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| 6 | How can I break up with my gf without feeling bad?Part of TRP is understanding women and people and respecting them as such, while recognizing how to respond to the different ways they act. If you don't get that, you're most likely in the rage phase | /r/askTRP | 06/11/20 04:52 AM |
| 5 | How can I break up with my gf without feeling bad?Not true. I became a high earner, lifted more and more, ex became fat and depressed. Women are people too, while you may be a motivating factor in their life, sometimes shit just hits the fan for them and there's nothing you can do | /r/askTRP | 06/11/20 04:42 AM |
| -2 | Date ideas after it gets dark at 5pm?The conversation is relatively innocent, I guess I can just be like "I'll pick you up and we'll go from there" but it seems creepy to me. My go to is drink at a bar or coffee and walk by the lake, then back to my place. Neither scenario works here | /r/askTRP | 06/11/20 04:22 AM |
| 7 | In an ltr and girlfriend wants to go to a barYou linked some weirdo with 4 rings on one hand trying to sell me a class on how to fuck women, hope that was a typo on your end. Have you never gone out with your friends? It's fucking fun. Either your SMV is high enough that your woman is in your frame and she will not cheat on you, or it's not and you need to focus on yourself. It's her game to lose. You're the prize, right? | /r/askTRP | 30/05/20 06:25 PM |
| 22 | In an ltr and girlfriend wants to go to a barThis reeks of insecurity. All of the commenters saying she doesn't respect you are right, but thats because your demands are ridiculous. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/20 02:50 PM |
| 13 | How old were you when banging different chicks became your ordinary life?Thinking about what kind of women are throwing themselves at a 500lb man makes me shudder. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/20 12:09 AM |
| 26 | What red flags have you ignored that came to bite you in the ass?You're part of the problem | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 12:55 AM |
| 3 | Should you avoid meeting new girls to fuck for the next weeks because of Corona?Before you kill somebody with your sheer stupidity, I suggest you go back to LARPing as a rich dude on the internet with your tacky quartz Movado watches and your $10 "online surveys" source of income | /r/askTRP | 20/03/20 09:45 PM |
| 9 | Should you avoid meeting new girls to fuck for the next weeks because of Corona?Some things are bigger and more important than your incessant need to stick your chode in a warm hole. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/20 09:29 PM |
| 12 | Should you avoid meeting new girls to fuck for the next weeks because of Corona?Curve might peak within the next 2-3 months before things start dying down, who knows. People go entire lives without fucking, you'll be fine. Don't jeopardize the lives of your family, others, or yourself because you want to be a selfish fuck and get a nut off. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/20 09:07 PM |
| 6 | OLTR ignoring my messages for almost 2 weeksOLTR? lol. While you're hamstering about her responding to your text she's out fucking other dudes. Any girl you LTR should be giving you your full attention and devotion. Downgrade this chick to a plate (or hard next for ignoring you, I would), go fuck your other plates. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Why is it so common now for hot white girls 18-25 saying they don’t won’t kids?Just because it's normal in certain countries doesn't mean it's okay. Bringing children into the world where their standard of living is dogshit shouldn't be commended. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/20 02:30 AM |
| 0 | Why is it so common now for hot white girls 18-25 saying they don’t won’t kids?By your logic I should go ahead and nut in as many girls unprotected as possible since otherwise I'd be twisted and unnatural for not thinking with my lizard brain | /r/askTRP | 10/02/20 08:07 PM |
| 16 | Why is it so common now for hot white girls 18-25 saying they don’t won’t kids?wtf? Having a kid is incredibly stressful, especially in 2020 where millennials are dirt broke. A chick under 25 wanting a kid is a pretty big red flag. If anything wanting kids early without a pro proper support system in place is a sign of a dumbass (goes for both males and females). | /r/askTRP | 10/02/20 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Oneitis over a random plate several months ago. How do I fix this?This actually makes a lot of sense. I find it so much easier to 'commit' to girls I get this inexplicable feeling from, but this scares me for some reason so I always end up pushing them further away. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/20 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Oneitis over a random plate several months ago. How do I fix this?I feel like it's important to mention this because the de facto advice to oneitis is usually "lol just fuck more girls", but in my case it really doesn't seem to be that cut and dry. I'm trying to highlight that these problems exist for me despite me trying my hardest to do things the right way | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Oneitis over a random plate several months ago. How do I fix this?Personally I'd prefer to plate/upgrade an intelligent career driven woman. They are a lot more fun to be around. The majority of girls I've fucked so far have been in college, and they are pretty boring/all the same. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Oneitis over a random plate several months ago. How do I fix this?Nah I do this regularly. If a girl is interested in me, I know as much because she'll make an effort to text/talk/meet up. If she isn't, I see no point in investing any energy in her. I was having fun with other plates during that time so I just decided to soft next - figured she would reach out if she was interested (turns out she did but I never got her texts). | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Oneitis over a random plate several months ago. How do I fix this?Appreciate the cleanup dude, sub can get messy sometimes | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Oneitis over a random plate several months ago. How do I fix this?Literally this. It's some weird combination of things that causes oneitis. The sex wasn't the best, her body isn't the best, her attitude was annoying, she was a slut off tinder, etc. I've fucked girls who have had better bodies, better personalities, better intelligence, but they don't cause oneitis. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Oneitis over a random plate several months ago. How do I fix this?I think it is also an issue of high SMV pussy being a lot more scarce. I don't think it was lucky that I bagged her, just that I rarely encounter the opportunity. How many women out there are high earners, tall, intelligent, etc? Maybe one out of every 100. I guess the strategy is to put myself in a position to surround myself with these types of women, but that's a whole different kind of question entirely. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 08:46 PM |
| 4 | Women not giving out # on tinder due to safety. What to do about it?Yeah this irks me. Most girls get it, a few are annoying to deal with. I think they genuinely don't understand the problem | /r/askTRP | 04/02/20 05:36 PM |
| 1 | How much truth is there when people on here say that if you get decent results on Tinder, you’ll get even better results approaching in real life?Any general advice on club game? I pull easily on tinder (fucked 25 girls over the last year on it) but haven't had any luck in clubs, I always feel out of place | /r/askTRP | 04/02/20 06:49 AM |
| 7 | Why does Reddit hate Brock Turner so aggressively?Dude, I don't want to moralize here, but what the fuck? This piece of shit was fucking a completely unconscious woman behind a dumpster, and proceeded to feel absolutely no ways about it when he got caught right afterwards. If you fail to see something monstrous about this behavior, I suggest getting your head checked. Alcohol isn't a justification for behaviour like this. I think everybody has their own motivations behind their outrage vomit, but at the end of the day I think it's a good thing … | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Where to meet quality women during college?There is a clear difference between women who let their pussy dictate how they live their life and other well raised women. I'm sorry you have a damaged view of women if you think good ones don't exist. "Hit the gym and quit being a pussy" lol who hurt you my guy | /r/askTRP | 30/10/19 07:05 AM |
| 1 | What is that 20% in the 80/20 alpha/beta rule?It's not really a great feeling when I'm in the middle of tying up and railing my third new random bitch of the week and I realize that I have no meaningful connection with any of these women, and that I'm incapable of forming one even if i wanted to. Fucking whores gets old. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/19 05:06 AM |
| 30 | Plate sent me this text about seeing someone else. Was soft nexting the right move?Too late for that lol and I was slightly worried about having to deal with her mess of emotions | /r/askTRP | 29/10/19 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Plate sent me this text about seeing someone else. Was soft nexting the right move?What would be the gameplan be? She seems pretty invested in this other guy (have him on her IG etc) and going back on my word just seems like I'm showing scarcity | /r/askTRP | 29/10/19 01:36 AM |
| 7 | Plate sent me this text about seeing someone else. Was soft nexting the right move?To be fair, I started catching feelings for this plate so I figured it would be easier if I just nexted her instead of playing games trying to keep her spinning and have fight her feelings. She said she was looking for a relationship from the start and I think I was too alpha (closer to 100% rather than the 80/20 rule) | /r/askTRP | 29/10/19 01:22 AM |
| 8 | Plate sent me this text about seeing someone else. Was soft nexting the right move?How can you tell? | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 11:04 PM |
| 1 | How to maintain plates without communicating for weeks at a time?Same, but when spinning 3-4 plates you have to prioritize sometimes | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 10:02 PM |
| 2 | How to maintain plates without communicating for weeks at a time?Just wondering because I haven't tried this before. Does this actually work? I've always been under the impression that you always have to do some level of "dance monkey dance" display of SMV to keep yourself at the top of a woman's mind. If I simply go ghost for weeks at a time and hit her up, is she still apt to respond? | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 09:52 PM |
| 2 | How to maintain plates without communicating for weeks at a time?This is what I am thinking too. This plate in particular is gaga over me because of the sex. My only question is if they haven't texted me in three weeks, that tells me she might have low interest. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 09:50 PM |
| 1 | How to start using condom with a plate without offending her?Basically don't want to scare the plate away basically. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 06:05 AM |
| 3 | Favourite plate gained weight. Lost cause or can I fix this?Yeah lmao let's be real I'm not putting in this much effort for anybody except myself | /r/askTRP | 17/10/19 02:20 PM |
| -2 | Favourite plate gained weight. Lost cause or can I fix this?I actually did this with my ex-LTR since this also happened to her. It just gave her really bad self image issues and body dysmorphia, which I feel bad about in retrospect. That's why I'm wondering if theres a better way. Perhaps ripping off the bandage is the only way? | /r/askTRP | 17/10/19 04:49 AM |
| 0 | Favourite plate gained weight. Lost cause or can I fix this?My question is what is a RP way of saying "hey, you need to watch your diet because its affecting my attraction to you"? I feel like if I would outright said they she would feel like shit and drop me | /r/askTRP | 17/10/19 04:32 AM |
| 3 | Plate wants to be invited to my birthday party. What to do?In college it's pretty easy to make time to fuck that much. The party is mostly my friends but most of them are bringing +1s and others I don't know. I was thinking of telling her to bring her friends, yeah. Would probably indicate high value and I know at least a couple of them want to fuck me anyways. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 04:22 PM |
| 3 | Plate wants to be invited to my birthday party. What to do?Nah I have two other plates. One I see once or twice a week (usually on the same day as my other plate), the other I have on the back burner. I let her stay the night occasionally if it's a weekend and I plan on having a fuckfest the next morning. I usually fuck a new chick every couple of weeks off tinder as well. I do give her the most attention out of all my plates (not saying much) because she keeps up with my sex drive. I don't really have a scarcity mentality. I just make good use of my 16… | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 04:18 PM |
| 1 | How to fight oneitis for a plate?Sure, except she always says yes. So not really what's up with that. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 06:40 AM |
| 1 | How to fight oneitis for a plate?Yeah I already get this and wrote as much. She's not somebody I should reward my time with. My question is how do I stop these feelings? | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 06:25 AM |
| 10 | Should I kill the side of me that wants an emotional LTR?Tinder, sex addiction, a lot of weightlifting, and even more time wasted | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Should I kill the side of me that wants an emotional LTR?The way I see it, the only way I should enter an LTR is if the girl approached me about it and I liked her enough to do so. My emotional unavailability scares girls away from ever wanting this. That's why I'm a little stuck and not sure how to work on this. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 06:57 AM |
| 4 | Should I kill the side of me that wants an emotional LTR?It was very poor when I was a teenager. Its stronger than it was before. We are on speaking terms and I have a lot of respect for her rationally for how she raised. We talk maybe once every few weeks. Why? | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 06:54 AM |
| 1 | First date with an au pair chick, had her pinned under me on my bed but no f close. Could I have done anything better?I did keep escalating, and she kept pushing me away. When girls give me a hard verbal no, I always pull back. Not trying to get metoo'd out here. I didn't do much chasing here, I literally had my hands behind my back while she was kissing me and touching me. She was soaked through her jeans so I'm pretty sure she was beyond horny, but just held back because of ASD. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 09:03 AM |
| 1 | Caught oneitis hard for this high value plate so I hard nexted her. Did I make the right move?I know it will happen, I just need to figure out how to kill the beta that gets butthurt over it | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Caught oneitis hard for this high value plate so I hard nexted her. Did I make the right move?Is it because I don't play into that frame? Or because I'm not that more attractive and muscular dude? Also just feels like I'm getting sloppy seconds by fucking this chick. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Caught oneitis hard for this high value plate so I hard nexted her. Did I make the right move?I dunno, dude, it's all relative since theres always somebody better. Fucked 20 girls in 6 months, 150 matches on tinder in three weeks, you tell me | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Caught oneitis hard for this high value plate so I hard nexted her. Did I make the right move?I know this is insecurity. The part about feelings isn't true though. I work a six figure job, lift everyday, have hobbies, and have other plates. Still caught feelings. I think because I've had a really long string of uninteresting college plates, so plating her was out of the ordinary. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Caught oneitis hard for this high value plate so I hard nexted her. Did I make the right move?I don't get it, isn't it beta to settle for hanging out with this girl who's just going around fucking a bunch of dudes, and to just be happy I'm getting a piece of the pie? I am used to being the alpha for all of my plates, but that's clearly not the case here, which is why my frame is feeling shattered. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Caught oneitis hard for this high value plate so I hard nexted her. Did I make the right move?Yeah the main thing is I want to learn from this. I know hard nexting is growth, because it's something I would never imagine doing a year ago. But I'm afraid of this happening again. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Caught oneitis hard for this high value plate so I hard nexted her. Did I make the right move?I mean ideally this shouldn't affect my frame, but the fact that she's dating around makes me feel like I just got punched in the gut. I think it's because of insecurities that stem from my BP ex, I caught her hanging out with guys behind my back. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Did I plate this girl or did she plate me? Need advice on how to deal with this chickI really enjoy having girls being super into me. Like, the rest of my plates are constantly hitting me up, always wanting to hang out, etc. I know I'm their alpha because they can't stop showing or telling me as much. But they're no fun outside of sex. This girl, I actually enjoy her company, but it's the complete opposite, where I am basically her side thing or something. I guess the solution is to keep looking until I find both?, | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Did I plate this girl or did she plate me? Need advice on how to deal with this chickYeah, I can't lie, this has my hamster spinning pretty hard. She is exactly the kind of chick I would LTR because she's high value, but rationally I won't for a variety of reasons (met off tinder, obviously promiscuous, fucked on the first date, etc) | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 07:00 AM |
| -1 | I think I'm the side guy of one of my plates. Should I hard next?I'm pretty covert about having plates. Should I start leaving condom wrappers around or something? | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 07:35 AM |
| 1 | I think I'm the side guy of one of my plates. Should I hard next?If a bunch of dudes are smashing, does it really matter if I still smashed? | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 07:20 AM |
| 1 | I think I'm the side guy of one of my plates. Should I hard next?How? I've fucked like 20 girls in the last six months, raised my SMV an insane amount, have a mission I focus on, etc. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 07:09 AM |
| 0 | I think I'm the side guy of one of my plates. Should I hard next?This isn't very helpful. Cool, what you said might be the case. What's the best course of action to fix this type of jealousy and what should I do with the plate? | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 07:06 AM |
| 0 | I think I'm the side guy of one of my plates. Should I hard next?I think this made me realize I've always been the jealous type. That's why it bothers me. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 07:00 AM |
| 1 | My favourite plates are the worst kind of women. How do I fix this?I'm not really sure. I'm six months out from a 4 year long relationship and discovering TRP so I'm okay with spinning plates now. But I think I do want something like a fwb situation. I just can't see myself upgrading a plate to fwb knowing she's fucking other dudes, since I think that would inherently make me a big beta. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 06:43 AM |
| 8 | LTR and girls holiday to party islandThis is a really important question. How the fuck do you determine if your woman is quality enough to not do something like this? I am biased because I'm insecure due to my BP ex doing hoe shit while she was away from me. Are there really women with such impenetrable morals that given they are far away from their man with nobody to question their actions, and a high enough SMV man comes along, they will not do as much as bat an eye at him? My gut says absolutely not, since AWALT. I know that if … | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Fucked my 20th chick today and I feel like my general relationship with women is very damaging. Help?I really want to give her a chance. The issue is that I plated her six months ago when she was fit, moved away for a bit, and now she's put on weight. I broke up with my ex because she gained insane weight and refused to lose it, so this is a big red flag for me. Pretty unfortunate | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Plated this type-A girl who never initiates, but is all over me when we meet. What gives?I've noticed this has happened with one or two other chicks who are higher on the SMV scale in the past as well. I guess the only solution to this is to keep raising my SMV (although outside of lifting, I am not sure how I'd be able to make a girl like this totally submit). | /r/askTRP | 01/10/19 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Fucked my 20th chick today and I feel like my general relationship with women is very damaging. Help?Yeah this sounds ideal to me. A bisexual partner and an open relationship. Most of my plates assume I'm fucking other women anyways. But I'm not sure if this is something I can keep running long term and be happy. Guess I'll have to be in that position to see if I'm comfortable with it. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/19 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Fucked my 20th chick today and I feel like my general relationship with women is very damaging. Help?If we're being real, 5'9 without shoes. I tell shorter girls I'm 6' or taller (they usually guess 6 feet or taller anyways) | /r/askTRP | 30/09/19 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Fucked my 20th chick today and I feel like my general relationship with women is very damaging. Help?I read everything there before I even started. I'm not sure if this is the rage phase. I accept this is the way things are and fundamentally realize women are important in our lives, and that TRP is a toolbox to master relationship dynamics with women properly. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/19 05:56 AM |
| 10 | Fucked my 20th chick today and I feel like my general relationship with women is very damaging. Help?I work full time, spend 8-16 hours on my hobbies every weekend, hit the gym for two hours everyday after work. It seems like my productivity is fine. I think the bigger issue is that I have an insanely high sex drive, where I'm horny all the time. This is why I have no problem fucking women everyday. I went through a period of three weeks without sex and I was jerking it 3-5 times a day during that period. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/19 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to get a plate to lose weight?I have plates. That's not the issue. A really good plate (I can break this down if its necessary) is significantly tougher. Like I said, only one girl out of the 25 women I've fucked/plated since February has stood out as worthy. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to get a plate to lose weight?I know this is really shaky territory which is why I'm confused. One of the reasons why I dumped my ex while I was BP was because she went from varsity athlete to obese over 4 years, and nothing I tried (basically all the things you mentioned, subtle hints, cooking, healthy dates) made any difference. At this point I'm close to chalking it up as a lost cause, which is unfortunate. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 07:02 PM |
| 3 | What do you talk about with women you meet at a bar?Can you elaborate on what makes a good delivery in this case? | /r/askTRP | 03/09/19 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Field report: Tried gaming a chick for the very first time in my life at a bar (in Japan) and failed - where did I go wrong?I appreciate the advice, but I don't know what you mean by me being not having the balls to be direct. I straight up went for a k close. I also only went cold after I escalated with touches and she responded positively. I touched her, she would move closer, and dance with me. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Field report: Tried gaming a chick for the very first time in my life at a bar (in Japan) and failed - where did I go wrong?Very honest question: does this work for you? If so, I'll try it. I see guys try this in clubs and it makes me cringe (i.e. the midget who was landing the girl's number at the club was straight up jawing me and ready to throw a punch). I employ a 'push and pull' dread strategy with my plates who I bag off tinder, which tends to work very well. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Field report: Tried gaming a chick for the very first time in my life at a bar (in Japan) and failed - where did I go wrong?Tell me about it. I have 3 lays lined up for the next week through Tinder, one I've already f closed. IRL game is very important but the contrast between my success rates make me question why I even bother. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Field report: Tried gaming a chick for the very first time in my life at a bar (in Japan) and failed - where did I go wrong?I've read the sidebar several times. I guess the only mistake is that I didn't try to isolate, since I was feeling the party more than I was feeling her. In retrospect, I had many opportunities to do so. Even so, it seems like common advice to game a girl at a party is to 'polarize' and see if she gravitates towards you at any point, which is what I attempted to accomplish. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Having girls in different cities when travelling?I was in a different city for a few months. I plated a few girls, made sure to add them on social media, and then eventually left. All of the plates in that city (4 of them) have already messaged me out of the blue asking me when I'll back. Same thing for the current city I'm in right now: have 3 plates I'm about to leave behind and they're already itching for me to come back. The only two keys I think of that are making this happen here are (1) demonstrating overall high value and (2) really,… | /r/askTRP | 11/08/19 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Those in LTRs, how do you stick to one girl?I have the same issue. I'm addicted to spinning plates. I've met some genuinely nice girls I could pursue an LTR with, but I enjoy the variety and lack of commitment too much. Its only been 6 months outside of an LTR for me, so it might be a function of time. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/19 11:12 PM |
| 4 | Plates break quickly if I ignore them; they find higher-SMV men who will spend money on them. I'm not even salty about it, but how do you think I can reduce the turnover? Any experiences or thoughts?What are some relatively low effort techniques to provide this comfort? I don't buy plates anything out of principle, and tend to be 100% alpha with them. So far it's worked, but I've sensed a couple of plates slipping since I don't provide any comfort. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/19 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Is this potentially sex addiction? Spending several hours a week on sexI'm talking straight up fucking this girl from 6pm to 11pm with little breaks, another fuck/BJ sesh at 2am before bed, then waking up at 11, fucking again, and fucking her at 8pm that day. Repeat this cycle at least twice a week, for an entire month. That's almost a full day spent fucking every week. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/19 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Is this potentially sex addiction? Spending several hours a week on sexIt feels like more of a vice than a hobby, primarily because there's no progression when it comes to sex. In contrast, all of my hobbies involve progress and achievement. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Is this potentially sex addiction? Spending several hours a week on sex23 | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 06:20 PM |
| 5 | Somehow had sex with 20 girls in the last 6 months but feeling weak mentallyWhy is this unfathomable? I don't see the appeal in fucking unattractive women. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/19 03:40 AM |
| 8 | Somehow had sex with 20 girls in the last 6 months but feeling weak mentallyThis might be it, I've been firing on all cylinders for a little while now. Vacation is coming up so it'll be a good way to step back. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 11:50 PM |
| 3 | Somehow had sex with 20 girls in the last 6 months but feeling weak mentallyI don't shoot below 7. But yeah the average is probably between 7 and 8, only a handful of 8+s. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 11:38 PM |
| 18 | Somehow had sex with 20 girls in the last 6 months but feeling weak mentallyYeah at some point I just burned out a few weeks ago and started maintaining the plates I have now. None of them valuable enough outside of sex, so I feel the need to go hunt for more, putting me back at square one. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 10:17 PM |
| 8 | Girl wants to take a break from sex for a weekendQuestion: should he even say this? It seems like a form of negotiating desire. At the same time, setting explicit boundaries like this might be a good thing as well. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/19 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Plate says she wants to hang out but doesn't want to fuck. What do?See my other comment. I've fucked her twice and she's high interest so I don't know why her hamster is like this now I've already fucked her twice. After the first time she kept texting me how she was thinking about my dick. A couple of days ago she was texting me about how she wants me to tie her up. That's why I'm confused af | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Plate says she wants to hang out but doesn't want to fuck. What do?I've already fucked her twice. After the first time she kept texting me how she was thinking about my dick. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Plate says she wants to hang out but doesn't want to fuck. What do?Yeah I'm not trying to convince her of anything. What should I tell her instead? I'm already taking her on a hike in a few days for fun. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 04:23 AM |
| 8 | Anybody else demote plates who hate cum?This is actually a good point and something I'm struggling with. I don't want to write off women because of little things like this, but I find myself being way more attracted to plates who swallow and are sexually open in general. It seems like I'm subconsciously putting sexual performance at the top of my checklist, and I'm not sure if that's a good or bad thing. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Anybody else demote plates who hate cum?Yeah I think 90% of all the girls I've fucked have swallowed, but the few who don't definitely leave a bad taste in my mouth (no pun intended). | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 07:39 PM |
| 12 | Anybody else demote plates who hate cum?Yeah I've realized my favourite plates are like this - down for pretty much anything. Coincidentally they also have the most fun personalities. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 07:07 PM |
| 6 | Anybody else demote plates who hate cum?100%, I've had girls I'm not that into fall into my lap and I'm never into the way they smell and taste, unlike plates I'm really attracted to. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 05:14 PM |
| 18 | Anybody else demote plates who hate cum?Not sure why they would want to keep initiating contact and seeing me in that case. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 03:00 PM |
| 2 | Fucking a chick for consecutive days? Yes/no?This is what my intuition is telling me as well, but it also feels a little bit like cutting off my nose to spite my face. Guess it's about finding a balance | /r/askTRP | 11/07/19 09:21 PM |
| 1 | When is it okay to give validation to plates?Yeah I get this. My question is how to gauge when I should add that 15% nice guy. I know if I take the easy route and ignore my new plate's asks to spend time, they'll turn look for affection elsewhere and just use me for my dick like all my other plates. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/19 05:24 AM |
| 1 | How do I convey that I have options/dread with plates?I feel pretty out of my element/beta trying to hook girls through social media. There also doesn't seem to be much red pill material on it - the go to advice is usually to delete it, which I tend to agree with. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Sent a girl who invited me to sleep over at her hotel a sexual text, she cancelled. Triggered ASD?I didn't try a second time. I texted her 'come over when you're free' after the second date. What happened is that she sent every text afterwards, including the one inviting me to her hotel. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Sent a girl who invited me to sleep over at her hotel a sexual text, she cancelled. Triggered ASD?Nah I think this is bull. For more context, she was very high interest in me during the dates, kept telling me how different I am from most guys. For the second date at my place she wore matching pair of some expensive lingerie, so she was definitely looking to hook up. When I kept making her cum, she also dropped that no guy's done that to her and that she's only had sex with her ex. I'm chalking it up to her being some sort of crazy slut who was still stringing her ex along/cheating on him wit… | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Sent a girl who invited me to sleep over at her hotel a sexual text, she cancelled. Triggered ASD?How the hell have I been played? I put no time or money into this chick and don't really give a shit about her. I don't want to salvage anything either since she's a waste of time and I'm busy plating other chicks. Just trying to understand what happened here. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Aesthetics question: compromising face shape for muscle? When to cut?Yeah my goal is to hit 225lb bench for reps and then cut. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 12:48 AM |
| 5 | How do you maintain a LTR without oneitis?I think this is a garbage take. Women are still human beings, and as with all human beings, the right relationships and associations can be valuable. Relationships with them require a different line of thinking, which is where TRP comes into play. I feel like if you let a woman damage your worldview like this, that's a detriment that can be attributed to your inability to have abundance and lead. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 02:01 PM |
| 8 | How do you maintain a LTR without oneitis?Yeah, at some point I got addicted to spinning plates and I can see it starting to damage my view on relationships and women. I've scaled back since, and now need to evaluate what's best for me moving forward. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 05:23 AM |
| 1 | How do you maintain a LTR without oneitis?Right, and when you find one that ticks all the boxes, how do you stop oneitis? Considering I'll probably have to go through potentially dozens of more women, doesn't that make her 'the one'? | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 12:44 AM |
| 6 | How do you maintain a LTR without oneitis?This is what I do. Literally 90% of women fail my vetting process sooner or later, which brings me back to square one. I had one plate with no red flags I eventually included more and more in my life, but I wasn't physically attracted to her enough to give up sex with my hotter plates (i.e. she failed to check all my boxes), so back to square one. It just seems like a gruelling process. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Hotter girls seem to delegate me as side dick. How do I fix this?I don't chase these girls. I treat them the same as my other plates, employ the same amount of dread, never communicate unless it's for logistics. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/19 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Update to girl who blue balled me on second date - soft nexted her and now she's offering a hotel room. How should I approach?Yeah it's my hometown so I have lots of shit I'll be doing anyways. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Is a girl being very open about her sexuality after you've fucked her a red flag?Potential LTR. I'm just spinning as many plates as I can right now so that when I actually want an LTR, I can identify all potential red and green flags to promote appropriately. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 06:12 AM |
| 3 | Is a girl being very open about her sexuality after you've fucked her a red flag?Every girl is a plate until I can appropriately vet and promote (if I ever even want to). | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Girl who blue balled me before texts me that she wants to see me, then never schedules. What gives?Soft next also involves ignoring, no? Should I text something back? Trying to figure out if theres a way to make this hamster spin | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Girl who blue balled me before texts me that she wants to see me, then never schedules. What gives?Yeah I have several plates so no big deal, but these girls are still a great waste of space. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Feeling very empty and missionless - is there a fix? Therapy?This is a good perspective, thanks. I've been contemplating philanthropy, so I think I'll start exploring it. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Feeling very empty and missionless - is there a fix? Therapy?This is an interesting question, and at first I couldn't think of anything. But what comes to mind would be not exposing myself to enough of the world/different cultures (travel, essentially). However, with goals comes realism, and I already travel for 2-4 trips per year (up to 1/10 of the year). For me, travelling any more frequently would be possible only if I change my entire life to make it happen (e.g. change careers entirely, or become nomadic), which would cause other areas of my life to … | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Feeling very empty and missionless - is there a fix? Therapy?This is exactly what I did a few years ago. I've set up my life in a way where I'm well on my way to reach my goals, so I'm essentially on autopilot now. I agree, I was always motivated by fear the most (fear of poverty, fear of loneliness, etc) but now there's no fear, and so there's no drive. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Some girls like being dominated/have little barriers during sex, others do. Does that have to do with my frame, or is it on them?Yes | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Some girls like being dominated/have little barriers during sex, others do. Does that have to do with my frame, or is it on them?Yeah I find myself not being very sexually satisfied unless I can totally dominate a girl, so the less enthusiastic plates don't take priority. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Some girls like being dominated/have little barriers during sex, others do. Does that have to do with my frame, or is it on them?I've spent $0 on all of my plates. I pay for my own shit on first dates, all other times are involving them in experiences I was going to partake in anyways (cooking, Netflix, hiking etc) The time thing can get overwhelming, I try to limit myself to plates 3-4 nights/week but it can get addicting. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 04:53 PM |
| 3 | 20 year old girl blue balls the fuck out of me on second date, what's my next course of action?She was hot and enthusiastic when she was into it which is why I'm not hard nexting, but still not worth any chase | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 05:31 AM |
| 3 | 20 year old girl blue balls the fuck out of me on second date, what's my next course of action?I'm sure that's what she's telling herself. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 02:59 AM |
| 1 | 20 year old girl blue balls the fuck out of me on second date, what's my next course of action?What's weird is that I did fuck her. She just told me to stop before I could get any strokes in. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 12:05 AM |
| 1 | 20 year old girl blue balls the fuck out of me on second date, what's my next course of action?I know she wants me bad, she was hamstering hard and started comparing me to how much better I am at everything compared to her exes. Just some weird ass form of ASD. She's leaving town in less than a week so she knows time is ticking. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 09:26 PM |
| 1 | 20 year old girl blue balls the fuck out of me on second date, what's my next course of action?Of course, her goal was to not 'give it all the way' and make me 'frustrated', and I'm not sure how any guy wouldn't be frustrated given the situation. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 09:21 PM |
| 4 | 20 year old girl blue balls the fuck out of me on second date, what's my next course of action?I can be frustrated and still have plates, it's not mutually exclusive. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 09:17 PM |
| 2 | 20 year old girl blue balls the fuck out of me on second date, what's my next course of action?My logic is that it's not worth my effort chasing. I have 5 other plates right now and all of them I've fucked by the second date. This sort of fickle pull-push when my dick is literally in her seems too childish to be worth the effort. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 08:51 PM |
| 8 | 20 year old girl blue balls the fuck out of me on second date, what's my next course of action?Yeah I'm definitely not contacting her again. If she reaches out, the only thing I'm doing is telling her to come over. I also did technically fuck her, so who knows how high her body count is lmao | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Cooking for a PLATE over at your houseWhy are you doing any of this with plates? Dick game and frame should be enough. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Should I uninstall tinder? Addicted to pussyI would consider myself an honest 7. I'm also not white which puts me at a big disadvantage, statistically speaking. My size + being well groomed and dressed + hobbies is what catches most girls' eyes | /r/askTRP | 16/06/19 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Should I uninstall tinder? Addicted to pussyI might write something up about this but tldr my pictures are of me engaging in hobbies while I look 'alpha' (beard, muscles, posture). I'm short and to the point about getting phone numbers and meeting up, which girls have explicitly told me they liked, and I maintain frame and escalate quickly in person (girls are very used to guys who fuck around and pussyfoot). I'm far from perfect but knowing (1) a girl finds you attractive and (2) she wants to meet and isn't just fishing for validation, m… | /r/askTRP | 16/06/19 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Should I uninstall tinder? Addicted to pussyI want intimacy and want to keep banging several different hoes in a non self destructive manner. Unsure of how to accomplish that given my current situation | /r/askTRP | 16/06/19 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Worst first date in a long time - girl completely broke my frame. Where did I go wrong?Yeah I was getting kind of irked by all the random unusual shit about her. I definitely called her out playfully at some point (like calling her taste in dogs basic), and it just made her annoyed. She was hot enough and the conversation was good enough to make me stay. I feel like the fact that I was all sexed out doesnt help. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Worst first date in a long time - girl completely broke my frame. Where did I go wrong?STEM | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Worst first date in a long time - girl completely broke my frame. Where did I go wrong?I'm not really sure if her intelligence intimidated me, it just caught me by surprise. I still treated the date as business as usual. I honestly can't pinpoint anything I did differently than the 95% of successful first dates I've had. I agree the asking for a kiss was a bitch move, I've never done that before which is why I'm shook. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Worst first date in a long time - girl completely broke my frame. Where did I go wrong?She was actually laughing a lot. Near the end she unexpectedly dropped that line on me. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Interested in the rp psychology behind really rough sex. Is it a red flag?You're telling me every girl out there likes getting belts to the face while they're handcuffed with their panties shoved in their mouths? I find that very hard to believe. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Willfully choosing not to have sex on the first date - yes or no?So I should intentionally cut first dates short and build anticipation for a second date? On average my first dates are about 2-3 hours including f close, so not much time investment, but these last two dates have gotten me to rethink what I'm doing. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Escalation tip?You're vetting her before you've even fucked her? For all you know, you're balls deep in the friendzone right now. You tried to hold her hand before you've even kissed her? You need to stop being a pussy and escalate/lead appropriately. If any of my first dates end without a kiss, it's a hard next from me. I swear a lot of this sub is just the blind leading the blind. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/19 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Random girl I knew in the third grade hits me asking to catch up 15 years later. She might be religious. How do I game?Lmao she'd probably be down. I get the feeling she's down for something, because I'm not sure why she'd hit up a random dude. That's why I want to escalate and find out. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Ex LTR I broke up with and went cold turkey no contact liked all of my Instagram pictures at 3am - is this an opportunity to fuck her?I've read that plating exes isn't exactly against trp law. It's true that she was probably drunk. I pretty much entirely forgot about her until I woke up to her name on my phone (was fucking another girl that night in fact). | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 02:21 AM |
| 1 | I hate this game where everybody sees other people and hides it from one anotherThis is partly why it's so tiring. My standards are higher than ever, and although I'm new to this, I know even the best of my plates isn't good enough for an LTR. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 06:16 AM |
| 1 | I hate this game where everybody sees other people and hides it from one anotherI think my point is that as a naive 18 year old, spinning plates is something that never even crossed my mind, my mentality was very much "find a girl and pursue her". Years later, I've wised up and realized that's a pretty stupid line of thinking, but this alternative of gaming n number of women until infinity isn't exactly satisfying either. Also don't realize why 5 plates is a big deal. It seems like every guy is fucking 10 girls a week here. 5 plates over the course of a couple of months isn… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 03:06 AM |
| 1 | I hate this game where everybody sees other people and hides it from one anotherI'm not really afraid of people leaving me, I'm a solitary person and know my worth. I think part of it has to do with the fact that a deep emotional connection is something I enjoyed with my ex, so I long for that, and maybe I'll grow out of it. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 05:35 PM |
| 1 | How to stop irrational attraction to the best looking/hottest plate?I'm pretty in tune with what my plates like and normally sex lasts for less than an hour, but there are lots of kinks involved with this one. Even after sex she still couldn't keep her body off me. Like I said, sex is very out of the ordinary with this one | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 06:16 PM |
| 1 | How to stop irrational attraction to the best looking/hottest plate?Early 20s, I work around 40 hours/week in STEM, spend 2-3 hours at the gym Mon-Fri, have dates lined up from apps after work and/or girls I've met through hobbies on weekends. Not that tough | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 05:25 PM |
| 5 | How to stop irrational attraction to the best looking/hottest plate?So I slept on it after seeing her and feel a lot more at peace with it. I'm going to follow these steps as I keep gaming. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 05:07 PM |
| 1 | How to stop irrational attraction to the best looking/hottest plate?I think part of the issue is that the sex is insanely good. We're into the same niche kinks and shit just flows so well. I've fucked 11 girls in the last month and none of them come even close to this one. So just to be clear, if I see oneitis developing with a plate for whatever, the answer is to just next and save myself the trouble? | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 08:56 AM |
| 6 | How to stop irrational attraction to the best looking/hottest plate?I'm nexting anyways since I'm leaving so it's not a huge deal. Just my first encounter with a problem plate, trying to learn how to handle it so I can game better in the future. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 08:40 AM |
| 1 | How to stop irrational attraction to the best looking/hottest plate?I fucked her for three hours straight, made her cum at least 6 times, made her too sore to walk, and put her to sleep. I give up if she has something better lol | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 07:55 AM |
| 1 | How to stop irrational attraction to the best looking/hottest plate?That's the thing, rationally she isnt higher value than me or any of my other plates. I think the abundance mentality definitely makes it worse. What also drives me nuts is that no matter how much good dick I give her and how enthusiastic she is in person, as soon as she goes home, she pretty much goes ghost, which makes 0 sense to me, since all my other plates are really clingy after I fuck them, and redpill logic states good dick is an easy way to hook chicks. I told her I was leaving town in … | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 07:19 AM |
| 1 | How to stop irrational attraction to the best looking/hottest plate?This is what I initially thought as well, but these feelings have been there from the start, where she was the one showing super high interest which slowly tapered off. Maybe it has to do with the fact that she was my first plate after my LTR? | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Need advice on how to handle this very flaky plateI know this much, every time we hung out it was something fun/exciting, and that's how I keep my current plates around as well. Our previous plans before she flaked were hikes, so I'm not really trying to invest that in her anymore. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on how to handle this very flaky plateI guess to a degree yeah, otherwise I wouldn't be asking this question, but I'm spinning 5 other plates and have 3 other dates with potentials lined up. I'm just more confused by the psychology of this plate, so I can game better in the future | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 06:47 PM |
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