large percentage of men are dangerous No, you're wrong. We know the majority of men are just like those we know, which are harmless. You just remember the few ones that look aggressive a lot more than you do the thousands of ones you could just afford to ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:15 PM
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Lmao, true story
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:11 PM
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Emotions are logical No they aren't, plenty of emotions are not logical at all, specially when it comes to fears/phobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:08 PM
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How many jeffrey dahmers exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:05 PM
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Women are attracted by the psychopathic aggressive muscular men, so they assume all men are like this. They forget the majority of men are just simps, youngsters, elders, weak, not psychos, not aggressive, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:03 PM
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Doubt. Bears are masters on keeping the victim alive, while they slowly eat them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:57 PM
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How many men are we talking about in percentage, and how many of those would actually act on their intentions, and how many of those would actually survive doing it? And yes, even the tiny percentage of men hunting you down can be negotiated with, very much, and they'd also be easy to persuade or scare. Just pretend you like them or something and smash him with a rock as soon as he looks away. The chances he fails or is heavily injured are very high. The chance some man acts and succeeds on anyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:32 PM
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99% men would just want to get out of there alive and well like me, and those who didn't, would most likely die trying, so what's the doubt? Just roll and share a joint and peace out together laughing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:21 PM
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Women say bears because they'd rather be killed than raped. That's the kind of stuff they say but would never be true in reality, no offense. The chance that the man would be just a simp that would just want to score simp points with you and play savior would be incredibly higher than women assume.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:16 PM
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Hope you do misandrist vs bear next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:10 PM
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Anybody saying that they would rather be alone with a bear is deliberately obtuse, or truly knows so little of the world and the things in it that they need a professional carer. Rather, they're closed in echo chambers that endorsed their paranoia, and haven't touched much grass lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:04 PM
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Lmao, bears will easily kill you for many different reasons, hunger, territory, protection of cubs, etc, people just avoid them in general. And you can't negotiate with them if they decide to hunt you down.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:02 PM
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Not necessarily, men are very prone to be perfectly fine being the solo providers and have a stay at home mom, if they can afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:24 AM
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Wait, do you mean cheating on you, or cheating on her ex? If it's cheating on her ex, she gotta have a very reasonable explanation, and show obvious regret. If not, then of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:18 AM
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This has to be rage bait trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:13 AM
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Severe disease or mutual agreement to open.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:11 AM
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Promiscuous women don't get into relationships with beta out of pity, and clearly she doesn't love him too. Of course he has money.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:23 AM
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So you say he's a beta, but she's not in for the money. Lmao. Get consistent bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:07 AM
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Yep. That's her choices . Fuck around, find out. If only she could be a good wife, but no, she had to be a gold digger sucking on the innocent husband's money for half assed sex, when she's clearly a pro.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:02 AM
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Nah, her place is on the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:46 AM
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If she wants compromise free romance, hire an escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:29 AM
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Yeah, she's also not entitled to the relationship. Dumped, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:28 AM
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Nope people change, just because they did it before doesn't mean they still do If you don't do the effort to satisfy your partner, it's perfectly reasonable for him to dump you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:45 PM
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That's how it works, he can prefer anything whatsoever, you don't have anything to do with what other people prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:44 PM
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It's exactly how i said, she's not willing to satisfy him sexually, but she had no problems doing the same thing with other dudes. He's perfectly reasonable to feel deceived and disgusted, and he's right if he dumps her for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:43 PM
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He's not entitled, he's pissed at being deceived and recieveing half effort. How would you feel if your boyfriend didn't go down on you or something, but then you discovered he did it enthusiastically with all other girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:34 PM
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I was in the exact situation you ask, and i'm gonna say yes, because it'd be a lot more understandable because it's a bizarre kink that you probably never even acted on, not normal sexual acts that you refuse to do to satisfy your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:49 PM
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If the sex was shit I wouldn't hang around in the first place 🤦‍♀️ Suppose he was good enough so that you wouldn't care about that. Then you discovered he really could be a lot better, just not with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:45 PM
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YWBTA As she says, she isn't like that anymore. As if anyone would believe it. What's disgusting about this post is you WANT kinky sex yet seem to think the women who do it are gross? I don't think that's his problem here, his problem is that she hide it from him, manipulates him for a relationship, probably gives him bad unenthusiastic vanilla sex, while now he knows she actually enjoys doing a lot of crazy stuff, but not with him. So clearly, she's just using him for romance and couldn't give …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 11:40 AM
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The option is finding a partner that you know will be there if you have an accident and can't provide everything he needs all the time, without being scared of being dumped for the next pleasure object that keeps up with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 02:27 AM
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When it happens thrice in a row, the probability of all of them being the problem is quite low.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 02:09 AM
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I think the key here as the woman you have to keep him on his toes and let him realize he'll lose you if he slacks too much Wow, that's really an healthy relationship... Walking on eggshells all the time. He's just an object with the duty of pleasuring you. Conditional love. I'd bet you couldn't live by your own "rules", not knowing if a partner is there tomorrow if you fail at something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 02:07 AM
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There's plenty of "feminine" men around, if it's not an increasing trend, it's because it doesn't have success.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:30 AM
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Fashion also implies different behaviours. There weren't any metal heads before metal, punks before punk, hippies before hippies, etc etc. Young people always follow the current trends and choose one that fits them best.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 12:01 AM
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So how do you explain that you can identify the decade by the style of hair, clothes etc, of like 80% of young males at the time? Men conform to fashion and society just as much as women. If tomorrow being a feminist super simp cyborg were the ones getting laid, you'd have the men flooding the cyborg implant facilities the next day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:29 PM
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Women are 80% of the reason male gender role is the way it is. If women tomorrow were collectively attracted by non-conforming gender role males, you'd see society shift completely before you blinked. Gay men don't conform that often, because they don't need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:22 PM
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I lost my virginity with a milf 10 yrs older than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:08 PM
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Violent crime is committed by single men more than married men. Again, i'll quote myself: "socio-cultural, educational and economical conditions are determinant to become a criminal". (i'll add personality disorders too) You'll find that most "violent crime" comes from marginalized people living in those conditions. It's natural that most of those people aren't "married", but that also doesn't mean they're childless. (about 47% of convicted prisoners in US are fathers of one or more kids). So it…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:32 PM
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The milk guy, the pool cleaner, the plumber, the mailman, etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:12 PM
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No, it comes off as being weak, which is worse. If you're extroverted but talk about boring stuff to her (suppose some geek stuff), she might still be interested because you sound clever and enthusiastic about something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:06 PM
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People often have big cognitive dissonances, based on contraditory ideas that were sold to them, they can have one opinion on some group with some logic, and have the contrary opinion on another group based on other twisted logic. For example, misandrists often don't realize how twisted their logic is, and replacing men with "jews", will often suddenly sound like something literally out Hitler's speeches. The same way, many women lack awareness of how they come off, how twisted their logic is ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 07:58 PM
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yet you don’t mind wasting someone’s time acting like what they are looking for. The problem arises when you’re pretending and displaying behaviours you don’t normally exhibit at all; you'll struggle to maintain it You're missing the point and mischaracterizing my arguments and me. I'm not "acting like what they are looking for", I'm being myself, showing my best self, what i'm capable of, and how much i desire that person and can do for her, don't pretend women don't do the same when they like …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 07:28 PM
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Feigning low interest is the best strategy for purely casual sex, they like confident men, but will see his lack of interest as not wanting her for romantic relationship. Love bombing is the best strategy to LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 05:51 PM
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No, women end up poorer after divorce. Not when she finds her next boyfriend /husband. Marriage doesn't benefit women. Only if you're married to terrible men. It beneficts women as much as men, which is having a partner, raising kids, etc. Men also lose a lot of stuff on marriage, specially socialy, financially, and stress wise, the only thing they get is a partner, kids, and maybe more regular sex (or maybe not).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 05:36 PM
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So if you 1) know she'll lose interest if you don't do those things but also Because you're on competition with directly her exes and dates that did that, and what society promotes on romance, she'll directly evaluate your interest in how much you put into the table for her. Your job in any courtship as a man is showing your best side and everything you can do for her, make her feel loved and special, protected, provided and that you're a good mate for her, and will be there when she needs you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 05:30 PM
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Women tend to divorce more because it's not them that will lose 50% of her assets, on contraire.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 05:22 PM
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And why should it matter? It should matter if you're worried you'll end up single, and lose a rare opportunity with someone who you could see has LTR potential and high compatibility, they don't come by easily. Pretending to provide 100%, only to drop to below 25% once you've won her over because the rest was an act, it's no surprise she'll eventually leave. No one's talking about 25%. You're just showing you can be someone that values her a lot and be the partner she'll want when she needs the …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:38 PM
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Yes, the fact that you say having conversation and spending time is what you do, just goes to show my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:27 PM
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You shouldn’t do things you can’t keep up Fastest way for her to lose interest and move on, since every ex/date of her already did it and all her girlfriends and media convinced her that's how she should be living her best life. Romance stories is all about this chase and love bombing that women dream of, not the common daily life that comes after it, that part is just resumed in the "happily ever after". She'll think you're not that invested if you're not trying to please her and just be your n…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:04 PM
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What is included in “the chase”? It consists in him doing pretty much almost everything, and she just enjoys the ride as if she's not even a participant in a mutual relationship, she just sees her new boyfriend as a tool to do everything for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 03:52 PM
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Stage 3: Devalue & Discard Months-Years Wow, i mean, this is totally one sided, as if there's no blame or accountability on women whatsoever to anything at all. Men on honeymoon phase often go out of their ways to please and impress women, in a way that isn't healthy for him, and he eventually gets tired of having to do most of the heavy work and paying a fortune on the initial phase of the relationship, and men often are exclusively responsible for the little stressful things like driving her e…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 03:30 PM
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Of course! Real men don't need no womxn! Slay, kiiiiing!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:55 PM
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The worst is not having intimacy and a real life partner. Romance and sex are extras on that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 10:40 PM
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but women commit self harm far more than men. Doubt. It's just that men tend to self-harm in different ways, for example drug and alcohol abuse. A man "cutting" himself will get the attention of absolutely no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:36 PM
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Supermodels are actually glorified 6/10. On beauty only, many supermodels are obviously 9 or 10/10 for most men. That you might have a different taste, it's a different story, but doesn't mean those women aren't considered as some of the most popular and beautiful, and that's why they're used as image to sell brands.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:39 PM
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They aren't wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:33 PM
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I know exactly how you feel, and also spent too much time hating casual sex and people that engage in it, and thinking the same things as you do, only lost my virginity at 28 when i decided to move on and forget about the perfect love, it's just a fantasy, and i wouldn't get any love unless i had some dating experience and be confident. Turns out i was just wrong, i was over rating the experience of having sex with only "special ones", and emotional connection will not grant you good sex anyway.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:23 PM
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There's more fish in the sea. We all have experienced unrequited love, and moved on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:16 PM
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By the way. , I have absolutely zero interest in casual sex, I'm not a whore You're not a whore for having casual sex. It can be a great and healthy experience with the right people. Seems like you internalized the dumb stuff red pillers say, don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:13 PM
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These are just a bunch of normal asian women Mate, those are not "normal asian women" those are the kind of 10/10 women image used by scammers because 99% of men will be attracted. You're way too deceived by the media you consume. It'd be like saying a supermodel is an "average" white woman, if those are the only ones you saw.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:11 PM
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I most like can have casual sex today if I wanted to. But I never even tried, I have absolutely zero interest in casual sex That's exactly the point i was making, you're comparing to sexless men, but you don't have the same experience. Imagine if you did go out of your way to try having even if just casual sex and didn't get it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:01 PM
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Yes, i feel you, we are the same. I just happened to know someone who was simillar to me too from OLD, they're hard to find, but they exist. OLD was also a bit different at the time, not based only on looks, and you could filter people a lot easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:57 PM
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Yes, here i am, whatever you think that means. I'm not here to learn about the female experience, i'm de facto married, and know perfectly about my girl's past
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:53 PM
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Are you being obtuse on purpose to troll, or do you lack comprehension? Prostitution for sex is exactly the same as paying an escort for romance. It's fake, it's just a service, not the real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:47 PM
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We do, at least I do. I never had casual sex in my life Out of choice, or because you were never approached? It makes a bit of difference if it's by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:43 PM
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Female experience is all over mainstream media, it's hard to not know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:40 PM
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So.... because women don't click? LOL fuck off. There's loads of ways to meet people, get off your ass and stop concentrating so much on how you look. Be a person, not a profile. What makes you think those men also haven't already tried so? Lmao. OLD is still a lot easier to match someone than IRL. I wouldn't have met my girlfriends if not for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:36 PM
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Men sure can be involuntary celibate. Literally no one replying back to his advances and no one hitting on them. It's very easy for that to happen. Just make a profile in OLD with an ugly dude on pic and try yourself. Why? Not much different than using a sex doll. It's just a transactional service. Would you count paying for an escort as having romance?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:17 PM
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It isn't mate. Men sure can be involuntary celibate. Prostitution doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:10 PM
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matches from this week. They do not look like their photos... : https://imgur.com/a/zyVsvnP How did this not raised you a red flag or two? By the way, 4-5 for those photos? Lmao, that's like a 9 or 10 for most men. Just by looking at that i'd be fearing waking up the next day and find out i had no kidneys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:07 PM
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Depends on the baggage, i feel you need to elaborate more on it. Let's say, if the baggage is only things like being pissed at men from her past or something, i'll probably prefer her. If by baggage, you mean obvious mental illness, then no. Then again, i'm different than most, i tend to prefer personality and compatibility above everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:58 PM
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That goes to show your mentality, and how you can't conceptualize some men's experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:50 PM
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Wtf. That's ridiculous, you can't embrace what you dislike. That's like saying you can always fck a goat. lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:48 PM
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I'm a virgin. But I self pleasure. My sex drive is not that high anymore. You're an outlier then, you're ok being happy with never having the experience of having sex or romance, which many aren't. You also aren't judged as a loser or fear being missing out, so there's also less societal pressure on you, in fact a woman being single is "empowering" and praised more often than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:46 PM
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Yes there is, lots of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:41 PM
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Why can’t touch-starved men just touch each other? Are they stupid Yes, it must be because they're stupid, there's no other logical explanations. No one really touches men on a daily basis. Only very close male friends hug each others, and most people don't have that kind of friends, or they're not available.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:38 PM
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It's much better to be voluntarily alone after experiencing sex, than being involuntary celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:33 PM
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People in general have fewer and fewer friends to rely on with time, and it's hard to make new "close" friends the older you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:32 PM
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Well, that's your choice you see, many men don't have that choice, they're just left dreaming how it would be to have sex with anyone at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:26 PM
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Are you a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:24 PM
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Yes it is. Been both, so i know exactly what i mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:24 PM
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Still better than being a touch starved virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:09 PM
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You're comparing yourself to men, but are you: virgin, sexually desperate, touch starved? Or did you always managed to get by with having casual sex? My girlfriend was someone a bit like you, but she never had any problems having casual sex if she wanted, and that by itself makes a ton of difference. Many men are also perfectly ok being single if they can get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:03 PM
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If the stale crackers allow me to get the energy to keep going and maybe change my conditions, instead of keep starving myself, i'd go for stale crackers. Dating can be like a ladder that you climb with the more success and confidence you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 10:54 AM
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You not relating nor experiencing it doesn't mean shit, it just speaks for your lack of experience in life. High value men like singers or actors make women obsess about them just by existing. Them saying stuff like "i won't fck on first date", will only make a woman crazier about him. There's a whole level of game you're not aware, because you don't usually see it, it doesn't mean it doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:01 AM
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Edit: your part about singers you had to edit in to try and prove your point is like saying there’s tons of people who can run a sub 4.3 if they try I didn't edit the singers part, what i edited was "OP post -> first post" Technically correct, but in reality just a stupid statement to use with general population and honestly stupid to say with athletes So you're saying i'm incorrect because your definition of very attractive is different than mine, because you didn't consider singers, actors, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:40 AM
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Hey, youngster, read my posts again, you're just shooting dumb arguments that my own posts already answer. Really gets tiring repeating the same thing. Also, know real top men, and how they really play the game when they want LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:33 AM
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Of course. I was myself a victim of "Be yourself" advice, which meant for example, I stayed fat for too long, had long beard, was kind of an hippie, because "she'll like you for who you are". The problem ended up being that the ones i liked, didn't like me back, and the only people i attracted, i wasn't attracted to them All because "be yourself" implied "what i am is enough" instead of "become the kind of men she likes". And that's the story of how i ruined my life tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:26 AM
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Read what i said again, from the first post until this one. "Yes if you're unattractive, no if you're very attractive." For example, think of a very attractive lead singer that gets most fan he wants. Do you think she won't be interested if he says he doesn't fck in the first date and wants to know her more? Lmao. She'll be writting love letters that same night bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:11 AM
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“Be yourself” No, it's terrible advice, since most people will not interpret it correctly. First you need to tell them "become attractive, don't be unattractive". Then he needs to get experience, which might require him to go out of his comfort zone and experimenting different things, get laid, learn from experience. It's only when he's maxxed out and looking for LTR, that's the part he should be advised to be his true self.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:07 AM
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She definitely wouldn’t think, “oh he wants to make me his wife” She most likely will, because that's how they think too. Women lie about their sexual desire, or n-count for men they see potential, because of the same thing. If a guy that is "out" of her league says that but wants to keep dating her, it signals to her that he's "not a player" and most likely a very rare opportunity to have a LTR with an high attractiveness guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:57 AM
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First, making a guy wait so that she doesn't look "easy", meanwhile she was "easy" for other guys, just makes it all an act, a lie, a facade. She is trying to look like someone that she is not. Hiding her true self. True, but the reverse uno card is that many men will deceive her only to just get laid. What came first? Who knows. Lastly, the whole mindset is dumb, I can't think of any other example of when you would treat someone you like more, worse, then people you supposedly don't like. I thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:40 AM
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Most people are really dumb when it comes to dating and relationships, either by lack of intellect or lack of experience. And when you account to the fact that many of the "smart" people aren't really sexually attractive and have trouble dating, the amount of people having the trio of attractiveness, smart and experience, is extremelly rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:19 AM
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In my experience the fastest way to make a woman disappear is to say you won’t have sex right away. Yes if you're unattractive, no if you're very attractive. For example, they'd be crazy interested if a very attractive man says that, because that means he's LTR potential. Other than that, she'll just think you're not very into her, or that you might be hiding some sexual problems because you should be in a hurry to fck her otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:10 AM
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When you define Toxic Masculinity as everything that is "expected" of men and the toxic impact it causes, then there's no such thing as positive masculinity, because it sets a standard that men should reach, and therefore becoming "toxic" in itself.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/24 12:44 AM
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Maybe, if she asks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:14 PM
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Zero, had sex on first date, why even hide anything anymore beyond that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 09:08 PM
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most abusers trick men and women by appearing kind at first Many don't even need to. I've seen men that are known to be abusive and wife beaters, that as soon as they got single, some other girls within his friend's group still threw themselves at him. They obviously thought "he'd be different with her", and guess what, they were abused too. Even weirder, is the amount of prisoner / ex-prisoner, even women's serial killers getting love letters from other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:51 PM
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If the man was an incel going on some kill spree it’s because women rejected him and he never had a girlfriend. If a woman rejects a man and he attacks her in retaliation she should have given him a chance (seems one doesn’t even consider that giving such a man ‘a chance’ would likely result in the former scenario). Those are both stupid. If a man is beating his wife it’s because she “chose him” and she should have chosen better. There's a degree of truth to this. Some women often choose bad boy…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:37 PM
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Nuts. Every kind of nut is calorie packed, specially peanuts, and they're healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:38 PM
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Seems like self-sabotaging yourself into a perpetually unhappy relationship. And what exactly is "reaching your full potential"? Is it being unhappy with a person until he outranks Tom Cruise in looks, fame, money, etc? Where would you draw the line? Being happy in a relationship requires ... being happy with what you have. Mind blowing conclusion, i know, but that's the secret to happy relationships. If you're the "cup half empty" kind of person, you won't ever come to terms and be happy with i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 03:39 PM
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Arrested Development Narrator Voice: She was the jealous type, and she was not okay with it. Yea, lmao, never trust what they say. She was obviously trying to shit test you, but you dodge it like Neo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 12:15 PM
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But lesbians have their own lesbian social groups where meeting another lesbian woman is easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:52 PM
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Lesbians also have the highest tax of divorces, so there's that. Having an easy time "getting along", doesn't mean they find long term compatibility that easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:48 PM
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I think for every man there is a set of unfuckable women. I wouldn't generalize that much. Think about the worst toothless junkie woman with 30 STD's, there's still a junkie guy hitting on her. That junkie man probably would hit on anything to be fair. Classic example is landwhale obessity. Turn off for 95% men. You'd be surprised by how many man like obese women even if just for sex. Most will probably not assume it. Men who are into strange stuff are not desperate because no other women likes …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:36 PM
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Some men are even attracted and would prefer a chubby girl. Can confirm, they are great. As a big bulky guy myself, most thin or small girls just appear too fragile, like childs to me, really turns me off. I like to pound meat, not skeletons.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 06:27 PM
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Let's ask this another way, are there really any "unfuckable" women that no man ever hit and won't ever hit? When people say "men are so horny they would fck anything with a pulse", i interpret it as, there's always a man willing to go down to anything, not that they're generalizing for the entire gender. Being horny can make people do disgusting things they never even thought they would be able to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:45 PM
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Not really, for even the worst women, there's men hitting on them, some men hit what they can, and if they have to target the bottom girls to get laid, they eventually will.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:40 PM
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Purple pill is embracing that things aren't as black and white as both extreme says, and reality is somewhere in the middle, purple is a mix of red and blue. For example, there's good analysis from the Red Pill side, specialy when it comes to evolutionary biology or some societal deceptions, but then they have kneejerk reactions, bad generalizations or manipulative intents that don't align with an healthy reality or are in bad faith. When you hear AWALT or AMALT, you know it's a lie. In the end,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:35 PM
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No, that's what i tried to explain. Ugly, old or any other women dellusioned with love will most likely resent or even hate romance fantasies. It's all about expectations, reality and what people are socialized to aspire to. Let's say most men die, women have to compete for them with increasingly elaborated acts, including creating romance stories and songs targetted to them, you should expect those men to then be able to aspire to them and fantasize about it. Nowadays, there's literaly little t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:50 AM
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As someone else said, it's consumer demand that makes this obvious. Who consumes romance: women. Therefore, women are the more romantic gender. False. Women consume romance while they can expect to be the objects of that romance. It's just a self-insert fantasy that they do because it's within their expectations. Will a woman dellusioned with love or men, consume romance media, or will she ressent it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:36 AM
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Women are only romantic as in they want it done for them… Yep. For example, will an ugly and old woman that got dellusioned with love, consume romance, or will she avoid it because of ressentment? It's only something, while they feel they could fantasize about it becoming real.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:32 AM
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Who consumes romantic literature? It’s overwhelmingly women. You're confusing things. Romance is automatically targetted to them from the beginning, you shouldn't expect men to consume media that isn't targetted to their fantasies. Women are the objects of courtship, not men, so women are the ones that can be hopeful and looking for being courted, so they consume media that fantasizes about a reality they "could"/"will" experience. From courtship, to proposal, to the wedding ritual itself, are c…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:26 AM
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I'm not talking about that kind of fake mass produced porn, but those that are genuine fucks/masturbation which include real and strong multiple orgasms, they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:07 AM
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They don't understand that. Pity them, only having half hassed boyfriends that don't even try. Specially when you go strong, it doesn't even compare the amount of physical strain a man must endure in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:39 AM
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Women put like 10% of the total effort into sex Yep, it is true, don't let them gaslight you into otherwise. The only person really doing the 90% effort, is the one on top, for which 90% of the positions, it's men doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:34 AM
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Lmao, just checked the sub, and now it's clear my gut feeling was right, you obviously didn't, those are simple orgasm contractions on that sub, not multiple, it's a completely different ballpark. Thanks for making it clear you don't have an idea of what i'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:19 AM
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Just answer me this, have you ever had a real multiple orgasm, the sort of you're just contracting, trembling, even crying from the full electric shock and knocked out for like 5 minutes after that? I get the impression most of you just know simple orgasms and never had the mind blowing ones, thinking i'm refering to those.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:58 AM
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Those are some eloquent arguments you've got right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:44 AM
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it’s performative for the camera angles Multiple orgasms isn't really something you can perform. I'm not talking about simple minor orgasms, or even squirting, but real multiple mind blowing orgasms. If you think those are performative, then Hollywood is wasting their time with minor actors when these girls can make extremely realistic oscar worthy multiple orgasms including the entire body muscle contractions and trembling on point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:42 AM
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Or you have a vagina that is smaller than average and do fine with the average dude. Congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:30 AM
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Ad-hominen is the go to when you don't have arguments. And no, i'm not the "stripper" guy who ever that is. I have a relationship for almost 10 years now, i'm good.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:29 AM
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Size isn't just length, thin big peen won't be any different. Girth on the other hand, is a lot more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:27 AM
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From PIV only, there's no amount of skill or enthusiasm that can compensate 100%. We're talking specifically about PIV only. Ofc outside of that, it's easy to make a woman orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:24 AM
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Multiple orgasms is one of the few genuine things about some porn. The majority of porn is terrible, i give you that, but search specifically for porn with multiple orgasms, and those are genuine even if it's a product.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:22 AM
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Someone has to say the inconvenient truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:16 AM
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Yes yes yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:15 AM
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I have personal experience as an average guy that tried everything in the world and more with a bunch of women, and only managed it a couple of times with only PIV. Effort, trial and error and attempts wasn't my problem. Then i compare with the low effort many bigger men take on amateurish porn, and you can't even compare. It's like trying with a bike to outrun a car, maybe you can in good days, but the car guy doesn't have to do even 1% of the effort to do it consistently.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:14 AM
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this idea that a huge dick means “automatic orgasms” reads like a gooner fantasy. It doesn't necessarily mean, but it could easily mean. A smaller guy can be the superman in bed, she won't multiple orgasm, while a big guy can do even half assed effort and make her reach it easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:08 AM
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He’s using porn as an example lmfao. lmfao, so funny. It's not like women don't say themselves things like "once you go black, you can't go back", or things like "i put it in and felt nothing. I’m sure that stripper was totally in love with him as well. Love has nothing to do with orgasms. Btw what stripper, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:05 AM
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The same way you don't need to have money to be happy. But it sure helps a damn lot. I mean, just go check yourself what i'm talking about, it's so obvious. An average guy can make a woman orgasm with PIV, but requires a ton of effort, much more than many are willing to. Big guys, just insert their thing, pump it half a dozen times, lo and behold, she's on orgasm like crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:54 AM
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There's no shortage of evidence online for it, even within reddit. Many women will claim stuff like "i thought i couldn't, turns out my ex was just terrible". Also, porn, obviously. Search any porn with multiple orgasms, and there's an obvious common denominator: huge peen, even by porn standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:47 AM
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Not really. Many just assume it to be this way because they haven't had any better. The right men can do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:40 AM
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I just take it that half of the men don't have size or stamina that can satisfy them, and the other half has plenty of men that don't know how to use it. But with the correct size and skill, i doubt that the majority of them wouldn't orgasm. More size, than skill, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:37 AM
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Why is this still denied by such a large number of women? Most of them don't understand just exactly how horny testosterone makes us be, and assume that men "happily" in a relationship with them must mean they are just as horny. Ask any hormone user (FTM, or body builders) how testosterone boosts make them feel, and there shouldn't be much doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:25 AM
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Well, some women and men do settle for lower than they desire and then go cheating on the partners or live in unhappy relationships, with or without dead bedrooms, and eventually divorce. The incidence seems to be in fact, huge (just telling from divorce statistics... it's a big problem) But of course, there's always a bunch of people that do work out and be relatively happy with what they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:14 PM
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then what caused this to happen in the media? An infinite stream of movies, series and other media that sells women the idea they deserve those kind of high quality men. From young age girls are nurtured to think like princesses that deserve a prince, and the world just keeps insisting on selling that idea, and women love a romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:07 PM
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Stated preferences and partners that people date often vary greatly. Of course, but some of those preferences are shared among many many women. It makes sense to pursue someone attractive and wealthy Well, it makes sense for women, not for men. You won't really see a man saying things like "she's great but she makes too little money, i'll pass on that". Height and money are mostly a criteria for women, not men. but it doesn't mean people don't date just whoever they got attracted to I'm not foll…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:57 PM
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Can confirm, it does help in many regards, from confidence, to self-esteem, to many other associated aspects that used to cripple me. But, relationships aren't exactly stress free and women aren't easy to please, and you're trading some problems for other problems, for some people they could be worse, but for many are obviously fine. Also, bad relationships can basically ruin you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:51 PM
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No one is talking about feeling miserable or whatever. It's just a simple statement of what many women claim to want, and how much % of men really fill those criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:41 PM
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Not necessarily defending, but the reasoning is that 6 foot tall, 100k+ income, age range <40, and not married, that many women claim to want, is already close to 1% of the men. If you even require them to be socially attractive, handsome, athletic or w/e, you're cutting your own chances even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:37 PM
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I don’t buy they aren’t aware of these things. I buy. Most people don't have any idea about statistics of how rare certain attributes really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:33 PM
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Yes, but that doesn't mean they're what women are looking for, just what they settle for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:42 PM
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What do you mean, what stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:39 PM
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It's no surprise. Many women nowadays have super unrealistic standards for what they want to settle. Nothing that most men don't know already, but women seem to be completely oblivious to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:38 PM
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10, not really a big difference, but it used to be alot different before social media and dating sites were a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:33 PM
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Summary: Women aren't aware that most of them are looking for and sharing the top <1% men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:32 PM
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Also, imagine comparing mensrights that has 300k subs, with TwoX that has 13 Million subs. Just like more than 43x the amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:14 AM
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You don't have to believe me, anyone that has been on reddit the last 10 years know exactly what i'm talking about. I haven't checked askmen or askwomen for years, so i don't know how it is now, but it used to be this way, and probably still is. By the way, you should stop replying to me, i don't get how you're still here, most dishonest poster on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:53 AM
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support sub for women It's not a support sub and has never been. It's an echo chamber that generates and amplifies their own hatred of men. No different than any femcel or FDS sub, just a little more disguised. when there is a much more popular sub for men which is nothing but complaints about women called Ask Men? What, much more popular sub? And i mean, have you ever been in AskWomen? It's 10x more hateful, for most questions there, there is the same question in Askmen, and study which of them…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:47 AM
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These ladies almost always disclaim it with “I know that not all men are like this but…” Yeah, most often the ones that are downvoted to hell. And the subreddit is pretty tame nowadays in comparison to the old days. I invite you to dig places like ShitRedditSays and many other related subs, also FemaleDatingStrategy and many of the femcels subs (got banned for hate), and a never ending amount of subs at the time that were entirely focused on hating men. In reality hatred of men is almost current…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:42 AM
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Have you ever gone to the subreddit called TwoXChromosomes which is a main subreddit, and pretty much every post related to men is "men bad, disgusting, awful", and even suggesting that some things men do have logic or women do too gets you mass downvoted or banned? The hateful womensphere used to be huge on reddit. And that's just a tip of the iceberg, from Twitter to pretty much every social media, there were times where men hate was rampart and everywhere, and even part of that culture was in…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:28 AM
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There's no such thing as the "ONE", it's just a fantasy that hollywood sells. What there is, is humans with flaws you can overlook or even find them cute or funny, someone who you feel can be your partner in crime and for life, which requires mutual acceptance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 11:42 AM
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It is true, the world is chaotic, you can do everything right and still fail. Luck counts a lot, like everything else. You can study years and never find a job in your area or simply have bad luck in life and something happens, or you can be a lazy ass guy who played the lottery a couple of times and won, or was born into a rich family and never had to make an effort. Shit happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:38 PM
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I was speaking specifically about having romantic interest, and with that you must be a lot more cautious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:20 PM
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How many men’s profiles have you swiped on? Not many, of course, but i recall seeing some when i was making my own at the time. Sure times might have changed, but that was what i saw. I can tell you that plenty of men list all sorts of arbitrary physical preferences But are you sure they're rejecting people who don't meet all those criteria? If you love huge tits and I’ve got small ones, I’d rather not be a pity match or a placeholder. Ok, i understand. If someone’s sexual interest in height is …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:11 PM
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Well, but a preference for men and women is a different thing. For a man, they're just preference, for women, they're more like requirements. Men might like big boobs or whatever, but they aren't putting it in their profile and rejecting everyone that doesn't meet those standards, while for women that usually means "don't even contact me if you're below X feet", even if they're themselves almost dwarves. One would think that many smaller people would be ok to date smaller people as well but that…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:54 PM
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If you didn't get that, that is not society's fault. What the hell, that's a completelly silly take. Society has a lot of fault, it's not my fault that being a top student, clever and kind, a political activist, an athlete, with a lot of nerdish interests would make me an outlier with little matches for my interests for example. Also: "Women give sex to get into LTR, so don't be an heart breaker" "The right person will like you for who you are and you'll know" "Women don't really enjoy or want c…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:41 PM
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You are way way overthinking this whole process dude. Yes i was, that's what happens when you really care about the outcome. You'll only be perceived as a player if you're one of those guys who approaches every single pretty girl in a bar. That's the desperate guys, not players. Players know how to play the game. Being openly flirty with one girl isn't a big deal because that just lets her know your intentions from the start. It's a big deal, because other girls are present and will see that. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:57 PM
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I absolutely don't. Where would i see that? You're probably outside of the "womensphere". Check any women focussed reddit like TwoX and it's endless stream of "men are terrible". And that's just a very small reflection of how many women feel. It's so widespread and ingrain, that some of these concepts are somewhat widespread through the media and society consensus. Maybe this has to do with your labeling of men as jerks compared to mine. From the nice person perspective, i can imagine you to hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:47 PM
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Why would you be afraid of misinterpretting signs of interest when men often have sex the same day they meet some woman when her buttons get pushed. Because jumping in too fast can be easily regarded as you just being a player or desperate. When you're actually very interested in someone, you'll want to take your time. For example, there's also many girls that are the sort to hold up until they shit test the guy. But women are often so used to being approached by the players, that they don't und…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:46 PM
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What exactly do you mean by that? Some people just have little hope, and probably rightfully so, they've been dealt a bad hand, and shit happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:32 PM
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I am not bombarded with that. Are you talking tiktok? Because then it's that you engage with that topic and the algorithm gives you more of what you want to see. Come on, you see women complaining about their mean boyfriends everywhere. I've also had some friends in my life that were exactly like this. A constant stream of endless complaining about how their psycho boyfriends would mistreat her, cheat, or even beat them. Fun times (not). And, like the niceguy you are ??? I'm not a nice guy. I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:22 PM
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Hypergamy went full overdrive. Men know how this screws them up, and women are thriving in a society where it's easy for them to meet Chad when they're feeling lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:48 PM
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Why not? If she’s not interested, accept it and move on. If you don't care about what follows, of course. But what if you're really really interested and don't want to be misinterpreted. You don't know how she'll perceive you if you still know so little about her. Maybe she'll assume you're a player for throwing yourself that easily, or maybe she actually wants to be approached. You don't know, but you could be messing up an excellent opportunity with a fine girl if you approach as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:33 PM
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When I get approached in a non-offensive way, I am never rude. You aren't, but men don't know if you are or not. Let's say for example, a man is interested in 2 girls at the same time that belong to the same social group. Targeting one, will turn off the other, who do you bet, or would you at all? No one wants to be number 2 choice, and men must be careful if they're going for anything like a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:18 PM
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If she’s constantly showing up around you unprovoked, yeah, read the room. She’s signaling interest. But it's not an exact science, you won't realize she's purposelly showing up to you specifically, until she's not showing up anymore. Let's say you have a group of friends and frequent the same bars, you won't know who's she interested in or even if she's interested in anything but just trying to join your group of friends. Hitting on them just because they're attractive and showing up?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:05 PM
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why do they bring up how women pick jerks instead of nice guys? That's usually because everyone is bombarded constantly by women complaining about how mean their boyfriends are, so the nice guys wonder. It's implied that niceness should be preferred over jerks It's implied women should therefore have the common sense of going after nice guys if they're so unhappy with the jerks. Nice people are often seen as more attractive for that trait Not really. Most people associate being nice and kind, wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:23 AM
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Are you making small talk about the weather in the checkout line? Except for most women, their signalling will amount to something like this, small talk that could as well be taken for friendly chat, then they get pissed off when a man didn't immediately turned into Casanova and swept her of their feet. One of the most common things women will do when they're interested is simply show up wherever you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:16 AM
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No, it’s not. If she’s just being friendly, test it. If you're a nice person, like 80% of the girls will be very nice to you. So how do you distinguish, you see? Are you really going to throw away 100% of your friendships for the "possibility" she's showing interest? This isn’t rocket science. If she’s giving you positive feedback, see how far she’ll let you take it. She’s already decided within the first couple of seconds whether she’s into you or not, so play until she shuts you down. Yep, it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:46 AM
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Why would being nice guarantee you to "get somewhere"? Who said it should? People are just discussing that nice people often end up being seen as less attractive for that trait
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:39 AM
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Or, you suck at reading body language and/or her IOI’s. Most people suck, because it's hard to distinguish between just someone being very friendly, and showing interest. We're not the mind-readers women assume we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:34 AM
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Men who are actually attractive to women don’t need to do anything. Not true. Most women won't throw themselves to them. He still has to be a mind-reader and sweep her off her feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:31 AM
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picking up on the cues she’s giving. There's no such thing for the most. They always act in ways with plausible deniability, so men never really know if that's interest or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:28 AM
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the issue is when and how we are approached But men aren't mind readers. Those who care, will therefore be afraid to approach, while those who don't, will approach you either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:25 AM
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9/10 if you approach a woman respectfully and appropriately, you’ll probably get a friendly conversation Yes, but you'll also never see them again. Sucks if they were friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:23 AM
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Shes just at the gym to work out, leave her alone! She’s just at the grocery store to shop, leave her alone! Yep, this is how i ended up a forever alone. I'd then wonder why i'd never see these women ever again.'. Some times i've received signs of interest, but i was really afraid to be misinterpreting and being wrong. I did also got rejected by pretty much everyone i'd show my interest too, so there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:17 AM
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Why does it bug you that any particular woman finds tallness an attractive trait in a sexual partner? Seriously. It bugged me the fact that it was apparently so widespread in their profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:11 AM
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This is the sort of gaslighting always trying to shift blame onto men. There's plenty of "nice guys" who are just genuinely nice people, that never get anywhere, you don't have to conflate it with manipulative guys pretending to be nice. Being "nice", is usually seen as a weakness display for so many people, and women dislike men they think they're "weak".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:06 AM
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Most people don’t see shortness as a problem. Death sentence is stretching, the same way it's not a death sentence being obese. But it's clear most women have "height" requirements for men, just get an OLD profile and see how many women require men to be like 6 foot tall and simply ignore smaller. I'm taller than that, so it doesn't affect me, but it's something it always bugged me when i saw that so many women clearly state this in their profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:00 AM
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There are no reasons, it's simply just arbitrary. There are reasons, but they are often a bit "hidden", and luck is part of it. I don't think there's people who are single for "no reason", but just for reasons they didn't consider. For example, if you're a guy with nerdish interests and above most intellectually or in maturity, you'll have an hard time relating with the majority of women who haven't any of those. Inherently a big factor of our compatibility is about personality, and when you hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:04 PM
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Married ever after.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:05 PM
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Women are definitely fat shamed more than men, What makes you think this? Fat boys are relentlessly bullied more often than not. It's just too normalized for people to notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:01 PM
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"We are all equal, but women are better than men"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:54 PM
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Virgin gynecologist vs pussy enjoyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:08 PM
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Lmao, yep. Also kissing, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:07 PM
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That seems really tame to be fair, seems like it could be a good girl there. Go for it, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:52 PM
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No one. But due to your comment, it seems highly implied you are. Women clean themselves and the next day you won't even be able to tell she had sex. If you don't know this, it seems implied you don't have any experience with them. So GL my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:47 PM
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GL finding a virgin. Meanwhile other people are having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:40 PM
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Man, you're being a little too demanding, but each to their own, i guess. Both men and woman tend to get fatter with age due to lower metabolism and lower level of activity. Requiring to keep working on themselves, requires often a level of stress that they can't handle, while keeping everyone else happy. So i guess, it all depends on your priorities. I prefer a fat woman that is a good mother and makes everyone happy, than a sorry excuse of narcisist that's only worried about her wrinkles or fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:34 PM
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How many partners (sexual or romantic interests) do you think a 50th percentile man has by age 25? Depends on how you define it. The median will certainly be lower than the average.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:29 PM
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Would you say the same for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:26 PM
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Is this a woman's idea of "shooting her shot" ? Yep. It's a passive invite with plausible deniability. still, could you elaborate on this?: she was giving me that shit test to see if a man is emotionally unstable and violent..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:25 PM
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My theory is that a lot of girls have experience either attempting to date or dating short boys who haven’t gone through puberty and don’t have a normal relationship I don't know where you live, but at that age girls are actually dating older guys and didn't give a single crap about men of their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:19 PM
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Because it's all about her, the "perfect man" will propose them, that's what they think, like everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:14 PM
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My friend group is actually more on the intellectual nerds, less prone to casual sex, and even then, such thing doesn't exist. And i'm not even basing just on my group, but the extended people i know, including my girlfriend's friends too. Casual sex post relationship is totally a thing, and most of them have FwB in the intervals they're looking for LTR. So, i suspect that it is you that has a rather limited interaction with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:00 PM
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Most single women don't have "situationships" or any other casual sex. ??? Where do you live, some seriously religious place or something? Almost every girl i've known have had FwB at least, if not activelly engaging in casual sex once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:21 PM
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Makes a big mental difference on men when they find out, but it has zero effect on women long term. It totally has an effect on women. There's a reason women say things like "once you go black, you can't go back". Or things like "i putted it in, and i felt nothing" A smaller dude might not be able to please her no matter what he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:58 PM
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Here’s a hint - there is no physical difference between an n-1 or a n-20. Well, aside from a possible STD or two... No difference at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:51 PM
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Who seriously enters a relationship assuming they can do the bare minimum in bed and everything will just work out? Most women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:01 PM
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Here’s the main problem. He didn’t have to remain not the best sex she ever had but because he was insecure, which she probably knew, he wasn’t opening to listening to how to be better. Not my experience. Women won't tell men what they really want if they're "husband" material, because they fear it could impact the relationship. And if they're not husband material, they will also most likely not say anything at all and just move on, because, why waste time with someone who's not for LTR. Saying …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:48 PM
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That women in their 20's are having body counts in the dozens by the time they hit 30 and therefore they are pretty much used up and worthless to a man in his 30's who was incel until then. You said it yourself, of course it's an unrealistic expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:27 PM
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I think looks, height or personality are not really too important when you have other things to compensate for, specially if you have an high social status, that is, unless you're ugly to the point of being deformed. I don't doubt guys like Danny DeVito, William Dafoe or even Peter Dinklage could get a lot more women than your average poor Chad. So while not being "fugly" is important, if you maximize what you have and compensate with status, you should be well off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:46 AM
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Unicorn women are, like the name suggests, mythical beings that may as well not exist, but are the placeholder for the "perfect" women. Perfect women, would be of course the ones that are beautiful, empathetic, intelligent and all around good people, without any major flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:51 PM
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RP exaggerates a lot of what it states, but there's often a degree of truth. Women with time will gradually lose leverage in the market because younger women are prefered, while the reverse isn't necessarily true for men. So if a woman while young spent her time single and only getting casual sex with a certain level of attractiveness, eventually she will stop being able to match those, and will have to target lower, sometimes "lower" than her own standards, which will force them to either: stay…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:51 PM
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While I admire your confidence in oversimplifying complex biological processes, it's clear that your understanding lacks depth. No it's not clear, it's just you attempting to troll. I know a lot of what i'm talking about because i did my own research, and you're just trolling attempting to claim things aren't the way i said because you just believe it so. Ask any endocrinologist. Your assertion that external factors are inconsequential in penis growth is akin to claiming the Earth is flat in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:36 PM
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but the world of genetics and biology is a bit more nuanced than your "no shit Sherlock" approach implies. It isn't as nuanced as you think. It's just a study that is of course necessary to confirm, but it's obvious for anyone with a decent grasp in biology and how it works. It's like studying the fact that african people will have kids that look... african. Surprising stuff really. Inherited characteristics being inheritable are a basic fact of evolution. Our penises form being within a range d…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:16 PM
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You, who ignore basic biology facts, telling a biologist adept to read more about it. The irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:04 PM
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There's lots of them. You have a pain, you look bad, take a painkiller, instantly look better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:41 PM
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You're derailing the conversations into things i haven't said or implied, i don't care what other people said and how you're triggered about what they said. Charisma isn't a trait that is correlated with your moral compass like you implied, it's that simple. Thanks and have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:26 PM
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Is the idea that charisma is very important a red pill thought ? Why would it be? Charisma is just an important psychological trait to get people attention. “I believe charisma is the most important attribute for a man what it comes to dating “ is that a redpill thought ? No, it's just your opinion, and it could be true, most people like a charismatic person, it's only natural to be an important trait to appear attractive. “Aye brother it sucks. Charisma is priority 1 for dating as a man, my onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:22 PM
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I take it you don't have any arguments to counter what i said. Charisma is a trait both good and bad people can have. It has nothing to do with your moral compass, but with how confident you are, and that's a simple uncontroversial idea, that has nothing to do with saying that it's a "dark triad" blah blah blah. But hey, you're free to live with your head cannon that good people only have good traits and bad people only have bad traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:04 PM
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Yeah, so what? I'm not defining it as a serial killer trait, i'm saying it has nothing to do with making people feel welcomed. But yes, it's also a very well researched fact that for example the so called "sociopaths" are very charismatic people, they tend to train that way so they can manipulate people. Most cult leaders are exceptionally charismatic people, even the evil ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:57 PM
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because penis size isn’t entirely genetic by any means Yes it is. Penis size is defined by the amount of certain cells in your penis that bind with male hormones and grow until a limit. Like all of our body is in fact. Studies have found that there is a correlation between the size of a father's penis and the size of his son's. No shit sherlock. Environmental and hormonal factors during development can also play a role in determining its size Hormonal factors are resulting from genetics, so unle…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:49 PM
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Charisma seems means that someone who enjoy the company of others is good at making others feel welcome and entertained. Not really, a "villain" can be plenty of charismatic, take Joker for example. Charismatic is about the ability to getting people's attention and lock their attention into them. Often has to do with being articulate, eloquent, confident, etc, but it doesn't have to make people feel welcomed, you can be charismatic and still creep people out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:39 PM
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pinky promise you that if they asked the actual entire population.. the average would go up significantly Nope, it's exactly the opposite. People that get measured in studies, are already prone to not being embarassed with their size, which means they should be a margin bigger than usual. Tiny penis men aren't exactly in a hurry to get measured by others. You know dicks have grown 29% in the last 30 years? How crazy is that. That's ridiculous and stupid. Penis size is genetically defined.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:02 PM
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Logic and reasoning requires language, You don't speak the same language of the majority of other humans. You also can't debate most philosophy with kids, or people with severe mental disabilities and such Hence why animals don't speak. Animals use their own languages, mostly gestual. But they do speak to each others and are capable to transfer information just orally. If a crow dislikes you specifically, he can describe you to others and others will dislike you too. No shit. You said they only …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:56 PM
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You guys can hate it all you want. The average is bigger than it used to be 🤷🏻‍♀️ Nope, no evidence to suggest it's getting bigger than what's reported and studied world wide.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:41 PM
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As a person who has sex with men That doesn't mean anything. My sample size of women are obese with 100+ kg because i prefer them, that must reflect the average woman weight. What’s your sample size? What do you think? We men have seen a lot more dicks than you, we do sports and other activities that include exposing to each others and getting a grasp on most people size. Besides, i'm not even talking about myself, there's several studies across the world comparing and studying male penis sizes,…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:39 PM
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I believe you. Which is why I now have philosophical discussions with animals. You can't have a philosophical discussion with most humans, that must mean humans are not rational. Why would we do that? Maybe because we don't want to have 12 kids like our great grand parents used to have? People only have sex to have kids, remember? Mate, you're really an exceptional reasonable individual. People have sex because it's pleasurable. It's pleasurable for us, because it incentivizes us to bond with ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:31 PM
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5.1 just doesn’t happen often Have you considered the idea that just maybe most men you've met were on the bigger side instead? It's like saying fats don't exist, because i go to a beach and barely see one, when in reality obese and overweight people just don't like being exposed on a beach. Or going to a gym and thinking men are 90% of the population, because that's what a gym public is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:22 PM
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The size women want is 6.4 on average. That’s not “big”. Not big? Lmao, that's literally bigger than like 90% of men. 7"+ are complete outliers and very rare, most men are within 4.5'' to 5.5'' range.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:19 PM
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Animals have reason and logic? Sure, okay. Yes they do. You're right. It's not like condoms exist or anything. People only have sex to reproduce. Totally. Wow, just because we found a way to prevent having kids on the last 100 years, means we don't totally have sex because it promotes we having kids, and we're not "totally" wired to seek a mate to have sex despite never even having it. Pleasure is a reward, the incentive to keep men courting women, marrying them, help her raise her kids and etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:15 PM
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6.4" is average size. For porn stars, maybe. Not for the rest of everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:10 PM
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Animals also don't have the ability to use reason and logic, They totally do. That's ridiculous, especially considering people don't just have sex to have kids. Yes they do. Sex is pleasurable for us to stimulate us to practice it and have kids, that's basic logic. Most people wouldn't have sex if it wasn't a pleasurable activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:05 PM
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You all can tell a good male by how physically attractive they are to you, from fitness, to class/wealth, and many other apparent factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:14 AM
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It’s been replaced by modern technology and money. Money, status, physical attractiveness, etc, are all attributes that display good providing ability to her kids. You really don't understand even the basic things about biology like the theory of evolution itself. Women aren't exactly turning lesbians just because women are more attractive. They're hetero because.... they're biologically wired for that preference. To reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:10 AM
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ITT: People that don't understand biology saying humans aren't affected by biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:01 AM
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If nature were such a big deal.. weak men would never reproduce. That just doesn’t serve their purpose so they ignore it and cherry pick the parts of “nature” that excuse their poor behavior. You're totally ignoring that women used to be forced to be matched with men in order to survive. "Weak men" are often just descendants of strong men as well, it's just random mutations, and the concept of "strong" men keeps evolving in different ways. Society nowadays also depend on "weak men" to survive th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:54 AM
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That's actually true, except that species that only depend on female selection will often become dismorphic and gain traits like a peacock tail that could make them extinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:51 AM
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Lmao, what makes you think humans are not subject ot the rules of the rest of nature? We absolutely are, the paradigm just keeps evolving. A superior society will trample an inferior one and get their resources and even reproduction, humans evolution is pretty much a fight on resources, survival and spread their genes, like any other animal species.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:50 AM
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Nature doesn't give a fuck about less or more reproduction That's like complete bollocks. Nature is pretty much about reprodution, and animals and their attributes are certainly affected by sexual selection. Peacocks don't have that tail to do anything other than reproducing, no matter how detrimental it is for the species. The same goes for pretty much all species.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:33 AM
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Because they don't. Nobody hooks up with someone while thinking about what's beneficial to evolution, that's nonsensical. Who said it's entirely conscious?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:29 AM
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Sex have nothing to do with what's "evolutionary benefitial." All sex and relationships across all animal kingdoms have to do with what's evolutionary beneficial, that's just part of the natural selection. For example, male birds with lots of colors are attractive to female birds, because they obviously display healthy gene attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:28 AM
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What cuter? That's something completely subjective. I don't find most women even remotely cute, they're most of the time like spiders weaving nets for their own self-interest only, and most of the time a lot less merciful and kind than men. Being cute is about personality, not appearance. An ugly baby sloth is hundreds of times more cute than a grown up woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 04:23 PM
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Interesting, according to these women i'd be a perfect match for most, but i was actually a forever alone who only lost virginity at 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 12:03 AM
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You're creating a straw man by taking my statements too far and making them seem ridiculous. I'm not making any straw man, i'm just using your own logic and finding the contradictions in them, in this case, your statement that people need to be more "unique", versus the statement that people need to work out on them, gain confidence, lose insecurities, and many other things that'll make them more homogeneous to what the population expects, and not the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:17 PM
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I've had loads of friends that were women, doesn't mean they had any interest in me sexually. Some maybe did, but the majority were just being friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:11 PM
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No, not repulsive. Just not attractive as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:21 AM
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Being unique is not enough.´ Nice to see you walked back on that. The first step to achieving that is acknowledging insecurities and working on them to build confidence. So, you're saying men need to conform to the standards set by the market and become actually less unique by all becoming confident and without insecurities? I'm not saying it's easy, but you have to at least start working on it in order for it to work. Success often requires work, i agree on that. But luck too. And many other th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:19 AM
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So you don't think how society promotes what's appealing affects how you appeal? There's been times when slightly overweight girls were considered the most attractive, but now it appears to be more on the side of very thin, sometimes too thin. What's fashionable, changes with what society promotes too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:14 AM
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All men are unique in their own way, if that was true, there'd be no one missing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:06 AM
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This is simply incorrect when it comes to business. Well, not really. In business you risk failing if you don't adapt to the market, so you have to follow your competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:01 AM
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Well, he's competing with other hundreds of men trying to hookup with the same women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:00 AM
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That's just an instinctive behaviour that obviously have had an evolutionary advantage. The ones who don't, risk not passing their genes, that's behaviour that happens across many on the animal kingdom as well, males have to compete in gradually more elaborate ways for success.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:58 AM
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Lol never in my life have I seen or heard of any real situations like this Well, i've met an handful of them, and they do exist. I have an uncle that is one of them but no one would guess, he looks like just your "average" very attractive man, except he has 1 wife, a bunch of girlfriends, lovers and hookups, has hooked up with hundreds of people in total.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:38 AM
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I was referring to individuals, not entire ethnicities. Well, yeah, but you should acknowledge how society conventions and other conjectures are important to who is deemed attractive or not. At some point, people (individuals) who are not successful need to look at themselves for the reasons instead of blaming everyone else. True that, i don't disagree, i'm just making the point that there's other parts to blame, but obviously you shouldn't complain unless you do your own effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:22 AM
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So let's use the hardest and least effective way of dating as the measure of success? Well, i'm not saying you should or not, but consider that it's by far the most popular way people are finding matches these days, if the OP lives somewhere he doesn't have a wide network of people to go through, is only natural they end up trying to find online. But somehow being horny and without sex doesn't motivate you to even leave the house???? Why are you asking this to me, i'm not OP, i'm just explaining…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:19 AM
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in reality 80ish percent of them are NOT good enough Where did you come up with this number? In my opinion it doesn't make sense, men and women are somewhat around the same bell curve, so theorethically there's a woman for each man out there, if there are "bad men" there's also a simillar amount of "bad woman" to match, isn't it right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:14 AM
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The opposite - it makes it so much easier because women have so little options. But then again, women have to filter tons of more options to find you. What you said applies to IRL dating, but not really online.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:08 AM
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If women don’t want you, it’s because of you That doesn't really make complete sense when you think a little bit more. For example saying women don't date asians is because of asians. Things are a bit more complex than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 01:04 AM
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Well, to be honest, i worked myself into being extremelly fit, and still ended up with what people call a "landwhale", just because she's intelectually much closer to me than 99% of the others. She was also one of the few that understood me. So i can't say i blame men for ending up with them, they're often very nice people that completely understand where you come from, which is nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 09:02 PM
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Some men having multiple partners, means there's a bunch of them without one. Women also tend to not engage in so much in casual sex, specially so after certain ages, and others have FwB. For several other reasons, the number of "avaliable" women is therefore much lower than the number of men looking for them, so women get to be choosers. And why is it that women still often end up picking guys with more red flags than a mayday parade? Psychology. Bad boys transpire confidence, and display other…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:14 PM
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10/10 guys don’t bang every girl. Do you know what a simplified analogy is? They only bang 10/10 girls. That's an incredibly ridiculous statement. Men with real game, often enjoy the game itself, and will have multiple women that put up with it simultaneously. , but the better women aren’t interested in sex nor a relationship with male sluts Yes they are. When men are real attractive, many women won't put rationality above their hormones, they'll be seduced and believe them, you can't identify a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 05:19 PM
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I prefer a direct approach, “are you single?” I feel like hiding in the tiniest hole in the world when i remember i've had someone asking this, but i was with such low-esteem that it didn't click with me that she was showing such obvious interest, and when i didn't follow with it she simply disappeared and never came back. One of my biggest fails, i sometimes can't sleep at night thinking about these stupid events.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 05:03 PM
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Ok i'll try to reformulate in a simple way. Say a school, there's the 10/10 popular guys that bangs every girl. The girls will then assume they can get that kind of guy for a relationship and won't settle for less. The other guys that would be great relationship material for them aren't regarded as so, they're then left with either option: keep dreaming, or target lower and try to be happy with what you have. Of course, no one is stopping the men from the day dreaming choice, but that'll only en…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:43 PM
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so it’s not like there are significantly more men who want and are worthy of a great relationship than women. True, but you're supposing the 8/10 women would be happy to have settle for the 8/10 men, but in reality 8/10 women are seduced by the 9/10 and 10/10 men and get an inflated sense of self-worth and will see the "great relationship" potential man (the 8/10 that matches her) as just settling for lower. Cinderella married the goddamn prince, not a commoner in the village. The "great relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:14 PM
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But having higher standards doesn't change any of that, in fact it corrupts your mind a lot more. You see, when you're a man with higher standards, you'll be the guy finishing last, or not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:08 PM
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but you’re honestly stupid if you believe some men won’t lash out. ??? Are you answering something i said or are you just venting something?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:55 PM
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But why would a man wait for a unicorn and die a virgin while dreaming something that is impossible for them? You see, it's like you saying you don't want any friends until you find the perfect friend. People just take what they can and available to them, it's not like people can simply wait for a free ferrari to fall out on their lap. Being happy is more about accepting what you have, rather than day dreaming about impossible things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:52 PM
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Inexperienced men who are new to the game, especially guys younger than 25 allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex Disagree, it's actually more common the older men get. That's why the concept of sugar daddies is so popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:41 PM
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bad rather than using someone It's not "using" someone, it's about having a companionship. Men don't have emotional support networks and no one cares about their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:33 PM
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For most who really struggle having just some standards would be an improvement. But it isn't. If men don't lower standards, they can't get any success, and without success they can't be confident, and without confidence they can't approach anyone of their "standards". You see, being confident and out going results from a positive feedback loop
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:30 PM
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men and women just need to not be abusive or neglectful. Being abusive and neglectful is actually an attractive trait for men. It transpires confidence, and women melt with confident rude men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:18 PM
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we wish y'all were pickier Nah, you don't. Pickier men would just end up depressed and selected out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:13 PM
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You shouldn't need another person in order to be happy. We're not spiders, we're social animals that depend on bonds and social relations, and we totally depend on other people to survive, not just being happy. Human babies simply die from touch deprivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:09 PM
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Why can't you just get a hobby or hang out with friends? It's what single women do. What makes you think most men don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:05 PM
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nothing much, just your common severe depression. dis but a scratch.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:03 PM
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Now, are there more guys who don’t want a great relationship and so have lower standards than women? Why do you think this is because guys not wanting a great relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:01 PM
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I can't really explain it but the vibe when a girl likes you and is friendly and when a girl likes you has a very different feel to it No it isn't. It's almost exactly the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:38 PM
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That's just called being friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:37 PM
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Well, that's sort of exactly the same most girls that are just your friend act, so how do you expect him to mind read you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:35 PM
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If she liked you, she wouldn't change her mind over some minor misstep. They totally do. If a man doesn't mind reader her ambiguous signs, she'll assume the man isn't into her and never go back. Women assume men are just going to be totally in sync and perfectly understand their ambiguous signs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:24 PM
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“if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” Yep, specially in the initial stages. If you're unsure if she's into you, you'll just treat her friendly, and she'll assume you're not into her, because most women expect that men be mind readers or not shy/ in doubt just because she's being a bit conversational. I've always had many girl friends, and looking back, a few of them were probably showing interest by being overly conversational in bad situations li…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:18 PM
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If a girl finds you attractive TRUST ME she will let you know, either by smiling at you, making a small conversation etc … Or she's just a normal human wanting a normal conversation. None of those are evidence of interest. Women always hint things ambiguosly, with plausible deniability, the common man won't exactly know how to differentiate if she's just socializing or actively showing interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:08 PM
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about success with perfect women Perfect, for him, not some kind of perfect unicorn that doesn't exist. Her body image absolutely impacts her performance and experience of sex, just like it does for men. Her own, not the others. It's funny that you misinterpreted as the anxiety being the performance of pleasuring yourself and not the other, but i guess that reflects women standard mindset towards sex, they don't have to worry if the man is pleased and if they'll be able to please him. Bad sex is…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:15 AM
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Easy to say that when you don't experience the downsides of having no one. Unfortunately, being alone is worlds worse than having a companion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:09 AM
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But, would you be in a relationship with a woman that you found unattractive to you? Not in terms of personality, but totally physically. So I couldn't put myself in a situation with someone that I don't truly have some feelings for. I couldn't fake it. Well, that's just because you have options, emotional support and all that. Bottom girls also settle for little or nothing because they know exactly how it feels to having no other option, and know well how it feels to be lonely and even have thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:56 AM
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This is not the experience of most attractive men with social skills. Even the most attractive men have to target lower more often than not. It absolutely reflects the average man, unfortunately 99% of the men are below the 0,001% lucky enough that the perfect women jump into their lap. If they can cope with body image and sexual insecurities as a woman, then I doubt that would be different as a man. A women body has zero impact on her performance, she's not required that much physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:49 AM
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The fact that your concern is having as many options as possible is the problem. No, that's the solution, not the problem. See this, i had that "problem" of having high standards, and only got into a spiral of depression and confusion that led up to the solution that i should have had a long time ago. Women have tons more of experience so much that they don't empathize much with men that have less, and without experience you won't be able to approach the woman you want and be successful, you'll …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:32 AM
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When the alternative is loneliness or even dying a virgin, what do you expect? Women having much higher standards, means men have to lower theirs to meet women. to if he was with a woman that he found attractive and wonderful by treating her like a princess Well, that's why there's so many incels. When you wait for a unicorn, you'll die waiting or get into a spiral of pain and suffering. Man do start with high standards, but have to lower and lower until they meet someone who accepts him, that's…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:21 AM
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And die virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:18 AM
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Women express interest in attractive men all the time. Express interest is a lot different than having to do all the approaching and facing rejection 99% of the times, while feeling miserable for not being able to find anyone. Even if they did starfish which most people don't, idk if men could compete with a woman turned man's head or manual stimulation game. Or they'd be in a spiral of anxiety about why their erection is failing while having to perform athletically, or any of other problems man…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:08 AM
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It'd be crazy to being able to be regarded as a human being. Going by the trend from this thread, i'd looksmaxx as a woman and marry a rich guy, give him the best sex he ever had and make him crazy about me, and not even being required to do much but clean your house and cook and spend time with the kids. Tbh, perfect for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:54 AM
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An average man does not get harassed by women. Ugly women do. An average man can go years without even being touched at all. Ever been touch starved?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:43 AM
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The guys who have to go through life as an ugly woman would have a psychotic meltdown. Well, you can't say it'd be any better if a girl turned into an ugly man. Invisibility, being regarded as weak and stomped on their feelings without being allowed even shedding a tear or complain about your problems. Knowing the average women, they just couldn't handle having to swallow everything with stoicism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:39 AM
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Men, however, might be surprised at how the desire to socialize is kind of built in What makes you think men don't desire to socialize?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:32 AM
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Watch how fast men become the more physically attractive gender lol Watch how fast they would be dumped for being a starfish in bed and not approaching women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:28 AM
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Yes, but they'd be invisible and regarded as weak losers for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:24 AM
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In their heads, in a few decades, they’re going to be rejecting women their age and young women are going to want them.. because reasons and Leo I would think so too, but my experience tells me many women are very attracted to older men (40's-50's), i know a bunch of them who only date people like 10-20 yrs older.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:32 PM
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Most women are generally attractive to most men just by looks, while the reverse isnt true. By looks only, it's natural that a man will try to meet most women available, specially if he has an high rejection rate, so he can at least get some experience and a chance to success, and experience is crucial to have success. You really don't want to be me, that only approached a specific girl at a time that i had romantic interest, end up despairing and ended up losing my virginity at 28 on a casual d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 01:11 PM
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