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I think you need to make sure you have a few close friendships so you will have someone you can lean on emotionally. I specifically mean women friends. If your man isn't really meeting your needs emotionally, I think male friendships could tread into dangerous territory, even if you enter into it with the purest of intentions. But with women friends, you'll have people you can chat with about your day, how you're feeling, etc. I do not mean you should bash your husband to them, though -- that is…
/r/RedPillWives10/01/25 10:33 PM
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Good question
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:37 PM
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lol you're here bragging that word got around about your size and women lined up for a 3some?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:07 AM
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9/10, I get mine within one minute of my husband penetrating me... So what? What is this post trying to prove or achieve?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:03 AM
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Yeah it ebbs and flows...never less than once a week...average probably 2-5 times a week. And I'm trying to start giving him a BJ to completion at least once a week. I realized I was slacking and it was only like 1-2 times a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:14 AM
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What do you consider a long term relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:04 AM
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lol I've been with my husband for 14 years and we have "been through things" of various varieties over the years and have never gone more than like 10 days I don't think...even in the worst of times... Every time I see "once a month" in relationships, I'm like...oh my
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:04 AM
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Nice edit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:47 AM
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It's good to know you've never "forced" your partners to give you a bj. Weird verbiage there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:42 AM
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That is an exaggeration
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:40 AM
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Are you attracted to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 10:16 PM
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Yep. People conveniently love to leave Elliot Rodger out of these conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:22 PM
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A person's "value" can go up or down throughout life. This is true for men or women. It also depends on the specific person they are looking to attract. Red Pill types claim that women's "value" go down as we get older. But a woman can have a glow up in her 30s and be more attractive to the opposite sex than she ever was. And maybe the biological clock is a turnoff to men who still want kids...but to a childfree man of similar age, this isn't a problem at all. To a man who is looking for a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 06:57 PM
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In the US, men really aren't forced to lay down their lives on the battlefield. There hasn't been a draft call in more than 50 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 06:47 PM
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I don't have a problem with it, I just know who I'm dealing with when I see it used with any level of seriousness
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:11 PM
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Wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:00 AM
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Ahh yes you know all about women's mindsets
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:09 AM
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Guys all say they like women with no makeup or low maintenance woman...but it's not true
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:03 AM
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Anyone who uses "Chad" unironically can never be taken seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:52 AM
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Do you know how much work goes into being attractive as a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 02:48 AM
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There are many people who are in relationships or married who still get plenty of alone time. It will get a little more difficult if there are kids involved though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:58 AM
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There have been multiple studies that challenge what you are saying here and what many people believe, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:56 AM
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Beautifully said! There are many times when being married is LESS stressful than being single simply because you have someone to lean on. Like...you lose your job, and it's definitely going to affect household finances. But if you were single, you'd be completely fucked because of having zero income coming into the house. While if you're married, your spouse's income can possibly help float you until you get another job, or at least help. Or you are dealing with a medical issue, and your spouse …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:47 AM
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I had the exact same thought. Like, the whole post, it seemed like he was almost getting it...then he did some kind of backflip because he trusts MGTOW Redditors and YouTubers more than science and facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:38 AM
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You're literally taking the word of "MGTOW groups" over scientific studies lol Your entire post is you almost getting it, but then you flip it around.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:33 AM
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You would see how low a man's beauty standards are if you actually tried dating someone in your own leauge, and if you don't, then you're not allowed to complain when the guy you want doesn't want you back. The vast majority of complaining i see here isn't this. It's men whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:02 PM
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In general, neither men nor women are loved "unconditionally" by their partners/spouses. Unconditional love is like...Paris Bennett. He raped and killed his 4-year-old sister when he was 13, and his mom still loves him. She's afraid of him, she's angry with him, she's horrified by his actions...he broke her heart and truly broke her as a human being...but she still loves him because he is her son. Relationships are pretty much never like that. Your love is conditional. If you found out your spou…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:01 PM
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Why do women write Chris Watts in prison? Some people, men or women, are into that kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:48 PM
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If you think the average childfree woman gets more help from the government than the average childfree man, I think you need to do some research.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:10 AM
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Yeah...it's usually the woman who actually goes through the legal process first...because it's usually us who handle these types of things. I know when my husband gets a speeding ticket, I'm the one who has to call a lawyer for him, just as I'm the one to schedule dentist appointments and so on. Heaven forbid something unforeseen goes terribly wrong in our marriage, I can almost guarantee you I'd be the one to have to contact a lawyer or deal with court paperwork first, even if he was the one wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 12:09 AM
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You do know that not every interaction with the opposite sex has to do with them "going for you." Friendly conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:05 PM
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Some of these guys don't know how much they're telling on themselves about their TikTok algorithms and preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:09 PM
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It's a start I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:26 PM
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If this is true, why does it seem to bother men so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 09:11 PM
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it feels like you’re arguing with a bit of a straw man here. Nobody responds to “i want to date more” with “go to therapy” - it’s often when said struggling person gets into their weird pill related theorizing that’s clearly based off internal issues. Exactly. The "therapy" recommendation is generally given to guys who seem to be revolving their lives around this "pill" stuff and dating. In fact, that's sort of the point...someone recommends therapy to this guy, and his response is to start argu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 09:07 PM
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Excellent rule of thumb!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:03 AM
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My husband doesn't do bars. I do, but only occasionally. I don't let men buy me drinks, or if they do, I buy them one back so I don't "owe them." I actually learned that YEARS ago when I was single. Never let a man buy you a $12 drink, he thinks you owe him your full attention and probably a blowjob or something. Fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:02 AM
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Yeah, I hope he shares a link to his online community. I, for one, am pro monogamy. Going on 14 years!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:58 AM
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What state?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:56 AM
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It was more of a "that's really original?" There are tons of social media accounts and video channels and stuff of monogamous couples and families and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:50 AM
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You think my comment was aggressive?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:48 AM
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I'm a woman and I think it's silly to get mad about a guy LOOKING. It's the touching and creepiness that is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:17 AM
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You're going to make a blog encouraging people to be monogamous? Okay, that's a really original idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:39 AM
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They never take 50 percent of the non custodial parent's check.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:01 PM
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I've never met a man who can handle responsibility or pressure like a woman. Never.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:13 AM
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Mmmhmmm you got it all figured out there buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:08 AM
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Do you see male lawyers marrying female gas station attendants? What kind of answer is this? This is such a common trope on this subreddit, and it's ridiculous. Successful lawyers and men with money aren't trolling the local trailer parks in search of a long-term girlfriend. They *might* fuck a gas station attendant or waitress, but they're generally looking for people who are much closer to their social class. A doctor is more likely to marry a fellow doctor or lawyer. He might marry an RN, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:22 PM
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I'm married. I'm also almost certainly quite a bit older than you and have seen this play out many, many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:20 AM
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Men prefer when women make less than them because it gives them leverage. They get to always bring it up in arguments or just generally hold over the woman's head. They get to brag to their buddies and just feel big in their own heads that "she spends all my money." Men LOVE making women feel inadequate in relationships and always want to feel like top dog in the house, so having a higher income helps. Then later, after insisting on being the breadwinner and provider in the household, they cry a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 06:05 AM
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In general, men like to make women feel like they are "less than" in the relationship. It's easier for them to do when they are the breadwinner. They financially support the family and can come home to their stay-at-home mommy wife and constantly remind her that she's the lazy one who stays home all day while he works hard. Most of us women have witnessed this first-hand with parents, friends, maybe ourselves (never me), so we KNOW how it is. But then, even if the woman is the breadwinner, the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:56 AM
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I'm the breadwinner and my husband is still the "dominant" one in our relationship. 14 years together/10 years married this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:52 AM
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Have you ever had a long-term relationship with a Filipino woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:25 PM
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The whole appeal of women from developing countries is that they are more traditional, you know. But guys think they're about to get some submissive woman and it usually doesn't work out that way. I grew up in a military town where it was common for military retirees to marry much younger Asian women. These women wear the pants in the relationship and rule their households with an iron fist, barely tolerate their husbands, and expect their husbands to support a very nice lifestyle for them AND s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:23 PM
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Passport bros are so delusional, they actually think these women like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:20 PM
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Where was it said how many baby daddies they had?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:19 PM
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Why would you go to a feminist sub to talk about men's issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:15 PM
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Why is it low effort? Also, that's a dumb and irrelevant quote.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:10 PM
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Do you think promiscuous men are experts in dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:34 PM
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Only people who are that know what "KVHV" means lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:54 PM
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Lol touche
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:52 PM
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They get their ideas and info from other non sex having Redditors lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:20 AM
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It's obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:08 AM
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Thank goodness for marriage, it's a beautiful thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:51 AM
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The particular brand of weirdo that you find here probably hasn't had sex ever and almost certainly hasn't had "lots of sex" or whatever you said in your prior comment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:50 AM
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They argue with women on this sub like they know everything but probably divert their eyes when they see women in public lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:48 AM
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Maybe the ones who are starving haven't figured it out yet and should therefore defer to the ones who have
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:43 AM
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What? I'm too drunk for this. Dumb it down plz
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:19 AM
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You can be an expert without having a high n count, but I forget that's something yall think about a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:11 AM
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I didn't ask. It was a statement, not a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:05 AM
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I get the impression that you think you're a really smart guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:05 AM
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They can certainly talk about issues but prob shouldn't act like experts in grocery shopping
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:04 AM
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Why do these guys act like experts though? lmao it's so hilarious when they write out a whole thesis about what sex, relationships and marriage are like but have never kissed a girl. Some of them are already stressed about alimony and child support lmao but have legit never gotten their thing wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:02 AM
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I mean there's legit a girl at a bar near you right now who at least wants to make out with somebody lol. Like right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:01 AM
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Oh all day every day, it's ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:43 AM
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But some talk like they are experts and know everything lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:41 AM
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Is that really what you think goes on here? Calm and balanced views toward sex by people who have never done it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:36 AM
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I'm a what? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:23 AM
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Correct. It's a shitty example all around. These guys will find any random TikTok and use it as "evidence" that society is against men lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 01:25 AM
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I learned as a young woman not to let men buy me a drink or food. I'd either split the bill, or buy them a drink back, or refuse completely. It didn't take long to learn that a lot of men, at the very least, feel entitled to your attention after buying a $6 drink you didn't even want. In many cases, they act like buying you a second drink is their ticket to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:38 PM
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You literally picked a video from a right-wing TikTok channel by Herschel Walker's son and are trying to say this is a reflection of progressiveness? Most right-wing channels from either gender are going to have these types of comments lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:31 PM
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you don't know much about the movement you're talking about, since most fat acceptance, etc. people prefer to be called "fat." It's clothing stores that call the clothing "plus size," but they call the men's stuff "big & tall," so, nobody is calling anyone "fat." Most people in the "fat acceptance" movement prefer the term "fat."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:16 AM
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lol bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:14 AM
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OMG you think fat men don't date slender women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:14 AM
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Join the real world, bro. How many women are demanding that you take them on expensive vacations? Probably none. Get off Reddit and "Red Pill" social media, and go out into the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:13 AM
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I'm sure that really sucks. I do have empathy for people who struggle. To me, the best solution is to settle down with someone you love and are sexually compatible with. Going on 14 years and it's great, and I'm never unsatisfied in that department.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:53 AM
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I have a very high libido and consider sex to be very important. I still think it's unhealthy to not even want to leave the house unless it's going to result in having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:28 PM
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I see fat guys with slim girls every day. In all age groups. I see ugly men with pretty girls, ugly girls with handsome men, and fat girls with thin men. OnlyFans and dating apps aren't the real world. The truth is maybe you find fat women disgusting, but some men find a bigger girl more attractive than a thinner one. People have different preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:14 PM
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It really doesn't seem healthy to have your entire worldview and life revolve around sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:12 PM
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Why are you pretending that it's only men who show interest in fat women? Fat men with slim/average women is not uncommon and is not anything new. Look up Luke Combs (the country singer) and his wife. It's not just the money...those types of pairings are very common where I live (southern US). Big, fat redneck with a huge, bushy beard, paired with younger, slender, high-maintenance looking women. I see couples like that every day. And these are the first guys who will be like "Eww, no fat chicks…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:08 PM
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If men are paying for a fat woman's OnlyFans, it's because they are attracted to fat women, not just "accepting" them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:12 PM
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What, exactly, did you ask the PI to do? What kind of information did they give you? This is wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:26 AM
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That's what this kind of talk is always about. They "hate" Chad and Stacey but they are so angry they aren't Chad and they're so angry they don't have Stacey that it consumes their brains and it's all they can think or talk about. It consumes them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:24 AM
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Blame men for that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:08 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:41 PM
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That's this sub in general lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:37 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:08 AM
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Monogamous marriage is beautiful for me. But I don't even want to think about trying to control my husbands' thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:43 AM
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Oh honey you are so clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:38 AM
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Okay, why do you care about fat girls who think you're hot and want to date you? Just take the "compliment" and move on and date the real hotties you're meant to date as a tall, fit, perfect guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:02 AM
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Why are you walking around telling the world who you find sexually attractive and who you don't find sexually attractive? That's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:49 AM
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The fact that you would refer to fellow human beings as "land whales" is telling. No one is forcing you to date fat women. Literally no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:40 AM
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I think most people who advocate for fat acceptance care about fat women and fat men. The difference is, men aren't generally seen as only existing to look good for the opposite sex. Sure, lots of women will decline to date fat men because they aren't attracted to them. But women are not as likely to go out of their way to pick on and shame fat men for existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:57 PM
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I don't. I use this sub for entertainment. It's sad yet funny to see so many clueless men up in arms about manufactured problems and hypothetical scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:36 PM
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Most men are so thirsty that when I suggest that men should get some self respect and stop chasing women, especially those who don't respect them or even care about them, there'll always be some guy saying "If I don't simp and chase, some other guy will". Let's be real. This is not a conversation that you have ever had with anyone, unless it was on this sub, which definitely doesn't count lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:10 PM
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Okay. Why do you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:08 PM
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Jesus, why do you need to make up problems just to be upset about them? That's this sub in a nutshell tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:06 PM
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Oh yes, she didn't know she was fat until *you* told her. Now she's so devastated at this brutal rejection that she'll instantly head to the gym. I kind of doubt you're as important to random women as you think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:03 PM
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Exactly. It's kinda like the single mom thing. I understand why a guy wouldn't want to date a fat girl, I also understand why he wouldn't want to date a single mom. But when I see screenshots of dating profiles where guys are like "NO FATTIES AND NO SINGLE MOMS, SHOULDA PICKED A BETTER BABY DADDY," it's like yeah, that guy's an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:00 PM
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It's so simple
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:59 PM
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Do most people shame men for not finding fat women attractive? I don't think that's necessarily true. I think most people just think that there's no reason for men to go around being mean and talking shit about fat women. Just don't date them. No reason to be an asshole about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:53 PM
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If you aren't interested in fat women, why do you care who they are dating? Why does it bother you that fat women are dating good-looking guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:51 PM
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but you have no point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:55 AM
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this immature response makes me think you're practically a child who just spends too much time on reddit and icel forums
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:46 AM
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Brains, looks, money, self esteem, common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:45 AM
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Since when is it normal for guys to create a thesis about this type of thing vs. just going out and meeting girls? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:44 AM
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Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:53 AM
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I am now 35 years old. I got with my husband when I was 22. My entire 20s and half of my 30s. And I can't imagine who I would be without him, I can't imagine life without him. He is my world! Our lives are so enmeshed that I couldn't imagine separating them. If, heaven forbid, he ever left me, I would be so lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 02:12 AM
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It's going to be hard for a woman to figure out whether she likes you or not if you don't have the social skills to carry a conversation or have a good time with her. Maybe she thinks you're attractive or likes that you seem to be successful, but she won't know if she actually likes you enough to want a relationship with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:18 PM
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I also think the reason why a lot of divorces are initiated by women is because women are generally the ones who are going to take care of that type of thing. Like, when my husband gets a speeding ticket, I'm the one who reaches out to a lawyer, etc. Heaven forbid our marriage were to end, I would imagine I'm going to be the one taking the first actual legal step, even if he was the one who wanted to split or if the decision was mutual.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 07:35 PM
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Okay, so you show off your status and look on your profile and get a chance to open a conversation with a woman. But you have no social skills, so that conversation and any subsequent dates are not going to go well. Social skills absolutely matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 07:02 PM
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My husband loves being married too. But I get it. I'm sorry to hear that about your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:59 PM
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I personally love being married, but it's not for everyone. I guess I don't get why all of the people who don't want to get married seem to think that other people care? You shouldn't get married if you don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:47 PM
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It wasn't a rebuttal, it was a question
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:56 PM
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You think women don't work 40 hours a week too? lol what year do you think we are in?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:55 PM
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No kidding.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:02 AM
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This reads like it was written by a silly little boy who has never had sex or a relationship and doesn't know how things work. Perfect age to be toxic. Have fun kiddo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:01 AM
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there are lots of upsides to marriage Even from a practical standpoint, there are tax benefits, so on
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 07:57 AM
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If women had to pay 90+ percent of alimony, and were liable to lose half their assets the way men typically do in divorce, no women would get married at all. Only 10% of divorces involve alimony these days, and they're almost always very long marriages with circumstances that I feel confident that no one in this thread can relate to. Both men and women are "liable to lose half their assets" in a divorce. I feel like we have a sub full of 20-somethings who think they're living in the 60s or somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 07:02 AM
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Who cares? What does it matter? If a man isn't interested in committing to a relationship, that's just fine. I don't think anyone cares. Just don't be dishonest. Say up front that you aren't interested in a relationship or that you're hesitant about getting into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:59 AM
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I actually think it's 20-year-olds who have barely been out of the house and in contact with women. It seems these guys have done tons of "research" online and are now experts lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:46 AM
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How old are you, and how many women have you had sex with? (This is going to be my new question for the people here who act like experts lmao)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:44 AM
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Husband: *takes out trash* "I guess I'm the only one who takes out the trash around here" Wife: Puts a new trash bag in trash can because he forgot to, feeds the pets, sweeps and vacuums the house, makes plans for dinner, shops for dinner groceries, cooks dinner....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:42 AM
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lol you think men are held to significantly higher standards? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:23 AM
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It's almost always women who do more and meanwhile, it's almost always men who think they are doing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:01 AM
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Maybe you are taking something else away from this info than I am. Maybe the fertile depressed women are depressed because they are stuck in unhappy relationships with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:21 AM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:18 AM
2

Mushrooms are like that for me. The experience of being high on shrooms isn't too bad, or it hasn't been the couple of times I tried it. The juice just isn't worth the squeeze with how I feel the next day or two after, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 06:24 PM
1

Thank you. I think you summed it up beautifully.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 08:41 PM
1

You don't think non-custodial parents should have to financially contribute to the care of their children?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 05:29 PM
1

Child support is something totally different. Child support is a thing whether you're married or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:06 AM
1

I'm not going to do backflips to convince you or anyone else to get married. I love being married...it is what is right for us. If other people aren't interested or don't think it's worth it or whatever, that is fine for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:01 AM
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That's what they're worried about. Guys who have nothing and can't even get a date with a woman are against a hypothetical marriage because of a hypothetical divorce in which they will hypothetically lose half their net worth (which is currently a gaming computer and some funko pops, but hypothetically they will later have lots of money that their hypothetical wife will try to take)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:10 AM
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It wasn't me who brought it up, it was my husband. He said he felt weird referring to me as his "girlfriend." "Girlfriend" and "boyfriend" sound juvenile once you reach a certain age and stage in your relationship. We always knew we were committed for life, but solidifying it with marriage and rings means something to us. I love how when we hold hands, I can feel his wedding ring, and he can feel mine... And...I don't know how to explain it. It's literally impossible to explain. Being married "f…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 05:27 AM
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So marriage should exist because you are insecure about your relationship? For fuck's sake, I didn't say anything like that all lmao. That's not tangible, that's nothing. I love this, you just kind of help me prove my point, the only thing that you really have to say about marriage is that it made you feel less insecure about the legitimacy of your relationship. Why are you worried about what other people think of your relationship? We weren't worried about what other people thought. We both rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 04:55 AM
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I love being married. We lived together for 4 years before we got married, and I had the whole "whats a piece of paper" mindset too. Then his granddad died and it was so awkward that I was his "girlfriend" because we were so much more than that. Then we got married in 2014 and it is so different. Being married is so different than just living together. It really is. It's another level of commitment and it is amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 03:18 AM
1

Its not too late
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:36 AM
11

You should speak up if you are being sexually harassed or assaulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:15 AM
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On top of them could mean anything from touching to raping. All are wrong. You don't know me. I think any sexual assault experience is valid. And I think it's a tragedy that there is a stigma against men, that men don't feel comfortable reporting. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:26 AM
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When you say on top of you, do you mind elaborating what you mean? I understand if you feel uncomfortable or if you just don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:56 AM
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It is never okay for anyone to sexually assault anyone, regardless of gender. I think it's sad and unfortunate that men aren't taken seriously or are even picked on when they report.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:54 AM
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Do women always make a big deal about guys' experience? Is that a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:10 AM
2

You made yet another post like this? 2 in 2 days? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:43 AM
3

If you want a trad wife, be prepared to be a trad husband. This is where a lot of these guys are in the wrong. They claim they want a trad wife, but in their next breath, they complain that women use men for their resources, are gold diggers, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:58 PM
6

In this situation, we are talking about a 16 year old girl with no specific man involved, so what does this even mean? "Don't change for him." Don't change for who?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:50 PM
5

The path you take will exclude people from your dating pool. Yep. That's true either way, honestly. Some men only want a traditional wife. There are others who will only want an ambitious and independent woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:19 PM
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The same men who complain about women working and being independent *also* complain that women are gold diggers, want their resources, etc. Don't worry about them. Do you. Work hard, be successful. The right man for you will appreciate you for who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:18 PM
5

Why do you care so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:15 PM
5

That is an insane take lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:47 PM
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I love when he spanks me. He does it with his hand and a wooden spoon, he broke one. Paint stirrir. I ask him to give me the belt but he seems not ready or comfortable doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:43 AM
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I always encourage my husband to take it out on me physically because I can't stand the moody stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:38 AM
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I've been very immature in my current relationship, and so has my husband. Sometimes at the same time, sometimes at different times. 13 years. Don't beat yourself up, just do the best you can next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:13 AM
1

Do you think the guys on this sub would be good partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:26 AM
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I absolutely think that some of the posters I see on here couldn't possibly make good partners, at least not without some serious deprogramming of the "red pill" and "black pill" content that they've been obsessing over for however long.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:54 PM
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Oh man, that is another one! I've noticed that one has a big thing all over Reddit lately. It's a little strange. Like bro, you aren't even having sex, but you are unhealthily obsessed with the minute possibility of a woman babytrapping you with another man's baby in some hypothetical future situation that you're dreaming up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:52 PM
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Even old people still have sex. One of the fun parts of marriage is keeping your sex life going. It, just like the other aspects of maintaining your marriage, takes work. If you go into it just assuming a dead bedroom is going to inevitably happen, I wonder if you'll be less likely to put in that work. (And I'm not targeting you specifically...it's a general "you.")
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:41 PM
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What? Being in a dead bedroom? I don't think that's really true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:31 PM
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I think this is a good way to describe the behavior of some. It's a bit troubling and also sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:29 PM
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I think most people value sex in a relationship, although to what degree varies from person to person. For one thing, I wonder if some of these guys are inexperienced in relationships in general. Sex is the number one thing they're worried about right now...maybe they don't understand that sex -- while important -- is not the only important thing in a relationship. I just wonder if it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. Do these guys stress so much about the possibility of being in a relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:28 PM
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I think that's sad. It has to be rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:13 PM
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I've noticed there are guys here who are very worried about a "dead bedroom" in a relationship but aren't even IN a relationship. Like, why are some people so worried about hypothetical scenarios like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:36 PM
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What are you doing to try to meet women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:25 PM
1

Okay. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:46 PM
1

What does "ex-FA man" mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:33 PM
5

Exactly. I can't imagine if every time we argued about something, one of us told the other "there's the door." That sounds like the very opposite of a committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:29 PM
2

That would be an odd thing to lie about on the internet, but I guess people lie about odd and dumb things online all the time...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:09 PM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:45 AM
2

You will! And I always tell him about my Reddit arguments and convos lol...he thinks Reddit is a waste of time...he's not wrong lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:45 AM
2

Thank you!! Your friend sounds like me and my hubs. He is my love of my life, my best friend. I can't wait to tell him everything going on in my life, including the mundane shit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:38 AM
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I think some people are too worried about all of this stuff before ever getting a partner. So now, the partner doesn't even know it, but you (or whoever) has been hanging in these types of subreddits or doing this type of research. I've seen guys on here who have never had sex but who spend a lot of time on r/deadbedrooms. What? Why? Some are going into relationships with zero to minimal experience, armed with Reddit info about what relationships are. Stop it! I've been with my husband for 13 ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:16 AM
9

I don't think it's "creepy" for a broke person to date a not broke person, regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:07 AM
0

I'm not a bro. Sorry I misread. Having drinks and chatting with my husband, so I get distracted about which comment I'm responding to lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:06 AM
2

Have you ever been married? The feeling of love does NOT "come and go." You have all the other emotions but the love is always there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:55 AM
4

He did that because he was a sheltered dumb fuck. He was a moron to send a sex worker money and be mad about she spent it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:49 AM
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60 year old rich women dating 20 year old men? Yes. It is always creepy and gross
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:44 AM
2

Most people view both as being the same. So idk what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:43 AM
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He's just trying to make an analogy about women "making the man wait" for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:17 PM
5

Okay. Have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:13 PM
2

Basically all men can...?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:09 PM
3

It was a response to your own comment. "Refuse to play" in the context you used it in...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:31 AM
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These are the guys who have never had a gf...and this is the stuff they obsess about lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:29 AM
6

Go for it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:00 AM
6

Refuse to play. Do you think people will be upset if you choose to be single?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:58 AM
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Men sure spend a lot more time worrying about what makes men "hot" than women do lol. "There's nothing less subjective in human behavior than attraction." is one of the most ridiculous statements I've ever read tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:56 AM
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Your posts are weird. Typically, one makes the title of their post relevant to the content of their post...but you just go off on tangents or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:53 AM
3

So you're in your 50s going out of your way to make sure people know you have sex? What even is this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:12 AM
1

Are you implying men all have higher libidos than women? That isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 11:20 PM
3

My mom always encouraged us to have a relationship with our dad. I'm 35 years old and it's been 20 years since their divorce (and she's remarried), and she STILL asks me "did you call your dad and say happy fathers day?" And I say...I sent him a meme lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:24 AM
1

cool. do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 04:32 AM
3

It's the truth. My dad once told my mom he liked being a "weekend warrior." And guess what that devolved to? He asked the courts to "get us" (me and my brother) every other weekend from Friday night until Monday morning. First it started with...Can I drop them off on Sunday nights instead of Monday mornings because of work? Then it was, I get off late on Fridays, can I pick up on Saturday mornings? Then it was, I work Saturday mornings now, can I pick up Saturday night? Then it was, I have pool …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:50 AM
1

it's an incel troll posing as a woman lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:59 AM
2

you are clearly an incel troll lol it's so obvious that it's not even funny
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:58 AM
1

"more healthier" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:56 AM
1

He should do that if that's what he wants to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:50 AM
1

People with shitty lifestyles, including trying to forever live like college aged kid, should be shamed. When and why? If they don't have kids they are responsible for, and if they're taking care of themselves, why does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:48 AM
3

But these women are considered to have "achieved" something if they did their traditional "duty" of getting married and having babies and being a traditional wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:46 AM
2

So don't buy pizza or Lyft rides or anything for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:24 AM
2

I've been with my husband for 13 years so not dating-related, but yes...I absolutely do Google the average salary for various careers. Just from videos we watch or people we know. My husband's in on it, too. We're nosy like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:00 AM
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I bolded the relevant part of your comment that I was responding to. Some seem to think all women are snakes who just take advantage of men at every opportunity. Imo that is ridiculous. First of all, because most women (and men) are "good people," or at least not totally shitty people. Also because most of the guys complaining about this stuff don't have shit anyway. I have a cousin who lives with his wife, their son, and her son from a previous relationship in a trailer in a trailer park. His s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:26 AM
0

I learned a long time ago not to accept drinks from men. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:10 AM
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The point is: if you're a woman with half a brain, you can easily leverage your femininity to get things from men. If you haven't, its either because you're ugly, a good person, or suck at seduction and manipulation. Boom. Can women just talk to every guy out there in an attempt to lead them on and scam them? I mean, I guess. That would be a horrible thing to do. So now are we wrong for not doing that? I don't get it, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:08 AM
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Men seldom get primary custody because they seldom want it. "I have to work!" He says when he asks for visitation every other weekend instead of split custody. He's barely ever bothered to be a true parent anyway, why try now? It's easier to complain to friends and just let child support take X amount of money out of their paycheck than actually handle stuff like actually taking care of the kids, even for half the week. Plus, I have noticed a pattern...men are really only concerned about kids wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:03 AM
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Men do have a biological clock. Male Infertility. Male infertility increases with the man's age. Men older than 35 are twice as likely to be infertile (defined as the inability to initiate a pregnancy within 12 months) compared to men younger than 25. Birth Defects. As with advanced maternal age, advanced paternal age is associated with an increased incidence of birth defects due to decreased genetic quality of sperm. Men 40 and older are nearly six times more likely to have offspring with autis…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:18 PM
2

Has this happened to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:09 AM
2

I had a male roommate for a while, but we weren't hooking up. It was okay at that time in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:44 AM
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Reddit and the internet are full of men complaining and talking about the importance of "body count" so idk what you're on about
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 11:15 PM
3

So which one is it? Women are too promiscuous or women make men wait too long for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 08:55 PM
8

She didn't specify the USA, but you aren't aware of acid attacks? ""We see that on an average at least 200-300 cases are reported for acid attacks [per year], but the real figure is above 1,000 annually." According to government data, crime against women has been on the rise in India." https://www.fairplanet.org/story/a-national-epidemic-indian-acid-attack-survivors-speak-out
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:36 AM
2

I said the same...must be the algorithm, because I certainly haven't seen a "surge" of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:29 AM
4

I think a lot of y'alls perspectives are based on algorithms, because I haven't seen a "sudden surge of openly anti-male content."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:22 AM
3

I think a lot of y'alls perspectives are based on algorithms, because I haven't seen a "sudden surge of openly anti-male content."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:22 AM
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It's kind of like when they say they see this or that on TikTok allllllll the time and I'm like....I don't. It's the algorithm.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:32 PM
2

There is a lot of overlap.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:03 PM
1

Young virgins who have limited experience have all the knowledge about sex, relationships, women, and life. Didn't you know? /s
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 12:58 AM
7

I have never killed anyone
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 12:56 AM
1

How the fuck did you come to that conclusion from this post? lmao
/r/AllPillDebate30/09/23 08:47 AM
0

Why?
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 11:26 PM
2

Alimony is now known as spousal support, and it isn't very common. When it's granted, it's usually for a limited period. For example, a stay at home mom who has been supported by her husband may get 2 years to get an associates degree and get her shit together.
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 07:10 AM
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lmao cope
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 07:04 AM
3

You think all women have the same personality? lmao
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 06:14 AM
3

I knew a woman who briefly dated well-dressed man who told her he was an "independent pharmaceutical distributor." Turns out he was a drug dealer lmao
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 06:10 AM
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Yeah because this is laughably fucking dumb
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/23 08:40 AM
3

Yeah that is true, but it's still unnecessary to be so mean. Also, I'm happily married and have been with my love since before dating apps were really a big thing (2010), but I have seen screenshots, and there are ways to go about saying things.... "I like to eat clean and work out and am looking for a similarly fitness-minded woman" vs. "NO LANDWHALES" "I am childfree and am looking for another childfree person" or "I don't have kids yet, I'm not sure about the future but am looking for someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:30 AM
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I don't think it's discrimination to avoid dating an overweight person when that's not what you're into. I think most big girls don't actually want to date a man who isn't attracted to her. In fact, is paranoid her man isn't into her for her weight. I don't think you should sympathize with fat people for dating woes, or even things like plane seats. I think a lot of people aren't looking for sympathy, just simple human kindness in day to day interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:41 AM
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That's why I used the plus size sub as a source. Plenty of women there worried about finding a partner, or worried that their partner isn't actually attracted to them. There are a lot of fringe people out there, so I don't doubt there are some obese women out there claiming that any man who won't date them because of their weight are fat phobic. I just don't think that's the norm at all. From what I can gather, most seem to realize and understand that a lot of men won't find them attractive. I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:01 AM
-1

You don't know much about how marriage or divorce works
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/23 02:48 AM
1

Most of yall are volcels then
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/23 02:46 AM
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Okay, but that isn't what I'm talking about. I'm responding to the notion that fat women think every man should be attracted to them or date them regardless of their weight. I don't believe this is a common sentiment among fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:35 AM
1

I unfortunately do think there are men and women who hate other men and women because of their race. Racism should never be tolerated in 2023, but it does unfortunately exist. Your second point is ridiculous.
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/23 02:33 AM
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In general, women don't hate you because of your height and looks. Maybe they aren't attracted to you, but that doesn't equal hate. It's much more a man thing to be this way, ie hating fat women instead of just, idk, not being attracted but still treating them decently, like potential friends or just ignoring them.
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/23 12:45 AM
2

Yes.
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/23 12:42 AM
-1

Yeah, I'm sure he wasn't actually sweet or nice to begin with if he was willing to totally flip to an asshole personality in an attempt to get pussy. This is the same kind of guy who claims to be the nicest guy but who will immediately start calling a female friend the most vile names immediately if she turns him down. Plenty of examples of that can be found in that sub.
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/23 12:41 AM
1

Well, in movies and TV shows, usually both the leading men AND women are above average in looks. Not just the men. Also, there are a lot more men out there pining away for an anime waifu than women doing the same for whatever male anime characters are called.
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/23 12:34 AM
1

The actors on Netflix and so on are actually real humans. No, they aren't average, but they do exist. Video game characters and, what I take more of an issue with, anime characters, are not real. There are people on this planet who look like actors. There are not people on this planet who look like anime characters. Let's also remember that both male and female leads in most movies and so on are more attractive than the average person. It isn't usually a Chad type male lead and an ugly or fat wo…
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/23 12:28 AM
1

This is true as well
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/23 12:25 AM
2

I'm not okay with infidelity or paternity fraud at all. I'm just saying that no one should take this as evidence that 40% of births are a case of paternity fraud. I don't have a problem with it being standard procedure to perform an affordable DNA test.
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 11:26 PM
2

I don't think they did go to school together. The news article I read said she was a student at a girl's school. It said it was unclear where he went to school.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:39 PM
2

This isn't true. "Chad" has to pay child support just like any other man.
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 03:51 PM
3

As I and others mentioned in other comments, the high rate is because these tests are ordered by people who already have a reason to suspect something. Still, as a woman, I don't actually have a problem with paternity testing being standard at birth, as long as it's not overly expensive. The man doesn't have to worry about questioning things or creating relationship strife by asking for a paternity test. The woman doesn't have to worry about being unfairly accused later if the baby doesn't reall…
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 03:50 PM
2

Correct. In most cases, people who are getting these tests are doing so because there is a concern the child isn't theirs. Most monogamous couples aren't getting paternity tests.
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 03:39 PM
22

Exactly. Go to like the plus size sub. There are lots of insecurities. There aren't many fat women out there demanding that all men find them attractive or date them regardless of their size. Most just want to be treated like human beings. You don't have to be attracted to someone to not be a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:09 PM
-3

Get out there and meet girls without this blackpill shit on your mind lol
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 08:37 AM
-8

Damn boys get out there and meet some chicks lol
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 04:39 AM
-1

lmao okay
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 10:11 PM
-5

Umm I think you're the one trying to cope here lol. This blackpill shit affects my life zero
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 09:43 PM
1

I love cats way too much lol 🐈 🐈‍⬛️ 😻 My husband didn't think he liked cats until we got together and he met mine. Little fucker (RIP) turned on me and decided my husband was his human now. Husband now loves cats too 😆
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 09:33 PM
-2

Mainstream includes women lmao and no, blackpill nonsense will never be mainstream. Keep dreaming.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 09:31 PM
0

That's exactly it. When all you do on your social media account is hate watch shallow women and then look up blackpill nonsense the rest of the time, that's going to be your feed. Shallow women and blackpill nonsense. I rarely see any of this stuff on my TikTok. Mostly cat videos, cooking videos, beauty stuff. Because TikTok has "learned" this is the stuff I like.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 09:22 PM
1

Yeah, wasn't that stat heavily affected by the pandemic?
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 09:19 PM
1

Well, this was very clearly written by a male incel lmao.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 08:24 PM
2

Women just literally cannot win with these guys...
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 08:20 PM
-3

It's only a small but disgusting portion of the internet.
/r/AllPillDebate25/09/23 02:44 AM
3

You do understand there are women who feel like you do, who would rather have a relationship with one man instead of "pump and dumps" as you so eloquently call it, right?
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 10:21 PM
2

Maybe. I'm guessing she is young though. She refers to guys as "boys" a couple of times and also mentions biking to "class." If I were a gambling woman, I'd bet a week's pay this person isn't old enough to buy alcohol. Not that there aren't plenty of grown women who are petty teenage girls in a woman's body, but this likely isn't one of them.
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 10:03 PM
4

I'm pretty sure this was written by a bored and petty teenage girl
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 09:24 PM
-1

Ok get off Reddit for another 20 days
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 05:12 AM
-2

You found 2 Reddit posts and that's proof that most guys who get laid don't shower? Come on man
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 02:30 PM
1

Normal guy catches a fish Incels: see he is one of us Dumb
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 02:29 PM
2

You don't think there are women who are terminally online? lol
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 02:20 PM
3

Who is that
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 06:06 AM
1

Idk we met at work, both servers. He helped me a lot, like teaching me the job. We always cut up at work, talked shit about the bosses together, helped each other with customers or side work.....then we naturally started hanging out after work. Idk, we just had fun together. There was never a romantic or sexual spark, so neither of us ever pursued anything like that. We were legit friends.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 01:26 AM
1

Not the hottest girl in town, of course, but I was pretty cute, yeah. Also fairly slim but curvy. I would definitely like to get my 20-year-old body back now lmao.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 01:00 AM
2

6, maybe?
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 04:55 PM
2

Idk...I had a friend when I was younger who all of my girlfriends would want me to try to set them up with lol. He was tall and very conventionally attractive. But he was kind of a dork (as was I) and we liked to goof off, play Guitar Hero, watch UFC, and drink beer together. I was never interested, but I wouldn't say he wasn't physically attractive.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 04:54 PM
0

I'm 5'8 and I think I'm fairly pretty but not a beauty queen by any stretch lol. Husband and I are broke af right now, but I'm actually pretty good at making money in general as a freelancer and am on my comeback...just had a rough year, adjusting to my field being affected by AI. I'm not good at the number thing. I mean, am I all glammed up or am I wearing sweats and it's a bad hair day?
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 04:26 PM
-1

My husband is between 5'5 and 5'6 and he's my Chad. He doesn't have money either and idc.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 04:22 PM
3

Sometimes it's because there's just no chemistry or spark in that way.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 04:21 PM
3

I understand now a little more because of your age. It is interesting because, at 35, I am in the middle of your age group and the younger ladies. A lot of women in my generation never expected men to save us or support us. I met my husband when I was pretty young (we met when I was 21, but we lived a little distance apart, and we didn't start dating til I was 22). So I don't have a lot of experience. I did have my own nice but tiny apartment. I was taking care of myself just fine. I was always …
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 04:18 AM
1

You must be old lol
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 03:00 AM
2

Oh okay that is their choice I don't expect a random man to walk into fire for me, unless they are literal firefighters, in which case it is their job. And I would expect them to do the same thing for a man. And if it is unsafe or impossible for them to do so, I guess I'm fucked. I get it. I think you'll have a hard time finding a list of women who think a random man is required to walk into fire to save us. Some men are heroes and choose to do so. That is their own kindness and bravery, but peo…
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 02:49 AM
5

I'm sure an incel will fight it off. As a woman, I feel entitled to this. I would never consider just staying inside and calling animal control.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 02:05 AM
7

You don't think women ever call 911 for men in distress? I called 911 when I saw a man overdosing from heroin/fetanyl once. EMS gave him Narcan and he lived. Doesn't make me some kind of hero or anything...it's the right thing to do. I have Narcan in my kitchen specifically because a male neighbor of mine (now deceased) had that specific problem and I wanted to be able to help if something went wrong.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 12:44 AM
3

It's not just conventionally hot women who get raped. Old women get raped in nursing homes. A comatose woman was raped and gave birth. Small children get raped. Additionally, men get raped, and a lot of times they aren't what most would consider a Chad type either.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 12:40 AM
3

I've never felt like I could count on random men to help me if I needed it anyway lol.
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 10:41 PM
21

Just how much protecting are you guys really doing?
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 08:02 PM
1

OMG so dramatic.
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/23 03:45 AM
2

Nailed it
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/23 12:55 AM
2

So there are no Hispanic, Asian, Indian, etc guys with girlfriends or wives? lmao
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/23 12:55 AM
0

this is literal insanity. I'm sorry you feel like this is something you need to do. You don't.
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/23 08:21 AM
1

I don't think you come off as a jerk. Maybe 3 dates are a lot for a kiss these days. I hugged him and sent him a "i had fun" type of text. From what I see online, it's supposed to be sex by the 3rd date. I'm not THAT old...I'm 35. I can't imagine having sex that soon tbh, but that's just me. I had to have a connection and know the relationship was going somewhere before i had sex, idk. Why do men shame women for having high "n counts" or "body counts" if that's the standard, tho? Shorter attenti…
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 11:45 PM
1

Ya know, I thought your first couple of sentences were you being a smart ass. I'm glad I was wrong. A lot of guys here talk about height. Idk why. My husband was with multiple women before me. Before him, I guess I wanted a guy taller than me, but not necessarily tall. I was with 2 guys before him. One my height. One who was like 5'10 probably? I don't walk around measuring people lol Personality DOES matter. My husband is a very attractive man, but he'd be basically the opposite of what I would…
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 11:13 PM
1

I think it depends on what a person is into Some men love having a short petite no titty Asian woman. Some like a slim tall white woman with big tits. Blonde hair, blue eyes. Some (like my husband 😉) like curvy brunettes. I'm not a guy, but I'm not into Asian culture. Anime is dumb, the languages are hard to learn. Some of the women are pretty, but it seems like in general the men and women are built and mostly look the same.
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 11:03 PM
1

Women are all different. I'll tell you how I get down. My husband (5'5-5'6) approached me, told me he thought I was hot and wanted to date me. So we went on a date. And another after that. And then another. And after we dated for a couple of months, we had sex. If you would've asked me before, I would've said a taller guy than me (5'8") was my preference. My celebrity crushes had dark hair and brown eyes. My husband has hazel eyes that look blue most of the time, and dirty blond hair...with a re…
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 10:25 PM
1

I've just found through life experience that only a certain segment of the white American male population seems to wife non-native Asian women. And they always think they have the hottest woman in the room lol
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 10:09 PM
2

For the love of the God I know doesn't exist, this. This. This.
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 09:38 PM
0

I would like to see some of your drawings of sharks. I think sharks are badass. (although I like dinosaurs a lot more)
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 09:36 PM
-1

You're super old at 25. It's so over bruh. /s
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 09:35 PM
1

Wtf are you going on about? Why do random women you don't know concerned about whether you get surgery?
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 09:34 PM
0

Do you watch a lot of anime?
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 05:06 PM
1

Here you go: https://incels.is/threads/you-guys-are-entitled.497234/ #2 - "This is based. I'm entitled to a basic right of seggs." #4 - "Agreed, if I'm obligated to pay taxes to ***** using money earned from my labor, then I'm entitled to a woman dating me." https://incels.is/threads/we-are-entitled-to-sex.417316/ OP: "....All men should then be entitled to a wife." #2 - "Sex and relationships are both rights that every man is entitled to." #3 - "Either sex should be guaranteed to us or we don't…
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 06:00 AM
1

And who exactly decides who is a "sub 7?"
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 03:38 PM
-2

Aww are you saying there isn't enough incel content on Reddit? lol
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 04:56 AM
1

Usher fucked a fat girl. Look it up.
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 12:19 AM
1

lol wrong
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 12:15 AM
1

I don't actually care what others think. I'm in a great marriage with a man who I adore, who I find incredibly sexy and handsome, and who looks out for me and vice versa.
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 11:01 PM
0

Doesn't that go against the entire incel "blackpill" ideology? Maybe you think my husband is a 5, but he's my 10. Maybe other women don't consider him "Chad." That's okay. He's MY Chad, and that's all that matters.
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 09:46 PM
0

Ok
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 07:02 PM
1

Of course not lol
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 07:45 AM
3

I could say the same about you, you shamed me for asking for help in my time of need when I've never said a mean thing about you
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 07:41 AM
1

Wrong. I want these guys to learn they are wrong but yall don't listen
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 07:38 AM
1

Nope
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 07:20 AM
-3

You're right. Once out of 13 years, we went through a tough patch because AI replaced me, quickly. Do you feel like a cool guy r n? Man, this was a real gotcha moment
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 07:13 AM
-1

Yall are real salty. I'm pretty and I've been with my sexy af Chad for 13 years cry about it
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 06:40 AM
1

Dumb
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 01:10 AM
1

You would date a 4, but let's be real...you'd rather have a 7 or 8 if you had the chance. But the other issue is that some people act like a "4" is a "4" for everyone, and an "8" is an "8" for everyone. People have different preferences. Maybe someone is immediately a 4 for you if she's chubby. Maybe a 400lb woman is a 2 for you. But there are some chubby chasers out there who prefer a really fat woman...to him, maybe that 450lb girl is his 10. If you think it doesn't happen, look up the girl wh…
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 09:44 PM
0

Or just a conversation point? You're getting to know someone. What is there to talk about? Ask about their job. It gives you lots of opportunity for conversation, no matter what their job might be. Whether they work in tech, the medical field, the justice system, or even in fast food, there are plenty of questions to ask and possible conversation points.
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 09:24 PM
2

This is true. These are the guys who think a woman's place is barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen. In that scenario, how much the man makes is very important.
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 09:22 PM
1

So people are just regularly asking you how much money you male? That's weird.
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 09:21 PM
1

So you don't care about how a woman looks?
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 09:18 PM
-2

Since when do men not care about looks? News to me
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 06:04 PM
-2

If you think "don't be fat" is all that is expected of women by today's beauty standards, you're clueless
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 06:03 PM
1

Egg donors are a thing too, and they're very strict on their requirements.
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 06:01 PM
2

SHe AsKeD mY jOb ShE wAnTS mY MoNeY --jackass who makes very very little money
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 04:52 AM
5

These people are fucking insane. "So, what do you do?" Is a very common question among even potential friends. My God these people know literally nothing about normal human interactions
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 03:08 AM
1

"What do you do for a living" is a common question, and you can ask her the same. The fact you freaked out and assumed the worst from a very common question shows why echo chambers like these are the worst
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 03:05 AM
3

How do you argue with nonsense? For one thing, you're turning a very subjective thing into an objective thing. You make it seem like all humans live their lives "rating" men and women on a 1-10 scale. And you act like those ratings are concrete and so important. I'm a woman, and what I find a 10, is different from what other women find a 10. Same is true for guys. Do an experiment. Get the guys here to all share who they think is a 10. It will vary a lot. A whole lot. Bickering will happen.
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 01:53 AM
0

It's always so fascinating to read the essays written by people who think they are experts on relationships and women. Especially when many of them haven't been near a vagina since they came out of one.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 04:39 PM
0

Do you think you are a good man? Do you think the men here are good men? Do you think the men on forums like incels dot is are good men?
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 10:32 PM
-4

You already know what I'm going to say so it's a waste of time. But I'll say it again....women aren't a monolith
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 04:30 PM
-3

They purposely look for content that suits their narrative and pretend it is the norm
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 04:24 PM
-6

I guess you think you did something here
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 04:23 PM
3

"Incels aren't violent or hateful, we are just sad and lonely" lmao
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 12:59 PM
1

Wrong. Yall just sit in your little echo chamber crying about your dry dicks and "chad."
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 12:56 PM
1

Why should you make society suffer first?
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 12:46 PM
0

Why does she hate you and associate you with her trauma?
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 12:46 PM
-1

Incorrect. I have only slept with people inside of a relationship. I don't judge other consenting adults for how they want to get down with one another, but I personally never wanted to be intimate with someone I didn't have an emotional connection of some sort with, no matter how attractive.
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 12:20 AM
-1

There are plenty of women who don't get sexual with ANY guy on the second date.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 09:20 PM
1

I'm pretty sure Marge isn't a virgin.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 01:24 AM
4

Nah I'll drink this beer instead and I will never shut up.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 09:57 PM
3

I don't know you, so at the end of the day, you don't matter to me at all. Just don't go around spouting shitty views, then cry because you have a dry dick. If you think it's only looks and not mindset that impacts your luck in the dating world, you're wrong.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 09:56 PM
4

lol loser. You deserve to be alone.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 09:52 PM
0

So women are the only ones who cheat?
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 08:20 PM
1

The first part isn't true. Not anymore. I mean, maybe if you're talking about celebrities. Although many of them date and marry fellow celebrities who also have successful careers of their own, although perhaps on a slightly lower scale. But do you think doctors and lawyers are trolling around the local trailer parks, looking for pretty girls? No. That rich lawyer who comes from a long line of Harvard grads is looking for an educated woman himself. He might bang a hot bartender or secretary, but…
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 12:02 AM
0

So women don't work on our value? Do you think women don't spend lots of time and money on our looks? Do you think women don't go to college or work hard in careers? Even from a traditional standpoint, you don't think that, say, stay-at-home moms don't put in work to learn things like how to cook and bake well? What kind of work are you putting into your own value?
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 04:05 PM
0

Catfishing, "Chadfishing," etc are stupid ways to waste time.
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 03:04 PM
1

That has absolutely nothing to do with anything being talked about here, but I don't like being hit on by anyone.
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 01:55 PM
0

Sounds lame af
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 01:53 PM
-1

What, exactly, made you want to create a fake female profile and go into chat groups? You don't think that's an odd thing to do?
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 01:25 PM
1

That's literally not even close to what they said at all.
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 12:56 PM
-1

Well considering I'm a female, I have an idea of what happens in female's phones. Why is this something you do in your spare time? Seems like a strange hobby.
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 12:55 PM
4

Sensitive as in sharing feelings is fine Sensitive as in pretending someone said something they didn't and getting offended by it is unpleasant I suggest you re- read the part of the comment thread I responded to. You literally responded to the commenter about something they never said lol and it isn't the first time you've done it here either
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 07:54 AM
9

You sure are a sensitive one who takes things the very wrong way. Very unpleasant.
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 07:48 AM
1

Mmhmm maybe get out into the real world
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 07:19 AM
-1

Yet another dumbfuck post on this sub
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 05:40 AM
-4

Dumb
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 04:28 AM
1

Idk if you're ugly, but try. Like for real. Post pics of yourself, your pets, your collections, screenshots of your games. Whatever. Follow friends and family members and people whose profiles you find interesting. Share your profile with online friends. Comment on people's posts when you find them interesting. Use hashtags. Give it a real go for a month or two and see. I think you might be surprised. Do you think these women don't put in an effort on social media?
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 04:26 AM
1

Yeah but they aren't friends. Random people you barely talked to at school, family members, your family members' family members (Like your cousins' cousins from their other side of the family), people you play games with or talk to online...also bots and randos.
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 04:18 AM
2

LOL Rob, I love it.
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 04:03 AM
-1

400 followers is far from a micro celebrity lmao
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 03:49 AM
0

Someone says something: Blackpiller every time: I am a TEENAGER or at least I have the life experience and social skills of one, me me me me and my dry dick, I know EVERYTHING about what women want, what relationships are like, and what the real world is about, except I don't
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 03:47 AM
-4

Oh my this is not true at all
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 01:19 AM
-1

I've been in my relationship for 13 years and I don't think about other men. Not like that. Like, duh, I have eyes...but I look at attractive men basically the same way I look at attractive women (and I'm straight.) Like, I can see the person is attractive but I have zero interest whatsoever, I'm not wondering if they are single or what they look like naked or how to get to know them or anything. Just like oh there's an attractive person...so anyway...we need laundry detergent, milk, tea bags...
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 10:25 PM
-2

Most women won't even know what it's like to be very attractive, as in 10/10 model tier looks that you mention. It's not sad. We all do the best we can with what we have.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 08:34 PM
0

It is good that the mods and admins don't allow that kind of talk. Very few people are unsavable. Someone with stage 4 cancer who isn't responding to treatment, maybe. Not a 20-year-old who is crying on the internet because he hasn't gotten his dick wet yet.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 08:07 PM
1

The mods are mostly "blackpill" but even they know most of yall go too far
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 07:03 PM
2

Oh yes just what a bullied kid needs to hear, "you're genetic trash and will never ever be worth anything unless you spend thousands and thousands of dollars on surgerymaxxing, a totally made up word."
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 07:01 PM
1

It's just measured by how many young attractive White women on Tinder or Bumble want to hook up with you which is a very biased measure. And this is what it is....if they aren't hooking up with a very specific type of woman, then "it's over." They're desperate for the Chad/normie lifestyle that they claim to hate. They aren't actually just looking to hook up with or date women.
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 10:08 PM
1

JBW is ridiculous even here in the United States. I know plenty of white women who only date black men. I know plenty of white women who only date Hispanic men. One Indian guy I know is married to another Indian woman. The other Indian guy I know dates plenty of women.
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 10:04 PM
0

Why are you on a debate sub if you aren't open to debate?
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 08:45 PM
-2

This is so dumb
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 08:42 PM
2

I find a lot of your posts somewhat reasonable, even if I disagree with them for the most part, and I respect that you're willing to open this sub to debate with others with different opinions. I think you're a fair mod, even if I tend to disagree with you on most things. For the record, I post here a LOT more than I do on IT. I'm sorry to hear about what happened with your RedditStacy. That sucks. Truly. At the end of the day, it sounds like she likely had a lot of issues on her own, including …
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 11:57 PM
1

What is with the guys on here who think that men pay for everything for women? lmao
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 08:32 PM
1

Source: Trust me bro
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 08:09 PM
1

Oh yes, a 17 year old boy knows exactly what every woman likes. Gtfoh
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 08:09 PM
0

Looks aren't the only thing that matter, and what one person finds attractive or unattractive, another doesn't. Yall can repeat over and over that all women have the same taste in men if you want, but it's not true, and I know that for a fact.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 07:55 PM
-2

I have never once said that looks don't matter at all.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 07:50 PM
-5

Same opinion. You know nothing about the world and relationships yet. Yet you choose to spend your time in these circlejerking echo chamber spaces. Sad. It could all be very different for you, you need to get out now.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 07:47 PM
-3

16 and you're this jaded? That's just sad. No idea of what the world is like yet already given up.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 07:42 PM
-1

Ok
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 03:51 PM
-1

You sure know a lot about how relationships work as someone who has never been in one.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 02:59 PM
6

So, do I think Reddit and Discord have a different type of "crowd" than Instagram and TikTok? In general? Absolutely. That is true for both men and women. But if you're the kind of guy who fits in more on Reddit and Discord, why wouldn't you want to communicate with women with similar interests? If taking selfies at the gym or a nightclub isn't your thing, why look for women who are into those things? If you're more into anime and gaming, for example, why not look for women who are into similar …
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 10:09 AM
-2

Oh so you want an echo chamber
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 05:43 PM
1

You do know that FDS is basically the equivalent of incel spaces. Cut from the same cloth, just on separate sides of the "issue." The vast majority of men AND women don't align with either one.
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 04:10 AM
2

Oh no, women back talking men? In 2023? How on earth is THAT allowed?
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 10:27 PM
3

Yeah the mods here are pretty good. Even though my opinions are quite opposite from most of theirs, they allow for debate/other opinions and mindsets. Which is the whole point of the sub, I think.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 10:26 PM
1

lol I mean why not? I'm a straight woman but I have a hard time understanding why straight men would be salty about seeing ass
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 02:58 PM
1

What's your beef with leggings? They're awesome
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 04:57 PM
1

lol I bet they aren't Chad
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 06:47 AM
-2

Are we?
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 06:36 AM
-7

You're like a tick that won't go away in these discussions....bless your heart, you annoy the fuck out of me.
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 06:11 AM
-2

Mmhmmm.
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 06:09 AM
-8

You've decided your fate I guess. Never talk to a woman again I guess.
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 06:05 AM
-6

Instead of wasting all this time on dipshit studies and conversations over nonsense, go meet chicks. Good lord.
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 04:54 AM
0

Same
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 10:58 PM
2

Right? Give me a wife on a silver platter, random stranger, or you're tell me to kms Lmao you can't make this shit up. Reddit is so wild.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 12:58 PM
1

Okay, that's not bitching though. They actually stayed very calm during your rant lol.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 04:03 AM
2

lol your response is a little unhinged, this person never "bitched" at you or really did anything except ask you questions.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 03:53 AM
1

Tom Cruise was the "hearthrob" in Top Gun Maverick...for the older ladies who saw him as the heartthrob in the original Top Gun. Tom Cruise is aging well, won't deny that...but he's definitely aging. A big part of why he's who is is (still) is because of things like his crazy stunts. He's willing to get out there and do what most actors won't do..
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 04:37 PM
1

Sandra Bullock just played Channing Tatum's love interest in a movie last year lol. At 57-58 years old. Jennifer Aniston just played the leading lady role alongside Adam Sandler in Murder Mystery 2 this year. At 54.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 04:31 PM
5

Do you think they're all going to just turn into ogres in like a year?
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 02:18 AM
9

I think you need to look up the ages of some of the most popular actresses. Plenty over 35 or close to it. Margot Robbie and Emma Stone are 33 and 34. Jennifer Lawrence and Emma Watson, both 33. Zoe Kravitz, 34. None of these ladies seem to be going anywhere anytime soon. Then you have Megan Fox (37), Gal Gadot (40), Sandra Bullock (59), Jennifer Aniston (54), Anne Hathaway (40), Charlize Theron (48), etc. Really so many more, but I'm tired of Googling tbh
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/23 10:36 PM
0

I thought we were talking about the same thing...relationships.
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/23 12:44 AM
0

Not really. People with that disorder avoid interactions with others completely. Someone can be single and have a rich social life that involves friends, family members, co-workers, etc.
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/23 12:03 AM
-1

There's no reasoning with these people lol..they are very r/confidentlyincorrect lol
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 10:41 PM
0

Are they?
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 07:16 PM
0

Wrong
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 05:49 PM
-1

I doubt women hate you
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 04:20 PM
1

I don't think that's true. I think some people are perfectly content being alone.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 04:18 PM
2

Ok just give up then
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 09:25 AM
6

A good, meaningful relationship is worth more than all the money in the world.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 09:20 AM
1

Just strike up a conversation dude. We are women, not aliens.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 09:18 AM
3

Wrong. I was awkward as fuck as a 19 year old girl. I learned.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 09:16 AM
6

How do you learn if you never go out, though?
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 09:10 AM
2

Never been up there buddy. Have fun with that.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 09:08 AM
1

Yeah this happened. Verbatim. And this same conversation happens to men like every time they innocently strike up a conversation with a woman. I think we should all just think of the men.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 09:07 AM
-2

I enjoy spending time with my amazing and sexy husband. Who some dipshits around here would call too short or whatever. Seems like you're sad you didn't get enough Tindr matches. 😔 😢 🎻
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 08:53 AM
1

My family members were all going along with it too, and i was like how much does he make? (He worked at the same place as uncle) and I was like they're still staying out at (trailer park name nearby)? So she's with him for his money? There's a reason my family doesn't fuck with me much. This isn't the reason, but this is how I act when they DO get around me lol
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 08:43 AM
1

You responded to my question with 4 questions instead of answering my one question.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 08:36 AM
-3

How would you know?
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 08:19 AM
-4

It's painful to chat with cute girls at a bar?
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 08:14 AM
-1

I wish I could get some sense in y'all but it's a waste of time so fuck it
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 08:13 AM
3

Yall do know this guy is a troll, right? Lmao
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 08:10 AM
1

Maybe you can be saved idk
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 08:07 AM
1

Right? Broke ass incels acting like women make every move for a man's money, as if these men have any. My uncle had the audacity to call his daughter in law a GOLD DIGGER. My cousin was making like $500 a week and they lived in a trailer park. My God. If she's a gold digger, she's awfully bad it.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 08:06 AM
3

Oh you should check them out, I bet you'd fit right in
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 07:57 AM
3

Just stay at home on incel forums
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 07:52 AM
3

Guys who make "high six figures" don't cry on Reddit about not getting laid
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 07:10 AM
3

Right. No one should be offended. She isn't saying all men should meet these requirements. She isn't saying all men should want to be with her.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 07:03 AM
7

Yeah man just give up.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 06:06 AM
1

Duh
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 05:32 AM
1

Y u so mad at inceltears? It's only the worst of the worst posted over there. Are you that?
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 02:20 AM
1

Same for women. More guys hit on hot women. Alert the fucking media. But average guys hit on average women. It works out.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 02:17 AM
0

lol try again
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 02:16 AM
-5

Lol you and your brethren think you did something here. Get out of your house and go find some pussy lmao. There is no shortage and I guarantee if incels spent half the time yall spend crying about not getting pussy into getting pussy, you'd get it.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 01:43 AM
8

Well at some point, a woman has decided she is okay being alone. Maybe she's had some shitty past relationships. So at some point, she's like nah, I'm only doing this again if it's REALLY worth my while. Kinda like if you have something that isn't for sale, but if someone offered you an obscenely high price for it. Like, I'm not doing dating again unless he's -- xxxx long list of requirements Is similar to someone saying their dog isn't for sale, but then being offered a million dollars. Like ba…
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 01:36 AM
-3

Dumb fucking argument, but I'm tipsy and bored, so I'll fuck with it. Everybody thinks bears will kill you. But, as an example, out of 750,000 black bears in North America, they generally only kill one person a year. Meanwhile, one out of 16,000 humans commit murder.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 01:17 AM
-6

How do you know this? If you've never had sex with a woman and never been married, how do you know about what women are doing in the bedroom OR what married sex life is like?
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 12:48 AM
1

lmao you really think fat women talking about their weight is the same thing as what you're doing here?
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 12:37 AM
2

My husband is amazing. He's hot 🔥, sexy, amazing in bed, he's my best friend. We talk about anything and everything. We play Phase 10. We play Home Run Derby and TopGolf on Xbox. We watch UFC together almost every Saturday. He makes amazing pancakes and the best burgers I've had in my life. He is my fucking everything and fuck no I wouldn't trade him for anyone and I would cut a bitch who tried to take him from me.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 12:34 AM
0

Do you still live with your parents?
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 11:42 PM
0

Yawn. In my husband's day, short men got out their anger about their height by being assertive and argumentative. They called it short man syndrome. Now yall just cry about your height on the internet. Wah wah wah
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 11:40 PM
2

There is no one better. At least not for me.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 11:38 PM
1

How old are you?
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 11:37 PM
2

Yeah and I guess he's walking around with a measuring tape and measuring every guy and girl lmao
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 11:34 PM
1

Don't we all consider the average income poor? Our household income is the average, and I feel like we're poor as fuck lmao
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 11:33 PM
3

https://www.cbsnews.com/boston/news/study-finds-fathers-genes-are-more-dominant/#:\~:text=Most%20people%20feel%20as%20though,it%20comes%20to%20your%20health.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 11:32 PM
1

https://www.cbsnews.com/boston/news/study-finds-fathers-genes-are-more-dominant/#:\~:text=Most%20people%20feel%20as%20though,it%20comes%20to%20your%20health.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 11:31 PM
4

I found the opposite - "Studies Find Father's Genes Are More Dominant" https://www.cbsnews.com/boston/news/study-finds-fathers-genes-are-more-dominant/#:\~:text=Most%20people%20feel%20as%20though,it%20comes%20to%20your%20health.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 11:31 PM
1

Why just blame mom, though? I know you haven't had sex yet, but surely you know it takes a man and a woman to make a baby, right? And that genetics come from both?
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 11:30 PM
1

How is she selfish?
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 11:27 PM
1

oh god I wish my husband was rich. He wishes that too lmao
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 11:27 PM
4

Ok but nobody is supposed to blame you for your height but you blame your mom for her height
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 11:10 PM
2

I was with 2 men before my husband, and neither were 6' tall. One was around my height, one was a little taller than me but not by a lot...maybe 5'10. I didn't "settle" for my husband btw. He is the love of my life and has been for 13 years.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 11:09 PM
2

Dumb. How tall is your dad? Why aren't you blaming him? My mom is shorter than yours, and my brother is almost 6' tall.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 10:56 PM
2

I'm a woman...my mom is 5'0, my dad is 6'2...I'm 5'8" and my brother is like 5'11. My husband is about 5'5.5" But sure, just blame every woman (including your mom) for the fact you can't get your dick wet.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 10:55 PM
0

They do seethe lol
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 04:02 AM
-1

Ok
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 04:02 AM
-2

What did poor kids do to deserve to grow up without food, while rich kids have everything they want handed to them on a silver platter? Why are some people born with health challenges, while others treat their bodies like shit and are still healthy? Life ain't fair, and it's a lot harder for some than others. We can only deal with the cards we were dealt.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 02:33 PM
6

lmao what
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 08:16 AM
1

It's not the "I'm so rich" part that seems like bullshit. It's everything else.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 08:13 AM
1

It's definitely LARP bullshit lmao
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 08:11 AM
1

Ok so this is a bunch of made up bullshit
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 08:09 AM
-5

You think it's fine. I didn't say it wasn't BTW. I asked a question and made a statement.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 07:10 AM
0

I think both genders only look at physical factors when it comes to initial attraction. Although every person has a different idea of what's "hot" in the opposite sex. (As a simple example, some men are into very slim and petite women, while others prefer a more curvy girl). But I also think for both, for a relationship to happen, it definitely goes beyond looks. Chad will fuck Stacy or vice versa, but if Chad is a real dick or Stacy is a real bitch, a relationship won't happen. Incels tend to t…
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 07:09 AM
-9

You seem awfully bothered by your own cousin showing interest in a man
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 06:53 AM
-10

Oh yes, love or HATE. No in between. Also, did it cross your mind that the chick might have felt awkward interacting with you around parents?
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 06:52 AM
-6

As if grown ass men don't act like horny teenagers when a semi cute girl comes around, bonus points if she's showing some cleavage or something. Omg it's so strange when a hot person gets attention from the opposite sex...not
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 06:50 AM
-13

Do you have a weirdo crush on your cousin or something? Wtf
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 06:48 AM
1

I've been with my husband for 13 years so idk if I would struggle to find taller men. Been out of the game for a long time. I was in 2 relationships prior, one guy was around my height and one might have been like 5'10 or 5'11, taller than me but not by like a whole lot. Height has just never been a big issue for me.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 01:47 AM
1

5'8
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 01:39 AM
1

lmao I be Redditing drunk too sometimes
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 02:12 PM
1

What do you mean by using your hands to stick a lot?
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 02:03 PM
1

It isn't other people who are calling incels ugly usually. Literally we are all normally saying the opposite
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 01:56 PM
8

Most of the ones who cry the most about "my tax money" barely pay shit lmao
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 06:17 AM
1

Prove it
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 05:54 AM
2

Ok
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 05:33 AM
-1

💯
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 05:17 AM
-3

Sure 🤤
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 03:48 AM
-2

Most incels here are a healthy weight and have jobs and at least some semblance of life. But despite being normal in every way besides genetics, their romantic success has been 0. Source?
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 03:02 AM
-1

Where do you live that you never seen couples in their 30s?
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/23 05:31 PM
0

Dumb
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 06:31 PM
-3

But let's be real. That's not really how these conversations go.
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 06:24 PM
2

Yes all men who aren't 6' tall have to go gay or be a monk. That is the dumbest shit I have read today.
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 05:51 PM
-1

Arguing with incels is so pointless. Seriously I've never truly seen an argument where an incel will admit he's wrong whole heartily especially when it comes to dating. You can show them statistics, data, proof could literally be right under their noses and most of the time they'll just ignore it and try to counter with an irrelevant statement. Their minds are made up the minute they enter the conversation. I don't know why I still bother lmao
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 05:35 PM
-1

They don't want to accept that their enemy is a diverse group of people and not a hivemind. The same could be said about incels and their takes on women.
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 01:16 AM
-1

Lmao at the last part
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 12:27 AM
1

Was it?
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/23 04:05 AM
1

Didn't say you were?
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/23 03:55 AM
1

Seems like you have it figured out bro
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/23 03:53 AM
-3

Ahh yes incels are like Einstein lmao
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/23 03:26 AM
1

There's a lot of bullshit on the internet. Happy Cake Day BTW 🎂
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 06:26 PM
1

I just had seeeeeex and I'll never go back
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 05:50 PM
1

My husband wasn't my first but he is the first I ever really and truly loved.
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 05:49 PM
1

LOL I love this stupid ass song
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 05:26 PM
1

Example of what?
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 05:17 PM
1

It's not wise to date people you work with, but there are other reasons to interact with women, other than just for dating.
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 04:54 PM
-3

Lmao
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 04:52 PM
1

Good luck!
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 03:36 PM
-2

And where did you hear that?
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 02:44 PM
1

Oh okay. I wasn't bragging. But sucking my husband's dick is amazing. 😋 😋
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 02:35 PM
1

Prison?
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 02:34 PM
0

Agreed
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 02:34 PM
-1

I'm sorry you feel that way. It isn't true.
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 02:34 PM
-2

Wtf be real
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 02:33 PM
0

It sounds like maybe they want to talk to you, too. I understand the whole feeling self conscious or insecure thing for sure though. That's tough.
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 02:33 PM
-12

Are you gay?
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 02:32 PM
1

What did the oc say? I'm sure it was directed at me, but I never saw it
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 02:23 PM
3

Haha nope 😉
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 01:44 PM
3

Who's bragging?
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 01:34 PM
1

Lmao never
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 01:34 PM
1

Lmao
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 06:30 AM
2

lol ok
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/23 12:01 AM
3

You've never seen 2 women argue about anything? Ahh so you are never around women. Yet have such a strong opinion about what we are like. Okay.
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 03:50 PM
0

You do know there are tons of conservative, MAGA, FJB type women out there right?
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 03:49 PM
-8

Do you really think the average woman puts zero effort into her appearance? Do you know how much it costs and how much time it takes to look good by today's standards?
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 06:50 PM
-5

You definitely need an AI girlfriend if you are this delusional
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 03:55 PM
-5

You want a woman who you can force to obey you? Yes, AI is right for you.
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 03:53 PM
-2

Generally, the "top 10% of men" absolutely "get" incredibly vapid women....that's the nature of the game lmao. If you think it's not only about money, looks, etc. from both sides at the percentage, you're delusional. Then the other 90% of us have fun and then settle down with people we enjoy and love.
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 06:37 AM
1

I do agree it is played out. I tend to only call people incels if they call themselves that or are spouting very clear incel ideology. It isn't something to just call anyone who you disagree with. There are also many misogynists who aren't incels. And there are people who are involuntarily celibate but who aren't incels. Incel is a specific group/ideology.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 08:35 PM
2

Incels refer to themselves as incels...?
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 04:22 PM
-1

Huh?
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 11:09 AM
-3

I was 21 when we met, 22 and he was 25 when we got together
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 01:55 AM
-4

That's not that short, just not tall. My husband is your height and is the sexiest man on the planet. 😋
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/23 11:44 PM
0

Try it
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/23 10:37 PM
8

Somebody is big mad lol
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/23 06:12 PM
-2

Yup
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/23 05:18 PM
1

What's toxic and vile is the content posted on IT. Which is created by incels.
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/23 03:26 PM
-2

Oh yeah this was totally a real conversation you heard.
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/23 03:16 PM
1

I knew about one but he's not around anymore. So....
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/23 01:45 PM
0

I don't go on FDS.
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/23 01:41 PM
1

Definitely true.
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/23 01:34 PM
0

Move to a country where sharia law is already a thing.
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/23 01:33 PM
2

Men are way more emotional than women. Their emotions just tend to manifest in different ways.
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/23 01:32 PM
1

Omg but they are
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/23 01:17 AM
1

Why are they worried all the time about social media girls,
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/23 12:37 AM
-4

Take a shower, dress nice, and go out to multiple bars. Do it all weekend. Talk (not in a creepy way) with women. You'll get laid by the end of the weekend.
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 11:27 PM
1

If you really think life isn't harder for fat or ugly women than it is for conventionally attractive women, then you're more clueless than I thought.
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 06:36 PM
-2

I'm with you. Every man can get laid. Sure, it's harder for some than others. It's not like things are harder for less attractive women, too.
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 05:58 PM
-5

Source: your imagination
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 05:57 PM
-4

They're lazy yet they long to be a part of the so-called "normie" lifestyle that they claim to hate so much. The truth is they all want to be banging the Instagram and TikTok "Staceys." They're a 3/10 but think they're supposed to be banging the 9s and 10s and are mad that they can't. Not that they've tried anyway.
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 05:18 PM
1

The type of people who post on TikTok are people who like attention and who like making videos of themselves. So, shallow people. Additionally, like all social media, TikTok has algorithms. If you're regularly looking at these types of videos, you're going to see more and more of them. No one is saying shallow women don't exist. We're saying that these shallow women aren't a representation of women as a whole.
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 04:36 PM
3

oh my god, I'm so sorry your own mother treated you this way. The problem is her, not you.
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 03:18 AM
12

It's a kink. Some guys are into this shit.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 08:56 PM
0

There are definitely way more men who go out of their way to shame conventionally unattractive women on the internet than vice versa. Basically, if anything, "ugly" or fat men get ignored by women for the most part, maybe. While "ugly" or fat women get LOTS and LOTS of negative commentary just for existing.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 02:58 PM
-5

Maybe you're right. It's honestly hard to understand why so many people are so mad about OF lol
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 07:00 AM
-10

People pay for entertainment they enjoy. Netflix, video games, movie tickets, concert tickets, etc Why is it your business if a person consensually enters their payment info for an Only Fans account? You're big mad and idk why lol You do know people paying for pussy, porn, explicit photos dates waaaaaaaay back before Only Fans, right?
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 06:37 AM
6

"Not a misogynist post" lmao
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 06:08 AM
1

I did Google it and finally found this link about a troll lol https://movieweb.com/joker-no-singles-prank-amc-theaters/
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 04:35 AM
1

I did Google it and couldn't find it. Do you mind sharing a link?
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 02:58 AM
1

Is that what I said?
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 01:34 AM
0

Yall geniuses do know there is an in between, right?
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 01:29 AM
4

Ong you think acne is equivalent to having cancer? You obviously aren't a survivor or a loved one of a survivor. What the fuck is wrong with you? I can give you advice about acne but you're a real piece of shit for that comparison
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 01:17 AM
1

Do you have any proof of that?
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 01:01 AM
-1

Those guys will likely have luck. 23 year olds who still live with their parents likely won't.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 11:43 PM
-7

Are they financially capable of providing in 2023? In another country?
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 10:46 PM
1

Are there really movie theaters with that rule? Never heard of that.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 07:06 PM
0

Right....most people don't care if men have standards. Just don't set your standards absurdly high and then complain when you can't find someone. Also, don't be a jerk to women who don't meet those standards.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 05:57 PM
1

I've long thought this myself for incels. Many seem to want a virgin woman and also seem to value more "traditional" gender roles. I would think church would be a better place to find what you're looking for than hook up apps.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 04:21 PM
-2

You do know this isn't a red pill or black pill sub right?
/r/AllPillDebate01/08/23 07:08 PM
0

It is unfortunate you feel this way because it's just not reality. The truth is that women who aren't interested in you sexually, romantically, or as a friend probably just don't think about you at all. They don't wish you harm or death or anything like that.
/r/AllPillDebate01/08/23 05:21 PM
-2

Yeah, I'm on IT sometimes. Is that a problem? Does that somehow negate what I'm saying?
/r/AllPillDebate01/08/23 07:22 AM
-5

I just want to know what you mean by these women ridiculing you? Are they saying mean things? If so, what are they saying? And why?
/r/AllPillDebate01/08/23 05:36 AM
-5

“she’s not really interested in me she took a dare” OMG I'm a woman and I used to think this in middle and high school. I was depressed and had very low self-esteem and was very very hard on myself about basically everything. When guys showed me interest, I thought it was a "dare" or they were teasing me or something. Looking back, I don't think that was the case at all. I thought I was fat because I weighed more than my mom (who is 6-7 inches shorter than me and also borderline anorexic). I was…
/r/AllPillDebate01/08/23 03:10 AM
-9

So literally, 7 or 8 out of 10 women that you interact with ridicule you for your appearance? I find that hard to believe tbh.
/r/AllPillDebate01/08/23 03:05 AM
-4

You literally asked a question, and you're mad when people are answering that question?
/r/AllPillDebate01/08/23 03:03 AM
3

I don't claim to know what other people's marriages are like, so I don't know if I'm an outlier or not. I can only speak on my own situation.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 09:40 PM
2

That person has a very very specific writing style and mindset, you can spot it from a mile away.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 09:20 PM
1

I'm 35, he's 38. We were 22 and 25 when we got together. Lived together for a few years and got married in 2014. I had sex with 2 men before him. Both were boyfriends, not casual hookups. We live in the southeast United States. No kids. First marriage for both of us.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 09:14 PM
-5

I love my husband, I love my marriage, and I'm highly, highly sexually attracted to him. I can't keep my hands off him, I can hardly walk past him without grabbing his butt or touching him somehow. 13 years in, and we still have sex all the time. The idea of being with anyone else in a sexual manner is repulsive to me.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 08:48 PM
-2

It's really unfortunate that you feel this way.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 08:03 PM
-1

“You can’t understand someone until you’ve walked a mile in their shoes.” Just keep that in mind when you're talking about women, too.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 07:32 PM
-1

When women settle for men of inadequate attractiveness in their eyes, the relationships often end up in dead bedrooms where the husband gets starfish sex once a month. All while the wife fantasizes about the robust 6'4 handsome men they had wild pornstar sex with in college. If a woman isn't physically attracted to you then you will always be the one to initiate sex, you will always have to ask for blowjobs, she will never decide to wear sexy lingerie or do anal with you or anything and every se…
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 07:15 PM
1

Why are you having a conversation with yourself lol
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 07:01 PM
0

lmao no, you really think "Chads" are fucking much more than 3 women a day, every single day? be real
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 06:44 AM
-1

yeah, the math ain't mathing, and the real world will tell them this theory is total bullshit.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 06:43 AM
-2

Maybe you don't, but a lot of incel types do. Also, a lot seem to think they're going to get a loving wife from this type of scenario....but more like a wife who tolerates you vs. loves you.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 06:09 AM
1

how many abusive relationships have you been in?
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 05:25 AM
0

My only thing with "passport bros" is....y'all do know that these women from other countries who are willing to fuck and even marry you are likely sex workers, right? I was born/raised in an Air Force town and have known multiple Asian women who married Air Force men 20+ years their senior....the ones I've known have been pretty open about the fact that they were prostitutes in their home countries before meeting and marrying their military man. Also, the two who I knew VERY well (one was my bes…
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 05:22 AM
0

Imagine wasting that much time...creating a Chadfish account, talking back and forth with the woman, then going out of your way to show up at the place to see if she shows up... All to report back to your incel buddies. It's also possible that your incel buddies are lying about going to the place and the woman showing up, because that would involve them having to go out of their way to get off the computer and go out in public...
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 02:39 AM
0

Many criminals are manipulative. It's why they're so good at what they do (criminally). So that same manipulation can be used against women too.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 02:38 AM
1

And in the meantime, he learned a lot and likely became financially successful. So just because he can't easily "snag" a young girl after all of this, it was all a waste? What about the fact that he can afford to take care of himself and live a nice life, living in a nice home, driving a nice car, buying the stuff he wants, not stressing about money? Plus, what, exactly, is wrong with dating someone your own age?
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 02:35 AM
1

Chadfishing isn't really proof of much, other than proof that Tinder and similar sites are shallow and are generally about hookups, not long-term, real relationships. Both men and women who use the app generally know this, and it's why they don't care about personality. Men don't care if a woman is a shallow, vapid, dumb, whatever if it's just for a one-time or occasional hookup. Women don't care if a man is an asshole or shitty person if it's just for a one-time or occasional hookup. This is no…
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 02:33 AM
0

Don't you think Chadfishing is a colossal waste of time? So, y'all spend all this time doing these "experiments" so you can report back to your fellow incels when you could instead be spending that time on other methods of meeting women...?
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 01:39 AM
1

Too bad the name IFC is already taken...it could be the Incel Fighting Championship lmao
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 02:20 PM
1

You are young and don't understand how these things work. Practically no one pays for a house in cash or has a house paid for in cash, other than old people who have literally lived in the house long enough to pay it off over a 15-year or more likely 30-year period. Ignore, say, people on AITA because they are lying or just straight up making shit up. Even people who are rich usually finance their houses, actually, because they can invest that money in the meantime and make more off of it in inv…
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 12:08 AM
-3

Take a breath, dude. Those run-on sentences are something else.
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 11:55 PM
-1

You're too young to be caught up in this stupid bullshit. Get off the incel forums and go live in real life while you're still young.
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 11:30 PM
0

What are you going to lose? a gaming computer?
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 11:28 PM
1

What are you going to lose? a gaming computer?
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 11:28 PM
0

That’s because GigaChads aren’t in relationships, why would they be? There’s no incentive to settle with one woman when you’re wringing a new woman’s pussy juice out of your sheets every morning. Because some people don't want that. Some people want the companionship and actual love and caring of a long-term relationship.
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 11:26 PM
-3

According to this guy, if she's not an "18-20yr virgin waifu of culture who wants 40+ year old men and likes some fringe children's anime called Kemono Friends," she is useless. And because he can't get a women with his very specific (and weird) standards, it's "over." Do with that information what you will.
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 11:24 PM
0

Happy relationships and marriages happen. It's so amazing. I'm glad you have found yourself a great relationship. :)
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 11:23 PM
-7

Incels are the most oppressed group in society? lol
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 01:38 PM
3

People don't mind calling someone an incel out of left field, which I don't really like. But there are a lot of people who self-identify as incels, so I'm not sure what's wrong with calling them that, if that's what they refer to themselves as.
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 01:36 PM
2

I went and found this post. It's five months old. I think the guy looks kind and gentle, like an old soul. I like how in his post, he asked about what he should be doing differently. Much better than blaming women for not swiping.
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 01:32 PM
0

I did read it. But I'm saying guys who are short, sometimes have a receding hairline, sometimes have very shitty tattoos, and pretty much always have noticeable scar tissue on their faces and/or cauliflower ear, crooked nose due to being broken, etc. Basically, for a lot of them, the only thing they have going for them in regards to being conventionally attractive is being in good physical shape.
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 03:24 AM
-1

Thank you for your well-reasoned and civil response. I'm definitely not suggesting the second part. I've just been told by incels that these things (height & not necessarily conventionally attractive face) are non-negotiable for women, that there's nothing a man can do to make up for those things. I'm suggesting that men who don't meet these strict requirements can be attractive/appealing to women for other reasons. In this case, the things you mentioned. But in other cases, perhaps other things…
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 03:22 AM
1

But these guys aren't even close to the definition that incels give of Chad. I already addressed that in my post.
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 03:01 AM
1

There are many incels who say that women absolutely do not want a man who is less than 6' tall, period.
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 03:00 AM
1

How is someone a provider on less than $45k a year?
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 02:48 AM
-6

So you're admitting that there are things that can make up for height? Because many incels claim that height is the only important thing.
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 02:47 AM
-4

Please do?
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 02:47 AM
-11

Well that is literally impossible so maybe your IQ isn't as high as you think it is.
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 02:26 AM
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It's something I was discussing with someone on another sub, so I thought I'd come here and see what y'all had to say about it.
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 02:26 AM
1

Making up nonsense and running around the internet stating it as fact is low IQ behavior.
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 07:41 PM
0

Y'all think you're so smart but say the dumbest shit.
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 05:45 PM
0

Nah there's also gaming and jacking off to hentai I guess
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 03:06 PM
1

Yes, I'm sure the guys who sit around saying "all women want is Chad and I'm not Chad so it's over" are really actually out there trying to meet women.
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 03:01 PM
2

So you think sitting around on incel forums, circlejerking that "all women want is Chad and I'm not Chad so fuck women, it's over, boyos" is an effective way to meet a woman?
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 02:53 PM
1

Volcel?
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 02:27 PM
1

Why do you consider yourself an expert on this?
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 02:27 PM
-5

Lions aren't human beings, dipshit.
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 02:23 PM
0

These guys talk about women like we're hivemind aliens or something, rather than humans just like them lol
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 02:10 PM
-2

Men get mad either way it seems. Summed it up right here.
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 02:09 PM
0

Are you a woman? Do you think all women have a hivemind and all think the same way? You don't think there's anything that men or women can do to improve their physical appearance?
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 02:07 PM
0

You think conventionally attractive men never have relationship or sex issues?
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 02:05 PM
1

No, they aren't, they're sitting in echo chambers whining.
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 01:50 PM
1

What am I wrong about?
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 01:49 PM
1

Reverse cowgirl and doggy are not the same at all, so I'm confused on that. She needs to tell her man what she wants. Put her naked boobs in his face and ask him to love on him...he'll likely oblige. Guide his hand to her pussy. Again, he'll likely oblige. So on.
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 04:30 AM
1

Reverse cowgirl and doggy are not the same at all, so I'm confused on that. She needs to tell her man what she wants. Put her naked boobs in his face and ask him to love on him...he'll likely oblige. Guide his hand to her pussy. Again, he'll likely oblige. So on.
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 04:29 AM
-4

Oh yes they definitely do, in many aspects of life
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 04:12 AM
-3

Do you know this from real life experience, or from self-fulfilling prophecies after being a little socially awkward and then spending all of your spare time in echo chamber incel forums?
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 03:58 AM
-4

Can I ask...what do you mean by saying you are "treated as less than human because of the way you look?"
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 03:49 AM
1

I'm married and sexually active and it's hard to imagine not having sex at least every 2-3 days at this point in my life BUT when I was single that was not the case, I'm not someone who was into casual sex, so I went well over a year without it If my husband were to unexpectedly leave me or die or something I can't imagine pursuing sex with anyone else for a very very long time, if ever So idk, I mean it just depends. But it is insensitive to say someone who wants sex (and likely the intimacy an…
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 03:45 AM
2

It is true that sex isn't everything, but I suppose it's not really fair for sex-havers to tell non-sex havers to just "think about something else."
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 02:51 AM
-1

yeah, 20-year-old men who have never been in a relationship with a woman and who have never had sex with a woman think they're experts on how women think lmao
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 01:29 AM
2

It is definitely not how sexuality works. I'm a straight woman. I can appreciate a woman being pretty. I can assure you that if there were no dicks left on Earth, I still wouldn't be interested in sexual relations with a woman. I'd just pleasure myself with memories of my relations with my husband.
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 01:28 AM
1

A vast majority of women don't hate you or view you as disposable. They just wouldn't be interested in you, but you've spun that way out of proportion. This. Some incels say that women want them to be tortured, or dead, or whatever. It's like main character syndrome. Most people don't spend that much time thinking about random people that they aren't interested in romantically or as friends.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 08:57 PM
2

A vast majority of women don't hate you or view you as disposable. They just wouldn't be interested in you, but you've spun that way out of proportion. This. Some incels say that women want them to be tortured, or dead, or whatever. It's like main character syndrome. Most people don't spend that much time thinking about random people that they aren't interested in romantically or as friends.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 08:57 PM
0

What an asshole.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 08:38 PM
0

70%* and I don't know where you get the "lack of sexual attraction" motive from. Is there a study I've missed? He pulled it out of his ass, as this particular poster tends to do.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 08:29 PM
2

Right. Anyone who thinks that looks don't matter in regards to sex and relationships is delusional, irrational or dishonest. That is not what most so-called "bluepills" or "normies" are saying. It's like incels are arguing against a belief system that barely even exists.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 08:06 PM
2

Incels with a blackpill mentality often seem to see things as very black and white, without a lot of nuance. Maybe they think everyone else thinks the same way. For example, many incels seem to hold a very strong belief that physical appearance is the only thing that matters. So when you push back against that notion, they're like, "yOu'Re SaYiNg LoOkS dOn'T mAtTeR." No. That's not what I said, I don't think it's what most reasonable people think, either. I have never and will never say that app…
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 08:02 PM
1

I don't think all incels are romantically unsuccessful because they are "horrible people." I do think some of the more extreme incels are horrible people. I think many are young and inexperienced and suffering from depression. But then they fall into incel echo chambers and start to feel there is no hope when that's not true. This leads to these individuals never developing the social skills that they need to become romantically successful. This leads to a snowball effect, if you will. A self-fu…
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 06:07 PM
-1

Because "the Blackpill" is too extreme for most people. Most of us can acknowledge that there are some small tidbits of truth, but it's mostly exaggeration and unnecessary doom and gloom.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 06:05 PM
0

Nah I feel you. I mean it would be a bit tone deaf to start venting about these issues directly to someone who is lying in a hospital bed, dying of stage 4 cancer or something. But your feelings and problems are valid and you deserve to feel a certain type of way about them.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 05:25 PM
2

Yes, I agree that it's a bit cruel to discount someone's feelings because someone out there has it worse. There's always someone out there who has it worse. Someone could lose both of their legs, if that happened, it would be understandable for them to be feeling a certain way about it, it wouldn't be right to say oh yeah well some people lose both of their legs and both of their arms or whatever.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 04:58 PM
0

I've been arguing on the internet since I was in high school. It's a weird little hobby. You can always make time for a weird little hobby if you really want to. lol same
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 04:56 PM
7

My very first thought when I read this, this was definitely written by an incel lol
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 04:55 PM
0

Plenty of short guys get plenty of play.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 03:46 PM
1

This is not a blackpill sub.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 02:37 PM
2

How old are you? How many serious relationships have you been in? I'm not asking to be mean. But if you've never been in a long-term, serious relationship and really, truly in love, I don't think you "get it." And actually, I didn't say these relationships start that way. I literally mentioned long-term relationships.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 02:54 AM
-5

she's probably a member of the KKK (as all women are) Oh yayyyyy my favorite troll, back again with even more ridiculous troll shit lmao
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 02:21 AM
4

You do know there is a lot of fake shit on Reddit, right?
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 02:20 AM
1

Maybe I missed it, but where did she say she reported him? Someone else might have. What was described was creepy, odd, unprofessional, gross behavior. Where did this woman brag about getting him fired?
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 02:19 AM
1

It happens, I guess.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 01:29 AM
0

You can call it settling if you want. I think both men and women at some point realize that we're ordinary people and get along more with ordinary people and are just in general a better match with ordinary people. Also, have you ever been in a long-term, serious, head-over-heels relationship with someone? You start to love EVERYTHING about that person. You are 1000% attracted to them in every single way.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 01:28 AM
-5

Tinder isn't a good example. By its very nature, it's shallow. Plus, in most markets, there are way more men using Tinder than women, meaning that the odds are stacked against you. Women preferring tall guys is like men preferring large breasts. It would be dishonest to pretend that these aren't popular and common preferences. For some, it's a total dealbreaker. But many are willing to overlook these things for the right person. 14.5% of men in the US are 6' or taller, but I'll clue you in...muc…
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 11:20 PM
1

I think for most who push the MAP movement, they aren't encouraging the person to act on their actions. Instead, they're trying to reduce stigma so these people can get the help they need. But there are fringe sickos and weirdos from all political affiliations, so I have no doubt there are some who support it. I'm referring to the posts on that .is forum where people are regularly talking about how "women" are at our "peak" at disturbingly young ages. Most seem to think in the 14-16 age group, b…
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 06:43 PM
4

Also, I would like to address this: You want incels to shut up. They're not going to. They have a right to say what they want. Maybe they do. But it's true on the other side, too. Others have a right to say what they want, too. If incels post misogynistic content on public websites, others can post non-misogynistic content on those same public websites.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 05:09 PM
2

Misogyny is not illegal. Inciting violence, encouraging pedophilia, promoting rape, etc. is or should be. I've not really seen that here, thankfully, but there are online incel spaces that do encourage these types of things.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 05:06 PM
3

--Legalize, deregulate and destigmatize sex work in all forms I agree with the first and last but not the middle. One of the good things about legal sex work is the fact it's regulated, making it safer for everyone involved. In Nevada, sex workers are required to have weekly exams by a doctor and STD tests. This is for their safety and the safety of their clients. Sex work is done in brothels, which is safer for both women and men; the risk of a woman being physically harmed or a man being drugg…
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 05:05 PM
-2

The last time I shared data (statistics and sources), a blackpiller on here told me that people lie with statistics lol
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 05:00 PM
0

So classy. /s
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 06:14 AM
6

You think women piss blood 2 times per month?
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 06:03 AM
-3

When do women say that? I'm confused about what we're debating here tbh. Must be my dumb female brain. ETA: Maybe I get it now. You're saying y'all don't act like that in person, you just say it on the internet? But you think you act totally normal IRL?
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 05:36 AM
-12

I mean, look at the stuff that self-proclaimed incels say online! This sub isn't so bad, but look at previous subs or that nasty .is forum. You can't understand why that kind of content makes women think that incels don't have good personalities?
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 05:09 AM
-11

Source?
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 05:00 AM
1

You're right, that could be argued, but not by my dog lol. She's 12, almost 13 years old and I'm not sure there's anything me or my husband have eaten that she hasn't had at some point, so she's a bad example lol. (and we're bad dog parents) Example: She likes smoking weed with my husband, so much so that she'll sit and look at him, the dab rig, him, the dab rig, back and forth until he smokes and blows the smoke in her face. He's always given her Dr. Pepper, so she'll stare at his drink and eve…
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 04:55 AM
2

If it's only about sex, and you don't mind being with a woman with multiple partners, have you looked into sex workers?
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 04:45 AM
-13

We do?
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 04:29 AM
1

Not to be argumentative, but I don't think so lol
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 04:10 AM
1

yeah, it's pretty fucked
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 01:19 AM
1

Yeah, it's pretty fucked
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 01:18 AM
1

What I’m getting at is APD, BPD, blackpill subreddits are on to something. Religious nuts, idiots, and white knights will continue to slow progress because of the taboo of talking about sex and relationships in a logical context. But with enough effort you can easily deconstruct human existence into basic patterns and fundamentals. As for this part, you're so close but so far. People fuck. Period.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 01:10 AM
1

Yeah but we're not the same as all mammals. My dog, bless her heart, LOVES eating cat shit and trash. I don't know about y'all, but that's not my thing.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 01:08 AM
1

I'd have to know more details. How often were they seeing one another, just how serious were things in the first month? I mean, were they talking and seeing one another once a week on casual dates, or was it much more intense/serious? Idk. I do think it was shitty behavior for sure, it's not something I would've done. It would be very sad if a man killed himself over something this. Let's remember that this was a one-year relationship. So much life before and life ahead. "Love of your life" is a…
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 11:22 PM
2

I get it on all of your points.
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 10:01 PM
2

There are both men and women who pretend to be someone different on the internet, for any number of reasons. Ever heard of "Chadfishing" or Tindr experiments where incels pretend to be a "Chad" or a woman on Tindr to see what their experiences are like?
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 08:23 PM
-5

Oh I wasn't saying it was good or ethical, just saying that's the mindset behind being this way. When I met my husband, I was head over heels from basically day one. We didn't have sex right away, but I definitely wasn't seeing anyone else either. I don't really know if "cheating" is the right word if it was that early in the relationship and they weren't exclusive, but it still doesn't feel right to me. I definitely understand why the boyfriend is crushed.
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 08:04 PM
1

I feel like you're obsessed with Chad, bro.
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 08:02 PM
-6

Generally, when women withhold sex from the nice guy in the beginning of the relationship, it's not because they're trying to punish the guy or make the guy prove he's worthy. It's because they want the guy's respect and want him to think she won't just sleep with anyone.
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 07:45 PM
-4

Right? My husband's on the shorter side and has a receding hairline and he never had trouble getting women before me. He had multiple longer-term relationships as well as flings.
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 05:24 PM
-1

Where did you get this from?
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 05:13 PM
1

Are women denied rights ? Are women equal to men in front of the law ? Do they have the same benefits and the same obligations ( yes obligations) as men ? You do know this has not always been the case in the United States, right? And that there are countries where women have very little rights to this day, in 2023, right? It was 1974 before women in the United States were allowed to open bank accounts on their own. Girls in Afghanistan aren't allowed to go to school. As just a couple of examples…
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 05:11 PM
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That's the thing, though. People aren't lying to you. The world really isn't the way that y'all think. It's easy to think that when you're getting all of your information from high school, social media, dating apps, and incel forums.
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 04:51 PM
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You can share actual statistics and studies here, and people will say things like "people lie with statistics."
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 03:55 PM
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That's the way of the world these days I think. Kind of like politics. You've got the hardcore MAGA Jan 6th-supporting, I-love-Kyle-Rittenhouse conservatives, and you've got the everything-is-racist-or-homophobic, "trans men should participate in women's sports" liberals. With everything from politics to "pills," I think most of us fall somewhere in-between. But the extremists are so rabid that everything is seen as black or white.
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 03:53 PM
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Yeah, I can post here because: r/AllPillDebate, where nobody is excluded from the discussion!
/r/AllPillDebate23/07/23 02:44 AM
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Eh take it as you will. I post here because I want at least some of y'all to understand that life and the real world isn't the way you think it is. Sometimes I think you need to hear voices outside of your echo chamber. I don't understand how a bunch of men who have never had relationships or sex think they actually know what it's like more than people who have. I know some are too far gone but I have incels reach out to me privately who seem to want to make changes. I will take into considerati…
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 08:10 PM
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lol so wrong. Nothing's worse than some fuckboi with an overinflated ego saying misogynistic shit.
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 04:22 PM
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I am critical of legitimate misandry, yes.
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 03:21 PM
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I said I feel for incels being lonely and romantically/sexually unsuccessful. I do not have sympathy for the misogynistic hate that they spread.
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 02:26 PM
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I absolutely feel for incels being lonely and romantically/sexually unsuccessful. That's why I wish I could help.
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 01:40 PM
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Nah I'll stick around
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 01:09 PM
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Please clarify what you mean
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 06:40 AM
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there are legit people on 90-day sex droughts? omg I'd die
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 06:09 AM
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But, people want you to accept your life being shit because they want to fuck you over. Who is trying to fuck you over, and in what way?
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 06:07 AM
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The small city I live in is 68% black and 26% white. Lots of mixed couples here. Who gives a fuck? Why do y'all care?
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 05:40 AM
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Well fucking of course men would be justified in resisting a system like this. It's one of the most absurd things I've ever seen. I have a hard time thinking anyone other than the smallest percentage of the weirdest fringe wackos would ever support anything like this. I, as a woman, would resist a system like this. Probably not violently because I'm not violent, but I would definitely understand violence in this type of absurd situation.
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 01:34 AM
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Awww this was such a cool movie, don't turn it into a bad thing lol
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 01:10 AM
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This is random cherrypicking, for one thing. I can cherrypick articles or videos that portray men in a negative light as well. Doesn't mean all men or women are that way. For another, you are correct, we are talking about children. Not established adults in established adult relationships.
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 12:25 AM
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No, he's not a "beta." He's got what he jokingly calls "short man syndrome," he's definitely not a pushover by any stretch of the imagination and actually has a hair trigger temper, although not usually with me. He's the more dominant one in our relationship, by far. I'm definitely the more submissive one. I like it that way personally. As for provider, we both provide for the household. When we met, our incomes were roughly the same. There have been times when he made more money than I did. Rig…
/r/AllPillDebate22/07/23 12:15 AM
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Please tell me how what you say is "proven?" It's been proven that women want "sub8 men" (your words, not mine, I think humans are more than just a one-digit number, no matter what they look like) to be tortured and killed in rituals? You have ZERO evidence for that.
/r/AllPillDebate21/07/23 11:29 PM
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You're so out of touch with reality that it's concerning. I'm seriously still unsure of whether you're a very convincing troll or just in a very bad place. If it's the latter, I hope things get better. I'm even here to talk if it's in good faith.
/r/AllPillDebate21/07/23 11:27 PM
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First of all, we don't know if all of those girls knew about one another. Secondly, that's 14 women out of 3.8 billion women on this planet. Note that I didn't say NO women are willing to "cockshare." I didn't even say MOST women aren't willing to cockshare (although I believe that to be the truth). I said: "A lot of women aren't willing to cockshare."
/r/AllPillDebate21/07/23 11:21 PM
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He's *MY* Chad and the only man I ever want for the rest of my life, but he wouldn't match incels' idea of "Chad," since he's not tall. Like, you do know Chad isn't like a scientific term or anything, I'm just communicating with y'all in y'alls language. Most women aren't going around talking about "Chad."
/r/AllPillDebate21/07/23 11:08 PM
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LMAO you post nothing but nonsense but want to ask ME for proof??? Hysterical.
/r/AllPillDebate21/07/23 11:07 PM
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And I quote: r/AllPillDebate, where nobody is excluded from the discussion! This is a more tolerant discussion platform that allows subscribers of any "pill ideology" to come discuss and debate thier ideas, or research/facts about dating and relationships. Bluepill, Redpill, Purplepill, Whitepill, Pinkpill, Blackpill. Subscribers of any "Pill" ideology are welcome, so long as you follow Reddit's General TOS
/r/AllPillDebate21/07/23 10:13 PM
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​ A lot of women are not willing to "cockshare." The vast majority of women don't want to commit violence against men they find unattractive, and especially aren't supportive of weird sacrifice rituals. If a woman isn't interested in a man sexually, romantically, or in a friend-type way, she generally just wants him to leave her alone. Not to be tortured or killed. How exactly do we pass legislation related to "sub8 men" when looks are so subjective? Lots of women think Jason Mamoa or Johnny Dep…
/r/AllPillDebate21/07/23 10:10 PM
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Start with...all of it.
/r/AllPillDebate21/07/23 09:52 PM
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You're literally the biggest troll on the planet or completely and totally insane.
/r/AllPillDebate21/07/23 09:13 PM
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What a person thinks is normal human behavior is often heavily based on their own experiences. Basically, men who spend the majority of their time in Discord/Reddit/gaming spaces are going to think that their lifestyle is very normal. And it's not terribly abnormal, but it's not the "norm," either. As for women and toxic masculinity re: these individuals. Well...any woman who has spent time gaming has heard some pretty misogynist (and even downright frightening) things. There's also a considerab…
/r/AllPillDebate21/07/23 06:03 PM
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I shared actual evidence and statistics of what I'm saying. You did not. "Most married women don't contribute money to thinks like mortgages, car payments, utilities, or groceries" is an untrue statement. You can't just say things and they magically be true. What you're referring to used to be the case but isn't anymore. In 29% of marriages today, both spouses earn about the same amount of money. Just over half (55%) of marriages today have a husband who is the primary or sole breadwinner and 16…
/r/AllPillDebate21/07/23 05:24 PM
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What year do you think this is? You do know that every marriage isn't a dynamic where the man fully supports his wife and kids all by himself, right? https://www.americanprogress.org/article/breadwinning-mothers-continue-u-s-norm/ Most children who grow up in the United States in the 21st century will be raised in households in which all of the adults work.1 They are most likely to be raised by a single working parent or two married parents who are both employed, and only a minority of children …
/r/AllPillDebate21/07/23 04:20 PM
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So you think you know what everyone on this planet thinks and what everyone on this planet is attracted to?
/r/AllPillDebate21/07/23 04:14 PM
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If Chad was busting in her all the time, she wouldn't be childless lmao
/r/AllPillDebate21/07/23 03:24 PM
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For some very shallow people, looks are the most important thing. But not everyone is shallow in that way. Also, what one finds attractive, another may not, and vice versa. I don't find Jason Mamoa or Johnny Depp to be attractive at all, but many women go nuts over them.
/r/AllPillDebate21/07/23 03:19 PM
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You did fool me briefly and I'm kind of embarrassed about that part now, but you are so clearly a troll and it is hilarious. Bravo.
/r/AllPillDebate21/07/23 01:34 AM
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I think it's a troll lmao
/r/AllPillDebate21/07/23 01:32 AM
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No kidding, that's why I think this is a troll. Because it's a pretty well-known fact that in general, women don't really enjoy nonstop jackhammering. For me, I like it for a couple of minutes toward the very end, but for 4 hours? lmfao
/r/AllPillDebate21/07/23 01:31 AM
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It's official, I now know for sure that you're a troll lmao
/r/AllPillDebate21/07/23 01:29 AM
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Do I think good sex can help a man keep a woman? Oh, 100%, depending on how good we're talking and how important sex is to that woman. To a woman, "good sex" is a little different than what you might think. It's not really about dick size or how long he lasts. It's about things like...is he making an effort to please me and help me get off?
/r/AllPillDebate20/07/23 06:58 PM
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Some women like video games. Some just have other interests. You're reaching. Incels think about Chad and Tyrone way more than the average woman does.
/r/AllPillDebate20/07/23 03:43 PM
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Rich and famous men have always gotten plenty of play from beautiful women. The term "gold digger" dates back to the early 1900s. This is not a new phenomenon, nor is it indicative of modern dating culture or society as a whole.
/r/AllPillDebate20/07/23 03:08 PM
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You're comparing apples and oranges. In your first example, you're talking about someone cherry-picking an article that makes one woman look bad. All women aren't like that. It'd be the same if I cherry-picked one of many, many articles out there about men raping and killing women, etc. Not all men are like that. When someone talks to you about your OWN behavior, that's different.
/r/AllPillDebate20/07/23 01:57 PM
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About 5'5.5"
/r/AllPillDebate20/07/23 12:52 PM
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This is a subreddit where nobody is excluded from the discussion! I can talk about my personal life and my sexy short husband as much as I want! :)
/r/AllPillDebate20/07/23 05:09 AM
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I have never and will never say that certain features aren't more attractive. I have never and will never say that looks don't matter. I just know, for a fact, that looks are not the only thing that matter. I also know, for a fact, that women -- just like men -- have different preferences about what is considered "good looks." I also know that plenty of men are getting laid who don't meet the perfect "Chad" criteria that gets spelled out on these online spaces. As I've said before, only 14.5% of…
/r/AllPillDebate20/07/23 03:39 AM
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My husband is a little under 5'6" and he's the greatest. He had romantic and sexual success before me...he was with 6 women total, 2 that he had long-term relationships with, 1 that he had 2 kids with. All before he was 25. Height is a "thing" but it's definitely not as important as y'all make it seem. In the US, only 14.5% of men are over 6' tall but 67% are married. That doesn't include the many, many men who live with their partners but aren't married.
/r/AllPillDebate20/07/23 02:18 AM
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Barbie has been around since the late 1950s and many, many women grew up with "her." So obviously Barbie isn't anything new, but I do think the recent spike in interest from adult women is likely somewhat related to the new movie.
/r/AllPillDebate20/07/23 12:57 AM
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I don't care if you believe me and I don't care if you trust me. You're posting things on a public subreddit where, and I quote from the sub's description, "nobody is excluded from the discussion!" I saw some bullshit in your comment, so I thought I would call it out. You or someone literally made that up, that women only want 4-6 hour sex sessions. It's absurd. On average, the actual act of P-in-V sex is like 5-10 minutes. Maybe like 30mins to an hour if you include lots of foreplay, teasing, e…
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 08:46 PM
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I'm a woman. I think I know what I want when it comes to sex. I can assure you it's not 4-6 hour sex sessions.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 08:08 PM
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LMAO. I've had sex thousands of times in my life and it's never been over four hours lol, much less six. Where are you getting your information from?
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 08:03 PM
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I do think the word incel is overused and that some people use it to refer to any man they don't agree with. When I talk about incels, I'm referring specifically to those who self-identify as "incel" or "blackpill." And I'm going off what I see on incel spaces. I do think there is now a difference between someone just being involuntarily celibate vs. those who identify as incels and hang out in online incel spaces. The latter seem to share a lot of similar views, or at the very least, they're wi…
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 08:02 PM
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Well for one thing, I can't imagine women all wanting 4-hour sex sessions. That's definitely not real life.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 07:42 PM
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That's really rude if women do that to you. How are you approaching them? What are you saying?
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 07:40 PM
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I'm going to have to see a little more proof that men are quitting working in droves because they're mad they aren't getting pussy. As far as I can tell, the "no pussy no work" so-called "movement" is a small pool of fringe, chronically online weirdos. It's not some mass exodus from the workforce. As for me not giving a shit about them, that's not true. I talk to incels all the time, try to help them and give them advice. As long as they aren't rude or just outright trolling, I'm open to convers…
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 06:24 PM
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It's just popular right now because of the new movie. It'll die down.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 06:22 PM
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Having social skills and making friends goes a long way toward getting a girlfriend. It helps you gain confidence, learn how to read social cues, know how to start and participate in conversations. These are all things that can help in the dating world. Additionally, as you make friends, you increase the pool of people you know. Maybe, you meet a woman who you aren't interested in and who isn't interested in you...but maybe she has a friend who would be a great match. Also, a good relationship i…
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 06:17 PM
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There is no therapist out there that will entertain this nonsense.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 06:10 PM
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Yeah, I can get sex anytime I want, but so can my husband. Who is on the short side, by the way. I don't think that matters, but apparently incels do. 67% of men are married. That's not including the many, many men out there who live with their partners but who aren't actually married. 60% have kids. Your theory holds no water. The economy is collapsing because of shitty policies, pandemic-related inflation, and the corporate/capitalist nature of the world these days, where the rich do everythin…
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 05:55 PM
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No you aren't.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 05:37 PM
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I do remember 2008. Not the other ones though. Just about every man I know is getting pussy on the regular. Also, surely, just because a man isn't romantically successful surely doesn't men that he has "nothing to lose and nothing to live for." That's a little dramatic. I love having sex, but it's not the end all, be all.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 05:35 PM
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Blackpill will never become mainstream because the majority of people on this planet know that it's a bunch of whiny, made-up bullshit, spouted over and over by socially awkward guys who are mad they can't get their dicks wet.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 05:32 PM
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Oh my god you really think you did something here don't you?
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 05:31 PM
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The economy is shit right now, but it's not because a few men are pissy because they can't get their dick wet.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 05:29 PM
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My husband is very much a sexy man and he's not tall. He is handsome though. :)
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 05:22 PM
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I'm honestly not sure why average and below average looking men are working so hard and getting virtually nothing in return. What do you mean? People have to work to keep a roof over their heads, eat, buy things they want, etc. It's not like it's all related to getting sex lol
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 05:22 PM
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He's an extreme example, for sure. I have seen plenty of incels with their own lists, though, here but mostly in other online spaces, now that I think of it. Most seem to only want young virgins, many have ethnic preferences, many want a very specific body type, no single moms, etc. Again, nothing wrong with that at all, but if you're significantly reducing your own dating pool, you can't really claim that ALL women are rejecting you. You're essentially rejecting most of them? But, if you're loo…
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 05:12 PM
1

Ahh, you mentioned saint or monk so I thought maybe you were religious. (Not necessarily Christian).
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 05:11 PM
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Get involved in your local church?
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 04:20 PM
-1

There's no such thing as Kemono Friends. It's a cartoon.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 04:16 PM
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My second point is something I see here all the time. That 40-year-old anime guy that's always posting? He's only willing to pursue women who are 18-20 years old, virgin, and obsessed with some obscure anime. I mean, those are some very specific standards. It's not fair to claim that all women are too picky because you're having a hard time finding someone who meets that specific criteria.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 04:15 PM
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Well, to be fair, in my original comment, I mentioned a bar in a restaurant. That's usually a more low-key atmosphere. Plus, there's really no awkwardness or expectation...you're just enjoying a meal and a couple of drinks, and possibly having a conversation with someone nearby. I wasn't really picturing a booming nightclub or anything. I kind of forget about those because I never go to them lol
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 04:09 PM
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It isn't a problem for a guy to have standards or preferences. At all. It only becomes a problem when: They have a hypocritical double standard; women are bitches for having their own standards. They cry that no women want them when, in fact, they're only willing to pursue a very small percentage of women. They treat women like shit for not meeting their standards. It's fine to not be interested in a fat woman or a single mom. It's not fine to go out of your way to be cruel to these people just …
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 03:52 PM
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That's because it's a children's show. Most adults aren't interested in children's shows.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 03:41 PM
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OP said they want to gain social skills. The only way to do that is to socialize with people. You don't have to be a "Chad" to have a conversation. Maybe you aren't getting sex out of it, but is sex everything? Maybe you're getting other things, like social skills, confidence, and...perhaps interesting and fun conversation? Maybe a new friend? Also, newsflash, it's not just TV star attractive men who are getting laid.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 03:38 PM
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I think he said before 44 but I'm not sure. Definitely 40+
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 03:33 PM
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Cougars are a thing!
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 02:54 PM
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You do not have to be TV star attractive to have a conversation with a woman at a bar lol. I didn't say to spend hours looking for women to talk to. Quite the opposite. Go to have dinner and a couple of drinks. Enjoy yourself and your own company. If you have a chance to strike up a conversation with someone (man or woman, any age), do so. You asked how to gain social skills. That's not going to happen sitting at home on incel forums. The only way to gain social skills is to get out and be aroun…
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 02:36 PM
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I'm a woman. :)
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 01:29 PM
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I'm a woman and I go to bars alone. But anyway, who says they have to be alone? Sure, I can see a big group being intimidating, but why not chat with 2-3 women who are together?
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 01:28 PM
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You think many of today's women aren't happy just doing our thing, no kids?
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 04:24 AM
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I was somewhat a loser in high school and didn't really have a "social circle" (I had so-called friends but they liked to stab me in the back or talk shit about me) OR teen love, really. I developed my social skills by waiting tables in a restaurant from 19-22. It helped a LOT.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 04:10 AM
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Step one is getting off the computer and leaving the house. Step two is going and doing shit, and talking to people when you do it. Not with the intention of dating, just with the intention of being social. In fact, if you've spent the past several years locked in your room on the computer, it's probably better for these initial social reactions to NOT be toward women you're attracted to. Go sit at the bar at a restaurant and have dinner (with or without drinks, whatever your preference), talk t…
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 04:08 AM
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Bring an argument so we can debate it.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 04:01 AM
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We get better in our 30s! ;)
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 03:29 AM
1

What are we debating?
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 07:32 PM
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No, y'all just all repeat nonsense that objectively isn't true but swear it is. Then, when someone calls you out on it, it's just whores Chad betabuxx something something Chad's cum.
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 06:22 PM
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Sometimes daddy issues Sometimes money Sometimes attraction preferences Sometimes naive and preyed on
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 05:44 PM
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Why do blackpillers just repeat the same nonsense over and over and call themselves "based" and "high IQ?"
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 05:39 PM
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Look again. It's literally in the graphic at the top. "85% of beastiality offenders are white and male." I don't hate white males at all. I'm married to one and love him very much. I have a white male little brother who has always been one of my favorite people on the planet. Why do you keep talking about cows? That's concerning.
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 02:17 PM
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I don't know about TikTok videos or anything, but this article cites multiple studies. It says that 4.75% of the population self-report to have engaged in beastiality at one point. 86% of beastiality offenders are men, and 14% are women. 85% of beastiality offenders are white males. https://bedbible.com/how-common-is-bestiality-and-zoophillia-statistics/
/r/AllPillDebate17/07/23 01:44 PM
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Fucking a cow or fucking a dog is disgusting and wrong, whether it's a man or woman doing it, no matter what their fucked up justification might be. There are very very few women who like dogs more than men sexually.
/r/AllPillDebate16/07/23 02:22 PM
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Nobody wants short men alive? That's a big exaggeration.
/r/AllPillDebate16/07/23 03:47 AM
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It was a dumb comment that didn't deserve one.
/r/AllPillDebate16/07/23 02:13 AM
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lol okay Einstein
/r/AllPillDebate16/07/23 01:33 AM
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I thought that was all a bit but I don't really know
/r/AllPillDebate15/07/23 11:03 PM
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I don't really understand what you mean by "cucked" him. My understanding is that they have a monogamous marriage? If you're talking about money, she's relatively successful in her own right, and they work on the podcast together. Tom's standup is much more successful than hers, but it's not like she'd be poor on her own. We listen to their podcast sometimes, I've not seen any indication that their marriage is on the rock. Your Mom's House fans don't like Christina and think he should ditch her,…
/r/AllPillDebate15/07/23 09:58 PM
1

Isn't that a cartoon?
/r/AllPillDebate15/07/23 09:56 PM
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Zoophilia is much more common among men than women, and still, it's incredibly rare.
/r/AllPillDebate15/07/23 07:51 PM
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I always find it interesting when incels who have zero experience with women, relationships, and sex try to tell me what things are really like lol
/r/AllPillDebate15/07/23 07:51 PM
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They got together before he got rich and famous. But what's wrong with her looks anyway? She's a busty blonde who is pushing 50, I think she looks fine for her age.
/r/AllPillDebate15/07/23 07:43 PM
1

There's no such thing as transage.
/r/AllPillDebate15/07/23 07:35 PM
1

No need to stoop to their level. That's my opinion anyway.
/r/AllPillDebate15/07/23 12:27 AM
1

Yeah, I guess I get the whole "why do I have to wait for weeks/months when you sucked another guy's dick on the first night" or whatever thing. I can see why that's an issue.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 11:01 PM
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Premature balding isn't something to pick on someone for. Do better. The constant complaining is an issue though.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 10:14 PM
1

Yeah I'm in my 30s and I agree, this really isn't a thing. I won't say no one because there are random weird assholes out there, but the average adult isn't going around bullying people for not having sex lol
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 10:13 PM
0

Who mocks you? How do they know? That kind of thing is private. The only way someone knows is if you tell them.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 10:11 PM
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I guess there was a spell where people called Henry Cavill an incel online (I found it by looking up Henry Cavill + incel on Google lol), but people were calling him that because of some toxic behaviors he displayed toward women on a TV set and whatnot. It had nothing to do with how much sex he gets/doesn't get. (and I'm sure he gets plenty).
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 10:11 PM
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No one is thinking about how much sex you're having, honestly. People only call incels "incels" because of the ideology that they spout. It has nothing to do with how much sex they have.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 10:08 PM
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Men don't have to approach women if they don't want to.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 09:25 PM
0

Wrong. I love my husband with every fiber of my being. I have for 13 years. I understand relationships aren't for everyone, but for some of us, they are 100% necessary.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 08:35 PM
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I have. There are always risks that go along with sex. Yet, when prostitution is legalized, everyone involved is able to take as many steps as possible to reduce that risk. Many people are vaccinated against HPV, including many (if not most) sex workers. Condoms, regular STD testing, and regular doctor's visits help prevent the spread of diseases.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 07:56 PM
0

To some, having their boyfriend or girlfriend or wife or husband is 100% necessary.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 07:55 PM
2

Why shouldn't sex work be legal? It's going on anyway. If it's legal, it's much safer for everyone. In Nevada, where prostitution is legal, the women are tested for STDs and checked over by a doctor regularly (once a week, I think). Sex work is done in a brothel, which greatly reduces the chances of women being attacked or killed, and it greatly reduces the chances of men being drugged or robbed. Women who want to make money from sex work can do so, and men who want to make uses of these service…
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 07:43 PM
2

Sex and relationships should be illegal? What? lol
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 07:39 PM
1

Share them if you find them! I'd like to read them lol
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 06:25 PM
1

You can't get in contact with her again somehow?
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 05:40 PM
1

If she's not a virgin, she better be giving it up before 3 dates or I'm out. Hmmm interesting take. Even if she made previous men wait? I wasn't a virgin when I met my husband, but both previous men were fairly long-term relationships who I certainly didn't sleep with right away. I wasn't into casual sex. My husband and I saw one another daily for about two months before we slept together.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 03:57 PM
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I think men and women both feel nervous and anxious and kind of ridiculous when approaching one another lol
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 03:26 PM
-2

Someone telling you to date women your age gave you PTSD?
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 03:25 PM
1

I am prepared to simp for you? What does that even mean from a woman's standpoint, I wonder? What an odd thing to say.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 03:24 PM
1

This is something that I have a lot of questions about in general. It seems that many redpill/blackpill guys only want virgins, or at least women with very little sexual experience. Yet, they don't generally seem to be particularly religious, and they seem to want a woman who will have sex with them very quickly?
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 03:23 PM
1

Yeah don't be a fucking dork about it, but you get my gist lol As to why I feel self conscious? I mean, not so much now. But just as men are kind of conditioned throughout life that they are supposed to be taller, the opposite is true for women. For me, my mom is very short (5'1"), and I have been taller than her since 6th grade. I always wished I was small and petite like her. It's not something I really think or worry about now.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 01:40 PM
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I hope you get the help you need.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 06:55 AM
1

A lot of women (myself included) feel self-conscious about being taller than the guy. So tell her you think it's sexy! "How tall are you? Mmm that's nice, I like that. I like a tall girl."
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 06:10 AM
1

Share the study please
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 02:56 AM
-1

they're just trying to bring you down into their miserable echo chamber. Don't do it.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 02:55 AM
-1

Says a man who thinks he knows what women want and care about.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 02:52 AM
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Yes, a man can make up for his lack of height with his face, personality, so on. Think about it like this. If you ask a woman if she'd prefer a taller man than her, she'll often say yes. If you ask a man if he'd prefer a woman with big breasts, average breasts, or small breasts, he'll likely say large breasts. BUT....if a guy meets a girl who checks all of his other boxes and more, won't he often be into her, even if she has average breasts instead of big ones? It's kind of the same thing. I thi…
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 02:43 AM
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Are you kidding me? LOTS of women drool over the men I shared. I only have eyes for my husband these days, but I used to think Mark Wahlberg was as hot as they get lol. And really, you think Tom Cruise gets more shit for his height than compliments on his looks? Must hang out in incel forums because that's so not true lol. For the longest, Tom Cruise was considered like one of the hottest men on the planet.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 02:21 AM
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Your wife's comments don't show the "true nature of women." They show her particular preferences.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 12:48 AM
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To add: many famous "heartthrobs" from over the years aren't tall at all. Tom Cruise is 5'7" Daniel Ratcliffe is 5'5" Elijah Wood is 5'6" Usher is 5'8" Mark Wahlberg is 5'8" Tobey Maguire is 5'8" And before anyone is like wAh BuT tHeYrE fAmOuS...I mean yeah, but so are plenty of other guys, if height was the only important thing, women wouldn't have crushes on them and would instead only have crushes on taller celebrities (of which there are plenty), but they still do. :)
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 12:47 AM
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For some, a man not being tall is a dealbreaker. For many (maybe most), a man being tall is an attractive feature but not a dealbreak. For some, it doesn't matter at all. For some (generally shorter women, but not always), a partner who isn't tall is actually preferred. Source: I'm a woman, 5'8" and married to a man between 5'5"-5'6". I've had various discussions with fellow women about men and preferences over the years.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 12:41 AM
1

What are your thoughts on men's non-human, fictional crushes? Such as "waifus" and other anime characters, including those that are drawn to look like children and/or who have cat-like features, etc?
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 12:39 AM
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So you're saving yourself for a waifu? lol
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 05:50 PM
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But we weren't talking about them. I don't like those subs either.
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 12:22 PM
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Ahhh but all those guys do is talk about women lol....they very much don't seem to actually be going their own way.
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 11:38 AM
2

Thanks, Rat. :)
/r/AllPillDebate12/07/23 11:58 PM
0

You're just nitpicking. Seriously, get a life.
/r/AllPillDebate12/07/23 07:10 PM
1

And he would. You're just nitpicking because some of y'all refuse to believe that there are normal, everyday people who are in happy, good relationships.
/r/AllPillDebate12/07/23 05:15 PM
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I literally mentioned in my comment how masculine my husband is. You're saying this shit because I'm a couple of inches taller than him. Which isn't something either of us can help. What a weird take.
/r/AllPillDebate12/07/23 02:15 PM
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Because I'm a couple of inches taller than him? Weird take.
/r/AllPillDebate12/07/23 02:13 PM
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Y'all seriously overthink all of this shit lol
/r/AllPillDebate12/07/23 01:55 PM
1

Have fun and good luck
/r/AllPillDebate12/07/23 12:20 PM
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Okay. $2k and 20 hours gets you from JFK to Manila. Did you book your flight yet?
/r/AllPillDebate12/07/23 12:09 PM
2

I am the type of dude that women don't want to become a passport bro, because I would kill it there and actually be happy, but not Chadly enough for America. If you weren't getting a lot of interest from American women, why do you think that American women give a shit if you go to the Philippines and hook up with women there? Like, who actually gives a fuck? Did you book your flight yet?
/r/AllPillDebate12/07/23 11:59 AM
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I am now 35 years old. I met my husband in 2010. I was 21 and turned 22. He was 25, turning 26. I think match.com and stuff were a thing, but dating apps and stuff weren't things, and I didn't use them. When we met, I immediately felt like I met the love of my life. My protector, my sexy love of my life. I'm 5'8" and he's between 5'5" and 5'6" but it didn't matter. He's so masculine, he feels so strong and sexy, and he always speaks up even when I'm afraid to. We got married in 2014 and I'd lite…
/r/AllPillDebate12/07/23 02:39 AM
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My comment was more sarcasm than anything tbh
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 06:52 PM
1

Source: A long, ranty post of a bunch of quotes that you made up and listed.
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 06:35 PM
2

And why do you care if women have fun before they settle down? Don't guys want to have a little fun before they settle down?
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 05:53 PM
1

Ahhh there you go. Ranting and putting words in people's mouths. Something you seem to spend a lot of time doing on this sub.
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 05:47 PM
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Yeah, I'm a child of divorce, and my mom always encouraged us to have a relationship with our dad. It was him who really wasn't interested. He was supposed to have us every other weekend from Friday night until Monday morning. There was always an excuse until it turned into him just picking us up for a couple of hours to go out for pizza like one Sunday evening a month. That was all his doing. He's embarrassed to tell his family the truth about why we really aren't close (that we were just an in…
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 04:59 PM
1

I don't know what kind of women you hang around, but they're different than the ones I know.
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 04:57 PM
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Male victims aren’t held responsible, if your talking about men loosing in court there is absolutely nothing stopping them fighting to see their kids but the vast majority didn’t do any parenting to begin with and that’s why don’t bother after divorce either Yep, you said this perfectly.
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 04:13 PM
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You don't think women date/marry mechanics, farmhands, and plumbers?
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 04:10 PM
1

That second part.
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 04:09 PM
1

"Majority of them dont even work jobs" is bullshit and you know it. 77% of women from ages 25 to 34 are in the workforce. The notion that females are based off of emotions and men aren't is crazy talk. Men just show emotions in a different way. Punching a wall because you lose a video game or crying all over the internet because you can't get your dick wet are examples of men being emotional.
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 04:09 PM
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Yes they do. Lots of women date men who aren't conventionally attractive. Those actions speak louder than incels' words of nonsense.
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 03:36 PM
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So you want to learn how to be "smooth" so you can abuse women? Yikes
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 04:27 AM
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I'm a woman, you aren't. You don't know lol
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 03:53 AM
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The difference is that most abusers are smooth and don't show their abusive ways until later...where y'all incels just put it out there. Which, in a way, I kinda respect that part.
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 03:47 AM
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So, you think women who have been exposed to abuse their entire lives just "do it for the tingles?"
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 03:45 AM
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Are Harleys cool among Gen Z women? Idk. My dad is a late Boomer, and him and his friends think they are super cool for having Harleys. I'm an olderish Millennial and I never thought it was very cool, idk.
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 03:41 AM
1

Elliot Rodger
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 03:37 AM
2

Where did the OOP say this?
/r/AllPillDebate10/07/23 09:24 PM
4

You do realize that both appearance and personality can be important, right?
/r/AllPillDebate10/07/23 09:21 PM
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Don't you just love when men rant on and on about what women want and like?
/r/AllPillDebate10/07/23 06:44 PM
1

Sure. But it's the same on the flip side. Just because you see a Chad, you don't know that he isn't a virgin. You don't KNOW. Just because you see a hot chick dancing with a hot guy at a club, you don't know they're going to fuck later. You don't KNOW. You THINK you know, but you don't KNOW.
/r/AllPillDebate10/07/23 05:22 PM
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Source: Trust me bro
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 07:53 PM
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Well, because they're "celebrities" to a certain demographic. They get a lot of admirers, yes, but from people all over the world. The average decent guy just isn't that well-known.
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 05:33 PM
1

Hybristophilia. Basically, she's an anomaly, this isn't normal female behavior.
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 04:52 PM
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Straight women aren't attracted to women, period. I can recognize that a women is pretty or has a nice body, but wanting her to touch my breasts or genitals? No way.
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 02:39 AM
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Some women. Not all. I make more money than my husband. When we met, we were about equal income-wise. There was a brief while where he made a little more than me, but for 10 out of 13 years of our relationship, I've made more than him.
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 09:16 PM
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This is just so so wrong lmao. Source: I'm a woman with plenty of female friends, and we definitely have different tastes in men.
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 09:12 PM
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There is a mental health condition known as "hybristophilia." It affects about four percent of people who work in prisons (not just guards...also nurses, teachers, etc in a prison setting), although it affects others too. It does affect women more than men, but it affects men, too. Hybristophilia is known in modern-day as basically being attracted to individuals who have committed criminal acts. Experts say it's because women who work in prisons often work in positions that lead to more emotiona…
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 09:00 PM
1

No blue piller will say he had a better personality. That's nonsense.
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 08:51 PM
2

Have you seen Danny McLean? He's not particularly physically attractive.
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 08:51 PM
1

Sometimes things start out as friends and evolve. Or maybe the female friends that you make won't be into you in that way, but will introduce you to their friends who they think are more compatible. But that's only going to happen if you come across as a nice guy who she would feel comfortable introducing to her friends.
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 07:46 PM
1

You do know it's impossible to marry a cartoon character, right? Waifus don't exist.
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 07:40 PM
1

I was thinking about this a little more, and I remembered an episode of the Joe Rogan Experience that we watched where he had a female beekeper on. Her name is Erika Thompson. She's a very conventionally pretty young woman who is super, super into bees...has been since she was young. You can check her out...Joe Rogan Experience Episode #1908. If you Google "beekeper Erika Thompson," you can find her Insta and stuff. I know bees aren't ants, but you get my gist. Women who are into these types of …
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 06:20 PM
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I think lots of people think ants are cool, even if they aren't super into them themselves. My brother showed me some videos on AntsCanada before and I thought it was fascinating, even though I've never paid much attention to ants before. Check out online ant communities. With a quick Google search, I found a forum called formiculture dot com. Of the 6600+ members, I bet at least some are women. Regardless, I bet spending time there (or on a similar forum...there may be better ones...I didn't lo…
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 04:18 PM
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I'm wondering how much time OP spends on the internet each day.
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 11:52 PM
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It depends. On Tindr, where everything is superficial? Maybe. In the real world, when you're meeting people and they like your vibe and conversation, it's a little different.
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 09:39 PM
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Your success with women is impacted by your physical appearance. Not determined. Looks do matter. Looks aren't the only thing that matter.
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 07:53 PM
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You try your best not to speak to women, then it's women's fault that you aren't dating? There are women out there who think ant farms are cool. Same with games, anime, whatever "uncool" things incels may be into. Remember, you don't have to be seen as attractive or dateable by every woman. Just by the right one for you. And the right one for you isn't going to think you're a weirdo for liking ant farms.
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 05:54 PM
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Yeah, it means something very different from what the OP said lol
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 05:49 PM
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I'm sorry that happened to you. That's definitely not okay. Bullying is never acceptable.
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 05:25 PM
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I think you nailed it with your last paragraph. Plenty of people are awkward in high school. I think we have late teens/early 20-something guys whose only experience is movies, Tindr, high school, and what they've read on incel forums. They have very little life experience. It's frustrating because now many of them are stuck in these hateful ways when it could really be so much different for them.
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 05:14 PM
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That was always my experience in school as well, although that was in the 2000s. The jocks/athletes/popular kids had their "cliques" but were generally nice to everyone, or maybe just didn't pay others much attention.
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 04:53 PM
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Because we know from life experience that it isn't true.
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 04:51 PM
1

Literally the first sentence of the sub's description is, "r/AllPillDebate, where nobody is excluded from the discussion!"
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 11:11 AM
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My husband and I both have equal "leverage" in our relationship. Either of us have the option to leave, and neither of us want the other to leave. We don't try to force one another to comply with anything.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 05:40 PM
1

Sure, but when I see two people wearing wedding rings and holding hands in public, I'm able to use my detective skills to figure out that they probably have sex.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 03:48 PM
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I mean, do you seriously think "Chads" are the only guys having sex? If so, you are incredibly delusional.
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 03:38 PM
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How is it that virgins/romantically unsuccessful men are experts on "the nature of modern dating?"
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 11:23 AM
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It's like they speak their own language lmao
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 11:22 AM
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Bad bot
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 11:15 AM
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For one thing, not all women are interested in one-night stands, even with very attractive men. Only about 36% of women have had a one night stand. You mentioned research and data. I've brought you plenty. You have brought me none, you just keep spouting incel talking points. The echo chamber isn't doing y'all any good. You're seeing what you want to see instead of what is. As for your last question, it all depends on what one sees as being successful in regards to sex and relationships. Some me…
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 10:29 PM
1

I'm a woman and I'm not criticizing her at all. I think it's a great song. I just think the OP got the message all wrong lol
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 09:40 PM
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That 15% who are also handsome is even smaller. What incentive do they have to become committed to one woman, especially married to one, when they’re presented with an all-you-can-fuck buffet? Some people prefer monogamy. But you're arguing against your own point anyway. As you stated, only a small percentage of the male population is tall and conventionally attractive. And many of those men will choose not to settle down. So doesn't that mean that many of the 67% of men who are married are not,…
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 08:56 PM
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Some people overuse the term incel. But I think it's more that people call men who are misogynistic online an incel. I don't think it has much to do with appearance. Like on Reddit, people use the term incel all the time, even though most users don't have their pictures on here or anything.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 08:15 PM
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I don't "date" anyone, I'm married and have been with my husband for 13 years. I don't appreciate you referring to him as a circus midget. And yes, you are correct, the research, data, and having functioning eyeballs tells a different story (from what you're saying). Visit any mall, store, restaurant...you'll see plenty of men of all different shapes, sizes, and appearances with women who are also of all shapes, sizes, and appearances. The data says that only about 14.5% of men are 6' tall or ta…
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 07:44 PM
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This is incorrect. All women don't care about height like that. My husband is fairly short. A couple of inches shorter than me. Doesn't bother me at all. I can tell you with 100% certainty that some of the guys my girlfriends have been attracted to in the past weren't particularly attractive to me, and vice versa.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 07:09 PM
1

Oh because there certainly aren't websites and apps that make it very easy to make fake conversations.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 06:29 PM
0

Did you move on? Or are you still online daily talking about it?
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 06:14 PM
1

No. It's about a woman not wanting to be a booty call for her ex.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 06:13 PM
1

She's saying she can't be "friends" with her ex because they're going to end up hooking up. Not that she's going to end up in bed with any guy she's friends with.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 06:12 PM
-1

It's not that people don't understand that some (including those on the spectrum) have trouble socializing. It's that you can't sit in your room on the internet all day crying about not dating women when you are literally making zero effort to meet women. What are they supposed to do, just show up at your door?
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 05:21 PM
1

Only 18% of the population in the US makes $100,000+ (including men and women), but more than 65% of men are married. The math ain't mathing.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 05:17 PM
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I'm sure you and I disagree about a lot of things, OP, but I think the lyrics to this song are pretty clear. One, don't pick up the phone, you know he's only calling 'cause he's drunk and alone Two, don't let him in, you'll have to kick him out again Three, don't be his friend, you know you're gonna wake up in his bed in the morning Cause if you're under him, you ain't getting over him
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 05:16 PM
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That's not what the song is about at all lol. The song is about not being a booty call for an ex who treats her like shit.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 05:00 PM
1

Maybe you should put that stuff on your dating profiles. No, every woman isn't going to find that attractive. But some who are into similar things will like it. The point isn't to be attractive to every woman. It's to find a woman who is attracted to you and who you find attractive. And if you're interested in more than just sex, it's to find someone who has similar interests as you, or who will at the very least not be turned off by your interests/hobbies. You do know there are women who like a…
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 04:57 PM
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When women talk shit about incels, it's not because they're virgins. You do know that, right?
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 04:40 PM
1

Yeah that's what I said lmao
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 04:40 PM
0

idk what that's like. I met my husband when I was 21 years old. Been together ever since. 13 years. <3
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 04:20 AM
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Or maybe everyone gets life experience and starts to understand what's real vs. what isn't and what they like vs. what they don't like
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 03:48 AM
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But y'all picture all young women as just running around, feeling 100% confident, fucking anyone and everyone. I'm older now (35 and been with my husband for 13 years), but when I was younger, I was pretty damn cute (and skinny!). I was always so self-conscious. I went to clubs and parties and I dressed up and all of that. I wish y'all could see it from our perspective for once.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 03:42 AM
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lmao right. you're gonna end up on a Gen Z's TikTok video, being made fun of. Those young women aren't putting up with this shit like my generation did.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 12:21 AM
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Men dating younger, more vulnerable women used to (grossly and unfortunately) work to their "advantage." That is NOT going to be the case with Gen Z women, and I'm proud of them and happy for them. They're more feminist than ever, more educated than ever, more aware of men's bullshit than ever, so on.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 10:58 PM
1

I agree with this.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 10:55 PM
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if that's what you think women get from incel arguments, you are way way off lmao
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 10:53 PM
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Incel types and others who romanticize the idea of being with a non-western woman are the ones who are delusional. They think that non-western women will cater to their every need, not ask much of them, be submissive, etc. LOL. Like, every culture has women like that, but to pretend it's the norm is ridiculous. I've seen the incel type memes about how, say, Asian or Latina women are quiet, submissive, blah blah. Must've been made by someone who doesn't know many women from these cultures.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 08:59 PM
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I agree, so, why don't they? If incels hate women so much, why don't they just go out, buy a bunch of meth, and start slinging? Because they'd rather sit on the internet and complain about women than go out in public.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 06:38 PM
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It's the incel types who claim that non-western women don't have standards and will put up with their shit all the time.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 06:20 PM
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There are plenty of people out there who are bitter and angry, but their bitterness and anger aren't directed specifically at women. A street pimp might be bitter and angry about their upbringing, "the system," so on. Incels, on the other hand, direct their anger at women in particular. FFS, I just saw an incel post where an incel had slammed his finger in the door...and he blamed women. Because if he had a girlfriend, he wouldn't have been home for that to happen. That is irrational thinking. S…
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 06:06 PM
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It's because incels are unable to attract a partner because their bitter and angry attitude prevents them even talking/socializing with women, or they probably put off a strange vibe when around women. Basically, they don't outright say the horrible things they say online, but their anti-social/weird behavior in public and their hateful behavior online are both powered by the same thing: the bitter and angry part.
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 04:44 PM
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