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| 130 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother. | Debate | Spirited-Ship-1041 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 03:59 PM |
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| 1 | Sex cannot simultaneously be a privilege for women while also having negative social and physical consequences.And your question says that it can't be a privilege while being a negative consequence mental or physically right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Sex cannot simultaneously be a privilege for women while also having negative social and physical consequences.Yes it can... Because some girls may not care about the negative social consequences. There are plenty that don't. Also the physical consequences aren't predetermined. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy.Bro you could have just told us the artist. It's not that deep. But yeah not surprising that male celebrities get tons of attention from females regardless of whether they are morally good or bad. I thought that's always been known. Now you could probably say that I gave you a bigger perspective seeing it up close but,... This has always been the case. Now it depends on how you perceive it. In my case I personally feel like there is no reason for most other guys should try and his dad needs with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.I’ve gotten quite a few results With Hookers. Congrats | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Cope with the fact that you're a prick. And I don't care approach and get no results like always | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 07:00 AM |
| 2 | Redditors really live in a bubble, that's why I would take people's takes here with a grain of saltI consider this Reddit sub a lot more honest than most of the mainstream Reddit subs I'd like to tell you a whole bunch of bullshit and made up claims | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Women are equally as guilty when it comes to “the wall” stereotypes.I’ve noticed that whenever men on here reject the idea of the wall, some women will still insist, “NO, THAT IS A LIE. MEN DO NOT LIKE OLDER WOMEN.” Now a few years ago on Reddit this was the norm. But I haven't heard women say this that often. Now if women are actually saying this.... Then they are full of shit. Id argue that alot of men do like Older women. But most older women do NOT like younger men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 09:10 PM |
| – | Dating apps and social media give women an extreme power imbalance in relationshipsYou most definitely will die if you drink nothing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 05:54 PM |
| – | Dating apps and social media give women an extreme power imbalance in relationshipsWhet? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 05:45 PM |
| – | Dating apps and social media give women an extreme power imbalance in relationshipsThat's just your experience tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 05:23 PM |
| – | Dating apps and social media give women an extreme power imbalance in relationshipsCan you speak plainly? Your metaphors are going right over my head Chris Brown 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 05:09 PM |
| – | Dating apps and social media give women an extreme power imbalance in relationshipsOf course a woman completely jumps the gun and makes an assumption. And even worse you assume that only hot ones get this type of attention | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 05:08 PM |
| – | Dating apps and social media give women an extreme power imbalance in relationshipsNot really. They may get alot of options they don't Like. But they still have more options of good every now and again then men do. Because most women don't end up single forever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 04:57 PM |
| – | Dating apps and social media give women an extreme power imbalance in relationshipsI wouldn't if I don't have to. But it's still an advantage over men who are offered next to nothing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 04:49 PM |
| – | Dating apps and social media give women an extreme power imbalance in relationshipsBecause you can see droves of men on the comments of their pictures. Alot of these men are either older than 35+, live in places like Arizona, Cali, NY, (which likely means they didn't go to my school), and alot of these men would say things like I want to fly you out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 04:48 PM |
| – | Dating apps and social media give women an extreme power imbalance in relationshipsI don't see where this going | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 04:45 PM |
| – | Dating apps and social media give women an extreme power imbalance in relationshipsNo. I am followed to most of my old friends and classmates from school. It's alot more than acquaintances and friends on their social media accounts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 04:44 PM |
| – | Dating apps and social media give women an extreme power imbalance in relationshipsBasically. Beyonce was scorned in that one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 04:43 PM |
| – | Dating apps and social media give women an extreme power imbalance in relationshipsYeah of course. Let's just live in la la land shall we. Women over the age of 20 never post themselves on social media for validation. Watcha gonna say next? Women over 20 don't get on dating apps after 20 as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 04:42 PM |
| – | Dating apps and social media give women an extreme power imbalance in relationshipsI don't get why your immediate reaction to power imbalance of men is physical strength. What a nice way of gaslighting him. I think he was referring to power imbalance as far as financial and social power | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 04:41 PM |
| – | Dating apps and social media give women an extreme power imbalance in relationshipsUnlimited supply of flat soda is better than being dehydrated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 04:37 PM |
| – | Dating apps and social media give women an extreme power imbalance in relationshipsBut most women look normal and only get followed by their friends and acquaintances on social media. Women actually believe this 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 04:36 PM |
| – | Dating apps and social media give women an extreme power imbalance in relationshipsBasically purple pill version of ..... "its a skill issue" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 04:36 PM |
| – | Dating apps and social media give women an extreme power imbalance in relationships" I have alot more options than you and odds are I can get another you in a few hours with the swipe of a finger. If you're not ok with that than you must be insecure " The absolute rich and condensing logic of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 04:33 PM |
| – | Dating apps and social media give women an extreme power imbalance in relationshipsThe worst type of logic I've ever heard. So therefore women should always take a man's word at face value because it reeks of insecurity of she doesn't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 04:28 PM |
| – | Dating apps and social media give women an extreme power imbalance in relationships90% of my girl friends IG are filled with their hobbies and everyday life and you'd need to scroll some before you see a selfie. In these cases, hot or not, you get close to no attention from men on the app. Id argue that most women don't do this. And actually use social media for some validation on their looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 04:27 PM |
| – | Dating apps and social media give women an extreme power imbalance in relationshipsAnd I hate the fact of cold approaching... Because unless I'm an utter stud or Chad the odds of me moving on and replacing the women I'm with is dependent on how many women I approach. Let's say it's been a slow month and I haven't been approaching as much. Well now I'm screwed because I have less options to rebound with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Why would any guy want to base his life by approaching thousands of women for that little results? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Nah. Just a realistic ones. And most guys don't wanna deal with that level of rejection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 08:00 PM |
| 0 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Nah that shows you're painfully out of touch. Most guys don't do it breeds abysmally low results. I think the success rate of even some of the most skilled seducers and cold approachers are like still 10 percent at the most. So average guys are starting at probably less than 1 percent. And that's average guys. Haven't even begun to talk about the below average men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.It's definitely not It definitely is otherwise most guys would be doing it Why do you think that is too hard? Different types of girls like different types of guys. Some women, no matter how experienced you are, are going to give you harsh rejections. Dude it's so obvious that I really question whether you're being serious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.It's not at all a waste of time. You learn things about people as you go on. But don't just ask them out as soon as you meet them. Come on guys just try pick up sometime. It's way too hard for guys to get good at to be useful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.I've approached women many times before sir. If you got lucky that's good for you. I don't think it's a good idea to stop men who like to cold approach. But I don't think it's a good method for most guys to do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Men are turned off by women approaching them CMVWhen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Men are turned off by women approaching them CMVBoth of you need to work to save money and build assets. That's a requirement for almost 80 percent of relationships. You don't both need to work to survive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Men are turned off by women approaching them CMVSo it's not hypocritical for him to point that out then. According to your other comment you were framing him as being hypocritical | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 05:47 PM |
| 4 | Men are turned off by women approaching them CMVThat's fine. But again he's not campaigning that women should only approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Men are turned off by women approaching them CMVIt's enough for him to be the primary provider | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Men are turned off by women approaching them CMVMost women don’t make enough to support a family on one income. Neither do most men. Women just expect a man to make enough money to contribute to the household and not be a dead end loser. But according to you most women work. But you don't know if those women are contributing the same amount towards the bills like the guy is. Just like you used the same argument for men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Men are turned off by women approaching them CMVYou can say the same thing for that women tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Men are turned off by women approaching them CMVNo they aren’t. Most men don’t provide anymore. Most women have to work. Most men make more than women so where do you think most of that money is going? Hookers and Booze? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 03:19 PM |
| 3 | Men are turned off by women approaching them CMVBut he's not making the case that only women should approach or whether or not women should approach at all. The women on this forum are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 03:18 PM |
| 5 | Men are turned off by women approaching them CMVThey will find any excuse to not make the first move | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Men are turned off by women approaching them CMVGive us a number of men you have approached | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 03:10 PM |
| 0 | Men are turned off by women approaching them CMVYou're a girl. Unfortunately you don't count | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 03:06 PM |
| – | Are men becoming ok with no sex?Proud of you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 03:03 PM |
| 6 | Why do the people of society confuse young boys and men regarding how they are supposed to attract women?I will never understand how so many guys seemed to miss it. How socially retarded would you need to be? Social retardation has nothing to do with it. Guys are brought up knowing looks matter but are somewhat given the impression that women care more about personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Well one of the primary reasons I don't like cold approaching. Unless you are very smooth or very attractive you basically like blade saws ice skating uphill. It's a losing game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 02:59 PM |
| 4 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Unless you're exactly their type | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 07:43 AM |
| 3 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Maybe you shouldn't go to women with a lot of make-up on, and superfecial looking woman, if you ever did. I wouldn't matter if she didn't have any. She's gonna have high standards in most cases if she's a 5 or an above Why the fuck do you have to keep saying that shit? "It only works for those who are attractive Because the overwhelming majority of the time that's the case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 07:39 AM |
| 4 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.As someone who knows plenty of guys who cold approach. They don't do this. I think you're underestimating how hard it is to cold approach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Why narcissistic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 07:35 AM |
| 3 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Do you see the problem with your logic tho? Realistically most men are going to adopt that mindset just because we say so .... And it's hard for men to think that positively with their lack of success | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 07:34 AM |
| 4 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.You're being sarcastic but how many dudes encounter that exact scenario dozens of times? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 07:33 AM |
| 2 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.I talk to strangers all the time genius. That doesn't mean I cold approach. Bad comment is just bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 02:37 AM |
| – | Calling men who you disagree with "Weird" is A Toxic FemininityWomen do this a fuck ton. I know exactly what you mean. It's one of women's favorite things to call men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 10:18 PM |
| 4 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.In order for you to get even a modicum of succession code approach unless you're extremely lucky you have to approach a lot more women than just one or two a week | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Yeah but now the talk about social you're starting to get a little ridiculous now. I don't think anybody's implying that talking to people is is a super hard test to do. The problem is if your coding protein you have to talk to people socialize and get them to like you that's the hard part | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 09:07 PM |
| 9 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.That's your mindset. That's not how most men think about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 09:06 PM |
| 10 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Yes they have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Their are some positives. You can make alot of friends and learn some social skills yeah. But I think Cold approaching for friends is great. Approaching with romantic interests is where the results are lack luster | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 06:15 PM |
| 3 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.😢 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 06:14 PM |
| 9 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.This is why cold approaches are so viscerally aggravating. It’s just some random guy gambling on the chance that his awkward disruption of someone’s day might randomly lead to sex. After the 3000th time this happens, you begin to really resent it. I think you're trying to hard to paint the guy as a villain. In most scenarios guys have to make the first move so he can't get your attention without approaching. My problem is unless you are super attractive or suave your success rate is gonna be ins… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.You said it better than I could | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Point is, getting girls shouldn't be "work". If cold approaching feels like work instead of fun, you're doing it wrong. I've never been a fan of this logic either. Because most guys aren't going to be doing come approach correctly because they aren't good at it and cold approaching is difficult | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.But I don't think you need to be a stud to cold-approach the cute nerdy-looking girl at the coffee shop. You just need good social skills and, like you said, be good at making conversation Even then I wouldn't say most guys are in that category either. Making conversation with strangers is alot harder than people promote it is. And having good conversation to make them want to date you is another thing in it's entirety. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 05:58 PM |
| 7 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Yes, the 90 seconds i spent to say hi and see if she's interested was a huge time waster... lol I hate when dudes try to lie to make their point Better. Realistically you are not going to be talking to women for 90 seconds and getting numbers unless you are insanely attractive. Most guys have to make conversation that is alot longer to make a better impression on the girl you want. And the process doesn't end when you gained good rapport. You usually have to have somewhat deeper level conversati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Dude I know dudes who have approached over 100 and still got like none. That's why I say fuck it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 05:39 PM |
| 4 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.You can approach in the supermarket or library if you're a Chad haha. I think for most average men bars, and clubs can very intimidating and too high competition. But I agree most approaching ( warm approaching) should be done in more social environments | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Yes. And for a lot of guys cold approaching does work. How can you realistically say that tho? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.But the idea that this is pointless just because you don't have an immediate guarantee of deeper compatibility is very strange to me. All relationships have to start somewhere, and there is nothing wrong with starting at a point of superficial attraction as long as you are open to developing it into something deeper from there. Well that's generally how most attraction works. But unfortunately if you're not a Chad you're kinda wasting your time. The uphill battle unless you are a great conversat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 05:27 PM |
| 4 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.That's quite the leap in logic. Meet people online or through friends or in walking clubs or whatnot. Don't impose your will on a woman who just wants to go about her day in peace. It's amazing that you assume that my logic is a leap but cold approaching is imposing your will on a woman somehow is not. Regardless of friends and online if you don't talk to people you don't know you won't meet anyone. You can perfectly approach a woman in a non confrontational and non imposing way. My philosophy i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 05:25 PM |
| 4 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.I seen my fair share of chads get good results from cold approach. They still get rejected by not nearly as much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.This depends upon where one cold approaches. It can work very well at a bar or a club. Women can be just as attracted to a man’s looks and demeanor as a man can for a woman. But how often are they attracted to man by his looks? Extremely rare | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.🤯 meet people live to have more? Huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 05:20 PM |
| 6 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.You lose time. And you don't think you got lucky? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 05:19 PM |
| 4 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Great point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 05:19 PM |
| 4 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Well you can apply that to anything then right? So anything is worth trying if it's not a zero percent chance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Yeah but ultimately guys do want dates, hookups, and relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.And I've seen those same men clean old during cold approach. Different experiences? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.In theory. But that doesn't all of sudden mean that those women are interested in getting to know you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Lol dude you gone get me arrested 😭😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Trying to sound educated when actually you just sound ignorant. I have cold approached many times sir | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 04:59 PM |
| 5 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.I think it's massive amount of effort,time, and rejection to get abysmal results | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 04:59 PM |
| 3 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.!Delta! I agree with this assessment whole heartedly. But what hurts is that most men arent in that upper uchelon category of men. And it's very hard to get to that category | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 04:58 PM |
| 4 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.You can use social circle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.But only if he's physically attractive himself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Well I would say cold Approaching is more fulfilling of you're trying to make friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 04:34 PM |
| 5 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.I agree. It's no point unless you're warm approaching. Or she already knows of you already | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 04:28 PM |
| 7 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.I don't see what's so enjoying about the process of having meaningless conversations over and over. I'm friendly. But not THAT friendly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 04:25 PM |
| 4 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.If that's the case nobody is ever gonna talk to people they don't know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Yeah dating these days is fuckin retarded | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 04:23 PM |
| 4 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Attractive women don’t rely on dating apps to find men, that’s why the ratios are so off. They know that when they put effort into their appearance and go out, men will approach them. If you’re after one of these women, you’re going to have to go out and approach them. If you don’t, another guy will. Well if another guy approaches her it doesn't really mean anything. 99 percent of guys who approach her won't get anywhere. The 1 percent that does is another Chad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.I wouldn't go that far. I'd say I understand the philosophy behind it because you are trying to get the know the girl you are attracted to and girls being intimated by men is a given regardless. Most guys try to come off as less intimidating but really hard to do unless you a Chad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 04:19 PM |
| 5 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.How DARE YOU!? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 04:18 PM |
| 19 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Ain't no fucking way 🤦 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 04:17 PM |
| 3 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Well I kinda slightly disagree with you here. Chads a perfectly able to approach without giving the women creep vibes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 04:16 PM |
| 6 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Not knowing. That’s the fun part. Yeah I don't think most men would feel that way if those conversations went no where | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Yeah but imo it's like a probability thing. Girls are picky so why go for the more risky methods that's less likely to work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Hmmm. I guess it depends on what your version of a cold approach is. In most scenarios I'd say if you're not good looking you'll have to find an "excuse" to talk to the girl. If you are physically attractive than yeah you can just walk up directly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Why do straight women like other women so much more than they like men?I've said it many times before. It's easier to date as a gay women than a straight man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 03:50 PM |
| 1 | “More women should start approaching men” and the average guy would still be invisibleMost women aren't approaching men. We're talking maybe less than 5 percent of the female population | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 03:41 PM |
| 3 | Why do *some men, try to convince virginal & low n count women to have sex without marriage/commitment?Because some guys are desperate or selfish. You don't need to date those guys just move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 06:39 PM |
| 6 | Virgin shaming isnt real.Technically incel is not the same as virgin. I agree. The problem is that you are more likely to encounter virgins that are incels. Most men are virgins by choice. So in the same token they are inadvertently shaming virgins/incels. Incel is a man that hasn’t had sex at all or recently and blames woman for it, whist celebrates any violence/rape against woman and constantly wants woman punished for being unable to control one. I think you took a lot of liberties to explain what an incel is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Virgin shaming isnt real.There’s still proof real rapes happen and theyre own social media. But again. You don't know if the guy who commented has seen it. That's the point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 05:19 PM |
| 4 | Virgin shaming isnt real.That’s because how incels themselves behave. So are confirming the term is being used to insult? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 04:53 PM |
| 2 | For those who can’t/don’t partner, would you eliminate the desire to?I would solve most of my life problems if I had no desire to chase/fuck women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 04:42 PM |
| 3 | Virgin shaming isnt real.Key Word Depict. You don't personally know the guy. What if he's never actually seen a rape go down? Or what if he's never actually seen rape in a movie/tv show? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 04:41 PM |
| 3 | Virgin shaming isnt real.No its not and you know its not Are you kidding me? When you hear the term incel thrown around does it usually come from a form of endearment? There’s a pattern, especially in this subreddit, where assholes downplay their vile behavior to look like victims. Of course. Nobody sees themselves as an asshole. But you're utter dismissal of incel/virgin shaming is very telling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 04:40 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Males are intimidated by highly educated successful womenWhat is more likely is that they can't find the "type" of man that they feel they deserve. That's all women buddy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 04:37 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Males are intimidated by highly educated successful womenWomen who make more money and are more successful tend to be more aggressive. That goes for men and women alike. They have to be in order to be more successful than others. And to run businesses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 04:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Males are intimidated by highly educated successful womenMhm, and isn’t it interesting how men with attitude are viewed as an alpha boss, while women with attitude are seen as annoying bitches? Nah. Those guys are looked at ass Assholes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 04:34 PM |
| 9 | CMV: Males are intimidated by highly educated successful womenBeing an honest male here. I am sometimes intimidated by very successful women. But I think I speak for most men when I say our lack of success/effort doesn't correlate with us being intimated. Or more of the fact that women don't respect men who don't make their equal if not more than them. And those women tend to be a pain in the ass | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 04:34 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Males are intimidated by highly educated successful womenWomen don't respect men who makes less than them. Now for all the people who are gonna say I've date a woman who makes more or a guy who makes less.... Well those are exceptions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 04:31 PM |
| 10 | The double standards around male standardsToo be fair I don't think OP is saying that's outright what he/she believes. Just addressing the standard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 04:29 PM |
| 8 | Virgin shaming isnt real.THIS NEEDS MORE LIKES | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 04:27 PM |
| 23 | Virgin shaming isnt real.This is one of the most dumbest posts I have ever seen in my life. The term incel in itself tend to insult men's lack of sex. And men who are incels are alot more likely to virgins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Why do men feel so entitled to women hereNo. But you still wouldn't understand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Why do men feel so entitled to women hereBecause it's what you're presenting. You're saying if these guys weren't so negative they would probably get more success. But not really true because hundreds of other women have claimed the same. It's a situation you as a woman would never understand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Why do men feel so entitled to women hereThis right here... Need more likes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Why do men feel so entitled to women hereIf it was that easy that any girl redditor can point it out do you actually think that these guys would have something to complain about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 07:39 PM |
| 6 | What's more annoying than social media and dating apps ruining us is that people are aware of it but tend to forget about it in mostly any discussionMost people don't forget it. There's a post complaining about OLD even on this sub like every day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 07:29 PM |
| 1 | OLD is not your friend.Because obviously you don't need it. If you are getting woman without it then it's probably a sign that you have great game. | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Would being "just friends" with girls increase your chances of hook ups and relationships?Pain is subjective. Some guys cant handle rejection so I can see why cold approach aint for them. Yes but most guys don't call approach. That should tell you enough in itself that most guys would experience pain on that level You dont need to look like chris hemsworth to do cold approach. Super good looking guys dont need to cold approach. They just do OLD You're right they don't need to go to cold approach. But it is beneficial to them if they do Im 5 7 and certainly not top tier in looks. My g… | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 07:57 AM |
| 1 | OLD is not your friend.Neither has my cousin. He's still a chad also | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Would being "just friends" with girls increase your chances of hook ups and relationships?Yeah but it's only good if you are insanely good looking or have a lot of game. That's why Cold approach works with the chadd only. Social circle Game is a lot of work. But honestly for most guys that are not straight gluttons for pain this is more feasible. You don't have to go out of your way to approach a whole bunch of women and pretend to be super interested in their day. Honestly it's just a gigantic waste of time | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Would being "just friends" with girls increase your chances of hook ups and relationships?Just from a time perspective, you wont achieve the same results via social circle game. If you spent 100 hours doing cold approach vs social circle game, youll get way more results from cold approach. I have. And I got way more results from social circle.. and even OLD as bad as that is right now. It seems like your issue with cold approach is rejections. I guess if you cant handle rejections then you shouldnt do cold approach but its really no big deal. After enough rejections it doesnt even ph… | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 07:32 AM |
| 1 | So many women are taken, should I just try to flirt with taken women?Where? | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Would being "just friends" with girls increase your chances of hook ups and relationships?Youre under the assumption that your conversion rate would be much higher with social circle girls. I doubt that. If you lack the social skills to cold approach, then I doubt you can convert social circle girls either. Disagree. You need much less social skills in social circle because for the most part you're not trying to make a big impression. And plus you don't need to be as forward with your intentions. And in that way you actually get to know the girls and the girls will be more familiar w… | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 06:23 AM |
| 2 | Would being "just friends" with girls increase your chances of hook ups and relationships?Good for you. You can meet alot of girls through cold approach. But it's ultimately in effective if you rejected by all 50 | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 06:05 AM |
| 3 | Would being "just friends" with girls increase your chances of hook ups and relationships?Social circle. | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 05:52 AM |
| 0 | OLD is not your friend.Because you're a Chad | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 05:07 AM |
| 1 | If she starts acting cold, in person or over text, always mirror her behavior. A lot of guys do the opposite, and it backfiresMost | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Would being "just friends" with girls increase your chances of hook ups and relationships?Because it's ineffective for 95% of men. The only man it works for are the ones with very high game or the ones with really good looks. | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 05:00 AM |
| 6 | If she starts acting cold, in person or over text, always mirror her behavior. A lot of guys do the opposite, and it backfiresDisagree | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 05:00 AM |
| 1 | 7 tips on how you can confidently approach group of girls!Cold approaching is unnecessary | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 04:59 AM |
| 1 | How to not make my virginity a negative?Better yet don't tell her | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 04:58 AM |
| 1 | If you know you're not a catch...Yes I would. Which is why I avoid them now | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 04:58 AM |
| 1 | How do I become more seductive?Honestly getting more game is one of the hardest things to learn. I would say focus more on your efforts to make a lot of money or get a lot of status | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 04:56 AM |
| 0 | So many women are taken, should I just try to flirt with taken women?How is it cringe and desperate? | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 04:55 AM |
| 2 | So many women are taken, should I just try to flirt with taken women?There are just as many single women as there are single men That's actually false. | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 04:55 AM |
| 1 | So many women are taken, should I just try to flirt with taken women?There are more women not in relationships and more promiscuous women then you have time to be with Disagree | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 04:53 AM |
| 1 | So many women are taken, should I just try to flirt with taken women?This is true. The vast majority of women are in relationships. And the woman that I promise you is are still extremely picky. The only solution is to look like a male model, get rich, get status, or get game. | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 04:53 AM |
| 2 | Why do some girls reply to OLD messages with one or two word answers?Because women don't need to do any work. Guys do | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 04:52 AM |
| 1 | How to start on InstaIf you're don't have great pictures on Instagram just cut your losses | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 04:52 AM |
| 0 | Would being "just friends" with girls increase your chances of hook ups and relationships?Because cold approach is dumb | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 04:44 AM |
| 3 | Would being "just friends" with girls increase your chances of hook ups and relationships?I don't agree | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Would being "just friends" with girls increase your chances of hook ups and relationships?No not really. If you are an acquaintance then sure. But if you have been a vast amount of time with them and they consider you a close friend then no. Women don't like having sex with their friends. | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to leave the dating scene but still improve with women?I'm trying to figure this out too women are way too complicated | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 04:43 AM |
| 2 | Is it possible to leave the dating scene but still improve with women?I think he's sick of dating I'm general | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 04:42 AM |
| 6 | What’s the best (& most realistic) seductive or charming male character you’ve seen in a movie or a TV show? It can also be a real person in a reality TV show.Hank Moody | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 04:42 AM |
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