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9

I’ve been living this way for years. Yeah I have a decent life without a girlfriend, but I still wish I had a girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:29 PM
4

Yeah, exactly all these points. And, to top it all off, there ARE plenty of posts from lonely women complaining about these same things
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:21 AM
3

Uh… why would I want any of those?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 11:17 PM
5

What about the plenty of people who do try these things? Do you think they are all lying? Would you think I’m lying if i said I do these things?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 10:37 PM
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Do you genuinely think many men aren’t trying those exact things? Many men online are actually following those trends: weightlifting, dressing better, therapy, going out, and just overall being a kind person. Many of these same men still have trouble finding a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 10:35 PM
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And I was born in the twin towers on 9/11/2021 and narrowly survived
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:39 PM
0

I’m not talking about being socially inept, I’m talking about bar/party people being not everyone’s cup of tea.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:23 PM
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My experience with dive bars are most people are already grouped together. While you can join groups, it’ll be a hit or miss whether they’ll let you in. Most of the time it’s expected you have similar conversational interests and sense of humor as them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:09 PM
3

Why would I want to be around incoherent drunk people?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:55 PM
2

30 year old virgin man here. There’s always that desire, but you can definitely live in spite of not fulfilling it. There are plenty of other itches to scratch.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 02:06 AM
1

How is that a baseless statement? In what way are they compatible? If they vibe with whatever it is that a serial killer has, they wouldn’t vibe with a shy guy because he doesn’t have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:08 PM
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The type of woman that would go for a serial killer has an incompatible personality as a shy guy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:59 PM
1

The equivalent we should actually compare is in the ratios. Bully men body count:bullied men body count VS bully women:bullied women body count
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:50 PM
2

I agree with the last part. I also believe men should apply that being happy alone philosophy to their own life as well. And practicing celibacy is a useful tool, because too many men become addicted to sex and center their entire lives around it, which dampens introspection and true becoming of themselves. They become dependent on external validation when they need sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:53 AM
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I believe women (the ones I’m chasing) deserve a great man. Not a simp, but a genuinely well-rounded man. And I believe a lot of men aren’t that. I believe many men will pretend to be, but many are great manipulators. Women should learn from each other, dating strategies to stop running into that type.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:41 AM
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I’ve never seen a post more incorrect in my life. What do you think happens when you meet new people in life? I will give you a hint, it isn’t the same thing that happens when you read a profile based on images, a character limited bio, and a few prompts about who might be the next love of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:34 AM
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Everyone dismissing the OP here because it’s a Bible tale. Okay, how about more modern? “Toxic” by Britney Spears, the craze for Eminem and Tupac and Biggie, “I love the way you lie” song clearly a girl begging for troublesome men. That country song that sings “Good girls keep falling for bad boys their daddy don’t like” What about the whole bullies/jocks getting all the girls and nerds that keep to themselves just laughed at and are virgins? Etc It is a universal experience
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:18 PM
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Because it’s a lot of women. And quite frankly, a majority of the attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:40 PM
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I’m all for women being picky, so I don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:41 AM
3

Well, we would be less picky if women were a little bit more picky eaters 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:04 AM
0

Because they are role players
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:37 PM
2

That’s weird. I don’t like women being slutty with me, it freaks me out. Flirty? Fine. Being over the top dirty, nah…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:36 PM
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Women are wonderful! Wonderful little angels. The air they breathe is minty fresh, and the porn they consume attracts all the wildlife to sing a Disney song.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:14 PM
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I think someone who “knows what a woman wants” would be better at keeping a steady relationship rather than just getting their foot in the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 05:18 PM
2

Is that why their divorce rates are so high?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 05:11 PM
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So women can't resist peer pressure? It's ultimately the woman's choice if they ignore the red flags or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:02 PM
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I mean, this overt reaction alone is pretty telling. For example. But sure, keep up the attitude, tough girl! Show'em who's boss! Dunno what that gets you, but I'm sure it's fulfilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:01 PM
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That's your own problem then. There's nothing admirable about being that picky, weird that you'd boast about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:33 PM
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Yeah. So we should spread the word so people stop running into this problem, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:02 AM
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People overlook small things and take them as not-so-serious. Sexual comments, pushing boundaries, gossiping about others, mild tantrums, or even simping. They don't realize that as the relationship progresses, they'll only be more frequent and louder.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:20 AM
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Not all of us agree with lying to women to get laid. The ones that disagree with it, though, typically don't get laid and are called incels for suggesting that a majority of women fall for manipulative men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:48 AM
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I don't think that is true for women at least. If what you're saying is true, that women lose attraction to a man based on lack of past success, then most men think more for themselves when it comes to whether they're attracted to a woman or not. A man typically pursues a woman they find physically attractive first, and if they like their company next, their dating history usually has little effect -- and if it does have an effect, it's usually because the woman has had too much dating history r…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:35 PM
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Wouldn't be intimidated, but probably wouldn't put people at ease either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:32 PM
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I can't see this meaning anything but these two things: 1) You believe all women want the same thing, and that if a lot of women find him undesirable for whatever reason, he must be undesirable for you as well. Or else 2) A man's relationship value IS his status and ability to pick up women, which proves the OP's point. If you found a man physically attractive and you liked talking with him, but you suspected or it was revealed that he had no dating success and he was 30, would you instantly rej…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 06:54 PM
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Uh, disagree. Being unfriendly seems intimidating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 06:42 PM
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I understand having not great options, but having no options at all? Yeah right... If that's true, a couple small life changes like brushing your teeth and showering will give you a few Alabama uglies at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:30 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:36 AM
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Alright, so you're saying we shouldn't be taking what women are saying about most men online seriously? Genuine question.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:11 AM
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Hmm, you're right. I guess I'm only making this post is because I've been burned a lot by this type and it happened again reason. It's definitely not everyone out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:00 AM
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I'm speaking from my experience being in the dating market, man. I talk to a lot of women. At my job, at the gym, friends of friends. I've talked to a lot of women on dating apps too. These experiences are what lead me to my conclusion. Not all women respod this way, but many do
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:56 AM
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So WGTOW , FDS,and the 2X subreddit are reactions to a small amount of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:55 AM
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Then why do so many women whine about all men bad, and their husband sucks?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:53 AM
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Do you think calling it weird is going to make people stop categorizing behavior types?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:51 AM
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You either didn't read my post. or have poor reading skills, if that's what you got from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:37 AM
3

The type of charismatic player I'm describing, has to sacrifice having a life and a sense of purpose outside of sex, in order to become that good. Not worth it, they lead miserable lives and bring others down with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:35 AM
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I'm not coming from an all-or-nothing worldview here. There are plenty of women who detect lovebombing fairly good, a lot of times after one or two relationships with that type of guy. I still observe a lot of women still falling for it, though, and then coming online and complain about men. I've observed it in the real world too, women becoming jaded in a similar way. This post really only applies to women who are jaded by men, and I'm pointing out my hypothesis of why it happens. No, I'm not s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:34 AM
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I believe a lot of women are bad at telling apart people who are showing disingenuous interest to get them in bed, from people who are building up interest. One thing they could ask themselves to see if their match's interest is genuine is: Do I feel the same amount of interest in this dude's life as they feel for mine?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:28 AM
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I'm of the opinion that lovebombers have set the norm for what women expect. Not all women, I've met women who are pretty reasonable in their expectations. But A LOT of women still are pretty impatient, from what I've seen. They think they can pick up on lovebombing -- maybe if someone is clearly overdoing it. Good lovebombers are sly though, they know not to overdo it. They do it just the right. It's those guys that set the standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:22 AM
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Typical lovebombing stuff comes to mind: giving attention, compliments, affection, gifts. -- They really know how to make a girl feel special. And I get it, who doesn't want to feel special? But, a lot of times, there's a certain type of ingenuity to it. A woman could ask is this really how interested a man should be at this stage of meeting me? -- It's also evident when they realize, they're no longer being treated as a person, they're being put on a pedestal. Granted, when they themselves are …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:17 AM
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Doesn't it come across as fake to you when someone is relentlessly interested in you when you literally just start talking? When you first meet a person, are you at first mildly interested in them, or so interested that they become the center of your mind (like the loverbombers do)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:00 AM
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We're in agreement. There definitely needs to be some interest shown. I'd say that interest can simply be shown by asking how the person's day is going, and having conversations simple like that. That's different than "hi" and "my day's been good" and not asking questions. But it's also different than turning everything into a flirty joke too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 11:55 PM
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Oh yeah, I'm not saying 'bad game' = emotional intelligence. I'm not even advocating for 'bad game'. I'm just advocating against flashiness, because it almost always takes a degree of practiced manipulation to achieve that level of flashiness. You know that person has spent time mastering coercion, and therefore less time mastering authenticity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 11:51 PM
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Are you saying 'players' aren't a thing that exist? So there aren't men that go around love-bombing women for sex just to later ghost them or turn out to not be the person they said they were? According to a lot of women on Reddit, it happens to them frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 11:42 PM
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Of course, nobody wants someone boring. At the same time, if charisma and humor is someone's entire personality, aka the flashy type of guy, they centered practicing those traits their entire lives for a reason: manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:27 PM
3

That's honestly a good point. The type of women who like those types are easier to pull.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:21 PM
1

I think a lot of PPD guys, not all of them but a lot of them, understand not to be demanding and how to take no for an answer. These men seem like they don't want to bother anyone on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:15 PM
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What isn't to understand? Women are more desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 03:56 PM
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Is that why players and womanizers are so successful?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:54 PM
2

You're doing your language skills a disservice by using AI to type out your points for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:52 PM
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The fact that they shittalk at all is a sign they will shit talk about you. The fact that you shit talk means you attract that kind of person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:02 AM
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The people you date must be shittalkers, and there's no way they just do it to only you, out of nowhere one day. You must've heard them calling other people fat and ugly before, or making fun of them for some other shortcoming.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:55 AM
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Q4W: 30 year old guy, well groomed in hair and small beard, wears dark jeans, black shoes, fitted and clean clothes, HAS SHOWERED, but prefers graphic T's (band T's, designs, etc nothing super edgy) How do you feel about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:44 AM
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I have to agree. I don't really go all in with fashion, but I do make sure I dress well! I admit, I'm a sucker for graphic tee's that I find interesting. Might not quite be the 'respectable' look, but I'd love to meet a woman who would respect a metallica t-shirt, rather than wear an empty shirt. You know? But of course, it's fitted, and I wear jeans with it, have my hair and beard trimmed, wear clean shoes, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:40 AM
2

I don't necessarily need to know their reasons. It's better if I don't! Unless I did something absolutely wrong, of course. No need to make myself feel insecure about something that was their own personal preference. But ghosting, it's just abandonment. No closure, not even a goodbye, it was nice talking to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:16 AM
2

Ghosting is the problem. You could have been in the process of building up a huge connection to someone, and really getting close, and the next thing you know the last message ever sent is "Good morning" from you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 05:18 AM
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Overcoming depression shows growth in a person. Green flag to me if you seem like a decent person who told me they overcame depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:15 PM
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Plenty of women like me, hun. A person who is happy in their own life, or likes themselves, wouldn't spend their time bullying others online. Self reflect, maybe you'll stop being miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:53 AM
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I hope you realize spreading your hate doesn't heal you. Just makes things worse. And making other people feel shitty? Just brings more hate back to you. Karma is a literal thing that exists, and it isn't supernatural. You piss a bunch of people off, they piss a bunch of other people off, and like dominoes, you'll get a pissed off again too. This goes for anyone here. You're all doing this to yourselves. Misery loves company.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:17 AM
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Nah, you're just a bitter person who spreads hate online, because you're insecure about yourself. That's what this sub is full of, narcissistic people spreading their toxicity because someone from the other group did them wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:43 AM
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Get your bs ragebait out of here. Nobody gives a fuck if they aren't crying about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:23 AM
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Because going out in social settings there's more competition and stress for appearance/formality on both sides. When you're out running errands you expect someone to be let loose and you yourself are more relaxed -- it's an everyday thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 03:45 AM
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Simple. Neither Moses or Mrs. Moses are bitter redditors complaining that there are no good men/women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 09:15 PM
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And some people have a crazy idea that financially stable means rich - owns a four bedroom house, two brand new cars, and travels yearly. A more realistic financially stable person is smart with their money. A small house an hour outside of the city, one car on a lease and maybe another that's a beater, and expensive trips/foodies are a treat not regular thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 09:12 PM
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You'd be surprised that many actually are. Of course, there will be a few loud ones that aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 07:25 PM
1

If that's the case, why are you riling up your tension with them by saying things like "Do women find antisocial hermits who do nothing attractive?"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 08:20 AM
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Okay, Andrew Tate. What's next, are you going to tell me how to own a Bugatti in 30 days?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 08:05 AM
1

Why does it matter to you that those men vent their dating frustrations online? Everyone vents about everything online these days, it's an anonymous outlet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 07:58 AM
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You're probably right that many don't - it's far fetched to say most. I know plenty of homebody women. - But why does that matter? Someone should find somebody they're more compatible with and can be their authentic selves with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 07:18 AM
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Why should they be? I don't understand why so many Redditors, at least claim to, get their rocks off to hanging out with a bunch of people they don't know. I've never met many people who desire to meet new friends, or meet partners through hobby groups or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 07:14 AM
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Why go to that extreme? There's a spectrum between the advice that people give; "Go out and meet a lot of people" and the stereotype "Person who just stays inside and plays video games all day" There are a lot of solo activities that are great: weightlifting, running, reading, writing, playing an instrument, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:33 PM
1

Alright, I'm not red pilled, but why are you red pillers so smooth with the prose of your comments? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 04:29 AM
2

From the groups you listed, I'm not overly surprised you'd find all of those in a small city like that. But, again, it isn't outrageous or a flaw if someone would rather not volunteer if they're not interested in the tasks, join a church group if they're not religious, or join a book club if they're not a fan of the genres the club reads.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:23 AM
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It's one of those things that you know it if you see it. If a lady is giving you incredibly subtle hints where you can't tell, it isn't any fault of your own for not picking it up. It really comes down to how much you two converse, how deep those conversations go, how often you make each other laugh. Basically, you'll feel just about comfortable enough with them to ask them out. It isn't extremely common that it'll get to this level, with a single woman who you specifically like, but it will hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:12 AM
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You sound like you're still young. Recently out of college, if not still in college. I've genuinely never met a person who I knew had more than 3 social groups, I would guess having 3 isn't common either. 4 at most if we're including relatives. And this especially goes for men. Most men that I've met, and not just friends of mine, are not nearly as social as women - I don't think it's a flaw, just design. Not to mention, most people become less social as they age as well. I cannot envision a 30+…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:04 AM
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Ideally, when you're asking someone out in a social circle, there's been some sign of flirtation/interest. It wouldn't happen frequently enough for you to have to be "that guy".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 01:48 AM
0

I think everyone should exercise for health. And you'll be surprised how hard some girls train their glutes, my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:44 AM
1

It's called "Male grooming" and there certainly are ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:37 AM
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Brother! I think your comment may get removed because it breaks the woe-is-me rule, and possibly mine too because of low karma, but this is important. Do not take all of this Internet negativity seriously. 90% of the things discussed here are exaggerated and not real world phenomenon. In the real world, things work out in ways you can't predict them to and everyone is different. The only thing that you need to know is to figure out what is important to you and center your lifestyle around it. Do…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 02:17 AM
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