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Social IssuesSpinninghead98/r/MensRights06/04/25 08:30 AM
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mental healthSpinninghead98/r/MensRights20/11/25 08:42 AM
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Guess the world ain’t bad, just need find our station.
/r/MensRights20/11/25 09:31 AM
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I mean so what? It’s fake internet points. I’m here to get some advice, just don’t be a dick and I’ll hear you out.
/r/MensRights07/04/25 03:27 AM
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The thing is for about 2 hours we talked about nothing but sex, and she was very upfront in her profile, text and date that she was looking for casual sex. At one point we did bring up preferences and I did say how I feel it’s important to let your partner know if they’re doing something wrong. She brought up kinks, what she likes, all this stuff. I thought there was openness there and I charged forth thinking she’d speak up if I crossed a line. But our conversation indicated nothing, I made too…
/r/MensRights07/04/25 02:21 AM
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The thing is it’s not just porn that messes with my perception of consent. My last girlfriend was a booktok girl and that stuff has very little consent going on. Then there’s movies where the kiss or sex is largely this impulsive thing. Not to mention a few negative experiences myself. It’d be easy to blame the darker corners of the world but we grew up being taught ‘no means no’ more than ‘ask first’ and our mainstream media reflects that.
/r/MensRights06/04/25 11:25 PM
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I avoid that red pill stuff and haven’t watched any porn in a month and try to avoid scrolling too much on socials, I’m aware this stuff can mess with my brain. If I had done things differently, outcome would’ve been very different and I’m resolute on that. I could have done better. The groping might seem like an obvious thing to some people but I honestly didn’t think it wrong because of prior partners- that just makes me ignorant not malicious. Yeah there are some comments that lean to the sid…
/r/MensRights06/04/25 10:57 PM
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If you honestly care about men’s rights then stop calling anyone who is negative towards you an incel- it carries the implication that a man is nothing if he can’t get laid. You might not like starting from a place of sympathy but it’s exactly what pushed a lot of men into people like Andrew Tate and that wasn’t great for women or men.
/r/MensRights06/04/25 10:39 PM
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Yeah I have my lines as well when it comes to that, and I use to not saying anything because I thought I’d kill the mood. I speak up now but I understand it’s a different dynamic for a woman so I gotta be more conscious about that.
/r/MensRights06/04/25 10:24 PM
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I’m not trying the validate the act man. I even wrote that I’m a creep in the original post and acknowledge that. I’m asking how I can better navigate it and I figured I’d go to a subreddit that would sympathetic to me as opposed to just saying ‘you’re a creep’ and then giving me zero ways to better approach this stuff.
/r/MensRights06/04/25 10:22 PM
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Yeah I’m looking for sympathy. I want help but not have a bunch of people calling me a piece of crap while doing it. What the fuck is wrong with me? Okay I’ve had several partners prior to this girl that had a ‘go until you hear/feel no’ with me (both ways) and I grew accustomed to that. I’ve had partners that wanted me to seek consent through action and others prefer I just took a guess. As one commenter said, there isn’t a one rule fits all and I just have to open up communication much more wi…
/r/MensRights06/04/25 10:16 PM
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See I’ve done the 90-10 rule but even then I’m paranoid. Is she going to feel obligated to kiss back? If I’m on a date with someone that doesn’t seem assertive, regardless of if they’re into me but shy, I’m gonna play it safe and keep things platonic.
/r/MensRights06/04/25 11:46 AM
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I mean she was periodically texting her friends to let them know she was okay and alive. I get women do that for good reason but honestly 14 times is a little excessive. In hindsight there probably was fear but I get the feeling that was based on the fact I was a guy, so that’s her issue but I am going to reflect on how I come across. She stopped us once to take off her glasses so figured she didn’t have a problem with speaking up- but I was wrong. In hindsight there was plenty of hints she’s no…
/r/MensRights06/04/25 11:35 AM
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She bought the dinner. Asked her out shortly after another guy supposedly ghosted her so she probably did just want to go out, but so did I honestly.
/r/MensRights06/04/25 10:17 AM
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