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"Sleeping together" is a euphemism. "What's a better euphemism for this really common euphemism?"
/r/seduction03/01/25 07:57 PM
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And yet, short kings score women. Average-height guys score women. Tallness in a man is desirable in the same way that thinness plus big boobs in a woman: held up as an ideal. If it were actually true that these qualities were the ultimate determinates in who gets a partner, we'd be a race of lean giants with big chests. There's a narrative in some media-this sub being a prime example- that women are not just driven to blindly pursue tall over all, but that they "don't know what they want" (eg,"…
/r/seduction02/11/22 03:37 PM
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By copying a celeb and "adopting traits" you are not being yourself. That's inauthentic and women will spot it.
/r/seduction02/11/22 09:00 AM
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It's not that women underestimate the "importance of looks"- this is framing it entirely backwards. It's that looks are less important to women, as opposed to how much men value looks. With women, it's a vibe, a connection. And you'd be dead wrong in your assumption that all of them would pick a tall, handsome white guy as their top choice. "I never used to believe women..." and why was that? Maybe believe women.
/r/seduction02/11/22 08:56 AM
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Yes.
/r/seduction02/11/22 02:55 AM
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*Eaton centre
/r/seduction02/11/22 02:51 AM
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Wow, that was the best-written and most entertaining reply I've ever gotten on a comment, like, EVER. Well done, and thanks! GQ 1 has the looks to get what he wants, and he did, but at least is courteous to women hitting on him. No, I wouldn't date this guy. GQ 2 is charismatic, bold, sexy human garbage. I'd be entertained by his antics but wouldn't approach him even if my hair was on fire and he had the only glass of water in the room. GQ 3 sounds nice. A bit tall for my tastes (I'm 159cm and p…
/r/seduction19/08/22 08:03 PM
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OR- and I cannot stress this enough- if she's clearly not interested, take the L and move on. Don't be that creepy persistent guy.
/r/seduction17/08/22 11:07 PM
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So this calibre of which you speak is looks, mainly? And even though these women were substandard, your friends still smashed? That's a difference between guys and girls that always makes me wonder. Women won't have sex with men they don't find attractive. Apparently, guys aren't as picky, but make themselves feel better by saying what a (insert expression of undesirability here) she was.
/r/seduction17/08/22 08:01 PM
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Are you really trying to sell the idea that men are ten times more libidinous than women? You really want to debate actual women in this thread telling you we're just as interested in sex as guys are? I mean, it's possible women don't want to have sex with you (I don't know your life) but this isn't a fight you want to win, trust me.
/r/seduction17/08/22 03:03 AM
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I stated a fact about myself and you straight up called me a liar. What did you expect, turn-down service and a mint on your pillow?
/r/seduction17/08/22 02:45 AM
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You think that because women don't have penises, we don't get horny? Really, my dude? Next you'll be telling me that girls don't have orgasms because we can't jizz.
/r/seduction17/08/22 02:39 AM
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Maybe if you don't call women liars about themselves you'll have better luck than your username suggests.
/r/seduction17/08/22 02:37 AM
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How are "white lies" not exaggerations?
/r/seduction16/08/22 07:46 PM
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That, and more! But those are the biggies. Er, High Value Consequences.
/r/seduction16/08/22 07:42 PM
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Do you wake up horny every morning and horny throughout the day, everyday for years? If not, then that makes it obvious who’s more likely to love sex more. Yes. Next question?
/r/seduction16/08/22 07:39 PM
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Myth. Women are just as horned up as men. But women DO have to be choosier when picking a partner because... well, I'll let you figure that out yourself
/r/seduction16/08/22 07:38 PM
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Yes it does. But I would argue that average-height dudes score easier than fat women, who are not average.
/r/seduction16/08/22 01:45 AM
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There are tall, handsome douches out there who creep women out. And there are shorter guys who are funny and confident who never lack for ladies. I'm so over guys claiming that their height is a detriment. For shallow girls, perhaps. But if only 6' guys ever got laid, the human race would've died out by now. Except in the Netherlands.
/r/seduction15/08/22 11:33 PM
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"not quality females"?? Bro.
/r/seduction15/08/22 11:27 PM
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I'm pointing out that there's a big difference between "most girls" and "most girls, in my experience." One is global, and is in my opinion and experience, not a great take. The other is accurate according to your personal sample size.
/r/seduction28/05/22 03:22 PM
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Oh so you mean "most of the girls I have personally interacted with." Things might change when you level up to women.
/r/seduction28/05/22 02:18 PM
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This is the best.
/r/seduction28/05/22 12:08 AM
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Things happen, stuff comes up. You'd want the benefit of the doubt, so give that to her, too. Text her back and suggest meeting for coffee or boba. Either she's in or she's out, and you'll know.
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:46 PM
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"Most girls"? Some girls are shallow and sh*tty. Not most.
/r/seduction27/05/22 06:39 PM
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If you're ugly but well-groomed and good with humour, there's hope.
/r/seduction29/04/22 06:16 AM
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Exactly so.
/r/seduction19/04/22 01:21 AM
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When a woman gives you cheering advice and tips, and you refute everything she tells you, then there's a self-fulfilling prophecy looming very near by. I'm not down to debate my own experiences. Good luck out there.
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:46 PM
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Believe me, it's not about superior men being granted pester-privileges that more average men are denied. Women just going about their business don't want to be approached by anyone. Parties, mixers, sometimes classes, casual settings- a cheerful guy who can be legit charming can meet women who welcome approaches. I'm not here to debate the subtext in the situations you've offered. Also, I have met guys at clubs and concerts. It's not impossible unless you go in with that attitude.
/r/seduction18/04/22 09:57 PM
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It's all about context and reading the room. A woman can be working on a laptop in a café or working out on a treadmill at the gym- in either case, with headphones on- and guys will still come along and expect her to talk to him. Not the right time. Possibly not the right place. Other social situations are just fine for casual conversations, but again, read the room. It's arguable that women ever liked being approached by men in general, but it's only lately that we've learned it's ok to say no …
/r/seduction18/04/22 09:32 PM
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Here's the thing: I really want everyone to have a good time, get good dates, and treat each other well. So sometimes I weigh in on this sub with advice from the perspective of a woman old enough to have Seen Some Shit, even when getting downvoted and told "GirLs Aren't LiKe ThAt At aLL!"... by, you know, guys. The struggle is real. :-)
/r/seduction18/04/22 06:54 PM
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They just weren't into being approached by anyone, is my guess. (Source: I'm a woman. There's no code to crack.)
/r/seduction18/04/22 06:36 PM
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I'm very interested to hear a definition of "toxic femininity".
/r/seduction18/04/22 06:12 PM
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You said they were college-age women, but don't mention your own age. If you look much older than student age yourself, chances are they found you a little creepy. (I'm not saying that's a fact, but that it's a possibility.) Also, if they were laughing and chatting among themselves, virtually any approach would be perceived as an interruption. They may well have been looking just to party with friends, and were not ever going to be receptive to you or anyone. It's good that you were able to shak…
/r/seduction18/04/22 06:11 PM
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The OP is scared to make a move: he wants to actually make a move, presumably that's why he's here. Commenter is talking him through different ways of approaching the situation to lessen anxiety. What I'm getting from your reply is that any advice geared towards helping OP approach women is actually "the worst advice." Doesn't really make sense, tbh.
/r/seduction15/04/22 09:10 PM
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Excellent advice, right here.
/r/seduction15/04/22 06:54 PM
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Women say a thing, other women upvote it as legit, men downvote it ("that's not what females like at all!") Well okay then. But this part, true as can be: women don't want to take on guys who are fixer-uppers. Get your own self together before you come a-courtin', fellas.
/r/seduction13/04/22 11:24 PM
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This is all pretty great, but just let me add: we ALSO very much like funny guys who can land a punch line, who aren't put off by funny women, and who don't mistake meanness as "dark humour".
/r/seduction13/04/22 11:10 PM
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To sum up this charming exchange: You can't admit that you were wrong from the top about something crucial, and made a long string of insults based on your weird assumption that I'm a man. Then you told me how my post was garbage because you, a man, know more about women and what they want than an actual woman. Then you bragged about how many women you fucked. I'm sure your wife is a very lucky woman to have landed a prince like you. Then you affected not to understand how my comments about list…
/r/seduction29/03/22 09:39 PM
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No. I said, surely we can agree that nobody wants to see people get sexually assaulted. I was sure that we could agree on that. Perhaps not.
/r/seduction29/03/22 07:02 PM
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Really, "hundreds of women" married guy on a seduction subreddit. If you really can't see the correlation between respecting women's boundaries and sexual assault, I'm not sure what to tell you, sport.
/r/seduction29/03/22 06:28 PM
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I'm having a really sad day and just can't engage or defend anymore. Thanks for being nice to me.
/r/seduction29/03/22 03:22 PM
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Hundreds of women! Gosh. Either you're very old, or never sleep, or are unable to sustain a relationship. Or some combination of those. We can agree that we don't want to sexually assault people, right? All I'm saying is that what women say should be respected.
/r/seduction29/03/22 03:20 PM
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It definitely is. Consent can be given or withdrawn, depending on the situation and the people involved. I'm most concerned here with bros that think women never know what they want, meaning that a "no" really means "convince me."
/r/seduction29/03/22 02:39 PM
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Sure, ignore what an actual woman has to say about listening and respecting. It's your choice.
/r/seduction29/03/22 02:37 PM
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I'm a woman.
/r/seduction29/03/22 12:55 PM
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Glad you agree, chief.
/r/seduction29/03/22 11:08 AM
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That's right, your manly experience as a man fucking girls is more valid and wise than listening to a woman. "What women say and what they do is different" and "women don't know what they want" is the kind of crap men tell each other to justify some really awful ideas and behavior. My post basically says to respect what women say, and listen when they set boundaries. And you say that's dumb. I'll just leave it at that.
/r/seduction29/03/22 11:07 AM
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If the woman feels complimented randomly and you really don't stick around it might be happily received. Just understand that women just going about their business get hit on a lot, like A LOT, and it becomes wearisome in the extreme. Hence my admonition to be as non creepy (in this context, non sexual) as possible.
/r/seduction29/03/22 01:50 AM
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I might return to discuss this later. En route to work now.
/r/seduction29/03/22 01:47 AM
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The problem is how many men do not respect her words and that boundary. Your personal credo doesn't negate the fact that this is a problem.
/r/seduction28/03/22 11:50 PM
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I'd say your personal dating life does not correlate to "take what she says about not having sex as a suggestion, not a boundary."
/r/seduction28/03/22 11:33 PM
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Your anecdata does not refute my point. At all.
/r/seduction28/03/22 11:01 PM
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Here's a funny thing: I, too, love to give random compliments to strangers. It's partly a practice of kindness: saying something genuinely nice, for no other reason than to brighten their day. This makes me feel good, too. What I don't do is select recipients based on gender and looks, and use them like game pieces in a strategy objective. That's a little creepy, no?
/r/seduction28/03/22 09:48 PM
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If she says you're not having sex that night, for godsake do not see that as a cute little boundary she's inviting you to push. When women say they don't want sex that night, that's exactly what they mean. Don't be that creepy guy trying to wheedle your way into her pants, ffs.
/r/seduction28/03/22 09:43 PM
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Why would women have a more valuable perspective on this? Really? Because OP is basically asking us, the targets, to ask how we feel about this tactic. It's one thing to discuss strategy and success rates with your fellow would-be seducers. It's quite another thing to ask women what it's like to experience this technique. And my answer is: "oh, I see he's 'negging' me, bless his heart." Instant turn-off.
/r/seduction27/03/22 02:35 PM
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As a woman, I prefer innuendos with an innocent face (and maybe a little knowing smile) to anything that sounds too obviously like a pick-up line. An innuendo or a pun appeals to my language loving brain; "a line" sounds cliché.
/r/seduction21/03/22 04:21 PM
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How is rejecting you offer to dance politely ("no thanks") bring sold here as her being rude? How are you coming to the conclusion that her lack of attractiveness (in your opinion) responsible for for her alleged "venom"? And if she was so unattractive, why were several guys asking g her to dance? Have you considered that her turning down three guys for a dance simply meant she wasn't in the mood to dance? Do you not realize that your insulting response to her polite rejection is exactly the sor…
/r/seduction11/03/22 09:49 PM
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Then I hope you enjoy your own company.
/r/seduction09/03/22 12:18 AM
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What if I told you that women see a wall of "standardized" replies and instantly dismiss them, but that even 30 seconds of work to respond to her profile will always get noticed? Still not worth the effort, bro?
/r/seduction08/03/22 10:17 PM
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There's a more than decent chance she's out to have fun with her squad and is not there looking to hook up with randos. The above approach is acceptable despite the locale.
/r/seduction06/03/22 06:56 PM
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Not that one, sport.
/r/seduction03/11/20 04:06 PM
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Oh, i see we have a neuroscientist commenting. /s These are clichés and assumptions.
/r/seduction03/11/20 11:47 AM
2

Sexist and wrong. Logic is not gender-based.
/r/seduction03/11/20 11:04 AM
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You said women are not, so I'm glad we agree that it's people in general. Thank you for the detailed explanation: I appreciate your time.
/r/seduction02/11/20 11:23 PM
2

I'd counter that people aren't as clear as you might think. I've heard the "neg" approach before, and sometimes I'll play along for shits n' giggles. Sometimes I'll point out their strategy and ask what their next step is. In my experience, men get a little flustered when the game doesn't go according to the expected plan.
/r/seduction02/11/20 11:03 PM
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So the point is you're "correcting" her with a put-down/observation, then moving on? Because... why exactly? Your point is not as clear as you think.
/r/seduction02/11/20 10:43 PM
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Which point do you think i missed?
/r/seduction02/11/20 10:34 PM
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It is different. Correcting a dog is showing them you're in charge. Unless you mean to say that you are leading the conversation and the interaction, instead of establishing groundwork for an exchange.
/r/seduction02/11/20 10:02 PM
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How would it be to ask a guy what wasn't working if he didn't want to see a woman again? Asking for a friend.
/r/seduction02/11/20 09:34 PM
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"Think of it like correcting a dog"? How about, think of it as interacting with another human being and indicating your boundaries?
/r/seduction02/11/20 09:30 PM
1

It definitely doesn't correlate to dick size, or even to dick ownership. For instance, Rhianna has BDE. It's a certain fuck-you swagger, the confidence of knowing who you are, how to use your power, and not giving a fuck what other people think.
/r/seduction05/05/20 07:26 AM
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Maybe save your game til after Inside Time is over, bruh.
/r/seduction05/05/20 07:14 AM
1

A good line if you want to get a drink tossed in your face.
/r/seduction22/12/19 05:51 AM
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This. What you're looking for is a fling, OP. Just be truthful about that with potential partners, so everyone's on the same page. Don't lie to get laid, that really does make you a fuccboi.
/r/seduction21/12/19 06:03 AM
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