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Experience. Most women over 30 have dead eyes. It's cool when you find an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:16 AM
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In other news of the obvious ...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:16 PM
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30+ year old men are more likely to be able to fall madly in love than are 30+ year old women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:53 PM
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That's just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:52 PM
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Raw attraction is a necessary component of chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:24 PM
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You don't "try to establish chemistry". Chemistry is either there or it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 02:55 PM
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She has at least a master's degree, makes at least 150K, and has nice wide child-bearing hips.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 02:39 AM
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Those are a different kind of bad boys. Asshole Americans aren't sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:58 AM
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Because most of the world thinks Americans are assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:37 AM
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Nah. Not fucking 30 women by 30 is a youth wasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:27 AM
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Nah -- as long a you get to fuck on a regular basis it's all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:26 AM
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Nah, he still thinks that buying women stuff works.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:18 AM
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What matters at the end of the day is how hot she thinks you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:15 AM
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LOL! Americans abroad would be wise to avoid broadcasting that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:04 AM
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I'm increasingly politically polarized. The more time I spend online the more I loath conservatives and authoritarians.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 01:46 AM
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My kids know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 01:32 AM
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Japan is way over-populated. This is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 01:31 AM
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Boys are over represented at both ends of the scale. Smart boys are bored to tears in school and should be able to bypass middle school/jr. high.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:11 AM
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"Peep shows" were all over the place back in the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:07 AM
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Younger women now outearn young men. Women more and more don't give a shit how much a guy makes -- they care about whether he's hot or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:07 AM
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The money thing is mostly just that guys are generally 2 to 4 years older. I 28 year old guy six years out of college is going to make more than a 24 year old woman who is just two years out of college.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 10:12 PM
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Very low level effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:28 PM
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But American business -- particularly agriculture -- invited them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:26 PM
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They're here because American business wants them here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:26 PM
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Unless you're Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:25 PM
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A total nothing burger. It's always been illegal to be in the country without authorization. Such people have always been subject to jail and/or deportation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:25 PM
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Get used to it. Everything bad is always the guy's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:22 PM
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I've never planned to spend that kind of money but if she's down to fuck and the only available hotel rooms are expensive I will (and have).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:21 PM
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feel out if he can sleep with her for free. If it costs money to sleep with a woman she's a prostitute and and can fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:18 PM
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LOL! I have two ex-wives, three daughters, and seven granddaughters. I'm aware of how much actual effort is involved -- i.e. also zero intense effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:15 PM
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LOL! Hardly the same level.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:09 PM
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That's my point. Guys don't need that -- and it wouldn't work anyway. Guys can make themselves more attractive doing calisthenics in an 8x10 foot prison cell. Guys can make themselves more attractive without spending a dime but it takes herculean effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:02 PM
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Men do most often marry women from their own socioeconomic class. Men put way more effort into looking good than women do. Attractive guys spend months/years/decades exercising and working out. Guys can't buy attraction at the mall or on Amazon.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:31 PM
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Most men skim profiles and will pass if there are too many red flags. If she seems truly psycho many men will pass. If she seems like an entitled princess many men will pass. If she seems like a gold digger many men will pass. ... Men know most of what's written is BS -- they're looking for red flags and tells that slip through.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:15 PM
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Of course not -- women are wonderful don't you know. I've been physically assaulted by more than two dozen women over the years -- but it was all my fault -- I made them all "so mad".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:16 PM
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"You want us to be bangmaid!" Yeah. I want a partner who likes to fuck and who does her share of the household work. I'm not seeing a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:11 PM
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I have only two baby mamas. That's hardly unusual.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:40 AM
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$119K The house I lost because of my 1st ex-wife's drug problem is worth $1.6 million.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:37 AM
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My youngest daughter is 22 years younger than her big brother and 21 years younger than her oldest sister. Indeed my youngest daughter is younger than 3 of her 12 nieces and nephews.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:33 AM
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Scenario would never happen. Relative placements have statutory priority. Big sister gets to keep her little sister regardless of her marital status.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:29 AM
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Found the fatty -- not a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:27 AM
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I spent a lot of time in the weight room my 1st year of university ( I was 18). I never gained much muscle mass but I went from 230 lbs to 185 lbs (I was 6'3" at the time -- not quite finished growing). My GPA took a hit but women started just sort of appearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:24 PM
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Never listen to what women say -- watch what women do. Women vote with their pussies for tall, attractive, athletic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:18 PM
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No woman under the age of, hell, 45 years old, is pretending they don't like handsome tall athletic guys No women ever pretended convincingly. I'm 60 years old and 6'4". Unfortunately I have a propensity to be chunky. I've struggled to keep my weight under control. When I've been successful women just sort of appear. I learned this lesson in the early 1980s when I first got into good shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:15 PM
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They're indications of interest. I hooked up with the muffin shop girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:51 AM
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Often seems like prostitution with extra steps. These guys aren't going there because they're interested in Asian culture/arts/history.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:41 AM
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When I was an 18 year old 1st year a 3rd year girl bought me a bunch of drinks. I woke up naked in her dorm room..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:36 AM
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It's much more common for women. Attractive young guys occasionally get free stuff. Attractive, and even mid, women of all ages get free stuff. I was most attractive when I was at university (i.e, 18-22). I occasionally got free stuff. One of the cashiers at the dorm cafeteria wouldn't charge me for everything on my tray and a girl who worked at the muffin stand in the student's union building would give me two muffins when I only ordered one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:33 AM
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But if such a guy isn't available (they go fast) she'll settle for a guy she's attracted to who doesn't do "X".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:01 AM
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Nice! A little travel size BBW.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:22 PM
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Confirmed -- many/most women are prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:33 PM
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That's right guys always remember to bring your bank card.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:05 PM
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It's always the guy's fault -- got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:04 PM
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I've been having sex regularly for over four decades -- still waiting for the no longer interested phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:51 AM
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She did.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 12:17 PM
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We were together for 17 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:57 AM
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Traditional women = lazy parasites. Avoid at all costs!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:05 AM
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Divorce laws reward lazy parasite women. Guys need to protect themselves by only marrying educated career women (seriously).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:04 AM
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It's weird AF! If you want to avoid divorce rape don't marry women without their own education and careers. When my ex filed for divorce it turned out that our largest asset was her pension. She was not happy when I got a chunk of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:00 AM
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She was an incredibly cute little punk rocker. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yCW7Aw8ugOI
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:36 PM
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Just because she gives it up a guy she likes doesn't mean she's gave it scores of guys before. Indeed that's the point of this tread -- to show that women treat guys they're into very differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:38 PM
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It's called dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:32 PM
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Yet were friends called her the Ice Princess because of all the guys she'd turned down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:32 PM
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Talking to someone talking to you for 12 hours a day seems like cruel and unusual punishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:29 PM
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I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:23 AM
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Long term relationships start with that 1st hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:45 AM
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The obvious ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 11:14 PM
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If they follow you to your hotel room -- or invite themselves to your place -- or invite you to their place -- it's a sign they like you. A BJ in the car as you drive her home from your first date is pretty good sign too. Women like to find out early "what they're working with."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:41 PM
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picking up on signs of interest That's how I met pretty much every women I've ever been with (n=57).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:41 PM
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You don't even have to talk that much. Women let you know if they're interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:40 PM
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The old red pill calls this hamstering -- i.e. trying to spin things in a way that makes women look virtuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:50 PM
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confidence and charisma AKA upper middle class dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:47 PM
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dominance generate purely sexual attraction. Yup, I met my current GF at a party. I was talking to the guy she went to the party with. He was trying to impress people with BS. I made it clear that he didn't have a clue -- the girl he had taken to the party left with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:06 PM
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Yup, if she's not making it ridiculously easy for you to catch her you're wasting your time. Example: I met my 1st wife at a party when we were both 18. I was standing next to the bonfire drinking a beer. I noticed a pretty girl with perfect peaches and cream skin, big greenish eyes, a shaved head, and lots of earrings standing right next to me looking up at me with big doe eyes. So (without saying a word) I put my are around her waist -- she reciprocated -- I squared up and we started kissing -…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:50 PM
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I’d rather be comfy in my house online Translation = Online works for me -- fuck everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:50 AM
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One was a petite little blonde hairdresser (not my usual type), another was a doctor's daughter I went to university with, and one was a rather large Native American drug dealer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:22 PM
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60
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:05 PM
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Yup, women would be much better off barefoot and pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:02 AM
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Yup, women's brains fill in the gaps with what they want to hear. When I was 19 I had a cheap basement apartment but didn't have enough money for a phone. Women used to leave notes in my mailbox (a real one) telling where they'd be if I wanted to hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:45 AM
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I couldn't talk to women at all when I was young. Didn't matter I still got laid on a regular basis (I'm 6'4" and not ugly). Indeed the less I said the better things usually went.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:58 AM
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Notwithstanding their incessant virtue signalling women love to fuck hot guys. It wasn't a one night stand. It was a '(very short) committed relationship.'
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 12:26 AM
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Physically he's very average. But emotionally and personality wise he's hideous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 12:08 AM
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Grimes and Elon Musk used in vitro fertilization (IVF) to conceive their child, X Æ A-Xii
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:43 PM
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Rich Hot Guy > Poor Hot Guy > > > Rich Unattractive Guy > Poor Unattractive Guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:41 PM
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There's never a shortage of prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:57 PM
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Nope -- most of Musk's children were conceived by in vitro fertilization. No woman wants Musk's pee pee in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:23 PM
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I believe most of his kids were via artificial insemination. No woman want to fuck this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:20 PM
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Elon Musk is the richest man in the world. He's also one of the most repulsive. Status and wealth don't make panties wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:43 PM
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Hot decent guys > Hot criminals >>> unattractive decent guys > unattractive criminal. Women love hot guys for who they are (i.e. hot guys). Women tolerate decent guys for what they can provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:51 PM
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You don't have to read women's minds. You only have to observe the indications of interest women extend toward men they're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:44 AM
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Most of the matches bottom 50% guys get are bots or sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:12 PM
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2-5% match rate for above average guys is good? Next to nothing for half the male population is good?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:08 PM
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The nuance is that a lot of these 'bad boys' really aren't that bad. They're just not harmless wimps or sniveling toads.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:26 PM
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This why. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_UsEHE5GKb0
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:26 PM
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LOL!!! This isn't even close to reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:24 PM
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What alternate reality are you living in?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:59 PM
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Yeah, the fat guys have it easier trope is total BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:45 PM
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The dad bod thing is total BS. Women leave guys who get fat way more than guys leave women who get fat. More importantly women don't hook up with fat guys in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:44 PM
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Pretty fatties >>> gym bunnies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:19 PM
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Women certainly don't like it when their guys get fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:22 AM
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Not all thin women are attractive. Likewise not all fatties are created equal. Lots of guys would choose a pretty fattie.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:31 AM
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If a person isn't visibly fat they're not fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:24 AM
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Lots of other communities like fatties too. I've met people from Germany, the UK, and Norway who travel to the USA just to meet fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:56 AM
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At least 30% of men are totally fine with big women. At least 5% are hardcore chubby chasers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:36 AM
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Thanks to online dating and social media fatties can easily find unlimited dates just like thin women and are, therefore, just as picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:35 AM
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Women have a much narrower range of acceptable phenotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:33 AM
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Yup, lots of fit guys like fat women. Vanishingly few fit women like fat guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:23 AM
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Yup, real feminism means equality -- women working alongside men -- not men treating women like "queens".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:34 PM
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Like clockwork. Today's ugly men are bad post.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:33 PM
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Children are dependent on their parents. Which is why women who want kids need to get themselves six figure careers too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:44 PM
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As a guy I have income and education standards too. No way in hell am I going to marry a woman who can't pay half the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:43 PM
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For LTR/mariage men certainly do care. University educated professionals marry each other. A doctor or lawyer may fuck a Walmart cashier but he's not going to marry her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:39 PM
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Of course you can say that. If a woman can't land a guy who is hot and decent so instead chooses hot assholes over ordinary or unattractive decent guys you can tell her to both choose better and to give guys who aren't hot a shot. Giving ordinary guys a shot is part and parcel of choosing better. Alternatively you could just tell her to shut the fuck up and stop complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:44 PM
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I wouldn't use the word desperately. Its not a choice they want to make -- but yeah that's the way it plays out a lot of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:47 PM
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Whether I find a man attractive or not has no impact on his actual behavior. Pretty much. How attractive he finds you is way more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:38 AM
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Of course she did. Her complaint isn't really where are all the good men? Her complaint is, where are all the good physically attractive men who want a LTR/marriage with me? Those are two very different complaints.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:36 AM
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Spare me -- women know exactly who the assholes are. They knowingly choose attractive assholes over less attractive decent guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:32 AM
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But very common. There's also the associated women putting themselves ahead of their children which is even more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:55 PM
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Yup, availability bias. Hot men who are also decent human beings just aren't available to average ordinary women. Therefore, ordinary women are left with a choice between hot assholes, unattractive decent guys, and unattractive assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:48 PM
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might not be repairable Pretty sure that's the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:22 PM
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Woman A for a while. She's probably an insufferable rich bitch but she might be fun. Woman B sounds boring AF (the never left her state thing is a huge red flag) so hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:02 PM
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With my son I couldn't see shit. I was standing next to my 1st ex-wife and she was digging her very strong and very sharp fingernails into my hand. I couldn't see over her tummy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:59 PM
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That's part of the college/university experience. When I was an 18-year-old 1st year a 3rd year girl got me drunk. I woke up naked in her dorm room. Don't remember if we had sex or not that night -- but we did before I went back to my own dorm room (hard to pass up a sure thing).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:54 PM
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College campuses and western cities are incredibly safe. Don't stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:49 PM
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Chad doesn't buy soap, shampoo, or toothpaste either. He just uses whatever the woman du jour has in her bathroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:46 PM
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Not all needs are immediate and lack of the needed item doesn't always result in death (at least not right away). Without oxygen we die in a few minutes. Without water we die in a few days. Without food we die in weeks or a few months at most. Without sexual/romantic interaction humans don't develop properly, are subject to all sorts of mental and physical issues, and die prematurely. We need sex like we need certain vitamins and minerals. Without enough we don't die (at least not right away) bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:23 PM
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Husband material is equivalent to plan-B girls. The woman who you can fall back on if other, more interesting, more attractive, more exciting, prospects don't pan out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:27 PM
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Rock strata is far from predictable. Interpretation of the data is mostly science but part art too. There are patterns that tell you where oil most likely is but that doesn't mean if you drill there it's 100% certain you'll find oil. But if you drill in an area that stratigraphic interpretation contraindicates then you'll almost certainly have wasted your time. Women are similar. If you pursue women who are not sending indications of interest your chances of success are very slim. If you only pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:57 PM
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I'm never going to apologize for like to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:36 AM
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Sex is the first step on the way to a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:54 AM
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If being/looking likeable means a guy is or looks harmless its the kiss of death relationship wise. The absolute worst thing a guy can do is to be perceived as harmless. Harmless isn't sexy. Golden Retriever guys are pets not fuck buddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:59 AM
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Seems you're the one stuck in a binary world. I live and work in a world of probability and grey areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:41 AM
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I'm a totally analog guy. I was a natural science (geology) major not a computer nerd. The natural world is full of patterns. There are patterns in stratigraphy that tell you were to drill for oil. There are landform patterns observable on air photos and satellite images that tell you where to dig if you need sand and gravel (necessary for almost all construction). Likewise there are patterns is female behavior that indicate whether or not she's into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 10:47 PM
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If not sex she better do one of the following: look up at you with big doe eyes find reasons to stand next to you and lean her head on your upper arm reach up and put her arms around your neck when you're slow dancing and nuzzle her check against your chest and, yeah, actually bite her lip.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 10:13 PM
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I've actually reinforced several wooden bed frames with doubled side rails and slats screwed together to form a lattice to distribute weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 08:09 PM
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Trump and his MAGAts don't give a shit about legality -- as they've clearly shown. Who's going to stop them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 08:00 PM
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My skills provide me a decent six figure salary. I still hate capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:21 PM
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Of course. Any guy who has been on multiple dates has had this happen a few times. Women have all sorts of issues that mess them up. I wouldn't even try to figure out what a particular woman's problem is. Just move on to your next date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:19 PM
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That's not thick. This is thick. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:17 PM
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New policies that are exactly the same as what they were already doing. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:14 PM
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Tell that to the guy who got life for stealing a slice of pizza (in California of all places).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:12 PM
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Heinous criminals: "please don't throw us into the briar patch."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:11 PM
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You and the orange moron haven't thought this through. El Salvador is going to get paid by the USA to take these prisoners and paid again by drug cartels to turn their prisons into offices/hotels from which criminals can continue to conduct business. Trump thinks he's a gangster but he's getting played by actual gangsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:09 PM
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Get over it. Almost every guy is settled for. Not every woman gets to have Brad Pitt (or however the current hot guy is).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:06 PM
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One thousand faces lead to the gate They're all so boring mild sedate You hear me say this don't make any sense As I hop up and over the fence Take my tongue, it's cocked and loaded The board has dubbed you a special student Sit alone, sweat in silence We don't tolerate defiance https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BSMv0_N_YgI
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:21 PM
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Men are not teaching their sons to STFU, sit down, and learn. Forcing boys to sit down and shut up is child abuse. So of course men aren't advocating for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:34 PM
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Which is why I never pay for much until after I've had sex with the woman in question.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:45 AM
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"Dancing Lessons"? Yeah, that will get him laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:25 PM
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WTF? NO!!! Boys learn this shit on the street --always have -- always will.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:54 PM
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I was poor. So of course women didn't ask you for money. You were obviously on their radar for other reasons. Those reasons (i.e. you're attractive) are still predominant now that you're better off. Women don't demand payment for their time and attention from attractive guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:20 PM
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LOL! As is fatties will date losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:46 PM
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This is one area where the sexes differ. Fat women have a constituency. There are enough guys who like, and even prefer, big girls that dating is still relatively easy for fat women. Fat men have no such constituency. The number of women who actually like fat guys is vanishingly small. Thus fat guys really struggle in the dating marketplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:29 PM
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Your total: 153 Your class: Successful
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:47 PM
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She's either lying through her teeth or lacks self-awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:38 PM
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Fuck that bitch. If all seven of her brats don't have college funds she doesn't have any extra money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 09:15 PM
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Such unicorns don't exist. Dumb is dumb through and through.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:59 PM
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Hell fucking yes! Dumb women suck!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:58 PM
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OK -- marriage vows are worthless then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 06:30 AM
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It should be readily apparent to everyone that marriage vows are worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 06:28 AM
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Sure, but don't complain about guys not wanting to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 06:28 AM
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While it may be legally OK to do so undermines the entire concept of marriage. If marriage vows are treated like play things to be discarded if you get bored then marriage means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 06:26 AM
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The world -- even places like China -- is a hell of a lot more liberal than it was 50 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:10 AM
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Doom and gloomers don't want no actually facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:09 AM
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Excellent. This planet will be a lot nicer with 4 billion instead of 8 billion people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:08 AM
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Yup, we're hardly an endangered species.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:06 AM
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Last time I looked this planet was infested with homo sapiens.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:06 AM
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Spare me/us -- society isn't going to collapse because women like to fuck. Feminists aren't endangering society. Reactionary clannish low information (i.e. stupid AF) conservatives are. Reflect on the last two weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:04 AM
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Seriously, life without sex would really suck!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 04:01 PM
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As if sex isn't really really important.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:29 PM
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Mother Nature is a grade A bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:28 PM
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The USA of course. He hates our way of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:22 PM
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He talks like a Nazi. He acts like a Nazi. He salutes like a Nazi. I'm starting to think he just might be a Nazi.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:03 PM
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He's actively trying to destroy a country that took 250 years to build. Think that justifies a bit of hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:01 PM
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Evolutionary fitness just means reproductive success. It's value neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 12:52 AM
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If druggies reproduce and you don't then, yes, they are more fit in the evolutionary sense than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 12:28 AM
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Yup, just because you're qualified doesn't mean you'll be seen as the most qualified. Life is struggle and disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 09:58 PM
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I'm a very good observer -- my job and previous jobs required that skill. I stand by my assertions. Guys who are taller than other guys do better. Guys who are stronger than other guys do better. Guys who are richer than other guys do better. That there are occasional outliers doesn't change these facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 09:56 PM
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It has everything to do with competing with other men. Women don't want a guy that's tall than her -- they want a guy who is taller than other men. Women don't want a guy who is stronger than her -- they want a guy who is stronger than other men. Women don't want a guy who is richer than them -- they want a guy who is richer than other men. ...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 09:44 PM
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Guys need to understand how biology works. Males compete with each other for access to females. Some males succeed and reproduce. Other males fail. The failure of many males to successfully reproduce is baked into evolution. Apparently no one watches BBC nature programs anymore. The only thing guys can do to remain sane is to embrace the struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:54 PM
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You're totally missing the point. My n-count is 57. Only one of whom was a cold approach. The game starts with women sending out indications of interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:22 PM
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Approaching women who haven't first made it very clear that they want to be approached seldom works.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:16 PM
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That shit wack. I had seriously bad trips both times they gave me dilaudid. I'll stick with plain old morphine which has a nice warm mellow high.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 06:19 AM
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My legal role model: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:34 AM
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Ironically strict border enforcement increases the number of illegals in the country. Once they get in they don't leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:28 AM
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I don't go out of my way to entertain women. If they want to tag along with what I'm doing they're welcome to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:23 AM
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I love that my 16-year-old daughter has a Joan Jett poster on her wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:21 AM
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You don't need money. I got laid all the time as a broke ass 18 and 19 year old. I wasn't even 6'4" (didn't hit that height until I was over 20).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:18 AM
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want to entertain women a lot Nah, being a dancing monkey doesn't get guys laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:16 AM
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I pulled it off when I was 18, 19 and 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:14 AM
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It's both. A steady girl who you love (or at least like a lot) is cool. I was quite happy when I was married. But having two or three girls in rotation is pretty cool too. The one time I managed to fuck three women in a single week was a trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:09 AM
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Just listened to one of my favorite songs from high school on an old LP. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4RTipAZuMRI&list=RDGMEMJQXQAmqrnmK1SEjY_rKBGA&index=9 Now I want to drive a pickup truck really fast down a gravel road trailing a giant plume of dust.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:56 AM
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There been a huge uptick in criticism of Israel -- nothing more. There have always been antisemites lurking. Their number hasn't increased -- although Trump has given them permission to espouse their hate more freely.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:26 AM
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Hugs from fatties are far better. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:14 AM
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Don't misconstrue being critical of Israel with antisemitism.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:11 AM
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One of the realities many refuse to admit is that we're all not special snowflakes. There are only so many patterns of human behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:10 AM
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I was walking down Oxford Street last summer -- walking right in front of me was a young South Asian woman dressed is less than modest western clothes talking very loudly on her cell phone with a thick Scottish accent. People like that are totally western. My grandmother couldn't speak a word of English. My generation doesn't speak anything but English (and a few words of French). Traveling to my grandmother's village would be like traveling to an alien world. One of the great advantages the UK/…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:25 PM
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A study designed to measure stereotypical female behaviors finds that women are more likely to engage in these behaviors. What a fucking surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:11 PM
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Had a GF who described me as "a big friendly labrador who won't stay in the yard."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:59 AM
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Don't know what his problem is -- fatties are fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:55 AM
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Pierre was Quebecoi. Justin is not. All those brown and black people in London are pretty damn British. Their birth rates are falling along with everyone else's.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:43 AM
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They (especially the 16 year old) do plan get togethers. Not too much pond hockey in southern California though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:53 AM
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My 14 year old daughter's friend group is mostly female. My 16 year old daughter's friend group is becoming increasingly mixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:33 AM
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Our personalities are set at a very early age. Women don't give a rats ass about hobbies and that over shit. If a guy wants to be successful at dating he just has to be attractive. Hot guys don't need stellar personalities. They just can't have a horrible personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:23 AM
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Those cultures are pretty much irrelevant to the educated urban parts of the Western World. Revenge of the cradle never seems to work. 75 years ago Quebec thought their high birth rates would overwhelm Anglophone Canada. Unfortunately for them Quebec's birth rate plummeted and is now the lowest of the Canadian provinces. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/La_Revanche_des_berceaux
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:05 AM
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In the western world outside the USA educated urban people just shack up. Marriage isn't really a thing -- arrangements are. These arrangements typically last longer than American marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:47 PM
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After a certain point a woman just wants a stable that guy to settle down with and will spoil them There's a word for those guys -- 'chumps'.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:31 PM
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They pick a guy that’s not had a girlfriend in years. They pick the guy who can’t date around so easily like the others. Especially when women hit their 30s, they need to change gears and get practical. Mostly agree -- but this happens in women women are in their 40s not 30s. They don't want to have kids with Billy Beta. They want Billy Beta to be a 'real man' and pay for the kids they already have.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:28 PM
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Yup. Lowering her standards by accepting a hot guy's slow Tuesday night slot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:21 PM
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It's far from a small minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:19 PM
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It's pretty much all women in that situation rotating through the same men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:18 PM
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A totally BS study.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:17 PM
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Women love being objectified -- by men they find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:34 PM
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Lots of guys prefer fatties.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:05 PM
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LOL! Women love to lie to themselves. Women are hardly "prosocial".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:43 AM
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Every woman who's "taking a break from dating" will still jump for guys she finds attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:40 AM
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That's not leaving the dating market. That's being unsuccessful in the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:37 AM
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I'm not seeing a problem. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:36 AM
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Means trying to please and entertain a woman 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:32 AM
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I was a total asshole to women when I was young. They put up with it. Guess I was hotter than I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:27 AM
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She's attractive but nothing special. I doubt I'd notice her in a crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:21 AM
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Average is shorter, dumpier, and uglier. Average isn't particularly attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:05 AM
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She's way better than average looking. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:11 AM
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She got potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:09 AM
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Way too skinny! Another 50 pounds and she'd be much hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:08 AM
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Getting hit on by other guys is weird. It happened to me a few times when I was still a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:02 AM
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What difference does that make?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:01 AM
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He's an attractive giant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 02:59 AM
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Details matter. There are more men at the very top and very bottom of most socioeconomic and educational measurements. Men are overrepresented in the highest achievement levels. Men are also overrepresented at the lowest levels. Women are more clustered in mid level achievement levels. Women may indeed come to slightly out earn men by being better mid level grinders than men. However, this is hardly the flex OP thinks it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 02:54 AM
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Women get pussy passes. When a woman is violet (as they often are) society just shrugs or laughs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:02 PM
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She can make more working at McDonalds.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:21 AM
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aging garden gnome I think I know that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:11 AM
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Yup, with the the Trump presidency it certainly is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:09 AM
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Think you got this backwards it's vaccine deniers who make a fuss about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:09 AM
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Fatties 'deserve' and want a night at the best buffet in town.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:06 AM
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You do know that the Sopranos is fiction?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:04 AM
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Lots of women love drive-by sex too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:27 AM
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Women aren't hard to read. Also, they tend to talk a lot and often say the quiet part out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:14 AM
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LOL! As if women are calmer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:02 AM
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The rates of female domestic violence would be a start. I've been violently assaulted by every woman I've ever lived with. Apparently I make them "so mad"!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:57 AM
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Arguing against yourself again I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:51 AM
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Women love to fuck. Men love to fuck. They hook-up. How is this a bad thing? Sex makes everyone involved life better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:48 AM
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Men are generally better at violence because they're stronger but women's tendencies toward violence are just as strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 04:04 PM
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Roaming bands of single, sexless, disenfranchised men? What could possibly go wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:58 PM
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Nah. The reality is that jails and prisons are full of incels. Only attractive bad boys get laid and most criminals are ugly AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:33 PM
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Being a generally kind hearted person has never got me laid -- not even once. Being an educated person has never got men laid -- not even once. Being very tall and not ugly -- that's got me laid many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:21 PM
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LOL! As if women cared more before the internet. I'm 60 years old. I can assure you that women didn't care about the struggles of unattractive men any more thin 1985 than they do today.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:12 PM
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OP needs to understand that women don't give a shit about the struggles of unattractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:19 AM
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I was around in the 80s and 90s. Women are exactly the same today as they were back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 03:17 PM
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Many are still interested in marriage. However, many women don't even notice the guys who would marry them in a heartbeat. There's a real shortage of 'Mr. Rights' -- but there are plenty of 'Mr. Goodenoughs'.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 03:10 PM
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Women don't care what your lift numbers are. Women only care that you look athletic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:59 AM
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The world is far from just.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:03 AM
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None of those other areas mean shit when it comes to hooking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:01 AM
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The only thing that having money does is let you fish is classier dating pools. Whether or not you catch anything is mostly determined by looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:00 AM
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Just good doesn't cut it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:59 PM
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Most guys will never be "jacked" without chemical intervention.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:56 PM
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Totally irrelevant. 19 to 24 year old guys are hotter and that's all that matters here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:54 PM
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99.9% of men aren't pro athletes. Ordinary men peak as OP asserts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:52 PM
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Muscular old dudes are hotter than fat old dudes but they're still old dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:50 PM
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They have to pick someone people know -- someone with a track record.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:48 PM
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LOL! The best all that toil can accomplish is to slow the inevitable decline. OP is 100% correct. Guys physically peak in their late teens or early 20s. I know I did. I look better than the vast majority of old dudes. Doesn't mean I wasn't hotter when I was 19.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:46 PM
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She's physically attractive. She just needs to shut the fuck up!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:45 AM
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Fat slutty bitches are fine. But this chick does not seem like she'd be any fun at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:43 AM
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Having dealt with literally thousands of domestic violence cases let me assure you women are just as violent and just as abusive as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:11 AM
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LOL! OP thinks it's pretty young women who are being manipulated. In reality the opposite is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 09:18 PM
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Read between the lines. It's women saying that if they can't get the marriage and white picket fence package then they're just going to enjoy fucking hot guys without commitment. Hot guy who won't commit >>> Meh guy who will.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 09:16 PM
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Many won't accept this self-evident truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:42 PM
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One of the first things you learn doing domestic violence cases is that women are just as violent and just as culpable as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:05 PM
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Domestic violence cases espouse ordinary human behaviors. When reading the reports and watching body cam footage you see very familiar patterns. The only difference between ordinary couples and couples who engage in domestic violence is that the former have more impulse control.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:44 PM
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I've been in a lot of gyms over the years and have never seen this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:28 PM
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I've been working in the criminal justice system for over two decades. There most certainly are patterns of behavior. Nowhere was this more clear than in the three long years I spent assigned to felony domestic violence court in a large SoCal county. The vast majority of cases fell into one of several stock patterns of behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:03 PM
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Cruise ship with food on tap 24 hrs a day. You'll fatten back up in no time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 09:25 PM
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women do want validation from men and miss it if it's not there. My 1st ex-wife who's about to turn 60 mentioned that she misses sex. Thing is she'd have no problem getting dates if she wasn't so skittish about it. Half the single (and some not single) old guys in her neighborhood have asked her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 09:22 PM
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It's been my experience that a woman's sexual appetite is positively correlated with her actual appetite.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 09:18 PM
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That's a fattie feature -- not a fault. Score another point for fat sluts!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 09:16 PM
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Lots of people sorta age out of drinking. I know I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 09:14 PM
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Not worry -- it will.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 09:09 PM
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After I lost some weight when I was 18 I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 02:48 PM
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Bars. Drinking age in most places is 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 02:46 PM
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If a guy is physically very attractive women will look past pretty much any other flaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 03:22 AM
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If I remember correctly Oklahoma has the highest divorce rate. If you want to find women on their 4th and 5th marriages you need to go to poor, rural, god fearing parts of the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 03:19 AM
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This is nothing new. There have always been older women interested in "fresh meat". When I was a teenager (18 and 19) I slept with several women 10 to 15 years older than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 02:53 AM
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Yup! There are lots of guys who will date fat women. Many men even prefer fat women. There are very few women who will date fat men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:04 AM
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Kid don't care if mom and dad have a marriage license or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 10:24 PM
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My 2nd ex-wife was the pretty fat girl guys on her high school football team dated on the down-low. Wasn't a problem -- I was varsity basketball player at my high school so I was taller than all her exes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 09:49 PM
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If I understand the Patel Clan economic strategy correctly many of those hotels are purchased for individual families with clan money that the family is expected to pay back so that the next generation can be bankrolled.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:22 PM
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years is a little bit too far to assume they flaked on you. Silly me for not realizing female friendship had an expiry date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 09:10 AM
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Guys don't need more mental health BS. Guys need to understand the life is struggle and pain. Guys need to accept the pain and embrace the struggle. No one is going to save you. It doesn't get better. Learn to live with this reality and keep on fighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 01:57 AM
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Funny how no one else finds that clip relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:45 PM
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The move refrigerator girl was my wing woman the evening I picked up needs utilities turned back on girl. I was hoping for a deep connection. When I really did need some emotional support years later they were all MIA.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:44 PM
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We were having sex before. We were having sex after. Being a helpful and attentive didn't deepen the relationships. Not all orbiters are celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:57 PM
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Seems every jury who convicted, every defense lawyer who negotiated a settlement for, and every judge who sentenced these assholes missed that tape. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:55 PM
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The classic "he made me do it" defense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:53 PM
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I was repaid in sex. But not actual friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:52 PM
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Total fucking bullsit! They were on video. We've all seen the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:50 PM
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All those marriage stats include couples who were married in the 1970s, 1960s, and even 1950's -- i.e. people who are 60, 70, and even 80 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:50 PM
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Hunter is/was a spoiled rich brat. Like thousands of others who did way worse and were never charged with anything -- just shipped off the very expensive rehabs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:43 PM
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Those guys deserved prison cells. The rule of law is dead. Supposedly Law & Order conservatives killed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:41 PM
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Any good quality hard cheese works. The quality of the bread is more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:37 PM
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If a woman likes her guy to take charge she shouldn't complain about his choices or the results of his actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:35 PM
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It's not women who are staying. It's men who put up with shit. Women leave marriages. Your aunt is an example from a bygone era.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:18 PM
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Women love having a stable of useful guys on speed dial that they can call upon when needed. Hate to say it but for many years I was one of those guys. I was a giant grade-A chump! Over the years I was called upon to move refrigerators and washing machines, get utilities turned back on, negotiate with angry landlords, deal with a friend's sister's child support issues, even get a woman's criminal record expunged. All I got in return was some pats on the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:15 PM
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Exactly! I'm not about to dance like a trained monkey in a futile attempt to elicit a better response.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 06:07 AM
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If a guy is having difficulty conversing with a woman he needs to find a different woman. If conversation is work she's not the one -- not even for one night.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 06:06 AM
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Sluts are by far the best type of woman!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:12 PM
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Sluts >>> Hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:12 PM
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The sex is the reward. Women like to fuck hot guys just because they like to fuck hot guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:11 PM
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Playing games with sex. Using it as a tool never ends well. This including the make them wait game (that's using sex too).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:10 PM
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Cats can never be put back in bags. People just need to learn how to deal. Chinese ownership is irrelevant in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:56 PM
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And filters. A woman I dated seven years ago recently changed her Facebook profile pic. It's so filtered I hardly recognized her. Thing is she's actually quite photogenic without filters.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:41 PM
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The Tik Tok thing got me thinking. Posting images of one's self and worrying about how you look in those images 24/7 is really bad for people. The hotel I'm about to check out of has a mirror right over the desk so I'm looking at myself as I type this. At first I thought I don't look too bad for an old guy -- but after a while I've come to focus on weird stuff -- like the new little age spot next to my right eye. Now I'm thinking my cheeks are too chubby making me look like a friendly bear not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:33 PM
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OP is sorta right. The more correct -- more direct -- way to state this is as follows. There's nothing more loyal than a slut in love. When a woman who likes sex -- a woman who has had her share of sex both good and bad -- finds a guys who she really vibs with she's going to lock onto him like a pair of vice grips. She knows what she wants -- she knows a lot of guys aren't what she wants -- she knows she's found what she wants. She's not settling -- just the opposite actually. The forgoing is ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:04 PM
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I just can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:26 AM
3

You asked a question. I answered it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:12 AM
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Why? RUFKM? Because women love to fuck just as much as guys do. Duh! Also, why would I care if they do it often?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 07:56 AM
1

Actually, educated middle and upper middle class women are least likely to divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 07:55 AM
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You don't ask for special treatment. Women just give it. Example: when I was 18 years old I was walking out of a bar with a buddy at closing. Two mid 20s women asked if we wanted to party -- we said sure -- followed them to their place in my buddies pickup truck. Didn't have to spend a dime. The women even made us breakfast the next morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 07:52 AM
2

Maybe its an American thing but at my Canadian university pretty much everyone (including women) hated frat boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 07:36 AM
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The court isn't on the woman's side. Courts can order the richer spouse to pay for the other spouse's attorney if that spouse can't. Want to avoid this just don't marry anyone who doesn't have an education and career. This is a gender neutral thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 07:11 AM
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Of course it is. White collar crime is always hard to prove.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:37 AM
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Flannel and jeans worked in the 70s. Flannel and jeans worked in the 90s. Still works today. I'm a creature of habit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:33 AM
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Of course I agree. Why the fuck would anyone advocate fraud?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:27 AM
1

If it had been a real marriage those "protections" could have been breached.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:26 AM
1

Fraudulent transactions can be voided and the person who made them held to account.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:24 AM
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That's already illegal too. The tort of fraud by false pretenses. The crime of theft by false pretenses. The legal profession has been around for a bit. We got this covered.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:23 AM
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It sorta already is. In a divorce the court will order the parties to disclose all their assets. If a party doesn't they can be charged with failure to obey a court order (in California that's Penal Code section 166).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:21 AM
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My son got more grant/scholarship money than his sister. Although she went to better universities (and won't let him forget it). Alabama's financial aid package was what I call a Godfather offer (an offer you can't refuse) -- full ride including dorms and a free computer. I was like "screw ULCA you're going to Tuscaloosa."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:17 AM
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You have to be more than just a little bit smart to become a high level professional. According to US Army testing I've got 99th percentile intelligence but I still had to take the California bar exam twice. For most people being a high level professional just isn't an option. There are also lots of other things that can derail people from less privileged backgrounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 12:59 AM
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Who the hell wants a "traditional" woman? Everyone needs to work. Everyone needs an education and/or viable trade.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:55 PM
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Nothing is ever that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:44 PM
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The formula used by most American courts takes into account both the percentage of time the child spends with each parent and the amount of money each parent earns. On its face it's a pretty fair system. However, problems arise when men are denied an equitable amount of time with their kids (although this is changing -- guys are increasingly getting more time).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:44 PM
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A mean spirited moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:07 PM
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She's not wrong about Trump and his troglodyte supporters. https://www.propublica.org/article/josseli-barnica-death-miscarriage-texas-abortion-ban
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:06 PM
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Q: What do 90% of premed students have in common? A: They'll never be doctors. The kind of success your GF has enjoyed did indeed require hard work but also a lot of things beyond her control. Things like good innate ability, a few lucky breaks, a few good people in her corner at crucial times, ... The world is full of hard working people who literally can't catch a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 11:57 AM
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Fuck that shit! Her reward for sex is sex. Women like to fuck too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 11:46 AM
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I learned to drive in Canada so I'm used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:40 AM
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My place is in a valley. We have a couple of inches of snow on the ground. There's lots more at higher elevations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:19 AM
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That technique wouldn't go over so well in California.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:18 AM
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"B" -- I can hack this. I prefer fat women who many would rank as 4s but I'd rank as 10s. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:16 AM
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It's below freezing and snowing lightly in Vermont. About an hour ago I got to test the anti-lock brakes in my rented VW -- they worked well -- no accident.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:10 AM
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Nah. A guy can let his GF win a round of mini-golf.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:08 AM
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WIth every person I've ever had a LTR/marriage with at least 8/10. Except for a couple high school GFs but those don't really count.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:06 AM
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As if women are going to respond positively to being randomly approached by unattractive guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:04 AM
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If you want to get rid of them eat more pork. At least in California, you can hunt them 365 days a year. They're one of the few animals I'd consider hunting. They're very challenging -- they go pretty much nocturnal when subject to pressure from hunters. https://wildlife.ca.gov/Hunting/Wild-Pig
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:01 AM
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Damn, that Indian janitor guy got some competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:42 AM
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Just as valid as anything I studied in "real" social science classes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:40 AM
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We're not all special snowflakes. 16 types is more than enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:59 AM
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As if that makes a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:32 AM
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TRP doesn't tell guys to be providers. Just the opposite actually. It shows guys that being a provider is for fools.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:23 AM
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Branch swinging isn't the minority tactic. It's standard female procedure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:21 AM
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Tummy bulges are sexy! <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:15 AM
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But it's very consistent. I'm INTP every time. The description of that personality type is pretty much spot on too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:14 AM
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I'm INTP every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:12 AM
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Sounds like women who went to Catholic school on steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:10 AM
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Virtue or not -- I like women with giant fat booties.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:03 AM
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Why? That's not equality. I'm a total feminist. I treat men and women equally and expect exactly the same from men and women. If a man is an asshole he gets called on his shit. If a woman is an asshole she gets exactly the same treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:25 PM
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It's women like her that make men red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:41 PM
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Lilith, cornering the straw futures once again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:40 PM
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As if some women aren't just as evil as some men. If this is your experience with men perhaps you should pick/choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:14 PM
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I take full responsibilty for my fuckups. I didn't get into medical school because I totally slacked off 1st and 2nd year of university. My dating life has been way more difficult than it needed to be because I refused to see that looks are most important despite the proof being easy to see all around me. Things could have been a hell of a lot easier if I'd spent more time and effort at the gym rather than wasting years in grad school and over a decade trying to get my career off the ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:44 PM
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Other than the really stupid financial abortion argument which most rational guys never make your remaining 8 examples regard issues where no one looks great. The push back isn't saying men are saints. The pushback is saying women are pretty damn fucked up too. Women do lots of reprehensible things everyday of the year -- just like men. We're just pointing out that the "Women are Wonderful" trope is total BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:39 PM
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Chicken meet egg. Regardless, lots of men are truly attracted to and will willinging pursue fat women -- even really fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:32 PM
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Your argument is specious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:29 PM
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Many of the guys here are blithering idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:47 AM
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The last thing a guy should want is a lazy, uneducated, broke ass woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:32 AM
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A pretty woman with an education and career >>> broke ass pretty woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:31 AM
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It's fun OP really doesn't seem to understand this. Young women like to party with young men. It's not predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:09 AM
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If she's a pretty fattie she'll get one (or more than one).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:50 AM
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A person doesn't have to be appealing to everyone to have an easy dating life. They just need a constituency who find them attractive. Fat women have such a constituency. Fat men do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:23 AM
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Every 300+ pound woman I know IRL has had multiple romantic partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:07 AM
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Outliers make poor examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:05 AM
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As harsh as it sounds severely disabled people aren't relevant to this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:05 AM
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When fat women say they "deserve love too" the mean they deserve a tall hot guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:00 AM
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The number of guys who like fat women far exceeds the number of women who like fat men. Fat women have a constituency. Fat men do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 11:51 PM
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It's about sexual compatibility. If she enjoyed daily sex with her ex but not with you you're not sexually compatible. Time to ghost her and move on. If she enjoyed pegging her ex and want to do it to you too most likely you're not sexually compatible. If you're not a fan of that kind of play ghost her and move on. OP is not scoring the points he thinks he's scoring.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:37 PM
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Those little cans they sell are just enough to really piss someone off but not enough to stop them. Source, I've been pepper sprayed many times (military and police training).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 04:15 AM
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Thousands of untested kits doesn't mean there were thousands of rapes. Priority cases (i.e. where it appears there actually was a rape) get tested pronto. Rape is fortunately a very rare crime. People with agendas and budgets to justify pump up numbers by lumping all sorts of sexual batteries and assaults together. Total sexual assault number sound impressive only because people assume that actual rapes are a major component of the totals -- they're not -- the major competent is relatively trivi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 04:07 AM
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Women are safe not because they have a useless little can of pepper spray in their purse. Women are safe because western society is safe. Because we have more or less effective police forces and rule of law. Women's irrational wariness has little to do with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 03:51 AM
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The western world is a safer place for women (and everyone else too) than its ever been. The most dangerous thing most women do is drive their car.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 03:26 AM
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More likely scenario is that poor Billy Beta is her 15th or so partner who she's settling for after not being able to lock down one the 4 or 5 previous guys fuck buddies she wanted. And, yes, Billy has likely been waiting around pretty much sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:50 AM
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Post a link to the data you're citing. I don't think you understand the methodology.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:24 AM
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Post a link to the data you're citing. I don't think you understand the methodology.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:23 AM
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I guess. It's more honest than thinking women are wonderful
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:21 AM
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Not trying to control anyone. Women are free to do whatever they choose with their life. Guys are free to be "Captain Save-a-hoe" and bail women out from a lifetime of poor choices. And I'm free to mock both sides. A who's a woman's 3rd, 4th, 5th ... choice is an idiot if he thinks he's winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:16 AM
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I guess. Regardless, guys should steer clear of any woman who has ever monetized sex. Some things lose all value when they're monetized.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:11 AM
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Sorry, but not much is more pathetic than a guy paying a woman to pretend to like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:08 AM
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Not at all. I believe prostitution should be totally legal (people should be free to make stupid choices). Women can exploit lonely men. Lonely men can delude themselves into thinking the affection is real. People just need to understand than hoes fuck for money as opposed to money making them want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:04 AM
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That "half of American women" includes 40, 50, 60, 70, and even 80 year old married women. No one ever said that most guys don't eventually get scraps/leftovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:38 PM
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More sad truth than irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:31 PM
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A survey of married women includes women who were married 20 , 30, 40, even 50 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:27 PM
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Just because most men eventually get some scraps and/or leftovers doesn't refute OP's point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:54 PM
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If women are making themselves easily available to you then you are most definitely not "average."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:52 PM
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I'm aware that's how it works. So lets everyone stop pretending that it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:42 AM
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Not going to hold my breath waiting for women to be held accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:14 AM
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Of course not. Women don't want to waste time getting to know unattractive guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:11 AM
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Living in California has made me a wimp. I'm in the NE for the rest of the week. It's 18 degrees F which really isn't that cold but my body's not liking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 10:21 PM
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You don't need props to be dominant. Indeed they'd probably be more of a hindrance than a help.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 10:13 PM
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Laws that limit how you can use your body to inflict pain and suffering are a different animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 10:11 PM
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Nope. People physically peak in their late teens or early 20s. It's all downhill from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 10:09 PM
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Not true at all. Red states (excepting Utah) have the highest divorce rates and blue states the lowest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 10:02 PM
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"giving men permission to make the first move". AKA sending out indications of interest. What women have done since the dawn of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:54 PM
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OP has no clue how dating and relationships work. Women can be fat so long as they have a pretty face/tits/ass. Men can be boring AF as long as they are tall with a muscular athletic body.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:59 PM
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The Cosby case stands for the proposition that if you have enough money you can get away with being an evil monster. Weinstein stands for the proposition that if you're an absolutely disgusting evil monster money isn't enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:55 PM
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Ironically, women are more likely to feel pain with a "careful" guy. It's nature's way of telling her to not procreate with this wimp.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:26 PM
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The trick is to not give a shit about this game. Do things your way. If she likes what you're bringing great. If not she knows where the door is. Above all never do any sexual act you don't want to do. If you don't want to go down on her don't. Women aren't entitled to trained sex monkeys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:19 PM
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Opening up to women never ends well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 07:38 AM
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But she's pretty much accepting it as inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 07:38 AM
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The guy leaving after she puts him through medical school trope is so 1970s.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 07:11 AM
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Women complain about it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 06:55 AM
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She been around for a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 06:47 AM
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My GF's uncle has been living in the Philippines with a woman 30 years younger than he is. She's nothing special to look at and has two kids from two prior relationships. I'm not seeing this as an upgrade from the women he dated in the USA, most of who were quite young and good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:32 AM
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Women think restoring houses means picking out paint colors. Women are nowhere to be found when you need to hand dig trenches for french drains or repair and repoint a stone wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:35 AM
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I listen to a lot of not so popular music, read a lot, watch a lot of movies, plant trees, and restore old houses.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:24 AM
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Add all those weird things together and I doubt you have 5% of the population. The only one I've ever done is bowling. I took a girl bowling -- I didn't meet her at the bowling alley. Indeed there are few people under 40 at bowling alleys unless it's kids afternoon with bumpers. People don't meet SOs through hobbies. They take SO they met elsewhere to their hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 08:02 PM
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Women give up trying when they think they've landed a guy with their golden pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 07:16 PM
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I don't know a single person who met their SO through a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 06:54 PM
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Women and attractive men get invited places. No one invites unattractive men anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 06:53 PM
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A woman's true personality is seldom revealed until after she has sex with you. If after sex she reverts to her boring meh true self then of course she's going to get ghosted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 06:51 PM
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I suppose that happens sometimes but the number of women filing for divorce says otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 05:25 PM
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What experience are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 02:53 PM
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The experience of millions of men is proof enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 02:40 PM
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Apparently they can just call the daily thread the Daily Thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:30 AM
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Ugly people have feelings too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:12 AM
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Unattractive high school guys were ignored and dismissed by homely nerdy girls too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 11:48 PM
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Four of them. Two from my 2nd ex-wife and two more from 1st ex-wife. A bunch of grandkids too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:54 PM
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Everytime you bounce back you're a little more jaded -- a little more cynical. I miss being hopeful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 09:46 PM
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They settled for the safe option but soon grow bored. They come to resent the guy they settled for. After all they "deserve better."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 08:31 PM
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I'm not saying it was a good relationship. Just saying that provider relationships can be (and often are) a hell of a lot worse. My relationship with my 2nd ex-wife being a prime example. She took everything I had to offer. I stupidly but very happily gave her everything. When there was nothing left to extract from me she kicked me to the curb and found her next husband/victim (using the body I paid for with money from selling my house which I'd owned long before we met -- cosmetic surgery ain't…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:59 PM
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The red pill was originally just about understanding female behavior. It wasn't political or traditional. Unfortunately the red pill label has been taken over by incels, ultra conservatives, and traditionalists. The original red pill didn't long for some ideal past that never actually existed. The original red pill was about strategies for living in our world as it is and dealing with women as they are (and always were). One core original red pill message/lesson was that being a dutiful provider…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:47 PM
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how toxic Rochelle and Julius' relationship was Rochelle actually appreciates her provider more than most women. She brags to her friends that "her man has two jobs."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:11 PM
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Yup, "baddies" get better treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:54 PM
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NO!!! If she was a superficial twat who only cared about her status and what her friends thought when she was in high school she's very likely still that same person at her core. She may just be better at covering up her ugliness. People seldom change who they really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:46 PM
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That’s the scam. They enjoy financial and personal freedom, while men are still expected to sacrifice theirs to uphold an outdated ideal. It’s a one-sided dynamic where the men are completely drained. Men actually like this role. They enjoy thinking their hard work and sacrifice are being valued. Guys like living in blue pill delusion. Of course that makes it all the worse when they realize how mistaken they were.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:41 PM
1

With OLD its more like choose a bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:44 PM
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As if people talk before fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:42 PM
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A middle school I taught at had a very hot fat school lunch lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:05 PM
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And poetry, and drama, and art ... It's almost as if we're a social species or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:01 PM
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The affection is fake. The consent is real. People consent to participation in unpleasant activities all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:57 PM
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California has more employment opportunities than any other place in the entire world. My rent to income ratio is better in California than any other place I've ever lived. But gotta say that life was logistically easier with fewer annoyances in Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:48 PM
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It's a beautiful sunny morning here in northern California. I was in Canada last week. It was pretty damn nice in BC too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:45 PM
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Details matter. If she trades in her Camaro because it was an unreliable money pit, buys a Prius, and truly appreciates how much more reliable and economical the Prius is there isn't a problem. However, as is more likely, she's bitter about no longer being able to afford to drive a sporty car and resents having to drive a boring ugly Prius then there's a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:40 PM
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We're talking about a slow population decline -- not decimation. Old people will have to pony up some of their accumulated wealth but boomers can afford it. This isn't a crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:34 PM
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Fewer kids doesn't mean no kids. There are still 49 million K-12 students in the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:22 PM
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To procure care richer old (most white) people are going to have to transfer wealth to younger less wealthy (less white) people. This is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:05 AM
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Of the actual rape cases I've handled its more like 50%. The most recent was only a few months ago. Lets just say the defendant was damn lucky that he left his cell phone video recording. Her statement to police wasn't even close to reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:13 PM
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I've been working in the criminal justice system for more than 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:55 PM
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Which member of the top 1% is hottest or richest is an irrelevant issue. The gap between the top 1% and the remaining 99% of us is what's important.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:47 PM
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Any random sample of people. Find me anyone who truly thinks prime Bradd or Tom wasn't physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:14 PM
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There are way more than a tiny amount of false accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:11 PM
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We pretty much all agree that both Brad Pitt and Tom Cruise were very good looking men in their prime. Arguing about who's the hottest of the hottest is pretty irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:07 PM
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It was metro LA. I don't think we were paying even 20K income tax at the time. Combined family income was barely over 100K.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:51 PM
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The idea that more population is better is the ultimate in simplistic thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:34 PM
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Stating in the late 1940s West Germany -- which certainly did have a shortage of men after WWII -- experienced a remarkable period of rapid economic growth, often referred to as the "Wirtschaftswunder" (economic miracle),
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:22 PM
2

We were paying 36K per year for two kids in 2012. I doubt its cheaper today.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:10 PM
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Per capita wealth is all that matters. Sweden is far richer than China or India.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:06 PM
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College enrolment is down. https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2024/dec/08/college-enrollment-declining And likely to continue to decline. https://www.npr.org/2025/01/08/nx-s1-5246200/demographic-cliff-fewer-college-students-mean-fewer-graduates And it is indeed getting easier to get in. https://hechingerreport.org/a-trend-colleges-might-not-want-applicants-to-notice-its-becoming-easier-to-get-in/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:40 AM
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Lots of jobs can't be outsourced. We need to stop catering to billionaires.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:34 AM
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Bubbles benefit billionaires not ordinary people. Most of the world's stocks are owned by billionaires. Housing is much more important for ordinary people. Houses are cheap in Illinois because the state has been losing population for a long time. A long slow decline in population will benefit ordinary people -- especially the for the smaller younger generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:14 AM
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it will mean that a lot of assets will be worth less on paper. That's a problem for billionaires. But a good thing for ordinary people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:07 AM
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At college parties I'd just hang out drinking beer. Sometimes a girl would just sorta showup.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:05 AM
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Rich old people are still going to want goods and services. Labor shortages are going to facilitate massive wealth transfers from boomers to younger generations. This is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:02 AM
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Yup. Women decide who they want, send out indications of interest to that guy, and generally make it real easy for the guy they've chosen. Both my ex-wives decided they wanted to fuck me before we'd formally met.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:44 AM
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Supply of labor goes down -- demand for remaining workers goes up (Econ 101).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:11 AM
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After WWII there was a shortage of men (war will do that) and the economy boomed. After the Black Death (i.e. plague) there was a shortage of everyone. The survivors had opportunities previously unheard of.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:03 AM
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2K per month will just barely cover daycare for one kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:48 PM
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It's not even a problem. Decreasing fertility is only a problem for people who want to exploit workers (i.e. corporations and billionaires). For ordinary people (i.e. 99.9% of the population) decreasing fertility means more opportunity, more bargaining power, and higher wages. It also means less competition for housing and other resources so prices come down too. Young people are already seeing benefits. College applications are down so acceptance rates are up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:43 PM
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Never said 200K couldn't buy prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 04:21 PM
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Cops and firefighters make over 200K in California. The rich and famous obviously make way more. 200K isn't anywhere near enough to drop panties.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 01:54 PM
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I noticed a bruise on my back when I woke up That happened to me once when I was 18. Apparently I was sliding down the railing in the middle of a stone stairway, went over backwards, and slid the rest of the way down on back and head. The guys from my dorm said it looked cool. Didn't feel so cool the next morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:31 AM
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She needs to be sexy but not traditionally feminine. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 04:07 AM
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Women virtue signal a hell of a lot more. Women love to tell people how caring and empathetic they are. Female empathy is often externally driven -- i.e. women are empathetic when it gets them approval -- not so much when no one will notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 02:50 AM
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California.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 02:46 AM
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Nowhere outside of the trailer park will 200K make a guy a babe magnet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 02:15 AM
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Bus drivers make 100K. 200K isn't anything special either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 01:51 AM
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Apple shaped fatties with pretty faces still get a lot of play.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 01:17 AM
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If they think the bargain is worth it they can knock themselves out. But they better not complain when she fucks guys she's actually attracted to on the side and takes them to the cleaners in the divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:19 PM
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That trope isn't exactly accurate. Women do indeed fuck rich and/or powerful guys -- but it's only a performance with the expectation of remuneration. That's very different than actual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:16 PM
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I was a blissfully happy married blue pill guy for about 7 years. When I didn't meet expectations I got dumped for a more promising Billy Beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:12 PM
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I made the mistake of marrying a gold digger. I feel compelled to warn younger guys of the danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:27 PM
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Lots of men actually prefer fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:55 PM
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In fact men will WILLINGLY pay for the mere pretense of sexual attraction from attractive women. Men can be, and often are, stupid AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:54 PM
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That's part of the LTR package.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:53 PM
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When it comes to basic desires like lust we're remarkably similar. Gold diggers don't lust for sex sex with rich guys. They're just willing to engage is sex without lust for the payoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:51 PM
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Yes, but that doesn't mean they're attracted to the people they fuck to get that money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:49 PM
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LOL! Pure delusion. That's acting dude. Good prostitutes are great actors.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:45 PM
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generally gold diggers aren't the women you want. Understatement of the year.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:43 PM
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LOL! OP is so close. Women love being objectified by hot guys regardless of financial status. When a guy uses his money to get women he gets prostitutes/gold diggers who pretend to like him. These women put up with being objectified to get what they want. Being a hoe is dirty work.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:41 PM
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Police inviting the tourist into the capital: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:21 AM
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Entered full fledged psychotic delusion land I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:30 AM
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Remington pump with a rifle barrel loaded with three once and a quarter slug and two buck shot rounds. The later for if you're a bad shot and the bear is now really close. That's the weapon I was provided with but I never used it. I usually just left it in my patrol vehicle.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:28 AM
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I've encountered many bears in many woods. Never had a problem. They're actually quite timid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:22 AM
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LOL! It's all on video.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:18 AM
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Hard to beat Nazis when it comes to pure evil. Doesn't change the fact its easier to deal with evil external enemies than it is to deal with domestic terrorists and traitors.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:17 AM
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Internal threats have always been seen as the worst. That's why treason is punishable by death.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:08 AM
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Just ordinary tourists. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:06 AM
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China seems to understand soft power better than the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:28 AM
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If you stage a rebellion and don't succeed you better be prepared for the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:26 AM
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"Talked about" sure but there need to be more serious consequences for treason than just talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:43 PM
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Why are you being an apologist for traitors?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:42 PM
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The fact that the attack came from within actually makes January 6th worse -- and much harder to deal with. Traitors are worse than enemy combatants.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:41 PM
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Trump's Greenland and Canada obsession suddenly makes sense. As sea ice melts the Arctic Ocean will become navigable soon. Countries that control the passage stand to benefit immensely. Putin wants his puppet to deliver him that control.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:38 PM
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Urban areas are the best place for kids. Seriously. Can't stand people who go on about how the want to move to rural areas "for the children". There's more substance abuse, depression, and suicide in rural areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 09:03 PM
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I kept my house in Stockton until the price rebounded enough to sell. In retrospect I should have let the bank take it in 2009.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:45 PM
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WTF? This is poor America. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:05 PM
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America -- the car crash you can't look away from.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:02 PM
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It was in 1955. Things old white people like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:00 PM
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It actually is good news. The mask is off the evil billionaire class.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:57 PM
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A 12 hour day as a lawyer isn't the same as a 12 hour day underground in a mine. I know -- I'm one of the few people who have done both. One of the nicest things about being a high level professional is that everyone else adapts to your schedule. If you want to take Friday off and have a long weekend you just do it. If you want to meet your GF/wife for a nice leisurely two hour lunch you just do it. Yesterday I left my office at 11:00 am to take my daughter to the airport and didn't get back unt…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:44 PM
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Not everyone gets to live in a brownstone row house in a tendy city or in a nice leafy suburb of that city. There are lots of cheap houses available in places where young people don't want to live and lots of jobs young people don't want to do. The people screaming loudest about home prices are the people who don't want to take the jobs that are available. Lots of gampas spent their lives toiling in factories and mines often dying early as a result. Today there are different blue collar jobs ava…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:32 PM
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NYC actually guarantees housing. NYC has a huge network of homeless shelters.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:13 PM
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NYC and SF are their own unique worlds with almost unlimited opportunities but with lots of challenges. BTW 2K still rents a nice place in decent but not fancy parts of NYC (i.e. Queens and The Bronx).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:11 PM
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When I rented my first apartment in 1983 it was $295 per month. It was very plain but decent. Nicer apartments were $450. Extremely nice apartments in the best areas were $650+. Seem that adjusted for four decades of inflation not much has changed. Back in 1983 we could afford our $295 apartment but not the $650 ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:06 PM
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Once you buy a house, you want your property value to rise. Classic Boomer I got mine -- fuck you -- pull up the ladder mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:59 PM
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Stop! You're embarrassing yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:34 AM
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Dual income professional couples have the most stable families and the most successful kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:33 AM
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LOL! Tell me. How does one obtain Henry Cavill's jawline without good genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:37 PM
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Some things don't lend themselves to scientific quantification but are nevertheless obvious to people who open their eyes. Which is what the red pill is all about isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:17 PM
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Their marriage was more or less happy. My dad wasn't physically imposing and he was a very kind hearted person but he had an adventurous spirit and a bit of a don't give a fuck attitude that a lot of "nice guys" lack. My mom thought she was marrying a mild mannered university professor. For a while she ended up in a house that my dad built himself (with help from 12 year old me) miles from the nearest paved road. I've never met my half brother. The Catholic Church had a very efficient system to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:14 PM
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It's not actually. Most street crime is committed out of frustration by people who can't lash out any other way. Corporate crime is motivated by greed but that type of crime is seldom prosecuted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:04 AM
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Crimes is mostly committed by rich old men. However, since this group basically owns and controls government they are seldom prosecuted. On the rare occasions corporate criminals are prosecuted the sanctions are light.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:00 AM
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During my college and young adult years in the 1980s I don't think I ever "asked a woman out". Women just sorta appeared.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:23 AM
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Less has changed than many her think. No one in my family participated in local clubs, sports teams, or church activities I'm old so I'll talk about my father who met and married my mother in the 1960s. My father was a PhD candidate at NYU and my mother was a math department secretary. My dad was a stereotypical nerd, tall but lightly built, he was a middle distance runner in high school and during undergrad at Columbia. My mom wasn't working at prestigious university by accident. She wanted to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:10 AM
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Mental health workers are 90% women how would being a man help? Dating as a man won't be easier if you can never get a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 10:41 PM
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I have qualified on many firearms as both a soldier and a peace officer. I'm very proficient. I never once failed to qualify on any weapon the first try. However, I would never allow guns in my home. The risks are too great and the benefits pretty much nonexistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:24 PM
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Guns in the home make the home less safe. Guns are a clear and present danger to all. Especially to their owners and their owners friends and family. https://www.americanprogress.org/article/debunking-the-guns-make-us-safer-myth/ https://www.gvpedia.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/The-DGU-Lie-GVPedia.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:13 PM
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There's some bits of truth here. Cultural transitions are never easy and some/many never fully adjust. However, these things will all sort themselves out in time. Society is not collapsing. The issues raised by OP have been salient with educated upper level professionals (i.e. doctors, lawyers, and other high level professionals) for at least two generations (i.e. since the 1970s and 80s). The solution they have arrived at is assortative mating. Men and women increasingly marry within their own …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:41 PM
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Don't know about that either -- but its cool how their whole bodies twitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:25 PM
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No amount of working out and grooming can make a guy look like if he didn't choose his parents well. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:23 PM
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Don't know if getting laid can fix diagnosable mental health disorders but it certainly does brighten one's day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:47 AM
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If you only have one or two shots at love then love is unlikely to be in your future.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:03 AM
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Pretty much. Although it's becoming clear than women are even more shallow than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 12:24 AM
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Once you've done the obvious low hanging fruit, if you still have trouble with women there isn't much else to try. THIS!!! There are real limits to how much an individual guy can improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:24 PM
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Guys in today's sexual marketplace can't have any obvious flaws. Can't be too short. Can't be fat. Can't be too thin. Can't look unathletic. Can't look weak. ... The Red Pill revealing how shallow women actually are (and have always been) has ushered in a generation of boys and young men with eating disorders and body image issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:19 PM
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Here's an article for the young guys here who think we'd be better off under Islamic Law. https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/ce90eljzr0eo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:08 PM
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That's the way women roll. My ex-wife is now married to her "gay friend".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:23 PM
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Only is their lane is the road to doom.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:22 PM
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As if those three weren't seeking attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:21 PM
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Not different at all. 30s and 40s are both early middle age. Women never stop lowering their standards. Some women decide they can be bought but that's not actual affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:19 PM
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Looks are at least 80% genetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:25 AM
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Hot guys have much more romantic capital. They can buy a lot more of those tickets.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:24 AM
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It's amazing how lucky hot guys are. But seriously -- its about probabilities not luck. Hot guys get way more dates and, therefore, have many more women to chose from. Hot guys thus have a higher probability of meeting compatible women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:20 AM
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That never ends well. I know. I was that chump.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 06:17 AM
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That's not red pill strategy. That's a coward's strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 03:16 AM
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Paying for fake affection is just pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 03:15 AM
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I'm old already.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 08:35 PM
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If you can't see what's wrong with advocating prostitution I can't help you. Sex work should be totally legal. But that wouldn't make it a good choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:46 PM
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I hardly ever use either. My skin is just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:16 PM
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I don't. Women can fuck whoever they want for any reason they want. However, if the reason is money you're a prostitute and have black balled yourself. Women have freewill and agency -- but actions still have consequences -- women are free to make poor choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:13 PM
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Angry incels and tradcons are not The Red Pill (at least they didn't used to be).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:56 PM
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If you're OK with selling your body to unattractive guys you have zero value to many more attractive guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:54 PM
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That's just sad. Some things lose all value when commodified.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:49 PM
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As if lesbian relationships are any less fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:43 PM
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Yup, that's how evolution works. Males compete for access to females. Some succeed. Many fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:42 PM
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Skin care products are 99.9% snake oil. If you want to stay young looking don't smoke and choose your parents well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:40 PM
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Guys who like big women often trade up to larger models.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:34 PM
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Most guys aren't into anorexic fashion models.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:33 PM
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Nah, I've picked up women while covered in mud after fixing broken water mains.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:31 PM
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You want a woman who is first and foremost physically attracted to you. Her liking you as a person comes later -- if at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:29 PM
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Gotta say its nice to be finally making enough that I don't have to hustle 24/7. Sometimes I miss doing actual work outside in the elements though. Don't think I was made for desk work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:24 PM
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There have always been unhappy people who are never satisfied. Better that those types remain single as they tend to make everyone around them miserable too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:22 PM
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So you're a prostitute then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:18 PM
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Thing is women don't think the dating market is broken. They'd rather have sex with a hot guy from time to time than have a not hot guy all to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:17 PM
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Just be hot has always been the prime directive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:13 PM
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Sorry dude, but 99.999% of neurodivergent men are not going to become CEOs. It doesn't get better for losers. Life sucks for those on the outside. Always has and always will.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 08:40 AM
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From Africa, to Asian, to South America ... the World is a far better place today for far more people than at any previous time. There has been a huge decrease in extreme poverty and huge increase in quality of life for literally billions of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 08:36 AM
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LOL! No! The 70s was the casual sex decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 08:33 AM
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I have three daughters and seven granddaughters. I want them to have all these rights and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 11:48 PM
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Sex is the first step in the courting process.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 11:21 PM
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Not everyone is an uptight prude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 11:15 PM
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What's immoral about fucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 11:14 PM
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Society today is far better than the society of 50 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 08:14 PM
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LOL! The many of girls in my 1970's jr. high classes weren't virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 08:04 PM
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Who the hell wouldn't support this?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:54 PM
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Very few educated professional men smoke.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:49 PM
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For most educated successful guys smoking is a giant red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:41 PM
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Smoking is 2025 is trashy AF!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:25 PM
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LOL! You obviously haven't met many women IRL. Women love to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:02 PM
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Making women (and their children) suffer after the fact never helped anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:01 PM
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Young women have always loved to fuck. That's a feature not a fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:57 PM
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Women who want to fuck hot guys find a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:55 PM
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1950's teen romances often resulted in forced teen weddings.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:39 PM
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Yup, I met my 1st real GF in the 1980s. We were both 18 and fucked pretty much day and night.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:37 PM
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How about the 50’s? LOL! People were getting married quickly and young so that they could just say the kid was a bit premature. Or women would just go visit some distant relative in a far away city for 9 months. The idea that there was some golden era of chaste and demure behavior is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:32 PM
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largely monetized, commoditized, ... How is this different from historic arranged marriages?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:28 PM
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Female nature has been the same for tens of thousands of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:23 PM
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Before when? People were hooking up and fucking 10 years ago. People were hooking up and fucking 20 years ago. People were hooking up and fucking 30 years ago. People were hooking up and fucking 40 years ago. People were really hooking up and fucking 50 years ago (the 1970s were wild).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:10 PM
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There were a lot of nights when I was a rather large ghost in the corner. But there were also nights when women showed interest. I don't think I did anything different those nights. It's just that on those nights a woman, for whatever reason, noticed me and sent out indications of interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:06 PM
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You don't need much in the way of social skills if you're at a place where you're one of the taller better looking guys. Women find ways to get the attention of guys they're interested in. Female indications of interests can be as blatant as a woman coming up and grabbing a guy's ass (happened to me at an Indie club in Camden Town London).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:49 PM
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You have to hang out in places where you're competitive. When I was young I never went to fancy nightclubs in places like Miami Beach because I wasn't attractive enough or rich enough to be competitive there. However, at rougher more downscale places I was competitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:43 PM
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I was a light tan (mixed race) version of Shrek. Not every woman found me attractive but enough did.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:37 PM
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Tall attractive college guys just need to go to parties (can't meet people if you lock yourself in your dorm room). Once at parties you don't have to say much. Women make life easy for guys they're attracted to. When I was at university I couldn't put two coherent sentences together in front of young women. I still got laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:35 PM
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No, It's just fun watching virtue signalling women tie themselves rhetorical knots. I'm not rich but I have more than most.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:04 PM
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Decades of experience and observation lead me to conclude that what women say online is more honest than what they say IRL. IRL watch what women do -- not what they say. Their actions speak way louder than their words.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:00 PM
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Fuccboi = a guy out of the woman in question's league who she deluded herself into thinking she could nail down with her golden pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 03:57 PM
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complex motivations Of cour$e. Lot$ of motivation$.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 03:52 PM
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People who know you give the worst advice. Friends are family aren't going to tell a guy he's struggling because he's short, fat, and ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 03:33 PM
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Very few guys want only sex. However, if all a woman has to offer is sex that's all men will want from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:27 AM
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Any woman who thinks withholding sex is the way to get a good relationship is delusional. Also, read the my entire sentence -- don't take three words out of context.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:50 PM
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I understand far better than most here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:49 PM
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I slept with every woman I've ever had a relationship with on either the 1st or 2nd date. It's the same for most of my coupled up friends and acquaintances too. The hookup -- to dating -- to LTR -- to marriage pipeline is well established.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:47 PM
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Youre not in a relationship with someone you just met, Semantics. It very well could be the start of a beautiful relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:39 PM
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Is it not possible to want sex on the first date of an LTR? Of course it is. Indeed that how a lot of LTRs start. The hookup goes well so the parties do it again. If they find they actually like each other's company a relationship blooms. After sex is a great time for honest open talk. Provided you don't feel an immediate urge to escape (you're lizard brain telling you not this one). OP has some very weird and very prudish ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:36 PM
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So? What's the problem with that? Women love to fuck and choose to fuck. They have free will and agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:32 PM
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LTRs are hookups that went well making the woman worthy of an upgrade to LTR status.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:28 PM
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People here are so binary. A guy can want to hookup and also want a LTR. I wouldn't consider a LTR with a woman who doesn't want to fuck me straight away. But that doesn't mean I want a LTR with every woman I fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:46 PM
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If you're that stupid you're a terrible person by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:49 PM
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Wilful ignorance is not a defense. It's not like Trump was trying to hide the ball. His campaign was all about hate. Shit like "they're eating the pets" was front and center. If you voted for Trump you're a despicable person -- end of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:14 PM
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Graduate level anthropology courses actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:56 PM
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Guys can't have any obvious deficiencies. However, looks are still paramount. A hot guy doesn't have to have a lot of swagger -- but he cannot not have any. A guy who is only sort of good looking needs to have a shit load of intangibles (i.e. swagger/game). A guy who is very good looking can get away with a minimum of swagger/game. Since, like almost all things, swagger/game is normally distributed only a few sort of good looking guys will have enough swagger/game. However, almost all very good …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:13 PM
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There is no "ethnic tax" for racially ambiguous guys. Indeed we're pretty much the flavor of the day. And yes I am/was good enough looking to appeal to enough women that dating wasn't a total disaster. Being tall and looking strong helps (I've always looked stronger than I actually am). BTW -- frame isn't about getting women so much as it's about keeping them. It's refusing to play their stupid shit test games.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:49 PM
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For the majority of men, they will only ever have a deep, vulnerable, sensitive, self-exposing connection with their romantic partner. LOL! Pro tip -- don't even try to do this unless you're absolutely sure your woman is crazy in love with you. For most guys being vulnerable and self-exposing is relationship suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:00 PM
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If you support a terrible person you most likely are a terrible person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:56 PM
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I don't believe that people can be happy alone. I work with quite a few older single/divorced/widowed women. They're fully functional and live decent lives but they're really not happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:55 PM
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Before it was taken over by incels and tradcons the red pill was about how to better understand women (i.e. learn the stuff women would rather men not know).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 11:55 AM
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Only two (that I know about).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 11:53 AM
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I'm not white and I only travel to developed countries. Women in the UK and Canada fuck on the first date too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 11:35 AM
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I'm not white and I only travel to developed countries. Women in the UK and Canada fuck on the first date too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 11:34 AM
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Different people illicit different emotional and even physical reactions. Exactly! If my presence doesn't excite her she's not the woman for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:20 AM
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It's not a bid deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:13 AM
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Damn -- I had only one baby mama at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:11 AM
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Something tells me Elon is far to controlling for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:09 AM
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Sluts in love are the most loyal women on the planet. They know what they like and when they find it they latch on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:59 AM
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Most women who actually like sex (i.e. the only type a guy should ever date) rack up 30 bodies by 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:53 AM
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I've had sex with more than four dozen women on either the first or second date. Most of the time I didn't have to buy her anything at all -- not even a drink. I'd rather just jerk off than engage is some Machiavellian exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:50 AM
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Motivation is what separates sluts from hoes. Sluts have sex because they enjoy sex and fuck with no ulterior motive. Hoes have sex as a means to an end. Sluts are great! Hoes suck!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:40 AM
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I have actually been trained in participant observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:36 AM
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I haven't had many complaints. I've found that being a cocky prick works well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:30 PM
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Acting like she's 14 then. That's a hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:05 PM
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That last part doesn't happen. When a young woman is smitten her guy can do no wrong. Guys who don't experience this in their late teens and early 20s will never know what they're missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:03 PM
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Some types of attraction are indeed better than others. Such is life. I guess guys who have never experienced a young woman looking up at them with lust filled eyes can delude themselves into thinking they're winning when some woman reluctantly agrees to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:23 PM
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Sluts need to own being sluts. Take back the word. Wear it like a badge of pride. Being a slut is a good thing!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:18 PM
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Jr. high dating isn't relevant here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:17 PM
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Sorry dude but attraction is either there or it isn't. If she doesn't want to fuck like a bunny the first night (even if she makes you wait a day for two) she's never going to be visceral attracted. People can talk themselves into a second rate type of attraction over time but its not the real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:35 PM
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Most of that bad stuff is the result of slut shaming. We really need to stop that. Sluts are an underappreciated resource. Women who fuck only because they want to with no ulterior motive are the best!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:31 PM
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What the fuck have you been smoking? Athletic prime is almost always early to mid 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:43 PM
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I gotta agree with her. Telling unattractive guys it gets better is a lie. Looks are mostly genetics. I'm late middle aged and have aged better than most of my cohort. However, that doesn't mean I'm more attractive now than when I was young. I peaked physically years ago. My decline has just been slower than most.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:42 PM
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Women like to fuck hot guys. Duh! Young women will choose a hot 45 year old guy over an unattractive 25 year old guy. That doesn't mean that on average 45 year old guys are hotter than 25 year old guys. Indeed the percentage of hot guys in a cohort steadily declines as that cohort ages. Life does indeed get easier for the very few men who manage to stay attractive into middle age (it's mostly genetics). They have a large dating pool to fish in -- i.e. both women their age and women considerably …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:37 PM
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No one ever said the life of a gold digger was all wine and roses.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:28 PM
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The problem is that red pill guys suck at differentiating between attraction and averous. Ordinary young women like to fuck attractive young guys. Gold diggers go where the money is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:25 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:19 PM
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Many of the younger couples (i.e. under 30) are indeed conventionally attractive guys with less than conventionally attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:09 PM
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Increasing inequality is always a problem. The fact that billionaires exist doesn't make the lives of the desperately poor any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 09:20 AM
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In a free dating marketplace life does indeed suck for unattractive guys. This is an obvious irrefutable fact. Since there's no viable alternative to a free dating marketplace this situation is indeed pretty irredeemable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 09:17 AM
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Marriage only makes sense for men who are with women of equal or higher economic standing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:52 AM
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Yes, they're less than 50% of the total population.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:41 AM
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I've done this experiment many times -- I like people watching. Older couples are quite diverse. But younger (under 30) couples are not. You hardly ever see unattractive young guys with a GF/wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:35 AM
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That ordinary men aren't aware of the primary sources doesn't mean the ideas aren't spreading.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:32 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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