SpeakerScary Archive

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1	Venting about male mental health Personally I think your biggest problem here is that you're COMPARING yourself to others. This comparison thing makes you feel shitty about almost everything in your life, from your salary to living with your parents to your mental health. You're 24 y.o., you're supposed to have an entry level job at this age. Quite a big percentage of 24 y.o. still live with their parents. I would bet money that if you didn't constantly compare yourself with others, you'd feel much better about your own life. N…	/r/ExRedPill	03/07/23 08:23 AM
1	What advice would you give a 36-year old incel I gotcha, but my point remains the same. Are these problems innately part of you and can NEVER be fixed, or are they essentially skills that can be refined through practice and talking to more people? (Note: this is a rhetorical question) For example, just look at people who do public speaking. Those people who seem to effortlessly speak in front of a crowd of a few thousand don't have some God-given gift that no one else can get. It's honed through thousands and thousands of hours of practice, …	/r/ExRedPill	25/06/23 12:36 AM
1	One thing that worries me is the fact that these guys get a lot of views on YouTube or what I consider to be a lot of views. How very noble of you.....If you really wanted to make massive impact on a large group of people, then create your own anti-TRP YouTube channel and gain a massive following to reverse the effects. But other than that, I don't see how the average person, complaining on Reddit, is gonna change it much. The best you can do for yourself is not consume their content and hope that it's a fad that's gonna wash-out in 5 years.	/r/ExRedPill	24/06/23 10:35 PM
1	What advice would you give a 36-year old incel I'd repeat what @RedPillDetox said in an above post that a lot of problems can be solved by "trying harder." It's hard to fathom that if you're socializing with people AT LEAST half of the days of the week (i.e. 4 days), that your nervousness and anxiety doesn't decrease at all. But let's say you're right and your nervousness and anxiety doesn't go down. I'd recommend hiring a professional, either a dating coach or therapist who's able to see you in person to diagnose the problem. At least have …	/r/ExRedPill	24/06/23 10:30 PM
1	One thing that worries me is the fact that these guys get a lot of views on YouTube or what I consider to be a lot of views. Dude even if they were getting hundreds of millions of views, Why Does It Matter To You? What effect would it have on your life whatsoever? Unless you are trying to be an ex-TRP evangelist trying to mass convert everyone over, you need not have to worry about the amount of views they're getting. The only important thing is that you're not consuming the content as well, which obviously would have an effect on your life.	/r/ExRedPill	24/06/23 10:46 AM
1	What advice would you give a 36-year old incel Dating is a skill just like getting fit or learning fashion.it sounds like you did everything BUT learn social skills and the ability to connect with a woman. You said it yourself in that your still awkward and shy around women. Well the shortcut to this is to do cold approach and talk to thousands of women. But you're not approaching these women to get into a long-term relationship with them, but to essentially learn how to talk to them and develop the pre-requisite social skills you should've …	/r/ExRedPill	24/06/23 09:29 AM
1	10 Months of Successful Dating in New York City: A Summary and Analysis You might have to look into hobbies that have these sorts of girls in abundance, such as yoga, photography, working out, dancing, etc. It helps if you become really good at these things because then you have that perceived value already and they will seek you out. Other than developing these hobbies though, you just need to put yourself out there. Try cold approaching.	/r/seduction	07/04/22 04:44 PM
7	Here Is a Method To Practice Flirting Alone My word was "married". For some of them, I didn't use the exact word. I used a derivative of the word or even synonyms of it, which I think is fine because it's still on the same topic. Compliment: I'm surprised you're not married already Tease: I can see why you're not married... Push/Pull: If you play your cards right, we can get married some day Qualify: What makes you think you're marriage/wifey material? Misinterpret: Wait, you don't wanna talk about marriage? You're already thinking about …	/r/seduction	06/04/22 07:37 PM