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deadbedrooming your female partner because she doesn't want to have anal or to be tied up and beaten during sex is the most pornsick, coombrained take I've ever seen. difficult to believe people like that exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:06 PM
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there is no data that suggests that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:59 PM
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besides gaining weight, those are the most invalid possible reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:19 PM
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maybe, or maybe men use porn even when they have a willing, attractive female partner. considering the vast majority of men use porn, it's probably the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:44 PM
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there are entire support subs for women whose husbands choose porn over them all the time. these women obviously want to fuck their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:20 PM
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never, never.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:18 PM
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why do men who can have sex regularly also jerk it to porn then? there are entire support subs for women whose husbands choose porn over them all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:16 PM
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child rearing should be split equally, the partner that doesn't work should do the majority of the homesteading.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:23 PM
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i want to be assigned a woman to have sex with because i need it =/= i want to have satisfying sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:02 PM
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women don't exactly get wet for a man's career neither, they just recognize it's important and a big bonus when it comes to relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:00 PM
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People who have money, don't care about money. there's a reason rich people have a reputation for being cheapskates. money matters to people who have money very much, and rich people have very closed off circles. there's no logic to a man dating below his class just because a woman is hot, because he can already find a hot woman in his circle. and he doesn't have to subsidize her living while they're together, since she's rich herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:43 AM
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no one said they make women more attractive, just that they matter. as long as we continue to live in a society where you need money to live, a woman's career will matter to a man when it comes to serious relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:35 AM
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They're probably not getting attention from the guys they would want attention from. that's not what "no male attention at all" means, so no, probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:36 AM
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women who don't try to appeal to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:29 AM
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sick formatting
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:54 PM
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condoms are the only form of birth control where if it fails you immediately know and can take other measures, so it's not all that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:31 PM
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to think that having sex with a lot of women is the ultimate life achievement, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:10 PM
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i'd say about a third is considered attractive about society, a third average (and then considered attractive or unattractive by individuals), and a third unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:09 PM
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(that they find good looking) they find women who put effort into their appearance good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:05 PM
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average women who do plenty to be attractive, like removing body hair, haircare and skincare, applying makeup and choosing flattering clothes. if a woman doesn't have to do any of those to be considered attractive by men, she is in the top 20 percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:57 PM
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jack black in school of rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:46 PM
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or the man lied to get what he wants. could be both.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:18 PM
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why wouldn't they? he lies that he will commit, the woman sleeps with him because she believes him, he gets what he wanted and leaves with no consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:17 PM
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if she doesn't have to do anything to be attractive, she is the top 20 percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:10 PM
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yes, i'm alluding to men that claim they found out looks are important only when they started dating as adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:07 PM
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yes but i don't see what that has to do with my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:02 PM
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in a way it's a privilege to get to adulthood not knowing that members of the opposite sex are only interested in you if you're physically attractive. girls learn this in elementary school.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 07:55 PM
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why have there never been cases of just average schmucks going outside, then treating a woman like a "human being" which results in them getting relationships? they do it all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 07:37 PM
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They think they have this magical power to spot a good personality. they don't think they have a magical power, they just make a judgement and hope they're correct, like most people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:48 PM
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It really pains me that I have to do this you can stop. you don't have to sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:09 PM
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extremely attractive women also have their comments full of average and below average men thirsting and dms full of average and below average men trying to take them on dates, i.e. trying to date up in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:07 PM
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It doesn't disprove the fact that women are shallower than men. it does exactly that. if you date and message people whose looks you rate lower, you're being less shallow than someone who doesn't date and message people whose looks they rate lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:53 PM
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most women spend their lives trying to conform to the male gaze.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:48 PM
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sounds more like a parent-child dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:46 PM
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this is an absurd comparison that isn't worth engaging with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:44 PM
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this reads like satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:22 PM
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ime, it's a thing. making yourself more attractive takes a lot of practice and figuring out what works and what doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:09 PM
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men who want commited, serious relationships probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:08 PM
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Men don’t really like short women that much couldn't be farther from what i've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:39 PM
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it has more to do with very strange priorities in life than with self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:38 PM
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For a woman it’s very easy, especially if willing to throw a few grand at it, to make themselves way hotter than nature intended. Fake perfect boobs, teeth, facial fillers, hair, make up and clothes. And throw going to the gym regularly on that and damn, these women are already too physically hot for most men. all of those cost way more than a few grand, and most women would never be able to afford it. most women are left working with what they've got.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:07 PM
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interesting to see that men do indeed have a height preference for shorter women from some of the stats posted here, considering how much i've seen men gaslight women that's not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:03 PM
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it's the biggest compliment if your biggest goal in life is to acquire casual sex easily, which is not a universal thing to aspire to at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:54 AM
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women find an 8 inch difference ideal =/= women cannot be genuinely attracted to men who don't fulfill that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:47 AM
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a loud minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:43 PM
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and yet unattractive and average guys treat their partners like shit all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:24 PM
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this implies that only good looking men pump and dump and that is not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:22 PM
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it's a paranoid delusion that some people have, not a real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:20 PM
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yes, the other commenter who said life experience sums up my thoughts well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:54 PM
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she has not had enough dating experience compared life experience, not necessarily dating experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:46 PM
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that's a great business idea actually, good for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:42 PM
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most women like tall men, but women with height preferences so rigid that they can't possibly be attracted to to men shorter than 6 feet are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:11 PM
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Guys are on average less delusional about their looks and status. iirc, studies show otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:04 PM
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did you respond to the right person? nothing in my comment suggests that i don't have empathy for men who get emotional over their health issues, or that health issues are an invalid reason to cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:02 PM
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they certainly don't matter enough that women who aren't attracted to them should date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:50 PM
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weight is visible in pictures, height is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:48 PM
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yes, or just accept that very attractive women with rigid height preferences don't want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:48 PM
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we should unite against the real enemy, 4'11''-5'2'' woman and 6'+ man couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:53 PM
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it's not unrealistic, it's not that uncommon for men to have extreme emotional reactions to sports. i know the RP theory, i just gave an example of an unimportant topic to get emotional about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:50 PM
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you can open up whenever, but not everyone is going to react well. most people will react well to a man opening up about grief or heartbreak, less people are going to react well to a man crying because his football team lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:37 PM
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women still get slutshamed, girls are still taught that boys only want one thing and not to give it to them and sex work is in not normalized, it's only been a little destigmatized.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:36 PM
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Society: being a promiscuous women doesn’t diminish your value or make you any less appealing this couldn't be farther from usual societal messaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:15 PM
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the women will be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:12 PM
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i wasn't talking about self made rich women, considering they're an extremely small minority even in wealthy circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:08 PM
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Especially by their female teachers i was alluding to this part of the OP. sure gossiping between kids was standard, it's the idea that teachers talk to kids about relationships i find strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:07 PM
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what does discussing relationships in a school setting look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:03 PM
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she encompasses multiple traits that a lot of men online hate, so that's probably why.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:47 PM
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i've never seen relationships discussed in a school setting and my parents never told me anything about relationships except to pick a good person. the idea that someone thinks society lied to them is completely alien to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:31 PM
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in my experience the venn diagram isn't a circle, but it's close.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:15 PM
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the typical wealthy woman has money to spend on gym classes, personal trainers, healthy food, cosmetic products and high quality cosmetic procedures.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:30 PM
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plastic surgery isn't the only beauty maintenance that costs money, and people who don't work in that industry are really bad at telling if someone's had any.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:26 PM
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it seems that a big thing the 'wealthy men don't care about wealth in women, so they will gladly date the hot waitress' crowd is missing is that wealthy women are also hot, and because taking care of your appearance costs money, maybe even hotter than their poor counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:07 PM
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Not sure why this sounds strange to you. If a guy makes good money, he will have no problem dating a woman who makes very little money but is more physically attractive. because this doesn't happen in real life, men overwhelmingly date and marry within their class.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:03 PM
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it's not hypergamy so they don't register it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:48 PM
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it's just pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:46 PM
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duh, you can't fuck a brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:38 PM
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women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:36 PM
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ok this is kind of funny
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:20 PM
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it will get you a guy that walks all over you and is maybe open to fucking you, but that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:21 PM
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haha woman dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:20 PM
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men did not grow up with the expectation that women cook for them they absolutely did
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:24 PM
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no, just a bit of maturity does not solve mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:05 PM
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what's the argument here? women are usually the ones in the relationship that decide on interior decor therefore they shouldn't be surprised that men won't do chores unless they're nagged?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:04 AM
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because they can and it would have a positive effect on both of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:49 AM
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yes, because the girls from porn would reject them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:06 AM
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depends if you count women are female and men are male as transphobia
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:37 AM
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checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:27 AM
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i don't care about your preference but viscerally hating tattoos is just a roundabout way of saying you have a stick up your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:01 AM
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persecution mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:01 PM
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if you spot her waiting for the school bus, yes, extremely.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:06 PM
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Those women *children
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:03 PM
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it's just embarassing to lust after someone who still has homework and p.e.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:00 PM
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fuck the table honestly tired analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:43 PM
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male homosociality
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:42 PM
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18 year olds are grown only in the legal sense of the word, and everyone's aware of that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:33 PM
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it's icky to normal, well adjusted adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:23 PM
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if that man is in high school, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:20 PM
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"women" that are 14 are children
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:01 PM
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men should really work on themselves then, 18 year olds are in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 08:59 PM
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How exactly is it a compliment to describe someone that you wouldn’t touch with a ten foot pole as “husband material”? this sounds like an imaginary scenario, i've never seen it happen. women call their boyfriends husband material, not random men that they find gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:59 PM
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the right doesn't have a solution for them either so
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:18 PM
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not what blue pill means. technically, everyone who doesn't believe 'women are the oldest teenagers in the room' is a bluepiller.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:04 PM
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your belief that husbands aren't seen as whole people, and that being seen as a forever partner is exactly the same as being seen as a hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:33 PM
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it's a compliment, some men don't seem to take it as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:29 PM
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plenty of women date exclusively for marriage, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:26 PM
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what?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:25 PM
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If she's not, its an insult. why are you sticking around if she's not?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:24 PM
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majority? how do you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:57 PM
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about as much as me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:47 PM
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i'll believe it when i see it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:44 PM
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it's just that being seen as husband material is miles better than being seen as a sex object
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:40 PM
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this post is what'd you call (word that rhymes with rope)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:41 PM
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i've never been interested in a man just because he was kind either. you probably lack the other qualities i mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:40 PM
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given that OF women are also not attracted to their male audience, not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 05:46 PM
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Do you think many still adhere to the “having it all mentality”? no, given the rise in childfree and voluntary celibate women. they're still the minority, but they used to be unheard of.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 05:45 PM
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now i want an ex that subsidizes my life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 05:37 PM
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if you're an attractive man you have a better chance of making a connection than someone who isn't duh, same with attractive women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 05:28 PM
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dms never, random follow requests maybe twice a year
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:31 PM
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i can tell that some random Hollywood actor is attractive, but i don't find him attractive. what's not to get?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:30 PM
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there is still no issue. people grow up and change their needs and preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:47 PM
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there is no issue
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:21 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/15hms6a/aitah_for_feeling_terrible_after_my_girlfriend/ which one of you wrote this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:20 PM
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kind, attractive, smart, not a coomer
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:17 PM
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don't spread misinformation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 10:10 PM
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a blockbuster feel good movie is not gonna discuss whatever you personally deem 'real problems'
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 07:44 PM
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all women have experienced pressure to be thin
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 05:37 PM
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On the one hand I can understand wanting to delegate a reckless point in time to being just a phase. However, if a guy was to say, "I went through a cheating phase where I cheating on numerous women back to back with their best friends and even family members." having consensual sex with many people is not as morally reprehensible as betraying a person you supposedly love
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 10:39 PM
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most men do not desire me and i'm fine
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:24 PM
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how would you feel if most men did not desire you no it's not
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:22 PM
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you have no way of knowing if they're healthy, just say "thin bodies" and go
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:05 PM
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They can continue cold approaching if they think that's the most efficient way to meet new women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:20 PM
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Sure, it's just that being approached on the basis of being deemed fuckable and nothing else can feel objectifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:42 PM
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Doesn't matter what they "lead with", no man cold approaches a woman he wouldn't have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:32 PM
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You haven't even named a privilege You are treated special, everything is easier for you to get, better privileges, control the dating market… need I go on? And you seem to use different ways of saying "privileged" as examples of a privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:15 AM
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Once i get a taste of these so called privileges I'll acknowledge them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:42 AM
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Sexual attraction is attraction on the basis of sexual desire or the quality of arousing such interest
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:06 PM
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women don't have to do anything in order to attract men You'd go into cardiac arrest if women en masse decided to show up to dates and places where men usually approach women unshaven, bare faced, and in comfortable, baggy clothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:34 AM
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it's bait. i wanna start saying "men who are tall (6'5"-6'8")..." and see what happens
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:00 AM
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