Specialist-Lion3969 Archive

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1	I used to think I needed to be better looking to approach women. But that was never the real problem. Why waste time approaching when you know you're not ready for primetime? Time would be better spent working on oneself first and getting yourself as good as you can possibly be before making that approach. Approaching when you are clearly not at your best netted the same result as if you had done nothing at all. So, why do it? If dating is like job hunting, you should build your credentials so to speak by increasing your market value via self care.	/r/seduction	10/04/25 04:54 AM
2	Talking to multiple girls is the best way. Doing the activity anyway sounds like it would increase your value. It says, I was gonna do this anyway and was just seeing if you wanted to tag along.	/r/seduction	26/03/25 03:14 PM
2	Talking to multiple girls is the best way. It sounds crazy but if you know what you're doing it's entirely possible.	/r/seduction	26/03/25 03:13 PM
1	Talking to multiple girls is the best way. Thumbs up on keeping the options open, but 6-8 is going a bit overboard, Don Juan.	/r/seduction	26/03/25 03:12 PM
2	Why women pull away even when things are going well— and how to react when it happens I once dated a woman who confronted me on my feelings and wanted me to tell her how I felt. When I told her that I loved her she actually kissed me. We had been dating for about a month at that point and there was very little in the way of physical touch, we had mostly talked during our dates. But, what sticks out in my mind is that she made the first move. Not sure if that's a universal reaction though, may have just been her style or how she was feeling at the time. The next time we met up, I'…	/r/seduction	26/03/25 03:07 PM
2	Why women pull away even when things are going well— and how to react when it happens I hate to have to tell you this but there was probably no coming back from that COVID thing. She has pretty strong feelings on the subject and it turned out you didn't share one of her core values. It happens. You didn't screw up and she didn't inexplicably lose interest. This was just an unfortunate chasm that you couldn't cross. It sucks but expect it to happen even more. Part of dating is to find someone who aligns with our values.	/r/seduction	26/03/25 02:59 PM
6	Why women pull away even when things are going well— and how to react when it happens Sounds like friend zoning happens because of a deflation in sexual tension. I like what you say about doing less chasing and it makes total sense. If you chase too often or too hard, well, what does she have to wonder about? where's the challenge in that, where's the mystery in that? My experience lately is that if I pull back just enough and leave her alone for a while, the interactions we do have later on are off the charts. And, it doesn't matter at that point what you talk about; we could be…	/r/seduction	26/03/25 02:42 PM
1	Which books do you recommend to start? Tried the cocky/funny thing once and it completely backfired, all because it wasn't me and the girl could sense it. But, when I paid attention to body language, and realized which girls were already displaying interest, that's when I was able to approach with confidence and start dating.	/r/seduction	26/03/25 02:27 PM
1	Which books do you recommend to start? Well, actually, you're both right and wrong. True, nothing beats first-hand experience, but a good wingman (or if you don't have access to one, a good guide book written by one) can help save you so much time and aggravation by helping you get a good head start. It's no replacement for experience but it can make your experience so much more fruitful and worthwhile.	/r/seduction	26/03/25 02:20 PM
1	In the modern dating age, the first step is the women "choosing the man", often times before he is even aware of it. In this way, women are the true initiators and selectors and men have far less power over the outcome. Women tend to make the first move on a subconscious level. They do it with far more subtlety than a guy would. They'll choose a place to sit or stand where you can see them, their body language is open and inviting as opposed to closed off or aloof, and sometimes they even initiate eye contact with a smile. That's always a surefire sign that they want you to approach. But, cold approaches, I've never had much luck with those. Trust me, look for the woman who sends you the subtle signal to approa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/25 12:25 AM
1	In the modern dating age, the first step is the women "choosing the man", often times before he is even aware of it. In this way, women are the true initiators and selectors and men have far less power over the outcome. I don't know if this a universal truism or if it's just specific to me, but I find that if I let the woman make the first move, things tend to go better. By first move, I don't necessarily mean she asks me out instead of vice versa, I think she's still going to expect me to do that, but there are certain things I've learned to look out for. A woman who is interested in man just tends to make herself available to him, whether that's through friendliness or proximity or initiating conversation. Th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/25 12:17 AM
1	In the modern dating age, the first step is the women "choosing the man", often times before he is even aware of it. In this way, women are the true initiators and selectors and men have far less power over the outcome. You've just explained why I get better results letting the women come to me. And, they do come to me. This might be because I have autism and really tend to make a mess of things out of feeling pressure or too beholden to a certain outcome when I make the approaches.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/25 12:08 AM
2	Why self improvement won't solve your dating problems I can also see the problem might come from these hypothetical guys only breaking out the social skills practice when they meet a knockout. If they want to get better and faster results, they have to use them in the arenas of their everyday relationships such as those they have with co-workers, neighbors, friends, and family. It's not just about having game, it's about being a successful human being in all areas.	/r/seduction	09/01/25 01:34 AM
2	Why self improvement won't solve your dating problems I assume you can also work on your social skills by just being friends with women. In such a case, don't fear the friendzone, learn from it.	/r/seduction	09/01/25 01:31 AM
1	The idea of submissive women is gross to me Then those aren't the women for you.	/r/ExRedPill	11/11/24 03:49 PM
1	The idea of submissive women is gross to me Subservience has always been a turn off for me. I like it when a woman can challenge me.	/r/ExRedPill	11/11/24 03:44 PM