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Fundamentals Specific-Section9593/r/seduction14/06/26 11:42 AM
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ResourcesSpecific-Section9593/r/seduction09/04/26 04:47 PM
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Buddy I'm not here to debate if humans are social in same or different level. If you have any resources for learning game, send them.
/r/seduction28/07/26 05:14 PM
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I do that, the problem is I can never think of anything to say.
/r/seduction27/07/26 09:32 PM
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How can I work on social skill?
/r/seduction27/07/26 08:22 PM
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How exactly can I learn game?
/r/seduction27/07/26 04:41 PM
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How do I learn to talk to women? I can't think of anything to say
/r/seduction24/07/26 09:50 AM
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Can you point me to those resources that helped you?
/r/seduction23/07/26 08:12 PM
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I understand that talking and being social comes naturally to most people, however some of us are Neuro divergent and we don't know how to socialize. We've learned that "see where it goes" goes nowhere because we're awkward.
/r/seduction23/07/26 08:11 PM
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I've been asking for years how to talk to women and people tell me "just try bro". Like try what???
/r/seduction23/07/26 05:08 PM
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It's not "if a girl likes you", it's that NO girl has ever been interested.
/r/seduction06/07/26 07:52 AM
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Been going to the gym for years, working on my career, I still feel like a loser because girls dislike me.
/r/seduction05/07/26 05:28 PM
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What a dumb argument. You can be 100% independent, job, home, pets, friends but still have literally 0 success with women.
/r/seduction04/07/26 09:26 AM
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What is inner game and how do you work on it
/r/seduction04/07/26 08:42 AM
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Dude what the hell are you talking about? I literally said "if you can't think of a new way after those 3 failed"
/r/seduction30/06/26 12:28 PM
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I'm not sure if you're deliberately missing the point or genuinely don't understand what I'm trying to say. How can there be no wrong approach if there are no positive results? Let's say you try approach number 1 few times and it doesn't work. You change it and try approach number 2. This one doesn't work neither. Then you try number 3, doesn't work again but you can't think of anything else to try. Then what?
/r/seduction30/06/26 12:25 PM
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It's not an excuse, I want to understand how you overcome that problem. I don't know what it's like for most people, but for me I can never come up with things to say
/r/seduction30/06/26 12:20 PM
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But what if you have no idea what to try?
/r/seduction30/06/26 12:16 PM
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How exactly do you learn from mistakes? How do you know what's a mistake and what's due to external factors?
/r/seduction30/06/26 10:41 AM
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How can I actually develop flirting skills? And don't say just practice, I've been practicing and it's gotten nowhere.
/r/seduction17/06/26 10:57 PM
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I literally just said that I'm doing that
/r/seduction15/06/26 03:44 PM
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I do. They answer it, and I ask another one. It turns into an interview and never goes anywhere.
/r/seduction15/06/26 02:01 PM
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I never asked for a secret sauce. I asked for explanation how other people do it.
/r/seduction15/06/26 01:59 PM
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if there is no difference how come guys are friends with me, they message me, invite me to go out, but women never did? If I don't initiate a conversation with a women, she never does.
/r/seduction15/06/26 09:52 AM
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I don't understand how many times I need to repeat that I don't know how to talk. I have no idea what to say, how to behave. I'm not a social person, it doesn't come naturally to me I'm awkward and it repels women. Despite doing all of those things you've listed, nothing helped.
/r/seduction15/06/26 09:46 AM
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I've talked to hundreds women online. It's not about numbers. I literally don't know how to do it
/r/seduction15/06/26 09:00 AM
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I guess you didn't read my replies when I said I ask questions about them, but they don't talk anything else other than answering. They don't ask me anything, they don't initiate conversations, don't change topics. So tell me how can I be friends with someone who doesn't want to talk to me. What topics do generally men and women have in common? Why do I have no issues talking to guys without having common interests?
/r/seduction15/06/26 08:59 AM
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How do I build friendship with women though? If I don't initiate conversations they never do
/r/seduction15/06/26 08:56 AM
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How can I invoke a response?
/r/seduction15/06/26 08:51 AM
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It doesn't change that woman don't want to do anything with me
/r/seduction15/06/26 08:49 AM
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Of course I agree. I want her to enjoy spending time with me
/r/seduction15/06/26 12:43 AM
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You enjoy social activities, other people enjoy solo activities. What exactly is your point?
/r/seduction15/06/26 12:34 AM
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Who said we shouldn't respect women? Me trying to become social is somehow disrespectful?
/r/seduction15/06/26 12:33 AM
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I don't understand what are you trying to prove
/r/seduction15/06/26 12:31 AM
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Of course not. I'd ask her what things does she like, does she like restaurants or nature, sports or barbeque.
/r/seduction15/06/26 12:23 AM
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My natural is socially awkward. I wouldn't be asking for help if I could be social. I'm asking for help because I've had 0% success
/r/seduction15/06/26 12:21 AM
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I don't think I enjoy anything really. I just do what must be done
/r/seduction15/06/26 12:17 AM
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I'm not sure how is this supposed to help. I can enjoy doing things alone but it wouldn't make me friends or get me laid. I don't know how to socialize and no amount of enjoying activities is going to change that.
/r/seduction15/06/26 12:17 AM
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I don't really care about any activity, i care about the company. If I want to do something, I have no issue doing it alone, but lately the only thing I want to do is experience sex
/r/seduction15/06/26 12:06 AM
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How can I become better at making friends?
/r/seduction15/06/26 12:02 AM
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I think I'm already doing this. But it just turns into an interview and kills the conversation.
/r/seduction14/06/26 11:40 PM
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It wouldn't make any difference if the girl is the prettiest on the planet or the least attractive one. I would still have no idea how to talk to them. It has absolutely nothing to do with looks.
/r/seduction14/06/26 11:26 PM
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Okay but what after that?
/r/seduction14/06/26 11:21 PM
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I got to this point by analyzing the data, it's not jumping into conclusions. I have been disliked by most people throughout my life. Since primary school, high school, I have been bullied, left out, ignored, everyone from the class would get invited to parties except me. I thought it would get better but it's not. I'm very socially awkward, my awkwardness pushes people away. Sometimes I notice that someone wants to talk to me but I don't know how to react, I'm like "ummm". But that's for friend…
/r/seduction14/06/26 11:21 PM
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Okay but how exactly do I start conversations? What do I say? I'm socially awkward and it doesn't come naturally to me, there's literally nothing on my mind.
/r/seduction14/06/26 10:57 PM
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Sorry, I don't understand what you're saying. Can you explain please?
/r/seduction14/06/26 10:20 PM
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Yes i know what you mean, i literally can't think of anything to talk about. If the other person initiates, I try to follow back. But I can't come up with topics on my own
/r/seduction14/06/26 09:06 PM
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How? I'm literally asking how and i never get answer.
/r/seduction14/06/26 08:51 PM
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I understand, but how can I get more resources on that?
/r/seduction14/06/26 07:36 PM
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Other than the field videos, are there any other resources for me to learn from?
/r/seduction14/06/26 05:34 PM
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Well as much as you guys pretend that there's no right or wrong things to say, there are unwritten rules and things that are acceptable or unacceptable. With guys is different because guys often initiate conversations, women never did with me. Also, how do I flirt?
/r/seduction14/06/26 05:13 PM
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I don't understand your question, what do you mean by AI? Also what I'm trying to say is that even if I fail 100 time but don't understand what I did wrong, or how it's supposed to be done properly, how would I learn?
/r/seduction14/06/26 03:43 PM
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You still had reference about how it should be done so you compared yourself to it. I don't know what or who to compare to. I just see guys doing it with ease while I can't do it despite trying
/r/seduction14/06/26 03:41 PM
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In most social situations. But it's similar online as well
/r/seduction14/06/26 03:40 PM
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I don't live in a big place, it's quite limited here. And i didn't see a point in trying considering I have no idea how to do it
/r/seduction14/06/26 03:37 PM
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I have talked to 20 in person and 200 online
/r/seduction14/06/26 03:30 PM
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Well i usually don't talk to women in person, mostly online but that's pretty much correct.
/r/seduction14/06/26 03:27 PM
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Could you be a little more specific about which posts because there are thousands. Do I sort by date, by best or something else?
/r/seduction14/06/26 03:21 PM
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I'm 99% sure it's not about my looks, or money, or anything external. I work out, don't have a great body but I know what to fix and how to do it. I dress decently, visiting the barber regularly. Sometimes I get compliments from people, mostly guys. I don't think I'm needy, I probably act opposite of that - stiff, reserved, cold, awkward. My opinion is that my main issue is with socialization, being fun, interesting. And that's what I don't know how to improve.
/r/seduction14/06/26 03:20 PM
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The difference that I've tried talking, many many times. Both online and in person, yet I've never had positive results. So I'm either doing something wrong without realizing, or not doing enough. Another difference is the feedback, with talking there's no palpable feedback. When you are rejected/ignored, it can be about something you've said earlier but she kept chatting for little more out of friendliness. It could also be that I did everything fine but she just didn't like me for other reason…
/r/seduction14/06/26 02:58 PM
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Which is preciesley why I am looking for help thats more than "just go out and be social".
/r/seduction14/06/26 01:58 PM
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Bro "just go out" is not advice. I can be outside 24/7 and not have any progress. I can talk to 1000 people and still be clueless if I don't understand what I'm doing wrong.
/r/seduction14/06/26 01:42 PM
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How would I start a group with zero knowledge about the topic? Also I literally asked how to learn to be more expressive and you tell me to just be more expressive? How does that even work
/r/seduction14/06/26 01:41 PM
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My town doesn't have any improv classes or even a theater. What are other ways to learn this skill?
/r/seduction14/06/26 01:31 PM
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I don't understand what you mean
/r/seduction14/06/26 01:28 PM
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I understand the idea, but how do I act once in those situations? How do I approach them, what do I talk about after the introduction etc
/r/seduction14/06/26 01:23 PM
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Because I can't socialize
/r/seduction09/04/26 07:30 PM
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I'm sure there's better advice out there than "just be confident".
/r/seduction09/04/26 05:52 PM
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How do I find such events How do I act and socialize there
/r/seduction09/04/26 05:47 PM
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It's horrible
/r/seduction09/04/26 05:30 PM
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I have.
/r/seduction09/04/26 05:24 PM
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Where's the normal dating advice?
/r/seduction09/04/26 05:10 PM
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