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Question For WomenSpirited-Sir8426/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:59 AM
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I think you should put an "8." Since it will be harder to find someone if you want to marry in the future since a category of men tend to refuse a woman with a sexual past while they are in the same boat unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:21 PM
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Tbh I don't really understand how the title and the body connect
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 04:09 PM
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Tbh I never cold approach. The chances to get something from it are really low. Of course I let a woman know if I think she is beautiful (not now since I am with someone) but I will never start something from cold approach. I prefer warm approach
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 10:27 AM
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There are some psychopaths in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 10:24 AM
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Yeah, I never understood this concept. The male fantasy is the "girl" to get at the end of the film. I have also seen a "harem" fantasy were the main character recieve the attention of a lot of girls who are in love with him
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 10:23 AM
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If you reduce women to vagina you should absolutely not date them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 10:18 AM
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Good post. But generally men go from "no one is interrested" to "a group of women are interested" but as you say that might be for different reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 10:58 PM
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I think it's when I feel like I am used. I can do spontanuous things for her like being chivalrous, giving her gifts, being affectionate, making surprise for her (like cooking or anticipate its needs). But if she act as if it's EXPECTED from me and the bare minimum, there is a problem. Especially if she ask for too much things without giving anything in return
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 10:49 PM
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You're a legend. World need more people like you sis
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 10:44 PM
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I am sorry it happened to you. I wish you the best for the future. Thanks for sharing ✨
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 10:39 PM
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I am sorry your environment is that toxic, but this is not the whole reality
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 06:57 AM
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Thanks for sharing! It's interesting because I got different answers, which shows that not everyone is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:59 PM
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Yes, I've noticed that there are different groups of women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:57 PM
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Thanks for sharing your experience! Yes, I understand your relationship with sex given what happened
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:56 PM
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Great, thanks for sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:55 PM
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This is a good point, in the vast majority of human history. It was about the survival of clans, villages or big families. Fertility was just one parameter of a strategy to obtain land, money or exchange of value. People where just pawn. It wasn't about being a good partner, it was about survival
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 08:16 AM
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Wow this is cool. Thanks for sharing! Your paragraph on charisma is on part. You made things easy to understand thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 08:13 AM
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Thanks for sharing! I am happy for you. Did your relationship with sex change when you entered a relationship (in contrast of being single before your first relationship)?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 08:10 AM
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Thank you for sharing your experience! I am happy if you were able to improve your self esteem, congrats. Did your relationship with partenered sex change when you were in a relationship with someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 08:07 AM
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This is a great explanation thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 01:15 AM
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Okay, I hope the best for you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 12:25 AM
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Okay, each person is really different indeed. Thanks for sharing your experience!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 11:22 PM
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Oh I am sorry it become a problem for you. When it affect your health and your surrounding, it's really hard. Did you seek support for your case?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 11:15 PM
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Wow, I am happy for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 11:12 PM
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Hi, thanks for sharing your experience! Indeed each people are different. Do you find it hard or easy to be hypersexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 11:02 PM
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I feel like you're projecting stereotypical fact on me because of my gender. It doesn't help. What I am saying is that the feeling of safety is part of the response but not enougth to explain the dynamic between men and women in regard of their relation to sexual activities
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 11:00 PM
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Those differences translate to "spontanuous" vs "responsive" desire from Rosemary Basson and Emily Nagoski
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:56 PM
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Nope, you should look at the studies of Blumstein & Schwartz "American Couples". Lesbian couples tend to have less sex than heterosexual couples and gay couples tend to have more sex than heterosexual couples. I might be wrong but I don't think safety alone could explain this difference. And please don't jump quickly to conclusions like "all men are dangerous", it doesn't help the discussion. Women's sense of feeling safe is an important topic but making it the only reason for the different sexu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:52 PM
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Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:41 PM
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Okay thanks for your feedback
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:27 PM
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This is interresting. Why does it become a need when you're with your husband. Is it a way to feel loved or to bond with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:25 PM
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Thanks for sharing your experience! So a man's body isn't appealing for a woman. And what about being spontanuousely horny? Is it linked to your menstrual cycle?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:07 PM
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Thanks for sharing your experience. Indeed each person is different
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:55 PM
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I don't underestimate things. I was blessed to have women who taught me about the difficulties women encouter. I just know that this reason alone is not enougth to explain the difference between gender. For instance lesbian couple have lot less sex than heterosexual couples while gay couple have a lot more sex than heterosexual couples
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:53 PM
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Being the prize is gender neutral. Being a good partner is not about if you can have offspring or not
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:37 PM
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This phenomenon was more related to their ideology and the comsuption of birth control pills and other drugs. I could say it could make women feel safer but I don't think that drugging women is the solution. Why not admiting that women and men are different in this topic by nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:30 PM
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From what I have experienced, there are women to marry (=good girls) and nice to fuck women (=bad-girl) the men pursuing the later aren't really interrested in marriage and follow their urge to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:17 PM
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This is interesting, but I don't think it's only a "women are not vocal about it". Generally women's sex drive or libido is way lower than men's. Dead bedrooms are generally the consequence
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:54 PM
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Wow this is a great analogy! Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:42 PM
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Yeah this is true but feeling safe is not enougth to explain that. Women and men are biologically different and their sexuality is a proof of that. What kind of analogy one can use to define women's sexual drive ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:33 PM
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Do you know what is the male gaze and how women are conditionned to be sexual to exist? Women artists and even athlets won't get an audience if they don't sexualize themself. To an environment like this, women really appear if they looks good and sexy. Do you know how much we tell women they don't need to look good or sexy to strive in life while society constantly reward those who act like that. "Pretty priviledge" is not a concept coming from nowhere
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:08 PM
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Tbh, building chemistry is a skill. Of course you can't create it with everyone but with the large majority of people. It's not luck, women are just more passive in this step since women are more passive in the dating phase like men are more lazy in the relationship phase
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:02 PM
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I think it depend of the woman. Some are more selective throwing away men with a crazy past or men with low to no past experience
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 11:49 AM
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The other people calling out modern women's bad behaviour are only "high value men". Don't worry, even incels do that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 11:47 AM
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That's the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 11:37 AM
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Oh I understand. The feeling of being rejected is the worse for a human being. I admire your strength of being vulnerable with me. I was in the same situation before but I realized that life was easier when I decided to love people the way I want without expecting something in return. But truth is, each people have their own way of loving someone. What also helped me is to change my surrounding. I am not that much tall but I did found taller women who where interested in me. Thanks for sharing m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:22 AM
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You're mainly right but who hurt you to the point of being exclusively transactional with women? Also sex is not everything. Being in a relationship only for that is like buying a house to only use the toilet: too costly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:50 AM
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Hi mate, I am sorry you're experiencing this kind of things. Tbh I feel like you have untold pressure who are a typic symptom of your environment. For instance, it looks like having sex is your main goal in life, making your hapiness dependent of someone else. It looks like everything revolve around it: looking for a relationship, your carrier and even the time you spent thinking about it and how it affect you. I have seen the same fixation with women deseperatelly wanting to get married (and ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:46 AM
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No you're completly right. Men and women who struggle in dating are generally shallow with their selection process But I have to tell you women and men apply a similar selection process in women-women/men-men friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:10 AM
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The story in your head looks cool but I find it weird tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:04 PM
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