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Easy. You only contact her when you both can meet. If she sends you something in the meanwhile, just reply in a fun way but keep the conversation short. Max two - three messages. If you message her too much, the attraction will fade away.
/r/seduction03/09/21 12:42 PM
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F*cking awesome Sunlitstream. You are clearly in the early stages of becoming good in attraction and that's the reason why other redditers feel compelled to point out all the mistakes you made. And most points they raise are valid. Nonetheless I applaud you. You took a risk and those experiences are priceless. Time to stop telling yourself that you are average. Or like Rocky Balboa said: 'Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It’s a very mean and …
/r/seduction29/07/21 09:50 AM
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I'm going to deviate from the general opinion here. Off course it's beneficial to have female friends. It will allow you to grow as a human being. BUT. It may never be your 'focus'. It may never be a goal to become friends with a girl. Why Specter? Cause it makes a person needy. Instead of love you are looking for friendship. Every girl can feel when a guy wants something. Whether it's friendship or love or something completely else. Friendship develop over time. Just give good vibrations and va…
/r/seduction14/07/21 08:55 AM
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Have to say I'm surprised by the fact how many redditers are saying that you should make your first message special. Saw this also in other threads. Please don't do that. My first message to every girl on Tinder is the same. Hot or not. Why? First of all because I have a busy life. So sending the same message gives me more time to do more productive things. Secondly. Why invest much energy and time in someone you don't know. It may sound harsh but Tinder is just a numbers game. Some girls will r…
/r/seduction14/07/21 08:42 AM
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Pink says make gentle love with me. Black screams fuck me. So go black. Lol.
/r/seduction14/07/21 08:24 AM
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I liked dating gold diggers. Cheer fun. Only have two rules. Don't fall in love and refuse to have a platonic relationship. Once they start asking for stuff, it's time to walk away. Unless you are ok with that. Just don't forget the rules. Lol. Unfortunately I know several rich people who broke those rules and paid dearly for it.
/r/seduction12/07/21 03:38 PM
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Easy question. I often plan dates at the same day and time. Just because it's always possible a girl wants to reschedule or flakes. If you are sure that none of your dates is going to reschedule or flake, you can reschedule one on the day of the date. Almost every time I reschedule the girl is more eager to see me next time.
/r/seduction12/07/21 03:30 PM
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Easy. Be a man. Let them know its okay and they should get back at you when they have time. If she doesn't contact you again after some days, you have two options: give it one more try or walk away. In any case: her answer doesn't matter. Its all good when a girl cancels and its all good when she agrees to go on a date. But always set boundaries. Don't go chasing girls who just like you for validation. Have some self respect. Be James Bond.
/r/seduction08/07/21 02:18 PM
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My name is Specter Harvy and I approve this message. Lol.
/r/seduction08/07/21 12:42 PM
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You are ignoring reality. Just look at her actions. She refused to make time for you during 6 weeks. That says enough. Her invite to come to a friends house does not mean anything if she didn't propose an other day aftwerwards. I have girls in my life who travel all over the world for their job but still make time to see me. If I were you I would walk away. Without sending that text. Maybe she will start chasing you and maybe not. You will win in every situation. Oh and really had to laugh with …
/r/seduction08/07/21 12:33 PM
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After reading this story I come to the following conclusions: You are outcome dependent. You are putting her on a pedestal. Bad position to be in. Just treat her like the other girls you are dating. Be smooth, fun, self centered and ask her out on a date after a couple of messages. If she doesn't want to go on a date, you can repeat this after a couple of days. If she refuses again, walk away.
/r/seduction07/07/21 03:27 PM
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Its simple. Have a lot of ONS. Lol. Girls let you know almost every time what they like. That's what makes ONS fun. Makes you feel like Colombus who is discovering a new country. After a while you will be able to read there body language perfectly and this will come naturally. The way they undress tells a lot by the way. It shows whether they are shy, just acting to be shy, comfortable or just dirty hoes. LMAO.
/r/seduction05/07/21 09:14 AM
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Spot on. Most important things in my life are my business, family and close friends. Dating girls is just something I do to keep life interesting. And because it’s fun lol. At first I wasn’t big on ONS. It was good for the self-esteem but most of the time the sex wasn’t great. I always thought sex during relationship was much better. Last three years this changed drastically. Lol. My latest ONS have been great . Most of the time after meeting a girl I know after a couple of minutes whether somet…
/r/seduction03/07/21 03:17 PM
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This is spot on.
/r/seduction02/07/21 03:14 PM
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To answer your question: NO. Never had trouble with having lot of casual sex and moving on. Its the lifestyle I prefer so I can live in total freedom. But it's always possible that that will change in the future. You never know what is going to happen. I believe my lifestyle is not suitable for a lot of guys. They prefer to have a meaningfull relationships and maybe even children. It all depends on your personality and what you value in life. This website has some meaningfull insights on this to…
/r/seduction02/07/21 03:13 PM
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Didn't know that Tinder was hard for a lot of redditers. I always use the same opener. After I let her laugh a couple of times. Mostly with the same two lines. Then switch to insta or whatsapp. After two messages on Insta or Whatsapp I go for the date. Succes rate around 90%. Years ago I thought it would pay out to be creative or to put in much effort. What was I wrong. Lol.
/r/seduction02/07/21 11:59 AM
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This is solid advice! If your text game / frame is strong, girls will have no problem coming directly to your place.
/r/seduction22/06/21 09:31 AM
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Don’t worry. It rarely happens lol
/r/seduction19/06/21 12:01 PM
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Everybody is entitled to have his / her opinion. My life is different from most guys. I have no problem if you don’t like these rules. Was just sharing what I do in situations like this.
/r/seduction18/06/21 11:34 PM
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Gave this an upvote cause you are right. You need balls to do this. Now grow some even bigger balls and keep pushing. Lol.
/r/seduction18/06/21 02:49 PM
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I have simple rules in my life. If nothing happens on first date and I still like her and she looks great: lets date again. If she doesnt' live up to my standards (looks and personality) I never look back and wish her a great life. If nothing happens on second date. End of story. Unless tension is already building up, she has an amazing personality and looks. And most importantly she is begging for a 3th date. If nothing happens on 3th date. End of story. It may not seem like it, but this is hon…
/r/seduction18/06/21 02:35 PM
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After reading your question I realized that I only do that after I had sex with them. LOL. One exception: when she did everything she can to look great for a date.
/r/seduction18/06/21 02:05 PM
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How would that figure? I'm genuinely asking because as I'm in my older age I realize that I don't think I even still qualify considering I might just missed out on dating when everyone else did it. Going to be frank here. You really need to change your mindset. It seems filled with pessismistic ideas. And more importantly they are not even true. Off course I never met you and don't know what experiences you had to deal with during your life. But believe me that dating at an older age is no probl…
/r/seduction18/06/21 01:54 PM
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Hahahahahahaha love this. So behaving like a junkie on speed in a public park will get me girls. I need to test this. LOL.
/r/seduction17/06/21 01:21 PM
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You are stuck in limiting beliefs. Every guy will attract women during his life. Maybe you haven't noticed the signs a certain woman gave you, but dont go walking around with the belief that no woman ever found you attractive enough to date. Your question is easy to answer. If you want to get good at this, you will need to do the work. So that means going to places where you can meet women. Or do a lot of online dating, texting, etc. 50 dates is arbitrary. Some guys will improve massively after …
/r/seduction17/06/21 01:12 PM
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You are never to late to learn. And the older you are the easier it is to progress. After all you must have encountered a lot of different situations and people during the last years. All of this counts as experience. To answer the first question: when should you say this? If you get used to those kind of situations you will know it automatically. It has to become a reflex. But in the beginning start saying it when she is standing close to you or when nothing is blocking the possibility to kiss.…
/r/seduction17/06/21 01:02 PM
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Please dont ever use the 'social warfare' analogy again lol. Its all about having a good time. Love all the girls you meet and never describe them as enemies again. And if you don't really get this remark, you need to go out asap and meet more girls.
/r/seduction17/06/21 09:10 AM
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Never search meaning in a girl. Being far away from family and friends can be though. If you are thinking to much about this situation you should read ‘power of now’. It will help you to get out of your head.
/r/seduction17/06/21 07:03 AM
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Sorry I can’t put this in other words but you are behaving like an unstable emotional woman. Transform back in a man. Now.
/r/seduction16/06/21 11:10 PM
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The early days. Feeling nostalgic again. Lol. First of all: great that you are doing the work to end up in situations like that. A lot of guys are afraid to take risks and do the work. And now to answer your question. In the beginning a kiss can feel like something big but it’s actually not. You will realise that soon enough. If you are not sure if she is giving all the right signals then I would say: ‘I feel like kissing you’ Her reaction will tell you if you can go ahead. In the beginning it c…
/r/seduction16/06/21 10:36 PM
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Dont like the general idea. Where is the fun is this. Seduction is about having fun and getting better in it. By using a script you are missing out on a lot of high value women. You will have very limited personal growth cause you are not risking anything. But if you do run the script let me know the results lol!
/r/seduction16/06/21 02:27 PM
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OP made me feel nostalgic lol. The early days. In hindsight the best period you go through. My advice is simple. As it always is lol. Stop asking those questions and commit yourself to have 50 dates asap. During these dates you just offer value and energy. Dont think about what the girl is thinking about you. And dont care about the result. Just have fun. If you like koalas, talk about koalas. Or whatever gets you going. By date 30 you will have figured out what works. Let me share with you a re…
/r/seduction16/06/21 01:29 PM
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Was thinking exactly the same. As the great Cyndi Lauper said: Girls just wanna have fun. Don't overthink it.
/r/seduction16/06/21 12:58 PM
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After reading OP I just wanted to reply: once you are genuinely confident, women will find you attractive. Even if you look like Golem or Hellboy. In the meanwhile fake it and develop yourself. Easy as that. But Murfdigidy totally outdid me, lol!
/r/seduction16/06/21 12:43 PM
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Never liked those ideas. Cause you are limiting your options. And have to say I would almost never sent any of the texts you are adding to the script. But go have fun and run the script. But use a different account lol.
/r/seduction15/06/21 03:08 PM
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Yes its possible to manage 3 or 4. I did that for a while and had my secretary manage my schedule. Obviously with fake names and meetings lol. One time had 4 vacations in one month with four different girls. And during weekdays I would see the rest. But it was disastrous for my business so never doing that again. Maybe its possible for you maybe its not. For me its just not important to have the girlfriend experience a lot of times. But everyone must decide that for themselves. Adding this in: d…
/r/seduction15/06/21 02:46 PM
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Long story short. Dated a secretary from my office for some months. Fun in the beginning and drama in the end. After that decided to stick to the 'never mix business with pleasure' mentality. But go out, fuck her and make mistakes. Only way you can learn lol.
/r/seduction15/06/21 02:18 PM
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Had this problem years before. At that moment I believed to have reached expert level cause dating multiple girls at the same time looked like a RSD instructor life. What was I wrong, LOL! Long story short. I'm dating around 7 girls now and still seeing other girls. Having no problems to manage this. The magic bullet (some of you will get this bad reference lol): Always be ready to walk away and realize that there is always someone else who can take their place. Everyone I'm dating knows that I …
/r/seduction15/06/21 02:02 PM
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