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| 435 | "I think men should be frightened" | Social Issues | SpicyNippss | /r/MensRights | 11/10/22 01:00 AM |
| 391 | I just want to be genuine and vulnerable and have someone still love me | SpicyNippss | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 01:32 AM |
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| 0 | have you ever imagined how your life would be different (you can try it right now, use your imagination) if you were the opposite sex? I'm serious....Tbf, you need to be like top1% of hot to even be remotely successful on there. | /r/MensRights | 06/12/22 04:06 PM |
| 5 | have you ever imagined how your life would be different (you can try it right now, use your imagination) if you were the opposite sex? I'm serious....I think as a woman i would have an easier life overall. A lot of things i wouldn't have to worry about like being homeless, and being given preferential treatment. However, having periods and being considerably weaker would not be something i would like. In fact, i think this whole female supremacy movement is to just even out the inherent disadvantages women have. | /r/MensRights | 06/12/22 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Why is it constantly asserted that all women have to be constantly in “fear for their lives” of being assaulted, raped or killed by men despite most men being harmless?Wearing a seatbelt and driving defensively is discriminating against a group of people. But i suppose with your logic, since there is a statistical probability, and feelings don't matter, we should then discriminate against black men more. I mean, they are more likely to commit violent crimes. Why stop at just men? Or is your cognitive dissonance going to cause you to create some bullshit rationalization for why that would be negative discrimination? | /r/MensRights | 13/11/22 12:48 AM |
| 8 | Why is it constantly asserted that all women have to be constantly in “fear for their lives” of being assaulted, raped or killed by men despite most men being harmless?Doesn't make living in fear over it rational. When you drive everyday you take the risk of some drunk idiot smashing into you either ending your life or disabling you. Most rational people realize though that this is a statistical improbability. | /r/MensRights | 12/11/22 10:45 PM |
| 9 | Italy Blocks Male Migrants From Leaving Rescue ShipsRefugees implies people facing imminent death in the origin country. These people are just poor. They have other opportunities but feel entitled to Europe's resources, while offering very little economic benefit in return. These people are a net drain on European society. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/22 07:14 AM |
| 3 | Yeah, I should care about how 'my presence' makes a woman feel.It's "positive discrimination." So, just discrimination and assuming negative things about people. | /r/MensRights | 01/11/22 03:02 AM |
| 16 | Sometimes it hits home really hardIdk man, i'm not downplaying what you're going through, that sounds like a horrible place to be, but my partner doesn't treat me like that. She cares very much if i am hurt or ill. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/22 12:00 AM |
| 6 | Sometimes it hits home really hardThis probably isn't about the plate, there's probably something else that's brewing inside her. Some sort of resentment. The plates are everybody's, unless they have some sort of sentimental value, it's bizarre she would consider them her's. I think it's also disrespectful to have a melt down over a plate in front of the kids. That puts a lot of pressure on you over something miniscule. If i was you, i would really drill this issue and get to the bottom of it, something is off. Also, think of yo… | /r/MensRights | 30/10/22 11:56 PM |
| 1 | i wonder why American men are still getting married with the legal system heavily leaning against them.You’re saying there’s systemic bias, but you haven’t proved there’s actual bias regarding this issue at all. What would be sufficient evidence for you? Seems the crux of your argument is it's not explicitly written in the law. You do realize just because it's not written in the law, doesn't mean there can't be any biases? I would say with the massive disparity in alimony award rates and women making more than ever, that it's pretty obvious. What is your benign explanation for this? | /r/MensRights | 30/10/22 07:57 PM |
| 2 | i wonder why American men are still getting married with the legal system heavily leaning against them.Okay, you win with your overly pedantic bad faith argument. Since 3% of the other gender are also affected, i'm sure there is absolutely no systematic bias and completely fair. This is totally congruent with feminists narrative that claims to want to tear down the patriarchy and change patriarchal norms. | /r/MensRights | 30/10/22 06:47 PM |
| 5 | i wonder why American men are still getting married with the legal system heavily leaning against them.It is systematic bias. Imagine if this affected women. You wouldn't hear the end from feminist about how antiquated of a law it is. I have no doubt it would be greatly changed or tossed out. This is example of female privledge. Because women have the choice to stay at home and raise children, or work. Men don't have that option as they are shamed. | /r/MensRights | 30/10/22 06:11 PM |
| 6 | i wonder why American men are still getting married with the legal system heavily leaning against them."According to the U.S. Census, only 3 percent of the 400,000 people receiving alimony are men" https://www.sflg.com/blog/2014/11/why-are-only-3-percent-of-alimony-recipients-men/ Of course it's not overtly stated in the law. That doesn't mean there isn't bias or discrimination. Ultimately it's at the judges discretion. Men are also the primary bread winner, and money is the top criteria for determining who pays alimony. Even if it's only a few thousand a year more. | /r/MensRights | 30/10/22 05:49 PM |
| 5 | i wonder why American men are still getting married with the legal system heavily leaning against them.How ignorant can you be lol it's hard to believe people like you exist. | /r/MensRights | 30/10/22 04:51 PM |
| 3 | i wonder why American men are still getting married with the legal system heavily leaning against them.I moved to mexico for this reason. To find a wife, get dual citizenship, and not worry about divorce rape. All of my money is in US bank accounts, and mexico has a really low divorce rate. In america though? No shot would i get married. I'm an accountant, and could very easily outpace 90% of earners. It's unlikely i would find a woman whom i was attracted to, and made more than me. | /r/MensRights | 30/10/22 04:47 PM |
| 6 | What are Some Male Stereotypes You Are Tired of Hearing?I wouldn't have cared had she not walked to the furthest treadmill after I did that. No, i'm not telepathic, but on the basis of probability, i'd say it was more likely that she thought there was a possibility i would sexually assault her, so she moved. Are you a woman? Or do you not live in a feminist area? I feel most men have had this experience at least once. Or just aren't very situationally aware. I'm not trying to be mean, I'm genuinely curious. | /r/MensRights | 30/10/22 02:51 PM |
| 9 | What are Some Male Stereotypes You Are Tired of Hearing?I've had it happen multiple times in my life. The last occurrence was using a scale behind a woman at the gym. She decided to suddenly stop the treadmill she was using in front of it and walk all the way across the gym to a machine far away from me. Never had i seen this woman in my life, and she wasn't even that cute. This has happened to me in other contexts as well in my life, and i'm a person that keeps to myself and really doesn't like interacting with anybody. Maybe you don't live in a hyp… | /r/MensRights | 30/10/22 02:11 PM |
| 3 | A third of female daters are only there for the free mealI always buy ice cream or coffee. Cheap, and it weeds out the sociopaths that think it's okay to use people. | /r/MensRights | 27/10/22 11:14 PM |
| 15 | Article gives a tutorial on how to baby trap a man.I bet she thinks that a woman later regretting drunken sex is rape. Most feminists are blatant hypocrites. | /r/MensRights | 27/10/22 08:24 PM |
| 11 | According to these feminists on this post, we are not allowed to go overseas and seek out women and open our options. they want us to be stuck to their ways . smhWomen are women when the rubber hits the road. Thing is, those societies don't pander to women non-stop. They actually hold them accountable. So yes, they are women, but with different restrictions and values. It's why you don't bring one back to the states unless you are certain they have solid moral character. Otherwise, hypergamy takes over and they adopt western values because they know it gives them leverage. | /r/MensRights | 27/10/22 08:06 AM |
| 50 | "If every woman decided to not have kids, the government would probably step in to ensure that the human race survives, so the perception of free will in regard to having kids only exists for women so long as other women are willingly having kids."No, only women are capable of bringing life into this world. Didn't you get the memo that men are just sperm donors? /s | /r/MensRights | 24/10/22 07:21 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on Billie Eilish (21) dating Jesse Rutherford (31)? Because most of the comments on Twitter and Reddit have already made him gross, even predator and paedophile.How are you so sure that is "rarely the case?" Because you are young, biased, and have been sold propaganda that tells people only women can be victims? I really don't see any evidence of this. Alimony and family court cases grossly favor women. So, relationship wise, women typically have more leverage than men. Inb4 you say you read some posts about young women dating older men and then being burned by it. Ultimately, people get into relationships because it benefits them in some way. Young wom… | /r/MensRights | 20/10/22 08:46 PM |
| 5 | What are your thoughts on Billie Eilish (21) dating Jesse Rutherford (31)? Because most of the comments on Twitter and Reddit have already made him gross, even predator and paedophile.Women are not at fault if men are attracted to them. But they are if they use that to manipulate them. Are you dense? | /r/MensRights | 20/10/22 07:37 PM |
| 5 | What are your thoughts on Billie Eilish (21) dating Jesse Rutherford (31)? Because most of the comments on Twitter and Reddit have already made him gross, even predator and paedophile.By your own logic, you being a teen woman are mentally unfit to be having adult conversations. You do realize how patronizing you are being to younger women? As if all are incapable of making rational decisions, or perhaps even use their beauty and youth to manipulate men into giving them things in the hopes for romance. I certainly have met women like that in my life. | /r/MensRights | 20/10/22 05:42 PM |
| 40 | What are your thoughts on Billie Eilish (21) dating Jesse Rutherford (31)? Because most of the comments on Twitter and Reddit have already made him gross, even predator and paedophile.It's like fascist or incel. The meaning has been diluted by ideological extremists and teenagers. Married men are being called incels. | /r/MensRights | 20/10/22 05:37 PM |
| 52 | Around 70% of divorces are initiated by women, what are some of your theories as to why that is?By virtue of men's sex drive, natural tendency to prioritize women, and women having vaginas, women will always have a leg up and look for a better option. This means they can jump ship and have a life raft ready at all times, practically. Also, the number one cause of divorce is financial troubles. With men still being bread winners, it's not hard to put two and two together. Man falls on financial hardship, wife leaves. | /r/MensRights | 16/10/22 02:26 AM |
| 1 | "I think men should be frightened"You got me. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/22 05:18 PM |
| 2 | "I think men should be frightened"In this context of that comment i intended a personal interpretation. If you think you drank too much, that isn't an excuse if later you regret your decisions. An outside observer could interpret their state entirely differently. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/22 05:06 PM |
| 1 | "I think men should be frightened"Asking a woman who youve been closely flirting for expressed consent to kiss them is not weird or creepy. I always directly ask fir permission before doing anything and its always worked out. Most women like it. Common advice is to not ask. You can even look here on reddit and google it. When i was growing up in highschool it was weird to ask. I've asked and it's worked out. She is my wife now. However, it still takes good social calibration to not make it weird, and experience. I'm sure geograp… | /r/MensRights | 12/10/22 04:54 PM |
| 1 | "I think men should be frightened"Okay, when does the other party know at what point this occurs? Or, that it is an indication of non-consent? You have lofty expectations. You expect young adults at parties to have perfect judgement. If it isn't precisely defined, you're going to have people making mistakes and misconstruing. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/22 04:45 PM |
| 1 | "I think men should be frightened"Blacked-out implies lack of consciousness. The degree of drunkenness is something very hard to measure, and inconsistent at best. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/22 04:33 PM |
| 1 | "I think men should be frightened"If she's blacked-out drunk, then she can't say yes. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/22 04:07 PM |
| 55 | I literally can't go online in almost any regard without seeing sanction, celibrated belittling or straight hatred of men.. Starts off with an AITA post being posted in a similar group, leads me to shit like this. the irony of rule 3 of the hate group would be comical if it wasn't so messed upBeing pregnant, like anything else that might be difficult or make you feel bad, doesn't give anyone the right to be an asshole or lazy. I swear, every time i see people say "women sacrifice so much for men to have babies" irks me. They choose to have the baby also. They complain constantly about bodily autonomy, but when they actually decide to have a baby they blame the stretch marks, post-partum depression, and any other issue on men, like they did it for solely for them. Also, most women i s… | /r/MensRights | 11/10/22 07:47 PM |
| 5 | Thankfully Reddit has stepped up enforcement and has been cracking down on hate this year. However, there has been an unprecedented uptick in femcel extremism that is continuously being ignored.legbeards, i love it, i'm using this in the future lol | /r/MensRights | 11/10/22 07:16 PM |
| 5 | "I think men should be frightened"I blame victims that put themselves in circumstances that causes them to become victims, and i feel no shame. | /r/MensRights | 11/10/22 04:36 PM |
| 8 | "I think men should be frightened"What BA% is it no longer consent? How many shots/drinks? We need a clear line drawn. Because if it's ambiguous and arbitrary, people are going to inevitably misconstrue it. If they are saying yes, kissing back, not saying no to physical contact. This is all implied or explicit consent. You expect everyone to have a BA detector on them or know when they can no longer give consent, which is bull. Everyone is different when they're drunk. People do not know when i am really drunk, i'm just happy. B… | /r/MensRights | 11/10/22 04:28 PM |
| 104 | "I think men should be frightened"With feminists, when a drunk women regrets sex, it's always rape, because their "judgement is impaired." They have no accountability for their actions. If you drive drunk, and your friends peer pressured you into it, you can't use that as a cop-out. You still go to jail for drinking and driving. Drinking too much doesn't mean no consequences for your actions. | /r/MensRights | 11/10/22 04:18 AM |
| -2 | People from developing countries in Africa, Middle-East and Asia, I want you to rethink your opinions on feminismYes, but if it's the western feminism flavor, like it is in the rest of the world, expect it. I think it's just human nature, we are very bad at balance. | /r/MensRights | 11/10/22 01:07 AM |
| 7 | How do you not let it hurt you to hold your tongue in with your feminist relatives or mother saying something you don’t agree with?because the I’d come off as rude And someone who does something that is unnecessary that bothers you isn't? You need more self-respect. If you were watching mgtow videos in her presence i guarantee you she would jump down your throat. You sound like someone who's never left home and become your own person. And i don't mean to be rude by saying that, it might not be your fault or circumstance. I wanna know how to simply not let it affect me Unless you master stoicism and become a saint, i don't k… | /r/MensRights | 10/10/22 09:47 PM |
| 13 | In Iran women can drive, vote, go to university, work and hold office but must wear veils: western media loses its mind. Men in Iran face mandatory military conscription for 2 years: western media = Crickets.It's not men vs women. It illustrates western medias hypocrisy. | /r/MensRights | 10/10/22 06:27 PM |
| 25 | How do you not let it hurt you to hold your tongue in with your feminist relatives or mother saying something you don’t agree with?If you don't fix this, it will only get worse and build more resentment within you. Personally, i believe your mother is a lost cause, and tell her that you don't appreciate her discussing feminism around you or watching her man-hating tiktoks around you. If she doesn't respect your boundaries, give her the gift of missing you. The strongest negotiating position is being able to walk away, and never look back. I've done it with my family, it gets easier over time, but it's never easy. | /r/MensRights | 10/10/22 05:01 PM |
| 7 | I seriously find it crazy how there is enough research and common sense that tell us that having a father is very important, and yet the court pushes them away, and only cares about them when it comes to extracting money out of them.I also think it's negligence on the government's part to not even discuss this. Especially considering it is statistically proven that single mother homes predict poor outcomes. But the common narrative is they're strong and the backbone of society. We will all reap the consequences of this. Society consists of people, and when those people more and more are growing up in dysfunctional homes, you can expect society to be dysfunctional. | /r/MensRights | 10/10/22 04:36 PM |
| 7 | We need to talk about this.We all have our moments. | /r/MensRights | 10/10/22 04:03 PM |
| 57 | We need to talk about this.I have this, i'll be it mild. I can't do the deed too many times because it can hurt a lot. It's definitely not without side effects, and anyone who thinks it doesn't and you can just "simply have it reversed" is a freaking idiot. | /r/MensRights | 10/10/22 04:39 AM |
| 1 | My wife constantly physically abuses me. How do I get her to stop?My fiancé play-hits me and I'm fine with it. It's all about the context. Maybe she grew up in a home where play fighting was a thing, and she has a habit. However, that doesn't excuse the behavior, and if you keep telling her to stop and she doesn't, that's a clear indication she doesn't actually respect your boundaries. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/22 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys also get called incel all the time just because you partake in this sub?I just laugh because i'm getting married soon. They just assume all women are as awful and evil as them. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/22 07:19 PM |
| 6 | Why do that even bother THEM?I thought this exactly. Men have higher bone density, which means less fractures in car accidents. | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 07:12 PM |
| 3 | What does circumcision actually take away?I’ve been relatively active on debating this topic for a while. Most people say that the forseskin is just a useless piece of flesh that does nothing, makes you more susceptible to UTIs and is difficult to clean. Imagine if we removed the appendix in babies because it could possibly cause complications in the future. It would be deemed as invasive. The labia also increases your risk of UTI, indicated by this study: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/32388633/ But we wouldn't even dare to suggest we… | /r/MensRights | 24/09/22 05:57 PM |
| 16 | Denver allocates $2M in taxpayer funds to provide homeless women, trans and non-binary people $12 000 eachTime to travel and be a homeless trans-woman for a bit :D | /r/MensRights | 24/09/22 12:07 AM |
| 5 | believe all women?We like to categorize people who commit domestic violence as some of the worst people on the planet, but i think you summed it up nicely. Sometimes people don't handle stress well and get violent. Doesn't justify their actions. i do think people are honest when they tell their partner never again, but their dysfunctional mental health causes them to lash out again. They need help, usually. Some are just plain evil. | /r/MensRights | 22/09/22 08:26 PM |
| 6 | Lonely working-class men, paying for connection, exploited by privileged college-educated womenJust don't take it as the gospel truth. It's interesting theory, but if the wrong person reads it, it can fuck up the way the interact with people. | /r/MensRights | 15/09/22 09:07 PM |
| 161 | Lonely working-class men, paying for connection, exploited by privileged college-educated womenI swear, they can't take accountability for ANYTHING. It's amazing the mental gymnastics. | /r/MensRights | 15/09/22 09:02 PM |
| 1 | how can i cope with crippling loneliness?Focus on other things. Gym, friends, hobbies, video games. When i feel lonely, this is what i do. And really, relationships aren't all they're cracked up to be. Sometimes i say to myself "i'd really prefer to be alone right now." I like my GF, but it can get very annoying to have to worry about someone else's feelings or needs. Keep that in mind. | /r/MensRights | 12/09/22 11:31 PM |
| 15 | Mom gives her son eviction papers for his 18th birthday present. Posts it online.You're a good person, and i'm sure when he matures he will be grateful you helped him, despite your guy's disagreement. | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 04:53 AM |
| 4 | I'm sick and tired of just being a sex object for women.You don't have to go back to college. Go join an apprenticeship. 99% constitute dudes who don't want you for your d*ck, and many of them pay good. I suggest electrician. | /r/MensRights | 10/09/22 02:09 AM |
| 12 | USA: 27-year-old woman starts handing out dating RESUMES to men she finds attractive. OP: I suspect a man would be arrested for harassment if he did this.To be fair, you shouldn't have to be hot to do this, but the men she was going for is really telling. She's definitely not going for a good personality. | /r/MensRights | 09/09/22 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Seems like there’s a “diverse” cabinet in Britain now (basically no white men in major power), thoughts?"What’s funny is that the title of this thread isn’t even true, white men still hold the majority" And people think that's a problem, that's the point. It's like you ignored half of my comment. How is that unexpected in a white majority country? | /r/MensRights | 07/09/22 10:46 PM |
| 1 | ONS pregnant - UKFirst, keep absolute minimal contact if you don't want to be the child's father, second vasectomy, third get a DNA test for the child soon after it's born. Do not neglect the final step. I think if you don't contest it soon the state will default you as the father, and it's very hard to reverse that. Otherwise, that's life. Accept the shit sandwich and move on. You could also work three jobs, save all your money, and move to a really cheap country that doesn't enforce child support orders. Latin… | /r/MensRights | 07/09/22 08:23 PM |
| 4 | Seems like there’s a “diverse” cabinet in Britain now (basically no white men in major power), thoughts?That's not the problem, the problem is the implicit belief that white man = bad. You have a country that is predominantly white, so shocker, most of the political candidates are therefore going to be white. When you force diversity, not only do you have a smaller pool of qualified, competent candidates, but you're also saying that there's something wrong with being white. If the government was majority black and female, the left wouldn't complain. What do you think that says about far-left peopl… | /r/MensRights | 07/09/22 06:23 PM |
| 4 | Anyone else noticing misandry in the workplace?I meant like what particular field of engineering, but thank you for responding. | /r/MensRights | 06/09/22 04:05 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else noticing misandry in the workplace?Do you mind mentioning what field you work in? I'm just curious. | /r/MensRights | 06/09/22 03:12 AM |
| 3 | I wonder why men are less inclined to get married nowadays 🤔It's not really relevant. It serves to show how vindictive women can be, and some women can find any reason to be vindictive and use that reason to rationalize why it's okay. It shows how much power they KNOW they have. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/22 09:52 PM |
| 3 | Why do men carry more responsibility regarding birth control?Get a vasectomy, brother. Best decision of my life. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/22 01:16 AM |
| 38 | Please talk more about UkraineI always believed that if you needed a draft to maintain the powers that be your country deserves to fail. If the men aren't inspired to fight to protect their home, that is very telling. It's in men's DNA to protect their loved ones. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/22 01:03 AM |
| 1 | have any of you had to give up on your hobbies and interests to keep the peace between you and your wife?She's being a petulant child, however, i have a feeling you can compromise with her and set boundaries. How often do you court your wife? Like actually set a day where you two are alone and doing something you enjoy? Going to the park, the movies, the arcade, any fun little thing you can think of. I take my girl out to the museum sometimes. Try to change it up though so it isn't routine, like dinner every weekend. I have a feeling it's not the video games themselves, but how the video games make… | /r/MensRights | 30/08/22 12:44 AM |
| 1 | My X put a lean on my home!I always wondered what i'd do in this scenario. Probably save as much money as i could and escape to a third world country. I'll be damned if i'm a wage slave to the state. Screw that. Depending on how much your house is worth. You could go to mexico and live comfortably after selling it, or live a very modest life. | /r/MensRights | 22/08/22 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Most women DO NOT prefer men their age and younger men.Okay, your life experience and perception of that experience is different. I'm an american, I know people first hand with large age gap relationships. Is it the norm? No, but common enough that i have seen several. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 10:16 PM |
| 3 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleMost American men don't know there's a whole world of better women out there for them. Where they don't have to tolerate unrealistic standards and misandry. I currently live in Latin America, but i had plenty of American women attracted to me. It just wasn't in my interest to tolerate double standards and poor attitudes and behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 04:38 AM |
| 1 | I'm Thinking of moving out of the United states, where should I move?I like latin america. I'm currently in mexico. It's very easy to get citizenship here, things are cheap, the women tend to be better, and there's so much to do here. | /r/MensRights | 13/08/22 03:59 AM |
| 2 | The Andrew Tate phenomenon shows that the mainstream responds very positively to "pill" ideas, but they are artificially suppressed by Western media companiesA lot of these topics weren't openly talked about until the red pill, and a lot of it describes human nature, with some accuracy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 11:47 PM |
| 7 | The Andrew Tate phenomenon shows that the mainstream responds very positively to "pill" ideas, but they are artificially suppressed by Western media companiesI remember seeing this guy on "Bulldog University" a few years ago when I was really into the manosphere. I thought he was loud, and obnoxious, my opinion hasn't changed. However, occasionally he has something insightful to say, and there is SOME truth to what he says. Like any ideology, it exists because to some extent there is some truth to it, and the red pill is no exception. People can recognize it aligns with what they've experienced in the world, despite it being an amplified version. The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 02:01 AM |
| 20 | Agree or Disagree: It’s not that women don’t care about “looks.” They do. It’s more that they’re “turned off” by socially inept behavior and turned on by sexy socially adept interaction.The good news is social skills and flirting can be learned. This is unfortunately misinformation, and you clearly haven't interacted with atypical neurodivergent people. They can't "learn" how to be normal. They can get "better," but "normal" people will never view them as normal. This varies depending on the individual, but i've had long term friendships with people who could be described as autistic, and their lives are very unfortunate, and there isn't much hope for them, i hate to say it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 06:00 AM |
| 2 | Money in dating and relationshipIn America, 90% of relationships are convenience of equality. Meaning, when it's convenient for the woman, then it's equal. Cooking, 50/50, cleaning, 50/50, paying the rent, most of the time 50/50; but dates, gifts, and traditionally masculine duties? Now it's the guy changing the oil in the cars, paying for the valentines date, buying her flowers and chocolates randomly. This has been most of my relationships with feminist american women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Most women DO NOT prefer men their age and younger men.Perhaps not on a large scale, but there are more 20s year old women that have dated older men than 20s year old men that have dated older women. My point is that women value different things, and age sometimes improves those aspects that are desirable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 04:00 AM |
| 0 | Most women DO NOT prefer men their age and younger men.You're not making arguments in good faith by calling people pedos for being attracted to 20 year olds when they get older. I'd wager you have some subconscious insecurity about getting older yourself as a woman and rather than address that you shame anyone that chooses to do the opposite of what you deem as appropriate with very inflammatory language. You can claim a bunch of anecdotes about how all the "healthy moral" men don't do such a thing, but anyone else could do the same and make an argu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 03:52 AM |
| 6 | Most women DO NOT prefer men their age and younger men.That's mainly because most 40 year old men are fat slobs. Ones that actually maintain their appearance do just fine dating younger women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Your Personality is NOT the problem women here are making it to beI find that many men hold onto the friendly vibe far too long. You need to not view women as friends, but intimate partners. From the get-go you need to be asking them out on dates and for their numbers. Not chatting for 3 months and then bringing it up randomly when they've gotten comfortable just being a friend, and having the expectation they will recieve your non-sexual attention for free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 09:57 PM |
| 4 | Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance?I think we enjoy sex more than the actual raising of children. Children are annoying leeches, for most people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance?I read somewhere that after sixteen generations only 2% of your dna can be traced to that person. That's less than a second cousin. Hell, i read somewhere that every eighth person you come across in your day to day life is as genetically close to you as a cousin. Have kids if that's what you want. But this notion that your genes will be recognizable and impactful in the distant future is not reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 08:16 PM |
| 2 | The "ick" phenomenon.I have had a girlfriend i could visibly tell get the "ick" from something i did. But this was after she had lost most attraction and respect for me. I have also gotten the ick, and actually for the girlfriend i mentioned. She mentioned her one-night stands and sexual past, i was never able to look at her the same again. A very visceral feeling of sadness and disgust. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 06:25 AM |
| 3 | How many of you women are actually into "abusive" sex?I've slept with 5 women, not a big sample size. Every single one of them has enjoy some form of dominance in some kind of way. I think it's far more prevalent than most people, women in paticular, would like to admit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 06:16 AM |
| 4 | How are there so many successful men who continue to struggle?Why is your assumption that they're awful people? Some people are on the spectrum, or just naturally awkward, and there's nothing they can do about it. Unfortunately, even if you have virtuous redeeming qualities, it rarely can overcome a poor personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 06:14 AM |
| 5 | Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance?I would never get married in the states, but you do you, brother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 06:08 AM |
| 7 | Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance?I've found there's a lot of women that don't want kids, and as a snipped man, this makes me happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 06:04 AM |
| 11 | Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance?Everyone is a genetic dead end. After several generations, your DNA is hardly recognizable in your future genetic lineage. I find it really bizarre that people are obsessed with their "genetic legacy" as if it's unique or important. But it seems standard, so perhaps i'm the bizarre one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 06:03 AM |
| 11 | Study: female sexlessness is also rising:It's actually as societies become more egalitarian and women aren't required to marry anymore or serve their husbands. When women have full control over their independence, their hypergamy goes into overdrive. Not only this, but their sex drives on average are lower, and get their intimacy through platonic means. All of this culminates into sexlessness for both men and women. There's consequences to every decision life, even feminism. What i've learned in life, is that you have to pick which pre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 05:57 AM |
| 3 | Men settle- women do not"So I think jealousy /insecurity is the route cause of n count obsessions." This is always such a hard cope that women use. While it may be true in some instances, men just don't respect a woman with a high body count. It's like a rich person having a "small loan of a million" dollars being successful. It's like they didn't earn it. The same is true for women regarding sex. You literally have to do nothing. What is respectable about that? And if you leverage it to the point where it's almost pat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 05:32 AM |
| 1 | what exactly are the standards for an average man ?Wow, aren't you just a positive person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 05:24 AM |
| 6 | Q4W: what struggles do you face dating that men fail to empathize with?This is almost always a result of women dating men far more attractive than them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Are women's standards that high, or are men just lying to themselves?learn how to socialize with women I think more men would be open to this if they weren't constantly shot down, called creeps, and treated like shit when they do. "don't approach women at the gym, they're there to work out, it's creepy" "don't approach women at all, it's disrespectful and creepy" What alternatives do they have? It actually takes the equivalent time investment of a second job to date as an average to below average man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 04:14 AM |
| 19 | I just want to be genuine and vulnerable and have someone still love meI don't want it to seem like i'm trying to stick it to the PUA or seduction community. I do think the strategies work, and they're things that healthy people naturally do. I guess what i'm trying to express is that's not naturally me, and it's something i wish didn't have to be done. I just don't feel like i fit in, in the dating world. And i'm trying. I work out, i teach and play guitar, i'm an accountant that makes decent money. None of that fills the void though. Only thing that seems to mome… | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 02:09 AM |
| 95 | I just want to be genuine and vulnerable and have someone still love meThank you for your thorough and interesting perspective. I think you're right, there's no way I could love this person after having sex only once, and it's more about validation. My feelings are just clouding my judgment. I think I'm really going to reflect on what you said and the cause for my behavior. I guess one primary reason I believe I'm irredeemable is because I believe that genetics are like the bullets in a gun, and your environment is the trigger. I lacked that secure love growing up,… | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 02:02 AM |
| 11 | Double standardsJust fyi, they have fake foreskins you can buy. the best of which is probably "manhood" from canada. Kinda spendy, but it will protect your glans and your frenulum remnant and dekeratinize them. Really improved my sensations. I'll never know what a true foreskin feels like, but protecting the glans is really important for enjoying sex to its fullest. Might be TMI, but i can actually feel the texture of a vagina now with my penis, as opposed to before i couldn't feel the ruggae. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/22 03:10 AM |
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