Specialist-Camp-3798 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	My wife wants a divorce and we’re still living in the same house. I feel like I’m losing everything. You can only move on. Chasing her won't do anything but make you look desperate. Start getting your life in order. Go to the gym, seek therapy, socialize, start being the person you want to be. Bottom line, she doesn't matter anymore. She's just someone you need to handle logistics/co-parenting with. Don't look to her for emotional support, and don't offer her support in return. She's on her own, as are you. Act accordingly...	/r/Divorce_Men	17/04/25 03:42 PM
21	I am really sad for the men that do family activities with the SBTXW You show up for your kids, not your ex... Stop trying to win her back, she was never a prize.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/02/25 10:03 AM
3	It’s done This is temporary. Things will get better, and you will move on. Stop focusing on her and the FOMO. There's plenty of other women out there, and a good amount of them will be kinder and more supportive than your ex. You have the rest of your life ahead of you, go live it!	/r/Divorce_Men	05/09/24 02:21 PM
3	Should I attend daughter's birthday party if ex brings her new boyfriend, or just have a separate one? You're not trash and you never were. Keep your head up and moving forward. Figure out what you want from life, then pursue it like a madman! Get in the gym if you're not already. It has helped a lot with my own anxiety.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/09/24 10:39 PM
11	Should I attend daughter's birthday party if ex brings her new boyfriend, or just have a separate one? Everything you do should be for your daughter. Your ex doesn't matter anymore. In your mind, she should be dead. You're just handling logistics with a corpse going forward. Live your life the way you want. Find your own happiness. Love your daughter, and support her. Be super dad. Then, when you find another partner, be the best partner to them you can be. You have a full life ahead of you. Don't let your ex ruin that for you.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/09/24 09:04 PM
3	I wanted to believe it wouldn't happen...but you guys prepared me. Stay strong and focused for your little ones. They see it, and they'll remember it. Be the model parent and let her burn herself to the ground. Listen to your lawyer and focus on yourself and your kids. You got this brother!	/r/Divorce_Men	17/07/24 11:33 AM
6	I hate my wife Get a lawyer, a GOOD shark of a lawyer, and listen to them. Go scorched earth on her. Start recording EVERYTHING and behave as if she's recording you. The I'm scared shit is manipulation AND a foundation to fuck you over if you divorce.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/24 08:33 PM
5	Argh, STBX waited to close on a new property to tell me she wanted divorce... Get a shark of a lawyer, and do everything they say.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/05/24 06:46 PM
3	Why do they look sad? Not your problem anymore. You've got enough on your plate. Focus on you and your kids. She can fend for herself...	/r/Divorce_Men	08/05/24 06:50 PM
2	STBXW is cheating on me I don't think that's what he's after. If he's in an at fault state, she could lose alimony if the divorce isn't finalized.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/05/24 08:34 PM
10	Childish You're the guy. You will ALWAYS be the bad guy. Stop giving a shit what irrelevant people think. She's your past, and her coworkers don't actually know the relationship. They only know the narrative she painted for them. Focus on yourself, there's a bright future ahead. You just have to pursue it....	/r/Divorce_Men	01/05/24 03:19 PM
6	My ex wife has moved on with someone else It sucks, but nothing you can do. Don't focus on her or what she does - she isn't your problem anymore. Focus on you, your hobbies, your kids, and self-improvement. You need to view her with indifference. If she died tomorrow, your world wouldn't be any different - embrace it. Things get better, but only if you're willing to let go and move on.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/04/24 02:20 PM
7	She filed for divorce, but now wants to call it off You'll never trust her man, finish what she started. She's unloyal, ungrateful, and untrustworthy. End it and move on.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/03/24 01:05 PM
6	Always the victim... Because she always needs to be the victim. If she's the victim, she doesn't have to take any accountablity. Mental gymnastics is easier than responsibility...	/r/Divorce_Men	28/03/24 09:10 AM
2	Asking for a divorce Go get a lawyer and fulfill her wishes then. She doesnt respect you, much less love you if its a constant threat. Move on.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/03/24 05:25 PM
1	Why is it that mostly women ask for divorce? And why is it so hard for men? I hate her to the core but just cant seem to let go? Men are arguably hurt more in divorce. Most custody is awarded to women. So if you love your kids, having your visitation restricted hurts more than staying with a bad wife. Spousal support benefits women more. It's really just not worth getting married anymore.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/03/24 02:48 PM
2	how did you deal with your ex dating or moving on? You're spending too much of your time thinking about what she's doing. I'm not saying it's easy, or downplaying the turmoil you're experiencing. But you need to fill your free time with friends and hobbies to keep the mind busy. Otherwise you risk just sitting and stewing about what SHE'S doing. Which really isn't your concern anymore, as long as your kid is safe and happy.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/03/24 09:32 AM
1	Gym Motivation At this point I work out to keep me sane. Trust me, a good workout doesn't erase your problems but you feel stronger and less helpless. I have really bad anxiety and its been the best medicine to alleviate it. Even if you just put in 30 minutes walking on the treadmill. Do it for yohrself!	/r/Divorce_Men	14/03/24 05:47 PM