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Calibration is key. It just depends on the girl and whether you tend to say unintentionally dumb shit. But it sounds like being quieter is working for you so play around with it.
/r/seduction17/05/15 10:01 PM
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You aren't allowing yourself to have fun, and that's what is holding you back. But you control how your emotions affect your outer persona. Even if you were feeling like crap, you could've acted like you were having the best time of your life, then you could have at least danced and grinded with a couple girls, and you would've gone home in a significantly better mood. Your friends are doing better because they are allowing themselves to let loose.
/r/seduction13/03/15 03:45 PM
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It ultimately is a numbers game if you go out to chat up women for hours every night. For most of the users here, game isn't something seperated into a specific time slot. I don't decide not to approach a girl because I see her in the grocery store instead of a club. For most, they don't spend any time on specifically placing themselves in a pickup environment, they just live, and then when they see someone interesting they have the skills to successfully seduce that person. It's a numbers game …
/r/seduction12/12/14 01:56 AM
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Is it because some pickup gurus constantly prattle on about how "awesome" their lives are. I'm detecting a serious bias here. Whatever I'll try to help you understand. thereby redirecting from the fact that their achievements in life consist of meaningless sex obtained mainly by propositioning ("gaming") as many women as possible? What is meaningless sex to you exactly? Do you think it's wrong to be sexually active? Are you aware that many men have met their spouses because of "game"? sex obtain…
/r/seduction11/12/14 06:44 PM
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It's the reverse that's powerful.
/r/seduction27/11/14 04:05 AM
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That seems idiotic. It's not a sport or competition, Why would they test for it?
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 05:56 AM
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Jokes on you, I've set 4 new PRs this week! But seriously, can't agree more about focusing on eating a lot. That's been the biggest difference for me.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 07:10 AM
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4th most upvoted post all-time on seddit is about this very topic. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1f9f8e/hitting_it_off_with_a_girl_feeling_you_could_kiss/
/r/seduction11/11/14 09:00 AM
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I never have any time to actually go out and practice. Experience is 75% of the reason for improvement in seduction. 3 years of reading and yet I still haven't done a SINGLE day approach. Never trying makes it a lot harder to succeed. You need to put seduction on the shelf for now and see a therapist. With you being well off and having less hours, you could really fix your anxiety issues for good. Find a counselor, psychologist, or psychiatrist who you can talk through your issues with. Cognitiv…
/r/seduction11/11/14 04:52 AM
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He looks kind of Indian. Definitely doesnt look white. I think his family is from Saudi Arabia or some country close to there.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 04:25 AM
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Sometimes I feel like TRP can make a few of us a little too paranoid. This is good behavior. Reward it by doing something comforting or funny back like drawing a heart around her face in dry erase marker or putting a badly photoshopped pirate lookalike picture in to replace it.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 04:02 AM
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This has been answered before. Race matters some. By you can definitely still make it to the top 10% of men. I would say race probably matters the least compared to other things like height, muscularity, social skills, etc. Trust me, I have good friends who are black, half Asian, and middle eastern who get lots of quality women.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 03:53 AM
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You only remember the times that it's been noticed. Not the times that it's been successful.
/r/seduction09/11/14 09:54 PM
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No. Absolutely not. You are in a buyer mindset, the seller mindset is for AFCs. Course of action would go like this: Does she have a less attractive friend with her? Engage both of them but flirt with the less attractive friend only. Make her jealous and she will enter that mindset of seeking your validation. Are there other guys fighting for her attention? Poke fun at them a little. Acknowledge how desperate they are. Is it a party? Open season on all of the girls who aren't getting attention! …
/r/seduction09/11/14 09:00 PM
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This is a diverse sub. People have varying goals here, there are guys who pursue long term relationships and guys that don't. Some of those guys who do it for one night stands do lead those girls on making them think it is going to lead to a relationship. I think for the most part, people come here for a specific girl, then they realize that it isn't actually a healthy outlook. Then they spend time shopping around and eventually they find someone who is a great fit for them.
/r/seduction09/11/14 06:35 AM
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This is asktrp. Not telltrp
/r/askTRP09/11/14 05:24 AM
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"wait" Look her in the eyes till she stops talking and things slow down, then kiss her.
/r/seduction02/11/14 01:49 AM
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Crazy to think when I got here it was sub 12k. Hopefully we can keep the original vision going.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 02:55 AM
4

Isn't self care something that raises your value?
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 11:05 PM
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Where in eastern Europe are you from?
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 01:34 AM
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Can anyone help explain the reason why some of the most happy go lucky guys I know get the most women? They are masculine and fit with a lot of TRPs ideals but they aren't stoic at all. They walk around with a smirk on their face a lot of the time and smile when they talk to people. Is it the motives behind it that are different? Or is this a topic (smiling and showing outward happiness being beta) that TRP hasn't come to a consensus on?
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 03:42 AM
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Get a list of polarizing, possibly offensive or self deprecating openers. Go out and open girls with these, most will take it badly. Try to come back with agree & amplify or something funny. Eventually you will have comebacks for 90% of what girls say. Insults can be surprisingly unoriginal. Also fat/ugly girls in clubs are some of the best trash talkers because of all that they have to deal with. Try doing a role reversal and see how they react. You might find some good comebacks.
/r/askTRP26/10/14 11:17 PM
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If you want to debate them, act uninformed but with innocent intentions. Destroy their belief system by using the Socratic method of questioning. It's been used for millennia in philosophical contexts. Asking lots of questions will help you realize that 99% of people don't really have a real understanding of why they believe what they believe. And that you can easily make them see this by asking lots of innocent but penetrating, "why?" Kind of questions.
/r/askTRP26/10/14 10:49 PM
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Slow yourself down. Move deliberately and give yourself 2 seconds extra to react to your environment. It's not so much time that you will seem strange, but other people will notice. A girl makes eye contact with you and your gaze lingers on her for 2 seconds, and you will seperate yourself from the crowd... It takes practice, but just try to actively engage in eye contact in public with everyone who is open and have a calm, warm demeanor underneath.
/r/askTRP26/10/14 10:42 PM
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I think that the emotional rollercoaster is what will really bring out something memorable that she will cherish. So stacking the gift on top of another success will make it seem less great in comparison (i believe there is actually a study about how rewards are perceived as less great if they are preceded by some other positive event) You have to do that (emotional rollercoaster) without being beta. Ideally you would find a way to create some minor dread, uncertainty, and insecurity. And then j…
/r/askTRP26/10/14 10:21 PM
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Being fit and muscular improves SMV, so that's a yes. In the workplace, do what you can to improve your chances of success. If doing unpaid overtime will move you closer to recognition or a promotion, then do it. Just because you aren't getting paid in $ doesn't mean you cant profit from it. You have to be smart and learn how to work the system you're in.
/r/askTRP26/10/14 07:51 PM
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Dont talk about fight club. Improve SMV.
/r/askTRP26/10/14 05:19 PM
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Look up kino escalation. My go-to when I'm 95% percent of the way into escalation and all that remains is to go for it, is this: Triangle gaze, look her in the eyes, then look at her lips, then back up to eyes. Then I say, "Wait." And maintain eye contact till she stops talking and I have her attention. And then slowly and deliberately lean in for the kiss. Works amazingly well.
/r/askTRP23/10/14 05:31 AM
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Be affectionate on your own time, and don't do it because you are trying make up for some screw-up or argument you had. An alpha gives his validation and affection when he wants to. To someone who deserves it. If she's been good, there's nothing wrong with mailing her a package or calling her up on your own time. Edit: Also, remember the 2/3 rule, give back 2/3 of whatever positive validation she gives you, and she will feel safe but still wanting more.
/r/askTRP23/10/14 05:24 AM
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Doing something you love and enjoy while being able to make a decent living is a huge blessing. 40-50k is decent money especially in your 20s. There are engineers starting there careers at barely more than that per year. Your career honestly sounds pretty alpha to me. You do what you love, don't get stressed out, and likely have a freer schedule to have fun more than most people. You're fine, but you could look into investing and passive income streams if you want more money.
/r/askTRP23/10/14 05:19 AM
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You gain nothing by taking it seriously. It can be frustrating at first to give up control, but it gets better as you go along. Que sera, sera. Whatever will be will be. If she wants to cheat you can't stop her. You can minimize the situation by not reacting and showing her that you're value is high enough that cheating is too much of a risk. I had a similar situation and I didnt even address the crush. I just asked, "Does this person make you feel unsafe? Do they make it hard for you to do your…
/r/askTRP23/10/14 04:56 AM
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If we got what we wanted before then we wouldn't be here. It's not rocket science.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 05:24 AM
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'Several directors spoke out against the society’s ratification, highlighting the dangers of BroSoc’s ostensibly narrow focus on traditional masculinity. "The society’s objectives were “clearly not about breaking down oppressive gender roles”.' “There are a number of directors who believe that any group that serves to cater primarily to men inherently reinforces the patriarchy and oppresses queer people”. I find it so frustrating that they ostracized men who WANT to embrace masculinity, or women…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 08:09 AM
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Consider becoming a waiter or bartender and moving up into higher class stuff. I've known people who make upwards of 50-60k working 30-35 hours a week after 5-10x years in the industry, with the option of making more if they just want more hours. Also /r/findapath
/r/askTRP06/10/14 05:33 AM
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The point of doing loads of cold approaches is so it will become routine and you won't show outward signs of nervousness, and so you will be outcome independent (meaning the rejections have minimal affect on you). You will be more successful with complete cold approaches if you don't immediately open by asking for a number or instadate. You have a chance to build attraction before putting her on the spot. The reasons for doing them (at least for me) is because it kills the scariness for me, and …
/r/seduction15/09/14 04:01 AM
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The problem was you were putting her on the spot on front of her friends. Even if she was interested, she doesn't want to seem easy in front of them. Thus she rejected you. You needed to find a way to isolate her more or ask for her number less conspicuously.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 01:46 AM
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Could you post a more in depth analysis?
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 06:52 AM
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No prob. There are obvious things that slip under my radar too. 99% of the time this is a huge IOI unless she's REALLY wigged out, in which case you'll be able to tell because she'll be running away or pulling out her taser.
/r/seduction19/08/14 06:01 AM
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That's one of the most obvious IOIs in existence.
/r/seduction18/08/14 10:33 PM
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Do you mean getting in state? I had a friend who was an average, slightly social guy, but he would be the life of the party when it mattered. Anytime there was a big event like a concert, house party, or art gallery opening he would kill it. He told me that he would get all ready, then drive around for 20-30 minutes before the event with the radio blaring, windows down, and he would make goofy noises, joke like he was conversing with the guys on talk radio and make fun of the commercials, and si…
/r/seduction18/08/14 05:55 AM
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It's amazing what you can accomplish when you start to care about the results instead of what people who dont matter think of you. Sure the average AFC will cringe and say "Wow, what a douchebag/creepo." But he's the one who hates his life because he's not getting any results.
/r/seduction18/08/14 05:27 AM
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People tend to be more attracted to people who are the same race as them. Whether that has a "major" effect on seduction is up to you.
/r/seduction17/08/14 08:07 PM
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It's not what you say it's how you say it. "Tell me your single." Will work fine as long as you are self amused and confident.
/r/seduction16/08/14 11:06 AM
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Stare into your father's eyes while feeling your targets up... ASSERT YOUR DOMINANCE.
/r/seduction16/08/14 10:58 AM
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I'm a big fan of Draper. I think they mainly show that side of him for character depth. Its more interesting to explore the life of a self made man with a dark, mysterious past, coming from nothing, and becoming one of the most successful and admired men in New York. His first wife is hotter, true. But I think Don disliked that she was a lackluster mother to his children. His second wife was much better with kids. He cheats on them constantly anyway so it's not like it really matters that much w…
/r/askTRP12/08/14 04:29 PM
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Don Draper. Mad Men has had 7 seasons so they've broken down the character a bit and shown his emotional side for the sake of keeping people interested, but he is still an awesome example. He crushes tons of shit tests (and AMOGing, like that hippy dude from season 1) with slightly snarky, blunt replies that are good for inspiration. For a red pill man in a Slightly less grating, self destructive package, checkout Oliver Queen in Arrow. It's less realistic since he's basically a repackaged Batma…
/r/askTRP12/08/14 04:14 PM
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Reply back: "lol"
/r/askTRP12/08/14 03:47 AM
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I thought it was going to be the Dave Chappelle club gif.
/r/seduction11/08/14 07:36 PM
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With this particular girl, I would just leave it alone. Move on and don't hold out for her. With the high school girls, it has been a few years so I think it would be fine to start over like you just met them. People can change a lot in 3 years.
/r/askTRP07/08/14 10:38 PM
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It matters. But it's far from a be-all-end-all. Being short may make some girls reject you from the get go, but a 5'6 guy can still pull in the 8-10 range just like someone who's 6'0. Focus on bolstering your SMV in other areas (fitness, being charismatic, Having a good career, interacting with a wide social circle, etc) and you will do better than the 90% of men who wait for their unicorn to come instead of taking a proactive approach to dating and relationships.
/r/askTRP07/08/14 07:39 PM
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Can you elaborate on what scenarios make this an effective reaction? My thought was that it always showed you were more invested in the relationship and let them hurt you. I'd like to understand what you mean by that.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 07:07 AM
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My first breakup in my younger teens was a melt down. I was begging her not to leave me, then i went and badmouthed her to her friends, then I begged some more. It was awful. I've found (through 2 other breakups that occured after that) that the stoic, short and sweet approach to a breakup is the best.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 05:13 PM
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Most, but not all. If you want to maximize your potential, you have to be willing to be the instigator 99.9% of the time. The funny thing is that doing this (Being the one who starts things) often results in other women noticing you in a positive way. Confidence is chick crack.
/r/seduction03/08/14 10:26 PM
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I think it would be a good idea to limit posts on here to users who have had at least one point in the rating system, or whatever it's called. Newbies can make original posts on /r/asktrp or message an endorsed poster if they want to bring attention to something. Only problem is you have to then keep things from getting boring when the pool of allowable posters shrinks.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 05:13 AM
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Julien and Tyler at RSD are great red pill examples for the modern man.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 10:46 PM
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nope
/r/seduction30/07/14 02:42 AM
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Situational openers are king when it comes to success rate, they just take more skill and longer time than direct openers (Literally ANYONE can go direct as long as they have guts, just because you got a rejection from direct game doesn't mean you would've gotten the same result from indirect game) Yeah, /u/TheSicilianDude said that girls can see through to your motives, and sometimes they can, but that isn't always true, and sometimes it doesn't even bother them. There would be no such thing as…
/r/seduction29/07/14 12:38 AM
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Courage breeds more courage, timidity breeds more timidity.
/r/seduction29/07/14 12:06 AM
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Running gives you a shot of endorphins, and testosterone is boosted after heavy weightlifting.
/r/seduction28/07/14 11:33 PM
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Workout. So much positive energy comes from it and that will help you. Good luck.
/r/seduction28/07/14 06:41 PM
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There are lots of pickup artists who are in particularly average shape. With that said, it's not an either or thing. You couldn't possibly be out gaming so much that you have literally ZERO time to workout. That would be upwards of 6-8 hours a day, 7 days a week. A good workout can take you as little as 45 minutes to complete. Bottom line, pick-up is not something you want to be cutting corners with.
/r/seduction28/07/14 06:20 PM
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"You are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with." These are word I have only begun to live by after swallowing the red pill. And it has become increasingly obvious how much easier it is to change when I am around people that I want to be like. So who cares if the betas dislike you? All they would do is infect you with their limiting beliefs.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 09:42 PM
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Be ready for super horny people. Girls are easy but you'll have lots of other guys thinking the same thing. Be direct, it will be much more effective.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 09:22 PM
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It's a complicated issue for which I'm sure I don't have the complete answer, but I think leading by example is very important. Instilling respect is much more lasting than demanding it. Because you are a TRP man you can let your little brother observe your successes in life. Perhaps he will admire you and come to you for guidance. I think you need to talk with your mom, surely she knows that she's ruining her son by spoiling him. (spare the rod, spoil the child) Also if your parents are divorce…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 09:11 PM
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It could work the same way as the point system. Once they get a certain amount of points awarded, they become a TRP endorsed poster.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 09:02 PM
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Being "in state" becomes easier to achieve the more that you go out. Don't think that you can be a master PUA just because you read some books on game and made sure your hormone levels were correct. You HAVE to go out and practice pickup on a regular basis. Even RSD Tyler has remarked that he has a period of sucking after not going out and practicing game for a week or two.
/r/seduction26/07/14 08:16 AM
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Read this. It's got everything you need to know about kino/physical escalation. http://www.vindicarlo.com/DiCarlo%20Escalation%20Ladder%20-%20vindicarlo.com.pdf
/r/seduction26/07/14 07:48 AM
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Why are you even here?
/r/seduction25/07/14 08:24 PM
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What happened to removing posts from users that have been here for less than a minimum time period? Is that still in effect?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 08:35 PM
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Agree and Amplify. That's it. You fail the shit test if you take it seriously.
/r/seduction22/07/14 10:12 PM
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I believe he's also married IRL.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 12:22 AM
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I'm so thankful I'm above average height. It must suck to be a short dude. For you shorties out there, don't let it get you down, it is a disadvantage but I've definitely seen short guys that are successful with women.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 06:40 PM
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Running normal game on girls in high school is a great way to ostracize yourself. High school is about displaying high value, having a wide social circle, and being the center of attention without looking like you're making an effort to do these things. You sound like you are doing pretty well for yourself. It's important to focus on being a link between different social circles. This is the difference between being sociable and being the big man on campus. Introduce the cool people from one gro…
/r/askTRP19/07/14 10:48 PM
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Then I would definitely confront her about it. If I were you, I would really focus on maintaining frame. She needs to know that this is not affecting you emotionally. Make her sweat. Text her soon and say something like, "We need to have a talk when you get back." Sit her down and calmly explain that you are not okay with these pictures. The difference between an alpha and a beta response is why they are not okay. Ask her what she thinks other people will think of her (and you by proxy) when a m…
/r/askTRP19/07/14 08:11 PM
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Try to develop the ability to not dwell on it without deleting her number, because some of those girls will text you back and it will seem butthurt when you don't know who it is.
/r/seduction19/07/14 07:47 PM
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Something like that is definitely a move in the right direction.
/r/seduction19/07/14 07:26 PM
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Are they coworkers? Or clients she's meeting on this business trip?
/r/askTRP19/07/14 07:13 PM
1

RSD julien and RSD tyler
/r/askTRP18/07/14 06:26 PM
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Try taking along a wing or female friend to watch your approaches from afar. They might make some observations that you could not.
/r/seduction18/07/14 06:02 PM
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It's not really you friendzoning yourself as much as you friendzoning her. It's a role reversal which is common in pickup. You are basically flipping things to keep her off balance and keep her from putting you in a box. Also it puts her in a qualifying mindset. I realize that "leave the friend zone behind" is drilled into your head from day one on this sub, but that's not really what this is. Also I would like to say that the friend zone in /r/seduction terms is when a man settles for a friends…
/r/seduction17/07/14 03:29 AM
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You are creating a huge obstacle for youself by not doing cold approaches. Comfort and attraction cannot be steadily built without real life interaction. Things like eye-contact, vocal tonality, and kino do not exist over technology. Focusing on online game will stunt your ability to develop comfort in person, which is the place where it really matters. Who wants the crutch of never having done cold approaches when you see a beautiful woman walking down the street that you want, but can't get be…
/r/seduction17/07/14 01:01 AM
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Is flaking on plans a shit test, Yes. is this something most attractive girls under 28 or so naturally do? Yes. They are not mutually exclusive. Every girl shit tests at least a little bit. What you're noticing is that the attractive girls react more harshely to shit tests that have been failed. Plain women will let some slide, but because the attractive girls have more choices, they are less likely to tolerate a weaker frame.
/r/seduction17/07/14 12:32 AM
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If you're wondering whether a particular behavior is helping or hurting you, ask yourself if it is a goal oriented behavior or if it is just an emotional response. Is this going to contribute toward a desired outcome? This is a great way to begin changing your mindset to unreactive vs being reactive. Is this action furthering my goals?
/r/seduction17/07/14 12:09 AM
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By parlor skills I mean things like playing an instrument, cooking, knowing about cars, riding a motorcycle etc. I don't understand how these are parlor tricks. These are hobbies. I've never had any success with them and no girl I've brought home has ever shown any interest in seeing, hearing or listening. Do they work or have any value? Women are not interested in them because you show no passion or interest in them. RSD Tyler has literally talked to girls in clubs about fish oil pills, and bec…
/r/seduction16/07/14 11:22 PM
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Conquering your Approach Anxiety feels so freaking good after, even when you end up with nothing. She was shit testing you, the best reaction would have been to treat it like a non sequitur. You never said "I'm looking for a girlfriend/date/fwb/ons." You just talked to her, hit it off, and decided that maybe you wanted to see her again. I'm assuming you're on a college campus. Lots of people hang out and make friends with the opposite gender, not every positive opposite sex relationship is roman…
/r/seduction16/07/14 10:24 PM
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Read the sidebar, it will help you immensely and keep you from making rookie mistakes like this. You're being bitter. This is the opposite of a DHV (Display of High Value) If a girl blows you off for the second time without offering an alternative time to meet up, then just leave it alone. I repeat, LEAVE IT ALONE. Disengage. Another important thing to remember when handling a flake (and in general) is to show OUTCOME INDEPENDENCE. The idea that, whether she is attracted to you or not, you will …
/r/seduction16/07/14 09:54 PM
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Honestly, for me it's like watching a highlight video from a sports event. It has a positive affect on me, I'm laughing and thinking "Dang, that was hilarious, I have to try that!" To each his own, but you gotta realize everyone else doesn't think exactly like you do.
/r/seduction15/07/14 09:50 PM
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Read the material in the sidebar.
/r/seduction15/07/14 09:33 PM
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I keep all numbers. But I've never been one to desperately text them or obsess, and my phone doesn't have a limit (that I've reached) for storage. If it's causing you to reminesce or you are tempted to text them after purposefully cutting contact, then you should delete them.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 07:00 PM
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Haha autocorrect. I never notice the typos when I'm on my phone.
/r/seduction14/07/14 05:34 AM
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Amen
/r/seduction14/07/14 02:02 AM
2

If you asked for a strangers number and got it, you have to text first since they won't have yours. If you are talking about texting within a casual dating relationship where you know them then most people would say you only text first 25% of the time. For me I text first maybe 10% of the time after that initial hook.
/r/seduction13/07/14 09:50 PM
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Recycled crazy, stupid, love. Looks less funny.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 07:33 PM
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Ehh, he offered his hand to her and she took it, plus she was laughing and smiling and then leaning into him. Her hands were not in a fist they were holding his. Also I doubt she would've elaborated about him taking it in the butt every night if she just wanted to get out of the situation. If that was what was going through her mind she would've just said this is my gay friend, nice to see ya, goodbye.
/r/seduction13/07/14 06:57 PM
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Game more than one girl.
/r/seduction13/07/14 06:45 PM
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Don't game people you work with. It will end badly. Use them for social proof.
/r/seduction13/07/14 06:43 PM
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Especially the guy saying begging doesn't work because girls don't like being insulted. Of course it's not going to work if your just insulting them.
/r/seduction13/07/14 06:39 PM
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The infield footage that I've seen is all at night, although not always inside or near clubs. That's probably because the footage is boring in comparison, it's not socially acceptable to start a make out in the middle of a coffee shop, so it's number closes mainly. I do know that during their bootcamps they have day game approaches and he does plenty. As for the boyfriend, he can't control what that guy does, only what he himself can do. So there's no real point to analyzing it and saying "Oh he…
/r/seduction13/07/14 06:32 PM
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Approach, approach, approach. The reason the mystery method sounds so idiotic and dated is because they didnt really have anyone to learn from or read. They started from nothing so they tried some crazy shit to see if it worked and.some of it did. The fact that you are attractive and have a lot more pickup theory in your brain means you can make progress WAY faster than those guys did. You just have to find a way to force yourself to approach women, and approach lots of them. Start cold approach…
/r/seduction13/07/14 11:01 AM
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So they show pictures of men with 1, 2, and 5 women. Then they have a description saying how many relationships he has been in, and whether he is currently in one? I'd be interested in knowing what happened with different combinations, for example: 5 women in the picture, but he is described as never having an ltr. 1 woman in picture, but described as having many relationships or taken. Seems like there are a lot of different factors going into this. I'm really surprised that the men with 5 or m…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 05:07 AM
1

"You become the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with." An interesting thing to keep in mind. Social circles can include tons of different kinds of people. It's the inner circle that is truly important.
/r/askTRP05/07/14 08:22 AM
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/r/trpmusic Edit: my bad, it's /r/redpillmusic
/r/askTRP05/07/14 08:03 AM
1

honestly the second part did make me cringe, but it depends on who's delivering the lines. We all know it's more about how you say it than what you are saying.
/r/trpGAME25/06/14 09:54 PM
1

celebrity status is status all the same. Get more of it. I can only use celebrities as examples because thats who everyone knows. There are other, none famous people who pull 10s, but if they are used as examples people call bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 07:44 AM
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I invite anyone who says height and looks matter to look at Mr. Mickey Rooney. brb 5'2 brb looked like he was 12 years old brb multiple smoking hot wives over the course of his lifetime, and countless extramarital affairs with beautiful women.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 06:38 AM
3

how does this work exactly?
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 09:56 PM
0

Haha is this serious?
/r/seduction18/06/14 08:17 PM
2

Best responses are short: "Haha" Or "gay"
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 07:15 PM
0

Next her
/r/seduction18/06/14 07:06 PM
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It's called calibration, and it is a part of RP theory.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 07:13 PM
2

Maybe because OP has only been on reddit for a week.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 06:52 AM
2

definitely hot dogs
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 02:22 AM
1

"that's cute" Also, this belongs in /r/asktrp
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 02:21 AM
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Go to responses are either ignore or agree and amplify. In this case I would just ignore it.
/r/askTRP01/06/14 08:22 PM
2

I've had intelligent girls be way easier to game than normal, and I have had normal ones be a lot harder. I think it has to do with a different kind of aptitude. Social Intelligence? Maybe.
/r/seduction24/05/14 05:54 PM
3

This may sound a bit canned and I'm not sure it's what you're looking for. but sometimes when a girl holds eye contact with me for a long time I walk up and say, "Staring contest. 1, 2, 3, go!" Either they immediately smile and break eye contact, or they will continue to hold eye contact (Prolonged eye contact builds attraction in opposite sex interactions according to a few studies) you can introduce yourself either way.
/r/askTRP22/05/14 04:33 PM
3

Make eye contact. "Thanks." Go back to what you were doing. Nonchalant answers to compliments are chick crack. EDIT: "I know." is good too.
/r/askTRP22/05/14 04:24 PM
5

Please dear lord if you are going to say anything don't say that.
/r/seduction21/05/14 01:06 AM
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Women who have a high partner count are proven to be more likely to cheat.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 04:07 AM
2

Tyler from Real Social Dynamics is an average to belowe average height, balding ginger, who is not muscular (Although he isn't fat either). He destroys most of the other pickup artists at RSD, and they themselves are swimming in women. Some infield footage of him. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x27wabHGCac
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 01:10 AM
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search this subreddit for "IOI"
/r/seduction19/05/14 12:53 AM
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Watch RSD Tyler's videos on youtube. He says some of the most ridiculous crap and gets away with it, and he's got sick game.
/r/askTRP18/05/14 06:06 PM
2

This post makes me happy. He dodged a bullet, and now has a house and a girlfriend who is actually marriage material. (I love how she says his girlfriend is a secretary like that makes her a terrible marriage prospect) We're all gonna make it.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 06:02 PM
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A good rule of thumb is to never take dating advice from women about women.
/r/seduction16/05/14 04:12 PM
2

She isn't supposed to swoon. saying, "You look nice." puts her in a qualifying mindset without being an insult. It's almost a neg. Like you said, she probably spent a good portion of time preparing for the date, and all she gets is, "You look nice." What is this subconsciously communicating? That you've been in this situation before. She's not your unicorn, she's just another attractive girl you've pulled.
/r/seduction16/05/14 03:26 PM
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There is no such thing as text game beyond making plans.
/r/askTRP10/05/14 04:43 PM
1

Think about how a guy would react to compliments if he was getting them all the time. A "Thank you" and a slight smile without making a big deal out of it is the best reaction. If you're a high SMV man, compliments are no big deal.
/r/askTRP04/05/14 04:49 AM
2

Why not? Thst subreddit has gone down the toilet, I feel like we need more game related stuff.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 04:03 AM
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Attractive women have life on easy mode. If I was ugly, I would definitely not want to be a woman. It's much easier to make it as an ugly man than an ugly woman.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 10:37 PM
26

Is this real life?
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 08:20 AM
5

Too much alpha. Too much ballin'. /s
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 08:16 AM
2

Great way to frame the interaction. Look, I can't be exclusive right now. I am looking for an LTR but I don't make this decision lightly. I need to be sure before I go exclusive." This is gold. I guarantee 95% of girls will eat this up. it challenges them to prove they are the one you should go exclusive with, while also raising your SMV as someone who has multiple options.
/r/askTRP20/02/14 02:58 AM
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Amused Mastery My first reaction would be to start singing "Rude Boy" by Rihanna. Bitches love Rihanna... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e82VE8UtW8A Agree and Amplify "Damn, you're right. I'm such an asshole. How are you my friend when I'm constantly giving you shit? I think you should just punch me in the face right now." Basically whatever she says, don't take it seriously. She is a little kid you are joking with to get some laughs.
/r/askTRP20/02/14 02:53 AM
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LTR? Are you guys in a relationship? Is she a fwb?
/r/askTRP20/02/14 01:32 AM
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I love girls like this. Just bust out laughing. If you can get yourself to tear up do that as well. Then continue as if you didn't even process what she just said. EDIT: You can also use a rejection as an opener. TRP isn't as game-centric as I wish it was, but RSDJulien has a video about how he will get rejected, and open the next set with a mocking "I just got rejected, hold me. I can't contain my feels." right in front of the girl who rejected him. Use exaggerated despair to show the girls the…
/r/askTRP20/02/14 01:21 AM
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If this wasn't in a work environment, I would be dying to use this.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 07:39 AM
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You're girlfriend wears the pants doesn't she? "yes, sheer yoga pants." "She's naked most of the time."
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 07:34 AM
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This is a study about career success. I don't know why he said SMV peaks at EXACTLY 35, I can't find that in the article. The point is that 32-38 is around where your peak SMV will be, it obviously depends on the guy because different things factor into our SMV like career, fitness, education, etc. If you're planning on getting married, it's best to wait until you're in this range so you can marry a girl with a higher SMV. If you wanna hit it and quit it then this is the time where you'll have t…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 10:58 AM
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in a LTR, yes. The beta tendency provides security. If a girl doesn't feel secure she may dump you because she's afraid of you not being loyal/not caring about her. 90% alpha, 10% beta is the way to go.
/r/askTRP16/02/14 05:49 AM
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"What happened to fighting for what you want!?" "I don't want you." ICE COLD
/r/askTRP16/02/14 05:03 AM
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I've always thought Drake is an example of a naturally beta dude who has begun to swallow the pill. And it makes sense because a lot of redpill-like guys I know think he's a pussy, but that a couple of his songs are starting to get better.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 04:48 AM
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Makes sense. It's the only woman who will ever love you unconditionally.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 04:36 AM
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Bad. She'll have a reason to hate on you if you end up entering a relationship soon after.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 09:56 PM
1

The least invested person in the relationship has the most power.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 08:16 AM
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If the girl actually doesnt have enough balls to make her own decisions then you prob dont want to deal with her anyways, or her girlfriends who would obviously continue to insert themselves into your personal life. Maybe he just wanted sex. Not every girl you game is a potential wife/girlfriend.
/r/seduction14/02/14 01:38 AM
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Because the goal of pick-up is to game girls. FTFY Game never stops.
/r/seduction13/02/14 12:28 AM
1

to Piggyback, Julien from RSD is also pretty RP. I've learned a lot from watching his and Tyler's videos. Random Sample: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9bcJhVJdQ0k
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 10:25 AM
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I feel like he, of all people, would be aware of relationship game. I don't see it ending in divorce unless it's on his terms or he gets caught cheating.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 10:06 AM
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The partner who is the least invested has the most power. Once you stop caring so much, it's plain to see. I still do nice stuff for my girl, but if she's being catty or whiny towards me, I just chuckle and say something sarcastic or tell her to get back to me when she clears her head. Works. So well.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 09:15 PM
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This is a moot point. Flirting over text is a crutch. Use it to set up dates and keep the chatter to a minimum.
/r/seduction27/01/14 10:16 PM
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Not really a wall, but a man's peak SMV is around 33-38, after that you have to compensate for age with other things. If you're planning on getting married, I think early to mid 30s is probably the best time to pursue that.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 07:33 AM
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not necessarily. Those men still had status, wasn't MLK a popular womanizer?
/r/TheRedPill25/01/14 10:17 PM
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If your friends think you have the ability to be good with women, then it's completely within the realm of possibility. It's just about you changing YOUR behaviour, changing the way you run game. Becoming more focused, just because you've been practicing game for a while doesn't mean you have everything figured out. Let me reitirate: If you've got all the tools on paper, what's holding you back is practice and experience. You've gotta get gung-ho about it. Also what are you talking about "7 year…
/r/seduction22/01/14 06:13 AM
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Educating the masses? Why create more competition for myself? The only people that I talk about TRP ideals with are my close friends that I want to see succeed. When I do I don't call it TRP and I don't use terminology like SMV or push/pull or act like it's in direct opposition to femenism. I talk more like I'm just mulling it over in my head and looking for opinions. I think this is probably the most effective way to help.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 01:58 AM
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Saying "Fuck you" "I miss you" or "I hate you so much" cuz girls only say I hate you to the guys that they love. Big Sean - Beware In other words, the opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 06:50 AM
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It's called the pedestal. And I'm shocked no one has said this yet. I guess seddit really has gone down hill. You're putting the girls you like on a pedestal, because of this, they feel entitled to your attention, you might be clingy or get really awkward around them. All of this is because of the pedestal that you place them on. The girls that you don't like only get your attention if they are interesting, entertaining, or have something important to tell you. Because of this they see you as hi…
/r/seduction14/01/14 05:48 AM
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Being a white male is great in these types of situations. I think there was a OKC study posted on here about non-white women being less likely to end the relationship if they were dating a white guy, even compared to their own race. It seems like they become a lot less whiny when they're dating white men.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 12:02 AM
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There is such a thing as LTR game. SoftHarem specifically mentioned TRP's goal to have LTR focused posts in 2014 in his new years post. Nexting isn't always the answer, there's dread game, push/pull, etc. ...building a lifestyle that leaves your one magical princess acutely aware that she can be replaced in a heartbeat. But I do agree with this. Beta-worship almost makes me feel sick to my stomach nowadays.
/r/askTRP12/01/14 08:25 AM
2

Focus on pickup for a while. Do a bootcamp or get a mentor. It shouldn't be impossible in a college town.
/r/askTRP12/01/14 06:56 AM
2

I'm not really a curser, but all that went through my head reading this was, "What the fuck?"
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 12:28 AM
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I'm not targeting you specifically, it's just something a lot of girls do especially the ones that aren't quite the hottest around and it can pull in betas to validate them. I was just bringing it up because it's a common source of beta chasing. Take it or leave it. It may not apply to you.
/r/askTRP08/01/14 02:18 AM
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That is my suggestion.
/r/askTRP07/01/14 02:21 AM
1

Women have higher standards online than in real life. Everyone wants a 6'0+ dude with rippling muscles and a 100k+ paycheck. That doesn't mean that's who they end up with. In my experience many women will forget their height standards if they are approached by someone in person who they have a sexually positive interaction with. Even myself, I'm 6'0 and I generally prefer women who are at least 5'6 because I think that a larger height difference is awkward physically, If I had an online dating p…
/r/askTRP07/01/14 02:17 AM
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I for one, am impressed. I don't think you're writing this to say "Why haven't we had sex yet?" is the best opener OF ALLL TIEM GUYZ, you're just showing us that throwing a wide net will yield results. There are guys on here who's game is like a laser beam, they focus on one girl and one girl only until they've closed, others like you throw out a ton of openers and get tons of reactions, some good, some bad. Neither is better. Also, that's a great way to kill approach anxiety, that's an extremel…
/r/seduction07/01/14 12:04 AM
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From The 48 Laws of Power: 30 - Make your accomplishments seem effortless. Please just let them assume you are a natural. Naturals are always more attractive than those "Nerdy PUA guys" who spend "all" their time learning stuff like the apocalypse opener, dread game, shit tests, etc. What I mean is it's best to learn all of that stuff and then feign disinterest when people start talking about "game"
/r/seduction06/01/14 11:49 PM
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I thought we agreed, women are generally terrible at giving dating advice to men?
/r/seduction06/01/14 11:41 PM
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Me 6 years ago: "So true. Every guy should do this." Me now: I literally can barely believe that a man wrote this. I had my alpha moments as a blue piller, but dang, the beta was strong with me.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 08:39 AM
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I agree with another poster who said dating a fat chick can be like dating a smoker. I'd be forced to deal with a person who can't keep up with my physical activity, will probably die before me, and will cause even more health problems for themselves, plus me because they will probably want me to adapt to their lifestyle. "would you love me if I was 50 pounds heavier?" "That's like asking me if I'd stay with you if you became a chain smoker..." Seems harder to rationalize that.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 08:26 AM
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Confidence is weird. I've been told I give off a confident swagger, and that people notice this about me within 30 minutes of being around me, and sometimes immediately. Despite people telling me this, 25-50% of the time I don't feel confident. My best advice for quick fixes: -Posture. This is huge, I stretched a lot and fixed this when i was about 16 and the change was immediately noticeable. -Eye contact. I'm not that great at this, but there have been times when I focused on it and it helps. …
/r/askTRP04/01/14 11:05 AM
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You don't realize how true it is till you try it. Doing this now with a girl who is more attractive than any of the females I've been involved with in the past. I'm lazy as crap getting back to her, never say I miss her, flirt with other girls in front of her, and it works great. The feels tho. I just wanna be beta... must resist.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 07:16 AM
2

Wait 3 hours... "Not bad" Then plan a meet-up if you want it. also, "Who is this again?"
/r/TheRedPill24/12/13 06:09 AM
2

I'm curious would you would say to your sons. Do you have time to summarize your plan for us?
/r/TheRedPill24/12/13 05:08 AM
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Pegging. Not even once.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/13 04:21 AM
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I nominate JFK for alpha role model.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 04:32 AM
2

He was 45, she was 20. RP to the max right there.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 10:40 PM
3

Whatever works works.
/r/seduction06/12/13 02:13 AM
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Bro. The only way I got this girls attention was deleting her facebook, her number and after she sent some big ranting message about how I was ignoring her, my inevitable response (without her number saved) was "who is this?". You are my hero.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 12:47 AM
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"Thanks"
/r/seduction04/11/13 01:34 AM
5

This is what scares me... I don't know whether I'm getting crap or the truth sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/13 11:36 PM
1

Very legitimate.
/r/seduction31/08/13 03:35 AM
1

This... I like this.
/r/seduction12/08/13 01:55 AM
1

Movie?
/r/TheRedPill12/08/13 12:18 AM
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This is a great movie! Even back in my bluepill days I recognized and admired the way he improved himself over the course of the story.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/13 05:58 PM
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commenting to read later.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/13 03:39 AM
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you should learn that you have a lot of power in being able to revoke your attention and walk away. I was dumbfounded with the reactions that I got after realizing this. It's crazy, girls beg for your attention when you stop letting them feel entitled to it.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/13 12:54 AM
1

Where did you move to?
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 03:30 AM
5

Don't be afraid. Afraid of change, afraid of success, afraid of failure, afraid of risk, fear is the enemy of progress and progress is the friend of man.
/r/seduction27/07/13 11:50 PM
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Summary: Only be self deprecating about things that you completely destroy in, never about your faults. Never brag, your value goes down when you toot your own horn to women, and goes up when someone else brags for you.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 05:02 PM
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Life is hard, and it isn't always fair. I've been on both sides of this and it sucks to get a girl "stolen" from you. I still rage when it happens, but it happens, and I do it to other guys too. Such is life.
/r/seduction23/07/13 02:47 AM
1

So... Being 6'0 is better than 6'2 when it comes to SMV? Because I was always under the impression that 6'2 or 6'3 is optimum. Edit: Looks like men that are 6'1 get the most attention.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/13 02:11 AM
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Nofapper here. I gave up porn too when going on nofap. Most of us give up both.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 05:08 AM
0

Alpha: Over 9000
/r/TheRedPill05/07/13 07:24 AM
1

Sounds kind of needy. Usually I text them asking them a random question or i say I'm doing something or saw something that reminded me of them. Then again the fact that you're thinking about them is a bit needy. Take that with a grain of salt.
/r/seduction29/06/13 07:05 PM
1

Move on. The best possible outcome is she sees you with some other pretty lady and gets jealous.
/r/seduction29/06/13 06:31 PM
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Right at the height of the conversation where you are both having the most fun, cut it off and say that you have to go. The common mistake (one I make as well) is to text until the conversation dies down and gets boring, AND THEN say you have to leave. Don't do it. You don't even have to say what you're doing or where you're going, just say something like, "Fun talking to you, but I really gotta go cuz I have a life. See ya! :)" Cutting off the conversation at the highest point will leave her ha…
/r/seduction17/06/13 05:13 AM
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In my opinion getting "cold" is something that can be good in some instances, but in this one I think it shows that you are more invested than her, which will validate her ego and confirm your attachment. My suggestion. Let her figure out you are spinning plates indirectly (Don't try to hide it) then next time you notice it bring it up in a joking manner, "Bill wants the D. Give it to him baby ;) give it to him long and hard..." She'll be forced to define the relationship. Even better if you do …
/r/askTRP
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Be more domestic and focus on dressing well and looking good 100% of the time. I've seen girls who only get dolled up to impress other females, and its off putting. Like she'll let herself go quicker because she gets her validation from being in an LTR with me. Also, less attention seeking, you don't need to be instagramming selfies and stuff. In my opinion that makes it easier for betas to show interest indirectly, whereas alphas would approach you in person.
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