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| 6 | Are We Dating the Same Guy?Don’t worry about it. If anything, your dating life is improved if you have a reputation as a bit of cad. Obviously if someone accuses you of something awful you should take action to minimize reputational harm but too many men get spooked by the mere existence of these sites. | /r/seduction | 05/08/26 08:21 PM |
| 1 | What does your social life look like?Friday and Saturday, usually one date and one social event. But I’m old, if I were young I could do more. Social events on Saturday, sometimes date spots on Friday, the occasional weekday spot with friends. I am more reserved but can talk to people. For a number? 5-10 minutes of solid conversation and interest. For a date off a first-time meet? 20-30 minutes. For a hookup? If that conversation and interest organically rolls into a hang that night. Yes. | /r/seduction | 28/07/26 04:50 PM |
| 2 | People with extreme anxiety, how do you manage to cold approach?Talk to people, talk to everyone. Don’t only cold approach when it’s a hot girl you’d like to date. Talk to men when you walk by them in the street, talk to older ladies at the grocery store, talk to workers in stores when you’re shopping. Give friendly compliments, make small observations, tell them about the day you’re having. If you’re a socially anxious person who only talks to a stranger when it’s a beautiful woman for the purpose of getting their number, you’re trying to jump right into th… | /r/seduction | 25/07/26 07:04 PM |
| 11 | Do you always pay for dinner on datesYes, and I do so like it isn’t even in question. Obviously if a woman insisted on paying I’d let her but they never do. This might vary slightly based on age and location but I can’t imagine how not paying would ever work in your favor. | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 11:30 PM |
| 3 | How much exposure do you actually need to create real abundance?If you’re attractive and in a decently-sized city, between the apps and a busy social life you should be able to have enough going on that you have a full dance card. A lot depends on how much you want to actually see people. I’m a little older (mid-30s) and keep a pretty strict gym regimen so during the busy season (late Spring through early Fall) I try to schedule one social event and one date per weekend. Social event can sometimes turn into a semi-date during or afterwards. If you have more … | /r/seduction | 26/06/26 02:57 PM |
| 7 | Best way to take your main dating-profile picBlazer, button up shirt with the top two buttons unbuttoned, at an obviously expensive nice restaurant. Can’t lose. | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 03:37 PM |
| 18 | Game > Looksmaxxing?Clav has always been open about being an awkward autist who got into “looksmaxxing” in order to overcome his other deficiencies. He can be off-putting in person although sometimes girls dig the weird shit if you’re hot enough. | /r/seduction | 21/06/26 06:49 PM |
| 6 | Sleeping for the first time with a new woman or again with one you know?New Is Always Better. | /r/seduction | 20/06/26 09:29 PM |
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