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| 3 | Why did you leave the red pill?so it was the racism and antisemitism that made you leave... but not the misogyny??? The actual core of the entire thing? Right.. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/08/25 05:41 PM |
| 8 | Feeling Stuck After Doing the Work: Short, Bald, Ethnic, and Still Struggling with Self-Perceptionso they obviously didnt recognize you because of your shaved head... that's not them judging you. That's them thinking "who is that guy looking at me as if he knows me" and then realizing that they did know you. Also you shaved your head so you need to OWN it. Who cares if some people think its alien-like - you need to own it. Maybe youre a skinny guy and that makes it look more noticeable, so maybe work on putting on more muscle or making sure your clothes and style suit you well. Work with wha… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/07/25 05:41 PM |
| -1 | Thoughts on the whole “20% of men get 80% of women” line?It's because women aren't validated by sleeping around casually the same way men are validated by casual hookups. Mature men don't get validated from these experiences, but insecure men needing validation certainly do and will act on their options when they can. Women are actually looking love and commitment lol | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/25 03:18 PM |
| 2 | 19MHonestly, as you focus on your own goals (losing weight, making money, maintaining friendships), you will naturally start to think about meeting girls in a healthier, less obsessive way. You need a real life that you can then integrate a relationship into, that would be ideal. There is nothing wrong with wanting a girlfriend or sex, but are you just wanting those things because you see others having it, or do you actually want to have the experience of intimacy, someone getting to know you and a… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/07/25 03:28 PM |
| 6 | Lust to love, but how?You need to decide what kind of person you want to be. I assume you want a loving relationship in the future with someone who has the same values as you. If you truly want to stop getting validation from others, you need to realize that validation is not love, and can never come near it. You need devalue that validation that you're receiving to realize that its not actual validation of who you are, its validation of your outer appearance which will aboslutely fade as you get older and you will n… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/07/25 03:20 PM |
| 17 | Seeing man hating reels on Tiktok and Instagram and my partner and female friends engage with them is fucking with my head.Does it impact the way she sees YOU or in the men in her life? All women have had traumatizing/dangerous experiences with men, or at the very least, knows a woman in her life who has. So even if a women has a good men in her life or hasn;t had trauma with men, she would still find some agreements with these sides of the internet. Because women hating on men is just more valid than men hating on women. Women hating men doesn't mean they want to harm or hurt all men, it means they are resentful ag… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/25 05:34 PM |
| 6 | Why did you want a relationship when red-pill?exactly! It's like someone offering you a large bowl of candy, except 90% of the those candies are laced with poison, and there is no way for you to know without trying to eat them. This is the real reason why many women are relationship material just arent looking anymore. The pool has been saturated by too many dangerous, deceitful, and harmful men who consciously going into dating looking to use, lie, cheat, or harm women. It's not a safe place for women. Good guys understand that and don't b… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/25 08:27 PM |
| 7 | Advice for all men on autism spectrum especially that once wanted a romantic relationship with a woman.Then don't get mad when your life ends up even worse than what you've already created it to be. Listening to Jordan Peterson would actually be helpful for you lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/05/25 09:54 PM |
| 1 | How to find a successful relationship (M25)maybe make a list of your absolute non-negotiables so that if a women shows this, you know its a non-negotiable vs something you just learn to accept about that person. There needs to be dealbreakers and nondealbreakers. Or your ideas of what women need to be are unrealistic which means you probably dont have the maturity for a long-term relationship, which requires loving the person for who they are, even when they display traits that you dont necessarily have, but still arent dealbreakers. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/03/25 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Help Me!!well then you need to improve yourself instead of whining that the hottest women are only choosing the hottest men. The hottest men are doing the same thing.. why is it only a problem when women do it? | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/25 06:22 PM |
| 3 | Help Me!!this is based on dating app data - because dating apps favor quick attraction and finding people you are physically into - top 5%. But if you actually did your research, you would see that in practice, women value much more than appearances and often give men chances that they werent initially attracted to. I do this in person and with men I meet online but its much easier in person because i can feel their vibe. I think you are very narrowminded about what women actually look for in a man - may… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/25 06:21 PM |
| 4 | What red pillers get wrong about the "girls love bad boys" tropeThis was obvious to myself as a 13 year old girl when I had crushes on the hot villains in movies and shows (i.e. Damon Salvatore). It's so obvious to girls at this age why we are into them - "because I am special and thats why he would open up to me". So pathetic that some grown-ass man can't see that. Just shows are unintelligent and clueless they are. Or how caught up in their own psychology they are. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/12/24 09:35 PM |
| 6 | Things are not what I thought (Musings)Thank you. This is all the things I have said already but because I am a women, noone would believe me. Even though everything you have said is COMMON SENSE for almost all women and I have known these things since I was 15 in my first relationships and observing relationships in school and in my family. This is so fucking obvious to me and so frustrating that, because I was born with a vagina and have boobs, that I don't have a penis between my legs, noone would listen. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/24 09:38 PM |
| 3 | I am a woman and RP makes dating men impossible for me.of course women crave to be touched and loved by men (if they're straight women). I can tell you are probably redpilled with that belief you hold. Most women want to feel loved and to love a man because one of the most intimate and fulfilling experiences you can have has a human. and is the foundation for the next most fulfilling experience - having a baby. Humans are social species and are not meant to survive "alone", with their hobbies lol. Humans grow and learn through relationship and fulfi… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/11/24 09:41 PM |
| 6 | I am a woman and RP makes dating men impossible for me.I loved what you were saying until the last sentence which to be honest, only confirms the posters beliefs about men. Feminism is supporting equality for all - most women do not subscribe with modern feminism which is what you are probably referring to. I think it would be more helpful if you made that distinction in your comment if your point was that you aren't like all the red-pill men who group all women into a single category. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/11/24 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill losing credibilityand if you just find younger woman attractive, how do you imagine you could sustain a long-term relationship which involves something very scary.... aging. I don't understand men who say this because the women they are with must feel so insecure about their inevitable aging. Like why can't men just love women as people and not some young sex object to nut from. Another red pill lie is that young women find old men attractive. We don't, we just find their resources attractive. I'm guessing you ar… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/11/24 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Hooking up with random girls doesn't feel the same anymore.well I'm someone who has never wanted casual sex and always saw the value of a committed relationship. Why did it take you using people's bodies for your own pleasure for you to realize that meaningless sex feels like shit because it is in fact meaningless? Now your next partner will have to be exposed to all the toxic habits you may have developed being a promiscuous player. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/11/24 10:18 PM |
| 1 | I met someone great but I’m unsure if I’m ready for a relationshipAs a girl who was quite innocent, although not a virgin, dealing with men with this mentality is what broke me for years. I am genuine with my intentions when dating, and never looking to just "see where it goes" but dating to actually develop feelings and commitment with someone. I would tell you to just leave her alone and don't waste her precious years of youth. You don't get to just raise her expectations, so she gives all her love and attention to you, all for you to just use her for a good… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/03/24 04:48 PM |
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