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| 12 | My ex wife found out I wrote poetry about her during divorce, now wants to talkI dunno.. I disagree with everyone. You were a drunk, she cheated. You don't seem to blame her and never fell out of love with her... Soooo... I dunno...I might be a little biased cos I hope one day my wife hears my songs and might forgive me for being high and awful for most of our ten years together | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/24 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Anybody ever just leave and not look back?My missus. No kids but she took the dog | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/24 05:22 AM |
| 3 | Just Wondering - Were you warned about Divorce?Yeh she warned. "I don't think you realise how precarious this relationship is" "I don't think u know how much damage you're doing" "If you don't change you're going to die alone" But cos of my C-PTSD or narcissism, or codependency, or attachment style or whateverthefuckiswrongwithme I didn't take it seriously until she disappeared with the car the dog and aaaalll our shit. Taking it seriously now tho🤦♂️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/24 01:48 AM |
| 3 | CounterpointAnger issues, lying, couldn't open up to her. Didn't treat her well Eventually she left. My fault | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/24 02:08 PM |
| 5 | "Happier After Divorce"Fair enough. My wife loved me a lot and I destroyed us. So I guess I'm not there yet. Hopefully one day | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/24 03:57 AM |
| 8 | "Happier After Divorce"Mate what posts are you reading... everyone is miserable in this sub. And with good reason. I would do anything to go back a few months and save my marriage. Lost everything I care about. Most nights I want to fing end it tbh. But then the day comes and u just get up and keep going. Fuck everything but just keep going. I miss her so much tho. Life lessons at 43 I should have learned at 5 | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/24 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Emotional bluntingI'm not sure if it will pass or not. For me Ive been thru so many break ups that I feel numb now | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/24 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Committed to big transformation before 31 December. Wanna team up?My goal is just to survive tbh...but I'm down | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/24 01:30 AM |
| 2 | ShatteredHoly fuck. I'm so sorry man that is a tough spot. Only advice I can imagine helping is to take things an hour and a day at a time. Good luck and stay strong | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/08/24 01:41 PM |
| 3 | How do I deal with the guilt of leaving my wife who is vulnerable because of a single mistake.As someone whose marriage just ended due to my own faults I've gotta say this sounds very fixable. Trust me, you do not wanna be feeling what I'm feeling right now unless it's absolutely definitely over and you've tried everything to make it work. Definitely sounds like she would need to make some serious changes and step up to be worthy of your love. But people can do that. What about temporary separating and couples counseling | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/08/24 12:57 PM |
| 0 | Looking for a replacement father for my son bas I am a toxic father.Got to agree with others, this is a crazy mindset. I get that change is hard - I've failed to change a million times - but it's possible. Get a therapist, do the hard work, read/watch/learn and use online resources and become a better man for the sake of your kid. Easier said than done for sure but mail order replacement father?!?!...🤔 | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/24 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Working out on a budget, add your routines and suggestions. Get after it, men!Nice. I just heard about f3 Nation on the art of manliness podcast. Free boot camps for (mostly?) men | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/24 11:00 PM |
| 3 | Feeling pathetic unable to move on.43 and been thru the same many times and right there with you again now. As others said, time heals, and working on yourself. Get busy, set some goals and do some projects. Learn to be happy alone...and if you figure that out, tell me how. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/24 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Wife wants a Divorce While I am Deployed.Man I'm so sorry. No advice just sending you good wishes. Stay strong | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/08/24 12:54 PM |
| 1 | ConfusedYou have so much time. 27 is so young. Don't worry | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/08/24 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Worst mistake of my lifeFfffffffff.... that is so harsh. Feels bad enough after 6 years married and 9together. Cannot imagine 42years. Best of luck to you | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/08/24 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Hate for my ex causing me to lose sleepDude I'm sorry. This sounds beyond tough. It sounds like you've already got a therapist. My only other advice would be to try and force yourself to do some exercise every. Single. Morning. Running is easiest and cheapest | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/08/24 11:46 AM |
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