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| 2 | social competency is WAY more important than height to attract womenWomen value men for status. They would drop Jeff Beezos who does all the chores and is great at sex if their friends insulted him and complimented another option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 05:54 PM |
| 28 | social competency is WAY more important than height to attract womenDoubt. 5’9” v 6’ with those same descriptions ok. But you picked too extreme of height difference. I generally agree it’s looks and frame over everything but I don’t know if Tom Cruise could overcome 6’4” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 05:52 PM |
| 1 | There's an overlap between men who struggle with dating and irreligious conservatives.If you notice the user name, it’s a true believer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/26 02:11 PM |
| 10 | There's an overlap between men who struggle with dating and irreligious conservatives.Looks > everything else. And the left at same time complains that strong, fit, tall masculine men are conservative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 11:18 PM |
| 6 | There's an overlap between men who struggle with dating and irreligious conservatives.I’m a democrat and anti woke so I think it’s wrong to say is given a conservative. I’m so anti woke I think it killed the party and we are for decades of trying to undo the damage it caused. I also think woke is illiberal and leftist drivel. It’s so bad I have to question sometimes if it isn’t a psyop to make people hate democrats and ruin the 2 party system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 11:14 PM |
| -1 | the birth rate topic is sillyIt’s not more realistic. It’s stupid and been tried and failed. You cannot give women more to raise birth rates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 09:59 PM |
| -1 | the birth rate topic is sillyOn their own? They just spontaneously replicate? Not at a societal level. Women who have a baby without a husband tends to be a baby. For replacement rate we need many women to have 3-4 babies. If you look at history and cultures higher birthrates come from higher marriage rate. Women being present do not produce babies on their own. Tons of societies right now have billions of women that aren’t producing babies. The relevant component is the marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 09:49 PM |
| -5 | the birth rate topic is sillyYou families to raise babies. Women are not the thing that produces babies families are. The only solution to falling birthrates is earlier pair bonding and family formation. You should care about this bc your beliefs are only as good as their ability to replicate. A population collapse would cause a total civilizational collapse that would make the material values and beliefs you held out having kids for pointless. Instead you’ll be ruled over by 80iq warlords. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/26 09:30 PM |
| 1 | If a woman a man is dating or is interested in starts pulling away, his best option is to let go and stop trying.Women like to be pursued and women love playing social games. Women will ignore a guy they like to see what his reaction will be. If he is chill about it they will like him more if he wants to know wtf is going on she will lose interest. It’s amazing to me how much women Pretend to not know about other women. If men Do something you don’t like it’s bc it worked with other women. People don’t do things that don’t work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 01:37 PM |
| 1 | If a woman a man is dating or is interested in starts pulling away, his best option is to let go and stop trying.They should respect other people enough to communicate that. This post is about people stealth ending something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 01:34 PM |
| 1 | If a woman a man is dating or is interested in starts pulling away, his best option is to let go and stop trying.I would just start dating another woman. I did this so many times and it caused legendary crash outs; from blow ups and screaming, social media posts, to begging to suck my dick. Meanwhile the times I tried to pursue more never turned around once. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 01:34 PM |
| 9 | A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory.Extreme confirmation bias here. Conservative men are married with kids. Single middle aged women are liberals. This is like the 2 most well known cohort Splits in gender and voting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 03:20 AM |
| 3 | A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory.That’s actual studies where giving people tesoterone moves them to the right. It always baffles me how Reddit doesn’t know such big standard things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 03:19 AM |
| 10 | Women are emotionally more resilient and self-reliant as single women do not whine, cry, complain, and moan about being lonely nearly as much as single men do.Because they aren’t as a lone. The last time some men had something nice said to them was decades ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Politics matter in dating, why the red pill is political,and why women generally reject the red pill.Do you ask for sources when you like the fact? The answer is no so you are playing a game. And there isn’t a single source in your manifesto. Where is your source that maga and redpill are the same? Where is your source that turns women off? Where is your source this matters for who women sleep with? Where even is your source that redpill men or conservatives are the ones experiencing the loneliness epidemic? Speaking of which you got a source for men being lonely? Maybe you made it all up or ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Politics matter in dating, why the red pill is political,and why women generally reject the red pill.Yes. It’s a game you play when you don’t like reality. Not my role to educate you about the world you live in. You’re welcome to go google something and refute that most married people are conservatives. **edit - since the mods locked their post. A manifesto about men who disagree with women not getting laid is a bad faith shit post. 1) it’s a poorly disguised control tactic, you better think like me or you’re a loser 2) in this sub of all places it should be known bs that women are not picking … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Politics matter in dating, why the red pill is political,and why women generally reject the red pill.Not when she was talking about politics for an hour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 12:23 PM |
| – | Politics matter in dating, why the red pill is political,and why women generally reject the red pill.You got a source for reality/s I’m not playing this sophist Game. You know most married people are conservatives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 12:22 PM |
| 2 | Politics matter in dating, why the red pill is political,and why women generally reject the red pill.I went out with a group for my friend to meet this girl he met online. I stayed quiet and a little stand offish. We thought it was going well bc we all hung out for like 6 hours. They talked politics. After about an hour The girl he was there to meet asked me what my politics were. I was trying to look bad so I said I like guns, America, and hate abortion. Well when it was time to go, I left him alone for a few minutes and he came back dejected. She told him she wasn’t interested. I got home an … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Politics matter in dating, why the red pill is political,and why women generally reject the red pill.Most married people are conservative. No one is rejecting anything you’re blabbing about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 04:51 AM |
| 1 | The manosphere thrives because society has failed to provide an alternative.It thrives because it’s what men like. Picture the most machismo violent 8ps action movie, add neon, jazz, and cool cars. That’s everything I like and every other guy I know likes. Now add the only reason that doesn’t exist is bc it was taken away and anyone who tries to make it will be ruined by more powerful people. All we have left is UFC and rumble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 11:33 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone care that dating is better now for women?I was pretty damn cute when I was younger and girls would talk to me, leave me notes, ask me out. I’d be at track meet and girls from other schools would just come up to me and ask to hang out. I was only 5’9” but this didn’t matter in the 90s and I looked like Josh Hartnet. I have always dated beautiful women who I didn’t really have to pursue and I married the hot theater girl from my college who starred in the plays. Anyway I share this bc, I was hated in my own HS, never dated or hooked up w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 12:33 PM |
| 3 | Women have ruined cold approachingI met a woman who was running one of the rides at a theme park and we dated for a while. Another time I cut a car off, it raced up to yell at me and it was a pretty surfer girl who just left the same beach. We ended up dating on and off for years and our kids are friends. It truly was a better time man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 02:36 PM |
| 2 | The majority of sex should be oral sex performed on women.Above average and very thick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 04:38 PM |
| 11 | The majority of sex should be oral sex performed on women.My wife requires penis in vagina penetration, barely wants anything thing else, and finishes quickly from it. She can’t finish sometimes other ways, even a vibrator doesn’t work and she just screams about wanting me inside of her. Anyway anecdotal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 12:28 AM |
| 1 | “Men would love to be sexually objectified”This is so naive that you think women don’t stop. Women aren’t used to being turned down or being told no about sex. They are much worse at handling than men who are used to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 03:28 AM |
| 1 | “Men would love to be sexually objectified”Claiming heterosexual women react to men the way heterosexual men react to men is not a very good / positive point. That’s actually a terrible thing if the average woman is as grossed out by the average man as the average man is of other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 03:27 AM |
| 1 | “Men would love to be sexually objectified”If the cashier told me my bulge looked great today and made a sexual comment about how happy my wife must be, I would find more reasons to go to that store. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 03:23 AM |
| 1 | “Men would love to be sexually objectified”Oh no, this ugly woman who I’m not going to sleep with keeps talking about how big she thinks my dick is! This is totally going to negatively impact me! Men would be so gassed up to hype girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 03:21 AM |
| 1 | “Men would love to be sexually objectified”I have been sexuallly objectified, it’s fucking amazing. You want me to be your big dumb dildo bc it’s better than your other dildos? Never had such a nice thing said to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 03:14 AM |
| 7 | Women tell men how ideally a man should properly behave, but they don’t reinforce that because they reward bad behaviour.Every social rule women have for men, is how invisible men they do t want sex or relationships with should exist around women so they continue to be invisible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 05:48 PM |
| 3 | Women are the ones red pilling menThey disagree with the church | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 08:26 PM |
| 14 | Women are the ones red pilling menThis always goes over like a lead balloon bc both women and men hate the implications, but I was a dude bro fuckboy in my young 20s and all men’s fears about female behavior is true for enough women that it actually matters. Women do select and make the 1st move, they just don’t do it to most men. I knew explicitly I had a green light 90% of the time. Many women’s 1st move at a party, club, or bar was to just grab my dick and start jerking it. I have slept with numerous taken or married women an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 05:57 PM |
| 13 | Women are the ones red pilling menIf people are brain washed how is the generations old trillion dollar establishment merger of Citibank, NYT, and Disney out influenced by a dude with a $100 microphone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 05:45 PM |
| 1 | People aren’t afraid of commitment in 2026, they’re afraid of bad commitmentWe know why. Children are being separated from parental units sooner and sometimes permanently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 12:16 AM |
| 1 | People aren’t afraid of commitment in 2026, they’re afraid of bad commitmentThat’s not what I said. I’m pointing out that there has been an increase in negative attachment syndrome. I guess if you wanted to specify my point it’s that there are plenty of people who are avoidant and aren’t just choosing against bad relationships. I’m adding a caveat that bad attachment has increased. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 11:45 PM |
| 0 | People aren’t afraid of commitment in 2026, they’re afraid of bad commitmentPeople do have negative attachment syndrome from broken homes / being separated from parents too early. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 10:04 PM |
| 7 | single moms are honestly great and have no problem getting a “good guy”My single mother always told me, don’t get involved with someone else’s family you deserve to start your own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 01:03 AM |
| 3 | GenZ women's "icks" are just a manifestation of their innate preference for rigid gender roles and archetypes.I do not accept that carrying a water bottle or a back pack turning women off is just a normal thing from the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 11:28 PM |
| 0 | Men struggle with not liking people but hating being alone.Men can get pregnant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Men struggle with not liking people but hating being alone.People want and expect equality in many ways beyond financial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 04:44 PM |
| 0 | Men struggle with not liking people but hating being alone.A thing can be natural or understandable and still wrong or not good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 01:34 PM |
| 0 | Men struggle with not liking people but hating being alone.Egalitarianism. Sexual dynamics are going to end socialism if it’s ever achieved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 01:32 PM |
| 0 | Men struggle with not liking people but hating being alone.Are they masculine and lean? Then they are chad in their county. It’s true that normal women in small metros and counties date very normal man who don’t stand out in your mind, and many more with problems or issues in their life, but I can almost guarantee what many of those problem men look like. You may not want to call them hot, but they are over a certain height, lean, masculine face, assertive and there are tons of men in the same area doing better that the women dating the former will igno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 01:25 PM |
| 0 | Men struggle with not liking people but hating being alone.Nope, I don’t like noise. No matter how submissive one is, I likely don’t want them in my space. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Men struggle with not liking people but hating being alone.I struggle with not liking people and not being left alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Women's preferences in men seem to be eerily shaped by "late stage capitalism"And most people don’t today. That’s the point. There is systemic pressure against prosperity that is a group problem but individual men are still being judged on their ability to succeed in it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Women's preferences in men seem to be eerily shaped by "late stage capitalism"But they are from the same class. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Women's preferences in men seem to be eerily shaped by "late stage capitalism"Does being financially successful affect someone’s value and worth as a human? Why is it ok that men historically pick women with much less financial viability than themselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 06:56 PM |
| -4 | Women's preferences in men seem to be eerily shaped by "late stage capitalism"Shouldn’t our systems match that a little better then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 06:55 PM |
| 3 | Women's preferences in men seem to be eerily shaped by "late stage capitalism"I make $36/hr and my wife makes $34/hr. We still struggle. We don’t really have might get evicted troubles, but we have debt we shouldn’t just to help meet obligations, make food choices based around money, don’t eat out, and can’t afford a middle class neighborhood for our kids which is a major point of depression for me. The point is, it’s extremely hard out there for everyone, with system wide problems, but women in dating out that all on the man. Not good or mature, and extremely classist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 06:53 PM |
| -1 | Women's preferences in men seem to be eerily shaped by "late stage capitalism"Strong post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Women's preferences in men seem to be eerily shaped by "late stage capitalism"They don’t like it, it’s actually challenging, and thus a bot so they can dismiss it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 06:50 PM |
| 8 | Women's preferences in men seem to be eerily shaped by "late stage capitalism"I don’t see where this post disagrees with OP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 06:48 PM |
| 0 | Women's preferences in men seem to be eerily shaped by "late stage capitalism"Did you look up Sophie Louis and socialist / Marxist sex theory? As I see the OP, it is criticizing women for not truly being progressive and only supporting the parts that advanced them in capitalism not actually challenging capitalism. I offered a source to find more on what sex dynamics are supposed to look like under socialism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 06:47 PM |
| 4 | Women's preferences in men seem to be eerily shaped by "late stage capitalism"I’m married. I just dislike bad politics and poorly made arguments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 05:51 PM |
| – | Women's preferences in men seem to be eerily shaped by "late stage capitalism"Failed reading comprehension. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 03:30 PM |
| – | Women's preferences in men seem to be eerily shaped by "late stage capitalism"Do you know they came directly from Lenin and Lenin pushed for socialist sex theory to capture the women who were resisting and harming the revolution? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 02:55 PM |
| – | Women's preferences in men seem to be eerily shaped by "late stage capitalism"So there are no socialist sex therapists to help people be better socialist and deal with their aversion to polyamory? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 02:47 PM |
| – | Women's preferences in men seem to be eerily shaped by "late stage capitalism"Socialist sex theory believes the means of production are women bc they create the laborers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 02:32 PM |
| 4 | Women's preferences in men seem to be eerily shaped by "late stage capitalism"You should look up some socialist sex theory. Progressivism isn’t women using the system to get privileged positions then only pair with dominant high earning men in the system. OP’s post is a critique that women aggressively pursue the progressivism that benefits them but are being even more hyper traditional in their private life bc it benefits them there too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Women's preferences in men seem to be eerily shaped by "late stage capitalism"Would you accept that some people don’t care that people have black skin but they just don’t like rap music, urban clothing styles, and loud people so don’t want to be around people who happen to just have black skin? She is identifying pretty much everything that separates blue collar working class people and saying it’s just taste and behavior. Not considering that she doesn’t like those things bc they are associated with poor people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Women's preferences in men seem to be eerily shaped by "late stage capitalism"I’m amazed at how uncritical the women in this thread are able to be. So no one is going to try and contend with women only being good progressives when it benefits them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 01:02 PM |
| 2 | Women's preferences in men seem to be eerily shaped by "late stage capitalism"1) I don’t think the situations any better in the Nordic countries that provide a lot of support for mothers. 2) choosing based on looks is not the socialist ideal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 01:01 PM |
| 5 | Women's preferences in men seem to be eerily shaped by "late stage capitalism"What are they when they are brown and from another culture? I highly doubt you would say it the same way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 12:56 PM |
| 3 | Women's preferences in men seem to be eerily shaped by "late stage capitalism"Yes that’s classism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Women's preferences in men seem to be eerily shaped by "late stage capitalism"So classism. Yes we know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 12:54 PM |
| 4 | Women's preferences in men seem to be eerily shaped by "late stage capitalism"We destroyed male jobs (the production base) and subsidized female jobs (HR, Administration, and Teaching). Then the women think they are hot shot bc the men with guns who they hate give them a privileged system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 12:54 PM |
| – | Women's preferences in men seem to be eerily shaped by "late stage capitalism"This is a great post. Socialists are supposed to be in polycules, open relationships, and the women need to be promiscuous. If you think I’m being hyperbolic look up Sophie Louis and socialist sex therapy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 12:51 PM |
| 0 | Men can also desire a small percentage of the population. They just pretend it’s the average woman.I don’t believe that. I think women online don’t like what looks like good character and morals to men, bc men care about sexual history, tattoos, partying, debt, college major choice. These are all value judgements just things women don’t like men caring about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 09:40 PM |
| 3 | Men can also desire a small percentage of the population. They just pretend it’s the average woman.Criminals aren’t great people that happen to break one day. They are bad a lot then finally get caught. That’s why it doesn’t matter if it was before or after. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 03:27 PM |
| 6 | Men can also desire a small percentage of the population. They just pretend it’s the average woman.Because roads and utilities are good while crime is bad. What’s to explain? What’s your real question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 12:56 PM |
| 5 | Men can also desire a small percentage of the population. They just pretend it’s the average woman.I don’t think it matters if it was before or after. How am I proving your point? The claim isn’t 50% of women will take a felon, it’s that 50%+ felons successfully mate. That disproves that character is the inhibiting factor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 12:55 PM |
| 3 | Men can also desire a small percentage of the population. They just pretend it’s the average woman.That’s not. Men find 40-60% of women attractive repeatedly shown in studies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 12:52 PM |
| 7 | Men can also desire a small percentage of the population. They just pretend it’s the average woman.What’s the fallacy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 12:52 PM |
| 14 | Men can also desire a small percentage of the population. They just pretend it’s the average woman.It’s a huge problem when the autist who loves autocad and builds roads or lays out power grids and plumbing doesn’t have kids but the crack head who robs stores does. Yes. That is not the productive man’s fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Men can also desire a small percentage of the population. They just pretend it’s the average woman.Bc it directly refutes that argument and it’s terrible for society that 50%+ felons have kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 12:49 PM |
| 8 | Men can also desire a small percentage of the population. They just pretend it’s the average woman.I’m married to what I was looking for so not complaining for myself but all I wanted was heart shaped face, size 12 with matching boobs, and fair hair. What most men want amounts to a 5-6 if she is pleasant and wholesome and they will never consider anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 12:48 PM |
| 1 | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill isThis isn’t even what my point is. “Women being better looking when they are younger” meme is thought of as a negative effect where pretty women become ugly. That’s not actually the mechanism. What I’m saying is generally a good thing for women, is that even average women when young are pretty cute / attractive to most men. It’s saying f that most healthy women have their time in the sun, not that pretty women will get ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 09:27 PM |
| 0 | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill isThat most women are passably attractive to most men in their 20s but aren’t in their 30s. This is generally misunderstood a negative way, that a pretty woman gets ugly, buts that’s not what’s actually happening. It’s that average women are noticeably attractive to most men when they are in their 20s. I added my personal opinion that it’s bc of boucle fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 05:43 PM |
| 3 | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill isIt’s a common occurrence not a rule you can count on. Most men who are healthy will look better in their 20s than teens and better in their 30s than 20s. After 40 some might really fall off, but some male aging does improve. Men whose face continues to square out or get salt and pepper coloring. Meanwhile so many more women are really cute to most men in their late teens and 20s than their 30s and 40s. A pretty woman usually stays pretty, but men are suckers for boucle fat and most women have it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 04:08 PM |
| 0 | Sexual history can never be over-written. Her best will always be better than you.I believe their much more effective solutions in past cultures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Sexual history can never be over-written. Her best will always be better than you.Every one who uses “you problem” does it about systemic issues that have knock on effects for most everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 12:53 PM |
| 2 | Sexual history can never be over-written. Her best will always be better than you.My wife climaxed for the 1st time with me and does it in a few minutes most times. She is more in love with me 20 years later than the start. It’s a secret reset button women don’t want talked about, but she is always happier, more devoted and agreeable after climaxing. We have kids and she is a lunatic about the fear of them hearing something so we might go days in between. She starts getting really cranky and unreasonable about everything. 1 shower together and she’s a stepford wife for a few … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 12:26 PM |
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