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| 1 | I used to think I needed to be better looking to approach women. But that was never the real problem.Why waste time approaching when you know you're not ready for primetime? Time would be better spent working on oneself first and getting yourself as good as you can possibly be before making that approach. Approaching when you are clearly not at your best netted the same result as if you had done nothing at all. So, why do it? If dating is like job hunting, you should build your credentials so to speak by increasing your market value via self care. | /r/seduction | 10/04/25 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Talking to multiple girls is the best way.Doing the activity anyway sounds like it would increase your value. It says, I was gonna do this anyway and was just seeing if you wanted to tag along. | /r/seduction | 26/03/25 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Talking to multiple girls is the best way.It sounds crazy but if you know what you're doing it's entirely possible. | /r/seduction | 26/03/25 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Talking to multiple girls is the best way.Thumbs up on keeping the options open, but 6-8 is going a bit overboard, Don Juan. | /r/seduction | 26/03/25 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Why women pull away even when things are going well— and how to react when it happensI once dated a woman who confronted me on my feelings and wanted me to tell her how I felt. When I told her that I loved her she actually kissed me. We had been dating for about a month at that point and there was very little in the way of physical touch, we had mostly talked during our dates. But, what sticks out in my mind is that she made the first move. Not sure if that's a universal reaction though, may have just been her style or how she was feeling at the time. The next time we met up, I'… | /r/seduction | 26/03/25 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Why women pull away even when things are going well— and how to react when it happensI hate to have to tell you this but there was probably no coming back from that COVID thing. She has pretty strong feelings on the subject and it turned out you didn't share one of her core values. It happens. You didn't screw up and she didn't inexplicably lose interest. This was just an unfortunate chasm that you couldn't cross. It sucks but expect it to happen even more. Part of dating is to find someone who aligns with our values. | /r/seduction | 26/03/25 02:59 PM |
| 6 | Why women pull away even when things are going well— and how to react when it happensSounds like friend zoning happens because of a deflation in sexual tension. I like what you say about doing less chasing and it makes total sense. If you chase too often or too hard, well, what does she have to wonder about? where's the challenge in that, where's the mystery in that? My experience lately is that if I pull back just enough and leave her alone for a while, the interactions we do have later on are off the charts. And, it doesn't matter at that point what you talk about; we could be… | /r/seduction | 26/03/25 02:42 PM |
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