SparkyMcBoom Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Being the bad guy		SparkyMcBoom	/r/Divorce_Men	30/08/24 07:20 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Being the bad guy But to end it, I’ll have to crush her spirit, and so far, I can’t bring myself to do it	/r/Divorce_Men	30/08/24 07:38 PM
2	Being the bad guy I don’t really want to fix it is the thing. If I could wave a magic wand, I’d want 20-30 years apart and then we could re-link for old age and be there for eachother as we die. But no one would ever go for that, and I’d probably Welch on any plans to reconnect after an extended break. But if I’m on my deathbed and never lived my own life as an adult, I know I’m going to regret it terribly	/r/Divorce_Men	30/08/24 07:38 PM
7	My advice to those starting down this path... I’m just starting to really consider a divorce, and all this sounds off the walls paranoid and crazy. Is this really reflective of the life’s y’all are living?	/r/Divorce_Men	30/08/24 07:09 PM
0	I think it’s the scheming that is hard to forgive I’m in the pretending everything is ok while looking for the right time to get out phase with my wife. It doesn’t feel diabolical. Just like, logical? The relationship has been stale for years, what’s a few more months while financial shit / kids get settled into a better splitting ground. We bought a house together like idiots cause we could finally afford it. But it needs a bunch of repairs before we can sell it and split up decently. Imma finish that before I make a move. Better for both of u…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/07/24 03:56 PM