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It depends on the girl and you really need to read the room. Some like it and some don’t, I think it depends how secure she is and if it’s obviously just a joke. Soft teasing can be cute, but not too much. Can come off childish if it keeps going
/r/seduction29/01/22 09:53 AM
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Just talk to her man. Ask her how her workout was afterwards and see how it goes. If she’s interested she will entertain the conversation
/r/seduction05/01/22 11:48 AM
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Don’t do it, find someone else and spend the money having a good time at a bar or something. This chick seems suss.
/r/seduction05/01/22 11:46 AM
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Keep it discreet? Who is she hiding you from? Dude, if you still have feelings for her and she’s being a bit sketchy like that…. Back away. It will save you months of overthinking and reading too much into things
/r/seduction05/01/22 11:42 AM
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Don’t be scared, passive or too agreeable. Speak your mind and be you.
/r/seduction05/01/22 11:39 AM
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Be upfront from the start. You can still have fun, go to bars, have fun dates but just be upfront about not wanting anything serious. Keeping it black in white leaves little room for grey area. Also think about your why, if you just want to have fun, tell her that.
/r/seduction05/01/22 11:33 AM
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Anddd if you want to seem high value, just post things that you are interested in, what your up to or things you find funny, don’t post things that look like you are thirsty for a response. Please don’t post that you are always drinking or partying, every girl is different but I find that a put off
/r/seduction05/01/22 11:30 AM
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I’m a girl, I only engage with people who seem interested in me… so does this make us all in limbo? I don’t like these games, if you are interested, seem interested and you’ll be able to gauge how receiving she is.
/r/seduction05/01/22 11:29 AM
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I’m a flight attendant, I don’t sleep with pilots, simply because it’s work. There are a few flightys married to pilots and have beautiful relationships. As a flighty it can be really hard to date. People have this image in their mind that we can’t have anything serious. If you fancy one, shoot your shot. Just don’t expect reciprocation while we are in uniform. Or be seedy. Just be friendly, leave your number on a napkin or boarding pass x
/r/seduction31/12/21 05:33 PM
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Yeahh I’m sorry, you’re going to have to leave it for your own sake. That sucks, I’m sorry
/r/seduction21/12/21 10:00 PM
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I’m a chick. The biggest thing guys do that give me the “ick” is try too hard to impress. Just be you, be authentic. Also read the room. Match her level of interest and make slight (SLIGHT) nudges, see how she responds. If it’s reciprocated then that’s a good sign :)
/r/seduction21/12/21 11:52 AM
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Do it, test the waters. It’s only an x
/r/seduction21/12/21 11:48 AM
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Learn about her. Yeah we are emotional, most of the time we just want to know that the male cares. You don’t need to be logical and solve our emotions we just want a safe place to express them. BUTTTT I will say don’t let the conversation always go emotional. You’ll get friendzoned. Let her express herself talk about it then send a meme/ make her laugh/ talk about something else or tell her something about you. Male/female is like yin and yang, balance eachother out
/r/seduction21/12/21 11:40 AM
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It sounds like you’ve already recognised the things you want to change. Start working on it. You’re not a loser, but if these things are making you think that you are then something has got to change
/r/seduction21/12/21 11:39 AM
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Hell yeah I do and I’m a chick! I like having the memories
/r/seduction21/12/21 11:37 AM
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Ask yourself what you want. If you want to share your lifestyle with a female then create space for it. You don’t need to give any of this up for the right girl. Just be more open and receptive if the opportunity comes up. I relate to you, I’m a female. The reason I don’t make the room for a person is really just out of fear of giving up the things I love. Continue doing the things you love and someone who aligns with you will come along, you just have to be open to it.
/r/seduction21/12/21 11:33 AM
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You have reasoning for not owning a house. Don’t be insecure about it. It’s the insecurity that’s a put off, not the fact you don’t own a house. You’ve got ambition and that’s great. The house will come with time if you want it. Things like that aren’t permanent, and if the girl just likes a guy because of x amount of dollars and a house- neither is she.
/r/seduction21/12/21 11:29 AM
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She likes attention. Maybe she was sick or maybe something better came up. Tell her you were looking forward to the date and see how she responds
/r/seduction21/12/21 11:26 AM
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People often communicate their love language the way they like to receive it. Write her one back ❤️
/r/seduction21/12/21 11:15 AM
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Value doesn’t necessarily mean monetary value, it means having self worth and confidence to act authentically as yourself. Each to their own, but if you are trying to attract girls with your money or status … then is she really attracted to you? If anything I find peacocking a turn off, I would rather have quality conversation and learn about the person. Butttt it depends on the kind of girls you are after
/r/seduction21/12/21 11:00 AM
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I think (possibly) not acting in a way that feels naturally to you could be causing your anxiety. The best thing you can do is be yourself. Chicks get nervous too. Introverts are sexy and mysterious, you can still be assertive while not being the life of the party. OLD has made things a little overwhelming. Just don’t get caught up in the buffet mindset. It will burn you out PLUS We can tell if you are talking to 100 other girls. Get a few matches, have a quality conversation and see if things c…
/r/seduction21/12/21 10:56 AM
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If you are a nerd then own it. That’s fucking hot. Confidence in yourself is hot, don’t worry about dressing a certain way unless you feel comfortable. Hmm except T Back singlets. Don’t do it.
/r/seduction21/12/21 10:44 AM
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Being flirty - just take interest in her, and make it obvious you are interested in learning about her. Show her you are interested. If you like her hair, tell her etc Too often I come across guys that start peacocking rather than showing interest in me, and wonder why I walk away. I assume they weren’t interested.
/r/seduction21/12/21 10:41 AM
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I (32f) relate to you. I feel like there is this huge “I don’t need a man” movement. Or that we should all just be ok alone. Yah we should be ok alone, but it’s also normal to want a partner. I actually think being vulnerable and allowing a relationship is courageous. While solace is important, so is the feeling of being loved. Just becareful not to tie your self worth to it
/r/seduction21/12/21 10:37 AM
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This has happened to me (as the female). I was disappointed the guy didn’t make a stronger move, I took it as he wasn’t interested and just left it. I thought “If he likes me, I would know,” My advice would be to do something assertive, let her know that the kiss wasn’t a drunk mistake. Something like “I can’t stop thinking about our kiss that night” See how she responds. If she’s receptive, awesome! If not… we’ll you get clarification
/r/seduction21/12/21 10:32 AM
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