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100% agree. I'm ashamed to admit that I stopped going to the gym because it's not something I enjoy, but the reality is that the vast majority of people (in my opinion) don't enjoy the actual working out, but do enjoy the benefits that come along with it, such as increased mood and being more physically attractive, being healthier is also a good benefit but I don't think most young people (20-30) care too much about that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:35 PM
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I have no doubt about that, I've read comments on ASKMEN about it. It works both ways, it's like us Men having sex with a REALLY hot women, as opposed to an average/everyday Women. There's a reason for why models are always extremely hot, both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:30 PM
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Thank you for the honesty, it's rare to find, even on an anonymous website like Reddit. You can have the best personality in the world, but you'll only ever be a friend if you're not sexually attractive. I'm not saying you need to have top tier model looks, but every man can have good hygiene, regular haircuts, reduced body fat, some muscle etc. Basically, give a shit about yourself and you should be fine, people have been fucking since the beginning of human history, it ain't going to slow down…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:16 PM
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We know, nobody is arguing that fact. I apologize if I sound like a dick, but that wasn't the question I asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:08 PM
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I don't visit this subreddit often, although I should have looked, my mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:04 PM
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Okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:03 PM
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What do you mean? I have an idea, but it's worth asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:01 PM
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You havent asked anyone out because in your subconscious you know you would probably get rejectes because no positive were shown from the woman. I've had positive feedback such as eye contact, and common "feminine" traits. Although, I've got terrible social anxiety, despite years of trying, but that's a me issue, not anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:22 PM
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Imagine for a second that you were a woman going about her day, you would of course prefer the hot guy to talk to you, I'm not arguing that fact and agree 100%. Making friends and connections is extremely important, not just for dating but for life in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:20 PM
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I live in a small town of around 12,000, it's roughly 50/50. Therefore, in theory average looks are fine. OLD is looks only, because it's all you have to go off.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:18 PM
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100% agree, I don't think anyone would disagree, there may be men who believe this (mostly younger men), but they will eventually figure it out, I'll admit I didn't figure it out until around 20 😂. I won't discuss Tinder, because looks matter more than people than admit, it's really that simple. The common statement given is that as long as you're attracted enough and not out of shape, personality takes over, both men and women know almost instantly if you're fuckable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:16 PM
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That's true, it would be awesome if it was 50/50, but it's unfortunately not. I got lucky at 24, she gave me her number, I'm a clueless rookie but even I knew she wanted to smash. We went on a date and had fun from 7PM until the following morning, but I was slightly too needy (clueless rookie) and haven't seen her since, that's life I guess haha. The confidence I gained was priceless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:03 PM
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Thank you for the comment. Remember, men and women are fundamentally different. When making friends and being social, it's both the same in my opinion, but not for dating/hooking up. What do you mean by this? What real life examples have you noticed?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:00 PM
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What a coincidence, so am I. Although, I fully admit that my social skills aren't the best. Therefore I belong to "failing as Men" part.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:14 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:33 PM
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Thank you for the comment. Where are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:20 PM
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Being a mother is the highest honor and I look forward to it. 😊 Good for you, that's awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 05:19 PM
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So many girlfriends and women I have known over the years have put up with so much nonsense off of boyfriends and husbands and excused away atrocious behavior only for him to do it again and again. Finally, a lot of them divorced or left him, but they should have cut him off the first time he lied, cheated, etc. Don't date/marry players, it's really that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 05:13 PM
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You're probably right, it's not fair to assume i know what most men are like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 05:09 PM
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The internet in general has also made people less social, online doesn't count The internet is full of real people. Aside from the occasional bot here and there, every person you talk to on the internet is a real person. Trying to dismiss the way women treat men online as "not real" seems like a very convenient way to dismiss toxic behavior from women online. Nah, i just meant that people are spending less time face to face, thus not developing social skills as much as previous generations, I kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 05:05 PM
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Then complain about there are no good men when they hit 30. That includes average women. They can be as picky as they like, just don't start complaining when there single at 30+, there choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 05:01 PM
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Thank you for the comment. I am often shamed by other women in certain circles because I want to settle down at my age and start a family. What's wrong with wanting to settle down and start a family?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:59 PM
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if I can get an attractive woman one time, I can do it again. It depends on the Man, even a broken clock is right twice a day. It doesn’t require skill for a woman to sleep with a hotter guy. 100% agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:24 PM
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Agreed. I'm not perfect, but I don't blame others for my shortcomings, it all starts with yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:21 PM
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Women have developed superficial standards. Like the minimum to date them is 6ft and have 6 figures. Like that’s less than 10% of population in the USA. Women would prefer a Man who's "Top 10%", in the same way that I would prefer a Woman who looks like an Instagram Model, there's nothing wrong with having fantasies. However the majority of people (both Men and Women) aren't like that, hence the word "Average". Do you really believe that only 10% (1 out of 10 Men) are dating or involved in hooki…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:20 PM
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That's true, I guess. Doesn't it work the other way around as well? If a 6/10 Man hooks up with an 8/10 Woman, he suddenly has a surge in confidence until it either runs out or continues to build. At least, that's what I've noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:11 PM
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Many Men who go through a Hoe phase often say the same thing, why do you think this is?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:06 PM
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I'm not redpilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:53 PM
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He's 25, in a relationship from 17-22, broke up and now fucks non-stop. Some of them are really hot, but most aren't. Alcohol, drugs, confidence and charisma attracts a lot of shallow Women. I used to be jealous of him when I was younger, but he's definitely on a downward spiral in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:28 PM
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Yeah those are hot guys. Not always, the Man I know who pulls the most is an average looking guy, the only remarkable quality about him (in regards to women) is confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:48 PM
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You're certainly correct, but that's talking mostly about relationships. I've seen Men who are unemployed and pessimistic, still have Women in awe of them simply due to confidence, is the bar really that low?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:40 PM
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Thank you for the reply. Now that I think about it, you're right, I've just never thought about it from the perspective of a guy who gets laid a lot, as I'm not one of those guys myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 08:29 PM
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So he has hooked up with over 100 women because he can't maintain a relationship. Over 100 doesn't seem bad, some guys struggle to even imagine that being a possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 08:05 PM
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Myself and my closest friend are both 25, we socialize a lot (maybe 3-4 times per week), but we socialize in places that Women don't often visit, like at all. Living in a small town (UK) doesn't help either, I could walk from one end to the other in about 15 minutes, and not see any Women (age 20-30) in that whole time, we are avarage looking Men, therefore OLD doesn't work. The only times that we see women are on a weekend, but our game and confidence is basically 0, due to not practicing enoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 08:00 PM
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They can’t even wash their asses. 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 03:10 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:44 PM
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Thank you for the comment. What is your age group?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:16 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:09 PM
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Thank you for the comment. I believe this is why online dating never worked for me-I was never able to find any of these random men attractive because there wasn’t enough interaction. It works slightly differently for most Men, we don't get many matches, therefore we often take what we can (I know how sad this sounds but it's true). Although, I've noticed that I can't crack jokes and make conversation with a random stranger on Tinder, simply because I found them physically attractive. It would b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:06 PM
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Attractive people are not necessarily good people. Very true. The halo effect is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:58 PM
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That's true. Everyone's different, some people are promiscuous, while others aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:54 PM
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I don't disagree with you, but I've seen Women hook up (or at least kissing) with a guy within an hour of meeting each other. Attraction can definitely be built up over time, but I've seen it myself that it's not always true. I apologize if this seems pessimistic, I didn't mean it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:47 PM
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Thank you for the comment. No for me not but that still doesn’t mean that I would like to have sex with every men I find attractive That's more than fair, other qualities such as charm, charisma, humor, confidence etc, are all important as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:43 PM
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Oh yes, Murica.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:24 PM
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That's fair, we all like different things. Could you please explain what they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:23 PM
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To each their own, however if your standards are Jason Mamoa, I wish you the best of luck in finding someone who looks similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:18 PM
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Thank you for the comment. Where in the world do you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:15 PM
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Thank you for the comment. The truth is that there are 8 billion people on the planet, nobody really knows what the average person truly looks like, If you claim to know, you're probably lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:41 PM
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That's fair, everyone can appreciate an attractive person, regardless of sexual orientation. Looks bar is the one men should be asking about more. Could you please elaborate on this? I've not heard the term "Looks bar" before.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:22 PM
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Thank you for the comment. I think it's fair to assume that Men (including myself) can make a snap decision of yes/no, this may not be true for some men but I think it's most.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:11 PM
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Everyone else is an NPC. That's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:08 PM
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Thank you for the comment. It does not mean they are unattractive. Just that looks don’t usually rate enough in the cost-benefit-analysis of risking time and safety. I have friends (mid 20's) who are REALLY good looking, including one who could be a literal model, he does well with Women, although that's to be expected, he really takes care of his body. However the guy I know who does the best is an average Man, you probably wouldn't notice him in a crowd, although his social skills are top notc…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:05 PM
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Thank you for the comment, it's a tough lesson to learn but it's the truth, it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:57 PM
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I (25m) tried watching Porn for the first time at the age of 12/13, while sitting in my bedroom. My door was wide open and my mother walked in, I learned that day that it's spelled "Porn" and not "Pawn", luckily I didn't make it to pornhub. To answer your question, my Son/Daughter will probably start watching it even earlier than I did due to how early kids use the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 06:36 PM
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I agree with all of this bro, it also works the opposite way around. women like attorneys - they like attorneys who are attractive; you can't be an obese, bald, short attorney women like athletes - they like athletes who are attractive; you can't be a 5'1" hairy weightlifter with a unibrow and a hook nose, with 12 rotten teeth women like ambitious guys - they like ambitious guys who are attractive I was at work recently and I couldn't help but stare out the window due to boredom, I watched two n…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:38 PM
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No. 25m
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 06:59 PM
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That's fair. I often wish that OLD wasn't a thing, but then again, I'd have a different opinion if I had all the options. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 09:14 PM
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That's true. It's like being in a room with 10 Men and 2 Women, the "majority" of Men won't pull.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 09:12 PM
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Thank you for the honesty. If the roles were reversed and I had as much attention as some women, I'd probably be extremely selective too. How long have you been using tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 09:10 PM
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Interesting. What's your type?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 08:11 PM
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Thank you for the comment. Anyone can become sexy in my eyes if they have a great personality. And I know there’s guys reading this right now thinking “that’s a lie”, but that’s how I personally feel. The Man i know who gets around the most is very similar to myself in terms of looks, but he's one hell of a flirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 08:09 PM
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If the guy just has a selfie at home or drinking at a bar, those don't really give me a lot to work with. I didn't need such a personal attack haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 08:03 PM
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Thank you for the reply. You can't help who you are attracted to. That's true, i wouldn't pretend to be attracted to a Women when I'm not, Can't blame others for having an opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:22 PM
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Thank you for the comment. On the rare occasion that i do match with someone, i genuinely don't know what to message them, some people are better over text but I'm clearly not one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:18 PM
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Thank you for the reply. I socialize around two-three times week, although to be completely honest, i know that my issue is that I'm too introverted and I'm certainly not the life of the party. Also, low self-esteem is a kick in the balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:15 PM
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I suppose that makes sense, much like how YouTube recommends popular videos. My friend has a saying, "Money goes to Money".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:08 PM
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I think you may be mistaken. I'm a straight 25 year old Man, I have no interest in having sexual relations with Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:18 PM
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Thank you for the comment. I've known for around 4-5 years at this point, but I'm still sometimes surprised when I see my close friend (player) doing his thing when out together.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:15 PM
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The Women who use Men as a shoulder to lean on, while complaining about how they aren't getting attention off another Man. I know, because I was one of them in my late teens. It's a tale as old as time itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:13 PM
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Thank you for the comment. The vast majority of people are average, it's perfectly fine to thirst over celebrities such as Henry Cavil or Margot Robbie, but I've noticed that Men are more honest about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:11 PM
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That's fair. Physical attraction is such a given when we’re talking about romantic relationships among people who actually want to have sex, so a lot of people don’t feel the need to reinstate it. You'd be surprised how many Men don't know this (or don't want to acknowledge it), I was one of them in the past and I genuinely feel sorry for younger Men who are going through this. Just be nice bro
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:07 PM
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Thank you for the comment. I’ve dated an asshole and he made me miserable! I certainly did not want to spend my life miserable. That's completely understandable, it would be strange if you didn't think this way to be honest, but I just wish that Women didn't lie and claim that being nice is the number one quality they want in a Man, it's an added bonus on top of wanting to fuck his brains out. It also works the other way around, I'm sexually attracted to Amber Heard, despite the fact she's fucki…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:38 PM
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Thank you for the comment. No man wants the town bicycle, especially not for a long term relationship. I 100% believe that there are Women out there who won't cheat or provide childish drama, it's fine to break up and move on, but never cheat. Past behavior is the best predictor of future behavior. Hoes don't make good housewives. Yes, I couldn't agree more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:54 PM
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That's fair, location is a big factor. I live in a small town in England haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:10 PM
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That's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:28 PM
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Thank you for the comment. I've been to parties where all I did was stand there and got laid. I don't doubt you, but even the "chads" that I know, need good social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:23 PM
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That's fair. Are you in a position where you could have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:14 PM
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That's fair. Are you in a position where you could have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:14 PM
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Yeah, you're right. I genuinely have no idea what I'm doing when it comes to Women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 04:05 PM
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That's fair. Would you consider yourself an above-avarage looking Man? I'd personally consider myself 6/10 in terms of looks, and I don't often get matches on Tinder. My social skills are also not too good, so that's also a downside.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:08 PM
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That's fair. Would you consider yourself an above-avarage looking Man? I'd personally consider myself 6/10 in terms of looks, and I don't often get matches on Tinder. My social skills are also not too good, so that's also a downside.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:08 PM
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Thank you for the comment. Would you say that these guys were selfish in bed, Because they knew it was only a ONS? I've heard many times from my friends (the player ones) that they don't care about the Women's needs and only use them as a human flesh light. Not 100% of the time, but more often than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:04 PM
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That's fair. If it works for you, then by all means, have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:56 PM
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Yeah. I've only had sex a handful of times, the "new" factor has already worn off. I'd rather masturbate more often than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:52 PM
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FWB seems like a good option, but I don't have too many friends who are Women, only acquaintances who I see every now and again. Although having sex with someone who you genuinely enjoy the company of, does seem better than a random stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:50 PM
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That's more than fair. You do you bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:34 PM
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Thank you for the comment. Everyone is different, you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:27 PM
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Yeah... As someone who doesn't drink alcohol (much) or take drugs, it's not something I want to do. If it's who you are, then have fun, but it's not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:26 PM
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Thank you for the comment. I couldn't agree more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:17 PM
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Thank you for the comment. I can only go off my own experience, my friends simply don't give a fuck about the Women they have sex with, except two, who are in long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:16 PM
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Thank you for the comment. I'm in that boat right now. How old were you when you stopped giving a fuck if you got laid or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:14 PM
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Thank you for the comment. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:09 PM
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That's fair. I can only go off my own experience, it's topically how my friends go about it. Get drunk/high at someone's house for two days straight, and fuck whoever can be bothered in order to "keep the party going". It's probably why it doesn't appeal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:04 PM
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I agree with the last paragraph. If I was good with attracting Women at age 18, I might be a huge fan of casual sex, since I'd be having it regularly. Such is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:02 PM
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That's fair, to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:00 PM
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Agreed. We are all human at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:59 AM
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It's a double edged sword. On one hand, I can't be bothered with putting the work in as an average man, and not a chad. On the other hand, I like the validation that comes from being lusted over by attractive Women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:58 AM
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Agreed. I'm in Magaluf next week with my friends (6 of us, all 25 and single). The rules are slightly different over there as it's a chance to let loose and have fun, but I would really bother back home in the UK. But then again, everyone is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:57 AM
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Thank you for the comment. I tried casual sex once. I found the sluttiest guy possible with the highest n count. He was recovering from a brutal heroin and meth addiction (clean for 2 months) so I guess I shouldn't have been surprised he lasted all of 3 minutes. Terribly disappointing and it taught me not to hang out with, date, or hook up with drug people. What is it about deadbeat Men that attract women?. I'm not a nice guy and I fully understand that Red Flags are sometimes attractive (doesn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:32 AM
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No, I just really wish I was someone else at times. I can feel myself slowly slipping down a dark path and i want to stop before it's too late. I wrote the post and replied to the comments while in a down mood, I now realize just how sad my replies have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 10:06 PM
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Thank you. Due to the fact that I'm a Man, I've never had a PUA try and hit on me, I appreciate the honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 07:36 PM
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Thank you for the comment. As I said in the post, some men do take it too far, sex, dating and relationships are all fun and games but only as long as it doesn't control you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 07:35 PM
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Rule #1 and #2 bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 07:00 PM
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No, I've got two friends who get laid a lot, it's based on my own experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:58 PM
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Thank you for the comment. PUA (pickup artists) are often viewed negatively due to the perception that they lack natural charm with women. This may sound stupid, but I can't seem to grasp what natural charm is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:57 PM
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Thank you for the comment. Certain people refusing to believe that you can change your identity and improve I (25m) lost my virginity at 24, it's most definitely my insecure taking control, but I refuse to remain the loser that I once was. People who are naturally good at social skills and say "just be yourself" have no genuine idea what it's like to fail at basic human stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:40 PM
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I agree that they are aggressive, it's extremely narcissistic and mostly likely unhealthy. Sex is cool but not as important as they make it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:21 PM
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Not exactly what I had in mind, but yes. Barney from HIMYM, Joey from Friends, Charlie from Two and Half Men Many more examples but you get the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:18 PM
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Thank you for the further explanation, it's giving me a few things to think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:17 PM
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That's fair. Pulling is pulling, PUA just have a black belt in flirting due to years of trial and error.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:11 PM
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That’s the girl desiring your friend because they found him attractive. He's got that many Women on the go that he can no longer keep track, this is basically what a PUA is. I should have explained, that's my mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:09 PM
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There is definitely a bunch of grifters in the lot, but PUAs are hated because most of their techniques actually work: it's a numbers game and if you behave like an insolent ass who does not care about anything, a decent number of women will have "tingles". It's not a coincidence that the same men get girls over and over and over again. If picking up women is like fishing, PUA fish with dynamite. A very frown upon technique, but it will bring you some fish... It won't attract a high quality woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:00 PM
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Thank you for the comment. Learning social skills such as flirting will always be beneficial, PUA's have just learned from years of trial and error. If any unattractive Man believes he can compete with a ripped gym guy, he's honestly an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:56 PM
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That's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:53 PM
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Thank you for the comment. I (lesbian) actually read “The Art of Seduction” and tried the techniques on two people. Both became extremely needy and started reading me/sending me poetry. I don’t have time for that. I know what book I'm reading next. They are looked down upon because they are manipulative and presumably can’t get women without pretending to be someone entirely different. You're probably right, but how would a Man have casual sex by just relying on himself? Even something as simple…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:51 PM
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Thank you for the comment. They try tactics to manipulate people rather than relying on how they actually feel about situations. Every single Man I've seen who's flirted has used tactics, otherwise it's nothing more than a boring conversation. There is absolutely nothing wrong with advocating for men to be confident. The issue comes in when their confidence would be based on the amount of women they could manipulate to sleep with them. I can't speak for everyone, but the men I know who get aroun…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:48 PM
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I agree. In general, women want men who “just get it”. I think women can rationally understand male weakness and inadequacies but they do not understand it emotionally or have much patience for it. Yeah, you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:37 PM
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That's completely fair, I respect your opinion and also agree with it. But I (25m) have seen my friends speak to a girl for a few minutes and kissing them in hardly anytime at all. Maybe it's just my own insecurity, but I honestly wish I could do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:34 PM
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Thank you for the comment. Majority are scammers. “Buy my program and you can get any woman in to bed”. Anyone who buys something from a PUA is extremely gullible. They sell a dream they can’t deliver on. It all comes down to the individual. They also propose ideas that could be seen as harassing. All they do is talk to girls with confidence and make them laugh, that's really hard for a lot of Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:31 PM
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I agree, I sometimes watch videos on YouTube and scoff at their mindset or "techniques", but you simply can't argue with their numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:28 PM
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Thank you for the comment. I (25m) struggle with flirting, mostly due to a lack of confidence, it's not a coincidence that I lost my virginity at 24. I'm truly dumbfounded that some guys are so confident with flirting that they have the experience to coach other Men. Although, I'm not gullible, I know that nobody can teach you confidence, it all comes down to the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:26 PM
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Thank you for the comment. No downvote from me, I understand that we all have a preference, I can't say the same for other Men who read this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:42 PM
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Thank you for the comment. What would you personally consider a micropenis?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:39 PM
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Thank you for the comment. I'm 25M. ** in the interest of transparency, when I was 8 years old all my friends and I did measure and self reported our dick sizes (average was approximately 32 inches). 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:16 PM
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That's fair, I would advise anyone against it. Although, I managed to pull it back and we had a good time, at least I never have to lose my virginity again lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:32 PM
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Thank you for the comment. It's good to know that I'm average and not small, it helps put things in perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:30 PM
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I agree. I've not had a woman whip out a sex toy but ill definitely not take it as an offence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:21 PM
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The only thing that would be a negative is if a man was neurotic or self conscious about it. If I was sleeping with a guy for the first time and he said anything about how small his dick was I would probably be out because it isn't sexy to think like that. I agree, I wouldn't say this as it's something I came to terms with many years ago. Although, I said I was a virgin and I saw the lust in her eyes go out like a light.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:00 PM
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I've heard from various places (both online and in real life) that hitting the cervix feels like being punched from the inside out, does that sound about right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:57 PM
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Thank you for the comment. Guys who have big dicks and don't know how to use them are a nightmare. Not enough lube, shoving it in too hard, etc. It hurts! I suppose an advantage is that I could always go balls deep with very little thought before hand. Also keep in mind that a dildo is usually just being manoeuvred by hand, and the woman can adjust how much force she's using. A dick has a whole man's worth of weight behind it. A bigger dildo =/= a big dick. That makes a lot of sense, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:41 PM
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Thabks. Do you have 4 kids to the same Man? Are you married to this Man? Feel free not to answer if you don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:39 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:37 PM
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I've never thought of it that way. It's good to know for later.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:36 PM
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Thank you for the comment. I wish more Women were like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:32 PM
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Some people can't handle the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:28 PM
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Thank you for the comment, I respect your answer. Monster dicks are highly impractical. 7in+ territory is very very difficult. The Reddit pages that focus on big dicks, are obviously going to attract people who are into that. I'm confident in knowing the size that I like most. I'd only consider dating a guy with a smaller dick if he wore a cock sleeve to add texture, girth, or length during sex. What would you consider small? The same size as his index finger?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:17 PM
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Thank you for the comment. You kind of need extra space to hold it and use it comfortably, which isn't the case for a dick. Insertable length is usually 5-6 inches. As a Man, I've never once thought about this, but it makes sense, unless you're fucking the invisible Man 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:11 PM
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Thank you for the comment. May I ask you a follow up question?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:09 PM
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That's more than fair. Talking to a woman who's interested is like a pleasant downhill stroll, while talking to a woman who's not interested in an uphill battle. Much like how people make friends, you can tell in the first few minutes if you're going to get along with him/her. At the end of the day, people are just that, people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:54 PM
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Thank you for the honest answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:51 PM
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