SpecificHamFlavour Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
31	Women, what is your perception of the male experience? What do you think life is like for us, or in what ways do you imagine or see it differing?	Question For Women	SpecificHamFlavour	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 09:26 AM

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1	What can autistic guys do to not make women feel like predators? my 2 cents but as someone slightly spicy on the SNT spectrum Ive found women to be pretty accepting. I once told a women about the hydrological data for the local rivers I had gathered since the last years drought and she went on a second date with me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 10:27 AM
1	Does anyone else think flirting is so embarrassing? HEY KRAYON come on, tell us about 1 instance of a flirting encounter you think was nice or you found endearing or was positive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 10:23 AM
1	Does anyone else think flirting is so embarrassing? its one of those high risk mediocre reward things, which is why I dont participate. If I flirt, I have 0.5 chance to charm you slightly, and a 0.5 chance to ruin everything and never see you again. If I dont, I have a 0.9 chance at a second date. Wow, what shall I pick, its so difficult.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 10:21 AM
4	Men do you have any natural programmed simp reactions and have you ever gotten away with it? I sort of understand where youre coming from. Its a kneejerk "thing" to have a sort of pattern to women, and you should train yourself to resist it and NOT do it. Do not go out of your way to expend any more energy than the bare minimum. Just remember, any energy you spend now is energy not spent on your future wife. Do not indebt yourself to strangers, and you should save everything you can for her whenever she enters the picture.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 10:15 AM
1	Communication and Texting Being submissive to him is fine, but you are entitled to the benefits and care that that brings, and you need to make sure to speak up. Submissive, not neglected, and not uncared for. You deserve the same love you give to him.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/12/23 09:50 AM
0	this might be an unpopular opinion but dating the top 20% of men are overrated. Just get you an average man and live an average lifestyle. Dating the top 20% of men is not what its cracked up to be I dont know what to say, but this is the most bizarre opinion. What is the general case for the midpoint formula in 2D graphing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 09:37 AM
3	this might be an unpopular opinion but dating the top 20% of men are overrated. Just get you an average man and live an average lifestyle. Dating the top 20% of men is not what its cracked up to be I am one of these guys. In real life I have probably a 20% chance of getting a womans number or some way to contact her. Im good with speaking and body language and I have good energy. On apps its so bad that ive picked up more dates IRL. I just feel sad, but Im also part of 6 different rotating social groups and thats like 200 women to expose myself to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 09:34 AM
1	this might be an unpopular opinion but dating the top 20% of men are overrated. Just get you an average man and live an average lifestyle. Dating the top 20% of men is not what its cracked up to be I dont date top 20% women for the same reason I dont date supermodels. I am not a supermodel. Im like, uh, the model you hire to get the stock footage of inserting the pizza pop into the microwave and pressing the On button.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 09:29 AM
1	this might be an unpopular opinion but dating the top 20% of men are overrated. Just get you an average man and live an average lifestyle. Dating the top 20% of men is not what its cracked up to be not to disrespect, but this phrasing makes you sound like youre 15 and think that love is some kind of wholesome game of passion. I really dont think you meant to come off like that either, people categorize and rank people and everyone here has experienced the feeling of "being the back up plan". i do agree with you the trend inverts near the top, I have heard, anecdotally, that super attractive women sometimes have a hard time dating because its hard to distinguish between who genuinely likes …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 09:15 AM
1	If a woman’s value is tied to her looks, why should she NOT start cheating once she becomes undesirable? I see what you mean but I think your strategy is wrong. My suggestion is to change your strategy from "yes, this is possible but it will be condemned" to "Under no circumstance should this be tolerated and anyone even remotely involved should be reprimanded harshly". Do. Not. Tolerate. This.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 08:31 AM
0	If a woman’s value is tied to her looks, why should she NOT start cheating once she becomes undesirable? too many beers! ayyyyyy me too! cheers! I wish you the best! I think you are right though. No one ever tells women to be humble. the accountant who provides and saves and nurtures and loves will be dumped. Why? because only at around 40 to 45 do women experience what life is like for men for their whole lives. No love, no care, no compassion. Alot of women have a hard time coping.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 08:29 AM
0	Men should be able to "emotionally cheat" This isnt strictly relevant, but I wanted to bring it up on the off chance someone responds. As a man, I would feel WAY less emotional if my woman partner cheated on me with a woman than a man. I dont know why this is. If my wife slept over at a girlfriends house and they did the ol' pearl polishing and roughin' up the clam, I just dont feel it the same way. If she slept over at a guys house, I would be out for fucking blood. Not actually, but I said that to illustrate the gulf between the two. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 08:13 AM
0	Men should be able to "emotionally cheat" I think perhaps we should consider how we view cheating. Personally, I would only feel betrayed if I became less relevant to her. I want to know I contribute to her well being. I enjoy making her a nice meal when shes had a hard day. I am here to fulfill her, and while I recognize I will never be a woman, i would be emotionally broken if I could not give her anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 08:04 AM
–	What do you believe is the benefit of your specific "Pill" philosophy? Stop taking these pills. You are a feminist. You are not incapable of acknowledging that perhaps men may face certain problems? Congrats you are now human pilled. You are an MRA. You understand that women have face hardship in their lives and that in order to be a good person, you need to acknowledge their struggles. Congrats on your human pilled. My life and my ability to empathize improved when I stopped subscribing to labels (but I still use labels because they are good summarization tools). …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 07:23 AM
3	If the man doesn't like the woman more the relationship will never work out. Youtubers and red pill men need to stop telling women to pursue men. Men hate to be pursued and feel uncomfortable with a woman thirsting after him What the kentucky fried christ am I reading? I self identify as an mra and I always get suspicious posts like these are a disinformation campaign to make us look bad. I would be happy if a woman said hello. I would be happier if she asked to get some coffee.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 06:20 AM