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Sparky159/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 01:37 PM
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Sparky159/r/TheRedPill11/02/19 05:46 PM
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Sparky159/r/askTRP17/05/18 11:23 AM
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You can feel both ways about it. Part of being red pilled is to have the desire to uplift other men, and help them in their RP transformation. But at the same time, understand when the other person is a lost cause In this case, we feel bad for OP because everybody knows what’s going on, and he’s definitely made his bed. But at the same time, we can feel bad for him because of that
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 02:45 PM
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In my opinion, this is 100% why women find cooking so attractive. The precision, attention to detail, and knowledge required to execute a well put-together dish lines up with everything that this post said
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 09:10 PM
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If you’re a surgeon, she’s probably more interested in your wallet than your hands
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 09:07 PM
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I’m looking at a job offer in Poland, and I’ve never been there. Any status update on the Poles?
/r/TheRedPill15/12/19 06:58 PM
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Very much so. Grappling sports in general (I took BJJ myself) will build explosiveness and coordination unlike anything else. While most sports will still build explosiveness, grappling forces you to be aware of everything you're doing, and everything your opponent is doing as well. Oftentimes, you can't even see what you're doing, and are relying on your sense of spatial awareness and instinct to guide you through the match
/r/TheRedPill13/08/19 12:23 PM
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Only when I need to wank I mentioned it elsewhere in this thread, but I hurt my right wrist a couple years ago, and was in a brace for a couple weeks. So I switched hands to compensate, and that “skill” stuck
/r/TheRedPill14/05/19 02:17 AM
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Writing is easily my weakest skill
/r/TheRedPill14/05/19 02:16 AM
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Her dad has his suspicions, and she’s a major daddy’s girl. If he asks, she can’t lie to him
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 11:42 PM
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If you can’t batter the women, how the fuck am I supposed to bake them a cake then?
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 11:41 PM
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You’re not wrong by any means
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 08:46 PM
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You shouldn't have to worry about that if you have a girl solidly in your frame, and under your leadership
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 07:31 PM
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From my experience, women don't need sex. What they need is validation, which they get through sex
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 07:00 PM
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Due to being raised in such a conservative and religious household, shame is a very powerful idea that is constantly invading her head
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 06:59 PM
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Well her dad is her doctor, so I'm not too sure about that last part But yea I definitely understand where you're coming from. I'm always careful, even if she's not
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 06:58 PM
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I hurt my wrist when I was a freshman in college and had to wear a brace for like 2 and a half weeks. I was a CompSci major, so it's not like I had to write very often. However, I would not, and could not, go that long without spanking the monkey ​ I still write, grab, and throw things with my right hand, but beat the meat with my left
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 05:31 PM
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Honestly, our plans were pretty much the same, minus the "showing up later". Simply because every person that knows me, knows that I can't stand being late. I was definitely staying in the gym longer, and hanging out with the guys longer too
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 05:18 PM
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Fortunately, her parents are more terrified of her getting pregnant than we are. The first thing that they did when they found out that we were having sex was to put her on birth control
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 05:13 PM
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Probably because I can't write for shit. I'm so used to writing reports, that when it comes to actually writing personal details, like this, it comes off almost childish
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 03:52 PM
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Her dad is the chairman of the board of directors of neurosurgeons for our chain of regional hospitals, and was an officer in the US Navy. I'm a tech guy, but at least I'm in the Army. Not going to lie, while she doesn't know this, I am very concerned that she could be alpha-widowed by her dad. Any advice on how to mitigate this situation?
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 03:48 PM
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That's an interesting take on it. I didn't consider that part about the resentment building up after every serious argument. I'll have to re-evaluate again, and more carefully this time
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 03:45 PM
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Oh god I hope this isn't a lifelong issue. Maybe I can just be a military contractor and whisk her away to Germany or Poland Who am I kidding, if I'm in Poland I can score an HB8 just by walking down the street
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 03:28 PM
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Yea luckily she started her rebellious phase around 7 months ago, so her parent's influence isn't as great as it was. Otherwise I would've ditched her around the 6 month mark
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 03:24 PM
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Sex isn't important enough to me to lose my honor like that. If I'm in an official relationship, I'll be faithful ​ However, if this was just a plate trying this, I can promise that I would've blocked and lost her number instantly
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 02:10 PM
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Personally, I believe in the "you don't have to win every battle to win the war". The goal for me in this was to strip her of her control of our sex life, and put it back in my hands. If you allow women to control the sex, you've already lost. That is one of the basics of red pill ​ The one month of lost sex is nothing compared to the months of torment that would've followed if I had allowed this to go unchecked
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 02:08 PM
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I marked it as "NSFW" so that way it can be looked at as a "trigger warning", and didn't X-post from TRP Honestly, I'm more surprised that they haven't auto-banned me for being subbed to TRP
/r/TheRedPill09/05/19 06:38 PM
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I posted this on that TwoX feminist subreddit, so go check it out if you want to see some female shilling later
/r/TheRedPill09/05/19 05:53 PM
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I'm in northern Louisiana. Can conform that the same applies up here
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 05:08 PM
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And both of them are just equally as miserable
/r/TheRedPill15/03/19 06:59 PM
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At this rate, I'm going to bet on the Islamic world. They have a reputation of taking over other countries cultures in a more violent way, unlike {[(other races)]} who will subvert an entire country through controlling logistics
/r/TheRedPill09/01/19 12:18 PM
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I could throw a tennis ball and hit someone on Barksdale AFB, in northern Louisiana. I'm national guard, so I'm allowed on base at any time, and can use the commissary and the base gym for free, at my leisure. This is important for my game because that allows me to go to them at very little effort for the girl (girls don't want to have to put in effort for sex to happen), while still allowing her to feel a sense of familiarity and comfort. The free gym is also a yuge bonus as well
/r/TheRedPill03/01/19 06:12 PM
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It depends on which part of the country you're from. If you're from the midwestern part or the southern part (minus Texas), then you know how valuable peace and quiet is and tend not to be obnoxious. If you live in the coastal areas, Texas, or otherwise buy into the "MURICA" mindset, then everyone overseas is going to hate you
/r/TheRedPill03/01/19 05:58 PM
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>No need to ask for their snap ​ There are some rules I personally have in place, and here are a few (and why): Never host. I don't want a plate getting salty and showing up to my house uninvited. I have my own car, with a decent paying job, so I can afford to take that minor blow to the ego if it means not risking a girl killing me in my sleep. Never ask for phone numbers. I hate phone calls as it is, I don't need a girl blowing my shit up 8x a day because X broke up with Y on TV. Snap makes it…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/19 05:56 PM
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That seems almost like a black pill my dude. Blue pill would be to just accept it. To end your family line and destroy your family name is the blackest of pills
/r/TheRedPill02/01/19 01:27 PM
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Plates, almost by nature, will be annoying. It just depends on the "Is the sex good enough to justify the annoying part?" ratio
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 12:00 PM
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I recently made the shift from reddit to TRP.RED, and I'm having issues staying logged in on the forum site. Who do I talk to about technical issues?
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 07:29 PM
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TBP posters will get banned from TRP? I've always heard the opposite to be true, I figured this would be the last place to ban those of dissenting views
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 06:38 PM
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As always, these things tend to be the exception, not the standard However, even among the fringe groups (LGBT, polyamorous relationships, etc), you still have a pseudo-dichotomy of Masculine and Feminine. The natural masculine state of being is to spin plates, and feminine natural state of being is to swing branches
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 06:23 PM
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There's always something about almost dying that always brings out the most well-rounded and goal-oriented qualities in a man Good job OP, keep going on your path in life and you'll come out on top
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 02:53 PM
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Socialism/Communism/Marxism is kind of like Chickenpox Some live, some die. The ones who live never get it again
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 06:10 PM
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TRP can mean a lot of things to a lot of people, but at the end of the day, it's about helping boys become men. With the rise of single motherhood, a lot of guys are growing up not realizing that little things like this matter. Some guys don't realize that you actually have to treat your clothes nice in order to look nice. This is a place of learning and growth, and not everyone starts off at the same point
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 12:01 PM
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I binged and studied on the sidebar as well as the rational male like I would be tested on it. You ARE being tested on it. You are the taker, the tester, and the adjudicator. You are responsible for everything you do from now on, and complaining without action is an automatic failure. Good Luck.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 11:18 AM
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Exactly. Think of it if it like a controlled or contained explosion
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 08:00 AM
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That very well could have been it, who knows. However, the key point was that her anger was validated, but not the reason. The reason itself was deflected. By doing so, you don’t lose frame, but she gets to feel like her anger was justified (but not how she originally thought)
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 09:27 PM
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>Learn the roll of shame I looked up a video of the RoS and I can already tell that's going to save my life one day. Any advice on nutrition? I typically drink a protein shake in the morning, eat a shrimp and slaw hoagie (I live in the South) for lunch, have some kind of chicken-based meal for dinner (like shrimp and chicken alfredo), and then finish off the day with another protein shake. It's not the best in the world, I know, but it's the best I know how right now given time restraints at wor…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 05:03 PM
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Women should always be part of the background. Focus on you and your mission. Create your own life and the women will naturally follow
/r/askTRP25/05/18 01:56 PM
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When a girl confronts you about her feelings, the best course of action (from my experience) is to deflect her anger onto something else. Example: My LTR was mad that I had "kicked her out of my car". What actually happened was that she went to bed at midnight, woke up at 5:30am, and was busy doing makeup and hair for a wedding for several people. We got to her place at around 9:30pm, fucked in my car, and around 11pm I told her to get out because I needed to go home. She slammed my car door shu…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 01:54 PM
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What She says: "Don't flirt with me for 3 months, I want to make sure you're still into me" What she means: "I'm trying to fuck other guys and not feel like a slut, but I still want to keep you around for when I decide to stop whoring around"
/r/askTRP25/05/18 01:30 PM
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Don't do shit, don't say shit, and for damn sure don't get stuck in the same room as her alone. The higher a girl is on the looks scale, the higher she gets on the crazy scale If she's already like this, then she's going to cheat on him. When, not if. Don't be the guy that she cheats with unless you really don't give a shit about this guy.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 01:14 PM
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You typically find this kind of Logic and Reasoning™ in the southern states/Bible Belt You hear this especially from the super religious types: "I only had sex in the ass so technically I'm still a virgin"
/r/askTRP25/05/18 12:59 PM
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>3 kids with a fat out of shape dude who beats her You see that weird kid? The one that looks different than the other 2? That one's yours
/r/askTRP24/05/18 04:54 PM
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I know there was a thread on the main page, and it was directed more towards Americans, but I feel like it also applies to this situation If you get accused of rape, don't say ANYTHING. By admitting that you had sexual relations, consensual or not, they now have grounds to launch a formal investigation. ALWAYS go through your lawyer, and NEVER talk to the police/answer their questions
/r/askTRP24/05/18 04:16 PM
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That's how you go from "Fly on the Wall" to "Everyone within a 2-mile radius knows who you are" in a heartbeat
/r/askTRP24/05/18 01:01 PM
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Keep in mind, this post is asserting that there is a negative correlation between IQ and Attractiveness. Therefore: Religion Majors = Lowest IQ = Hottest
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 12:39 PM
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It was more than likely a combination of the breathing techniques and the development of the core muscles that did it
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 11:23 AM
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I'm not saying that it's impossible to practice on hot girls, but it's easier to practice on an ugly chick than a hot one Also, it helps to practice on an ugly chick because you don't have much to lose in the event of a catastrophic failure
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 11:22 AM
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I know, but I also know a lot of lifters who are always “but cardio killz muh GAINZ”, so I felt the need to bring that up
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 01:17 AM
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Yea man, when you wake up at 4:30am and have a timestamp to prove it, anybody would look at that like "truuu" and then go back to sleep
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 07:14 PM
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You should have robot gamed her Ah, yes, just spout 1's and 0's and their panties will crash to the floor harder than Windows Vista /s
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 06:49 PM
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What's your advice on lifting without a partner? I don't want to be one of those guys who are stuck on the machines all the time, but I'm also not trying to be one of those guys you see on Facebook that end up choking themselves on a bench
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 06:22 PM
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Get a Tinder, and set the "Age" scroller all the way to both sides, 18-45+. Swipe right on anything that doesn't sound absolutely crazy/STD-infested/Bot. Get with a 4-5, learn female anatomy, and figure out what gets their engines purring AWALT doesn't just apply to their hamster, most women fall into 1 of 4 sexual categories: Vanilla BDSM Experimentation Total Degenerate Also, this may sound a bit counter to the "Lifting" hive mind, but do some fucking cardio. That helps with your legs, hips, a…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 06:16 PM
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It's not that they went passive on me, I just saw an opportunity and took it. That cute cashier is a solid HB8, good future, her dad's a retired naval officer/neurosurgeon, and it's only been 3 months and I can already see me rubbing off on her. She was a pretty face and a blank slate when we got together, so I feel like I can convert her But we all know AWALT, so I'm enjoying my time until it comes time to move on
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 05:58 PM
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Like the man above me said, sporadic texting works best. It keeps them on their toes, and gets them into the mindset of Do not expect a timely reply. Therefore, they never know when I'm going to text them back, so it keeps them interested just enough to not go looking for other guys, but not entirely invested to the point to where they're going to try to hit me with that "What are we?" nonsense. As for the AM, it's just a generic "Fuck this shit" picture of my dashboard while I'm driving to work…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 05:48 PM
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They may not be good for game practice, but they're definitely useful for sex practice I banged fatties between 16-19, and now I've got an HB8 LTR and she's asleep, happy and content, because the dick game is too good
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 04:12 PM
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Shhh.....We don't talk about the barracks
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 04:07 PM
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Yea we're talking about the same thing. If your partner is less than 6in shorter than you, it's going to be awkward as hell unless you're built like an ox
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 01:18 PM
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It's Ok, because once he gets out of the anger phase, he will begin to absorb TRP, and will never have to worry about divorce rape once he finishes digesting it He's already taken the pill, now he's just fucking choking on it
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 01:16 PM
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Especially the lack of sleep and free head space This is really where I get confused in all honesty. Spinning plates shouldn't be hard, and it shouldn't take up more time than a couple seconds of free time at work. Example: I had 3 USAF girls who are stationed at a nearby base (I'm Army NatGuard, so I could get on base whenever tf I wanted). I sent them all the same snapchat every morning, and texted them maybe 4-5 times each per day, if that. Sometimes I'd even go entire days without talking to…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 01:05 PM
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If you're 5'9, then it'll be damn near impossible unless your partner is ~5ft
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 12:26 PM
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Sounds more like her vagina is embracing Chad's cock
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 11:49 AM
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I wouldn't really say insight so much as she is the epitome of the AWALT, and makes for an easy example
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 11:48 AM
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That comes easy to people who are at the top of the smv pile Not even that. Even subpar guys can have a modicum of self confidence and still get reliable pussy. Granted, the girls will probably be fatties and landwhales, but those are just stepping stones to build confidence to move up the SMV ladder
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 11:47 AM
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Pursuing women is one of the most obvious things in the world, and you should be scouting and gauging women at every moment. Men who don't look awkward and uncomfortable. Men who do look natural and calm. Guess who gets the most girls?
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 07:29 PM
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Empathizing without being her emotional tampon Can you elaborate on this concept for me? I've never heard this one before, and I would like to understand it a bit better, especially the reasoning behind avoiding it
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 04:52 PM
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Damn, that sounds pretty sweet. I'd love to try to get therapy but I'm afraid of what my parents will think. When my brother got back from deployment, he started seeing a therapist for anger issues and anxiety, and our mom almost lost it. You know the drill, "My son isn't broken" and things like that; I just don't want to deal with that kind of stuff
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 11:21 AM
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Which VA do you go to? I'm stuck in Shreveport, and I don't exactly trust the VA over here
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 06:07 PM
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She didn't need nice, she needed me I'm shamelessly stealing this phrase
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 12:00 PM
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I've always been hesitant about the whole "import your lover" deal, especially if they come from a significantly less well-off country. It just seems so fake and it screams of desperation Except that one dude who's "22 y/o Filipino lover" was actually some 25 year old Filipino man, but they ended up getting married anyways. That was a nice twist
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 03:01 PM
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It's just like any other medicine in the world. It sucks going down, but you're always grateful that you took it
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 01:34 PM
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3 LDR's later, and can confirm that they don't and won't work, unless someone puts in the effort to close the gap permanently. And if it's the guy that closes that gap, then it still won't work out because you're giving the woman the power/control
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 11:18 AM
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So the takeaway here is if your plate/LTR ever gets on the pill, you have to fuck her until she can't walk, and flood her brain with Oxytocin?
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 07:19 PM
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The best way to go about it, is to just do it. Steel yourself to rejection, and just go for it. I know this sounds like a cop-out, but it works. Your best option is to ingrain into your mind "I don't know these people, so why do I care what they think?", and just shoot for the moon. Do what YOU want to do. Your main issue isn't the fact that you can't get women, the issue is that you have no confidence in yourself. Women can smell insecurity from a mile away. It's not about how many women you ha…
/r/askTRP17/05/18 04:57 PM
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Game or not If you got good game and know how to talk to women, you don't need a car. You'll have them coming to you
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 07:28 PM
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Do absolutely nothing. Continue to spin your plate, and if your friend tries to confront you, just tell him "You knew the situation, so you should've accepted it" Once they become official, continue plating her until she tells you to stop. Keep up your appearance until right before drama begins to break out, then ghost everyone except your remaining plate. If your friend is as much of a BB as you think he is, then you can probably get another week or more out of your plate before they decide to …
/r/askTRP16/05/18 01:55 PM
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Like one person said, you need to pass a few more comfort tests. Personally, I don't say much, just enough to get her out of her little mood. Try to let your actions be your words But on the flip side, if you're balls deep in her culo, why do you care about nudes? Why would you want pics when you already have the real thing?
/r/askTRP16/05/18 01:20 PM
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Every now and then I'll visit my old high school, and it's depressing to see all the wasted potential. I see young men walking around with their heads down, accepting defeat. They haven't even entered the anger phase yet, you can see it in their eyes. They've accepted their losses without even putting up a fight. And often times, it fills me with anger because I know that I was exactly like them when I was in high school Now I'm 21, in the military, and I have an HB8-8.5 for a girlfriend. Took h…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 12:20 PM
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I'm pretty sure that was said with his tongue squarely in his cheek
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 11:57 AM
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Beating your meat once or twice a month is perfectly fine/healthy. Where the issue lies is in the fact that most people will beat it like 2-3 times a day, for weeks straight
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 06:04 PM
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Chadpa's are the newfound competitors in the SMP
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 09:31 PM
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I actually find this to be the opposite. Pope isn't saying what's "Wrong" or "Immoral", he's saying that the man should be the leader in the relationship, and that if a man cannot hold himself to the standard in which he holds his woman, then he is unfit to be the leader of the relationship. Failure to uphold this self-standard will result in the woman swinging branches. This is the foundation of every leadership course in existence. Relationships are no exception.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 09:20 PM
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I recently got into a serious relationship, and I'm expecting this to be a LTR. However, I only discovered TRP a couple of weeks ago, and I decided to implement these schools of thought into this relationship, because why not? It's already turning into the best relationship I've ever had.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 01:35 PM
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Men love women, women love children, and children love puppies; but never in the reverse. Absolutely magical. Men have been usurped as the "big umbrellas", protecting their families and kin, and have been reduced to nothing but ATM's and material providers, and this phrase seems to have encapsulated it. Nothing is more powerful than the love Men have towards those who have earned it
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 08:51 PM
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