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1)City of thieves and 2)House of sand and fog
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 11:15 PM
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It goes downhill quickly because according to this, every interaction has an outcome, either your way or their way. This is an attachment to outcome mentality that is typical with nice guys.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 07:59 PM
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Get a library card! I love books but buying them can get pretty expensive and also you'll have a pile of books and while it's nice to look at it can be pretty annoying making space for them and don't get me started when it's time to move. E-books are cool and I have my own but sometimes you find yourself browsing needlessly for the next book in the shop section just to see what's next. Also, there's nothing like seeing the progress you're making through the book as you're nearing the middle and …
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 06:53 AM
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I'm tired of reading self-improvement, philosophy and technical books and found a lot of value in fiction books. It's a waste to read just to say you're a reader but not when you learn or experience something from it. Saying fiction is waste of time is narrow minded, failing to see the gems that fiction books have to offer.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 09:05 PM
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"Success is never final and failure never fatal. It's courage that counts."
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 11:27 PM
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Like bodybuilding, there is only so many ways to share informative, quality posts/contents without something being repeated. Since you're on the sidebar there should be plenty of recommended books you can read to keep you busy. After that, you'll be much more preoccupied with creating the life you want from all the info you have gathered and won't be visiting TRP as much.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 03:07 AM
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A significant portion of the male population in the western world kill themselves after festering in solitude for a long time. No friends or support to give them a reason to live. It's one thing to be responsible for your own success and effectiveness to a team but it's another to glamorize a life of a loneliness thinking you "get points" for suffering and doing things the hard way. People LITERALLY go feral being alone, and it comes with a host of other health problems that are just as bad as s…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 10:59 AM
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I like a lot of the comments here and my way to becoming hardworking is a variety of these comments. I have to say though that for me it boils down to this one saying that changed the I do things and it's "We do things out of inspiration or desperation" Definitely makes me think of where I was vs where I want to be, therefore, I do things out of inspiration now.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 09:49 PM
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Switch it up. Tell her to wear wigs or some shit. Adding novelty to your sex life can have some short term improvements.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 10:35 PM
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Red flags in your writing when you wrote that you "tick all the boxes" and this is your "reward for busting your ass for years at school..." Attraction is not logical, it's emotional and you want woman to be attracted to your "beta provider" traits. It's no wonder you're attracting the kind of women you are. The single moms and older fat women who see that value in those things mentioned. Essentially you're just as fucked as they are if working hard is all you're bringing to the table. I'm going…
/r/askTRP09/12/15 10:33 PM
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Life is also about balance and purely animalistic traits will compromise the longevity of your life.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 05:48 PM
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What you become from suppressing your killer instinct is far worse than a robot. A robot doesn't feel. When you don't embrace your killer instinct depression sinks in and you feel like a blob of melancholy and despair anchored by hopelessness. People are disgusted by the wasted potential, ineffectiveness and softness of suppressed instinct. Masculinity at it's core is about maintaining your killer instinct. You need it to penetrate the world, to take what is yours. Literally and figuratively.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 10:32 AM
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That's because we live in the golden age of narcissism. It's what fuels social media and exactly where the snowflakes get their validation from. Colleges are an extension of this. It's gotten out of control. A few weeks ago I saw a poster made by a student where 85% of the poster was a picture of himself wearing a turban in front of an NY university. On the bottom, in quotation marks was a text written by him that basically said that while he never encountered direct discrimination or has been c…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 08:20 AM
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It will probably follow you but it won't ruin you. People have come back from worse. Consider this a lesson learned and be thankful it didn't end up being much worse.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 09:26 PM
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Next.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 09:40 PM
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It's not that I can't sleep. I've been working two jobs to get back on my feet after a custody battle and my priority has been my finances while everything else takes a backseat. Good news is that I'm only doing this for two more months but I still worry about it's effects later on.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 10:38 PM
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Fuck. I'm like this. I hope I don't die soon.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 06:37 PM
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There was a comedian that brought this up and I will never forget it. To paraphrase it he basically said that women want to be with the guy at the top of the totem pole or the one on the bottom but none really wants to fuck with the guy in the middle. The guy at the top has the power and does what he wants, and people look up to him. The one at the bottom, to her, has potential and wants to fix him BUT he also has a IDGAF attitude and can fuck around and get fired and not care. Unfortunately the…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 06:57 PM
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Yea? To who?
/r/askTRP26/08/15 06:57 AM
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Why not?
/r/askTRP26/08/15 06:42 AM
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There is no endgame. How can you be thinking about an endgame when you can't even get over your fear of life? Your fear and anxiety will always come back in one way or another if you don't address that. Don't worry about an endgame, live life in the present moment. Get help on overcoming anxiety and fear. Open yourself up and be brutally honest about why you're not where you want to be. You can't do this work on your own and should find help to take gradual steps to overcoming fear and anxiety. …
/r/askTRP18/06/15 09:49 AM
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I'm sure he does. Sounds like you're absolutely smitten about him and it will be pointless to try to dissuade from the path from being a sidechick but at least be aware going in that is all you will ever be if you allow it from the get go. It won't change later on. Best scenario is for to say something like "honey, I feel the same way you do and enjoy our time together but you got your thing going on with your gf and I want something like that for myself. Wish you the best" and let it go with no…
/r/askTRP11/06/15 06:48 PM
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The Journey from Abandonment to Healing: Turn the End of a Relationship into the Beginning of a New Life - Susan Anderson Book for both men and women that deal with abandonment issues with different kinds of relationships. It sounds like you just have the fear of it and might not had or recognize that an abandonment situation has happened with you but I recommend this book either way. Recognizing patterns in the men leaving the women you know and red flags in those relationships could give you i…
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/15 04:09 AM
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"Looking for fun, meeting new people and making good memories." Something like that
/r/askTRP10/01/15 06:28 AM
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I went on a rant here the other day and it was pointed out to me that what's obvious and old to me is new to someone who has just discovered this sub. After the initial rage and understanding of what red pill is all about you move on to other sources of content to tweak the nooks and crannies. Look at your masculinity before redpill as a big rock. After redpill you start chiseling away huge chunks of it and the more understand and advance in your journey you start chiseling and adding more detai…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 07:42 AM
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HOLY SHIT. This wreaks of neck-beard intellectuality, offers absolutely no insight and tries to come off as some kind of end all be all rant to something a lot more complex than many of you can understand. Reading the comments also adds to the circle jerk going around here where anything that is an us vs. them rant gets upvoted. The truth is this : The majority of western men are fucking up on so many fronts, failing to adapt and/or overcome circumstances and women are filling those gaps. Who's …
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 07:29 PM
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You're worrying too much. Overthinking and stressing about what ifs. Do you know how she feels about having kids and your position on it if she would get pregnant? If you don't then talk about it. She knows you're seeing other women and she can't make you do anything you don't want so "stealing you" only happens if you agree to it. You are practicing safe sex and have gotten to know her well enough to use your judgement well enough so far and suggest to keep doing what you're doing. Being honest…
/r/askTRP26/11/14 01:31 PM
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It is absolutely worth it making friends. You can increase the amount of females you come across by making friends. I don't really see any justification against making friends because honestly that's one of the best ways increase your happiness. You can meet people by joining clubs, volunteer groups and taking lessons where a group is being taught. You can still work on yourself ,attract women and make friends. You never know who you will meet and how they can help you in the future.
/r/askTRP12/11/14 12:15 AM
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No. Not at all.
/r/askTRP08/11/14 10:52 PM
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You're right it's not easy. The hardest part for older guys is finding time because everyday responsibilities get in the way but there are many sports leagues and hobby groups that could be a stepping stone to that.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 08:43 PM
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I ca bullshit on the being alone part mainly because that's the exact reason most males can't get their shit together. If you're trying to get better then you're going to need help. Put your ego away and this alpha crap in the trash because what's missing is the company of likeminded people, especially with other men. In the Way of Men, Jack Donovan makes the point that men need to start or belong to gangs to regain their masulinity. In No More Mr. Nice Guy, Robert Glover stresses the importance…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 07:21 PM
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That's fine. At some point you'll just basically have to tell him that you really like him and can't see yourself just being friends. You have needs and value your time and would rather invest it with someone that will accept you and take it to the next level.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/14 02:55 PM
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You did the right thing by being upfront and honest about it. It does a lot to relieve your psyche by doing that. It does come at a cost though and it's basically the anxiety of not knowing wether things will move forward or not. You're going to have to hang with that uncertainty in the meantime and learn to cope with it. Who knows what he's thinking right now? Maybe he is googling what it means because he's not sure what it is? Maybe he has something to reveal too but isn't sure how to go about…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/14 08:07 AM
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Been with many women. Can confirm that tattoos and piercings DON'T automatically signal a broken woman. I've read RoK before and they have bits of truths here and there but their articles seem to think we live our lives in a vacuum. A broken woman comes in many different color, shapes and forms. Tattoos and piercing CAN signal a broken woman and honestly I do take that into consideration when screening for something deeper but it's not the end all be all. These articles are getting lame.
/r/TRPOffTopic15/10/14 07:52 PM
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I think every guy makes this mistake. The mistake is in trying to fix her problem or offer solutions. That's not what they want, they want you to listen, console them a bit and ease their mind. We are naturally fixers and love to fix problems but when it comes to a woman coming to you with problems it's all about listening unless she specifically says otherwise. The way you could of played this is You: "damn that sucks. What is the test on?" Her: "blah blah blah" You: make a witty comment on sub…
/r/askTRP15/10/14 07:08 PM
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It's excellent that you pour your time and energy in other things besides your family and work. This is a huge part in keeping your mind right. Unfortunately, you can't turn off biology but you can embrace the beauty of women around you by acknowledging it mentally and be ok with. The way of the superior man by David Deida has an excellent chapter on this which I recommend. Another thing to remember is that you can sex from anyone but you won't get the kind of affection you want from anyone exce…
/r/askTRP15/10/14 04:33 PM
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Yes. Playing sports is healthy but most ,if not all, help your cardiovascular system and weight loss. Lifting weights aims build muscle, strength and aesthetics. Sports don't really do that on their own.
/r/askTRP11/10/14 06:44 PM
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GF in college told me she was moving away and we couldn't be together because of distance and religious differences. She also had plans to go the the Navy which would make a relationship with me impossible. This was all on the phone and I was crying, telling her that it didn't matter and that I would wait for her. We broke up but I still tried to get her back so I would try to do nice things for here and there. The red flag hit me when I picked her up from the airport one day after we had broken…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 07:06 AM
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Swingers! Vince Vaughn abso-fucking-lutely kills it in this movie! Whenever I feel down and need a pick me up this is the movie to watch. Let me tell you why this movie is so good and red pill related. Vince Vaughn's character is a cool smooth talking lady killer who doesn't apologize for who he is. He knows he's "that guy" and embraces it. His buddy however(Jon Favre) is in the dumps because he's still in love with his ex whose played him for a fool. We can all relate to him because we've all h…
/r/askTRP03/10/14 12:29 PM
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Presence over presents
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/14 04:38 PM
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Similar thing happened to me. Don't take it personal and let her come back around. Stressing over it shows your attachment to outcome and she'll see you as pushy and or desperate. Just let it be for now.
/r/askTRP13/09/14 10:21 PM
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The knowledge has come from many places throughout history and more recently studies and researches that confirm many of the things that are talked about here. The mansophere/redpill and blogs similar to it is an evolution from pick up artists and mens right movement enthusiasts. The bloggers or pioneers in this "movement" came from either two camps: Couldn't get girls, learned how to pick up girls and shared that information or was once married/became a father and got screwed over and learned t…
/r/askTRP24/08/14 05:55 PM
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"Beyond being rejected when asking girls out or making approaches, i've had a co-worker tell me that other co-workers said I'm weird, have no personality, stuff like that, so I do know I am being perceived negatively, despite not actively trying to come across so poorly." This information is crucial into seeing what is going on. This is a attitude, low self esteem, negative thinking issue that you should work on first. For now forget making it a mission to get girls and instead, make it a missio…
/r/askTRP18/08/14 06:18 AM
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Have a lost and found bin by your door.
/r/askTRP10/07/14 12:03 AM
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Is there more to the argument that the women are divorcing their beta husbands they were forced to settle with at 28/29, and the alpha re-interest phase (where lots of women stray at 34-37). Eddie Murphy's Bush bitch comes to mind. Once she knows she doesn't have to settle for less she's going to leave her husband and "go get hers". Patrice O'neal bit about american men being superman and american women being kryptonite comes to mind. We work, try to be sensitive to their needs, work out and can…
/r/askTRP07/07/14 02:40 AM
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Feminism has allowed women to have their pick at a superior man?
/r/askTRP06/07/14 11:54 PM
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The CC riders should not be expecting a BB past the wall but he shouldn't be expecting a mate that will fulfill his desires if he doesn't step it up. The knife cuts both ways. All BB's are not here and there are some that refuse to change their ways and will keep on trying the same sexual strategy so they can stay in their comfort zone. At the end both will be completely unhappy after their high has worn off thinking they found a solution.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 06:34 PM
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Yea but the CC riders aren't happy either because, yes they are being provided for, but it's with a last choice guy who she will probably end up divorcing or have a boring life with. Yea she will be happy getting alimony or ok with being someone else's plate but as the years go by so will her smv and either she goes back to square one or is alone.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 01:10 PM
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The way things are now are win/win for both genders if you really think about it. It's also the most natural way of things to be. Women who rode the CC and have passed the wall will settle for the BB. All the BB has to offer is his ability to provide and overlook her past. That's not asking for much and he gets to have his wife. Both are happy. Match made in heaven. Why? Neither had the proper information to carry themselves in a manner to attract a healthy partner or didn't think this aspect of…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 09:14 AM
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True but I've seen out of shape guys with a lot of game pickup girls. It might take longer and ONS aren't falling out of the sky like they for handsome guy but if you have good game then that sets you apart from A LOT of guys.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 08:09 AM
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Sounds like low-self esteem which leads to co-dependency and a recipe for toxic relationships, particularly with people with personality disorders such as narcissists. Be careful in who you fall for next. You have to work on your self esteem and learn to love yourself. As corny as it sounds, it's true. Wen you say love is your foundation and you are addicted to it what I hear is "I need someone to validate me and make me feel worthy". Some guys are serial monogamists and like it but jump from lo…
/r/becomeaman02/07/14 11:45 AM
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He meant that although he asks for consent prior to engaging in sex with women he meets, he makes up for it by going buck savage on them, essentially "raping" them. I don't know a woman who doesn't like getting destroyed in the bedroom. This is what he was alluding to.
/r/askTRP02/07/14 12:55 AM
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Start setting goals and free some time or take some breaks here and there. Those long days are going to drive you into a bad burnout. Are you getting enough sleep daily? Eating properly? Having a decent amount of downtime? I know these may seem random questions in the grand scheme of things but as someone who has traveled an almost similar path it is important to keep grounded and get the basics right before doing anything crazy to be happy. With those goals, breaks and basics down I would keep …
/r/askTRP02/07/14 12:51 AM
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The greatest moment for potential is when you're at your lowest low.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 02:19 PM
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I'd rather have a woman mad at me than bored with me.
/r/TRPOffTopic28/06/14 11:42 PM
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This is definitely mens future except for MGTOWS. Living cheap and single.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 08:24 AM
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Nothing. You win some, you lose some. No need to overthink it.
/r/askTRP24/06/14 07:08 AM
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I would google Matthew Hussey(?) he has practical advice for women in some of his books on how women can get with a good man. I've heard him on radio interviews and podcasts and can say he's legit.
/r/askTRP24/06/14 07:04 AM
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Relax and take a step back from red pill for a bit. Work on yourself, physically and emotionally so you can get your head right. Feeling angry is normal at first but the only action to come from this is to correct obsolete behaviors and bad habits. Breathe, relax and get away from the manosphere a bit.
/r/askTRP21/06/14 11:05 PM
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This should be in /r/asktrp but whatever. When you're new to the red pill philosophy red pill and blue pill is just a macro perspective of a way of life. Blue pill is opposite of what red pill stands for. Putting others before you, blaming others and external factors for your situation, not leading or taking control of your life and putting women on a pedestal is standard blue pill behavior. Once you start breaking it down more you get to alpha/beta behaviors which is almost similar except that …
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 07:07 AM
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"The Antidote: Happiness for People Who Can't Stand Positive Thinking" By Oliver Burkeman
/r/askTRP16/06/14 09:32 AM
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O ok I get that. Yes it's extremely infuriating but that's why I ignore media and stay away from political conversations.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 07:07 PM
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Lot of special interest groups trying to push their own agenda when a tragedy like this happens. Anti Gun groups, anti video game people, radical feminists and mental health groups. Each of these groups have something to gain by blaming abc for xyz. The kid was crazy and people who knew him knew it. Same as the other male killers who went on a rampage.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 06:55 PM
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Dude you can do whatever you want and still be the fucking man. There's nothing wrong as far as I can tell with those interests and even then who the hell am I to judge? Maybe you just need to hook up with a new group of friends that match your interests or energy? There always going to be lazy people and there will always be people who settle for a less than average lifestyle just to fit in. At the end of the day, do you.
/r/askTRP13/06/14 04:46 AM
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Meditate, try /r/nofap, and record your voice and practice being louder without shouting and deeper while still being clear. I say meditation helps a lot because it helps you focus on breathing and being relaxed which is helpful in situations where you tense up and get squeaky voice. I say try /r/nofap because fapping increases your heart rate without any actual full body movements and have noticed that it's an artificial way to create anxiety + tension. You already exercise so that's good. Make…
/r/askTRP13/06/14 04:30 AM
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Go download the audio version of book called "it's called a breakup because it's broke". Im sure it will help. Next is to cut off all contact with her through all means. No social networking, lurking, getting info from friends. If you're going to get better then you need to avoid all contact with her. There's no way around that. It's tough, sorry, suck it up. Start a journal, hang out with new friends, start a new daily routine etc etc.
/r/askTRP12/06/14 08:43 AM
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I really feel that all this rift between men and women is driven wider by media and extreme messages on both sides of the fence. The reason why we see this more and more after taking in red pill information is because what you focus on expands. Once you back out you'll see that in the real world most people (men and women) have common sense and are open to hearing the struggles that both genders go through. Another problem is that the source of pain and frustration prior to the red pill is not w…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 06:15 AM
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You really need to find friends or people you can talk about it. I've been through the same thing and what helped me a lot was talking to friends and other close people about what I was going through. Listen to the audio version of "It's called a breakup because it's broken." It should be in itunes. Also it sounds like she preyed on your low self esteem. Work on that.
/r/askTRP12/06/14 04:59 AM
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Good news is that there are a lot of women who see the through the b.s of rape culture. Do not buy into media headlines too much because what you focus on expands and these things will make you have an "us vs. them mentality". I know this is not a popular advice but in other mens forums it's recommended that if you're going to be dating with the intention of entering a healthy relationship then you should hold off sex for at least a month while you get to know the person. You screen through the …
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 05:44 AM
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Make more friends. Guy friends. Go on dates and you'll see that those feelings will go away. Any excuse against this advice will make me think you want to be a hopeless romantic hooked on the feeling of a self inflicting pain so you can write poems and shit.
/r/askTRP08/06/14 10:25 PM
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Only if you're dead serious about it being an option. You don't want to throw that out there and you're not even serious about it. First communicate what's bothering you, what you expect to change and then start caring for yourself more physically and emotionally. Create boundaries and abide by them. There's lot's of info on dread game you can look and advise against he divorce card unless you're really serious about it, you'll be crossing the rubicon once that card is played.
/r/askTRP26/05/14 11:01 AM
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Dread game. If you're too emotionally entangled to pull it off then ask yourself if you're in a co dependent relationship. Then you need to break it off and work on low self esteem issues.
/r/askTRP26/05/14 10:03 AM
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http://www.nomoremrniceguy.com/forums/showpost.php?p=274976&postcount=32 A very specific recovery plan that helped me a lot.
/r/becomeaman10/05/14 06:18 AM
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Where do males go to learn how to become men? I am thinking that it's jail. I could be wrong.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 12:31 PM
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I agree. It's all about body language and vocal tonality and he pretty much has both nailed down.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 04:01 AM
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Honestly I don't buy it.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 09:38 AM
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Aaron Carter.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 08:35 AM
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"...Oftentimes have I heard you speak of one who commits a wrong as though he were not one of you, but a stranger unto you and an intruder upon your world. But I say that even as the holy and the righteous cannot rise beyond the highest which is in each one of you, So the wicked and the weak cannot fall lower than the lowest which is in you also. And as a single leaf turns not yellow but with the silent knowledge of the whole tree, So the wrong-doer cannot do wrong without the hidden will of you…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 05:51 AM
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She's a narcissist and preys on his low self esteem. He's easy to manipulate because he's craving approval from her. At least he's getting help.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 09:27 PM
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Yes repeat it and don't engage in negative self talk. This is the most important aspect of becoming high value male because your thoughts will affect things you aren't conscious about, for example, your body language, posture and speech. Women are 100x better than men at picking up on these cues so it's best you are conscious of your thoughts. At the end of the day you have to be your best friend and learn how to love yourself without any external validation or attachments. Those things can alwa…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 05:12 AM
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Because it comes from a white knight mindset.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 07:29 AM
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The art of charm on iTunes
/r/askTRP03/04/14 10:01 PM
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You need to look at your childhood and see what happened there to make you feel this way. You need to see that going after these kind of girls is a defense mechanism to cover your low self esteem. Taking a break, loving yourself and setting boundaries are the first steps to fixing this.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 08:48 PM
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They're easier to buy too. Why the fuck would I buy my kid or somebody else's kid a gender neutral book if I didn't know specifically that they like that shit? I bought 2 coloring books a couple of weeks ago, a hello kitty one and cars/toy story one. Guess which one my daughter liked? Smh @ these groups that think they are achieving anything worthwhile.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 11:56 AM
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Mines as well. IMO it should be every frustrated man's first introduction towards improvement.
/r/askTRP04/03/14 05:28 AM
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This is a very good resource for finding other people in a similar situation. Lots of information also for becoming an integrated man however redpill lingo is something I haven't seen there and instead offer a more sensible approach to achieving the things you want. There is also a blog and seminars you might want to check out.
/r/askTRP04/03/14 04:35 AM
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I have more respect for James Franco now.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 07:09 PM
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You can pay for education but you can't buy class
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 06:35 PM
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"The federal government is beginning to recognize how important fathers are to children after years of focusing almost exclusively on mothers. " In NY state, the non custodial parent(aka father) gets a 300 dollar tax credit if they've kept up with their child support balance so that's nice. :) In all seriousness though, this was a nice read as someone who still has a glimmer of hope for a family one day. I have to say I've noticed a shifting trend at my kids school, seeing more fathers picking u…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 06:32 PM
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Funny how the comment made is that PUA lifestyle is to blame.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 08:43 PM
1

Never take it personal. With the women you can make a sarcastic/funny or just as rude reply with a complete or stoic reaction. Or you can even reply with a "Thank you so much, you're so thankful" in a authentically sweet kind of way. The bottom line is that you show no reaction emotionally or that it bothers you. If they cross the line simply say "don't talk to me like that" and choose wether to get higher ups involved. As far as the guy goes maybe he's just busting your chops and wants to get y…
/r/askTRP22/02/14 04:35 PM
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I'm genuinely asking what kind of advice you are seeking? It seem as if you've pretty much made up your mind but are having trouble with the idea of actually doing the breakup part. You know, sitting down and telling her you don't want to be with her anymore.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 10:23 AM
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It was about 2-3 years ago when a situation arose between me and my gf where we ended up not talking for a couple of days. As more days went by I began to get more anxious, contemplating wether I should act proud not talking to her or break the ice and contact her first. The dilemma was that, of course, if I were to reach out first I would feel guilty about being the "nice guy", a term I wasn't very familiar with so I googled "nice guys" and "nice guys finish last" and this website was one of th…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 08:00 AM
4

I have a 5 year old daughter and have been separated from her mother since she was 2. Always have wanted kids and a big family but that won't happen anytime soon or maybe not at all. TRP hasn't really changed my approach to parenthood at all except that I should pursuit my purpose in life regardless of relationships(with balance of course) That has been one of the biggest lessons and one that I am trying to implement. As far as raising my daughter, it's all about being present, in the moment and…
/r/askTRP19/02/14 06:37 AM
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Social experiment on a child because father doesn't have a spine.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 07:22 PM
9

Why are you frustrated when it sounds like you are trying to court her? Have you made your intentions clear to her that you want to fuck her? Judging from your story it seems that you haven't and shouldn't be getting mad at anybody but yourself. Step up your game a bit more.
/r/askTRP05/02/14 03:20 PM
0

Sounds like he has adhd
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 09:51 PM
5

/r/raisedbynarcissists is a good sub for people who grew up with fucked up parents who might be narcissists and are sharing/coping with its effects in adulthood. Also, take a look into issues with abandonment. You get close and put the charm on so guys only see the good side only to back away once they like you for fear of rejection once they see what you perceive as your darkside. Both males and females do this.
/r/askTRP30/01/14 03:06 PM
3

Both have daddy issues and both need external help to get over those issues.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 07:31 AM
2

Emotional abuse, some kind of trauma in is his life which makes him think this acceptable behavior or seek toxic people/relationships.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 06:35 PM
2

I thought the top 3 or 4 most up voted comments were sensible and actually tried to understand red pill. There were a few that absolutely hated it but other than that it wasn't as bad as I thought it would be.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 08:44 AM
2

Skinny jeans? Sneaker game? Collection of fitted hats? I read/heard on tv something not too long ago where men were increasingly becoming interested in clothing, specifically shoes. Not just Jordan's but high end shoes as well (not sure of high end brand names) Another interesting thing was how Harley Davidson targeted the female demographic and saw a surge a female buyers. Smh I don't know what to say...haha http://www.theguardian.com/fashion/sharpened-lead/2013/aug/15/men-spend-more-shoes-wome…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 02:53 AM
2

Best advice here. Same thing I do with my baby momma. You don't want to have your daughter noticing any tension between you two.
/r/askTRP29/12/13 02:29 AM
3

I like this subreddit a lot but you're probably going to get a lot of shitty advice from unqualified people. TRP books and sidebar are very good but it won't get to the bottom of many issues you're facing. http://www.nomoremrniceguy.com/forums/showpost.php?p=274976&postcount=32 This is a link to the No More Mr.Nice guy forum page, specifically to a thread that someone made as a plan to get over a breakup and get back in the game right. It's gold and has helped me immensely. I hope it helps you t…
/r/askTRP29/12/13 01:47 AM
1

Read this book a long time ago and feel it is very over rated and a snooze fest.
/r/RedPillBooks22/12/13 09:01 PM
3

Did you get the urge to start a gang and fight people afterwards? I felt a surge of testosterone flowing through my body after reading this book.
/r/RedPillBooks22/12/13 12:37 PM
2

Great book. I took from it the importance of frame control and to stand our ground no matter what. This is a must read personally.
/r/RedPillBooks22/12/13 12:35 PM
3

Work on confidence. Sounds like a lot of your inner dialogue is toxic.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 10:26 PM
2

Look up Athol kay. He has a blog and a book I recommend call the married man sex primer(?) that discusses red pill in long term relationships. No more mr nice guy by robert glover and the way of the superior man by david deida are a gold mine.
/r/askTRP20/12/13 08:03 AM
8

"It looks like he's trying to impress you. Very cute. Is it working?" Something like that I guess
/r/askTRP20/12/13 07:38 AM
5

Third wave Feminists have really failed women and it disappoints me to no end that while yes, there are and always be legitimate rape cases, but right now there is an epidemic of sex slavery that should really be addressed. Fighting about fat shaming and the glass ceiling is water cooler talk when they have the influence to get to a more important matter at hand. Of course, I can see it turn into a blame men campaign which get us no where anyway... Smh
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 05:20 AM
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You're going in with an outcome in mind and you're not willing to put yourself on the line because of that.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 09:32 PM
2

Wow this is exactly what I needed.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 02:02 PM
13

Ignore her for hours after she responds back. You're either being too clingy or she's being disrespectful, depends on the state of this relationship.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 01:57 PM
1

The propaganda of love is strong. If love was a brand these guys are the ultimate fanboys. Ever try to to convince an apple fanboy to make the switch to windows?
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 08:34 AM
2

Theres more to it than men not fulfilling their roles because they are playing video games and just getting by. Many men are afraid of confrontation and conflict, lie and play it safe by keeping to themselves. That is the nice guy or boy that most males have become.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 08:21 AM
3

Im salvadoran too and have always noticed this about that there. El salvador consistently ranks high when the happiest countries in the world charts appear.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 07:37 AM
0

I would love to do this but I've got joint custody with my ex.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 07:34 AM
2

There's plenty of men here that have unplugged and moved past the bitterness. It's about time to expand the manosphere into something more and I think is the beginning of it.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 01:24 PM
2

I think there should be an extension of the red pill to further expand men's value. I like this sub but see more of the same again and again which is good for those who are beginning to unplug. /r/Becomeaman is a good start. The question is what issues would it address and what content would be shared to increase our value or voice.
/r/askTRP16/12/13 07:00 AM
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Spin plates.
/r/askTRP15/12/13 11:52 PM
4

Glad someone mentioned this. There is a level lower than blue pill and what's needed is not a pill but some thorough mental help.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 06:17 PM
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If you're truly concerned about your family then he should of been introduced already. Getting married without having your SO meet them is a big no no personally.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/13 11:50 PM
5

Absolutely right. It will be interesting to see how things turn out as far as both sexes not needing anything from each other except sex.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 09:13 AM
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Calling it a breakthrough is an understatement. The day this gets released to the world it will be the beginning of something extraordinary. This is exactly why the red pill is needed. To be prepared to maximize your chances in the sexual market when there is no purpose or consequences to sex except pleasure. No purpose or consequences to sex except pleasure. I don't know if that excites me or scares me..
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 08:24 AM
2

This shit is wack. It sounds like a female writing this trying to shame other ones just cuz they don't have the same interests. "Basic" bitch has much meaning as calling someone a hater or being "real". I might just be ranting but I don't see why it's relevant to redpill.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 07:22 AM
2

I have a list of manosphere/red pill books I've been meaning to read but those excerpts have peaked my interest and will be the next book I read.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/13 01:04 PM
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I believe she is the author of a book called Men On Strike. I've noticed that a lot of the women who recognize men acting this way are older and very wise. Another woman who comes to mind is Barbara Bush. Years ago she was on a late night tv talk show and mentioned problems we are talking about now in regards to the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/13 08:48 AM
4

http://suzannevenker.com/new-pdf/ She had an article on foxnews.com the other day and found her website could be of some use to women who are trying to understand what is going on and what to do.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/13 07:04 AM
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It empowers men to become a person of quality. You don't want to be with a man who puts you on a pedestal and allows you to walk all over him. Someone who never questions your antics in fear of losing you. Lift weights and spin plates is a mantra around here because it builds value in males and when he decides to settle down the, one who will ultimately reap the benefits will be the person he decides to be with. It sounds mean and nasty, the mentality around here, but we have guys on one end of …
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/13 07:03 AM
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LMFAO! They don't get it do they? We're dropping out of marriage in droves and now they want to taint an informal relationship with background checks? It's hilarious on so many levels. The girl who had been murdered had complained to the police several times. There needs to be a better way to get help for victims of domestic violence. It's extremely hard for a victim to get help and leave their abuser in good time. This goes for both males and females. Background checks isn't the solution and wi…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 10:53 PM
4

Her website should be side bared either here or over at /r/redpillwomen. She could very well be a prominent figure in this male enlightenment period.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 10:35 PM
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This is beautiful because it demonstrates how us men cannot be beaten at our own game. Funny shit is bitches try to shame a motherfucker either way! You're a virgin gamer? Shame on you! Learn PUA? Shame on you! Ok, become a good faithful man and play nice... Get played for your pride,time and money.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 10:26 PM
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It's called birth control because someone controls the birth. If YOU don't want a baby then control the birth. Thanks to abortion crimes rates are lowered and parents who actually want to be parents are there for their kids. It's nasty and morally/ethically up in the air but it has it's place in society.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 07:21 AM
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Theres a meme on the front page now that addresses this and the comments are mind boggling. I am just upset I let myself be surprised at the stupid shit being said.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 01:22 PM
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This is an absolutely brilliant piece, cutting through the bullshit of feminism and political correctness with cut and dry examples of why females should not be allowed in the combat zone with men. I don't think it can get anymore redpill than this and what makes it better is that it is coming from a female marine veteran.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 09:40 AM
2

I'm sure industrialization and 9-5 work schedules threw society for a loop and even the most well intentioned father couldn't be as much as an influence as they would've wanted. We will all have daddy issues at one point in our lives but at some point you have to live as if he is dead even if he isn't. You can't change how you entered this world but you can change the rest of it.
/r/becomeaman14/11/13 10:28 AM
5

Going through some of these comments is sickening me. "Life is meaningless, it's all for nothing, no medals and no one remembers you..blah blah blah." Some of the most beta+emo+childish shit I've heard in a while. I feel blessed to be a man, to have the burden and joy of walking around with these balls between my legs. We've all been brainwashed to live a certain lifestyle but you're here and informed knowing that YOU have control over your life, a life YOU can give meaning to. You want a medal,…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 09:31 AM
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I feel like a connection can be made between the point that suicide bombers are mostly muslim and the increasing trend of shooters who kill themselves after they've killed a lot of people. I remember reading the Aurora shooter guy was/felt rejected with his online dating profile. The kid from Newton(?) was raised by a single gun happy mother who I assume carried a lot of masculine energy. It can always be said that they were crazy, off meds, in a gun happy country where boys learn to kill throug…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 10:22 PM
11

So surreal
/r/TheRedPill19/10/13 12:38 PM
3

They have no idea what the fuck he is talking about and what his songs really mean. I like his music because, as you point out, is extremely demeaning and is basically a big fuck you to women and relationships. He talks about side chicks, girls only being in love with his potential and not who he is, cheating girls and why he can't e serious with them. Jeez, I love it haha. I am absolutely sure girls that like his music don't know what his lyrics mean, think he has a great voice and like his sty…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/13 06:14 AM
3

Makes sense. There are men who are great role models in the workplace because they lead and make great decisions under pressure. They encapsulate a lot of the ideas/behaviors of what men should be like in the eyes of other men. However, turn into pudding in the presence of women in intimate settings. Then you have the opposite. Slackers and bums with a job that make other men envious of their pickup game. Which one is alpha and which one is beta? Personally I feel it's time to drop this label an…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/13 08:22 PM
2

Do about what? Just keep doing what you've been doing.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/13 11:38 AM
3

Funny that you mention Rome.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/13 08:08 PM
19

"So, never apologize for making a woman feel bad about her sexual history or hesitate to do so. In doing so, you are defending civilization. " Emphasis on defending civilization. There will always by sluts but the epidemic of them is destroying the family unit because they're encouraged and empowered by media and government. Look at the situation western civilization is in now. Yes, the pool of available women is great but sex is not the end all be all of what it is to be a man/red pill. What is…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/13 11:59 AM
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I don't know why but what immediately comes to mind is the surge of awareness of bullies in schools. If these grown, "professional" women are bringing each other down to the point of tears, quarreling over petty things, then you can only imagine what kind of shitty things go down with girls in school.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/13 07:23 AM
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Start listening to classic rap music or some hood shit. No more lubby dubby songs that be on some "you're the one" type of shit. Stop watching tv and movies that have brainwashed you to think relationships are supposed to be a certain way. In real life women rarely, if ever, leave men that beat them but will leave a motherfucker because he's too nice so that says a lot. Whenever you start dreaming up these fantasies in your head about what love and relationships should be with these women remind…
/r/askTRP26/09/13 05:41 AM
20

I read her answers in a old lady voice.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/13 12:35 PM
1

I've done hypnotherapy for the past 3 months and definitely feel it has helped. When your life gets flipped upside down and you come to the realization things are not as what they seem, I'd say get the help where you can. I'm surprised therapy in general is barely brought up too because in the No More Mr.Nice Guy book it talks about mens group and counseling for men who are going through life changes. Anyways, let us know how it works out for you.
/r/askTRP13/09/13 06:28 AM
3

It's a process. Working on making small changes everyday is key.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/13 08:11 PM
4

It's clear the some people aren't shown how to act like adults and play their position in a relationship, hence the therapy suggestions.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/13 11:28 PM
1

It really amazes me how distorted our views used to be when there weren't appropriate references to live our life the way men should. I was in almost the same situation as you and once I started applying redpill in my life the differences have been night and day. Cheers to you brother for turning things around and showing others why this is important.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/13 11:23 PM
-2

"This research may help to explain why in developed countries, where many young women choose to have low calorie diets, the proportion of boys born is falling." Biologists have noticed that many animal species produce more sons when resources are abundant or the mother is high ranking (meaning she gets the best food). This is commonly observed in invertebrates and mammals as well, such as horses, some types of deer and cows. The phenomenon is often explained as an evolved survival strategy. http…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/13 11:54 AM
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Their surprise reaction is equivalent to a child getting caught with their hand in the cookie jar. And just as you would you expect, most just won't admit to it when the truth is out.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/13 11:18 AM
3

It's their nature which is nothing to be surprised about. Only one's getting surprised are women themselves thinking they are better than that. HA!
/r/TheRedPill02/09/13 10:30 AM
6

"Elisa Gabbert, a 33-year-old Denver-based writer, tells me, “I’ve always thought the words ‘wife’ and ‘husband’ had a one-way proprietary air — meaning, when men say ‘my wife’ I hear an undercurrent of ownership, and when women say ‘my husband,’ I hear an undercurrent of subservience.” But the terms are technically accurate" That's right, now play your position.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/13 09:31 AM
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I seriously doubt this theory. The diet of the pregnant woman during pregnancy has almost everything to do with what the gender of the child will be. Basically, the more food/high protein food is consumed, the more likely the creature will be born male. Since most people/animals don't have access to high protein/large diets then there are less males born. I'm at work and wish to provide links to back up my claims but I'm sure the theory presented is flawed.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/13 09:14 AM
5

I disagree. The strength of men will always be needed. I would go out as far as saying it is needed now more than ever.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/13 05:28 AM
4

Trying to have power in modern times is obsolete, especially for common folk. Charm, confidence and learning the art of persuasion will take you much farther than trying to outright deceit people.
/r/askTRP01/09/13 05:52 PM
1

Not weak but a waste of time. I used to do this shit with girls I had no intention of fucking and they would always want more. I learned that unless I'm trying to hit that then I'm not going to invest time. If you want him to have your back then show him the way, otherwise don't whine about it.
/r/askTRP01/09/13 05:38 PM
6

Don't forget that they don't mind share/fight over an alpha winner than to be even seen with a beta loser. It's in their DNA.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/13 05:57 AM
2

Practice being comfortable with being uncomfortable is great advice. Actively look for situations that normally make you feel uncomfortable. I remember reading a book ( I think it was called "becoming an asshole(?)) and the guy would run through central park shouting profanities while jogging until it didn't bother him. Then he would practice staring people down, cutting lines and pay people to insult him. I haven't gotten there yet but the gist of it is to be uncomfortable. Great advice.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/13 08:46 PM
2

This is something I've been working on forever and now that I'm in a custody battle over my daughter I have no choice but to be confrontational at times. What's helped me is to stop thinking and be in a frame of control. Let everything go and go in for what you want, say what you need to say. Of course it's different when it's a confrontation at a bar but I'm sure most of us deal more with confrontational problems in mundane situations. I still have ways to go but for sure it's just something th…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/13 08:40 PM
2

The way you walk and your posture is a reflection of what's going on in your head. If you think and feel confident then your walk and presence will reflect it. It seems that once you get to a group of people your brain says "oh shit, hide" and you go back to old ways.
/r/askTRP31/08/13 09:00 AM
1

Russell brand Theodore Roosevelt Sean Connery
/r/askTRP27/08/13 10:36 AM
3

Hispanic male here. From what I've seen the hispanic women like the white guys for either one of two reasons or both: Has money and/or isn't "machista". Machista basically means a man who takes pride in being superior over women. They don't want a man who wants them to fulfill the typical role of a woman(cooking,cleaning, stay at home) and feel white guys don't expect that from them.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/13 07:11 PM
9

Nobody questions the stupidity in their strategy.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/13 05:29 PM
2

This is fucked up for the child being born.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/13 05:21 PM
1

There is no arguing that major injustices haven't been committed in the past. Many of its effects are still felt today and is the reason we have civil rights groups to guard against injustices from happening again.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 09:54 PM
3

WAS working on liberal arts degree at a community college.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 09:38 PM
0

Drugs and hustling is glorified in the hip hop world. Young impressionable children live out the lyrics and destroy themselves while the entertainers get rich. When there aren't parents around to tell them that this is wrong, those children will do drugs and participate in these reckless acts to fit in.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 09:24 PM
1

Reilly touches on this point by pointing out that hollywood and entertainers are glorified while impressionable children are left to destroy themselves living out the lyrics. I think I speak for most of us men when I say we don't watch tv often because of the garbage that is on there. WE, as men, need to speak and act on that issue because ultimately it affects us. Feminism, media and the court system are all in the way of us men creating better COMMUNITIES for our families to grow in. People ar…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 09:22 PM
3

You're right and should've added that to my comment. Kids should see their parents as a team. This would squelch the problem of the child confiding only with one parent without the other knowing what is going in.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 08:47 PM
11

Is this really happening? People are really serious about this? I need answers
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 08:24 PM
7

A TRP father influences and sets the standards for his kids from an early age. A true TRP father wouldn't run into these problems because his wife/child's mother respects him. It's no surprise that the epidemic of beta fathers and rise of hookup culture is happening around the same time.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 07:55 PM
13

As a father you realize that not only is your SO shit testing you regularly but also your kids. Don't let them run to mom to let her change your decision. You are her alpha too, therefore, what you say goes. When the child's mother starts disrespecting you, the child will too.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 07:47 PM
2

This is both for men and women. Remember that nowadays women are making more than men. Even if the message is geared only towards men, his 90 day technique, is for both to see what they are working with financially.
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