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69% of statistics online are made up
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:47 PM
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Lmfao. A 10/10 dude might have hundreds. You're delusional if you think regular men have even remotely the available options regular women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:05 PM
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Women aren't finding partners? What? Most women have hundreds if not thousands of options to choose from.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:50 PM
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2 hours played in last 2 weeks. Never been overweight. Wanna guess again?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:57 AM
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You have a point. However men need 'good papers' in order to have a chance to build a real connection. If a guy sucks on paper the only one willing to connect with him is his tamagotchi.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 01:45 PM
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I bet they are hoping short women can't really tell either way and if they don't lie they won't get a shot to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:45 PM
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And in the above graph you can get a pretty good idea as to why they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:35 PM
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Press X to doubt. Used to work a ton on cars outside of the garage or the door opened during my early 20s. Guys in their 50s were super impressed and constantly stopped by to chat and see what I was working on. Guess how many women even said hi to me? 0 lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:43 PM
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The cynic in me has picked up a pattern where tradespeople are mostly valued when something needs fixing. I think the thing with science talk is it requires a lot more background knowledge to be interesting. If you don't have a solid grasp of the subject it's difficult to have a conversation about it and the whole thing becomes white noise fast. Landscaping is way easier to digest and talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:55 PM
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That's cool, extremely rare from what I've experienced. For the record I've been wrenching on cars, motorcycles and the like since I was 14. Being a low-key kinda guy, it gets me too much attention from men. Like dude, I'm just trying to get home, stop trying to buy my car or ask about it when I'm clearly in a hurry and not in the mood. In contrast I've literally never had a random woman come up to me and chat about something I drive or cars in general. The difference is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:13 PM
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I'm out of trades at least for now, mess around with cars as a hobby. Men are often interested and will frequently go out of their way to chat to me about cars or a project of some sort. Women have literally never been interested in what I'm doing in that regard. If I was gay it would work for sure lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:31 PM
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Any man who says they can pass all those and is perpetually single isn’t being honest with themselves imo The only one I'd be hit with these days is not being interested in dating, that's on account of not having any luck dating. For the record I've been employed since I was 17, lived on my own since I was 18, never been overweight etc. I could go through your list but I'm picking up you're probably not going to believe me anyway. Maybe my social skills are total shit or something, kinda hard to…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:41 PM
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I might add to this, but no being ugly is not the only significant. I would say the reasons I listed affect a super majority of young men. Sure, there are other reasons besides looks. However looks are the single biggest disqualifier, especially online. And speaking of looks, notice I never said ugly, I just said not attractive enough. For example otherwise decent looking but short men are not attractive to most women. As for addressing your list I partially agree. Those qualities aren't attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 02:56 PM
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This is always the caveat when women say they don't get matches. To get matches they need to open the app and occasionally swipe right on someone. The amount of likes is what should be compared if you wanna go down that road. Average 20-30 yo woman is going to have what, several thousand likes in a few weeks? But sure, invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:32 AM
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35% of men aren't getting any purely because of behaviour? Really? Their behaviour isn't the reason they are getting swiped left. I'll extend an olive branch and say maybe 5% are total fuckwits but conversely I think it's a cop out to suggest one third of young guys are stereotypical incels. Most young men I know are fine, normal, whatever and that's exactly the problem. If they don't stand out positively, especially in terms of looks they aren't getting any. It makes sense women ignore average …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:26 PM
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Far simpler explanation is they just aren't attractive enough. Women can easily just pick from the flock so they pick the best they can. Ergo the bottom x% is told to go kick rocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:18 PM
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Interestingly this seems to be correct at least online. If a women messages me first it's always someone who's severely overweight, older than me and usually has kids. Literally every single time. I mean it's cool they shoot their shot and all that, I'll usually have a polite convo with them but I'd only consider dating them at gunpoint. It makes sense through, if a woman is even close to being average there is no need for her to approach anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:31 PM
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I agree with you. All of your points contribute to the current situation where the women can be extremely selective and most men are essentially wasting their time, possibly money if they are desperate enough. I would also be as selective if all of my right swipes ended up as a match.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:45 PM
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Yup. Now it's just far easier. Make a profile, wait for half an hour and pick the most attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:40 PM
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Press X to doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:21 PM
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Comments such as this is why I love browsing the sub. Observing the confidence some people display while being so utterly wrong is just hilarious. What prompts you to think an average guy will literally never get rejected? It's like believing the earth is flat or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:41 AM
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Right on bro. The last time I bothered to ask someone out for a date she started inquiring how much money I make about an hour into the conversation. It's always fun realizing you just wasted your time and energy. On a positive note the coffee was good and it was only the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:42 PM
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Why waste time say lot word when few word do trick?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:37 AM
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I can sorta see where you're coming from. I'm not sold on the choice argument through. If a man isn't attractive the veto power ensures there is next to no choices to begin with. It applies with attractive fuckbois, it's not universally male advantage. You're completely right on your second point. The degree which women have it worse depends on where you're from and the cultural norms but undoubtedly women get the short end of the stick. Considered valuable by who? Societally men are treated as …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 02:01 PM
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You can only see the disadvantages men have because you've been in that position, but there are so many advantages. Out of curiosity, what are some examples of the advantages?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 05:46 AM
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Oh no! Anyway...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:07 AM
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Why even call it a problem through? Let the dudes play their games etc, there's no reason to vilify the behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:33 PM
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You noticed the absolute opposite.. with men you personally know or..? Over 130IQ is exceptionally rare. How many men do you know with masters and legit more than 130IQ? Maybe my social circle is just small or filled with idiots but I don't think I personally know anyone, men or women with aforementioned qualities. If we drop masters requirement I wound up with whopping 2 men and no, I'm not in that group. For the record both of these guys are in long term relationships. They really lucked out w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:48 PM
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Introverted people tend to come across as more intelligent, even compared to extroverts who are objectively equally intelligent. I find this somewhat interesting. Any theories as to why? And to be clear I'm not saying I disagree. It's a bit lazy just to say loud = stupid because that's obviously not it. Why do people draw parallels between intelligence and introversion?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:25 PM
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Thanks bot, very cool!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:13 PM
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You're doing pretty good if you own a house at 27. I'm your age with more or less the same plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:10 PM
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So to recap you don't have any first hand experience dating from a mans perspective. You've never been on tinder and you haven't dated in ages. Despite your situation you can confidently say more or less every single dating woe men could come up with is an excuse and the only common denominator is they put in zero effort. Man this subreddit is comedy gold lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:52 AM
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You already said that and I already agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:44 PM
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Yeah. Not super cool imo but as long as it's legal and the prostitutes haven't been somehow coerced into it.. well free world and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 06:10 PM
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Prostitution is legal in some countries. Are you specifically thinking of sex tourism from 1st world country to 3rd world when you say predatory or just in general? That's probably what he's doing and I agree with you, it's.. questionable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:36 PM
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Well fair enough but is it a problem? Sounds like the lad is happy and hopefully isn't hurting anyone so seems okay to me. Honestly it sounds like a better option each day compared to dealing with the bs of dating apps etc lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 08:08 AM
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Some days ago there was a post on this sub asking women how how many attractive guys they see daily. Many of the answers were 0 or "rarely." Doesn't seem all that far fetched after reading the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:34 PM
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Different sex drives and standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:27 PM
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Agree 100%. I don't see a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:13 PM
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Go ahead, make a tinder profile with pictures of a guy and see "how many offers of genuine connection, interest, and thoughtful potential life partners that they can spend time and bond with." Hint: not many. It's hilarious you thought otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:07 AM
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This is possibly the funniest thing I've read all week.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 07:37 AM
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I obviously can't speak for all guys but I don't have a preference either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:41 PM
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Those two are different things. I think most guys are sorta indifferent regarding the virginity thing but prefer their partners to not have fucked the entire city you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:37 PM
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Tbh I don't think most dudes are that keen on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:25 PM
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Yeah that's.. gonna limit your options a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:17 PM
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I'm not trying to be mean but how did you find yourself in that situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:46 PM
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In an ideal world yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:37 PM
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Maybe he means men won't be perceived as being confident if they open up? But yeah you are right, the traits aren't mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:33 AM
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2/4 of those articles were written by men. Men writing articles about how difficult it is for women to find men lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 10:06 AM
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While you do have a point I'll say trying is sometimes unnecessary. At least I have a pretty good idea of things I'd dislike without even bothering to try them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 06:57 AM
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I can second this to some extent. A lot of these environments aren't exactly welcoming, especially for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 09:59 AM
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IDK. I currently have a white collar job but I'd have no problem switching back to being blue collar if I was presented with an interesting opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 09:55 AM
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On mobile, formatting is gonna suck. Well our observations/experiences are completely different, like I said none of the relationships my friends or family are in have been started by women approaching. My original comment was a knee-jerk reaction to reading bullshit. Regarding if it's unfair or unreasonable, it just is what it is. Expecting everything to be completely balanced in life is naive at best. Yes control and choice are arguments in favour of approaching. All I'm saying is that control…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 12:59 PM
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Obvious dichotomy with you basically omitting you don't approach yet arguing it's changing? Maybe it is, can't say I've seen anything of the sort. I fail to see why whether or not I'm observing or complaining would make any difference to what I wrote. That said I kinda don't care much either way so there you go, I suppose that's more in line with observing. There's very little reason for women to approach as long as not approaching works and it still does. I don't see that changing anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:41 AM
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It's not likely to happen for men who want it for grudge relief or because they're incapable themselves. Yup. Also not likely to happen for men with any number of other traits deemed unattractive. The list is long. At least with my friends none of the relationships have started due to gals initiating. At best they've just hanged around the guys they like and made themselves more approachable. It won't change as long as there isn't any reason for it to change. There isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:17 AM
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Well there's prostitutes so that's something.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 07:49 PM
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Lmao not going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 07:37 PM
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What if you’re a genius level intellect with close to perfect genes? Wouldn’t it be almost unethical not to have a few kids? Kinda interesting question, I'd go with no. Those genes aren't on loan or something and I don't think humanity at large has any right to expect kids from someone who isn't interested. If anything it would be extremely unethical to force that person to have kids. Besides good genes aren't a sure-fire thing of the kids being brilliant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:14 PM
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I get what you are saying. For me it's just too repulsive to act contrary to who I am, jump through these endless hoops and one-sided demands just to bottom out in some aggressively average pussy. I'd much rather be spending that time and effort elsewhere. If some cool chick likes me, awesome, I might give it a shot but I'm not pulling some Hollywood character arc to get there. I get that it's a luxury of sorts made possible by not giving too much of a shit what other people think and being fine…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:39 PM
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Sounds like the ultimate form of simping.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 06:58 PM
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I honestly think it's about the same for gals. Perhaps that says more about me, but around 5-7 are the cutest imo. And Summer Glau 5.5 lmao get out of here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:29 PM
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Thanks, I love people with low standards
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:48 PM
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Not really because I was making a joke. Seems it didn't land. Thankfully I'm used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 09:08 AM
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Ass because I'm not a cuck and cucks like big boobs. Can't argue with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:57 AM
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These are the thought-provoking and introspective questions I come to this sub for.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:56 AM
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Does she have a learning disability or on drugs? They have good chemistry even if he doesn't do anything. Man you guys are brutal with these roasts lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:00 AM
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True. But would an evenly split ratio change it much? I don't think so, after all we are talking about severely unattractive people. Facial symmetry finely crafted with a bowling ball and rolls in like Stephen Hawking to dates levels of visual spectacle. I'm betting women possessing similar disadvantages don't get much action either. Everyone wants and likes attractive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:58 AM
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Thank you! Could you point me towards the nearest exit?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:52 AM
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[Visible Confusion]
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 09:16 PM
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Perfectly balanced, as all things should be
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 09:07 PM
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It's like reading my different personalities having a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 09:05 PM
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Pineapple belongs on pizza
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:55 PM
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To say NO to us or say things that may not be immediately something we agree with or are not offended by. Its ok to be a sentient being with conflicting views and humour. Wear it, own it. NO
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:12 PM
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The OP applied the Gini coefficient technique What a nerd. Now that's out of my system, his findings make sense. Realistically a dude who's 1 out of 10 is only gonna fuck his couch no matter what app he's using and 10 can pick almost whoever he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:04 PM
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Me neither but it's an interesting parallel. Quickly thinking about it, men on the lower end of socioeconomic status are probably also getting fucked by sexlessness lol. If that group of men starts getting large I can see it causing some major societal issues which is slightly alarming. Tangentially related to the original topic but anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:54 PM
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Women go on these apps primarily to get attractive men, who for whatever reason are rare in her social circle. It's like a lottery app for her: risk wasting a few weeks, in the hopes of roping in a Prince Charming for life. There are enough average men in her real life looking for LTRs, and they're not the reason she joins these apps. The dating apps use these women to reel in the LVMs. A+ This is why men who aren't in the 10% of attractiveness shouldn't even waste time downloading the apps in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 01:45 PM
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You're doing an excellent job trolling, keep it up!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:16 PM
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That’s literally all of Reddit dude, it’s all just on repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:43 PM
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Ain't that the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:39 PM
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Refreshing to see someone on this sub being able to recognize nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:57 PM
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Get used to masturbating lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:48 PM
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How can I shower outside?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:19 PM
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Tutorial on how to waste your time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:17 PM
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This is great advice for men who want to be left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:14 PM
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I've never even heard of the show so this is just a guess based on nothing really. Good looking people get treated better throughout their life, men and women. Getting positive feedback from your surroundings rubs off on you and you're more positive as a result. People who are exceptionally unfortunate in looks get treated worse which can't be a good influence on their personality. Just a theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:31 AM
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It's kinda the point of this subreddit through right? Just observing how out of touch some people are lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:02 AM
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/r/thatHappened
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:22 AM
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I did one pushup and now I look like He-man and can't fit through doorways anymore send help.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:21 AM
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Not all of them obviously, but average women can’t swing a dead cat without hitting some rando who wants to be her boyfriend. Lol yesterday or something I was trying to say this exact thing to someone who argued women lacking options is the primary cause for the decline in relationships. Like bruh have you never seen the inboxes of average women or hang out with them? There is no shortage of average dudes lining up to be their bf. There's a ton of reasons why increasing amount of people remain s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:30 AM
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Evidence of women not being able to get a date because of you and John haha? Now that I got the joke out of the way, I could ask you the same thing. Are you suggesting lack of options for women being the singular cause for relationships declining? Where's the proof for that? For example it can't possibly have anything to do with people focusing more on their education and careers? Nothing to do with some amount of woman also choosing to walk away from dating? Nothing to do with people at least s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:46 PM
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I've already addressed that point right here. It's disingenuous to attribute the downward trend in partnering up solely on women lacking options. There are myriad of reasons at play. Relationships aren't sparse just because you and your mate John deleted tinder lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:22 PM
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I don't know if you are aware but online dating does facilitate both.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:12 PM
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I've heard some variation of "where are all the good men?" for as long as I've been alive. As far as is it more common nowadays, who knows. I can't really see much contradiction. The apps provide same day dick delivery and freedom to passively pick from suitors for relationships. It's disingenuous to attribute the downward trend in partnering up solely on women lacking options. There are myriad of reasons at play. Of course individual cases don't matter. Who is making that claim? I'm not. You we…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:48 PM
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I'm sure women collectively are weeping for their loss. Like I said, chill and enjoy the solitude my guy. And I'm not even saying that mockingly or anything, solitude is precious. You said men are walking away in droves and then more or less cited yourself as an example. Not all of the men walking away are 6 figure 6ft. It's not some remarkably successful Chad parade walking away lmao. It might actually get noticed if it was the case. Average and above women can still get dick delivered faster p…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:40 PM
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There are more than enough men to go around. Don't think removing yourself from the playing field is some outstanding chess move that's going to show them because it's not. Just chill and enjoy the solitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:36 PM
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You might not like what she's expressing but there are no morality problems present in her actions. Psychological side I don't see issues. In fact I wager only benefits from essentially cutting out people she doesn't want to talk to anyway. Social consequences are arguable but it would be completely unreasonable to force her, or anyone for that matter, to talk to people they don't want to talk to because "social consequences."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:27 PM
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I disagree, this is something especially men should read and really mull over because that's exactly how online dating is set up. You just don't usually see it being expressed this scathingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 12:24 PM
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..so they can't just sit around which is the point you argued for?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:40 PM
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Yes, those men might get boyfriend offers lol. But to respond a bit more seriously, 4-5 out of 10 dude will realistically almost never get gf offers just by sitting around looking pleasant. I mean surely you aren't seriously suggesting both genders of the same attractiveness get approached the same amount?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:29 PM
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I don't know, I'm not particularly convinced by splitting the word into different meanings and still needing to slap an explanation on top of it in order to justify the behavior? Besides does the flavor of attraction matter much if the only difference is whatever or not the 20% are attractive in a "beautiful painting" way or physical way? Either way 80% are unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:01 PM
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Women are just incapable of experiencing attraction through a photograph. This seems demonstrably false? Remember the case/meme of hot mugshot guy? Women were bombarding that dude with letters and the only thing they had on him was the mugshot and whatever charges were he was facing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:13 PM
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Hmm arguably the "women see 80% of men as unattractive" thing breaks leagues in similar way how economic polices break cost/pay but to be fair that's reaching. Edit: By league you mean overall attractiveness? How about the situation where you lower your standards far below your league and it's still not worth it? Doesn't adding these leagues also break the analogy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:22 PM
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If I understood you correctly you mean when the analogy is flipped back to people it doesn't work anymore? I'm not a native speaker, your last sentence is difficult to parse together. I think it still holds up. If attempts at dating actively cost you time and energy and you get negligible benefit then it's not worth it. Exactly the same as flipping burgers for negligible improvement of what UBI would net you, not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:01 PM
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Equating some old lady enjoying a walk to doing hard drugs under the guise of both being "hedonistic pleasures" got a chuckle out of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:36 PM
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I have a solid idea of how "a real man" should act and to suggest some random commenter online has any sway in it is a bit ridiculous. So yes, I care what some people think and I'm very selective about it. Humans have evolved to care what others think and ignoring it doesn’t make you manly. Neither does letting "No True Scotsman" fallacy dictate how you lead your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:24 PM
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One could flip the argument so it wasn't against UBI but rather against jobs that don't pay enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:31 AM
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Can we collectively stop with this "a real man does what I think men should do" schtick? Goes for both men and women. It's a bit tiring to constantly see the same lame manipulation tactic being used to attempt to push men into whatever you want them to be. A real man doesn't give a shit about what you think they should be doing how's that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:15 AM
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But why? If they are content why do you have a problem with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:01 AM
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Yeah I mean I more or less agree with you. Someone who's hyper focused on their own shortcomings is most likely not going to be a fun person to be around, applies for both men and women. That can easily turn into a self fulfilling prophecy like you said and it just breeds bad vibes. Venting about something that's not going your way is normal so I don't necessarily see a huge problem there as long as it doesn't devolve into hateful shit or take over your life some other way. I'm betting most peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:50 PM
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Porn is just there when other options aren't. That lads going to have rejection rate sky high, I can definitely understand just not bothering. Isn't the definition of insanity doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results? Besides it's bound to have a negative effect on your psyche to see that much rejection. That said, you do have a point. For example my boss funnily enough has these exact qualities, short and bald. He's happily married with multiple kids. He's extroverte…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:41 AM
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If you want to get a bit more understanding of how some guys come to that conclusion make a fake tinder profile with pictures of short bald dude and try to bullshit your way into getting laid. Good luck lol I get it, it's a defeatist mentality and super unattractive but I don't think you are quite grasping just how much work it would take. Takes effort even if you're average, guessing you need James Bond levels of charisma or it's borderline impossible with aforementioned disadvantages.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:54 PM
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Lol their goal is to get rejected constantly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:42 PM
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The porn industry is going to hurt people regardless of this small group of guys we are talking about. I guess you could argue that doesn't absolve them of shared guilt but the industry is going to keep trucking on and hurting people regardless. Again the context is a small subset of guys. Besides I'm not a massive fan of shoving the blame of shit industry practices to the consumers but that is a completely different topic. As far as how they are harming themselves, I'm not going to dictate what…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 02:35 PM
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I think his argument was those dudes ain't gonna get laid anyway. As long as they aren't hurting anyone I don't see a huge problem, not even sure why anyone would even care tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 02:17 PM
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For real what the fuck. Calling up friends regarding their masturbation habits sounds like a start to a bad porno or a comedy sketch.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:44 PM
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Yeah many of the threads unfortunately boil down to this. If it's not immediately apparent it starts to be when you read how they respond to the answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:42 AM
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Well keep doing what you are doing then I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 08:27 AM
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The obvious solution is to do some pursuing yourself if sitting by doesn't yield the results you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:05 AM
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I think his point was you attract all dudes and then pick the ones who only want casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:49 PM
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I agree. I've just seen it on multiple occasions lead to unnecessary confusion when the same term is used to convey very different things. On a related note my knee-jerk reaction to the contempt thing is more in line with "this person is a bit of a prick or doesn't like me" instead of "the actions of this person were disrespectful." I mean you are 100% correct, it is disrespectful, it's just not how I usually think about it you know? Maybe it's due to thinking of respect from a different angle, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:59 PM
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I find it interesting I've seen this mismatch many times. For me, respect is something that's earned, not given freely. It's a strong word, almost akin to admiration. Then you see common decency being mistaken for respect. It's not even in the same ballpark. Common decency I try to extend to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:30 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 06:29 AM
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No problem mate, have a good one!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:59 PM
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Kinda pedantic but I wanna clarify I specifically said "seems to be a legitimate concern for these practitioners". I'm not necessarily onboard with justifying the behavior, I'm mostly just disappointed that the perceived threat is so prevalent it's gotten to this point. But yeah I'm splitting hairs here you are absolutely correct, I didn't think about it from that angle.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:56 PM
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Could you elaborate a bit?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:23 PM
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I fully believe it's sad that this seems to be a legitimate concern for these practitioners to the point where they will turn down clients. It's pretty wild about to think how it would be like to turn down clients at my job on the off-chance that they will be hostile. Funny you are not seeing this as a problem, especially when the topic is regarding empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 02:23 PM
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Even worse, in mental health spaces in the U.S., men have a harder time finding therapists/therapy groups than women do. Part of this reason--according to my licensed social worker/therapist sister and a therapist acquaintance--is that many female therapists won't see men one-on-one. And the majority of therapists/psychologists are women, so this leaves men needing help with less options, depending on where they live. This is interesting, is it due to safety related concerns? Seems somewhat sad …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:58 AM
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How is it bizarre? Women want men with college degrees and men who make as much or that more than them. I've never seen "more women have higher degrees" being used as an argument for dating favoring men. And I don't think it's a good argument either. Just because some men are left out dating wise doesn't mean the dating market is favoring men. I'm assuming you meant to write women at the end? Regardless by your own admission you said there aren't any options for these guys. I just can't see how …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 02:52 PM
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One of the more bizarre angles I've seen on this subject but at least it's interesting. Women earn more college degrees than men. Making men with college degrees more attractive. Conversely making men without college degrees less attractive. Like I'm not sure about your point here, if women require degrees that fewer men have.. well where are the dating options for men without degrees? You are contradicting the point you are trying to make because these dudes have even less options. Not to menti…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:34 PM
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Yeah. That bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:01 PM
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Men die earlier which might also explain the change in later years a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:59 PM
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His communication is so unclear he comes across as an elaborate troll. I'm picking up that it's not even worth it to discuss the situation when he's just saying shit. Like how do you have a back and forth with this guy, much less a debate? I'm not a native speaker so I can relate to the hardships of wielding a language you are not fully familiar with but holy shit his problems go beyond lack of apostrophes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:04 AM
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"Freedom is what you do with what's been done to you" is a quote I like. Basically the less you allow external things to affect you, the freer you are. But yeah, 100% agree with what you wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:14 AM
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not the men ive seen online or real life. they all want women who simply dont exist. women to look like a goddess. I basically said dudes don't need their partners to look like a goddess. Now you are agreeing with me. Make up your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:46 AM
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Bruh. If you stepped outside and walked in something like a park you'd see dudes with partners who don't look like goddesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:30 AM
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Learn good social skills from YouTube tutorial lmao holy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:25 AM
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I think he's saying 80k is not enough for 3 people. Depending on where you live yeah, it's going to be rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:58 PM
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Some people do have trouble initiating conversations. However the 'solution' here is the equivalent of just showing up and expecting the other person to do all the work. It's the underlying attitude that flares up my disinterest. And frankly this goes beyond just initiating. If I'm chatting with someone and I get the sense the amount of effort being put in is disproportionate, I dip out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:31 AM
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Much easier just to download a different app.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:48 PM
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I've gotten the hand wave emoji a few times. Didn't bother responding.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:46 PM
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