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Spirit_And_Time/r/askMRP08/03/24 12:54 PM
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this series of posts has been helpful for me at least
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/24 12:17 PM
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Are you still jerking off? If so, how often and are you using porn?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/24 01:35 PM
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I just went through your prior posts. So to be clear, it's not that your wife isn't fucking you, it's that you're not fucking your wife (because she's fat?). What's the plan for the fucking here...
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/24 08:32 PM
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OYS #10 5'10" / 33yo / 164 lbs / 18%bf (Navy) / 0 kids / Together 15 years, married 6 CURRENT READING: Nothing last week MISSION: Build, reinforce, and enhance the Pillars of my life, with myself as the only judge. (Going with a simpler format) Fitness: No lifting. I fucked my left glute two weeks ago and didn't keep off it like I should have, so now I'm paying the price. I tried removing my legs, back and ab days but was still working the spot even for chest, bis etc. Playing soccer and golfing…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/24 03:10 PM
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OYS #9 5'10" / 33yo / 164 lbs / ?%bf (was 18%, bulking so I haven't bothered checking) / 0 kids / Together 15 years, married 6 CURRENT READING: Picked up WISNIFG again per recommendations from last week. Also focused a lot on the posts on Frame by /u/strategos_autokrator which have been helpful MISSION: Build, reinforce, and enhance the Pillars of my life, with myself as the only judge. CURRENT GOALS, SUCCESSES AND FUCK UPS: Fitness: 165lbs 15%bf by summer Squats: 225x5 OHP: 145x5 Bench: 180x5 (…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/24 02:47 PM
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It will difficult because change is difficult. It’s not as difficult as changing the stars but will require discomfort. It will be worth it. facts. thank you
/r/askMRP08/03/24 04:37 PM
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There's no tactical advantage to be gained at this point. You just need to practice clearly telling people what you want. need to internalize this more. thanks
/r/askMRP08/03/24 04:37 PM
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Thanks very much for this. I'll go back to those pages and read
/r/askMRP08/03/24 04:36 PM
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Thanks for sharing. Ultimately I think Overt Communication is right as well, my issue of course is I should have overtly set the boundary years ago
/r/askMRP08/03/24 02:36 PM
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Yeah I should rephrase that - when it comes to making plans with my bio family, I do live in my mother's frame. It's a problem.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/24 05:48 PM
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I have and do, it's infrequent but over the years it's basically become the only butt stuff that doesn't get a hard No. And the thing is she enjoys it, all the obvious signs are there. But won't ever admit it after the fact.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/24 05:46 PM
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Thanks for the feedback. Smith machine and fin I addressed in my last OYS Family: you don't have kids. You don't need a family section. Nah I do, more context in my victim puke OYS 1. Wife perceives me as living in my mother's frame when it comes to family. It's easier to quit both masturbating and porn than just one. yup, coming to terms with this.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/24 02:57 PM
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(may need to bulk). you need to bulk, your lifts suck. Improving resume If you're sending out cold applications, you need to make sure your resume includes the relevant key words in whatever role you're applying to. Random example, a job post for an IT security role could use the word "cyber security" 10 times. If your resume says "data security", it won't get picked up by the Applicant Tracking System and you'll never get seen. Take time doing this for each cold app you send especially to bigge…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/24 02:05 PM
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OYS #8 5'10" / 33yo / 160.8 lbs / ?%bf (was 18%, bulking so I haven't bothered checking) / 0 kids / Together 15 years, married 6 CURRENT READING: Put down Day Bang, re-read some sections of SGM and TWOTSM this week. MISSION: Build, reinforce, and enhance the Pillars of my life, with myself as the only judge. CURRENT GOALS, SUCCESSES AND FUCK UPS: Fitness: 165lbs 15%bf by summer Squats: 225x4 (smith machine) OHP: 145x4 (smith machine) Bench: 185x6 (smith machine) Somehow I weigh exactly the same …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/24 09:43 PM
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Thanks for this, looking into the abundance blocks referenced
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/24 03:01 PM
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That's literally asking. You phrased it like a statement, but it remains a question as you're waiting for approval. damn, facts. Here's the thing. You don't have options. It comes across clearly to your wife. As a result, you're not a desirable man. also facts. It feels like my biggest failing right now, total lack of social life and abundance.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/24 02:12 PM
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Yup I'm aware
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/24 08:57 PM
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OYS #7 5'10" / 33yo / 160.8 lbs / ?%bf (was 18%, bulking so I haven't bothered checking) / 0 kids / Together 15 years, married 6 CURRENT READING: just started Day Bang MISSION: Build, reinforce, and enhance the Pillars of my life, with myself as the only judge. CURRENT GOALS, SUCCESSES AND FUCK UPS: Fitness: 165lbs 15%bf by summer Finally broke 160lbs. Stayed consistent with the mass gainer shakes, ate a little bit dirtier than I have been. Most lifts went up: Squats 215x5 (x2) (smith machine) O…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/24 08:05 PM
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Something is missing, there's something you're not owning. I just went through your prior OYS and can tell you're not being honest with yourself about something. It's either masturbation/porn or you lack a life away from your wife. Maybe it's both
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/24 03:53 PM
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We have a few standard positions which are quite fun and change it up a bit. But then it is the time for the position that makes her come with the vibrator which might take a while. I apply dominance here (spanking, choking, pull her hair) but I feel it is from a frame of mind to make her cum and not true desire. I am also a bit restrained with the thrusting so that I don’t cum prematurely. This overall makes it a bit boring for me during that part, I even go a bit soft. After she has her orgasm…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/24 03:47 PM
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Thanks. Eventually I will be there, but not quite yet. At the moment I still have basically a full head of hair. I have a few more years of it to enjoy, just being proactive.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/24 05:20 PM
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Yeah I asked about fin at the appointment because I've heard good things. I have a feeling it's in my future, just depends how long I want to put off the inevitable. why not use a proper squat rack for all lifts? Would if available, my closest gym is a Planet Fitness so no cages why don't you just fuck her instead? i don't get it Short answer is it's just not what I wanted in that moment. I also think that me giving in to whatever sexual activity she deems "acceptable" in the moment would be ent…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/24 05:18 PM
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OYS #6 5'10" / 33yo / 159 lbs / ?%bf (was 18%, bulking so I haven't bothered checking) / 0 kids / Together 15 years, married 6 READING: Finished NMMNG, Rational Male, and Sex God Method. Went back to WOTSM this week MISSION: Build, reinforce, and enhance the Pillars of my life, with myself as the only judge. CURRENT GOALS, SUCCESSES AND FUCK UPS: Fitness: 165lbs 15%bf by summer No weight gained this week, though each of my lifts went up: Squats 205x5 (smith machine) OHP 65x5(x2) (dumbbells) Benc…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/24 04:59 AM
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I just read through all your OYS and I have no clue why you're here, and more importantly I don't think you have a clue why you're here. You need to read the sidebar first and foremost so you can figure out if you are even in the right place. I noticed you didn't mention "no porn / no masturbating" in this last post, I'm guessing that's because you caved? Your apparent lack of interest in pursuing actual sex is telling
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/24 01:33 PM
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I've lowered calories by 300. Are you bulking? Cutting? Maintenance? Can't see your goals here
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/24 04:37 PM
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what are you reading
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/24 02:46 PM
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Not sure what the fuck I’m even up to in regards to my relationship. Not worried about rejections, but I rarely even bother initiate. Haven’t had sex for more than a month by now. I want to have sex with someone who deserves it/wants it, not someone who acts as if they are doing me a favor. Fuck that. You're up to OYS #35, that's... like 8 months? Something is off here. Either you're not attracted to your wife, or she isn't attracted to you. I have a feeling it's the latter, and that you're lyin…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/24 02:17 PM
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Appreciated Just realize, when you go to actually lift heavy compound barbell work you will have to catch your stabilizing muscles up, and earn the right to work with a similar weight to the weight you are doing on a machine. will keep this in mind
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/24 01:40 PM
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Truth
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/24 01:38 PM
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I know. It's a planet fitness, all smith machines. That said I switched from dumbbells to smith this week for shoulders because I couldn't get the 65s into position, and was too pussy to ask literally anyone for a spot. Next time
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/24 07:06 PM
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OYS #5 5'10" / 33yo / 159 lbs / ?%bf (was 18%, bulking so I haven't bothered checking) / 0 kids / Together 15 years, married 6 READING: Finished NMMNG, Rational Male (reading through some of these again now), and Sex God Method. Going through old MRP posts again MISSION: Build, reinforce, and enhance the Pillars of my life, with myself as the only judge. I'm trying a new format for myself here in OYS, focusing on my current, specific goals that work towards my Mission, with the fuck-ups and prog…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/24 04:24 PM
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Shoulder pain from benching is a common occurrence because the proper form isn't completely intuitive. I struggled with this as well at first. Look up some YouTube videos, you'll see quickly what you need to fix
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/24 04:44 PM
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I will!
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/24 02:28 PM
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I'd prefer a cage too, but it's a Planet so no cages. I will have other gym options soon once our biz opens up. Also the dumbbells only go up to 70, so I think I'd be past that already, but I'll throw them in next leg day and see how it goes
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/24 01:54 PM
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OYS #4 5'10" / 33yo / 158 lbs / ?%bf (was 18%, bulking so I haven't bothered checking) / 0 kids / Together 15 years, married 6 READING: Finished NMMNG, Rational Male, and Sex God Method, getting back to Book of Pook, putting down Way of the Superior Man for now MISSION: Build, reinforce, and enhance the Pillars of my life, with myself as the only judge. CURRENT GOALS 165lbs 15%bf by summer Getting our new business open Rebuilding my social life, finding "my people" LIFTS: Squat (smith machine): …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/24 08:30 PM
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protein causes gas, more protein will inevitably = more gas. obviously, it also = more gains. you can take measures to reduce unattractiveness from gas (like go to the bathroom). you cannot take measures to gain muscle that don't include more protein.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/24 05:30 PM
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I am trying to increase my protein intake but struggling to get to 1g/lb of body weight at the moment. I was having the same issue, the shakes really help. Mass gainer for bulking (I like Serious Mass, also 50g protein but 1200 cals)
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/24 06:59 PM
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*Fitness: My main goal here is to consistently improve my lifts and my diet...Definitely improving over the last few years. Lifts (Newbie) BP: 110 1x5, DL 120 1x5, SQ 120 1x5 this isn't a "few years" of improvement. stop lying to yourself my guy, pick a routine and fucking do it weekly
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/24 02:00 PM
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OYS #3 5'10" / 33yo / 158 lbs / ?%bf (was 18%, bulking so I haven't bothered checking) / 0 kids / Together 15 years, married 6 READING: Finished NMMNG and Rational Male, finished some of Book of Pook and Way of the Superior Man, reading Sex God Method MISSION: Complete the frame I've been building, then adhere to it. Build, reinforce, and enhance the Pillars of my life, with myself as the only judge. (still working on defining this) CURRENT GOALS 165lbs 15%bf by summer Getting our new business o…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/24 04:00 PM
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OYS #2 5'10" / 33yo / 155 lbs / 18%bf (navy) / 0 kids / Together 15 years, married 6 READING: Finished NMMNG and Rational Male, reading Book of Pook and Way of the Superior Man GOALS Regaining my confidence. Respecting myself. Redefining my trajectory as a man and holding myself to my standards at all times. MISSION: Complete the frame I've been building, then adhere to it. LIFTS: These last 6 weeks of lifting have felt great, but I need to get serious about my calorie intake otherwise I'm going…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/24 08:27 PM
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It's not my favorite, been sticking with dumb bells on chest for that exact reason
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/24 07:28 PM
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OYS #1 5'10" / 155 lbs / 18%bf (navy) / 0 kids / Together 15 years, married 6 READING: Finished NMMNG and Rational Male, working through the sidebar. GOALS Regaining my confidence. Respecting myself. Redefining my trajectory as a man and holding myself to my standards at all times MISSION: Complete the frame I've been building, then adhere to it LIFTS: Feeling better here than I have in a long time. I lifted semi-regularly years ago and gave it up, was doing at-home calisthenics since June. A gy…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/24 06:20 PM
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