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It talked about how women can put sex on the back burner because there’s more important things to do, but for men it’s usually on the forefront of their minds. The washing up can be done after sex for them, but a lot of women would like the house to be clean before engaging in extracurricular affairs. There’s other sayings like this, “women want to be relaxed to have sex, men have sex to relax”. However, to men in otherwise healthy and loving relationships, this was incredibly painful for them. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:28 AM
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Barely ever. But it happened. I'm far from a chad buddy.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 10:18 PM
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I would say less than 30%
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 03:18 PM
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nobody said they are the majority
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 03:15 PM
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Are you pursuing several women at once?
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 02:10 PM
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you still did not reply
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 02:08 PM
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They do. But they won't accept a man who is asexual/demisexual/low sex drive it seems.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 02:07 PM
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Many did. Like me. Again people try like asexual, demisexual or low sex drive men don‘t exist. Almost seems like they want us wiped out of the earth.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 02:33 AM
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Again, men with low sexual drives get mocked and you guys act like they do not even exist.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 01:49 AM
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I don't know what you are up to. I was never speaking of the majority of single men. Just that this is the reason why many men are virgin. Because most women can never love a man for romantic things like hugging, kissing and cuddling only. Most of them crave sex at some point and thus will not give these men a chance. Because they think they have to wait for too long.
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 08:52 PM
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That does not change the fact that these men are not still virgin because they did not have any chances. No, they are still virgin because many women expect sexual escalation and do not want to wait for a man. Because most women would not wait to have sex for a man and cannot be convinced otherwise by logic. It's probably an emotional thing deeply rooted in evolutional history. A man that does not push for sex, probably will not give you offspring.
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 08:48 PM
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I am 26 myself. So did you ever have chances with women or not at all? Yes, I'm glad we are similar as well. I see. I am not too sure if women completely abhor shy men. They might even find it cute in the beginning. But I agree, probably at one point they want the person to come out of the shell. I think I'm kinda shy too and coming out of a shell is probably a problem I have too. I understand, very few understand me in general. I just think that few of us sexually unsuccessful men relate to you…
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 07:38 PM
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Yeah, no way around that. It is a problem and I’m sorry you have it. I know I’m a minority in many things, so I understand you. Thank you a lot for being so insightful. May I ask you how old you are? Sorry for being a minority oftentimes too. It often makes things very difficult. I’m part of the group of straight men who have a high sex drive but don’t fulfill it because it’s so extremely hard. So we aren’t far off. I want to tell you that you won’t find other men who relate to you, but I sympat…
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 06:50 PM
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Thanks for the tip. Anyways, I might need to start from scratch. I honestly cannot see myself in an improv class.
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 06:26 PM
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What exactly changed or how did you solve this problem? Glad to hear it's better now.
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 06:25 PM
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So you were attracted to these women as well? Thank you for the empowerment friend! Well, the thing is, I don't really do much banter with my friends. So obviously I'm also not doing it with said women. I am sometimes saying funny things, but never directed to that person in particular. Rather than saying “wow that’s awesome you do such an important job” you could say “you like to stab people and play with their blood?! YOURE SICK!” Thanks for the tip. I can definitely see how this comes accross…
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 06:09 PM
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Yeah. But I’d like to note that even among virgin men, those who are not obsessed with sex are a minority. This still does not change the fact, that these kind of men will probably stay virgin. Because so many women out there perceive a lack of sexual push by a man as disinterest in general. I think no logic and talk can convince a woman otherwise. It's probably an emotional thing, deeply rooted in evolutionary history. "A man that does not want sex, does not give me offspring." Still, I underst…
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 05:59 PM
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Colleagues and coworkers and such just women that I had contact with. One was a classmate from school. That's interesting. What answer did you give them? Low sex drive: get your life together. Nutrition, exercise, jerk off less. Then talk to a doctor. A lot of things are going wrong in life and I'm in a place I don't like and even feel like I can't get out of, feels like a prison. As for asexual, Demi sexual etc my (unprofessional) advice would be to appeal to a woman’s flirty side not necessari…
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 05:45 PM
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That's interesting. So we're in a pretty similar boat. How many women did you have sex with? The thing is, I think I was never sexually attracted enough to a woman to have sex with her right away. And this is where we come back to my main point. Men like me or similar to me are virgins, because we did not sexually escalate. Men that are born asexual, demisexual or are depressed, anxious, autistic etc
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 05:42 PM
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I see, how old are both of you?
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 05:26 PM
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So you just waited a week? I don't think that's much honestly, just from my demisexual, low sex drive perspective
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 05:19 PM
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More realistically it's because you just weren't interested enough in her to have sex with her. Do you think this is a thing? That I might have "tricked" my mind into thinking I love her? Who knows. But then I seriously wonder what is wrong with me. I am 26 and so that would mean I was never interested enough in a woman. Maybe it's also due to to much porn use. Half of my life (13 years now) I have been watching porn (including several breaks because of Nofap/Semenretention)
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 05:18 PM
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I know I'm a minority in general, but so are also virgin men in general my age. For whatever reason they are still virgin. That still does not solve the problem, that men who are waiting for sex or do want to get to know the woman better, usually are not socially accepted and in the end most women will use interest because they perceive it as a lack of sexual interest.
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 05:16 PM
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don’t escalate sexually with girls i actually want until after im shre their into me Well, how long are we talking about?
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 05:10 PM
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Thank you. Anyways, it would still be perceived as disinterest by women if a man does not escalate sexually.
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 05:06 PM
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Not true at all. Speak from your own perspective. I was heavily interested in this woman. And I am still heartbroken after 6 months and long for her. I should have just forced myself to have sex. But I was waiting for some reason. imagine if the woman was replaced with say Madison Beer or whichever other celebrity you find insanely hot. She shows all signs that she would be receptive to your sexual advances. You would have gone for it 100%, and as quickly as you could, there would be no anxiety,…
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 05:05 PM
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Then what about the men, that are waiting for sex, because it's not a priority for them? It will be interpreted as disinterest by most women because the man is not pushing and not going for sexual escalation. But sexual escalation by the man is expected by many women. It was probably a reason for a breakup with a girl I was dating, because I was not sexually escalating and wanted to wait and get to know here better a bit. I think this is a reason why many men are still virgin. Why do we have to …
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 04:55 PM
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What is so hard to grasp about that post? Edit: Sorry, I read the title again. It should be "I think many adult men are not virgins because they never could get sex, but because they never understood the appeal of sex"
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 04:50 PM
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a point in my life What age are you? why did you never make a move? I was always so in to you What type of women said that and where did they say that? Shoot all the shots, from half court, the bleachers, just keep firing. You never know who is secretly crushing on you, you may be surprised how desirable you are. But what if I have a low sex drive, am asexual, demisexual etc? Then how would I shoot my shot if I don't even want sex in the first place.
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 04:38 PM
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I would not be sure about that. What about asexual men?
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 04:36 PM
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Women want sexual escalation Unfortunately this is the case. If you don't sexually escalate as a man for whatever reason, you're doomed. So RIP for asexual, demisexual, depressive, anxious, autistic etc men
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 04:35 PM
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What is so hard to grasp about that post?
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 04:34 PM
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I think it's a bit of both. Some just are not interested in sex at all, and some don't know how to deal with women. Obviously both can be the same.
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 04:34 PM
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Dealing with women aint that hard So what are general tips you have?
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 04:33 PM
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but I definitely was taken advantage of in my early years How come? Like in what way do you think? I am sorry for that. It honestly accelerated my understanding of the way the world works which led to me being the person I am today. This is a great thought process.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:08 PM
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Congrats! Well thanks, but she lost interest anyways. And yes, probably. What age did you start dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:44 AM
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It was extremely common for people to meet someone they weren’t initially attracted to and end up seeing that person as the most attractive person alive. I would also assume that this happened more often. Even instagram is a ‘dating’ app for women if we are being honest. Who do you tell. Actually I met the one woman I dated over Instagram. And yes, she got a lot of attention there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:28 AM
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I believe you. I wonder what has changed. Do you also think many women got more self-centered as they got countless validation from social media and dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:25 AM
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I’ve been dating 25 year old women for 20 years You should make a post about that. I wonder what changed. Also highly interested as I recently dated a 25 yo (I'm 26 myself).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:07 AM
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Yes, thank you for listening to me. I wish all the best for you too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:34 PM
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Probably. But then I don't get why you would tell another person that you love him. Anyways, I'm not without mistakes too and it's almost 6 months ago. I really should get over it. I still hope all the best for her, as deep inside she truly is a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:21 PM
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Thank you for answering. Yes, it must be one of those three options probably. No matter what option it is, she is gone. Probably I just was an escape/rebound for her previous relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:32 PM
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makes sense, but texting daily for that short fling over months? Taking about your whole life and parents? And telling me she loved me? I think she just lost interest
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:23 PM
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Unfortunately, yes. Thank you for the answer! I don't know why she came on so strong in the first place. Maybe I was a rebound. So maybe she changed her mind during dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:55 PM
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I see man. I wish you all the best. Great on you cutting down weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:54 PM
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Thank you a lot for replying! Really? Wow. Do you think some women use the word "love" so easily? The "specialness" you're holding out for is always going to be a one sided delusion. I'm probably leaving in a dream world then. I was just one of many guys probably. The problem is that I often was not attracted to the other women I could have lost my virginity with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:50 PM
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Unfortunately, yes. Thank you for the answer! I don't know why she came on so strong in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:46 PM
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Well we also had face time calls. And she told me she is in love. So what? But the love even continued when we met in person. But I understand what you mean, it sounds ridiculous given my age. Unfortunately I couldn't do anything but madly fall in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:41 PM
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Yes, but that is the only option. And thank you, you too! Did you have chances too?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:33 PM
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Well we also had face time calls. And she told me she is in love. So what? But the love even continued when we met in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:31 PM
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It's because she said she loves me and it was my first relationship at 26. I was waiting for someone special. Which all ended up in this disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:25 PM
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lol, I'm also 26 and virgin. And no, my regular post was deleted and said I should post here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:17 PM
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​ One thing that stood out to me at the coffee shop was that her friend suddenly acted a bit different and condescending towards me. The first two times I met her she was super nice and welcoming to me. But now in hindsight then at the coffeeshop I assume I was a loser in her best friends eyes. Probably as I did not have sex with my ex yet or maybe her best friend thought I could not "get it up". For example she mocked me when I pronounced something wrong in her language, a new foreign language …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:04 PM
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How can men with a low sexual drive even date when most women think sex is one of the most important things in a relationship? Seems like it's not really socially accepted for men to wait for sex. I (M26) messed up another chance to get an amazing girlfriend and lose my virginity. You can only read part 5, part 6 and part 13 if you want to skip a bit of text. I think this is the perfect sub to discuss this subject, as it is so unusual and so many different philosophies are present here. So I gue…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:03 PM
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