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I didn’t send this yet tho, I honestly don’t think she’s completely uninterested otherwise I would have gotten ghosted or the classic “i hade a nice time but didn’t feel a connection with you” instead I got a paragraph blah blah
/r/seduction25/12/24 04:17 PM
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I’m definitely going to regret it if i don’t, and I’ll regret it when I do lollll damned i do damned if I dont
/r/seduction25/12/24 04:13 PM
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You’re right and idk what happened it’s jus this one time
/r/seduction25/12/24 04:11 PM
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u/SenselessDust1 u/Becaus789 u/pitterpatter-96 Guys here’s what I’m gonna send her after New Years. I cannot let this go, in 28 years of my life I’ve never felt this way before if it works it works if it doesn’t it doesn’t. I’ll know I tried all that I could. “Hi, hope you had a happy holidays. I have never done this before and naturally after hitting the send button, I’m going to chuck my phone into the fireplace queue risky text meme I haven’t been able to stop thinking about the possibility o…
/r/seduction25/12/24 04:34 AM
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I sent her a message earlier this morning after she gave me the whole spiel… and said as much as I want her to reconsider I understand and to take care and wished her the best… she’s on break right now for the holidays, we just went out a couple days ago. I can’t plan anything bc she doesn’t think she can make something work at the moment. I’m going to tell her how I feel after the holidays… I cannot let this go without getting it off my chest.
/r/seduction25/12/24 03:52 AM
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I really want to tell her 2.5 hours is nothing and it’s def doable on my end but idk if she feels the same way. Also prob not a good idea to reach out to her anymore to avoid coming off as desperate
/r/seduction25/12/24 03:12 AM
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Well I already texted her that and she hearted my message. I can’t get over her at the moment. There is something there, don’t think it’s a good idea to text her again and tell her how I feel. I don’t want to come off as desperate or attached
/r/seduction25/12/24 03:09 AM
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That’s true and fine, makes sense… sometimes I get into my own head and have spurts or time where I’m like damn am I not good enough? But then remember that you shouldn’t need a woman’s attention to validate you.
/r/seduction30/08/24 01:50 PM
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I reread your reply, and it makes a lot of sense. I think my mindset going in is exactly what you said, I want her to like me especially if I like her and I want to get physical with her (prob bc I’m a guy and horny LOL). But haven’t thought about it in a way where I’m evaluating her as well
/r/seduction29/08/24 06:17 PM
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Hahaha no I will for sure try to implant this mentality thank you for the help
/r/seduction29/08/24 05:48 PM
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I think you are right, maybe I am. I just can’t tell, I don’t over text, I suggest a date and time. I think a few weeks ago the girl asked me what I was doing the next day and i immediately jumped the gun and said we I’m chillin we should minigolf, we’ll she accepted then ofc flaked. This past week I didn’t though, I sent her a text saying I had a good time and would like to see her again. She said “me too!”next day I asked her out and she agreed… minimal texting. Date was supposed to be today b…
/r/seduction29/08/24 05:47 PM
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I’ll usually go for asking about passions/interests sometimes briefly family and mix in light hearted stuff. I go in not wanting to be like every other date where it’s the same questions but then again you kinda have to know some of those things about each other bc that’s the whole point of a date
/r/seduction29/08/24 04:23 PM
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Couple hours
/r/seduction29/08/24 04:16 PM
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Thanks for all this, I feel like I know what I want and am open to compromise but the plethora of dating info, advice, and techniques and really gotten in my head. I’ve had second dates and girls wanting more but they aren’t the girls I was interested in (attractive physically or emotionally) guess the title is somewhat misleading, I just wanted to vent so I typed fast. I’d love to share my interests but then again you’re not supposed to play all your cards and “let her do most of the talking” i…
/r/seduction29/08/24 04:05 PM
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This is so helpful and while on paper makes complete logical sense. Women are illogical and don’t ever make sense… let’s say I go on a date care free blah blah, had a good time. If I reach out to her to ask her out again soon after am I in theory attracted to her and shown her that she’s got me? So now the pendulum has swing in her favor? Or if I offer to pick her up… is that being a nice guy? Someone else said if I set a first date and time I don’t value my time as much and she will think I’m n…
/r/seduction29/08/24 03:31 PM
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Ah okay I see, yea I think I’ve def missed opportunities to escalate bc I thought if I escalate slower she’ll be coming back for more. Idk man im re-questioning this whole dating thing, feel so lost. Some things you should say some you shouldn’t and it’s hard to figure out what the right path is bc women have so many more options
/r/seduction29/08/24 02:36 PM
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Didn’t think of it this way. So you’re saying be more serious on the first dates? Get to know her future plans and ask her a bit for serious questions? Do I ask her what she’s looking for? Now that I think about it, some girls I’ve recently liked may not be quality and I was overlooking all the other stuff bc they were cute and fun
/r/seduction29/08/24 02:04 PM
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Hmm yea another user said it can get repetitive for attractive girls to go get coffee or drinks all the time but it does for the man too lol, it’s low investment for both parties initially, I’ll try mini golf next time!! Oh really? Okay good point about the touching but that’s kinda what makes them open to kissing. The whole point is to try to build a romantic connection, otherwise it’ll just look like a friendly hangout. Last time I asked if it was too much touching she said “no it’s totally fi…
/r/seduction29/08/24 01:56 PM
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I don’t think I come off as needy or clingy but I honestly don’t know what it looks like if I am or aren’t. I’d love to step outside myself and see a third person POV of me from before during and after a date. I try to mirror the responses of the other girl. I usually try to keep it to a minimum which is what I did last time and she just texted me last night saying she had a great time but doesn’t feel a romantic connection. This time I asked to “let me know if I said or did anything to make you…
/r/seduction29/08/24 01:51 PM
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Ah I see, it’s a higher end German car. I love cars and am really passionate about them, I drive it for me not to show off or anything… it’s a passion of mine that I talk about IF it comes up in convo. I don’t purposely bring it up
/r/seduction29/08/24 01:47 PM
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Kind of a relief to hear that but dude I’m so anxious to cold approach, I cannot get myself to do it. I feel like I drain myself out bc I’m like oh she’s cool I’d like to get to know her but she doesn’t. It’s just an endless cycle of me liking a girl and her not liking me back (vice versa), sometimes i get depressed bc I’m just tired
/r/seduction29/08/24 01:42 PM
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I haven’t done this bc I don’t want to give off relationship vibes early since that scares either sex away on a first date. From what I’ve seen, read, heard I assumed first dates are to get to know each other a bit and have fun and as you progress you learn a bit more. I assume if I’m showing intent that means I want to get to know someone but that doesn’t mean either of us want a full on relationship with each other just yet
/r/seduction29/08/24 01:38 PM
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Thank you this help honestly, I just need to get into a headspace of low investment and not to overthink
/r/seduction29/08/24 01:34 PM
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Yea it’s really bummed me out the past few weeks. Maybe you don’t want to second date then why agree to it. Like you have plenty of time to think over text message if you’d wanna go or not. Better yet just ghost without planning or agreeing to another date 😑
/r/seduction29/08/24 01:33 PM
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With this logic I’ve been going all about it wrong then. What do you mean by dont value your time? What is a date then lmao (re-questioning the entire concept of dating). Idk if I’d ever find someone if I don’t set aside to meet them… but then I guess it looks like I don’t value my time if I do set aside time for a date??
/r/seduction29/08/24 01:32 PM
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I can’t if they aren’t open to it lol, they pull away so I let them. If I start getting more physical they want to wait or pull away or say not yet. If I could go further I would, and have previously
/r/seduction29/08/24 05:45 AM
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Haha I think I see what you mean. If me offering to pick her up or double texting (when the convo dies down and I’m trying to confirm a plan) is performing then yea I messed up. I thought stuff like that was showing intent/interest
/r/seduction29/08/24 02:39 AM
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I feel like I already do this though, I don’t bring up serious topics and usually try to break the touch barrier, if she’s receptive I’ll add more hints if it in. I honestly have no idea what it is, if it’s me then idk what about me it is so I’m not sure how I can change how the date goes… if that makes sense?
/r/seduction29/08/24 02:35 AM
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Not a clown, I don’t think at least? More like teasing and bantering.
/r/seduction29/08/24 02:32 AM
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Yea well it makes sense lol laughing bantering kissing? I’d think oh that was a good date… starting to realize maybe it really isn’t and it’s just hard to tell if it was good or not these days
/r/seduction29/08/24 01:15 AM
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In all honestly I really don’t know what that looks like. If I have a date planned I will not over text I’ll reciprocate her. I think the problem is idk how to show that, I don’t over share my interest, I’ll say something like “we might just get along” or “hypothetically if we were together blah blah blah” really laid back stuff imo
/r/seduction29/08/24 01:07 AM
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Wait huh? You want to get first dates and get ghosted? I’m not pushy though, there is no way I’m doing anything if she doesn’t consent. It’s easy to tell if they want to be touched or kissed, or I just ask sometimes. Idk I’m def doing something wrong tho
/r/seduction29/08/24 01:03 AM
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No always at a bar, coffee shop, or ice cream. I’ve had girls invite me over as a first time meet up but idc for the hookup culture as much as forming a bond and emotional connection
/r/seduction29/08/24 01:00 AM
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It’s only the ones I like tho, but yea you’re right I should ask for feedback next time
/r/seduction28/08/24 11:52 PM
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LOL no I don’t yap about myself, past couple girls I liked, we were laughing and banter it was a good time, I’ll typically ask questions on their stories. And no I don’t force myself on her to kiss her🤣 I’ll do something like whisper in her ear something like “I’ve been wanting to kiss you all night” and I’ll go 90% toward her lips and I’ll wait for her to pull in the next 10%. You can tell when girls want to be kissed and when they don’t. It’s not hard to tell Lmaooo can’t even have a nice car …
/r/seduction28/08/24 11:32 PM
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I mean the last couple girls were laughing and we were bantering, I don’t yap about myself tbh I just need to do a better job realizing it’s so low investment like you’re saying
/r/seduction28/08/24 11:29 PM
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I literally send a couple messages and get they number and set a date and don’t text after
/r/seduction28/08/24 11:18 PM
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Online
/r/seduction28/08/24 11:17 PM
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I don’t ask on the date for another one, but I also don’t know how to show “I’m not sure I’m interested” even if I am lol. Like if offer to pick her on a second date since it’s literally on the way is that chasing? I thought I was being intentional like hey I’m interested in getting to know you that doesn’t mean I want a relationship with you… sometimes she will text and I’ll text back and then won’t get a reply… we had a date planned tomorrow and I haven’t heard any reply back. I just don’t kno…
/r/seduction28/08/24 11:16 PM
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I mean prob the ones I rejected yea, the other ones fizzled out or prob not interested anymore bc I wasn’t mature enough 2-3 years ago to realize I should take this seriously and come of as interested in hooking up only I mean not really, I don’t touch them too much if I’m not interested lol
/r/seduction28/08/24 11:10 PM
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Never thought of it this way, there is so much shit online on what to say, what to do, how to do I feel so overwhelmed with all the dating techniques and game playing I see. It’s like brainwashing me. You’re saying you over touched a girl? She would/should let you know if she feels over touched, no?
/r/seduction28/08/24 10:22 PM
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In hindsight I realized that, idk why I just didn’t catch on at the time bc we were having a good time and planned another date
/r/seduction11/08/24 03:36 PM
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This actually makes a lot of sense, she said I was so funny but I know I’m prob over analyzing lmao. I genuinely thought I did everything right to see her again … flirt and connect but not push it too far. I was thinking of shooting one more shot even though typically in this situation you’d leave it as is since the ball is in her court but haven’t yet decided if I should
/r/seduction10/08/24 11:19 PM
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Preesh bro for real, thanks
/r/seduction10/08/24 06:50 PM
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She lived an hour away so we both drove home, I texted her “Home. Had a great time with you Bring your A game tomorrow!” I thinking of texting her next week and seeing if she wants to wine basically inviting myself over FML
/r/seduction10/08/24 06:07 PM
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Has definitely caused to me think about, way more than I want to
/r/seduction10/08/24 05:38 PM
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Have a feeling she’s gone, doesn’t look like I’ll get a text back
/r/seduction10/08/24 05:37 PM
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