Speedbird844 Archive

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2	How do you get the ACTUAL 10s? I'm sorry but 10s aren't interested in extremely poor dudes, unless you happen to be very good at a specific field women find attractive. e.g. the stereotypical starving artist, or musician. And you have to be recognised as good at your art - e.g have your work exhibited in a gallery, even a small, independent one. Or are Instagram famous. Even then you still need good game and be physically fit with nice clothes. For everyone else, there needs to be a minimum level of financial independence and…	/r/seduction	11/05/25 12:18 PM
1	Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls. Young women are far more likely to move to the big cities than men, think of all the rural and small town girls stuck in their poverty-stricken dumps and dreaming of the bright lights of LA or New York City, the glamour of what they see on TV, the movies and social media. I mean think Paris - Almost every little girl has some sort of dream/fantasy of moving to Paris and living the glamorous lifestyle of a fashionable Parisian, and many actually do it. If they can do it, why not you? Perhaps be a…	/r/seduction	20/01/25 11:23 PM
7	Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls. It's a game of statistics. And experience + learning from failure. Let's say you have a 99% failure rate. There's 365 days a year, and if you approach a woman once a day you'll have at least 3 successes in a year. And remember you as a man have a much longer shelf life in the dating game than a woman. Perhaps a decade or more. Let's say you also learn from good sources (Books, reddit, or even in-person coaching. I'll start with Models by Mark Manson), and you do a proper personal debrief and sel…	/r/seduction	17/01/25 10:50 AM
5	How to smoothly tell women you’re seeing other women? Good description, albeit rather cold and 'scientific'. And you need to look high-value (well-groomed and well-dressed, even better if looksmaxxed) to act nonchalantly around beautiful women, and have them think you're pre-selected. For me it's more like "I enjoy flirting, and I just can't help myself but to play with women's hearts". Confidence in saying those words imply experience, and experience implies pre-selection.	/r/seduction	01/01/25 12:20 AM
3	I need y’all to stop caring about being creep-shamed I think eye contact is something that's "nice to have" rather than essential, and I agree in many occasions they might not look back, and you only have a limited window to approach her. And I absolutely agree that this eye contact thing will give people excuses not to approach, so my rule is "3 seconds" to force myself to approach her.	/r/seduction	12/09/24 09:14 AM
-1	I need y’all to stop caring about being creep-shamed 1) A hot guy is far more likely to get a pass than an average guy. If you're not looksmaxxed, at least be well groomed, well dressed, have a fit body, no BO and have a good posture. And you must be doing this 100% every time you go out, because you just never know who you'll meet. 2) You're far more likely to be seen as a creep if you just stand on the street calling out to women passing by. Especially at night. Get yourself into some social event, or a locale (e.g. trendy cafe), or somewhere wh…	/r/seduction	12/09/24 05:04 AM
14	What to do if someone is competing with you for a girl? The key is to be nonchalant about it. You want to give the impression of IDGAF, and you want her to indirectly know that you always have options with regards to other women. In fact tell her about his affections for her, tell her how she's so popular amongst the guys, and playfully ask her what she thinks about him. I might even go as far as to jokingly say "Do you want me to set you two up?" Do not show any hint of insecurity. If you do lose her, there's always plenty of other women around, and…	/r/seduction	13/08/24 02:19 AM
7	The difficulty increase from seducing 8/10's to 10/10's is unreal. How do y'all do it? Definitely use your co-workers' social networks. Spread the word. However unless you plan on working as an employee in the nightlife industry till old age, It might be wise to think of an exit strategy and pursue your other dream careers, or even start a business in that same industry, if you ever happen to meet a 10 "honey" at work. That "honey" might even be an asset and business partner if you want to start your own business.	/r/seduction	25/07/24 01:03 AM
2	Yoga class, what to do? The key is that you have time on your hands; you can keep going to yoga classes for the next 50 years if you want to. Stay high value and attractive, friendly, have light conversation and put them to ease. And remember the more masculine (i.e. muscular) the man in a female-dominated activity, the more they suspect you of having other motives, especially if they see you not enjoying yoga as much. You have to enjoy yoga for what it is, even if it's just by yourself with no one watching. And the be…	/r/seduction	17/06/24 12:21 PM
2	This body language hack has gotten me more numbers even though I’m not that good-looking. Here's a better description: Stand and orient your head as if you're trying to maximize your height. If you wear shoe lift-type insoles, your sore feet will constantly remind you to stand straight. Alternatively there are posture correctors you can buy.	/r/seduction	23/05/24 03:25 AM
62	why does it seem like the less energy a man puts into women, the better his life gets? such an enigma Because women crave emotional connections, the same way men crave sex. For example in Japan married women more often than not don't care if her husband cheats with a sex worker, but would be cross if he has a romantic affair. The opposite is true for men, they don't care if the wife goes to male host bars and pay to chat with handsome young men, but would be cross if they had sex. And the thing is, the attention one gets for free is not valuable; just like water is everywhere and is needed to su…	/r/seduction	12/04/24 08:12 PM
11	Do women chase guys who "ignore" them? Traditional social expectations are still that guys should initiate the chase, and only when she gets positively smitten comes the time to back off, and let her chase in return. Being a cold, unapproachable guy turns off the few women who dares to initiate contact, and if he doesn't have a healthy social circle that means instead of him being high value, he's in fact a socially awkward introvert with no people skills. There's a reason why Italians always go balls to the wall when talking to and …	/r/seduction	09/04/24 08:50 AM
1	Girls gave me their instagram… That's just one example, I chose Models as it's probably the most well known book in this circle. OP's gotta put in the effort and search.	/r/seduction	07/04/24 12:20 AM
2	Girls gave me their instagram… Read the good books, like Models by Mark Manson. Or listen to them in audiobook format if you're too busy for reading. And be very good at looking at body signals. How a woman moves is far more indicative than how she speaks.	/r/seduction	06/04/24 02:25 AM