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I still believe in marriage 🤦🏽‍♂️ marriage is the legal parameters around your existing relationship. Thats literally all it is. Nothing to believe in. Its a legal thing. Believe in love, not marriage. You got lucky this time, might not be so lucky next time.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/24 06:39 PM
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Yup, my friends ex gets alimony from him for the 7 whole years. He is almost done and she says “well, you are almost finished paying me my alimony, looks like ill have to get married again”…..Not get a job, she has to get married again to leech off of some other poor bastard. Sickening
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/24 04:07 PM
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You really want to know why? Im not religious by any means, but think of Adam and Eve. Think of Samson and Delilah. Solomon and his many wives where one was never enough. Men have always been stupid when it comes to women. Especially a man that does not get women’s attention often.They will sacrifice their own well being just to have a beautiful woman by their side. Look at the celebrity and famous athlete divorces. These men have made it to the pinnacle financially yet still tie the knot legall…
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/24 03:57 PM
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The kids calling another man “papa” would send me over too. We as men have to be strong. Our strength is everything. We literally built this world. You are too big and too strong and capable to let some woman bring you down. YOU ARE A FUCKING MAN! YOU GOT THIS SHIT! Get in shape. Become a lion in sheep’s clothing and never let disrespect slide from your ex or your kids. Make sure you let your kids know that YOU are their father. They do not call some random man “papa”. That aint gonna slide EVER…
/r/Divorce_Men07/02/24 12:01 AM
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Yea, there is no love here brother. That sounds like you are just a utility being used and when that utility is no longer useful, youll be thrown to the wolves.
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/24 11:47 PM
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Leaving you behind on holidays????? Bro, whats the deal here?
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/24 09:42 PM
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40%?? Gosh. To be fair, many of us men put ourselves in positions to be slaves to the very people we took care of and its a horrible thing. We deserve better.
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/24 10:06 PM
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I always want relationships to reconcile if there is hope. However, maybe im jaded but ive just seen too many men including friends of mine put 100 % of their money into a woman that never gives anything back. They just take and take and take some more. Honestly, alot of those men did it to themselves so i cant feel too bad. However, ive seen this story. Just last night, my good friend, who has worked his whole life for his family but is now divorced, asked me for $200 to finish paying his thiev…
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/24 04:17 PM
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I wish these stories were more publicly rampant to warn other men not to marry until the laws benefit both parties. Reading these comments make me sick to my stomach.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/24 05:33 AM
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Im on the same shit man, enough is enough. Ive been working out and eating better and losing weight. I feel you on everything you said. Lets make 2024 great!
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/23 08:07 PM
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If overthinking it was a person. You are a man. A MAN. We built and continue to maintain almost everything you see. The men who built this world werent worried about if the weight of that block of cement they had in their hands would break their fingers. The gym is important not just for confidence and health, but being strong and capable is what defines us as men. I knew a guy that was sad because he couldnt get a girlfriend. He is 5’4 and fat. I Told him to go to the gym and what did he say? “…
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/23 07:54 PM
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It isnt even women who you feel hate towards, its the laws under the document you signed your life away too. Men would do to women in divorce what women do to men given the chance. Why men continue to sign up to have the government have more involvement in their life is beyond me. We should never hate a whole gender. We should hate the laws. If all men banded together and refused to marry until the laws were fair, things would change tomorrow. However, men historically have been weak for women a…
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/23 01:29 AM
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This is just criminal. Its like men are just utilities to he used and abused and nothing else. They treat us like all we are here to do is work, provide, and die. Vent over. California is the worst state for divorced men. The absolute worst. Get another lawyer. The fact that she can work and you still have to give her that amount sounds off. She is entitled to half the assets. She shouldnt be entitled to your money indefinitely. Hope More men see this and remember that stay at home moms can abso…
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/23 01:05 PM
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I get it. We, as humans, are biologically designed for another human both emotionally and physically and the person that filled those needs left you. You have to realize that if she left you, it’s completely and utterly over. If she ever came back to you, its because she couldnt find better and you would be the guy thats “leftover”. Dont be that guy. Accept the fact that life isnt where you want it to be yet, and also accept that it isnt going to change itself. What i would do? Get into a martia…
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/23 01:38 PM
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I never understood why people want the government involved. I'm sorry she took your shit. You'll get it back brother.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 01:47 AM
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Again I really cant say i feel bad for men. Men, historically, follow their penis. The woman doesnt have to be this great, successful person. They just have to be hot and youll have 90% of men ready to give rings and weddings. Like as if these men have no value and require nothing in return except for being hot. Then they complain when they get taken to the cleaners. Men and women can be cruel. Not one more than the other. Marriage is not a good deal for men. Dont want those problems? Dont sign …
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 04:51 PM
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Why would you want the state government involved in your love life? The government takes way too much taxes, makes laws for us, tells us the land we buy we dont truly own(property taxes) and then you want them to tell you where your dick needs to go?? Bro, stop watching hollywood and think with logic. Can’t go wrong there. Good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 01:07 PM
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Ah lol makes sense
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/23 02:44 PM
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Alot of these sub reddits are moderated by far left, liberal, “nonbinary” cluster fucks. My question is, why do men continually get married after all the info out here about how they get eternally fucked in family court? Thats what i wanna know.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/23 01:10 PM
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She wants to work it out “now” because either Homeboy isnt fucking with her anymore Or She knows what can happen now that she got caught. Either way, she doesnt respect you and definitely doesnt love you. She wanted another man and will continue to stray. Move on
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/23 08:17 PM
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There is no “forcibly” anywhere. You accept it or you dont. If you didnt, you wouldnt be with her. Being she opened the relationship, sleeping with the guy YOU ARE STILL PAYING, and call this infidelity is laughable. She doesnt respect you at all. First class cuckery. Thats blatant disrespect and its gonna get worse. Its over. Just leave.
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/23 05:01 PM
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Let's not think emotionally, let's do this logically What do you gain from making your relationship recognized by the state as opposed to a non legalized union? If this union were to end, would you be better off or would she? She doesn't do prenups? As someone who has everything to gain, I bet she doesn't. Ask yourself: are you getting married because there are benefits to you that otherwise you couldn't get or are you getting married because she wants to get married? I know men whose lives were…
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/22 12:49 AM
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Cheating with a friend after providing for her “stay at home but dont make enough money for me” ass wouldve been it. Hope you come out on top.
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/22 07:37 PM
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Well It got to this point because you allowed bs for so long that she views you as weak and has no respect for you. All of this cheating didnt happen over night. When men let things slide and dont put their foot down, it just gets worse. What should have happened is you should have given her the boot years ago, but you didnt.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/22 07:02 AM
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Well fkn said
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/22 04:22 PM
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If you think about it… The system is bad, sure. Women aren’t the issues. Men are the problem because the fools keep getting married. If it stopped, laws would change…guys are always feeling “lovey dovey” when they are about to get married and only find channels like pearly things when he has been bent over before the judge in divorce. Stop letting your penis dictate your future. Stand up against these laws and do it NOW!
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/22 11:56 PM
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Right! You need that alone time, everyone does. God bless mate
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/22 04:14 PM
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Gamer here Nothing better than one of those days when no one but you is home, you get your favorite food, and hop on the game. Priceless. As long as youre keeping the house clean, she is just picking fights at this point. Hope it works out but I couldn’t deal with that long term.
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/22 04:05 PM
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She doesn’t respect you I hope you know she cheated already. I also hope you know that the way you are acting is like poison to women. They detest it. It’s like putting silicone in the body and the body rejects it. You are acting like a sick puppy and it completely turns her off. I’m a guy and I’m turned off. You have to have more respect for yourself. I’ve watched my brother go through similar situations and get “cucked” and just take it. The first sign of bullshit and she would’ve been checked…
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/22 07:26 AM
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Totally get that. If it were me, I would hit first. Respect is everything
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/22 10:08 PM
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Well, you know exactly what’s going on She wants to keep you on the fence in case her “new life” doesn’t work out. In other words, you are the safe option. Don’t be that guy man.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/22 09:58 PM
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It’s seems you have addressed everyone else’s issues but your own. You’ve been through a lot. Maybe it’s time to take care of you. Let her go. You need peace and some time to process man. You deserve to be happy.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/22 09:26 PM
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I’m sorry man… I cant imagine how much it sucks. But it seems things were already tipped on the scale. Why are working your butt off and also cooking and cleaning? Does she stay home or does she work? You sound like you are doing everything to please her but expect nothing near as much in return. She won’t respect you because you are bending your ass backwards trying to please her. As if you ain’t shit. Best thing you can do is let her go man.
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/22 11:53 AM
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I don’t know if I heard you right She said she wants to divorce you. Your only concern is your kids. At least that’s what it should be. Her lifestyle will change and she will have to get a job. I would not move out of the marital home at all. If she wants to leave the relationship, she can leave. If she can’t afford to pay where she lives, then you have to have a serious conversation with her about her plans. Do not try to finance the same lifestyle she is used to living now because the courts j…
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/22 05:31 PM
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Yup, go scorched earth on your dad bod. I know guys who are all talk. I know guys who have done the work and have had success. Do…the…work. Good luck mate
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/22 01:42 AM
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The hard truth with some solid revenge advice The hard truth: Once a woman is done and is with another man, you are basically invisible to her. She has lost all respect and romantic love for you. I’m pretty sure there were signs that she gave, you either refused to acknowledge them or didn’t see them. Revenge: 90% of the time the spouse that cheats gets cheated on. (She def was cheating,don’t buy the bs). Her lover will leave her. Idk if you are fat. Idk if you are broke. Idk what your situation…
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/22 12:07 AM
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You have told no lies. Too many men follow their penis instead of using their brains. Oprah has been with the same man since the 80s and conveniently has not married him yet. I think we all know why.
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/22 12:22 PM
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When will they realize? Never as long as they have a penis. It’s always the same cycle. They meet a girl they “can’t do without” and ride on into the sunset thinking “this is different” only to find out she doesn’t want his sorry ass anymore and then he does a 180 and tells everyone not to do it.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/22 02:35 PM
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Fuck, I’m sorry. But I tell men all the time…. Getting married ain’t for you. But if you are gonna do it, marry a career woman. The “stay at home wife or mother” will fuck you till the sun comes up should she want to divorce you. It’s so funny how the system rewards some lazy ass woman for not working aka hefty alimony payments, half of something she never worked for, and you just literally have a $ on your forehead. DONT GET MARRIED.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/22 10:20 AM
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