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The study says that women and men spend equal time on chores but the women get more done.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:20 AM
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I guess they will just have to adopt
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 05:47 PM
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No that’s what you believe
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:00 PM
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We don’t agree on the topic nor will we ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:42 PM
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I mean if it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck….
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:27 PM
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It sounds like you take this way more personally than me. Are you this passionate about all forms of fraud or just the ones perpetrated by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:18 PM
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The difference is choice. If you dine and ditch you leave no choice but for the restaurant to eat the costs. If you attempt to manipulate someone into buying your dinner, they can chose to say no. The difference is choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 02:21 PM
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Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:55 PM
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Sir, please. There are 4.8 billion social media users. At least half that are men. That’s 2.4 billion men. I’m not sure where you think all these non-users are? And honestly, way to pigeon hole every user as posting “near naked” pictures but most of us post fully clothed photos or photos of our dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:49 PM
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I’m sorry, is your point that the men on social media are different then men off social media? Or is it just that 95% of men on social media cannot control themselves when it comes to messaging women for sex? Would your thesis be that social media causes men to become selfish and sex obsessed and men off social media are somehow immune from this? Just curious where you are going on your soapbox.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:41 AM
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Who mentioned instagram?? Are we reading the same thread. DM’s?? Like sir, are you ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:36 AM
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Read the original post. He says 95% of the messages are men looking for sex. I mean come on, we can’t do all the leg work for ya
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:30 AM
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But I was responding to the comment where the OP asked why it sounded like the deck was stacked against women. And I replied that it was because he said 95% just wanted sex. I didn’t claim that statistic, I was just relaying what he had said previously, so 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:26 AM
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So shouldn’t you be asking your question to the person who made that claim, the OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:16 AM
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No, why would you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:30 AM
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Can you rephrase your question. You’re not using the phrase writ large correctly here and it’s making your comment unreadable. Also, the lack of commas, and the fact that it doesn’t pertain to anything I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:42 PM
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Just jumping in here to state the obvious. It’s the 95% that makes it sound like that. Carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 09:40 PM
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I hope there is a kangaroo sitting in the outback right now thinking the same thing about people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:54 PM
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This is such a small portion of the population it’s almost not worth mentioning. How many traditional Arab Australian women are there? According to Wikipedia it’s less then 0.0025% of the population, and that’s just your country not mine. So for this very small population of women who believe they should be chaste while the men in their communities don’t, I say power to them. If they want to live like that, by all means. But I’m so glad I don’t. I am picturing kangaroos driving cars right now an…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:54 PM
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So I’m confused by your logic. In your culture, if women are free to leave the bubble and hang out with progressive educated people then how could there be women in your bubble who end up single and alone being slut shamed for having high body counts? You’re whole premise was based on the slutty women never getting married. But apparently these women can either lie about their body count or leave and go find progressive educated men who don’t care about body counts. So you’re logic doesn’t pan o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:42 PM
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So I’m confused by your logic. In your culture, if women are free to leave the bubble and hang out with progressive educated people then how could there be women in your bubble who end up single and alone being slut shamed for having high body counts? You’re whole premise was based on the slutty women never getting married. But apparently these women can either lie about their body count or leave and go find progressive educated men who don’t care about body counts. So you’re logic doesn’t pan o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:34 PM
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Yes, I’m saying you likely don’t realize that the women in your bubble are lying. I mean think about it? If I lived where you do and had been socialized to know that the available men have a culture of misogyny and demand women with low body counts then you bet your ass I would lie. Why would I openly acknowledge something that would lesson my chances? But thankfully I don’t live in your bubble and am free to do as I please without repercussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:36 PM
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Well I disagree. I don’t think this happens all the time. I also think it’s hysterical that you could for second look at me and be able to tell how many men I’ve slept with. You make it sound like women walk around with their body count on their shirt. They don’t. I could lie and say I’ve slept with 100 men or say I’m a virgin, and you’d never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:03 AM
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Hate to break it to you but in my country I’m considered working class too, so how does that explain your little theory? I was born in Harlem,NY which by definition is one of the roughest neighborhoods around, im sure I can roll in the slums just as well as you. The difference between us is you’re a misogynist and I’m not. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:36 PM
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Lol, I work in politics, trust me I know more criminals then you. You seem to think only poor people or the “underclass” are criminals. They’re not. The type of people you are describing are that way (misogynistic) not because of their crimes or their “bubble,” they are that way because they are poor and uneducated and do not have access to mental health care. Sorry to “burst your bubble.”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:54 PM
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Sounds like you live in Albania. You are in a bubble, I am not. I have lived all over North America and Europe and have not experienced what you described. The thing that did stand out was your mention of a criminal element. I think THAT is what makes your bubble misogynistic. So yeah, if you think criminals are living their best lives then by all means, enjoy your bubble. But it’s not the norm my friend, it’s just a sad little excuse for a home.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:43 PM
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Lol, this is obviously your weird revenge porn fantasy, and is not even passably believable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 02:28 PM
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You haven’t proved a damn thing. If this wasn’t so pathetic, maybe it would be funny. You know I’m right about the car analogy. And you’re literal only response to anything I say is to make seem like I’m obsessed or doing weeks of research. Like please, you waited around for DAYS on this deleted post to see if I would reply to your ramblings. Like come on dude, we both know you give a shit about this, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:17 AM
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Would it help you if I used the word embellish instead of lie? I think you’re the type of person (and this is a made up example) who brags about his brand new Mercedes when in reality he has the basic model and is barely making the LEASE payments. That’s the type of person I think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:18 PM
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Do these rants make sense in you’re head before you type them? They just make you come across as desperate and defensive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 12:43 AM
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Oh bud, I’m not angry. I genuinely feel for you. I’m sorry if I had to get a little harsh there but you were going off on some weird tangents. I think you’re a regular guy who likes to come on Reddit and feel heard. I hear you buddy. But for the love of god please stop sharing so much information about yourself. I say that for security reasons. I’m genuinely concerned about how much of yourself you share with strangers. Please stay safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:25 AM
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Don’t you get it yet? Nothing about you is impressive. That is my entire point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 10:12 AM
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I’m confused as to why you’re asking me what my point was? My point was I think about 90% of what you say on here is embellished bullshit. You’re the one desperate to try and prove it. Which you suck at. Who sends 30 random documents in another language and expects the audience to be convinced? Like dude, just stop, the more you try to justify yourself the worse it looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:00 AM
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It will take me some time to go through these as half of them aren’t in English but it looks like the only property you are sole owner of is Baja and honestly you paid like $6k or is that pesos?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:07 PM
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Why do you keep trying to get me to sign in to your Dropbox link with my personal information? Just post or send me photos. You’re the one making this difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:18 PM
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Dude stop sending me to a fucking Dropbox. Either post photos on Imgur or forget it. You are being super shady.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:10 PM
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It’s now just telling me to sign in with my personal information which obviously I’m not going to do. Just put them on Imgur like a normal person
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:30 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/jt2xtbs6b97b1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&v=enabled&s=6eb724db142ac91bfa93edfae89b327096d694de
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:22 PM
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No, it just seemed pointless because you kept going around in circles and proving nothing I said wrong. Then when you sent me a link to prove your properties were real, it was a dead link so I just said, “fuck it, this guy is whack.” Edit to add: I also realized I couldn’t even remember what the fuck point you were even trying to make and you kept going off on tangents. Quite honestly I didn’t have the time to go read through the beginning of the thread to piece together your scattered monologue…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:22 PM
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Females are human so wouldn’t these mean the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 02:23 PM
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Wow this Jenna thing really bothers you for some reason. She is an intern who did some internet searches and sent me the info. I then looked it over and clicked on the links myself. Not sure why that is so confusing to you, or why it bothers you but I have my suspicions. The point about not finding anything salacious wasn’t because I’m desperate to hear a bunch of the lame things you do like your senior citizen tennis group, but because YOU claimed there was salacious stuff out there. Obviously …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 08:21 PM
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Lol, so nothing salacious then huh? Told you it was bullshit. And I also call bullshit on the multiple houses around the world unless you count couch surfing. Edited to add: isn’t this your book here lol http://csinvesting.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/analyzing_and_investing_in_community_bank_stocks.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:33 PM
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I call bullshit, there is nothing salacious. It’s a lonely apartment in San Diego as you bank roll a bunch of “sort of talented” musicians. Your book wasn’t bad, but I felt you lifted a few too many ideas from other authors and it ended up reading like one giant footnote. But I’m no author so what do I know? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:47 PM
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Wow someone is triggered. And apparently you missed the entire point of that story. There was a reason I told you. I know it’s probably easier for you to believe I’m some nobody lying on Reddit and that’s absolutely fine, I’m secure enough in myself to know that I don’t need to make stuff up to impress some rando on here. If you want to take this offline, I’ll happily DM you all the proof you need.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 10:20 AM
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I must confess I pawned this task today off on one of our new interns. Her name is Jenna, she’s a bright, eager, bubbly college freshman. Jenna fucked around on google and then came to me with what she found and asked if she could leave early because “that old guy’s life made her depressed.” I don’t know what that says about the next generation but it made me laugh and I let her. I’m going to take a look at what she found now but here is what I learned about myself during this exercise: I don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 09:54 PM
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Well Dave, I guess we just fundamentally disagree about how to utilize social media. That isn’t surprising considering I’m an attractive millennial woman who came of age during the birth of Facebook and Tinder and have learned many lessons about staying safe online, and you are very clearly a white male boomer who doesn’t understand how things like identity theft work. In addition, I enjoy Reddit because I don’t have to carefully monitor ever thing I say. Sure my views are consistent from platfo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:19 PM
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Here’s the one thing keeping me from posting my info: why? What’s the point? How will it further our conversation in any way? You keep mentioning that I don’t want people to know what I post on here but go read through my comments (I never post myself) and you’ll see there is absolutely nothing for me to want to hide. It’s mostly me defending women, minorities and trans people in the political forums and arguing with redpill misogynists. Why would I care? I say the same things on twitter and Fac…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:23 PM
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Wow there are so many red flags in this answer I don’t know where to begin. You have links on your Reddit account to prove your authenticity but none of them are from a verified platform like Twitter or LinkedIn or even Facebook. Your only source is a ten year outdated website that you claim isn’t used because you retired at what 45? Hmmmm….that’s not shady at all And I would not feel comfortable posting my information here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:35 AM
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I’m intrigued, and currently considering your offer. Now that I’ve see your business profile I know what I’m dealing with. My only issue is safety. As a woman who works in politics, I’m very cautious about what what information I give people access to. I’m not ruling out sending a private message with a link but first I want to have my staff do some due diligence with your website. Right off the bat I don’t love that it’s unsecured; that you seem to be the only employee with what also seems to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 11:17 PM
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Spoken like someone who just realized his claim is bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:28 PM
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Well I was more thinking, you meet a guy who refuses foreplay and cums early. Then complains you have low erotic capital because you don’t enjoy sex and agree to it less. Then you breakup and meet a guy who loves foreplay and you two end up having amazing kinky sex almost daily. Who’s capital goes up and who’s goes down for all parties in this scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:23 PM
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What happens if someone is bad at sex with one partner maybe because they aren’t compatible and want different things in the bedroom but then they move onto a new partner and since they are compatible they have really great active sex life? What happens to the erotic capital then? Does it go up or down?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:15 PM
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Well then I guess we are just going to have to disagree. But I will say, only one of us here ignores nuance and has the hubris to believe they speak for their entire gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:12 PM
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So then men who skip foreplay, don’t go down on their partners, don’t communicate during sex, or finish too early would have low erotic capital?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:53 PM
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Why do you keep making it success VS beauty. They are both factors. There are beautiful women who are successful. There are beautiful women who aren’t successful. And there are beautiful women, like my sister, who weren’t successful but then became successful. You keep speaking for all men and it’s so arrogant. And you keep making this a black or white issue, it isn’t success OR beauty. Edit to add: I love how you say beauty is a metric you can gauge with your eyeballs leaving out the fact that …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:43 PM
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You said: “I am a completely normal heterosexual man, I’m attracted to the same things every other normal man is attracted to and academic success, career, salary and ambition are not on that list.” You are making numerous arguments to maintain that you know the preferences of other men and what they find attractive. Claiming success is simply not attractive to men. If you really don’t care why be so rigid that you cannot accept other men find it attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:30 PM
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Listen, it’s my opinion. Most people I know who are intimidated by a woman’s success were embarrassed to admit it. It seems natural to be embarrassed that you are intimated by an aspect of the opposite sex. I don’t think it takes too much emotional intelligence or social awareness to make the educated guess that you wouldn’t admit to being intimidated by successful women because you’d be embarrassed. But obviously I don’t expect you to admit that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:09 PM
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Sorry to do this to you but can you also explain what makes an attractive female bad in bed? Is it when the man doesn’t enjoy himself? And how do we know that’s her fault and not because he skips foreplay or jack hammers or smells funky?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:52 PM
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Not so much convenient but expected, but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:45 PM
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Like I said, I don’t expect you to admit to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:41 PM
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No I’m just arrogant enough to take an educated guess
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:39 PM
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Erotic capital? That sounds like the motto of sex trafficking ring. Yikes. Care to define it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:37 PM
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No I think based on your comments I’m pointing out something that you would be too embarrassed to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:34 PM
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That’s a lot of words to acknowledge I’m right, but I appreciate it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:37 PM
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So if most men had to choose between two women of equal beauty and one had a masters and job making $200k and the other was a part time manicurist, who would most men choose? Edit : for shits and giggles let’s pretend the women are identical twins
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:22 PM
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Are you really so arrogant to think you know my friends and family better then they know themselves? We live in a vast world with a diverse population and if you think for one second that one ignorant guy on the internet knows better then all, you’re in for a rude awaking. Some men like successful educated women, some men (like yourself) are intimidated by it and thus not attracted to successful women. Some men like smaller breasts, some like larger. Some men want a religious woman, some men don…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:57 PM
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The fact that you claim to speak for all men is hysterical. I work in a male dominated industry, have 6 brothers, a male best friend and have had two long term male partners and they would all disagree with you. Edit: and I just asked my dad and he said he married my mother because in 1970, when she was his BOSS he thought she was the most sophisticated beautiful woman he’d ever seen. He courted her for two years before he got a date. They’ve been married almost 50 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 11:22 AM
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Do me a favor and define success in this context for me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:16 AM
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I think what you mean to say is that it plays no factor in what YOU find attractive. No offense but a lot of the guys on this sub are not exactly the type of guy me or my friends would date. The type of men we date (and marry) are the men that appreciate and admire a woman’s success. And clearly it intimidates you and that’s why you claim “it plays no part in the attraction factor.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:13 AM
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EVERYONE fucks the people around them! How else would you do it?? But your original point was that it has nothing to do with the success of the woman and that’s where you’re wrong. The three men you mentioned specifically married only successful woman, therefore a woman’s success IS a factor when a man picks a partner. Proximity may help but that’s for both sexes not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:49 AM
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HAHAHA because you are insecure about successful women you think that ACTUAL successful men would be?? Oh my dude, just cause you can’t handle success doesn’t mean most men can’t. And you’re trying to say that all three men ONLY interacted with successful women? Only successful women lived in their respective cities? You don’t think they had friends or coffee shops patrons or neighbors that weren’t successful? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:35 AM
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Then why didn’t any of them marry the unsuccessful women they met? Could it be that they preferred a woman with her own career ambitions and education? Hmmmm….. you can’t possibly be this ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:22 AM
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No you are wrong. They didn’t marry the unsuccessful women in their immediate proximity did they? No they married the successful women. Besides, we are talking about relationships that started before online dating so how else were they supposed to meet women that weren’t in their proximity exactly, genius?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:08 AM
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Steve Jobs wife has a BA in political science from Ivy League school University of Pennsylvania, a BS in economics from the top business school, Wharton and a Masters degree from Stanford. Before business school, she worked for Merrill Lynch Management and spent three years at Goldman Sachs a fixed-income trading strategist. Bill Gates ex wife graduated as valedictorian and earned a BA in computer science and economics from Duke and a Masters from Yale. In addition, Melinda Gates founded Pivotal…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:00 AM
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Thanks for your input Stefan
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 01:49 PM
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How can I not have a leg to stand on when i haven’t even stated my position on this issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 01:31 AM
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Why have you debated this topic so many times? Sounds like it really gets you emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 01:23 AM
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Not sure what you mean by this but I genuinely think you would have more engaging interactions on here if you would try to keep an open mind and actually address the things people comment on instead of talking over them and bombarding them with thousands of pages of scientific reports that we all know you haven’t read.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:22 AM
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No not at all. I already made my argument. My argument was that you were being embarrassingly obtuse when you were engaging with the other commenter. And I think our exchange here has only helped to strengthen my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:16 AM
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What behavior is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 11:16 PM
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See you are making my point for me. Instead of addressing the fact that I was declining to argue, you twisted reality and claimed I couldn’t formulate a reasonable argument. The fact of the matter is I could formulate a reasonable argument but I have no assurance you won’t twist reality again when the evidence doesn’t suit your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:31 PM
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No way, I just read your last 10 or so responses and I don’t have the patience of the last commenter. I don’t think anyone will be able to reason you away from your convictions because they are fueled with grievance and low self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:27 PM
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Dude, you need to stop, you are just embarrassing yourself. The person you are arguing with is trying so hard to explain it to you and at first I thought you were being purposely dense because you didn’t want to cede the point but now I realize it’s because this this conversation is above your capacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:15 PM
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You sound really confident about those consent laws considering 35 states believe an intoxicated person cannot consent to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:54 PM
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Do you mean *subsidize?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:29 PM
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How big a part of your vocabulary is the word maiden? Cause that might be your problem right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:02 AM
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That’s why it’s frustrating when men today phrase this evolved strategy as some sort of lucky advantage. I guess because now society and culture has evolved to give us more power, it looks like we have an advantage. We didn’t, we were just being suppressed and now things are more equal.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/23 12:19 PM
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The truth is science hasn’t proven that testosterone increases sex drive. I appreciate your anecdotal evidence though. I think if women had evolved with the same freedoms sexually that men we’re given you would see many women today with sex drives that rivaled mens.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/23 01:11 AM
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We both agree the sex drive in women is lower, we just disagree with how it became that way. You claim it’s that way….just because. And I claim it evolved that way from thousands of years of culture sexual repression over many generations.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/23 10:21 PM
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Hey I never said it would be easy. Certainly wasn’t for women. But I sure would like to watch you try.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/23 06:44 PM
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I’m not blaming you I’m explaining to you how to get what you want.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/23 06:40 PM
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But women don’t desire men as much because they have spent 10,000 years collectively repressing their sexuality so they could survive. Men could do the same thing if they wanted. Women don’t have a biological advantage, they have 10,000 years of sexual repression. You want sex easier, start repressing yourselves and you’re market value will shoot up.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/23 06:37 PM
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In spirit maybe but you have this notion that the advantage women have is beauty and it’s not. It’s control of supply. See, men could have that advantage also. Women desire sex too — and as long as most women desire it less than most men, women have a collective advantage, and that gives women greater power than men. This advantage didn’t come naturally, the cultural suppression of female sexuality throughout much of history and across many different cultures has largely had its roots in the que…
/r/ExRedPill18/05/23 06:19 PM
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It has nothing to do with beauty. It’s has to do with sexual economics. Sexual marketplaces take the shape they do because nature has biologically built a disadvantage into men: a huge desire for sex that makes men dependent on women. Men’s greater desire puts them at a disadvantage, just as when two parties are negotiating a possible sale or deal, the one who is more eager to make the deal is in a weaker position than the one who is willing to walk away without the deal.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/23 06:02 PM
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Was this written by AI?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 11:00 PM
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Ok my friend, you seem to need very much to believe that you were the victim in high school, surrounded by a bevy of gossip-spreading girls who wanted nothing more than to ruin your life. Personally that seems a little narcissistic to me, but to each their own. Maybe the whole world is actually out to get you, and you have no choice but to shake your fist at the Reddit gods and bitch about the unfairness of high school. Or maybe you could try owning your faults, accepting that some people will h…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:58 PM
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First of all, I said you could have been a creepy little perv, I didn’t say you were one. What I did was give you a little dose of reality, please explain to me why that a bad thing? At the end of the day, I’m showing you that your stupid little anecdote about how you were this perfect gentleman in high school and all the mean girls ganged up on you and decided collectively that you were a creeper is most likely bullshit. The closer truth is that you likely were a little off putting and the kids…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:35 AM
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I mean, great little anecdote but it’s taking a lot of liberties. How do I know you lived by the golden rule in high school? You could have been a creepy little perv who tried to look up girls skirts on the bleachers. In my experience people who treat others with respect are generally treated with respect. I agree there are exceptions and teenagers can be especially cruel but I find it a little hard to believe you were just a quiet, respectful gentleman and the girls in your school decided to li…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:41 AM
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As a woman myself, I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 11:32 PM
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Well Willy, I’m glad you asked. I’ve always been a big fan of the golden rule. Treat people how you would like them to treat you. I think that would be a swell middle ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:27 PM
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No no, he didn’t say to be nicer to women. He said stop calling them names and insulting them. Don’t change the story to fit your narrative. No one’s saying to kiss their ass, just don’t be a fucktard
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:45 PM
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You know what they say when you assume…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 06:09 PM
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Believe it or not, the early concept of chivalry had nothing to do with male behavior concerning women. In the Middle Ages, the chivalry code was set up to keep medieval knights under control. Brutish and violent, knights in those days were considered “hired thugs” of low social order. This code of etiquette and conduct kept them in check. Modern chivalry means more than just holding the door open for women or carrying their groceries. It’s about defending the most vulnerable in society. These i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 09:09 PM
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This was a lot of words to say you don’t understand women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:53 PM
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So this TikTok was by a petite asian woman who turned herself into a petite asian man. Unfortunately petite men do not get as much attention as petite women. Not fair I know, I don’t make the rules. But I’ll tell you this, my cousin did the tiktok swap and she’s a 5’11 Nordic blonde and looks like Brienne of Tarth. Let me tell you as a dude she was fucking hot. Like Skarsgard hot. So I think it depends on how the persons features translate to the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 08:56 PM
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This sounds like an episode of Moonlighting. “Sorry honey, I had no choice but to share her bed, what was I supposed to do sleep on the floor like a dog??” Ummm yes. Yes you were, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 03:12 PM
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People who are experiencing a narcissist for the first time often mistake the disorder for high self esteem. Narcissism is essentially fake self esteem so it makes sense people would mistake it for real self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:25 AM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:57 AM
1

Lol thanks dad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:54 AM
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I mean my point still stands. You can’t jump in here with an example that literally doesn’t apply to what’s being discussed and expect me not to get confused. If you didn’t agree with the premise the OP stated then your comment literally has no bearing, and I’ve just wasted time even dignifying it with a response.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:50 AM
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Who’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:37 PM
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But that’s not what you said. You said women vote in their self interest. Lots of women, myself included, vote for things that benefit society all the time. What you are asking is for women to vote against their own best interests in order to benefit another group of people, ie men. That is not the same thing and I don’t know of any group of people that are that self sacrificing. And that’s your problem. You want women to do something that you aren’t asking anyone else in the known world. How is…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:36 PM
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You think voting in their own interest means they don’t have empathy? Doesn’t everyone vote in their own best interest? I’m not sure how these correlate?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 09:20 PM
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Well until you link them, they aren’t anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:47 PM
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So you don’t have any examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:17 PM
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Where are these examples copied from actual comments? In your post?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:35 PM
3

I can’t find your claim in the article you link, can you please show the quote that breaks down the hours worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:18 AM
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Well you would be wrong when it came to both me AND and my mother then because I’m an only child Edited to add: what the fuck is this nonsense about strengthening uteruses through multiple births? Are you fucking kidding me right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 06:18 PM
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This is laughable. My grandma had my mom at 44 and my mom had me at 48. This is just so not a fear of mine. And if I don’t get pregnant in my 40’s?Well then I will be one hell of a foster parent and maybe adopt someday. You seem to think that all potential mothers are desperate for a natural born child and frankly that’s really ignorant. And really a weird thing for you to be concerned about. Stay in your lane bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 06:14 PM
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I believe the diploma is the proof
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:05 PM
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When you say that I bet you truly believe it. I bet it would really ruffle your feathers to know I have three Masters degrees. Kind of hard to get through grad school without reading comprehension. 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:24 PM
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No, I was talking about the CDC white paper because that was what you had referenced. Edit to add: also, you need to learn how to make a concise point. No one wants to read through your stream of consciousness bullshit. You lose your audience in your bullets of quoted text that literally don’t make sense. If you can’t write in a few sentences what you are trying to say, don’t bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 12:43 PM
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Right but my point was about suing someone for child support, so the rape conviction is very necessary here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 12:05 PM
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It’s on page 24, my dude. You need to stop and take a pause and realize what your arguing. I get that being a man for you is disappointing but you need to stop this anger towards women. It just reeks of male privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 12:03 PM
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Seriously, the introduction literally says “The majority of male victims of completed or attempted rape (86.5%) reported only male perpetrators with no statistically reliable state estimates.” 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:52 AM
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Lol, I’m the US and where I live women can be charged with rape. According to the department of justice, “The penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim.” This definition includes any gender of victim and perpetrator, not just women being raped by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:44 AM
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Do you realize this “Listverse” article quote “Between 2010 and 2012, 1.267 million men and 1.270 million women claimed to be victims of sexual violence” is talking about men being raped by other men? That makes the rest of the article incredibly misleading
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:11 AM
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Well isn’t that a convenient excuse. Women literally couldn’t have their own credit cards without their husbands permission until 1970’s and yet you are convinced that the legal system runs in their favor? They couldn’t even become lawyers until the 1920’s but sure the court is biased towards them. You need to get back in reality dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:06 AM
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Also not charged with rape, on account of them BOTH being minors. Gonna have to do better than that. And essentially what you’re really telling me is this doesn’t actually happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 12:02 AM
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I’m a little confused, none of these women were convicted of rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:56 PM
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Sure blame me for not understanding your point. Couldn’t possibly be that you aren’t as clear as you think
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:41 PM
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Please show me ONE court case where the female rapist successfully sued for child support (from prison I guess?) and forced the male rape victim to pay? I will happily reconsider my points if you can prove this a an actual problem that is affecting a percentage of men and not just your personal fetish fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:35 PM
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I’m sorry on what planet are feminists against birth control??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:29 PM
1

I have a neighbor who spends money getting dog poop genetically tested so he can hunt down the likely culprit. He doesn’t kill them but he does show up with a letter from the town and a fine. I would love to see you argue in court that the sperm isn’t yours once it leaves your body. I’d sue you for reckless abandonment of your bodily fluids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:16 PM
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No reproductive rights? The man could wear a condom. And it’s not a small number of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:30 PM
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What about fetal heart beat laws in TX and 6 week abortion bans when the woman doesn’t even know she is pregnant yet? Wouldn’t those women be forced to be mothers?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:42 PM
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Honestly, you are painful to read. From an outsider reading your comments is like watching a tennis match between denial and projection. Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:46 AM
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I got “down to earth”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:32 PM
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Lol, you think there are only a “few” financially independent women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:37 PM
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I mean that’s such a hard thing to answer because I did highly desire the two I said no to. It was honestly bad timing and not much else. So while I might have said yes in a few years, I ultimately said no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 02:17 AM
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I said yes to the first one. The second one I said no because it was too soon and I wasn’t ready. Truly felt a little blindsided by it. And the third was an unfortunate no to a very naive, very young guy who didn’t realize while fun, we were in two different places in life and he had a lot of maturing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 02:10 AM
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I would say I have been getting more commitment then I can handle. I have been proposed to three times, so no, I have the opposite problem. Edit: I should add I did say yes to one of them when I was very young and was married for ten years so I’m not like an ice queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 02:00 AM
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Are you deliberately dodging my question? I’m not offended and I know you weren’t referring to me directly. I’m just asking if in your scenario someone like me would be unrealistic in her expectations like you originally said?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 12:41 AM
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That’s why I said someone like me and not me Edit: But my point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 12:37 AM
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Why would a high caliber man be out of someone like me’s league? I would consider myself a high caliber woman. I’m not a supermodel but I’m very attractive, highly educated, successful, own my home, active social life, etc. In your scenario I’m shooting out of my league? I’m really having a hard time believing that. Also, my life experience speaks otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 12:34 AM
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I’m curious what are the unrealistic expectations the women in your scenario have? I would consider myself someone with above average looks and station and I wonder what expectations of mine might be unrealistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 12:00 AM
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I agree with your last paragraph and I’m BP. I’m not sure why you think that makes you RP. It seems like you are saying there are some women who feel they are entitled to more then they can reciprocate. No big shocker here but there are men like that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 08:28 PM
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I’m in my thirties, if I met a guy who never had a girlfriend or a sexual partner before I am running away so fast his head would spin. That has Norman Bates written all over it. Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 08:17 PM
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How is that deflection? I literally addressed your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:43 AM
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You do not know what you are talking about. That is not at all what I am doing. People who always think they are being manipulated are usually just too unaware to realize THEY are the manipulators, just not any good at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:17 AM
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If pointing out someone’s underlying motives is shaming then maybe they are ashamed of their underlying motives
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:11 AM
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I’m really not being disingenuous, you are just looking for insults where there are none. Probably so you can derail talking about actual substance because you know your points don’t hold weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:00 AM
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That wasn’t an insult it was an honest observation
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 01:07 AM
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Perhaps my insults aren’t any good because I’m not trying to insult anyone. And if you think insults are indicative of intelligence you have a lot to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 10:01 PM
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You literally don’t know anything about me. You don’t know if I’m married or divorced or single or have 5 kids. Maybe I’m on hard mode or maybe I’m not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:38 PM
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What can I say, I’m youthful. I’m sure your wife is a very lucky lady who will never ever sue you for alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:25 PM
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Well you seem like the kinda guy who only has his autonomy so I didn’t want to take that away too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:23 PM
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Whatever floats your boat dude
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:14 PM
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I think you’ve got a lot of maturing to do. You have very little awareness of relationships or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:37 PM
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Or you could just let the courts decide on Alimony and stop complaining about how much you think someone’s labor costs?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:35 PM
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Wait, so in your scenario, the woman gets an emotionally repressed partner who flaunts other girls in her face while the guy gets more sex, compliments and praise? I literally just laughed out loud and startled my dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 03:40 AM
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No way it wouldn’t even be close. I guess you don’t understand what goes into maintaining a home and caring for a child but salary.com lists it as $162,000 a year for one child.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:05 AM
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What should really happen is the person without an income should add up all the hours of domestic labor and/or child bearing, including house work, household management, child care, cooking etc over the years and then ask for that amount. Don’t forget a lot of these jobs (parenting) would be considered 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:13 PM
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I’m sorry did you even read this interaction? I’m the one arguing that the amount of money you make SHOULDN’T MATTER. Please read all the comments above or don’t comment, no one has time for your two cents
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:55 PM
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Why do you get mad at the bank teller? Is it because she’s an arrogant asshole or because she makes $21 an hour?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:31 PM
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So I’m confused, what do you do when someone is an arrogant asshole but makes more money then you? Isn’t everyone enraged at arrogant assholes? What makes you target your rage at the bank teller but not other arrogant assholes?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:29 PM
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I’m a consultant and I charge $350 an hour. Would it be alright for me to hate you and become enraged because you only make $60?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:24 PM
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How much do you make an hour
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:22 PM
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While it’s not the healthy option, I think it’s fine as long as you keep that rage to yourself. The second you let loose on someone who doesn’t deserve it - the bank teller or influencer - you’ll make a lot of trouble for yourself. People don’t like when you trauma dump on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:19 PM
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It sounds to me like you feel enraged towards anyone that makes you feel inferior (popular influencers, people online who are confident, bank tellers, kids from middle school). You have done this as a way to compensate for what you feel makes you inferior. Rage is easier for some people then shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:01 PM
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I didn’t say the world was to blame, the parents are to blame for having kids they cannot afford
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:10 PM
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Totally disagree. They aren’t sick people, the sick people are the ones who cannot afford or care for a child that then has 4 of them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 09:51 PM
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So, of this very small subset of people, there tends to be more women? Ok, and your point? I mean it makes sense if a woman’s worth is more likely to be valued depending on their weight. If the issue effects them more then it would make sense that radical acceptance activists would skew more towards them. Great point captain obvious, next time don’t wait 25 days to grace us with your genius.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 04:49 PM
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*Work hard to get sex from women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:19 AM
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You’re assuming marriage is the good. That’s where we disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:33 PM
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Based on what? Just because women were forced to marry to survive doesn’t mean they weren’t lonely. It just means they weren’t single.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:41 AM
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Before what
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:26 AM
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Im sure marriage works for some
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:00 AM
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Of course not, but I think it speaks to the idea that being married doesn’t always cure loneliness
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:49 PM
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My grandmother feels differently
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:38 PM
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The loneliest time in my life was when I was married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:45 PM
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A lot of psychologists have provided gender affirming care to trans youths, I’m not sure why that’s a bad thing. https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/what-the-science-on-gender-affirming-care-for-transgender-kids-really-shows/?amp=true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:15 PM
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I’m so curious what your google search history says
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 02:39 PM
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Ah yes, nothing proves your point better then sending a random dictionary.com definition
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 01:50 PM
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You can’t just make stuff up based on how YOU feel. Come on dude
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 01:00 PM
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What if she uses social media for her business?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:33 PM
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Perhaps now we are seeing male beauty standards more, but I would bet your experience is an outlier. I have six brothers and we had very different expectations about our looks growing up. Maybe your parents just wanted you to be pretty too, but mine were very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 10:52 PM
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You mean why do a small subset of the female population support fat acceptance? I don’t know, it’s batshit to me. But there are men who support it too, so….
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:32 PM
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I do but I don’t think it is how you are defining it and I’m hoping you can elaborate what classifies a person as ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:30 PM
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Could you define ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:28 PM
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Women are literally taught since birth that we need to look pleasing. So advice to go to the gym is just repeated rhetoric. Men get that advice in redpill forums because a lot of them need to hear it. Women do not need to hear this advice as they have heard it since birth and it’s become ingrained in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:47 PM
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It may not have been the point of your post, especially since I fundamentally disagreed with you, but it was absolutely on topic and relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 11:05 PM
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It has everything to do with your post, I was arguing that most women are not like the ones you described. Most people have empathy (still not a feeling but an ability) and would FEEL guilty and uncomfortable after rejecting someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:48 PM
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I think you are a little confused. Empathy is not a feeling, empathy is an ability. So you wouldn’t feel empathy for someone, you would HAVE empathy for them. When you HAVE empathy for someone you have the ability to identify their feelings and relate to them. So in your example, having empathy for the person you rejected means understanding and relating to how it feels to be rejected. It doesn’t feel good. That’s where the person begins to feel guilt. Understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:59 PM
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I’m sorry but no. A secure, healthy person WOULD feel guilty seeing the person they rejected. ESPECIALLY in the only example you could muster. In the scenario you gave, a normal woman would absolutely feel guilty for leading the guy on, and it would make her uncomfortable to continue seeing someone they have no intention of dating. Only people with underdeveloped empathy would think it was ok to use someone knowing they had feelings for you. If this has been your experience, you need to reevalua…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:32 PM
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This just sounds like a case of people shooting out of their league. I bet if the below average/introvert guy was approached by a below average girl, maybe fat, he would treat her the same way he gets treated by the pretty girls. That’s just the circle of life, and it doesn’t discriminate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:15 PM
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You literally could only give me one example. Give me 8 more and maybe you’ll give me something to reconsider. I have also talked to my guy friends and not one of them had an experience like the one you are describing. I think the reason it seems so bonkers to a lot of people is that the natural human response to rejecting someone is to feel guilt. Mostly because as humans we have developed empathy which means when I reject someone, I automatically am reminded of times in my life when I was the …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:59 PM
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No not at all, I’m saying, using your analogy, it is probably only about 1 out of every 10 women who are toxic like this. If you are finding it’s more like 9 out of 10, then the problem is likely that you are surrounded by toxic people, not that all people are toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:31 PM
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Ok, what about the other 8 guys? I’m asking because while I do believe there are toxic women who manipulate, I don’t believe that it’s 9 out of 10 of them. I think in reality it is probably 1 out of 10. Anecdotally, I have found that toxic people tend to socialize with other toxic people because secure, healthy people avoid them like the plague. If you find that nearly everyone you interact with is toxic and manipulative, it’s time to take a good hard look at yourself and see why you are attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:05 PM
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I’m curious, what is the relationship before these men get rejected? Could you describe it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:43 AM
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I agree that wanting to maintain the same relationship after you have rejected them romantically is toxic and manipulative. But I also think most women, myself included, would just be relieved you stopped hanging around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:13 AM
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How is that any different from shaming a woman who has ONS on her profile?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:47 PM
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I think ANYONE would feel weird if they showed up somewhere that their date had slept with a bunch of people there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:24 PM
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Haha no not at all, I just like calling out people like this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:54 AM
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Sorry, no, he’s the same guy, just with different clothes and a decent hair cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:57 PM
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So here’s the problem with that - Jon Heder is a total babe now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:18 PM
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Yeah, I was being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:13 PM
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How lucky for her
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:53 PM
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No I am definitely not dumb. I was being sardonic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:25 PM
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Picked your wife? Was she a contestant in something?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:54 PM
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I wasn’t arguing with him. I was simply stating what I felt about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:02 AM
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Except his post specifically said it wasn’t about any of those other things and it was because it was “yucky.” Did you even read it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:58 AM
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So you are asking if I want a bisexual man who has had the same sexual partners as me? No I would not but for very different reasons. Those reasons being, THATS FUCKING WEIRD
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:35 PM
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I will
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:13 PM
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Sorry bud, if you are going to put it out on a debate sub that you think women with more than 1 (I believe you actually said you preferred virgins) partner makes you feel gross ( I believe you compared it to like touching rotting garbage), then you can bet your ass I’m going to give me opinion on why. Welcome to reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:12 PM
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Your motivations have EVERYTHING to do with your ideas. Are you kidding me?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:07 PM
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I contributed to the discussion by commenting on what I thought your motives are. If you don’t like that, maybe don’t make a Reddit post?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:01 PM
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I just pointed out what I believed were your underlying motives. I don’t think that makes me a mind reader, more of a bullshit detector.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:57 PM
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I mean we are in a discussion forum, so no
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:55 PM
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It’s ok, I don’t expect you to admit it publicly. I was just letting you know how you come across.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:53 PM
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You think it’s “yucky” because it makes you feel inadequate. Because somewhere deep down, probably beneath you’re awareness, you know you don’t measure up in bed. And the thought of all the other men who could please her better then you makes you feel disgusted. So you label her gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:47 PM
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I disagree. Have you read any of Isabel Wilkerson’s writing? According to her, the brutal Indian system of hierarchy illuminates more about American racial divides than any other idea. In her view, racism is only the visible manifestation of something deeper. Underlying and predating racism is a hidden system of social domination: a caste structure that uses neutral human differences, skin color among them, as the basis for ranking human value.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:31 PM
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I’m sorry are you a Targaryen? Is this Valyria? The only people I know that care strictly about bloodlines are dragon riders and racists.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:03 PM
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Those nefarious economic policies that are trying to do things like cut back on greenhouse gas and use sustainable fuel sources? Those ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:01 PM
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Well that just sounds individualistic as hell, with no regards for the well being of the larger collective. And looks like that makes you a hypocrite, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:58 PM
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I’ll call bullshit on this. I have a whole country full of Republican fathers who don’t give a shit about the climate crisis. Not much of a future without a healthy planet. Why don’t you worry about problems like that before you take up things like UNDERpopulation, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:27 PM
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What about if these two families have sons and they want to marry and join their families. They plan to adopt a child. Would you your statement still stand?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:58 PM
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Nobody was talking about sterilization, there are still plenty of people having children. But for those who don’t want to have them or who cannot care for them, they should be respected for their choice to abstain. Not sure what you’re talking about on your soapbox.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:28 PM
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Oh yeah? What do you do for the “larger collective?”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 12:16 PM
2

Nobody asked you to simp
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:42 PM
2

I don’t follow, isn’t the bat signal a sign of distress?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:35 PM
3

Yikes, reading this exchange gave me serious cringe. You’re obviously triggered cause you got called out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:55 PM
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That tape didn’t prove she was lying anymore than him! They were both fighting and both denying it later. You said yourself you didn’t pay attention to the trial so you actually have no idea that what your quoting doesn’t actually prove what you think it does. They both lied. They both abused. Period. Saying amber is to blame and not Johnny means you are just blindly siding with men because you can’t see past your own bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:35 PM
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I’m confused are you saying she is lying about the times he assaulted her but he is telling the truth about the times she hit him? Are you seriously trying to say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:19 PM
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1. Heard said the first act of physical violence occurred in 2013, recalling that he slapped her three times one day after she laughed at one of his tattoos. “I will never forget it,” Heard said. “It changed my life.” Heard testified about various other incidents of physical violence, describing occasions in which Depp allegedly slapped her, threw her to the ground, grabbed her by the hair, pushed her against a wall, head-butted her and threw objects at her, including drinking glasses and a cell…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:15 PM
1

She wrote an Op-Ed that did not name him and he started two lawsuits that aired all their dirty laundry to the public. I would argue he did her just as dirty. He could have dropped it after he lost the first lawsuit, but no. They were both toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:55 PM
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Umm Johnny Depp was equally toxic, and just as abusive as her. They both deserve eachother. Justice would have been holding them BOTH accountable and making them swear to stay out of the dating pool for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:28 PM
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Yes! Thought the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:05 PM
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There is no such thing as unconditional love. All love has conditions. For example even “unconditionally” loving my child, there is still the condition that they are my child. If I was a man and found out the child wasn’t mine, that might change how I felt about them. All love has conditions. If it didn’t it would become a meaningless emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:13 PM
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According to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:43 PM
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I hate when people use the word ugly. I only use that word to describe someone’s character. Since beauty is subjective, so is “ugliness.” I wouldn’t even know what constitutes ugliness today? I can understand saying someone isn’t your preference but to call someone ugly seems a little off. Did she actually say you were ugly or did she tell you she wasn’t attracted to you. There is a huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:51 PM
2

So you were quoting a political scientist, but changed the wording to a movie quote by accident? Or you added the F word for dramatic emphasis? Coincidence? 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:22 PM
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Oh wow did you pick the wrong person to quote a political scientist to. I have a masters in political theory and he didn’t say that. He said it was the mother of all mistakes. The person who you quoted in your post was in fact the villain in Under Seige 2. It’s ok to admit you love that movie. It had a young Katherine Heigel, and a cool train crash, I get it. No shame here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:04 PM
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Ugh, did you just quote Under Siege 2? It’s not even the good one! I cannot take anything you say after that seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:09 PM
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I’m guessing you are dealing with some insecurity about the way you look. Be careful with those studies, you really need to read more then just the abstract and a few of them look pretty dated. I’m not sure you are interpreting the information correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:55 PM
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Gari, is #3 actually just a link to a Cosmo article about exploring sex? 😂 Dude, give it up. Your bitterness is showing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:03 PM
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Confidence is belief in yourself, that you have the ability to meet life's challenges and succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:35 AM
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Married one of them. And despite conveying to the other two that I had no interest in marriage again, was proposed to two more times.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:06 AM
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Three
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:08 AM
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They are, that’s sort of my problem at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 10:56 PM
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News flash, you can have both passion and successful long term planning. I’m not advocating for all spark, no substance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:19 AM
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You know, I was thinking about how this would play out, and you may be on to something. One of the biggest problems we talk about on this sub is how men are WAY less discriminate about who they sleep with. Maybe filtering out some women would be a good thing. But it would also make less women available. Another example, my sister is 5’11 and athletic, slim even but her weight would absolutely get filtered out at 160. But she would honestly probably appreciate less creeps messaging her on tinder …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:59 AM
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Honestly? Reading this just made me sad, it sounds so cold and unfulfilling. Where is the passion, the spark? Once you have that, it’s hard to appreciate anything else. But to each there own.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:47 AM
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Then that works for you. But it sounds like you cherish her dependence. Reminds me of those women who are so insecure about their men leaving them that they decide to only date incarcerated men. But I guess even Ted Bundy needs a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:30 AM
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I think you would get better traction with a filter for build type (slim, athletic, curvy, plus size, etc) or BMI. Weight is just too subjective. For example, I started strength training a year ago and my pants size went down but my weight went up a few pounds. Muscle vs fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:17 AM
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I mean, or it could be because weight can change daily and height cannot. I think you might be reading into things here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:11 AM
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We literally can’t get a large portion of the population to care about climate change, and you’re worried about some non existent conspiracy theory about running out of people?? Let’s focus on the planet, not worry about forcing women to give birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:15 PM
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I think you should post your picture as well, fair is fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:04 PM
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People who don’t believe in equal relationships are called abusers, regardless of their gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:13 PM
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I think it would do you some good to stop generalizing things as indicative of “most men” or “most women.” I think all PEOPLE want a partner who pulls their weight in a relationship. Whether that is through caring for the house and kids or working for a paycheck.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:58 PM
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Easier to be leave a job then a husband. Especially if you have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:44 AM
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I call bullshit. There are tons of women who have sex for validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 11:43 AM
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Please show me a source because I don’t think there is a preference system for minorities. I agree there is for veterans but that has nothing to do with our discussion. If you can’t find anything to cite it, I’m guessing it’s because you were misinformed and it doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 06:22 PM
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Also, I’m not sure veterans should count here, they served our country and deserve to be given preference. I don’t consider this diversity, I consider this their dues.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:38 PM
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Maybe it would help if you explained this point system. I’ve never heard of it, and I’ve worked for both federal and state government.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:34 PM
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Can you show me some proof of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 01:37 PM
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I think you misunderstand how diversity programs work, they don’t decide a specific job is going to be held by a minority. Diversity programs work to increase numbers overall within the organization. That can mean a lot of things like, insuring that good-faith efforts are made to include racial minorities (and sometimes individuals in other categories, such as women or veterans or disabled persons) in the hiring pool, and, if they are qualified, to attempt to recruit them. In this context, “dive…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 01:01 PM
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You seem to think that there is some law or agreement to only hire minorities but that’s not the case. Statistically there are more white men applying for stem careers then others, so unless you know for a fact that the jobs you didn’t get hired for, went on to hire a minority, you might have to accept that there are just better, more qualified candidates out there. And maybe that means you are doing what you should be doing with regards to your career in auto mechanics.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 12:26 AM
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Ok now I’m confused. Do you think you were discriminated upon for being white or for being a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 09:46 PM
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So your conclusion was that the thousands of employers you applied with all got together and decided they would only hire women? I mean to go from nothing for a decade to dozens in a week, is quite extreme. Did you have male friends or classmates who were running into trouble finding work? Did you talk to a career counselor or apply for internships? Did you try networking?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 08:35 PM
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Oh I must have misunderstood you. How many STEM jobs (ballpark) would you say you have applied to? Of those how many did you get an interview?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 08:10 PM
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I don’t know, but if I had to guess I would say you’re experiment had some flaws that biased your results. I find it hard to believe you applied for ten years with nothing and then changed you’re name to Jamie and got dozens of calls in a week. Could it be you got calls because you now had a decade more of work experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 08:01 PM
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I understand it must be easier to believe the world is biased against you and you’re just the hard working white man trying his best. But it’s actually more likely that you’re not as skilled or employable as you think you are. https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/the-truth-about-anti-white-discrimination/[https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/the-truth-about-anti-white-discrimination/](https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/the-truth-about-anti-white-discrimination/)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 06:44 PM
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Then you probably shouldn’t quote what you don’t know. But that’s probably something you do a lot of
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:19 AM
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You do not get to quote old Nan
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:17 AM
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Losing what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:14 AM
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Right but even a poor woman was considered her husband’s property.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:44 PM
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It doesn’t sound like you want peace and harmony, it sounds like you want to feel powerful and in control. I have a feeling you’re the only one who feels peace in a household like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:35 AM
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I guess I would be the warren buffet in your sad analogy, and yeah it’s called self esteem. Once you are confident in yourself, you don’t need to use sex as validation any more. The funny part is for some reason this makes me more desirable to a lot of men I meet. It’s weird. Don’t worry, you will get there eventually as long as you continue to work on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 11:38 PM
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Respectfully, as a woman, I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:26 AM
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No one actively chooses dangerous men or rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:24 AM
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Each roll comes with risk. Risk of not only a bad encounter but possibly a dangerous or traumatic one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:21 AM
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Ok. But I’m not sure what that proves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 09:36 PM
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Not sure where you got your facts but more men are narcissists then women. https://www.businessinsider.com/the-main-difference-between-narcissistic-men-and-women-2017-10?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:49 PM
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Totally thought they were the name of his pets
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:36 PM
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This is based on absolutely nothing but your opinion. I’m not bothered by those ads. I’m not bothered by a trans woman in makeup. Don’t speak for the average person please.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:15 PM
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What is sexual imbalance?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:15 PM
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