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I don't think they were dumb people at all. Maybe it was an energy that was more flirtacious, or giving them a comfort level. But have you ever seen Mystic Pizza where Julia Roberts runs the pool table and the 1 guy is attracted. I've never found it works that way. Run a table and guys look at you like you have 2 heads. Let them show you how to use chalk and hold the stick, then they are totally interested. I have played this experiment many times. It is an incredibly RARE man who will get beat …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 12:25 PM
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I've always thought it was because they only saw the cheerleaders. That's who they would talk about. When I actually learned how to let boys win and I mastered how to play dumb, I got a lot more attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 06:18 PM
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Weight and Nerdiness. As a sci-fi/ comic book fan guys would give me the time of day, but just like a male friend. Not as a potential girl or date.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 01:24 PM
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No. My effort for a partner is more of a reflection of the energy that is given to me by him- not what he looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 10:55 AM
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I don't believe there should ever be only one reason you want someone and it should never be something superficial or materialistic. If you are not finding the right matches it is most likely what you think of yourself or the ideal you are looking for (which isn't necessarily bad- just takes longer).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 02:07 AM
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It is simply a matter of your own preference and attraction. The attractive girls mother/sister could be looking at you wondering what in the world is she thinking. Some people could even have the perception that allowing attractive people who are superficially attracted to looks are inferior to the highly intellectual. It is a slippery slope to think we are superior enough to decide what qualities are worthy of "breeding".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 07:13 PM
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We may not be communicating but I would not define "treated his girlfriends right" as "dateless. He is 22, has had one LTR and even handled the break-up in a mature way. He will be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 06:54 PM
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Pretty much. Other people have made very good points. I have always that casual sex was emotionless but I am open to the idea I could be wrong. I do think that if you have to much of a good thing it becomes less meaningful but it is probably not good to compare a cupcake every day to random sex everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 06:26 PM
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So I have no idea where the idea I expressed came from (stereotypes maybe) but you and others have made very good points. I'm just imagining what a fling would be like.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 06:23 PM
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I'm not sure it qualifies as a crystal ball but my son is 22 and I can already see that he is a good man. He has the foundation and has treated his girlfriends right. Now he just needs to find the right one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 06:19 PM
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That actually makes a lot of sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 06:17 PM
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I think any time you over indulge in anything, it becomes significantly less important. A man who sleeps with lots of women will have a diminished ability to pair bond and eventually loose enthusiasm of the newness each encounter can offer. Men may not get tired of the primitive biological function of sex but multiple partners will make anything more meaningful harder to obtain.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 12:09 PM
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Effort with out super enthusiastic cheering seems like a good compromise. That doesn't sound like a starfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 12:02 PM
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That I know for sure he will not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 12:00 PM
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Being to tired seems weird to me. I could never imagine the right kiss on the forehead or the back rub leading to something else not being the cure to everything for me. So in a way, wanting to feel desired is my fix all but I do understand we are all different.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 11:59 AM
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No. There is either a connection or there isn't. Sexual harassment will not connect the dots for you. You might just need something more memorable about you but not in a negative way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 01:41 AM
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Men want to be desired. It is a little boost of confidence every time their partner wants them. When you think about all the little things we get excited about everyday I think pleasing your partner should be near the top of the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 01:37 AM
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Imagine tall, good looking, nice hair fraternity boy who always wore button down oxfords and boat shoes. Big smile, southern accent and member of the golf club. Classic car - 1979 triple black super beetle. Upper upper class and first time was in a Ritz Carlton. Should have picked a bad boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 12:06 AM
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I want him to be a gentleman, courteous, protective of those around him and a man who always puts more good in the world than he takes out. I want him to know that he is much more in life than his penis and that accumulating the male version of the "1000 cock stare" won't make him a man. I want him to stand up for what he believes in but also have the wisdom to know when walking away is the better option. I want him to accept when he makes mistakes (including an unplanned pregnancy) and always t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 11:51 PM
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So we have this thing where my SO refuses to decide where to go unless I provide at least 3 suggestions he can say no to. Then, when we go somewhere, he doesn't communicate where he wants to go, makes me figure out how to get there and is always disappointed we are not wherever he wanted to be. That is an example of not leading. It can be expressed as refusing to express his desires and the pouting when he doesn't get what he wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 01:44 AM
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I would not just based on my personal experience . The men that I have know use them are overly obsessed with their physique and that it unattractive to me. Once it reached the point of bulging veins it is just not sexy. The men that I know who use them are so messed up priority wise - spending thousands on the drugs and trainers at the expense of their house, kid, food. They have poor temper control and honestly their intense focus on health sucks normal joy out of life. I imagine this isn't al…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 11:49 AM
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I actually would not. The only exception would be if he offered to make dinner or his kids were hanging out there. I wouldn't even go in the house if I was picking a man up to give him a ride somewhere. Just the way I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 08:13 PM
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You seem much more invested in this than I am but you are correct. I don't know her or understand so I don't want to judge her. Maybe her boyfriend is an ass who hits her or insults and she just doesn't want to admit it. My degree is actually in psychology but I'm not suggesting I have any idea how much people are capable of change and even if I did it would still vary by person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 01:43 AM
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No, I don't think child rape is ok or any rape. I haven't had therapy so I don't really know how it works but I'm not sure if we can always change what we think or just quit admitting it out loud. There are so many ways to look at this. There are people who would say masturbating is wrong period regardless of what you are thinking about. I would think most people have had inappropriate thoughts and determining what is inappropriate is our own perspective. Again, I don't agree with her but it is …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 01:19 AM
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I've never actually met one but I don't know many guys who go around beating other guys up. I'm just saying people have fantasies that can't always be easily explained and I wouldn't criticize her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 12:21 AM
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I think it feels very disloyal and wrong but it is a very slippery slope when you start to consider many women have fetish fantasies or rape fantasies and I wouldn't criticize that. I don't really understand what makes us think of the things we do but the ethical point for me is the difference between acting on a fantasy IRL with the guy vs. in her mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 12:07 AM
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Do you think it is wrong that she was thinking about someone else while masturbating or just that it was him?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 10:56 PM
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Maybe feeling guilty about thoughts will actually prevent her from taking further action? Brain technically controls everything so I failed at being funny or facetious. We can control our actions much more so than our thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 07:29 PM
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Your comment seems oddly off topic so I am not sure what to make of it. Most people with a conscience feel guilty about something but may still do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 06:27 PM
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I don't think it is normal. Nothing more than wanting something new or different. At least she feels guilty so that is a hopeful sign. Perhaps it was pheromones or an aura of testosterone. I don't think it is her brain causing the thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 04:35 PM
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I'd probably pick 24. I was probably in my best shape and no wrinkles or sagging skin. If I had known what I know about fitness and nutrition now back then I would have been kind of hot. My male companion looks good. I would only use it on his teeth. Maybe back 24 too. Single use wand would be totally for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 04:31 PM
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I'm pretty sure Journey described it best when the said "Anyway you want it" except anal. Give her at least one thing. If she used to be sexual and now she is not, either she settled or you changed. Even if life is stressful and you are not having a lot of sex, she should be flirting and teasing you consistently or she settled. Personally I think you can see desire in someone's eyes. If you can't there is an underlying reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 04:25 PM
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Witchcraft is more associated with peacefulness, spirituality, beauty in nature and charmed objects. It is a lot of imagination, scents and patience. Mindfulness. Not always but mostly female characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 01:35 AM
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This is only for people who see their main value in life as SMV. I have straight male friends, gay male friends, straight female friends and gay female friends. There is so much more you can actually do in life than have sex. Once you get it out in the open that there is no mutual attraction, it is just a normal friendship for people who don't get preoccupied with their own ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 04:11 PM
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I think he should be there as much as possible but if he can't be, he needs to make an extra effort to be at the important things. I am sure all dad want to be there 24/7 but isn't always that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 12:29 PM
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I feel like we are going to be going in a circle shortly but the use of the word "most" in that sentence suggests a blind following of the media painted picture of police issues. Law Enforcement is no different than any other industry that has to change over time. There are agencies that have corruption but the statistics unless manipulated by the media don't suggest police are out abusing their power when you look at the overall number of encounters they have daily. Showing respect for other me…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 10:45 PM
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You are making a big assumption from your perspective of life. Appreciating the people who are going to run towards trouble when he needs them doesn't equate to blindly following authority. If you are never going to need them and you help people in trouble then more power to you for not supporting. That doesn't mean everyone wants to live without 911.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 10:31 PM
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At some point when the market is truly saturated and price wars start for customers, it may not be worth the effort for the producers (girls). When everyone is paying Walmart prices, how much effort are you going to put into giving individualized attention? How many different poses and conversations can you have before it gets boring?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 10:13 PM
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Watching Ride with Norman Reedus really makes him stand out. You can watch him pop into back offices just to say hi to workers who wouldn't get to see him, hit on biker chics, 18 year old women, be open with his guests, blow things up and still not offend anyone. He didn't even get rattled when some women bit him but I think he quit wearing the "Bite Me" shirt. Jeffrey Dean Morgan is matching him on this as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 07:31 PM
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I think even if a couple splits up they should do everything in their power to at least stay in close proximity to each other. Shared custody seems to be the ideal situation to me. Bringing children from multiple women together as brother and sister is just as important. They should'nt be every other weekend families. # of baby mamas is a pretty high red flag on my list but it isn't always an indicator of poor parenting. He just needs to be there for the moments- the birthdays, the sports games,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 05:11 PM
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All women are sexual but showing it in public is dependent on being taught lady-like manners or having feminine role models. It is not necessarily an upper class thing to watch your mouth/behavior in public. Some cultures require it regardless of financial status. Outside of manners, intent is a big factor. Perhaps women who want something from a man might be more outwardly sexual. The less you have the more you want so it would make sense,
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 02:52 PM
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Yes, Daryl. Even in the show he has a stand offish personality but his overall purpose is to protect the group. In real life he is a little more cultured and showers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 11:43 AM
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The Walking Dead guy with long hair and a crossbow.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 01:18 AM
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Norman Reedus He does anything and everything he wants without ever being unkind. He is beyond patient with his crazy fans, spends days with Make A Wish kids, supports law enforcement, listens to shit music, travels the world on a motorcycle while documenting it, laughs at himself, has a great sense of humor, he is a fantastic friend to all his co-actors, has his own art gallery. I could do this all day. He is the picture of a bad ass but an incredibly good guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 10:48 PM
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To me , wish her the best would be what I am looking for. I just wouldn't want to be with anyone who still has hate and resentment. They can't separate that from a new love. So this actually sounds good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 02:57 PM
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The main question I would ask would be if he gets along with his exes. Anger or hostility on either side is a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 01:48 AM
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For those in the back row- Women like sex too. The strategy is probably to find a guy who knows what he is doing in bed. Orgasms make us happy and so does physical intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 09:31 PM
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I agree there should never be drama over chores. I also think setting expectations so resentment doesn't build is important. For example, I know my SO will cut the grass. It is helpful to know whether his plan is to to do it it before or after we get the letter from the HOA telling us to do it. I don't need to know it is every Saturday at 11 am. We've had several maid services and it is always a nightmare. Everything from theft, not showing up, one lady decided she couldn't use any cleaning prod…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 08:09 PM
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Maybe I should be more specific. I think the alcohol and flirting probably play into it. I would totally go for a male teacher even though he works with all females. I wouldn't call the male a misogynist but I suppose some would.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 03:39 PM
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I don't know- seems to be a lot going on with women now adays. But i'll agree with the gossip.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 03:35 PM
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I don't think so. Just stating you don't want a female SO who tends bar is not the same as not wanting a female bartender to serve you. I don't care what people do for a living but I don't have to make it part of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 03:20 PM
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I wouldn't say DO more, I would say, stop and be the head of household by clarifying who is responsible for what and maybe the frequencies (dishes every day?). Then whatever he agrees to- just do it. After that there is no more discussion and he shouldn't let the nagging happen. I have one of those less than motivated but I guarantee you I don't mention what he doesn't do- it just doesn't get done. Last, it should just be a given fact of life that you clean up after yourself. I loose instant res…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 11:23 AM
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I hope this isn't to rough but any profession where a man is constantly in contact with lots of women would turn me off. The whole bartender working nights and weekends wouldn't appeal to me either for a relationship. As long as you are working towards something else though I would think long term interest would be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 02:24 AM
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If my SO decided to go spend time with a 20 year old who wants his money, it seems more like I would be the one getting some kind of revenge. I really think he would miss how good he actually had it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 04:53 PM
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The point of The Myth Busters experiment was to show women found men who were perceived to be good providers more attractive than if the same man had a different job that required less drive? So that automatically gives a BB a plus for attractive but why would that decline if he has the same job. It has to be a combination of things and not a single reason. It is not shallow- it is biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 04:50 PM
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I'm picturing Themyscira with a lot sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 11:52 AM
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Marry men who don't think money is that much superior to having a family and home well cared for. If both roles are valuable, you are not buying or sacrificing anything. Materialism has skewed the values.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 11:49 AM
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It is like anything else in this world. People with discipline, self-control and strong minds can be friends with the opposite gender. People who who think their primary value in life is wrapped up in their SMV simply can not. Relationships with the opposite gender are formed from the perspective you have of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 10:03 AM
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I think part of it is people are so uncomfortable with themselves they are always trying to be somebody different. They don't think someone could like the real them so they follow mythological game rules like don't text him right back, make him chase you, act like you are interested in someone else. Not man blaming here (well maybe) but some men don't want genuine and just want a chase. They won't be interested in a girl walking up and saying I want you and life be easy. It is the ying yang of d…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:11 PM
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I don't think I am. I think some women dress really bad and have been known to mention it. I'm actually liking the stand when he walks in the room idea- if I add 10 squats to that each time I could really get into that behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 01:22 PM
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I don't think I would offer --that seems weird. If I had any doubt in my mind I would have one done myself. If you are being honest that it is a potential question, it should be assumed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 11:57 PM
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The men in my personal life are all cops-firemen-lawyers. Constant exposure and abundance have made these careers less than interesting to me - more towards boring. I work with programmers and I honestly think it is quite sexy to sit and watch them write code or mentally solve a problem rather than rushing to physically solve something. But I speak that language and I love the logic of it all. I am in a minority of females who find this hot though. I am generally not interested in careers that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 11:36 AM
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It could be worse. I was such a brat when I met my SO at a dance club, when he asked if I would like to dance, my exact response was "Do you know how?". He said yes. But he lied. To answer your question though, I wanted to either dance with my partner or the really good guys. I wasn't into teaching back then and I wasn't interested in meeting anyone new.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 05:50 PM
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I don't think you could come up with a predominant reason. Purely for sex and to have power over someone would be my 1st to choices if I picked. But a lot of it is anger. Angry they think they got played, angry that people have more than them, angry at slights they think they received or unfairness. Also know as victimhood. It is also a form of superiority and not seeing the victims as equal or sometimes even as people. Most rapists don't think they did anything wrong and are entitled to take wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 05:01 PM
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You must not watch Westworld. Once the programming is good enough to make you think they desire you and can have spontaneous interesting conversation, they are going to kill you. Or some other douche bag will hack their programming and kill you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 09:34 PM
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I could accept that he is with anyone he wants as long as all the same rules apply to me. I don't really see a M-F-F threesome in my future so we would each be doing our own thing. I pessimistically see it as the beginning of the end but I would be open to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 09:20 PM
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Kind of made me think of the original Stepford Wifes and Westworld. Intelligent men need more than submissiveness and they haven't managed to program enthusiasm yet. Men want sex from women who desire them. It is a balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 09:16 PM
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I lean towards alcoholism is an addiction and the person isn't strong/disciplined enough to quit until they are given a reason. Sadly some people never find that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 09:11 PM
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If you figure out the answer, bottle it up because you could make a fortune selling it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 04:20 PM
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This is a very good question. I think some of it is genetic. Some people are predisposed to addictions. After that it becomes a lack of discipline and self-control if someone is drinking to the point it impacts their life. I think people tend to do that when they are unhappy with their circumstance and are waiting for someone else to fix it. No passion, no purpose just general lack of gratitude for what they do have and constant desire for more. My rich white friends who drink constantly are doi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 04:17 PM
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I am specifically not blaming anyone just trying to fill in facts we don't have and see it from the perspective that is not represented. There is rarely a true victim in the demise of a relationship. She should not have taken the kid but we do not know her circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 04:09 PM
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The definitions are a little contradictory. The whole idea of a good girl excludes the idea of a string of one night stands from the start. The real question is do you want someone who can translate the value of sex into money or someone who translates sex into actions for someone she loves. I'm not judging but it really is the value of sex and not the volume.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 01:21 PM
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I've come to look at it as at least he doesn't make the same mistakes more than once. Whatever it was that happened he learned something and moved on. I think it would be good for him at work because there is a value in accepting responsibility but he got where he got, doing what he is doing, so I can't say my way is better- just different.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 12:45 PM
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I come from an opposite perspective. I married someone who has never apologized even when he is dead wrong. So personally I would treasure a well timed "I'm sorry". I doubt it is his fault more than hers but it definitely takes two to get to a point it can't be reconciled. I hope they work it out for the kid's sake. He needs his father.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 11:51 AM
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Yea, I agree 3 years is different. Not sure why I heard months. But I do agree, she started the commitment in his country and what ever steps she took to leave him should not impact his ability to care for his child in a custodial way. I think he is rationalizing reasons she left (gave her to much) and not accepting responsibility for things he contributed (maybe little emotion). It is very hard to guess without all the details.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 11:40 AM
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I would agree taking someone's child and leaving is morally wrong but we don't have any indication of her side of the story. I could make it up - young woman, in a new country with no real family to help with a baby. She's scared and lonely. Perhaps post-partum depression at 3 months. Just my perception from the video - he is not an emotional guy and buying her gifts to make up when he does things that are wrong is a red flag to me. I suspect for her to leave to be happy, she could not leave the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 11:30 AM
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Fear of someone new cancels out fear of missing out. It is a wash.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 11:44 PM
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Chase all the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 11:30 PM
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I take incredibly good care of him. Beyond the basics of food, drinks, laundry, taking his dry cleaning I give him a smiling face and a reason to want to come home. I'm here to listen, bounce ideas off, keep up with his kids teachers names because I know he won't, surprise him for no reason, be the charming wife at his boring work events and anything he needs me to do. I'm assuming my mouth still works as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 11:28 PM
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No, I would never consider doing it. I just don't think that is the way it should be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 10:55 PM
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I hate calling anyone low value as I just don't think there are true buckets like that. But in the spirit of your question, being low value is a victim mentality. Victims don't start to develop empathy until they overcome feeling like everything was done to them and they had no accountability. When they do emerge, the empathy is for people going through what they went through and a general hate for the group they blamed. Someone successful and resilient will overcome whatever originally made the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 11:52 AM
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They are. But do you think they marry them because they want them or is it how they were raised/socialized? I personally have never met a gang banger outside the movie screen but maybe they have redeeming qualities. I know personally I have a want to save everyone and make their life better complex. Maybe other people do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 09:14 AM
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Higher consciousness. Faking being a jerk wears good people down. As for the rich people in traffic, sometimes it is an acceptance of consequences. Example, I speed because I can afford tickets and I like the way driving fast feels. I'm not a jerk so I don't cut people off because the consequence of feeling bad is worse for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 12:21 AM
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I don't think there should be that many either but I didn't make any real mistakes in life. My perspective is very charmed and I try to have an open mind toward people who didn't have the opportunities I did. But for every guy I had a crush on, I promise he was nothing less than Prince Charming in the moment and I never tricked anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 12:16 AM
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Media and the fashion industry are responsible for most standards. So the top dogs in those arenas really determine what is beauty. That is why there is such a push to change the standards. New top dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 09:04 PM
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I do understand what you are saying but I have a hard time accepting women really go into relationships thinking "hey I just met this great asshole, I'll date him awhile". There is something internal that says he really is a great guy once he gets rid of the facade. But he isn't. Then when you meet a great guy who's just a great guy and requires no reconstruction from an asshole, it turns the world upside down.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 04:27 PM
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No, treating anyone badly is a bad idea at any point in life. The idea that what you put out in the world is exactly what you get back is real. It is not only the people you treat bad, but others who see you doing it will remember it and honestly it is who you become. If you are a young jerk, you might make a little money along the way, but you are still a jerk. I personally don't see many happy jerks in life- even the ones with money. I always think life has caught up with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 01:33 PM
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Less talk, more action. Makes sense. Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 10:47 AM
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I would rank percents more to the side of collegial friendliness just because of the threat of harassment claims- but caveat I work in a programmers world where the to autistic to notice rate is probably closer to 25%, then 50% boring stable and brick wallish (otherwise known as friendly) and 25% flirting. I know plenty of wild stories about interoffice stuff though including an admin assist who got breast implants as part of the settlement for the several year affair where her boss harassed her…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 11:52 PM
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The nice smart kids ruled my school. The good ole days.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 06:05 PM
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I didn't say tantrums but it really is the Peter Pan idea of accepting growing up and settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 04:59 PM
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Because if you don't believe in fairy tales then you have to willing to accept you can't be anything/or have anything you want in life. It's giving up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 04:00 PM
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I meant don't wait to ask (miss your chance) but go slow falling for her. He is very young and shouldn't be in any hurry.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 02:59 PM
1

Whatever it takes to enjoy life. Just don't miss your chance completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 12:54 PM
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Go slow -----but don't fall in love while she is walking away. Be a gentleman. Always respect yourself. Keep everything in perspective. Don't forget who your friends are. Take the lead and make sure you like what you see in the mirror everyday. Don't change for a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 09:21 AM
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Do you mean something like tailgate or football parties? Or going to stadiums to see sports other than soccer? I always assume the women are there being noble and making someone else happy because there is no way it would be their first choice of locations if they could be anywhere else. I am sure there are women who could enjoy it and I love the social aspect, making food and dressing up but overall I don't feel bad about any gender bias. I don't really care why anyone is there TBH.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 07:10 PM
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I think people should have sex before marriage and they should actually live together at least 2 years or so. The only thing I don't agree with is having sex with people you already know you have no intention of dating much less marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 12:36 PM
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That's is what they don't know - that it is not true. Most of your perception is the reality around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 07:14 PM
3

I have wondered this my whole life and the only thing I can think is that people really just don't know what they don't know. Why do women stay with cruel men - because they have never had a different experience. When you grow up in extreme poverty, you don't really comprehend that it can be better until someone shows you the way or you get out. One of my friends was telling me about her new "little sister" from the Big Brother/Little Sister Program. The mother has 8 kids from 5 fathers. The kid…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/19 04:35 PM
2

But it is real life idea that people want companionship and need the social skills to interact with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 06:57 PM
3

My brain likes to think that I would be able to in order to make a partner happy with a 3 way but I just really don't think I could. I've had a couple of drunk friends kiss me so I don't know if the lack of appeal was that they were female or that they were drunk. But it just didn't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 06:56 PM
2

More people recognize that than Edward and Vivian but I could have said Pretty Woman - true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 06:02 PM
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Even Richard Gere fell for Julia Roberts. We are social creatures and want companionship that stems from sexual intimacy. Men who only pay for prostitutes loose more in social skills that will eventually be evident in other areas of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 05:46 PM
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As much as I like to look at female for aesthetics or contour, I just don't feel anything. I think I am a boring 0 and not convinced I could even fake anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 05:40 PM
2

I wouldn't say personality so much as the whole package. Maybe it is because women are always multi[tasking but it is several things that have to be working together instead of just one physical thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 02:00 AM
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I care about a man's body but you are right, the sexiest parts are usually covered up in public - the back or abs. A man's sex appeal is much more in the way he carries himself, his confidence, his smell, the light shadow. To pull it off it requires more than just one body part.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 01:57 AM
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I really like nice guys and don't want anything else. I also like a sense of humor and to know when I am joking so those don't have to be mutually exclusive.. I'm sure other people would label something I've done as shit testing but I have never intentionally done it. I rarely ask anyone to do anything for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 12:14 PM
1

I have a personality to be the one who loves more and I do like being on a pedestal but I don't want to be someone's everything. I want them to still have career dreams, friends and hobbies. Being attracted to someone is the core - it won't work if that doesn't exist and you are right that it is insanity not to get anything in return from a relationship. Every one will self eject from that circumstance. Some people just try to stay harder than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 12:01 PM
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