SpeakerFamous Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How many of you on here have actually improved with women after spending time on here? I have but I also spend considerably more time working on making myself more interesting than I do on the sub. Probably the biggest key imho…	/r/seduction	22/09/22 10:32 PM
10	When someone says there is "lack of connection" what exactly is that? I feel as guys this is a hard concept to understand. We mistake lust for love perhaps more so than women do, but yeah I’ve gone out with a crazy bad bitch I felt nothing for and then a more normal girl the same week I immediately felt a spark with. Feelings are real my boys, don’t ignore them, and don’t ignore when others tell you about theirs.	/r/seduction	13/09/22 06:00 PM
2	"Hey you have beautiful eyes" to my first phone number. I think you should just accept this is a good example of how you can’t get hung up on “did I offend her” because yeah maybe and also maybe you didn’t actually do anything wrong. Don’t be a jerk fellers, and just keep it moving.	/r/seduction	08/09/22 04:03 PM
–	Make a habit of talking to all strangers, not just attractive women. Seduction is a subset of being generally charismatic with people. I think it’s outcome independent. Ofc the end goal is developing your social skills to improve your dating game But the point is that the goal should be to practice and improve not close. Focusing on closing imho leads to far more anxiety and worse outcomes anyway.	/r/seduction	06/09/22 04:37 PM
–	This is NOT an incel sub, and some people on here need reminding of that. You have control over your own dating success if you improve & approach. Honestly bro, you seem dangerous. I almost feel like it’s my duty to help you get laid so you don’t hurt anyone	/r/seduction	04/03/22 04:38 PM
2	This is NOT an incel sub, and some people on here need reminding of that. You have control over your own dating success if you improve & approach. Well I’d start by being less combative and overly analytical. Ease up, man. Girls don’t want a fight before they’re even in an relationship and even then they’ll probably dip out asap	/r/seduction	04/03/22 04:31 PM
2	This is NOT an incel sub, and some people on here need reminding of that. You have control over your own dating success if you improve & approach. Did you though? I mean I have disabled friends that date just fine. I have a hard time believing you did the "usual vague" stuff if you're still struggling. But as I said in one of my other replies to you, I'm willing to bet its just your offputting personality.	/r/seduction	04/03/22 03:49 AM
–	This is NOT an incel sub, and some people on here need reminding of that. You have control over your own dating success if you improve & approach. Just a headsup, reading your comments is exhausting and makes me irritable. I can almost guarantee you won't have much success if you're this disagreeable, and you especially need to drop whatever attitude this came from "so ill be a dick to you" ?? First of all, you're attacking him based on your perception. YOUR perception. What happens if you perceive a slight against you by a girl? are you going to treat her badly immediately? Control yourself.	/r/seduction	04/03/22 03:46 AM
4	This is NOT an incel sub, and some people on here need reminding of that. You have control over your own dating success if you improve & approach. honestly, i feel like unironic usage of the term white knighting is a good litmus test for dating success.	/r/seduction	04/03/22 03:40 AM
–	This is NOT an incel sub, and some people on here need reminding of that. You have control over your own dating success if you improve & approach. Post the field report!	/r/seduction	04/03/22 03:37 AM
–	This is NOT an incel sub, and some people on here need reminding of that. You have control over your own dating success if you improve & approach. the way u/pherdbeve replied to you, quoting you and beating you over the head with it instead of trying to appreciate the spirit of your message.. idk. it just reeks of poor social skills to me. I'd hope the way he's replying to you rn and the way he replies to girls are night and day bc wow it was annoying to read this interaction.	/r/seduction	04/03/22 03:36 AM
1	Roommates are having loud sex and I can’t get a girlfriend to save my life. How do I cope? Honestly sometimes I read these arguments and cringe so fucking hard. What is the point even lol. I'm dating someone rn that explicitly stated me being responsible is one of the reasons she's attracted to me. Women aren't a monolith.	/r/seduction	10/02/22 04:35 AM
36	[deleted by user] I've gotten dressed up in my fav outfit just to play a game and then got upset when i lost bc how could I when im wearing my outfit man?! LMAO	/r/seduction	02/02/22 05:23 PM
–	[deleted by user] Bro what is up with people saying being a virgin makes it harder? Literally how does that even come up so often for these guys? Make her laugh, avoid talking about your nonexistent experience. Etc etc.	/r/seduction	01/02/22 03:27 PM
11	for newbies: big dating subreddits can do you more harm than good TBF, just being more interesting and confident does wonders for your overall appeal, and not just sexually. So while the tired platitudes could be used a little less, theyre definitely not off entirely the mark either.	/r/seduction	19/01/22 12:10 AM
–	Does crying in front of your girlfriend/partner destroy sexual attraction? Not that all redditors are this way, but this guy is what people who dont use reddit think of when you ask them about reddit lol	/r/seduction	12/01/22 04:08 PM
–	i need to escalate but can't figure out how. Smh, no. no. and no. 3rd dates dont mean the same thing to everyone man. Some girls attacked me BEFORE a date, and other girls waited till the 5th date. There's more to relationships and seduction than sex anyway, and if you're dealing with the kind of girl that pulls away from leg touches... Buddy, you're gonna want to play it slow and get consent. You sound new to the scene man.	/r/seduction	08/01/22 04:04 PM
2	i need to escalate but can't figure out how. Wow, really? I find the hand hold to be harder than a kiss lmao. But seriously OP, just touching a girl in natural conversation goes a long way. I would also recommend pulling into and out of her space a little. Sometimes during a conversation I'll lean in while laughing and touch her arm/shoulder, and then back off again. By the time I've done this 2-3 times it's pretty freaking clear whether she appreciates me in her space or not, and if she doesnt I certainly wont try to kiss her/hold her han…	/r/seduction	08/01/22 03:55 PM
4	If you get dumped and stay friends with your ex after the breakup, this is what will happen. Im not actually a big fan of these labels and nomenclatures but frankly abundance mentality helps a lot here. I've made some good friends out of hookups and dates that went no where. Actual, good friends. Im not saying you need to be friends with every failed relationship, but it's worth considering, especially for the less serious relationships (one date/meetup)	/r/seduction	07/01/22 10:17 PM
0	[deleted by user] Uh huh….	/r/seduction	03/01/22 06:35 PM
0	[deleted by user] You’re just not a likable person, are you?	/r/seduction	03/01/22 05:25 PM
0	[deleted by user] Jesus man. Just okay. Instead of easing up you double down, have fun with that.	/r/seduction	03/01/22 12:54 AM
–	[deleted by user] Look how invested you are in this from the angle of it being an argument. I genuinely think you're approaching casual communication too seriously. Shes telling you that she A.) Isn't like that, and B.) doesnt know any other women like that. None of this is bad reasoning. Frankly, even as a dude I really haven't seen it either. You go out of your way to overanalyze and even call it bad reasoning but then say "The behavior is not rare at all" LOL. Okay, do you have data for that? Idk man, just tak…	/r/seduction	02/01/22 02:53 AM
–	[deleted by user] In my experience, even if you're waiting to have sex you can still talk about it. I wouldnt go as far as to PLAN the sex, mind you, but you can talk about the topic. Up to each person to suss out how to get onto that track, but going sexual doesnt have to be physical.	/r/seduction	01/01/22 09:06 PM
–	[deleted by user] Yall realize the overall spirit of her message is unchanged even if you manage to pick the wording apart as if this were an actual debate and not a casual discussion?	/r/seduction	01/01/22 08:58 PM
–	Struggling with girls in college For a second I thought he might be underweight and I could see how itd be difficult if he's struggled with it for awhile, but then he stated he's actually 9kg overweight. Unless theres some medical limitations I'm not seeing the issue for this dudes physique honestly.	/r/seduction	24/11/21 02:12 PM
1	Struggling with girls in college Yeah if you take the advice to extremes then of course. He also can't spawn a pizza by flicking his fingers. But the idea that he can't reach a high level of fitness is purely a self-limiting one he's imposing on himself.	/r/seduction	24/11/21 02:09 PM
1	Struggling with girls in college Yes.	/r/seduction	24/11/21 02:08 PM
21	Struggling with girls in college LMAO "remember the way she looked at the funeral bro? 10/10 feel bad for anyone who missed it, sheeesh"	/r/seduction	24/11/21 02:03 PM
59	Rule: if you have to guess whether she's into you, she's not. Thats next fucking level man, LMAO. Theres been a few "wish i had made a move" regrets but never while they were naked and cuddling hahaha holy shit.	/r/seduction	22/08/21 07:45 PM
4	"Go out to have fun, not to pick up girls" works. Went to bar solo, talked to another dude doing the same, we got approached, got 2 numbers. Last week, bartender gave me her number. idk man this works for a variety of reasons, i'm not handsome and i get approached at bars too. It's kinda the scene as well. How often do you go out? Do you dress well?	/r/seduction	21/08/21 05:04 PM
1	When a woman says she didn't feel a connection or a "spark", is that something that is purely a matter of natural chemistry, or is it a sign that there wasn't enough escalation. Basically this. I’ve had a girl tell me she thought she was ready for a relationship but decided she wasn’t while we were dating. I just literally asked if we could still hang out and go on dates as friends. She said yeah. Also as a bonus you don’t develop a bad reputation when you take it well and agree to be friends IMHO.	/r/seduction	06/07/21 02:10 AM
97	When a woman says she didn't feel a connection or a "spark", is that something that is purely a matter of natural chemistry, or is it a sign that there wasn't enough escalation. Just to add, I've had a few FWB situations stem out of "lets just be friends" so its not always that you're unattractive to them. Theres going to be lots of different reasons out there that a girl may not want a relationship with you and I personally think disparaging your self-image/self-worth when they haven't explicitly done so is bad head-space. Just my .02 ofc.	/r/seduction	05/07/21 05:33 AM
1	I finally approached her at the gym. Thats fair, and to be clear I'm not saying to harbor expectations that its just a maybe or 'not right now' -- absolutely move on, shes told you she's unavailable. I'm just referring to the assuming she's lying bit. That just doesnt sit right with me IMHO, but yknow thats my .02	/r/seduction	29/06/21 09:37 PM
10	I finally approached her at the gym. while you're not wrong, i think its bad headspace to even entertain the thought she's lying. If we're going to assume anything, it should be the best, and take what she said at face value. She really does have a boyfriend at that point, yknow? Otherwise solid advice imho	/r/seduction	29/06/21 01:43 AM
2	Reminder not to rely too much on dating advice from the opposite sex... Yeah I get complimented on my voice a lot, and so I regularly send voice messages. Besides, I personally think a phone call before a date goes a long way towards helping your date be successful. Having some rapport and a better idea of their personality is a win/win.	/r/seduction	20/06/21 10:19 PM
–	Always been scared to meet up with girls I didn’t know, said screw it, and had a great time today Fuck yeah brother! Would love to know more details about how you transitioned from Mario party but either way I’m happy for you :’)	/r/seduction	13/05/21 01:35 PM
–	Abundance mindset vs High standards Not OP but Imho I don’t actually think I’m all that attractive (probably a legit 5. Yknow. Average. maybe +- 1 or 2). Could be it’s the personality but can’t say for certain. Though I’ve dated a half dozen hotties and slept with twice that. I’d say the fear is normal, it definitely gets better if you’re actually dating them but I mean who wants to fuck up a good thing am I right? The fear never really goes away and if it does you’re probably taking her presence in your life for granted. The impo…	/r/seduction	01/05/21 08:27 AM
8	Don't be a fool. Don't be like me. +1 for abundance mentality, it's a powerful mindset. It's not a loss or something worth regret IMHO. Just another person in a wide sea of persons you could engage with at almost any time.	/r/seduction	23/04/21 03:37 AM
1	Men & Women (in general) are self-qualifying to me for some odd reason.. I think the average is 1-2lbs of lean muscle a month, double or triple for newbies in their first year. Definitely not all muscle	/r/seduction	07/04/21 04:36 PM