SpeakingPegasus Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	How do the principles of seduction apply in more conservative countries. My suggestion would be to utilize the powers of social proof in this scenario. If there aren't opportunities to pick girls up at clubs, you're going to have to be "available" yourself. Find a hobby. As an Art student myself, I make a point to attend art gallery openings, parties, and whatnot. Its relevant to my career outlooks, and how I pick up Freelance work, but it is also a whole other level for pick-up game. The only real trick is finding that thing you're passionate about. I could talk abo…	/r/seduction	07/11/14 07:30 PM
5	It appears the majority of Reddit has a grossly misrepresented perception of the Seduction community... I wouldn't be so concerned about it, after all we only benefit from people who are on the same page as us. If someone makes a snap judgement based of their own predjucices they have nothing to offer us so why worry about it. There are guys in real life that will see you, doing your thing, and rationalize you as some misogynistic asshole, all the while lamenting at how their disingenuous "nice guy" persona has not parted the seas for them. Frankly in my own experience with this sub, primarily as …	/r/seduction	09/12/13 09:17 PM
3	Comprehensive guide to overcoming Approach Anxiety Personally this is a lot of re-hashed stuff everyone already knows. It's nice to see as always though. personally I like the five second rule. If a girl catches my eye for any reason. I have five seconds to get there and start talking. At first I was an awkward mess, but now it's a knee jerk response.	/r/seduction	05/12/13 05:30 PM
3	It's become obvious i'm an introvert. Looking for any tips or information you guys may use to 'recharge' Seriously just get away from the crowd, take five. Get away from people, the loudness of it, take a deep breath and just zone for a bit. It always helps me. If anyone even comes over and asks you what's up you can just say you had to take a call or something. Personally though, if a girl bothers to walk over and ask what's up, I'm straight up about it. I get extremely uncomfortable in large group situations. It's easier to get lost in a crowd, and focus on just people you know. But anything like…	/r/seduction	05/12/13 05:27 PM
4	Let's talk about being a wing-man. Generally when I wingman, I ask my buddy whom he wants to talk to and force his hand by walking in that person's general direction immediately. If we're dealing with a group, and he has singled one out, I address a different girl, and position myself so he can naturally stand next to me either across or next to his target. I also introduce my buddy first unless they take forever to get over to me. from there it really depends on the person, I have some more confident buddies that I just back up …	/r/seduction	05/11/13 10:39 PM
1	Prague is introducing "singles only" dating cars in the middle compartment of every subway train. How would you approach a girl here? I think in any situation where there would be a girl, in a place like this. The best approach is straight forward, you know why they are there, why mince words about. I would say you can make a joke about the scenario though, I imagine anyone that would find themselves in such a scenario feels odd about it, maybe embarrassed. acknowledging how people feel is a great way to make that connection. But I can't see this not being a sausage convention.	/r/seduction	31/10/13 11:25 PM
1	Ways to re-initiate conversation through text with someone you havent spoke to for a while Well like any good discussion, I think we need more to work with here. What was your past relationship? was it a fling, long time friends, did you date. Did she ever live in the same place as you? There are some varying degrees of risky texts that will stand out, but they rely on your past relationship. sometimes humor doesn't translate over text so well.	/r/seduction	27/10/13 11:33 PM
13	Why women lose the dating game I think this article shows something more telling, in today's society you really can't have it all. The reality is you have to make some hard choices, success or a family, that six figure job or a social life. It's a symptom of the "your special and awesome! the world is yours!" type mentality we project these days. While it is one thing to have good self-worth, and it is true you can achieve anything with time, dedication, and focus. Life is full of trade-offs. I think this is an integral aware…	/r/seduction	25/10/13 11:46 PM
3	How do you differentiate between not wanting to do something because it's out of your comfort zone or because you genuinely don't want to? I'd say anytime you're rationalizing, it's probably outside your comfort zone. We don't think about things we don't care about for more than a split second. Walk past a girl that doesn't even pique your interest a little? you'll probably dump her from your mind before you're done turning your head away. See something on television that looks stupid? click next channel. We make these snap judgements all the time, our brains cannot possibly process everything we experience, and a lot of it gets ch…	/r/seduction	19/10/13 01:12 AM
15	One sentence a girl told me that changed my whole perspective. If you are really struggling just remember to play the odds. The more woman you approach, the better your chances of success. Don't get hung up on just one, "the right one" or whatever. just do it.	/r/seduction	16/10/13 09:54 PM
1	Economics can help you get laid: Why you don't take risks. This is something I am trying to adapt into my life, not even just for my dating life. I think we tend to fear loss, and pain far more than we should. A girl saying no only hurts you if you let it. much like of lot of things. The most succesful people in the world have probably also failed hundreds of more times than you have. They simply have tried more times than you.	/r/seduction	12/09/13 01:27 AM
1	Trust me, it's not about looks or: Confessions of a good looking guy with no game There is never one perfect method to get the desire results either. In the Scenario I was reffering too, from personal experience I was merely stating that I had been flirty, and all that but apparently not clear in intention. I was really interested in her, but according to people around me, she thought I didn't like her that way I think physical escalation can work in terms of being direct, but I have also experienced that often times the way you get into a relationship tends to define it so i…	/r/seduction	11/09/13 09:18 PM
2	Trust me, it's not about looks or: Confessions of a good looking guy with no game Yeah I know it's probably appears to be "first world problems" type thing to complain about, but it is honestly frustrating as hell sometimes. I am not opposed to random flings at all, so it works for me in the bar pickup type scenario's, but my game isn't really stellar so it's not like I'm a pussy magnet. I am also more interested at this point in my life with a deeper commitment, you know an actual relationship. In that realm, I really don't see the hot hair stylist from the bar as girl frien…	/r/seduction	11/09/13 09:08 PM
3	Trust me, it's not about looks or: Confessions of a good looking guy with no game Honestly, I think the biggest thing I get stuck on is the "right moment" kind of mentality. Like they'll be some perfect moment, walking down a downtown street on a starry night, and I'll just "know" and bam, we're dating. That's some shit. Hate to break it to you. If I could go back, I'd wait for a decent one on one scenario, you know somewhere with some privacy, even if its just amongst people we don't know in some cafe. I'd have said something along the lines of. "I want to be more than frien…	/r/seduction	11/09/13 09:08 AM
7	Trust me, it's not about looks or: Confessions of a good looking guy with no game As someone who has turned a page in that respect, and learned that confidence comes from perspective I would love to help. It amazes how much of my life was controlled by my often negative outlook. If you walk around expecting to step in shit all the time, of course you're going to remember that one time you did and think "god I always seem to find the shit" even though 99.9% you walk around and never soil your shoe. fuck that. life is a self-fulfilling prophecy, so you decide. What's it gonna b…	/r/seduction	11/09/13 02:10 AM
16	Trust me, it's not about looks or: Confessions of a good looking guy with no game People make certain assumptions based on appearences, we all do it. I'm not a ladykiller in terms of looks, but I am tall, usually tan (I work outside) fit and dress pretty well. People are surprised to meet me, expecting someone confident, and realizing I am quite shy, guarded and a bit eccentric. I am also a huge nerd, which few people guess when they first meet me. It works for and against me, but in the realm of woman it has an odd effect. I tend to attract woman I'm not really interested in…	/r/seduction	11/09/13 02:07 AM
1	The Death of the Boyfriend Well it is certainly a sad thing that someone who actually wants kids can't because of money. That rubs me the wrong way. However, we don't live in a perfect world. Our biggest problem is that what someone does with their life does not happen in a vacuum. If some high school couple decides to skip college, sign up at Mcdonalds and spit out three kids, we (as in taxpayers) are gonna foot the bill when they fall short. be it food stamps, loan forbearance, and the like. I don't like the idea of liv…	/r/seduction	21/08/13 09:46 PM
1	The Death of the Boyfriend I can see where you coming from on this one, and perhaps I should clarify. Like every generation we push against societal norms, in the foot falls of those who came before. Some things won't go back to "the old ways" because much of our society was built on a social hierarchy that doesn't exist anymore. Furthermore, It's not even financially viable to settle down in some house in the burbs, with a spouse and 2.5 kids. Most people in my generation are working jobs that would never sustain that, e…	/r/seduction	21/08/13 09:42 PM
4	The Death of the Boyfriend That was my take on it to. After my mother finally relented years after their rather rocky divorce that they got married because "that's what you did when you were around our age" they had dated all of six months. Lived together for one. I don't even. Frankly I don't see myself getting married, or having kids. I know as a 22 year old male people hear that and probably think "he'll come around" maybe I will, but that's not the point. The worlds already overpopulated as it is, the US economy is no…	/r/seduction	20/08/13 11:12 PM
2	Approaching a "mean" or "cold" girl..it's like the whole interaction was a stream of shit tests. I would say keep a clear mindset going in. Make sure you ask yourself "what am I doing right now" and only hang around as long as you like the answer. If you forget that, you can very easily fall into a mess. But there is nothing wrong with spending time with someone who has issues, so long as you have firm, confidently laid boundaries, and strong enough sense of self to not be pulled in other direction aside from your own. don't make the mistake of thinking you can change her in any way, and ac…	/r/seduction	07/01/13 04:46 AM
1	What is the best way to deal with flaking behavior? Hard call, on the one hand she might have been throwing out the ol' litmus test with that canceled date scenario. I know you didn't push too hard from your perspective but maybe the attempt at sex the first night, on top of the non-chalant dismissal makes it appear that you only wanted sex to her. Either that or perhaps she wasn't thrilled with date one, and hit the eject button. or maybe it means nothing, and it's your move. Ultimately I think you have to figure that out. The only advice I can …	/r/seduction	19/12/12 06:17 PM
2	6 Harsh Truths that Will Make you a better person I like to think of it as putting the foot in the door. Looking sharp, being confident, and successful attracts people obviously, and if you just want a fling then you're all set. If your looking for something more meaningful, just push more. Once they're into you, talk about yourself, and be honest, share insecurities and all that once they're invested a bit. I think the reason a lot of relationships sour is because people never stop selling, you put on the game face for the rest of your relatio…	/r/seduction	18/12/12 04:10 PM
6	6 Harsh Truths that Will Make you a better person Learn to take joy in the process. The point so many so called "zen" or "buddhist" wanna-be-philosophers seem to miss. You don't just accept you lot in life, and actively deny anything is wrong, wear a smile and still work at Mcdonalds. No, you work towards a better tomorrow, not because a better job will make you happy inherently, but because getting there and going higher will. You tackle your responsibilities, you strive to fulfill your needs, to learn to grow. You still care about things, hav…	/r/seduction	18/12/12 03:54 PM
45	I've come to a realization about the "nice guy syndrome" I don't think being "alpha" or "beta" all the time is a good idea. There are situations that call for being assertive, strong, flirty, and there a situations were being empathic, and able to compromise are key. But rather than outline it, I challenge people to try and be confident enough to be honest about what they want. If you're going to a bar and you want a fling, say so. Tell a girl their attractive, that your into them. Don't be a creeper though, be calm about it. If you see a girl and wan…	/r/seduction	03/12/12 11:07 PM
47	A little something I use on female friends and ex's. Might work for you. People just attach it to their self worth which is fucking stupid Man every once an while you find a gem like this. One up vote is not enough for you sir.	/r/seduction	30/11/12 08:15 PM